How should you react when a girl flirts directly with you? - "You look like you work out a lot"

2018-02-08T01:04:54+00:00

Say yes and say that you need a training partner to help you out.

__ManBeast__ · 2018-02-08T04:30:40+00:00

Showing off is generally bad and talking about yourself working out seems a really bad idea to me

What about this is bad? The only reason we're told not to be proud of ourselves is because we've been taught you have to be "modest" by the same people who taught us to worship women. If you're working out and look good, you should be taking compliments. That's why people work out in the first place!

What woman will love you if you don't love yourself?

Just take the compliment and talk about working out. She's obviously impressed by it, so start a conversation from there. A quick "Thanks! I work out X days a week, so I'm glad it's paying off!" is all you need, then just talk to her and ask her out.

EDIT: Since there's been confusion I'll clear this up. I don't mean bragging about how many squats you can do at the slightest provocation. The compliment is literally "You look like you work out a lot", so talking about working out is natural. Don't bring it up if no one asks, that's just qualifying yourself.

Shit_Dip · 2018-02-08T04:56:59+00:00

Personally I respond to all compliments with a simple "Thank you." If she looks fit herself I would follow up by asking her if she also works out to toss the ball back into her court.

zfgee · 2018-02-08T10:32:26+00:00

"I work my right arm out a lot, thanks for noticing"

NoloRadio · 2018-02-08T03:10:34+00:00

This is a legit question, especially since I don't think it's unreasonable to see this as both a sign of interest, but also an implicit filter for egotistical meatheads, based on what you say. I think there's a humorous answer here, but comedy writing is not remotely my strength.

thiswaytoalltheporn · 2018-02-08T04:25:21+00:00

"Nahhh, I just push a pencil around all day." Or "just front delts really... to bring the doughnuts to my mouth."

FUNNY, clever, humble and engaging in one short sentence. Follow up with whatever, you already crushed the lay up.

digitalbitch2 · 2018-02-08T05:44:00+00:00

"Thanks, wanna touch my bicep/abs?" In a humorous way.

Veganpuncher · 2018-02-08T08:41:23+00:00

'Just trying to keep up with fit girls like you. I love it when I see women working out - it lets me know they are disciplined and focused. Wanna go for an ice cream?'

ii-viii-xv · 2018-02-08T09:15:12+00:00

A sincere thank you (after all, you should genuinely appreciate the compliment - you’ve earned it), followed by a suiting counter-compliment. She compliments your physique? “Oh thanks, you’re pretty tone yourself. That shirt is really working for you.” It encourages more flirtatious conversation, without coming across as a braggart or try-hard. Best of luck.

charcoales · 2018-02-08T11:44:29+00:00

Reply then keep the convo going or talk to her a bit later to eventually getting a number if it goes well and u like her

marks1995 · 2018-02-08T17:01:40+00:00

A sincere thank you and quick follow-up (I've worked really hard for it/I really enjoy it/whatever). Working for something you want is attractive to most women.

Then I would flip it back to her if I'm interested (What do you do to stay in such good shape?). See if she has any hobbies you might have in common.

pensy · 2018-02-08T19:05:25+00:00

thanykou. Do you do any sports? Oh you should come by my gym sometime, how about next week? Here's my email and when you're ready, just drop me a line. I can organise you a free workout.

7evenCostanza · 2018-02-09T02:35:57+00:00

If you're worried about showing off just smile and say thank you, then continue with your normal means of admission if you're interested in the girl. If not then same thing.

She'll still be attracted to you nonetheless, if you don't make a big deal out of it or not, she's already complimenting you.

LmDol · 2018-02-11T20:48:18+00:00

"Oh yes, I do hundreds of push ups with my ***"

carterworld · 2018-02-08T03:51:44+00:00

My response is, "Every so often. I see, you're no stranger to the gym yourself."

LingeringGnome · 2018-02-08T22:31:54+00:00

"You look like you work out a lot" = "God damn I would worship that body tonight."

Anytime a woman says that, get her number and escalate. And don't dwell on her compliment, or on the mundane aspects of exercise.

Keep it light, fun, flirty.

I've had women say the same thing to me. I simply respond with, "I do put in a little time at gym. What are you up to later tonight?".

That's it.

When a woman is in a visual mode with you....LOL. It's as effortless as it gets.

el_gringosito · 2018-02-08T21:47:16+00:00

If she says you look lime you work out say thanks thats the look i was going for

Title	How should you react when a girl flirts directly with you? - "You look like you work out a lot"
Author	yirboy
Upvotes	21
Comments	28
Date	February 8, 2018 1:03 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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