Get Girl friends

pk_atheist · 2012-04-10T20:16:58+00:00

Guys who are good at seduction never truly get friend zoned.

It's ok to have friends that are girls. It's a great way to meet new girls, because an introduction by one girl to another is GOLDEN.

But don't think that means be a beta. Always keep the prospect of sex just below the surface of your conversations. It shouldn't be said explicitly, but there should be a .. wait.. is he into me? Vibe from the get go. When you act like a friend after that, you might drive her nuts until she jumps on your nuts!

When around girls who I am friends with, I make jokes about sex, and I even include them in the jokes. "Aye, it's late, I think I'm going to bed. So, unless we're doing it, talk to you later."

It's a funny joke.. but it seriously keeps sex on the table. I've done this with girls for years before the timing was right (had a girlfriend, or was dating girl's friend at the time)... keep the tension high, and then one day when the timing is right- hit it.

expletive-deleted · 2012-04-11T01:17:39+00:00

I was living with a roommate in an 4-apartment complex and a couple of lesbians moved upstairs, a 7 and an 8. My roommate would awkwardly gawk at them and talk about how he was going to get with them.

He would come into the apartment every time he got a chance to even say hi and gush about how well it went.

I went out to check my mail one day and it lined up perfectly with the 8 checking her mail. I introduce myself and act pretty aloof, but welcome to the complex and let them know who the other two tenants were. I explained that we were all really good neighbors and if they needed anything not to hesitate to ask.

A few nights later they were locked out of their apartment. I was the only one home, so they knocked on my door for help. I explained, "Ah, I've been through this before. Give me a second." Went and got a couple of butter knives and broke into the apartment.

We ended up talking for a good twenty minutes and at the first sign of the conversation lulling, I made up an excuse to "get back to a project for work".

Two nights pass and they invite me to a party they're having. I asked if they minded if my roommate came along. The 7 said, "Do you think he would want to go? He always seems really awkward; I never saw him as much of the social type."

"Yeah, he can be a bit awkward at first, but he's a good guy. He doesn't have to come, I just figured the more, the merrier."

So we go to the party and he's spending the whole night trying to get their attention / validation. As for me, I'm just having fun, though there were a couple of points in the night where the 8 was trying to seek my validation, eventually to the point where she was showing me pics on her camera being seductive.

We all had a really good time, and from that point on I was invited to every party or to go out with them. Well, their parties were almost always all girl, and on three different occasions I hooked up (f-closed) with one of their friends. The best part is, none of the three were looking for anything other than a fuck for the night.

Well, one night they had gone out, and the 7 was wasted drunk, and the 8 was helping her up the stairs. I heard the commotion and I came out of my apartment to see what was up. I helped the 8 carry her up the stairs, and when we got to the top, the 7 starts saying that I should come in, that they both think I'm really hot, etc.

Now the 8 is much more sober. I look at her with a surprised eyes and a sly smile. But I could tell she was very embarrassed. So I just laughed it off and said, "No, I really think you just need to get to bed and sleep it off. You'll feel better in the morning."

We drop her off on the bed. I say that it looks like the 8 has a lot to tend to, but if she needs anything to let me know. She thanked me and I went back to my apartment.

Two days later, around noonish, the 8 knocks on my door. She's just bored. The 7 is at work and she's just curious what I'm up to. I invite her in and offer to smoke some weed with her. I also explain that I can't hang out too long because I have to work at 2:30. (it was fast food and I was 25)

So we start smoking and talking about stupid stuff. She brings up her gf's drunken state the other night. I said, "Yeah, she was pretty wasted. Was there any truth to what she said?"

I didn't have to say anything more. She got the exact same embarrassed look. I grinned real big and said, "it's all good. I think you're both really hot too." There was a slight pause, and I changed the subject completely.

So I get off that night, take a shower, and turn on my stereo. They must have heard my stereo because I got a call immediately asking if I wanted to watch a movie at their place.

First threesome.

tl:dr You don't have to try for the prize. Be fun to be around, be secure, don't give a shit. And having female friends is positively instrumental for hook-ups. Don't worry about being friend-zoned: keep the friend. That friend you like so much might end up forming a crush on you if you don't form one first and turn them off, like my roommate did.

glassuser · 2012-04-10T16:55:02+00:00

I don't think you know what trolling is, man. You haven't been doing it.

HolePunch66 · 2012-04-10T16:05:34+00:00

Very very true. I like to call it the decoy method, works like a charm.

2012-04-10T19:28:22+00:00

You're not a troll, Mr_Smile. You're a god.

donggg · 2012-04-10T22:08:25+00:00

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Mr_Smile · 2012-04-10T17:20:31+00:00

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MetaSnow · 2012-04-10T20:51:10+00:00

I cannot believe this has not been mentioned yet, so pay attention.

Even if you are "friend zoned", DO NOT...I say again, DO NOT treat it like a beta friend zone. Occasionally I even teasingly call it "the friend zone" and the shit works wonders.

Like The most interesting man in the world would say, "Stay flirty my friends." Keep things sexual and light hearted, and never stop flirting - even if they are 100% total friends. Be yourself, act like you would when courting a non friend, and it will amplify the OP effect tremendously.

Oh and two quick notes. #1, tone it down for friends with insecure boyfriends. Fights are not good unless you can immediately AMOG them. #2 this will force you to approach more to see results, because many girls may assume you have a gf when she is really just a female friend you flirt with.

SylvyaSyrynge · 2012-04-10T19:19:29+00:00

Damn, this is genius! (female approved)

2012-04-10T18:25:32+00:00

Ultimately this is just social circle game, which is the best kind.

Hot female friends are a great thing to have, just keep them on their toes.

McLarenF1God · 2012-04-10T17:11:33+00:00

Hmm, need some hot female friends to begin with, but this advice is certainly good.

IAmTheOmNom · 2012-04-10T20:37:26+00:00

Nope. You're not alone. In my hometown I am usually in a group of 50% girls. And they are by far the best wings. Only thing you need to do in return is protect them. And I love protecting girls.

Also we always have some fun bets going and push each other.

2012-04-10T19:00:12+00:00

Agree, mostly. My social circle is composed of almost entirely divorced, childless 40-55 year old triathletes and cyclists. My two best friends are in fact females, hot females to be exact. They will absolutely not introduce me to their other friends because as my best friends, they know what a dog I am. They will however help me get girls that neither of us know, when we're out and about, they are the best wingmen one could ever want.

SyntaxOfL · 2012-04-10T23:52:39+00:00

Good pointers, though I have to say that most girls think that I'm dating my girl friends, and thus do not approach. It's a bummer, but at the end of the day I don't care what they think, their loss.

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-04-10T16:26:59+00:00

I concur. I prefer female friends to male friends. In fact, I don't really have any male friends, I think they're a waste of my time. What's a guy friend going to do, introduce me to more of his male friends? I don't really need to know more guys, their interests don't usually interest me. At best they're a waste of time, at worst they're competition. Even if I don't feel like I have to compete with them, they feel like they have to compete with me.

Title	Get Girl friends
Author	Mr_Smile
Upvotes	57
Comments	58
Date	April 10, 2012 3:37 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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