The past month I finally got over a big plateau in my game. In the past I acted coy, played games, and used techniques...this stuff is all ok, but ultimately, it is a crutch for newbies to feel like they can finally talk to women. The biggest problem with all this is that if you are doing it, you are putting her on a pedestal and giving her more value and importance than you give yourself. Its not lines and techniques that get the woman, its the man himself.

Game is all about honesty and vulnerability. This doesn't mean that you need to be honest about everything you say, but it does mean that you are saying and doing things for the right reasons. For example, if I'm at a bar chatting with a girl and I notice that she looks great, I say "you look great" because it is a fact, not because I think it will help me get laid. The same goes for escalating; if we're at her place making out on the couch and I want to eat her pussy, I tell her "I want to eat your pussy."

If you become more honest and shameless you will start getting into some pretty fun situations. The last step of this is to accept full responsibility for everything that happens. No girl wants to feel like a slut or like she was used, so you need to own everything you do and say. Afterwards you will start hearing things like "you're bad." My typical response is "Yeah I am. You turn me on like crazy." It makes her feel sexy and you're being completely honest.

Have any of you dudes experienced this? If so, I would love to hear about your journey in this territory of game.

Edit: changed "except" to "accept"