A little back story.
Me (26) Male and my wife (27) female have been together for 8 1/2 years and have been married for 2 no children but 3 cats.
We've always had a good relationship with each other over the years. We never argue or fight about anything and we've always worked as a team and do everything with each other. We have both within the last 2 years advanced in our careers and changed our setting that aligns with both our goals (out of our 2 bedroom apartment in the suburbs into a single family home out in the country).
Life is great and we're both happy. As so I thought...
DISCLAIMER *Everything I am about to share is total pussy ass blue pill beta bitch stuff. Trust me I know. I take full responsibility on the outcome of my relationship. This experience was my pre-requisite to getting red pilled and am currently reading How to save a low sex marriage. Recently my wife just developed a cold attitude. She basically wants nothing to do with me anymore. So I confronted her about and said "You know, if there's something going on between us or you're not happy I'd like to know so we can talk about it"
Well, we had the "talk". Long story short. She "says" she's bored with her life and bored with me. She wants to be independent like all of her friends. Because they're strong independent women so she has to be also. She also mentioned about having a life changing experience and wants to move out of state within the next 5 years. She feels like since she settled down so early that she missed out on having fun. Travel around and meeting new people and such.
She then started to attack me for all the things I do wrong. Beta ass bitch me couldn't help but break down. So now she just fully resents me and is so repulsed to be around me. She basically wants nothing to do with me anymore.
Ever since then I started reading How to save a low sex marriage by the blue pill professor and have been gradually applying the first few levels of dread. It's only been two weeks so I know the ordeal. I'm taking it slow and just giving her her the space she wants an working on myself.
But, I can't help but feel that something is going on that I don't know about. She's developed a serious cold attitude towards me. She does not want to talk to me, look at me or even be around me. She stopped kissing me goodbye and saying "I love you". So I picked up on these cues and have not bothered with her at all. I've looked at the possibility of maybe she's talking to someone else but I'm not sure if that's really the case or if she is thinking of divorce and just doesn't want to tell me because she knows I'm possibly going to break my frame in front of her.
I know it's super early still but I'm just at a lost now. I don't know if it's my phycology getting to me or what but I really want to know what her problem is. If I bring it up I know it's going to seem like I'm looking for emotional validation and I don't want that.
So what do you dudes suggest? Increase the level of dread and continue what I'm doing untill she caves? Or is this the end road?
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