How to confirm a date without sounding needy

klippklar · 2021-10-26T00:16:23+00:00

Just say "hey I'll be 15 minutes late because I gotta run errands, that cool with you?"

Matt_guyver · 2021-10-26T00:01:52+00:00

Just text and confirm, it’s better than wasting your time. Women are flakier than shit in 2021 anyway

Interesting-Fan-603 · 2021-10-26T01:12:19+00:00

I have always confirmed my dates on that day. A few hrs in advance. Like 3/4 hrs or so. You can still get flaked on... so just checking ensures she doesn't stand you up. If she doesn't reply, she intended to do that. Any excuses is already a red flag. Wish u luck

LegacyOfMaverick · 2021-10-26T00:49:39+00:00

“Hey! Wanted to confirm we’re on for tomorrow? XPM @ location”

ProfessionalAffect90 · 2021-10-26T02:36:09+00:00

I’m assuming you are taking the girl for drinks as you should be.

Let’s say drinks are at 7 I always shoot this text around 11.30-12

Is it time for a drink yet…

They laugh and agree and you then know it’s still on.

I haven’t found a less needy text

ThatGuy_Nick9 · 2021-10-26T01:18:18+00:00

I just go “hey, we still on for ‘X time’ today”

Mysterious-Pipe-617 · 2021-10-26T01:46:47+00:00

if you scheduled it then expect her to show up if not its her loss. also tomorrow morning just text her saying “I’ll see you at (time)” or if its kinda formal (i dont reccomend) then say “see you at (time) wear a nice dress.” you will be given points letting her know what kind of venue shes going to.

Asmothrowaway6969 · 2021-10-26T03:34:09+00:00

Just text her and say "hey, we're still good for tomorrow at X?"

Personally if a guy doesn't confirm the before or day of, I don't go

throwawaynibs · 2021-10-26T04:21:06+00:00

Hey, we still on for -activity- at -time/place- tomorrow?

It’s that simple.

1990MeWuzBorn · 2021-10-26T01:39:40+00:00

“Hey I’m gonna be about 5 mins late”

jestercake · 2021-10-26T07:20:16+00:00

Confirm the exact location where you'll meet

Shadykid47 · 2021-10-26T12:04:44+00:00

You’re just confirming, how is that needy? You’re thinking too much in my opinion

hulk_hogans_nutsweat · 2021-10-26T12:30:11+00:00

Text her “hey we still on for (time)?” Simple.

Some of these replies are telling you to say “I’ll be a little late”. Don’t do that. Everybody complains about all the games and bullshit going on in the dating scene, and yet those same people keep it going. If you’re really going to be late then tell her. If a girl is really going to think you’re needy just for confirming a date then she’s not worth your time anyway.

xdtla · 2021-10-26T05:59:16+00:00

We gon' do this shit or what?

boy295 · 2021-10-26T04:07:10+00:00

Set the date, say “let’s get drinks Thursday at 7”. Ask her “does that work for you?” The day before the date say “hey let’s meet at [bar name], see you tomorrow :)”. wait for her to confirm with something like yea see ya tomorrow, looking forward to it, etc. You set the location so close to the date you don’t have to confirm, shout-out AMS for this tip

rewinder909 · 2021-10-26T06:50:40+00:00

Send a meme pic something funny about your first interaction or something you want to share that make her laugh, then ask after a little small talk. Are you still ok for tomorrow?

pkuforlife · 2021-10-26T04:27:21+00:00

Hi <girl I’m trying to fuck>, I would LOVE to see you <place and time> like we talked about, but haven’t heard from you so just let me know so I can plan out my day.

wallynext · 2021-10-26T07:38:56+00:00

There was a guy who did everything that is textbook needy on purpose, and he still got the girl, why? Because he didn’t think those things were needy

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-10-26T01:10:28+00:00

All it will do is tell the girl you get flaked on quite a bit.

lightskinnedMex · 2021-10-26T04:24:42+00:00

I just say "can you still meet tomorrow?". Thats it.

njahatron · 2021-10-26T08:13:58+00:00

Just write "Hope you had a nice weekend/week/whatever. Looking forward to tomorrow!"

If she's still down she'll respond, no worries.

KingofAudiobooks099 · 2021-10-26T09:08:43+00:00

I agree don’t ask for approval

Shadow__Account · 2021-10-26T09:58:17+00:00

What you could do is, say your date was at 3pm, you could say, hey about tomorrow I can’t make it till 3:30 is that ok? Or if you didn’t have a time yet, something like I can do 3 pm tomorrow does that work for you?

External_Lifeguard49 · 2021-10-26T11:47:48+00:00

You can say `Are you still on for tomorrow night?’ And leave like that. If you get no response from when it’s near the time, charge her ass to the game. Simple

rickmackdaddy · 2021-10-26T13:52:57+00:00

“Hey, I’m going to be about 10min late tomorrow. See you at (address) then, cool?”

CheekyBurgerr · 2021-10-26T16:21:39+00:00

You: We still on for tomorrow? Them: answer You: Cool

recursivePasta · 2021-10-26T18:10:04+00:00

I just text "Sup girl", she knows why you are texting, and just back and forth a bit.

DO NOT confirm it like an appointment.

sugar_b00ger · 2022-04-24T14:38:31+00:00

Title	How to confirm a date without sounding needy
Author	rlopes528
Upvotes	51
Comments	38
Date	October 25, 2021 11:51 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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