Hey guys,
Kinda wanted to share this odd report because unlike most field reports where we talk about success, I actually wanted to talk about one of rejection.
I have been chatting on and off with this waitress that I like. Long story short, I decided last night to stop dancing around and gauge interest. I put it simply that I was interested and asked her if I was her type. She said unfortunately no and felt awful that she was having to let me down.
What I found weird about it was after she rejected me. I felt...normal. Like no stress, no anxiety, nothing. It just felt like a polite decline. I don't know if maybe I have experienced enough rejection that I am numb to it or what, but I have to admit. This feeling is kinda cool. To know that it really is no big deal.
So for all the guys who are scared of rejection. Take it from someone who has been nervous about it for a long time as well. It really does get better. One day you'll be rejected and your ego will take it like a walk in the park. When that happens, start to get excited. Because it means you may have unlocked a lot of potential in yourself.
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