As a comparison, whenever someone on the rest of Reddit says something about marital troubles, a top comment is always "Lawyer up. Delete facebook. Hit the gym." This comment is so common it's predictable, and even redditors who clearly haven't been married (or heck, lived apart from their parents) will give this advice.

I feel like something similar has taken over /r/seddit. Looking through recent top posts, almost every question is answered with "Be more confident.", "Get some self respect", or "Read Models". The FRs are along the lines of "I just got my first # close ever!" (she'll probably flake) or "I was able to power through AA for the first time!" (but nothing happened) or "How do I deal with rejection?" (because I called the # from my first # close or finally got over AA)

In all the posts I looked at, I found one which had actual honest advice and discussion in it: the Threesome post resulting from building long term inner game.

I understand that in any given skill-set, most people will be beginners -- that's just how it is. However, I just feel that as a community, everyone seems to just be eternally stuck at the beginner stage. We're basically doomed to just eternally parrot each others' advice just because that's what we've always heard. Is this just my impression? If not, what can we do to start generating real and useful feedback?