Trying to get a guys attention

ManCakes22 · 2022-04-17T15:45:25+00:00

If you can talk to him face to face it’s best. We guys can be pretty dense with this stuff so meet up with him and straight up tell him what’s going on. Or even better, you ask him out if you have to do it over text.

But just don’t send him a “hey” message every once in a while and expect him to magically deduce from it that you want to go out. His attention doesn’t belong to you because you sent a 1 word text.

This may be strange but you might actually have to put some effort in.

RegretsNothing1 · 2022-04-17T16:01:15+00:00

OP, anyone that claims they know is likely wrong. I think the best advice is to move on (difficult to do) because clearly he doesn't communicate very well, or wants to.

Also, I think the advise for men can apply for women. And that is eat well, hit the gym and focus on being the best version of yourself, and you'll find an even better guy in every aspect.

ServiteChub · 2022-04-17T17:19:02+00:00

He’s just not interested in you. As a guy, move on

That1guy-101 · 2022-04-17T15:27:36+00:00

Did you two have sex in those 2 months you dated?

mgardner4 · 2022-04-17T15:31:59+00:00

He’s not into you anymore. Sorry to say. Go make him jealous with someone else.

determinator94 · 2022-04-17T18:19:51+00:00

OP, have you considered that this guy has a life beyond you the way you have a life beyond him? And I read your comment about how whenever he says he’s busy, you added “but no one is busy 24/7.” The same can also apply for you too. Whatever aggravation you have with him, ie: he’s busy or not initiating contact, just keep yourself busy and don’t contact him regularly. Just don’t burn that bridge

Give an update if you can.

jdgrazia · 2022-04-17T16:36:10+00:00

Be hot, if you're already hot then he's not interested in your personality. In this case you need to have a personality. If you have a personality then he was only interested in how hot you were, this is the best case scenario here

TLu_03 · 2022-04-17T16:26:28+00:00

Don’t contact him and just see how long it takes for him to communicate with you OP. A lot of people don’t know how to tell others “this isn’t what I’m looking for”

HowToStud · 2022-04-17T17:38:33+00:00

Find a new man you like.

nikkibikkie · 2022-04-17T18:13:37+00:00

Let him go & look after yourself 💜🌸

Reddzii · 2022-04-17T19:11:37+00:00

He's playing the game I see

ElephantEarwax · 2022-04-17T20:55:17+00:00

It really seems like is isn't interested anymore. For any number of reasons, but you should try to move on. Find someone who will give you the time, or just make peace with it on your own.

Aliebaba99 · 2022-04-17T22:14:47+00:00

Sounds like hes not interested in you OP! It sucks, but youll get over it, and remember, plenty of fish in the sea; just because this is the only guy you like AT THIS POINT IN TIME, does not mean it will always be like this. Moving on would be the healthy thing for you to do.

Lifedeather · 2022-04-18T00:22:50+00:00

Sneeze on him since you obviously like the 🤧 emoji

SaderXZ · 2022-04-17T17:05:25+00:00

I'd say go all in, don't take an excuse for an answer. Ask him whether he wants to be with you or not. You either get the guy you want or you find out for sure that it's a lost cause and move on.

Make sure he knows that you'll accept his feelings whether he likes you or not.

EsCastle · 2022-04-17T19:09:38+00:00

What if I don’t talk to him and he thinks I’m not interested in him

KahnKlingonme · 2022-04-17T18:02:37+00:00

He's not interested or you're not making a effort send him attractive pictures. You have to put your ego aside and compete like guys do. You have so many weapon's at reach. Use them

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-04-17T16:18:21+00:00

You could offer him sex?

sophiemanchester111 · 2022-04-17T20:40:23+00:00

Never chase a guy...oh my god u have what they need P U S S Y. Play it

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-04-17T17:27:54+00:00

How old are you guys??

cytomome · 2022-04-17T18:56:16+00:00

Dude. He's not interested. Leave him the hell alone. There are people out there who will want you back-- stop investing yourself in someone who doesn't.

Sup3rHD · 2022-04-17T19:45:19+00:00

talk dirty to him.

franikolai · 2022-04-17T23:57:10+00:00

I like that I’m seeing more and more girls post here. I feel like most of the time it’s dudes

Title	Trying to get a guys attention
Author	EsCastle
Upvotes	94
Comments	111
Date	April 17, 2022 3:24 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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