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[–]Dakila2012 376 points377 points378 points 8 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link
Run while you can. Or smash and dash...
[–]Poopafol 233 points234 points235 points 8 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link
Yeah..I lost interest a while ago, and my text was more or less meant to get her to go away. I did not expect this response.
[–]growinglats 189 points190 points191 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She was attracted to the honesty, and now wants to show you she’s good enough.
[–]Crookmeister46 points 8 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
She's not attracted to the honesty. She's attracted to the rejection.
[–]simplism4 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Insecurity
[–]ethical_pa 102 points103 points104 points 8 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Why is it always so fuckin easy when you don't actually want her?! (I know why. Still amazes me sometimes though)
[–]ghostreconx 54 points55 points56 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
When a girl realises that you dont want her she will try her best to get your attention. Weird right?
[–]Poopafol 98 points99 points100 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Whereas we face rejection consistently from a young age, women are HORRIBLE at handling it. It's simply unfathomable for them that someone could say no.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I prefer to have struggled to get girls, so now I know exactly how to do it, rather than it having come naturally and not having any control over it.
I prefer being rejected, so I know how to deal with it and can turn it into a yes, rather than never having experienced it and having no control over it.
Something I thought about a long time ago. I know people that haven't had the experience and have no clue how they succeed. I've seen them run into walls and they just lose their shit.
[–]sahil-walia2 points 8 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
oh man.. can you please give me more information about it... where to find more about it?
[–]oyoungpadawan 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah this would be helpfull!
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
More about what?
[–]Babayaga20000 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Check out r/nicegirls, its literally women freaking out when men reject them
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Because you hurt their female ego and they want to prove to you that you should want them.
[–]LimitedContributor 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
First time hearing this analogy and it incredibly makes sense.
[–]muddymoose 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I thought the same. That was heavy bro.
[–]isaac2289 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's often when you try to push them away that they want more lol
[–]fall0ut -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Everyone bitches when it happens to them, but the best way to get someone to leave you alone is to just ghost them.
If you're honest with them and let them know you're not interested, they will go crazy and bitch you out.
Just ignore them and eventually they get the hint.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No.
[–]Ragnrok 61 points62 points63 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah, this is normal enough.
"I swear, I'm not a slut. As soon as I think you believe me we can start fucking".
[–]SnapSocialGuru 11 points12 points13 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
/r/Nicegirls
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[–]Deep_freeze202 90 points91 points92 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Guys only seem to want me for sex but I want a relationship
If you want you can just use me for sex
Facepalm
[–]rasputin1 24 points25 points26 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Facedick*
[–]Deep_freeze202 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That too probably
[–]shippedoff 84 points85 points86 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro. You seein my ex?
[–]Dating973 49 points50 points51 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You can hit it...or try to help her and point this out to her since it isn’t exactly obvious to her
[–]dodged_that_one 49 points50 points51 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I advised a friend that dating a douche wasn't bright and she'd get hurt. She said she knew what she was doing and was having fun. He cheated on her and she got hurt. Said something similar to a girl who was acting slutty, she said she knew it was a mistake, but everyone has a right to make mistakes. Neither had any sympathy from me when things turned to shit.
Most people do have a reasonable idea what they're doing and that long-term it isn't a good idea, but they keep going for the instant gratification. I've since got myself out of the advice business and treat everyone as adults who know what they're doing, however ultimately self-destructive it is. There are no prizes short term or long term for trying to change someone's behaviour.
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That’d be tough...some people are not worth saving, unless it’s a friend or family. OP has already made it clear it’s some random chick so let’s just hope that one day this poor girl figures her shit out on her own
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[–]john2kxx 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why not both? :)
[–]NoMoreNutz 117 points118 points119 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The crazy train is starting
[–]simpleafk 60 points61 points62 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Take other people's advice and dodge the bullet before it's fired.
[–]vitamann 16 points17 points18 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The more you push, the more she will pull. If you start pulling, she will push away. The way of life.
[–]TallHonky 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She is actually a bot with automated responses.
[–]Yog_Sothoth_32 points 8 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Never stick your dick in crazy
[–]NotBlue_7 12 points13 points14 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
@MyDad
[–]MikeRotch4756 16 points17 points18 points 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Careful about putting your dick in crazy…
[–]Velcade6 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Can you elaborate why?
[–]okuli22 points 8 years ago* [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
I've met a girl, we had sex couple of times, then I realized that I don't really attracted to her, so I told her politely that I don't think it'll work. Next day I found my door vandalized with raw eggs.
Other things that emotionally unstable woman might do: harassment, steal or destroy your stuff, false accusations, some other form retaliation for rejecting her.
[–]jglover82 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I had the same thing happen a few weeks ago. Except I just ghosted her all together. Luckily she lives 4 hours away and cant mess with me. She still texts me but is slowly down
[–]john2kxx 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just eggs? She left you alone after that? I'd say you got off easy. lol
[–]Aristox 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I think the idea is that you can never really predict how they're gonna act once you want to pull away. And if they blow up some drama, often third parties will be more willing to believe her than you, because she's "an innocent little girl who's been taken advantage of". Don't get involved with someone you can't trust.
[–]Chichachachi 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah exactly. I've had a blast with crazy girls. The challenge is a blast. Yes one ended with restraining orders but damn it was fun. It's good for learning skills on how to be more non-reactive so you can be better in other relationships.
[–]Garthanthoclops 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That pretty much proves she’s the problem and not the guys...complains she wants more than just sex, then immediately looks for just sex
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"I hate it when people only look at me for sex... Wanna fuck me though?"
That made me laugh. She's only doing this for your attention and BSing to make you feel sorry for her so you'll fuck her.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"I want a relationship, but all guys want is sex.... anyways, you wanna fuck?" Lmao and she wonders why she's single.
[–]Aeon199 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Did you meet her and have sex, or not?
And how much of a make-or-break was your perceived social status? I assume it's a decider unless you look like a male model. If you're the good-looking type forget I asked anything. (We all know women will contradict usual behavior to get a quick bang with 6'2" masculine blokes, etc.)
[–]Poopafol 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Helllllll no. Was not planning to, I picked up on the cluster b personality disorder from day 1.
And yes, perhaps social status in terms of career and influence, but not looks.
[–]Aeon199 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't see anything in her writing that screams crazy or personality disorder, or whatever. I'm not seeing where you and everyone else here is getting this from. Maybe I'm just dense or totally inexperienced.
The one thing is she complained about men just wanting her for sex (but is it not a typical complaint?) and then once you basically said your honest comment (outcome independence), she changed her mind and gave you the green-light. How exactly is that "crazy"?
I mean dude, I was talking to some woman who is married and claims to be in an open relationship, has both arms TOTALLY sleeved with ink, she stays at multiple partners homes, and some other stuff, and when I told someone here that "I wasn't into it" this guy told me I'm a choosy beggar and said I'm a horrible person.
What if a girl you liked said she had an eating disorder at some point? Would you turn down automatically?
Apparently everyone here is pretty choosy, it seems.
[–]Really_Real206 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Its a trap.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Agrees to meet up then flakes in the end kind of trap?
[–]Really_Real206 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Head games. Already 2 months pregnant when you meet her. Recently got an std. These kind of traps.
Shiyeeet. Fucked up world hey? This girl could easily lie to him about being clean especially in the current mental state she's in.
[–]wont_give_no_kreddit 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This came as a surprise to me as well. Brutal honesty has a "let me fuck him" effect on women. Where I would expect to be called and asshole and told to fuck off, I end up with a night of fun and maybe a new friend haha. Mind you, these are all women I would meet online. I have not made that transition from out in the street/club thought.
[–]Brudesandwich 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That hit her deep and now you can to
[–]PaulAtreidesIsEvil 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
dont bother with this
[–]rangamatchstick 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Would be interesting to see what would happen if you date her...
[–]quarter_to_ride 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Its. A. Trap.
[–]huiboy 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahahaha nice
I think I get what she is saying.
Guys initially come and just want sex and that isn't interesting. But, if she is emotionally invested in someone, she will be down for sex.
Women can be bad at communicating what they want. It is up to us to read between the lines. When women say they are annoyed by guys just wanting sex, you can still get through that by being charming and offering some kind of experience.
It doesn't take much. Just talk a little and enjoy the process. You need to do something as you are heading to the bedroom.
[+][deleted] -6 points-5 points-4 points 8 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Why do the text bubbles have irregular spacing and why is one shaped differently? Oh, cuz this is fake.
[–]Poopafol 13 points14 points15 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You must not own an iPhone. I forgive you.
[–]riseAgainstLife4 points 8 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
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[–]GoFidoGo 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Trashed
[–]lordofdelama 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahaha iPhones. All these people have no idea
[–]Aristox 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Boxes immediately beside each other were sent right after each other. The ones with the larger spaces mean there was a couple of minutes or whatever between them being sent. Maybe text someone once in a while if you're this unfamiliar with technology
[–]grub_step -2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
To be fair the wierd spacing and inverted sender/receiver colors threw me for a bit too. Get an android, they're better
[–][deleted] -4 points-3 points-2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Android owners get less pussy than iPhone users.
[–]Aristox -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I do have an android. They work the same way. This is just the standard across the board
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