Don’t be ashamed for your own needs

Kidcouger · 2021-07-20T23:16:51+00:00

My last relationship taught me that "sexual compatibility" is a real thing

It's one of those things you think "Well other aspects of the relationship are fine so I guess I can live with a person who will only do missionary"

Find someone open minded as you with a similar sex drive and save yourself the headache

SwordfishDull321 · 2021-07-20T23:28:57+00:00

I wanna add that women have no problem with men being straightforward about only wanting sex. It's an issue when guys act like they want a relationship, and then ghost the woman once they sleep with her.

Leviathansplunge · 2021-07-20T20:44:36+00:00

This post is all you need to know to pass shit tests. Women ain't so stupid that they don't know what we want right from the start, yes there is different options that we look for, but all of which involve sex, whether it's fwb, ons, ltr, etc...and they already know it.

The most common shit test..."you're just trying to get in my pants"...I'll say "I couldn't fit in your pants if I tried,Im just trying to have pre marital intercourse with you🤣"

toebob · 2021-07-20T19:30:08+00:00

When they say "you just want to have sex with me" I say "not JUST. Of COURSE I want to have sex with you, you're a beautiful woman. I also want to get to know you because you're an interesting person."

I fully admit I'm a complete slut. I'd be down for sex with almost any of my women friends. I also care a lot about consent so I don't pressure anyone.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-07-20T18:33:09+00:00

Be a man and go after what you want.

NiNj4_C0W5L4Pr · 2021-07-20T22:22:13+00:00

This. Exactly right. Never apologize for your appetites (provided they are legal)! Too many dudes fear what women think of a man's motives. News flash, my dudes: you could be asking for the time and a woman will automatically assume you're hitting on her. It's in their nature. "Vanity, thy name is "woman". Own your sexuality and get comfortable with it. If you can do that then you can project it positively towards the ladies and have all the sex at them. "The quickest way to a woman is through her parents. Have sex with them and you're in!"-Zap Brannigan.

workingatmcdo · 2021-07-21T03:57:41+00:00

Yes that is the thing if you are upfront and honest about it people can't be mad

mralpha98 · 2021-07-21T07:09:06+00:00

This mindset does not work in strictly conservative societies such as Turkey which I live in.When you talk about sex,majority of people shame you.Living in such society is hell.That’s why i am looking forward to move to the first world countries where sex is not a taboo…I wish I was never born in this shithole country…

KingWolf7070 · 2021-07-20T23:46:52+00:00

I don't want to own my shit, I'd rather flush it down the toilet like a normal person.

mrrooftops · 2021-07-21T00:44:57+00:00

Yes. Own it before, during, and after. Don't lie to get what you want at the expense of the other. It takes guts and confidence so most of you betas will be too scared to.

daysinnroom203 · 2021-07-21T06:55:14+00:00

Maybe don’t call women chicks. You can have sex with women and still respect them as people.

vac2021 · 2021-07-21T02:29:28+00:00

Sometimes that works for awhile.

mralpha98 · 2021-07-21T07:09:32+00:00

This mindset does not work in strictly conservative societies such as Turkey which I live in.When you talk about sex,majority of people shame you.Living in such society is hell.That’s why i am looking forward to move to the first world countries where sex is not a taboo…I wish I was never born in this shithole country…

mralpha98 · 2021-07-21T07:09:43+00:00

This mindset does not work in strictly conservative societies such as Turkey which I live in.When you talk about sex,majority of people shame you.Living in such society is hell.That’s why i am looking forward to move to the first world countries where sex is not a taboo…I wish I was never born in this shithole country…

mralpha98 · 2021-07-21T07:09:54+00:00

This mindset does not work in strictly conservative societies such as Turkey which I live in.When you talk about sex,majority of people shame you.Living in such society is hell.That’s why i am looking forward to move to the first world countries where sex is not a taboo…I wish I was never born in this shithole country…

UnknownThrowaway18 · 2021-07-20T18:58:44+00:00

Love it

Kenic_In_MD · 2021-07-20T17:49:13+00:00

Bingo

IcyReference_ · 2021-07-20T17:41:36+00:00

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mralpha98 · 2021-07-21T07:10:54+00:00

This mindset does not work in strictly conservative societies such as Turkey which I live in.When you talk about sex,majority of people shame you.Living in such society is hell.That’s why i am looking forward to move to the first world countries where sex is not a taboo…I wish I was never born in this shithole country…

_JasonX_ · 2021-07-21T11:54:02+00:00

Better response: "You're good at anything else?"

Interesting-Brief202 · 2021-07-21T14:43:53+00:00

I agree with the first part, but the second may be a bad idea in some circumstances. Some chicks are cool with just fucking. Some aren't. If ya girl is in the second group, I think it's better to pretend to care about her if it keeps the easy sex flowing. Some girls will leave if they think it's just about fun.

jablackshaw · 2021-07-21T17:42:29+00:00

Now You are putting words in my mouth! Please copy and paste where I said I don't respect women! I never said that!!!! I responded to your post to say why men lie about just wanting sex!! And now I am the devil and I deserve to be thrown into the fire 🤣🤣

So again, no need to conversate and just give a man's perpective with You any longer! Have a good day!

ohthatgirlshere1 · 2021-07-22T04:23:00+00:00

It’s not about respecting your needs when someone else doesn’t want to have sex as often as you. Sure it’s lack of compatibility in sex drive but they’re not actively trying to disrespect your needs. Sometimes you have to compromise and this logic is giving me very much..black & white only. There is always a gray area and room for compromise in a relationship that is otherwise good.

Title	Don’t be ashamed for your own needs
Author	IcyReference_
Upvotes	408
Comments	60
Date	July 20, 2021 5:30 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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