Pulling chicks from Tinder / Dating Apps: A simple guide

mej71 · 2018-07-28T06:32:46+00:00

Now the real trouble, getting matches to begin with

ethical_pa · 2018-07-28T08:55:25+00:00

This guy pays his taxes. And is likely fiscally responsible. Oh, and fucks.

fleshlightandblood · 2018-07-28T09:49:40+00:00

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ElijahBurningWoods · 2018-07-28T08:54:57+00:00

The real trouble for people in my country (Belgium) is that, most of us live with our parents untill we are 25-28. Living alone here is expensive. So how do you work around that?

temerity18 · 2018-07-28T10:54:18+00:00

"Don't pull it out of a giant pack". Good one. Made me laugh to tears. Thanks for the heads up.

legend_kda · 2018-07-28T09:59:57+00:00

Question: what is the toothbrush for?

curry165 · 2018-07-28T14:53:03+00:00

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Jsieijejeieokkd · 2018-07-28T13:00:28+00:00

In the first five minutes I always drop my wallet, a condom falls out and I say, “oops I dropped my condom for my magnum dong.”

After that it’s just logistics.

SpinPlates · 2018-07-28T10:07:34+00:00

3+ hours in two different venues and tolerated you over $80...she’s probably interested. .

Fix'd that for you.

Don't spend money on tinder sloots unless you're just an absolute baller.

My last 3 tinder closes were a motorcycle ride and a cup of coffee. 2 of them were on the first night we met and the 3rd was on the 2nd date. AmCost me less than $10 in coffee and gas and very little time.

Spending money on a bitch isn't bad if you fuck, but keeping a vicious cycle of buying drinks and NOT fucking is a good way to go broke and be cynical about dating. Also, going "Dutch" usually isn't a good idea. Girls get put off by it. I keep my tinder dates cheap on my time and my wallet.

Also, I'm always going for the close and I don't want alcohol involved. I don't want any reason for her to think I took advantage of her or got her intoxicated just to fuck. Coffee dates all the way.

The-Cascadian · 2018-07-28T11:28:46+00:00

Great post, just one thing that I'm hoping you can clarify which is if the response to your invitation is the hesitant pause followed by an excuse, what exactly do you mean by "chase the night and try and change the opinion if you think you can really show her a really good time out on the town to prove why you have value"?

I'm not quite sure what you're trying to say.

Ravenx404 · 2018-07-28T14:14:02+00:00

So are quick hookups the general goal? I wonder if you are getting the right women if they quickly move from app-> to food-> to house. I personally wouldnt go from 20 minutes of texting to a restaurant unless i know we are on the same wavelength and hes not a weirdo-whatever. Had too many weirdo vibes that kindof make the quick hookup less and less attractive or or even worth it.

Girls get way too many solicitations from tons of guys. Not being a dick just pointing out the reality. Yes the creative comments do alot better than the “hey u” or hello comments, but i would imagine alot of girls are more comfortable texting a guy for a little while, than guys that rush to IRL and “fk and run”. It also doesnt always mean the girl is using u as a confidence booster by texting for a while. Then again, dont guys use “quick hookups” as confidence boosters as well? Idk...

Been trying to follow red-pill for a while and still trying to decipher if its about “quick fk and run players” or building game to be an alpha to attract the right type of female. I like that it builds a confident man, but worry a bit that it might be used in a narcissistic or socialpathic way. An alpha guy with a bad personality or disorder sounds like a really bad combination and i dont kno any girl that wants to go home with him if they can weed him out in the first place.

Just a alternative viewpoint/oppinion i guess. Hopefully it helps someone. Still trying to learn about this stuff so hopefully it doesnt come off as hateful or bitchy. Lol... Wonder if there is such a thing as “red-pilled” girls. 🤔 idk......

exophrine · 2018-07-28T07:24:09+00:00

It might also help to have contacts yourself, otherwise what creep would have a contact case and fresh solution just laying around?

2018-07-28T14:24:06+00:00

This is great for people with little experience dating, but once you get more comfortable around women, stop using templates. Itd be a boring life

Bossauge · 2018-07-28T07:33:14+00:00

You took my advice and made the post. Good call.

2018-07-28T15:13:35+00:00

Good post

DarkArtsPUA11 · 2018-07-29T05:35:41+00:00

few things. in my opinion this structure is not THAT efficient. it's a good baseline though. what i like to do is facilitate through text the pull first before i meet. letting her know that i'd want to hang out at my place after the date. then i meet her for coffee or drinks. we only get 1 drink each and then off to my place. i don't engage in 2-3+ drinks or 2-3 hours of conversation.. my dates are usually around 45 minutes. that's all you need really, then pull and sex for about 1-2 hours. usually they're out the door by the 3 hour mark for the full date. also, because i facilitate the pull before the date, i pull as smoothly as possible on the date. my favorite way to pull is when we've been chatting for around 45 minutes i just casually say "ready to go?" while looking at her. and every time the girl just nods her head, starts picking up her stuff, and off we go. so simple

Title	Pulling chicks from Tinder / Dating Apps: A simple guide
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Upvotes	269
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Date	July 28, 2018 3:14 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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