How do you guys cope?

MavDrake · 2024-06-27T15:58:25+00:00

Well, all you need to know is that you don't dip your pen in company ink because 99.9% of the time it turns into a whole clown show.

So you treat it like walking through the mall. Look, but don't touch.

You watch the dumb ass Chads that wind up losing their job because they can't handle their shit.

dentodili · 2024-06-27T18:16:37+00:00

Knowing how to use your dick also includes being able to take control and not follow it like a compass that leads towards trouble.

relytreborn · 2024-06-27T16:12:40+00:00

Stop viewing highly attractive people as somehow better than the rest of society. Recognizing that highly attractive people on a physical level did absolutely nothing to earn what they are. Level yourself out and ignore them.

Kylearean · 2024-06-27T16:28:43+00:00

Get out of that mindset. No-one is "super hot". They're all human.

A1Horizon · 2024-06-27T20:09:41+00:00

I treat ignoring attractive women that would otherwise put me in a bad situation like eating healthy. Yeah that bag of sweets looks enticing as fuck and I’d definitely enjoy eating it, but probably not best to give into every desire put in front of me.

I’d ask you to put yourself in the same situation but as a married man. How do you cope with seeing an attractive person but knowing you’re married? You don’t cope, you just continue living your life, you won’t die if you don’t pursue them

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-06-27T19:46:42+00:00

She only won a genetic lottery, that’s all. It’s not like she’s put any efforts to make her the way she physically is.

Super attractive people typically have many personality flaws, as they tend to get away with anything in their life with their looks. There’s that. Find her flaws so it could change the way you look at her.

BLeafNUrShelf · 2024-06-27T18:45:52+00:00

Humble your ego and establish clear boundaries right now with yourself. You're going to ruin your life if you see everything as one open field day. Individuation is important so you recognize and don't fall into issues like this.

Remandergrowth · 2024-06-27T17:37:30+00:00

A beautiful person is a dime a dozen to me. But then again, I am a man and find most women attractive.

jayjonas1996 · 2024-06-27T16:08:48+00:00

You will surely find success stories but the general consensus still stands that you don’t date in office So approach 10 girls for every time you feel this pain seeing her.

Atriev · 2024-06-27T21:26:36+00:00

What do you mean you’re not allowed? Before I retired, I was the infectious diseases specialist in a hospital. I slept with nurses, dieticians, therapists, doctors, and 2 students from several different units.

Only_Entertainer_142 · 2024-06-27T15:29:36+00:00

Who said you’re not allowed to?

Outside_Bowler8148 · 2024-06-27T19:08:58+00:00

I’ve made a move and we hooked up

RoShamBeauxyogirl · 2024-06-28T13:19:10+00:00

“I take a man and I take away reason and accountability”

instant post nut clarity… and I go about my day.

I do this for fairly to highly attractive women…

CrazyRepulsive8244 · 2024-06-27T16:52:56+00:00

How desperate are you that you can't control yourself?

BayCsre · 2024-06-27T15:44:03+00:00

His planet is doomed with all you Chads.

BravoPUA · 2024-06-27T19:00:13+00:00

I don’t “cope”. I accept reality and move on

VrilHunter · 2024-06-27T19:08:46+00:00

You are thinking with the wrong head buddy

Losingmymind2020 · 2024-06-28T04:10:05+00:00

-you sound like a wild orangutan jerking off in the break room. maybe just be friends or u can go for it If you don't give a fuck about your job.

Dismal-Revolution941 · 2024-06-28T07:01:46+00:00

I don't really care, I would notice they are attractive but if they're not my type then I wouldn't really care. If we did have good chemistry however it would make it a bit frustrating knowing I couldn't try anything with the person I had a crush on, but that's not about how they look so it's different

sir298 · 2024-06-28T07:28:04+00:00

Learn to appreciate art :)

LavishnessCertain803 · 2024-06-28T08:22:23+00:00

from my personal experience, if there is a real connection there where both feel mutual interest, make her your bro, like fr. Trust me, everything else leads to fucking chaos.

Xboxone1997 · 2024-06-28T12:35:31+00:00

Don’t know what you’re talking about I went for it

averycharmingsponge · 2024-06-28T13:35:16+00:00

Are they super hot, or are they close to your age and the opposite sex? People naturally become more attractive to us the more time we spend with and get to know them. It’s why we don’t murder our friends (usually).

But work relationships are different. People are literally paid to be cordial and even friendly with coworkers or it wouldn’t be a good environment.

She can make a move or not. Just be ok with the potential that she could not be interested and don’t stop your search to find your person.

saulisdating · 2024-06-28T14:19:46+00:00

You treat that super attractive person as a human being. And if you like them or enjoy interacting with them, you BEFRIEND them. So you can hang out and have fun with them. Which will open up a ton of new possibilities, like them thinking you’re such a fun and great person so they’ll introduce you to their other super attractive friends, which they undoubtedly have.

EquinosX · 2024-06-27T16:11:06+00:00

Who said you’re not allowed to? Use common sense

Necessary-Jaguar4775 · 2024-06-27T17:05:59+00:00

I would personally go for it, who cares if you're colleagues? Personally, I would not feel awkward if we broke up. That being said, I'm currently blanking a girl at my work because we got super close and thne she turned me down. So now work is a little akward, so bare that in mind.

Also due to this, I really want to leave my job because I just don't want to be around her but it's not like this is my dream job.

Superiority-Qomplex · 2024-06-27T18:31:24+00:00

Hot girls tend to have hot friends. Keep things platonic with her but find a way of getting invited to get togethers where she has friends to play with..

givemespaceplease · 2024-06-27T20:28:25+00:00

I like respecting people

Clean_Awareness_4233 · 2024-06-28T02:32:43+00:00

I have this with a girl in my gym. I tried to slowly go for it, but after a while she kinda rejected me. With body language and other things she did. It hurt alot. It's not easy I sometimes use the thought if her to fuel my gym workouts. But I haven't seen her in a while now it's better that way. Instead if day dreaming tho now I'm using my time to learn game and improve myself for I can be with a girl like that. I cope for now, but I know if I keep working hard I will get what I want. No matter what it takes.

eyewave · 2024-06-28T05:48:06+00:00

Daydream and that's it.

In my company we are a whopping 300 people coming here everyday, out of you can count a good 20 waifus.

Lile reading some good horny teen boy manga.

Just don't be weird about it. It's natural to be attracted to pretty much everyone, but one can just catch a look discretely and go back to their own business.

Don't forget to become friends or acquaintances with the attractive people or women. Even if you don't get to bring them back home, at least actually getting to know them helps destroy your delusions.

Title	How do you guys cope?
Author	Mysterious_Tour_8106
Upvotes	56
Comments	50
Date	June 27, 2024 3:26 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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