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[–]TheTruth221 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
like reebok said just do it
[–]canadaleaf14 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
That was Fila bro
[–]DeliberatelyInsane 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just do it. - Some shoe brand.
-Michael Scott
[–]Kind-Standard-536 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Pretty sure it was puma that said it
[–]MO_drps_knwldg 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
New Balance said Just Dad It
Edit: that was a horrible joke. Will still own it tho
[–]owenaise 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nah, that was Just mow it
[–]MO_drps_knwldg 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
👆that wins
[–]SigmundFreud 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Close, but his name is actually spelled "Shia LaBeouf".
[–]ilovefootball49 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Dress nice. Say hello. They are all the meanest people you will ever meet, and wait for them to spit in your face and ruin your life.
[–]Justin3263 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is the way
[–]FaithInStrangers94 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Expecting the worst just makes me think oh I’ll go hangout with a friend or play guitar or something instead then
[–]stanthemilkman88 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You haven't talked to many girls have you?
[–]shared0 24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Just be confident bro
[–]osavpoiss 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
just be yourself braahhh..
[–]vardarac 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Always playfully, and with awareness of body language:
Frame her as a pursuer/perv
Innuendos, double entendres
Find reasons to touch, bump, hug, dance, etc.
Deep but not unrelenting eye contact that nonetheless you would feel gay if you had with a bro friend
Increasing proximity as the night goes on
Finding excuses to be alone with her
[–]MILFinurhood 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dress nice. Smell nice. Smile and make eye contact. Act interested in the girl. Be flirty. And most of all, be confident in everything you do.
[–]PM_Happy_Puppy_Pics 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It is 100% all your mindset. You need to think of it as a "game" and you are playing with your target interest. A little bit of a challenge, a little bit of letting her win, a little bit of teasing, and mostly being FUN.
Have you ever noticed that whoever takes a game too seriously loses popularity, even if they "win"? A good game is a game where everyone can participate, have fun, and also be a challenge.
If you meet a new woman, think of it like playing a game, check to see if she wants to play, then have fun. I know it sounds complicated, but channel your inner child and make friends.
[–]vardarac 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
what if your inner child was destroyed by conservatism, cynicism, and habitual self hatred
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Now you’ve recognised it, change it
[–]NastyMonkeyKing 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah. Only way is to try. Otherwise nothing will change and you keep blaming something else that will never try for you the way you could for yourself.
[–]Zealousideal6669 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Flirting is not really a big thing even though it's a powerful thing but it's more nonverbal than verbal so its matters more how you say what you wanna say than the actual words that you're using. Dont get me wrong words are important too but flirting and that sexual vibe is way more body language than speaking. It's about dominance, confidence, and playfulness that come from inside. So if you got the vibe right the right words usually gonna come naturally
[–]NastyMonkeyKing 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I used to think "vibe" and "energy" and all that were just silly when I was a kid. And It sucks to realize how much time i wasted lol. Cuz as far as person to person connection everything is about the vibe and that girls really care about the vibe. Especially the initial one.
At least I know now
[–]SufferKnt 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When at the bar waiting to buy a drink I’d deliberately stand next to a girl and I’d always say “how goods this venue?!” Probs one of the easier ways to start a conversation
[–]NastyMonkeyKing 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My favorite is whenever you're at the bar and there's is a pretty girl next to you. Turn to her and say
Hey would you wanna take a shot with me? I was about to order one solo but I'd always rather have a shot with a pretty girl.
Super easy. Requires like no effort. If you were vibing before. Deliver it in a fun genuine way. They usually say yes. If not just go back to vibing until it'd time for your next drink or shot and so it again
[–]enfperson8 3 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
If you’re a guy trying to pick up a girl: From my perspective, the best way a guy could strike a conversation with me is to make it feel casual and unforced. My best tip is to talk about something you have in common at that moment (something visible to both of you, drinks, something inside the venue, the music, the bartender) and make a lighthearted joke.
For example, if it’s insanely crowded and you can’t really move, I would laugh if a guy said “I don’t think there’s enough people here” (sarcasm) and “seriously, this is not up to code” (joke). Leave the flirtation and subtle innuendos for later once you have spoken for a bit. This makes girls feel more comfortable. Avoid one-line openers that let the conversation die upon arrival. The goal is to say something that the girl can be receptive to.
But that’s just my opinion! Everyone is different and some people are more open / kind than others. Good luck ✌🏼
[–]Diligent-Exam-37191 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Best advice imo.
[–]5_7pickup 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I do solo night club game in Vegas. Refer to my field reports.
[–]United-Mud2219 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I love your stuff - what would you say to someone who lacks the confidence to make the cold open (is it 'Just do it'? Also what is your favourite cold open?
[–]Lighthero34 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know you didn't ask me, but the confidence thing is definitely "fake it till you make it" in the club scene.
Going with friends can help, it seems.
When you approach a girl, think about what attracts you to her besides her being hot. That gives you a good assumption to make about her and spark conversation.
"You look like you ____"
Of course it's not that simple but it's an opener.
Having a couple drinks can help with courage as well.
As far as building attraction and making the conversation sexual without being to explicit, I'll admit I'm not experienced enough to give you good advice there.
[–]Codename-Misfit -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You check out + good advice. Following you.
[–]Romantic_Adventurer 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Anyone of these videos can be useful:
https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=david+snyder+attraction
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