Step 1: Don't Be Oblivious

iamkarnath · 2015-01-08T14:20:24+00:00

"You didn't talk. You wouldn't say anything." Wow.

a_critical_person · 2015-01-08T16:07:35+00:00

How can you not be oblivious?
The better advice would be "Always assume attraction" and escalate.

little_banjo · 2015-01-08T21:18:31+00:00

That backfired so hard for me. Before understanding women's signs of interest, I could rationalize my lack of luck with women as just not picking theirs signals. After knowing their signs, I finally reached the conclusion they have never shown any signs. I wish I could go back.

MetalPUA · 2015-01-08T20:27:46+00:00

Tomorrow's headline: Jimmy Fallon found dead of apparent suicide.

Shugbug1986 · 2015-01-08T16:50:24+00:00

Instructions unclear, obtained harem.

Elder_Dolan · 2015-01-08T17:48:55+00:00

This really is like the most depressing video I've seen in a while. Like poor Jimmy, poor Kidman.

Jimmy is like "I could of had her!?"

And she obviously felt really hurt at the time that he didn't like her.

LukeSkyLurker · 2015-01-08T14:45:30+00:00

SON OF A BITCH! I cant believe this is all it takes. I guess i'm a changed man now. Talk to everybody!

dirtyhotthrowaway · 2015-01-09T03:48:38+00:00

Does anyone see this differently? Great banter, body language, good eye contact but not too much, some kino thrown in, a bit of self disqualification, points out the elephant in the room, isn't afraid to tease her nor himself... This is a perfect example of how unscripted conversation should go with a woman. I've actually become a fan.

shitsfuckedupalot · 2015-01-08T21:39:38+00:00

Also dont be afraid to admit when you're nervous, sword of the morning.

oroca · 2015-01-08T23:41:40+00:00

That look of bewilderment is the same one I made when I found out senior year of college that a girl i had a huge thing for in freshman year liked me, but I was too beta to go for it. She had a boyfriend of two years by then...

gajewskimo · 2015-01-09T01:17:33+00:00

I'm just surprised that not talking, then playing video games, didn't work. I have to rethink my whole seduction strategy!

gwdarktwistedta · 2015-01-08T22:03:47+00:00

But be outcome independent. Difficult.

time_drifter · 2015-01-09T00:07:06+00:00

Lots of good things here but corn chips and brie might be my favorite.

Brooklyn8828 · 2015-01-09T01:55:32+00:00

Ill admit I was pretty oblivious because I was shy, If a girl smiles at you, smile back, If she asks you a question, ask the same. Im decent looking, I dont know what others think, but im passionate about my hobbies and how I can help people if they need help with what I do.

dirtyredsweater · 2015-01-09T19:28:23+00:00

He handled this moment like a champ!

asianx13oy · 2015-01-09T17:12:15+00:00

What if Jimmy WAS on his game and his type of girl is someone who can play video games and eat leftover Chinese food with him without feeling weird and in his mind he knew exactly what he was doing, he's just being a gentleman about it on tv.

Is that alpha?

Title	Step 1: Don't Be Oblivious
Author	Arthur_Dayne
Upvotes	326
Comments	91
Date	January 8, 2015 2:06 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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