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Nearby_Advance7443 · 2022-07-24T10:53:07+00:00

Yeah, rules are the same. One of my former partners that really pulled my head through the ringer was the chubbiest girl I dated (not saying a lot, but a little thicker than I tend to gravitate towards). But damn she just had this fucking confidence about her that made everybody around her want to fuck her stupid.

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Confidenceisbetter · 2022-07-24T10:08:36+00:00

What is there to tell? You have feelings for a woman. Either act on it or don’t.

No_Load_7183 · 2022-07-24T10:40:18+00:00

I love the bigguns. Always have always will, im a big boy myself who has a bodybuilding dad bod atm. Id tell another guy who fell in love with a big woman to treasure her and she will treasure him back, simple as that. My only controversial advice is that, if you two want to be together as long as possible then get healthy together. Too big can lead to health problems and its gonna crush either of you to see the other in a hospital bed. You probably wont be able to get skinny, I tried it and it destroyed my body as it retains weight (which is why I gain as much muscle as possible) but if yall arent too big in fat (id suggest you both try to gain muscle) you'll be a lot happier.

frie-with-a-tie · 2022-07-24T09:57:37+00:00

Bro what?

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RagingOakTree · 2022-07-24T16:38:13+00:00

It doesn’t matter. If you like a girl who is fat, then go for her. Everyone has their preferences. Some dudes like blondes, some like girls with blue eyes, and some like fat girls. If you find no problem with her being fat then I see no issue with you acting in it or not.

2022-07-24T16:42:11+00:00

You're either attracted to her or you're not, weight doesn't really matter. I will say to be careful in a relationship with a girl who likes to eat a lot, I didn't and ended up fat too.

Metrologist17 · 2022-07-24T21:20:34+00:00

Do her a favor and move on… don’t waste her time. You don’t deserve her. Clearly you are insecure, if you weren’t you wouldn’t be asking this dumb shit.

BitchLetEmKnow · 2022-07-24T22:21:38+00:00

If you have to hesitate on whether or not to date her simply because of her weight, just leave her alone and stick with skinny/average ones.

No one deserves to be settled for or have someone like them cause they decided to look past things they deemed "flaws".

cleetusneck · 2022-07-24T13:26:07+00:00

Attraction comes in all shapes and sizes. Follow your heart

Perfect-Freedom-9953 · 2022-07-24T20:35:29+00:00

I’d tell him he’s not worth a second of her time because he sounds like a total arsehole. Please stay away from all women until you learn to be a better person. Just to reiterate, you’re a cock.

Salt_Eye_7239 · 2022-07-24T20:41:04+00:00

I Think it time for me to leave this community

Kronuk · 2022-07-24T21:20:42+00:00

You sound like you’re 10 years old. A real man goes after what he wants not what other people approve of. Grow a pair and make your own choices.

Mypettyface · 2022-07-24T10:09:02+00:00

Go for it. The heart wants what it wants. Maybe she’s nicer than all those skinny hangry girls.

final_countdown1022 · 2022-07-24T18:07:55+00:00

Just because you've never been with a fat chick doesn't mean that other people don't like fat chicks.

cobraCL · 2022-07-24T19:44:54+00:00

Be secure in yourself, you don't need strangers to validate (or judge) your attraction toward a woman of a certain size.

You like who you like. Honour that and own it.

Blaphrodite · 2022-07-24T21:32:27+00:00

There’s nothing to tell.

You have feelings for another human.

Her size does not make her less human or less of a woman.

It’s like saying I caught feelings for an Asian/black girl, what do I tell her?

You tell her: Girl, you fine

No_Win7642 · 2022-07-24T22:29:32+00:00

If she has a personality and a certain tone of voice that is seductive then I’d understand…. The thing to watch out for if it’s just bait or if the front is an actual package in the bedroom along with how she can be behind closed doors. Lol I’ve been hit on by chubby girls and not the types that looked good but yeah…. They had this confidence and a way with words that made me wanna bang the hell out of them… but then I’d take a few steps back and start implementing realistic perspectives. Actually observe if I’d be attracted to them overall and I could make it work. physically,emotionally, intellectually,etc etc etc. I’ve had my fair share of chubby girls that would lose my interest if I’d notice an overhang in their stomach area, or if they had too much cottage texture between there thighs when they would wear skirts. Even then in a physical level I’d notice how lazy they would get carrying simple items like books or pans and the way they would handle them with flimsy wrists as if to use as minimal effort as possible. It would then click with how they would be in bed. Probably lay in bed like a dead fish. You can have a set of abs and look as chiseled as a Greek god but trust me they wouldn’t be as into you sexually and just lay there. I tend to be more into women that wanna attack me full force and not hold back with all their effort until they wear themselves out. Last chubby girl I dated was actually just like that and we both had tons of good times.Lolol

KyleTheKing24 · 2022-07-25T00:39:34+00:00

bro what ???

Pbear4Lyfe · 2022-07-25T00:48:53+00:00

Love is blind. Big girls can cook

hancockcjz · 2022-07-25T03:32:46+00:00

She isn't an alien there's nothing to be afraid of except maybe getting made fun of for a bit

And if you let that stop you pursuing a girl you like then you don't really deserve her anyways

great_account · 2022-07-24T16:59:06+00:00

You decide if the fatness is a deal breaker. But just a heads up, chubsters suck the best dick.

_YouCantKnow · 2022-07-24T18:02:57+00:00

Holly shit youre another level of asshole

Mo3 · 2022-07-24T15:17:30+00:00

Where’s the problem

Real women have curves

Nothing better than some thicc

ThePerson_There · 2022-07-24T17:34:16+00:00

Meditate a bit and get off your high horse, douche?

smug_beatz · 2022-07-24T16:00:11+00:00

Naah. If it works out for anyone then it's alright. I personally friendzone obese girls, thick are okay.

bDsmDom · 2022-07-24T17:43:35+00:00

Really fat people spell physiological issues.

GreatScotRace · 2022-07-24T16:46:52+00:00

If you like a fat girl then go for a fat girl, who cares what people think? My partner has always went for chubby to fat girls - me included! We have a wonderful relationship and 7 years later his body shape has managed to catch up to mine… and very much so still in love and still attracted to each other.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2022-07-24T23:00:52+00:00

I've easily caught feelings for a couple bigger girls...for the wrong reasons. I was blinded by the unique way they put all their weight into sucking dick and didn't consider their actual personalities.

Crab_rangoon17 · 2022-07-25T00:18:07+00:00

🤢

aidsjohnson · 2022-07-25T03:39:57+00:00

No, I'm not attracted to fat women. I think they're gross IMHO. I exercise and expect them to take care of themselves too. What I would tell a guy who caught feelings for one is...cool, good for you.

couldnotd3cide · 2022-07-24T17:20:56+00:00

If she doesn’t meet the required criteria….suck it down and keep going. If her looks are something you can get passed, ask her out.

hagakurejunkie · 2022-07-24T21:11:31+00:00

All the time, women are women. I know this girl now who is relatively cute but her personality is incredible and she’s a riot to hang out with. People worry about too many things

2022-07-25T00:30:39+00:00

Lol I would say just go for it. You like what you like but I would suggest working on yourself a bit more. Do you like her because you just want to see what it’s like having sex with her or do you honestly like her so much you would feel proud having her next to you and you not feeling weird about it

Merso509 · 2022-07-25T02:30:53+00:00

I fell in love with a girl that is absolutely not my type. Typically, I wouldn't even look at her in that way but life happens and although attractiveness is the most important variable it can become secondary in 10 seconds. I think same goes for cold approach. And now I have a very specific type

Routine-Temporary-63 · 2022-07-25T05:03:04+00:00

what makes a good person is not how they look but what is in their heart you can get a beautiful girl that has a ugly heart an then find a fat girl with a good heart don't go bye looks go bye how good of a person they are

distawest · 2022-07-25T07:34:52+00:00

Rules are the same and they never change. Have in mind, however, that you may deal with a person of lower self confidence.

Just be careful with jokes, some may appear offensive to her

underanassumedname · 2022-07-25T09:13:25+00:00

I'm not even sure why this is a question? If you like her, date her.

FranciscotheBull · 2022-07-25T19:05:43+00:00

Personally, I haven't experienced that, but their is nothing wrong with that. I don't know the whole details or what does that particular woman looks like, but if you know the person to some degree, maybe she is a good person.

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