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[–]RobertChardonnay 176 points177 points178 points 4 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link
This didn’t actually happen.
[–]tonyafan 24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
As soon as he mentioned a hug i knew it was wake lmao
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've hugged girls I've approached, this is pretty normal if you have a good interaction.
[–]vardarac 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
lol what?
i could see like the whole sheeeee's aaaa beauuuuuuutifuuul mooooodel thing tipping you off but a hug?
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
When you have a successful interaction with a girl and you both have chemistry then it’s natural to end it with a hug.
I’ve hugged girls who weren’t models.
[–]vardarac 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
That's what I'm saying. Kino is considered a cornerstone here but it's somehow weird to hug someone you had a great connection with for half an hour+?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Dude I’ve hugged women I had a connection with in less than 5 minutes. Went on dates with those women as well.
I’ve also had women initiate hugs in less than 5 minutes.
Is it that creepy to hug someone you have a good connection with, even if it’s in a short amount of time? Again it depends on the chemistry and how into you she is, which is largely dependent on your game.
[–]vardarac 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm AGREEING with you!
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My bad, I apologize
[–]5_7pickup 21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah sounds kinda fake…
[–]Woujo 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Nothing he said in this post is implausible. Why do you think this is fake?
[–]susumaya 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
The text message. This is not how the real world works if you’ve ever stepped outwiden
[–]Woujo 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Ive actually sent lots of successful invites like that. Women like confident direct shit like that.
[–]_DonDraper_ 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
These guys are coping hard. Their little beta hearts cannot even imagine something like that happening. I actually feel bad for them.
[–]susumaya 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Real Alphas are too busy enjoying life to even be on this sub.
[–]_DonDraper_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
“Real alphas”. There’s a lot of room on the scale between 100% beta and 100% alpha. Keep coping.
[–]susumaya 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Even a 1% alpha wouldn’t respond to a Reddit thread twice. You still feel have to prove you’re the man so you’re not.
Atleast I accept I’m beta and came here to learn.
[–]susumaya 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s not confident just comes across as cocky and try hard. And she didn’t even respond? No back and forth? Yeah take a class in critical thinking
[–]Woujo 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are just wrong. Texts like this work. Have you ever tried sending one. No? Then dont knock it tilk youve tried it.
[+]cepi300 -19 points-18 points-17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why cause you couldn’t do it? Stop being a hater, I’ve done similar things
[–]Social_cynicism 34 points35 points36 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bullshit alarm activated
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[–]rewinder909 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Well you are living the life up to your values by being honest and being yourself. How do you handle to not put girls on a pedestal? I kinda struggle with that when I'm really attracted to a women.
[–]hoothoot6996 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I guess see them as a human with similar values as you. Say hi to everyone, even the ones you think aren't particularly pretty/handsome. Slowly you'll see them as no different than you. And when you actually like someone, you see them as a friend who you want to fuck.
I'm still a rookie and I've actually experienced this. Thus this is from my pov but not sure about everyones.
[–]random_af_guy4 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I didn't handle it well at all. I put one on a pedestal and missed a lot of red flags. She liked the pedestal but was always depressed and self conscious. I thought I wasn't doing enough. She's was so attractive yet I was constantly having to prove to her that she was beautiful. Why is this woman sabotaging her own life like this? She was so conflicted, but ultimately destroyed both our lives. I finally got back up, but she's still in a worse situation.
It was then, I learned that women have struggles that men rarely experience. Deep ones. They are good at hiding it. I decided to redirect my kindness and giving personality towards people that deserve it.
It's more rewarding to spend valentines at the old folks home delivering individual roses. It's better to help actual friends move out of their apartment. It's better to buy drinks for people who will buy your round next time. I don't do that just because they are a pretty lady. A pretty woman is just a normal person that crosses my path.
The pedestal is earned.
[–]Apo_1011 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What can help in this situation is reading about the Barnum–Forer effect. In essence it means that every human has similar kind of problems and difficulties in their life so everybody is equal. If i see a stunningly beautiful women i always try to realize that she probably also is very self critical and has a number of things that she doesn't like about herself. Therefore she is the same as i am.
[–]eszibit 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
"I waited 2 hours to text her, I just said : « Tomorrow night, 8PM, at the restaurant x ». Nothing more."
Here is where you lost me. I don't think this happened at all. Otherwise, nice story, you had some good points.
[–]ClavasClub 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah why the fuck do people write cringy fake stories here?
[–]ClavasClub 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Uh I have no problem doing that, just not like op.
[–]willgo-waggins 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Talk to them like you are talking to an old friend you haven’t seen for a while. Feel that sense of comfort and let it flow from you to her through your conversation and body language.
[–]learnie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why does it read like a young adult fiction?
[–]treacleeater 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
so much waffle in this sub reddit
almost as bad as the guy who goes on about his case studies 🤣🤣🤣
Honestly lmaooo
[–]nomadiclives 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Today in “never did this ever happen”…
[–]yeetboi_dangerous 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
.....pics or it didnt happen
[–]the_bbutterfly 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
from my experience this sounds like fake. yeah i dated a couple of models before but i had to put my best game in negging and being coocky
I think it's sad that some say that this is fake. Because even tho it could be fake, this situation is far from impossible.
Seduction is not bound to some kind of magical pickup line or PUA bullshit. It's bound to creating natural rapport and connection. It's about making the women feel safe. If I really get along well with a women i also always go for a hug. It creates connection and rapport but also is not intrusive. A real hug is something very powerful and also creates security. The girl will feel safe and by beeing flirty you show that you are not a friend but curious about her romantically so a hug only helps.
[–]yungpalace 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m not looking for approval or whatsoever.
I spent quality time with a great person, so I wanted to share my experience so it could be useful for some of y’all.
I think that some should be focusing on themselves and actually socialize, more than hating on reddit 🤣
[–]Away-Whereas-7075 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Man, this is just sad
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[–]yungpalace 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
As I said, I talk to humans, not girls I want to smash.
We stayed there for so long because we both had a really great time, I wasn’t there for sex only.
In addition, I couldn’t spend the night with her because I had things planned early in the next morning… that’s why we’re going to see eachother another time
[–]yungpalace -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bet, thank you !
[–]Woujo -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The number of people saying this is fake just demonstrates how many negative losers are polluting this subreddit with their small dick energy. I am not saying it DID happen, but everything in this post is plausible and could have happened, so a person saying this is fake is saying more about themselves than OP.
[–]stopwastingmytime81 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Or people who have even the faintest of bullshit radars because this reeks of bullshit.
[–]yungpalace -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If they spent less time hating on reddit and actually getting laid, they would’ve had more results aha. Now, I spent a really good time that I wanted to share with you guys that’s it 🤣
[–]Woujo -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How does this reek of bullshit? This type of shit happens all the time. Maybe not to you, but it fucking happens. Nothing he wrote here seems crazy or implausible.
[–]lookintothefuturem8 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be confident and make her laugh? Wow how come no man thought of this before. Leave us some dude
[–]Nimsdagod 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
wtf is this bullshit you incel
[–]Radicalmattitude1 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How to pick up beautiful women:
Guys we just solved the game…
[–]Mayin_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've also dated some of the most attractive women in the world.
[–]bean_addict 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean, if the story is true, she was a yes girl right from the beginning. Still, good for you you didn't mess it up
[–]1990MeWuzBorn 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wtf would a “model” be doing on a train?
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