What's A good Second Date Idea?

Penguin154 · 2015-04-20T19:33:35+00:00

Cooking dinner with them at your place. It gives you a bunch of great tools for building attraction. 1.) A more intimate setting (just the two of you and some music) 2.) You're leading the entire interaction because you know the recipe better. 3.) Investment on her part (ask her to bring wine and an ingredient or two) 4.) LOADS of kino opportunities. 5.) Shared experience (instead of just talking over drinks, you two are accomplishing something together and feeling good about it) 6.) Demonstrating value (who doesn't love somebody that cooks well) 7.) Much easier to transition to your place since you're already there.

Tips: -Find a recipe you like and do a dry run before hand to work out the kinks.

-At some point during down time (waiting on bake time etc.), dance with her a bit to something slow (there was a great post about this not too long ago)

-Cook with wine. Sometimes I even put it in the food.

-This is the big one: GIVE THEM LEFTOVERS! This has two main benefits: 1.) Every time she has some of that tasty Tupperware food she will think of you, the wonderful experience she had making it with you, and how amazing you made her feel. 2.) Easy set up for a date three because she needs to give your Tupperware back.

If you have any questions about recipes etc. let me know.

kevinbobb · 2015-04-20T15:30:53+00:00

urban exploring, always so romantic..

Spaceman7Spiff · 2015-04-20T17:10:57+00:00

Personally, I think the second date is a good time to show her one of your hobbies. I like motorcycles so I usually suggest we go for a ride.

youlovethisish · 2015-04-20T16:54:44+00:00

I vote home-cooked goodness.

proletarian- · 2015-04-20T16:04:56+00:00

Private jet to Paris, orgy, a funeral, month long tour volunteering in an African refugee camp...

monkeyjazz · 2015-04-20T22:44:45+00:00

anal

News_Bot · 2015-04-20T15:09:40+00:00

Not much different from first date ideas. Or third, fourth, etc.

Go to a bar. Go for milkshakes. Go to a circus. Go bowling. Go ice skating. Anything, really. The activity doesn't matter too much as long as you keep a variety.

redditisawesomeinla · 2015-04-20T17:35:17+00:00

I usually meet a chick in public the first date (been going for a walk on the beach often). Second date usually consists of her coming over to watch a movie or I go to her place and she cooks dinner for me. Good times.

PanchDog · 2015-04-20T22:17:29+00:00

TRP is strong in here.

john_dune · 2015-04-20T17:40:07+00:00

What was your first date? Build upon it with a general theme.

Did you do something calm and relaxing? Go to an art exhibit, or museum?

Little more high octane? Go Karting or Rock climbing

More competitive? Arcade or Pool Hall

Throw in a nice meal (afterwards) at a relaxed and casual restaurant, and maybe a drink or two, and call it a 2nd date.

Cheminmotion · 2015-04-20T21:25:45+00:00

Most of these replies are the worst. It depends on what you want out of it. If you're both in it for something casual (which there is nothing wrong with, and any of my own encounters of this kind are generally pretty obvious to start with) then go out for drinks or a film or something (generally avoid the cinema early on though) and you can wind it down with an invitation home. If you genuinely like them, I think a second date should be something during the day, go out to an exhibition or to the park to walk the dog. I like to arrange something to fit in before other plans I have as it gives you a time frame, which will hopefully leave you both feeling like you wished you could spend some more time together. As tempting as it is to try and force things, if you want both your and her interest to last leave anything physical till the third or fourth when you can invite them round for dinner or a film.

katanin · 2015-04-21T13:11:22+00:00

Your house. Dinner at your place for sure. Every time.

edit: looks like Penguin154 already nailed it

passionr · 2015-04-20T18:37:09+00:00

go to a bar close to your place for some drinks, be a good conversationalist and then back to your place!

ShervinMthe1 · 2015-04-20T20:46:53+00:00

Dave and Busters has NEVER failed me.

ratisse · 2015-04-20T16:21:17+00:00

This is how I did it due to living by UFC, constantly meeting new women and getting lots of phone numbers

First Date: Pool Hall (anything low cost 5 mins from my place to make pulling easy)

Second Date: My place for homemade pizza (women love when you cook for them)

Third Date: There wasn't a third date unless I had banged them or already gotten a blowjob. Only so much time and talking to lots of potentials.

PM_ME_4_COKE_HOOKUP · 2015-04-20T17:25:37+00:00

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2udaylatif · 2015-04-20T23:05:19+00:00

SheepKing · 2015-04-21T00:30:13+00:00

Movie, get a shit one she wont be interested in and talk, horror movie works like wonder. Escalate and fuck. You can get vino too, get a little drunk, and have fun.

Landscapedude · 2015-04-20T15:10:45+00:00

Don't reward her too early, just do the same Like the first one.

Title	What's A good Second Date Idea?
Author	throwawayhaunter
Upvotes	53
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Date	April 20, 2015 2:34 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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