What practical techniques can be used to pull a girl who has a big attitude/ego??

LandscapeClear1630 · 2021-12-20T15:33:02+00:00

Unless that's your fetish, leave here to her own devices. They're probably demanding as fuck

norwegiandoggo · 2021-12-20T08:07:10+00:00

Proceed normally. The issue isn't that you need a new or different approach. The issue is that a lot of guys get thrown of their game if the girl displays some early attitude. You have to not react to it. Or even better, like and enjoy her attitude. That's partially why you're into her right? Because of her attitude. So, if she displays attitude you should be happy and smile because you like that kind of thing. Maybe you like her attitude because you also have some attitude? Then you can engage in a bit of back and forth banter with attitude. Reminder: Jada Pinketts first words to Will Smith were "whatever n*gga move".

Kevin26039898 · 2021-12-20T13:14:01+00:00

Treat everybody like a normal person. Don't act like simps

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2021-12-20T08:13:30+00:00

The more time passes, the more i get curious why fellas choose a bitchy hoe over normal talkative n cooperative girls

Even tho i know the answer

Dude, get other chicks and let those others spin around ya. They won’t bring anything but headache into ur beautiful n peaceful life. One-two hits n quit max you’ll enjoy. Nothing else.. Which u can get literally from anyone

Leviathansplunge · 2021-12-20T09:24:56+00:00

Looks at the comments....I call bullshit on alot of what I see.

If her overconfidence is something u like about her, no shame in shooting ur best shot. I personally find conceited women can be pretty funny. There was a chick cdl driver at my old job, this girl was supermodel quality and she knew it, redhead with busty c cups, skinny waste, thicc protruding ass, im normally pretty ok with women but I thought I had zero chance so I talked to her like normal like I would with anybody else. I watched her swat away the other dudes like flies, she was so feisty and cocky/conceited (and can back it up), I loved it. After some time one day we caught each other checking eachother out from a distance, and told her friend about it later and found out from him she had a crush on me because I'm the only one that didn't make every interaction about her looks.

More to the point to address ur post...when I say I talked to her like normal, it actually became competitive banter by nature because I am also very cocky with ability to back it up, we made each other laugh by competing to see who can say cockier stuff, and no one else in our setting could make her laugh, we ended up dating for awhile before her stint ended and she moved back home.

So my official suggestion is to compete with her to see who is more conceited to try and show her up..even if u ain't a cocky person...ultimately this is a way of having fun with someone of that character, it establishes connection and it makes u stand out from the other slobs trying to get her.

Dazzling-Importance1 · 2021-12-20T12:05:06+00:00

Don't they usually suck

Sissy_Boi_179 · 2021-12-20T16:44:45+00:00

It’s all about frame. Just start treating her like she’s your little sister, like no matter how much attitude she dishes out just have the attitude of “aww, that’s cute.”

GhoulChaser · 2021-12-20T08:44:02+00:00

I would assert dominance. What do I mean? Well, she obviously knows that shes beautiful and smart so she surrounds herself with people that feed her that reassurance constantly even if it’s unintentional. Don’t brag about other girls but make it clear that you have options and just reciprocate everything she does because she’s basically shit testing you. If you do compliment her don’t take it back but rather show her that its not a big deal that she’s pretty. “ you’re cute, but don’t flatter yourself” something like that. She needs to prove to you why she should go out with you not the other way around or you’ll just end up doing whatever it may be to get her. Females like the challenge of getting a guy to like them If they find them attractive. But they expect the guy to make the move on them so that they have leverage.

Ohmyguell · 2021-12-20T16:15:01+00:00

A large portable mirror which asks basic AF questions, stick it in front of her and like a parakeet, things will happen

2021-12-20T21:39:17+00:00

You’re better off ignoring people like that, but if you really want to put yourself through trying to appeal to people like her, then find out what she responds to.

A lot of the time, people with big attitudes are really insecure and trying to hide it with their personality. My advice to you is try to make her feel good about herself in ways that she doesn’t mention or call to attention, and talk about her personality rather than her appearance. If you do it right, you’ll bond. If not, she’ll be barking and running you down like a pitbull.

Good luck.

devolve79 · 2021-12-20T11:54:13+00:00

Don't be a simp. That's it dont open doors buy her drinks or whatever. Treat her like you would a male friend. I'm assuming all the other males in your group treat her differently. Also a little friendly negging is always good

gmilfmoneymilk · 2021-12-20T13:22:53+00:00

Treat her like an equal. She's used to being worshipped.

2021-12-20T16:00:04+00:00

not 100 percent sure but normally those kinds of girls actually are attracted to guys who can or do put them in their place and or know how to handle their ego and sass and on some levels is what they are looking for. that i can say for certain.

EagerSleeper · 2021-12-20T11:21:08+00:00

Girls like that are Jigglypuff. They'll sing their song then get puffed up mad when the audience of dudes fall asleep.

Don't fall asleep, king; turn it into a duet.

beans0913 · 2021-12-20T15:33:09+00:00

“Pull” a girl? This sub is a joke

thetrickster2k · 2021-12-20T10:01:48+00:00

Dude can u dm your pic, i wanna know how much u pass rule no: 1 & 2

2021-12-20T16:55:57+00:00

If she has that "big shot" attitude towards you maybe you should just forget about her...you should not tolerate girls with other than demure attitude.

But this one girl. I wanna get her. If it doesn't work, it's okay but I wanna give my best shot.

You can't get any girl you like, she has to be attracted to you.

Approach, if you get anything other than joviality from her move along.

Cyberfaust11 · 2021-12-20T20:13:11+00:00

Tranquilizer.

sachichino1111 · 2021-12-20T08:29:03+00:00

Negging would be a good option here. But be careful. Negging gets a bad name because if poorly executed the results are terrible. One more important aspect is that it shouldn't even be remotely insulting a lot of examples you'll find on the internet are garbage

It should be used as a tease and not an insult

TheTruth221 · 2021-12-20T10:28:48+00:00

tell her she ugly then tell her u trying to fuck

creamyturtle · 2021-12-20T13:02:27+00:00

I had a girl like this in our friend circle in college, she always had a bf so I never tried anything. Then they broke up and some time went by we started talking. Whenever I would start asking her out she would go cold and distant. So eventually I just stopped talking to her, ignoring her texts, etc. This went on for like 2-3 weeks before she snapped and asked me on a date. smashed that night

To clarify: my advice for getting hot girls is to treat them badly. they are used to men fawning over them

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2021-12-20T14:01:29+00:00

youuuu mean every girl?

ApatheticHeretic_101 · 2021-12-20T19:40:02+00:00

Easy. Stop dating. Focus on your grades. Get your degree in order. Get your career in order. Get a house. Get a good hobby. And wait...

By this time she'll have screwed everyone else that thought she was a catch in college and now don't want her, so she's desperate. Then, you'll pass on her, too.

By this time you can go to any college town and there'll be a LINE of similar women that will throw it at you for nothing because you'll be successfull, stable, available and discriminating. And if one doesn't want to get together, another one will jump at the chance.

You win and no divorce needed, since you passed on the "bait-chick" looking to hook a man and are ready for real women that wants a real man.

Cheers.

5_7pickup · 2021-12-20T09:09:11+00:00

Treat her like shit lol

SavageMakaveli · 2021-12-20T08:49:29+00:00

If you really like her like that; Be yourself and approach her. Don't be a pushover though. Alot of Dominant mean girls want a guy who is more dominant than they are. Because even though a girl might be tough, She still wants to be the female in the relationship. When you talk to her be natural, But be assertive and confident, And if she gets mean, Brush it off like it doesn't bother u and say something like " I really like when you're aggressive I think its cute" or "I like that you're tough, I'm tough too we'd make a great couple we'd run shit"

speedoBudgieSmuggler · 2021-12-20T14:45:44+00:00

Treat her like crap

Admirable_One6045 · 2021-12-20T11:07:46+00:00

Destroy her ego :)

CigarFrog · 2021-12-20T12:33:55+00:00

Pretty standard. Neg her, Neg her, Neg her. Don't forget, YOU are the prize! Not her! - ZenMachine

EnteringManhood · 2021-12-20T16:36:20+00:00

The classic “neg” aka backhanded compliment
demonstration of higher value in an area she is vested in
ice her out and pay attention to her friends
bravery and boldness - being direct and fearless

1BannedAgain · 2021-12-20T17:30:27+00:00

Neg her in front of her friends

RelationshipBubbly45 · 2021-12-20T10:51:44+00:00

To lower themselves by lowering yourself then surprising them this creates a mind shift and perspective that she thought she always had (men) and will trust you more.

TheRealNotaredditor · 2021-12-20T14:17:33+00:00

Challenge her ego and If she gives you attitude don't stand for it.

Obviously know your limits, don't be an asshole, but she is probably used to digging her heels into men. So if you be firm like concrete she'll jump.

Dianabayyebii · 2021-12-20T14:44:25+00:00

You said you had a few interactions with her already? How did those go? Did she give you any inkling she was interested in you? Even the most confident of girls will throw a dude a bone IF she is actually interested in them.

Classic_Common_9163 · 2021-12-20T15:18:47+00:00

I’d try to stay around the same height. If in your head you are shooting up you already lost. Shoot your shot, but also shoot down any disrespect without remorse. Being able to walk away easily is paradoxically what will keep you in the game

TheLegendofMikeHawk · 2021-12-20T16:14:37+00:00

I would try being detached. Non-chalant, in a way that subtlety expresses value. Interact, but be cordial, almost abrubt. Like you don't have a care in the world. Outcome independace is the big idea here, so if she's used to getting a certain type of attention and your not giving it to her, it will drive her crazy. Get her to chase you. Don't chase.

MsJenX · 2021-12-20T17:52:22+00:00

Treat them as friends and your your attention to the less attractive friend.

2021-12-20T18:13:51+00:00

Negging would work

KlausFenrir · 2021-12-20T18:31:03+00:00

Treat her like a normal human being lol, just don't get intimidated. I have a lot of successful friends and they hate it when guys change their demeanor when they find out what they do for work.

Jay-Ames · 2021-12-20T18:37:29+00:00

It's called walking away and leading your life.

SharkAttack-920 · 2021-12-20T18:49:20+00:00

To leave her alone lol

bath_junkie · 2021-12-20T19:18:24+00:00

Fuck me eyes and a big ass smile

Chance_Zone_8150 · 2021-12-20T21:48:44+00:00

Challenge her. Most women love the challenge and enjoy being treated like a person

2021-12-20T23:18:34+00:00

Look and treat her as she’s less than you, you gotta break that ego down

Lagstravaganza · 2021-12-20T23:42:58+00:00

Have you tried dating someone that would make her jealous?

BigBatiBoi · 2021-12-21T01:06:51+00:00

If ur asking for help on reddit ur fucked

2021-12-21T05:03:09+00:00

Op is a corny guy lmao

vanillapopsicle · 2021-12-21T05:08:59+00:00

You have to basically out-alpha her. All the time. It will get you the girl, but could get exhausting after a whole. In other words, tease her hard. She obviously has to be physically attracted to you as well.

Title	What practical techniques can be used to pull a girl who has a big attitude/ego??
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	170
Comments	102
Date	December 20, 2021 8:04 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/rki4kp/what_practical_techniques_can_be_used_to_pull_a/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/what-practical-techniques-can-be-used-to-pull-a.1270543 https://theredarchive.com/post/1270543

Comments