This Subreddit sounds like a broken record

puaCurveBall · 2014-03-20T21:11:35+00:00

That's because this stuff isn't that difficult or complicated.

If you follow the basics, you'll get results. People who have trouble are 95% of the time not following the foundational stuff.

This isn't game development or some cosmo magazine.... we focus on what WORKS, and not what is "novel".

HappyJerk · 2014-03-20T19:59:07+00:00

People don't read the sidebar (or maybe the sidebar could be improved) so people ask the same questions and reiterate the same points over and over again.

readonlyuser · 2014-03-20T20:43:58+00:00

Well, that would require more people out in the field actually making useful posts and sharing insights and techs, and Seddit is pretty much a whole bunch of guys sitting in front of keyboards writing stuff they heard, but have never applied in an effort to feel better about themselves.

If we spent half the energy we spent rationalizing our lack of approaches and time in-field, there'd be a lot more useful content here.

DANdruff4MEN · 2014-03-20T20:44:09+00:00

Then post some new stuff then, ya jackass

YetzirahToAhssiah · 2014-03-20T21:27:42+00:00

I agree that many things are repeated.

However, if you've read everything and aren't getting laid, then it probably means you haven't implemented these things.

I recognized this in my own life, and go back and reread much of the material to internalize it.

There's a big difference between having read something and taking the advice.

grimpspinman · 2014-03-21T01:44:48+00:00

Welcome to reddit.

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-03-20T23:11:19+00:00

We need some new stuff

I am anxiously awaiting your new stuff.

akmetal · 2014-03-20T20:57:38+00:00

Milk before meat. If people still can't or aren't applying, then they still need it. I don't read much anymore because of the same reasons; maybe you should spend more time doing other things than reading things you already know?

social_scrying · 2014-03-20T21:44:57+00:00

I dont necessarily think there is a lack of material on this sub as much as a lack of organization. When information becomes organized, posters start to realize the information is already available.

I kind of wish posters could coordinate with the mods to create an extensive topic tree. The inner game and outer game super categories could be broken down further into their respective parts. The FAQs and sidebar, in my opinion, don't really effect what people post. I think this sort of template could help everyone visualize what the general direction of pickup is, and which branches of their game need improvement.

Im not sure if this is something subscribers would think is beneficial to this sub, or even possible for the mods. Just putting the idea out there.

helserikdomogfamilie · 2014-03-21T01:51:39+00:00

I disagree. I need to hear the advice over and over to ensure it penetrates my skull and stays there.

infernalsatan · 2014-03-21T05:45:28+00:00

Because human is still fundamentally the same everyday

Cloud_Worm · 2014-03-20T21:49:57+00:00

Read The Game and stop checking this subreddit on the reg you want to see changes.

amichaux · 2014-03-21T02:26:55+00:00

If you're using the information on this subreddit correctly you shouldn't need to be here after you soak it in. Get out there and put it to practice.

tramplemestilsken · 2014-03-21T02:31:29+00:00

Because that's all there is. You just summed up seduction. Every post is just a "I applied one of the larger tactics and had success." Or the usual "she did this, and I did this, what now" Pretty much once you've learned the basics, r/seduction becomes a waste of time. The rest of your education has to come from actually applying the knowledge you attained, and going out in the field.

Foxxz · 2014-03-21T03:34:00+00:00

Honestly I think its pretty helpful. I know it is the same stuff, but it isn't brought up with just a few words a lot of it is pretty well written and acts more of a constant motivator. I come here everyday to keep me going. I feel like its a support group that completely understands my issues.

kingcal · 2014-03-21T04:52:47+00:00

So start contributing.

breathecarbon · 2014-03-21T14:27:47+00:00

I agree OP. But maybe this sub is aimed for people who haven't truely found who they are yet. Personally I think once the way was found you have that forever and its like the same thing everyday. Haha

Apex_of_Attraction · 2014-03-21T20:28:33+00:00

Hey weightliftin4life,

You don't need new stuff. 90% of your progress will be made in-field. Attraction isn't learned in the forum, but forums do serve to illuminate points of improvement for those with sticking points.

Darragh, Apex of Attraction http://apexofattraction.weebly.com/

aalewis____ · 2014-03-22T06:46:39+00:00

you must be new here

Leftieswillrule · 2014-03-21T03:39:31+00:00

I've recently discovered that aside from the usual "confidence" and overcoming AA, the most I can do is work on my appearance. Go to the gym and wear nice clothes. /r/frugalmalefashion has a much better day-to-day impact on me than /r/seduction nowadays.

syotos86 · 2014-03-20T22:59:39+00:00

As someone trying to learn, I appreciate all the help I can get.

Title	This Subreddit sounds like a broken record
Author	weightliftin4life
Upvotes	83
Comments	48
Date	March 20, 2014 7:48 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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