I remember a similar post about someone's fear of becoming a typical "nice guy"; I wanted to share my own experience.

Being single for a long time really builds up frustrations and I can see how nice guy traits can develop (not all, most are just assholes). I saw myself agreeing with some posts on how girls reject nice guys etc. Thankfully I noticed this before it became a slippery slope down the path to the bottom.

I'm not going to tell you how you can magically jump from the forests of single land to dating but what I can tell you is that in the time when you're single focus on YOURSELF instead of being frustrated by your luck, 'cause at the end of the day its all about luck; the chances of meeting someone compatible can be increased but in the scope of things its really down to luck. In the mean time, develop yourself into the best person you can be so that when the chance arrives and the odds are in your favour you can make the bet cofidently. Get a hobby, learn new skills, make new friends, being single gives you much more time to do things that will benefit you and your future partner in the long run.