It’s been a process trying to heal after the divorce, my wife and I didn’t have any kids or significant assets. So the divorce was relatively clean.

I do feel like I still want kids, but I am also getting to a point where I do wonder if it’s a good idea since I am getting older…

Obviously as a guy my age doesn’t really matter that much when it comes to having a child, but I still don’t know if it’s wise or not to want to start a family as I am getting closer to 40..

I’ve also found that I’m struggling to get into a “relationship” mindset. I have had a few short term relationships post-divorce, but they ultimately went nowhere.

How long does it take to come back from 4 year marriage (7 together)?

And if I do ever date again with the intention of children someday, what age would be appropriate given my own? (At least in your opinions)

Thanks in advance.