As electroloop recently reminded us, men will happily steal/waste your time if you let them. That got me thinking, what do men contribute anyway? My all time best and most fun times have been with woman friends. I came up with a short man contribution list, and please let me know if I’ve missed anything. Most of us have had these things stolen from us by men at one time or another: time, money, youth, peace, safety, mental wellness, childhoods, and wombs.
Also, men have given us: fear, generational trauma, STIs, insecurities (looks, loyalty, body, financial), pay inequity, violence, war, misogynistic music lyrics to a good beat, and oppression.
Sometimes men steal multiple things from us if we are really unlucky, or vulnerable, or have poor boundaries (not our faults usually). When a unicorn (HVM) comes along we will be ready, but until that time keep vetting ladies. Also, protect your bodies, mental health, money, and time like your lives depend on it, because they do.
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