i though that i would never say this... I've got a GF

inline6throwaway · 2022-08-22T18:45:51+00:00

Awesome! A word from someone who was in your spot a few years ago (Seddit user desperate for a girlfriend, got one): don't lose sight of yourself in this relationship. When all you've ever wanted is a girlfriend, it's easy to get one and then become a shell of the person you had to become to get one. Keep improving, don't get relationship complacency.

whypussyconsumer · 2022-08-22T17:07:25+00:00

Good job! How did you meet her?

Mc_Dickles · 2022-08-22T20:34:07+00:00

Awesome that you have a girlfriend! The most important to do now is to keep your agency and stay far away from building codependency behavior. Remember, it’s two independent people sharing each other’s love and time. Nobody owns anyone and everyone is valuable no matter what happens, or who walks away.

AppropriateDisplay67 · 2022-08-22T20:53:50+00:00

What advice here worked?

Andress1 · 2022-08-22T17:22:01+00:00

"Got a gf"

Yeah nice field report learned a lot

iamthatguyiam · 2022-08-22T18:36:04+00:00

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enzio901 · 2022-08-25T10:12:07+00:00

One piece of advice. Don't stop doing the self improvement things you did until now, that you have a girlfriend. Regarding fashion, finding new and interesting hobbies, talking to people, improving your social skills, being driven in your career, fitness. Anything that you were doing. Keep it doing. We can't predict the future. Maybe you will marry this girl and live happily ever after. Or maybe you guys will break up in some months. Try to develop an attitude that whatever happens you'll be okay. Even if this girl leaves you, you can learn your lessons and easily get back into dating. Work till you have that type of confidence. Ironically this attitude would be healthy in a relationship. In my personal experience neediness and clinginess is one reason relationships fail.

Cantsleepperson · 2022-08-22T18:06:16+00:00

Congratz!

VNF420 · 2022-08-22T18:08:16+00:00

MentalCelOmega · 2022-08-22T18:05:54+00:00

Fate was fortunate for you.

Maxx_Darkglare · 2022-08-22T23:37:14+00:00

I have 7 girlfriends. They’re perfect 10s

rjones416 · 2022-08-22T21:52:41+00:00

rate her from 1 to 10

Amikatey · 2022-08-22T20:09:01+00:00

Kongrats

Blaphrodite · 2022-08-22T20:48:33+00:00

Congratulations

Why_am_I_LikeThis27 · 2022-08-22T21:07:11+00:00

Huzzah! Grats!

dobbs1997 · 2022-08-22T21:49:35+00:00

How long did you wait from when you met her to make her your girlfriend ?

Ok-Consequence4679 · 2022-08-22T22:25:05+00:00

I thought i would never say this… I wish i never got a gf 🤣🤣

inline6throwaway · 2022-08-22T22:51:24+00:00

Congratulations man. Keep tailoring your life to what you want it to be

Daddy_Chris_ · 2022-08-22T23:04:12+00:00

Congratulations, it’s now time to live up to your username RA!

vorter · 2022-08-22T23:49:00+00:00

Never stop dating your girl.

Wrong_Resource_8428 · 2022-08-23T00:16:37+00:00

Good for you op!

MrColfax · 2022-08-23T00:49:26+00:00

I need one of those too

What's she like?

B3asy · 2022-08-23T01:06:34+00:00

It's not real unless you're together for at least 10 years. Jk, congrats my dude

2022-08-23T02:09:51+00:00

Good for you. Now don’t be a total simp and you can keep her!

Ectoplasmic1984 · 2022-08-23T03:05:08+00:00

i assume you are in your early 20s

MoStuntin · 2022-08-23T04:27:04+00:00

Never simp ur the maaan

arshad_depp · 2022-08-23T04:30:34+00:00

Same here. I’ve been dating with my girlfriend for 8 months now. This group and everyone been supportive. Stay bless guys.

2022-08-23T05:37:38+00:00

GG bro

smug_beatz · 2022-08-23T06:13:42+00:00

Maintain your frame. Do not lose it.

heroup200 · 2022-08-23T07:16:13+00:00

I wasn’t successful and never had a gf. So at 27, I had an arranged marriage.

H8beingmale · 2022-08-25T01:29:38+00:00

i bet you had to hit on her, ask her out

Title	i though that i would never say this... I've got a GF
Author	whypussyconsumer
Upvotes	597
Comments	83
Date	August 22, 2022 5:02 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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