I was in my prime (‘game’ wise, and physically) before Covid, and a situation I saw happening a lot that no online comment or book warned me for: How many times you just have to let it go.

Full disclosure: Before this year, I was the most yes-man, simp, low morale motherfucker, this year I was averaging having sex half of the times that I went out, keeping contacts with the ones I wanted, and having fun 100% of the time.

If you’ve ever been a simp, you know what I’m talking about when I say that sometimes being a weak man, moves you forward. The fact that I lost my virginity while being someone that I would cringe at proves this, and proves so for many of you as well.

When you’re a guy with no game, you still get to go on dates, but they suck, and ultimately it feels like the girl is with you for a non-genuine reason (is it my money? Is she with me out of boredom? Is she using me for free meals?). Before the date, she flaked on you twice, you had to start every conversation, and you went to sleep every. Single. Night. Thinking about her, until she finally found time in her schedule for you, just for it to be underwhelming after it’s all said and done.

If you’re ever in a situation you feel disrespected by a girl (you beg for a date, left on read, offended, flaked on.) move on. As you’re reading this, think about yourself, your potential, and make a mental promise that you’re going to respect yourself at all times.

If you feel disrespected by a girl you barely even know, cut any and every emotional nerve. Fuck that shit, no girl is worth your morale’s murder. She texted back a week later? Great, it doesn’t matter. Move on.

How many times I’ve been in situations that if I just acted like a spineless man, I would’ve gotten a date/kiss/sex, and yet I didn’t do it? Plenty, and I don’t regret any of them.

As far as you know, you’re the only person who’s a person and not a robot. I, /u/DefinitelyHorny4U am a robot, and so is everyone else, including those hot girls you want to do naughty things with. Why are you letting robots- people who you will never see again, fuck your morale raw and leave it on the bed with cum all over it? And not even bring it a towel pfft

Things seem to be going south with a girl? Don’t waste any more of your time, she didn’t appreciate you for who you were, so her chance is gone. After you do this for a while, you’ll notice how much happier you are. I’m tired of seeing posts “she didn’t respond to my text 2 days ago to confirm the date tomorrow, but maybe tomorrow she’ll confirm after I ask again, which words and emojis should I use in my next text.” FUCK. THAT. Why are you doing this to yourself? Where’s the self respect