Alright, I'm posting this at 3 in the morning but hopefully someone on the west coast is up past midnight.

I don't like calling myself a feminist when I'm having any debate on gender (heck, I don't even like telling people I'm female) because it makes people automatically assume I hold views that I don't. It's also distracting from the purpose of intellectual debate. The only common thread between every form of feminism is the belief that men and women should share equal political and social rights.

Feminism unfortunately has a gender-based name, because when the feminist movement began it was necessarily for women's rights, which I think is pretty reasonable. But it's still the only well-established existing movement for gender equality. My question is, why should that change?

This is my call to arms for the moderate feminist: You should not be afraid to call yourself a feminist. You should not be afraid of anyone discrediting or invalidating you because you want men and women to have equal social and political rights.

Why should I let extremists who do not support equal rights hold hostage a title that has significant value? What have they done to deserve it? I propose a solution - keep feminism for us, and relabel them. I personally vote for Extremist Victims - I think this title most accurately phrases what they are. These people aren't fighting for equality. They are a fringe group. Their goal isn't to support the disenfranchised, but to knock down those they view as more powerful. They abandon potential allies and gloat at each new enemy.

If we applied the same logic in a religious context, it would be like saying, for example, Jews are best represented by the people who gleefully knock over Palestinian property in the West Bank. Is this true? Obviously not. Are Jews everywhere synonymous with the actions of Israel? Obviously not. Then why would we conflate the two?

Edit: "It's not silence majorities that drive things, but vocal minorities. Don't count heads; count decibels." - George Jonas.