Online Dating (Post Divorce)

Apax912 · 2025-10-10T02:55:33+00:00

Facebook Dating is free

1millionBURNINGsuns · 2025-10-10T02:06:27+00:00

You just gotta go and eat some shit for a while and waste some money.

There is no easy recipe or way.

The only way is through, wasting some cash and figuring what works. Start today. Just go already!

Stop overthinking it.

(Bumble and Hinge. Sometimes it rules and sometimes I hate myself and almost all the women. So is life.)

Dismal_Wishbone3021 · 2025-10-11T00:49:21+00:00

Online succes story sorta of - I paid and went on match and met a nice girl a few hours from me. I drive for a living, so I rolled the dice and we hit it off and it was going really great for a few months, has some great timesnat the hotel, then she told me that she felt religious conviction that we should go back to just holding hands...We are both in our forties. Also we could now spend time on our dates in her parent's house basement instead of at my room.

Needless to say, I will be back on match pretty soon :)

TheMenWithVenDiagram · 2025-10-10T00:57:13+00:00

It all depends on location and quality of your photos. I usually pay once I get like 5 likes or matches.

Dangerous_Item_6879 · 2025-10-09T21:13:29+00:00

Free version of Hinge is more than sufficient if you are in a big city.

Inevitable_Rest_8368 · 2025-10-09T20:00:31+00:00

Lots of talent out there, apps are quick gains but hoop jumping. Just dress and smell well and go out downtown. Easy...dont over think it.

Slowclimberboi · 2025-10-09T19:51:20+00:00

I always had the most success by sliding in the DM’s on IG

miami2881 · 2025-10-09T19:40:58+00:00

Paying for high quality photos to add to your profile is a superior investment to paying for the apps.

P.S. Congrats on the new freedom!

Helpful-Paramedic463 · 2025-10-09T19:39:31+00:00

Brother don't pay for anything.

Stick to Facebook dating. It's free and easy as hell.

The paid apps are designed to get you to pay. Paid apps for a scam unless your Brad Pitt.

I've been extremely successful on Facebook dating. My advice is to take some good photos. Keep your bio short and to the point. Make sure to let them know you're only looking for casual.

If you try and say long term and don't mean it, it's just going to end badly. These women appreciate honesty and a lot are looking for the same.

Odd-Yoghurt1869 · 2025-10-09T19:29:19+00:00

Hinge and Bumble. And I paid for everything and sent "roses" all the time.

You have to pay to play. And I found it SUPER easy to get laid.

Now, cautionary tale, that first "connection" post divorce will be intoxicating. You haven't had real intimacy in YEARS. Again, it will be intoxicating. And it will hurt you more than your divorce when it ends.

Start listening to man empowering dating podcasts, I suggest Mark Sing.

Now go get em tiger!

redcirclewhitealien · 2025-10-09T19:23:33+00:00

Hinge and Match are where I've had the most luck. Got quite a few dates out of both. Talking to other divorced guys bumble and Facebook dating also seem like good options. Good luck!

Title	Online Dating (Post Divorce)
Author	WreckedMind99
Upvotes	12
Comments	18
Date	October 9, 2025 7:12 PM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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