Does height really matter?

seduction-ModTeam · 2022-10-12T22:21:27+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

Redwolfdc · 2022-10-11T22:33:55+00:00

If you are 6ft you are not short, but it implies that she is definitely taller than the average woman. Some women have issues with height differences, some don’t. I’ve noticed tall girls are kind of used to most guys being shorter than they are.

notthrowawayxyz · 2022-10-11T20:09:04+00:00

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eszibit · 2022-10-11T20:05:10+00:00

usually it matters, sometimes it doesn't. Some girls are fine with it, more rare but they still exist. I'm 5'7 and dated/ons three 6 foot and above girls, if you know how to handle it and she doesn't have "set in stone " rules it's not that hard. Also had girls 5'7 and under that told me they don't usually date guys under 6' but made an exception. So take your shot, always

A_Rabid_Doge · 2022-10-12T01:03:45+00:00

American and British women are really obsessed with height. It's much less important in the rest of the world. It matters but generally just being taller than the girl is enough.

Milksteaknow · 2022-10-12T02:18:48+00:00

The fact you bring it up means it bothers you. A confident man doesn’t care. I’m 5’7 and my last gf was taller. Then she broke up with me last month and I banged a new girl 16 days later because I don’t let my height hold me back. You’re focusing on appearance so much, it’s really feminine.

Capable-Stock-4699 · 2022-10-11T23:38:24+00:00

Face > height it’s been proven

alent3976 · 2022-10-11T23:11:31+00:00

bro you’re 6ft you’re fine shoot your shot

arogabi · 2022-10-11T20:43:31+00:00

Anyone who tells you that height does not matter is lying. A guy who is 6'5 is gonna have a way easier time in the dating market than a guy who is 5'4. HOWEVER, that does not matter at all if the tall guy is a smelly rude guy, while the 5'4 guy is a lovely confident dude. Some of the guys I've seen who have been the most succesfull with women are guys who just are really confident and love themselves for who they are, be it fat guys, short guys, guys with weird hobbies etc.

lifeintraining · 2022-10-12T01:53:01+00:00

The problem is your mindset. If a woman doesn’t like you, she doesn’t like you for some reason or another…who cares? It’s sounds like you’re the one that is uncomfortable with your height. You’ve gotta get over that. You literally blew your chance due to your own insecurities.

IOnlyCameToArgue · 2022-10-12T06:06:10+00:00

Short guys are just playing the game on a harder difficulty setting.

wedonthaveapulse · 2022-10-12T00:36:06+00:00

Fk, I love tall ones but they are never interested in me. I am 6ft and get normal height girls with no problems. Please teach me your way.

Gaydame · 2022-10-12T05:36:52+00:00

I don't understand why you're asking us, or anyone!

You only have to ask,

Are YOU attracted to her?
Is her height an issue for YOU?

What the fuck does my opinion about height matter??!

BlacBlood · 2022-10-11T23:54:49+00:00

You’re 6 ft and she’s looking down on you? What is she like 6’4?

JohnnyLazer17 · 2022-10-12T02:25:42+00:00

Yes but In this specific case probably not. You’re a tall dude as it stands. If this girl is looking down on you chances are she hasn’t been with too many guys who are taller than her. Usually when a girl is taller than the average man she doesn’t give a shit about height. If she did she’d be really lonely unless she’s an absolute dime.

gameofloans24 · 2022-10-11T22:32:12+00:00

depends on the girl. i'm 5'6" and some girls don't like that. some girls like short guys. doesn't really matter.

MarxWasGay · 2022-10-12T00:52:33+00:00

it doesn't matter, there's nothing you can do. the only reason you'd ask this is if you think there's something that can give you an excuse to not approach or date someone.

it's the same as asking "will the sun explode in a million years and wipe us all out?"

yes, it will. so what?

Gigachad4Head · 2022-10-12T05:19:23+00:00

Yes, and so do other. things such as but not limited to style, charisma,money, status, physical shape etc.. do your best to max out the ones you can, and youre gonna be fine mostly

MissionAd399 · 2022-10-12T07:26:05+00:00

It matters depending on where you stand. If you’re a 5’5, 5’6 dude, it’s gonna be tough. I mean I have a 5’5 friend who has been prosperous with 8s and 9s regularly as we grew older but he is very charismatic, handsome and cute, PAUSE, so a unicorn and he’s now married to a solid 9. For 5’7, 5’8 they’ll be alright with game and looks. Once you start getting in that 5’9 - 5’11 area I don’t wanna hear any complaints. I’m 5’11 and just standing in bars and clubs most dudes are the same height as me or a little bit taller with a few being up there in the 6’2 - 6’4. In my height range, which is average, I’ve noticed women taller or exact same height are much more open to give you a chance despite not towering over them. And the short women can barely tell the difference cause women’s sense of height is bad anyway. They probably think I’m 6’1

5_7pickup · 2022-10-12T00:15:35+00:00

Questions like this serve no purpose. You know the answer to this already. Some girls care, some care less, some don’t care at all.

The only way to find out which kind of girl you’re dealing with is to go find out. Go talk to her and find out.

Character_Estate_955 · 2022-10-12T02:11:40+00:00

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2022-10-12T01:56:42+00:00

I am 6 ft tall best relationship is with a man 6 ft tall whereas previously dated a lot of former pro athletes or just tall men 6 ft 4 and taller. But he has a way about him that makes him seem like I am always looking up to him …. In every way.

AliasBlaster · 2022-10-12T02:14:24+00:00

Height doesn't mean shit. Anyone who says otherwise is a black pill virgin retard.

CaptainSaveBPD · 2022-10-12T00:29:20+00:00

Yes it matters. Anyone who says otherwise is just coping.

SolidPuzzleheaded984 · 2022-10-11T22:07:54+00:00

Matter bruh

aidsjohnson · 2022-10-11T23:22:22+00:00

It definitely matters, but that doesn't mean it's impossible and you should stop trying.

HHaTTmasTer · 2022-10-12T03:19:17+00:00

Yes, there are exceptions tho, don't assume this girl is an exception, you can compensate height with many other ways, go for it, it is no excuse for insecurity if you also got your shit together.

Vinegar_Tits_9 · 2022-10-12T04:06:40+00:00

Most women honestly don’t give a shit. I’m happy to be with someone the same height as me or taller I’m 165cm. But I’ve had crushes on guys considerably shorter.

neversleeps212 · 2022-10-12T04:29:42+00:00

Was she actually taller than you or just wearing crazy heels? I’m 5’8” and currently in the talking stage with a girl who’s 5’6” so taller than me when she’s in full going out mode heels. But honestly it doesn’t matter to me or her. As a personal preference I like women to be shorter than me when we’re both in tennis shoes but honestly I don’t care if she’s taller in heels because that’s just appearances for other people not reality. Plus when you’re horizontal on the bed it ain’t the height that matters 😏

KakkaKarrot · 2022-10-12T05:08:47+00:00

Are you attracted to her?

If the answer is 'yes', why does her height matter?

Jadiv · 2022-10-12T05:52:42+00:00

I'm a tall woman and up until I dated my ex (who was 5'9), I never ever thought of height... However in our relationship he brought it up so much that after him, I've only been, subconsciously, with way-taller guys... It's often the others who noted our height difference not me...

If you like this girl, go for it... If not then please focus on yourself...

Keithlct · 2022-10-12T08:13:37+00:00

When you are in bed, height does not matter.. Lmao.. 🤣🤣🤣

notthrowawayxyz · 2022-10-12T09:05:25+00:00

If you’re 6ft and she’s taller than you or the same height she’s taller than the average woman. She probably understands that a lot of guys she finds attractive are likely to be shorter than her so it’s a bit different as it’s something she just has to come to terms with in dating. Plus you’re tall enough if you were like 5’4 I’m not as sure she would still be interested.

XM_Ice · 2022-10-12T10:12:11+00:00

Of course it does, each person likes something different. I prefer shorter dudes, around my height, 5.4 - 5.6, tho I wouldn't reject a person basing On something like this.

epimpstyle · 2022-10-12T11:00:10+00:00

Everyone knows that a guy must be a bit taller than the girl and I know cases when the girl is not happy because she can not wear high heels because in that case, she is taller than the guy.

Even if I'm short, I'm sure that does exist shorter girls than me... so it is not a tragedy :-)

bonix · 2022-10-12T11:34:38+00:00

Who cares! Why do you care? Insecurities are showing in you, especially when you brought it up to her. Some girls may take height seriously just like some guys take other physical aspects seriously, that's their problem not yours. If someone isn't into you for any reason they have that right. No one likes insecure people though, it is a bad and toxic trait. It's not like you can change your height so why waste anytime worrying about it.

Dorsiflexionkey · 2022-10-12T11:51:17+00:00

At worst, height is a single component. If you rely one 1 thing to be happy you're going to fail regardless.

novasolid64 · 2022-10-12T12:21:26+00:00

I would say back in the day it didn't, but now that women get flooded with men on social media and dating sites, they're allowed to be more picky. Therefore it does.

Local-Lychee-9016 · 2022-10-12T14:21:27+00:00

I’m 5”8 (25F) and usually I prefer men who are atleast 5”10 and above but I don’t mind men who are shorter as long as I’m interested in them For eg. met a guy recent who is 5”6 at max but I’m into him because he has a 10/10 personality.

OnlineDater1234 · 2022-10-12T14:25:49+00:00

Not really in general but to extremely shallow people in OLD... yes

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-10-12T16:03:02+00:00

to some yes, i'm 5' 9" and showed up to a date to a girl 5' 4" and she literally said within the first mintute "i thought your profile said you were 5 9" i basically just went through the date not even acknowledging that dumb bitch

laboa74 · 2022-10-12T16:03:37+00:00

To some people will, I personally don't really care and that would be my recommendation but to each its own I guess

quiet160 · 2022-10-12T18:34:23+00:00

I've gone out with multiple girls that were taller than me. It's no different man it's still fun =). I'm 5'8 so not that tall but like anything it's what you make of the situation. If she's still interested in you then height doesn't matter.

BigVisual5833 · 2022-10-12T19:01:46+00:00

6'0 is tall

Imshortandspicy · 2022-10-12T19:08:33+00:00

It matters, but you can overcome it with personality and game

Title	Does height really matter?
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Date	October 11, 2022 7:33 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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