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Agreed. It’s crazy what 170 days can do, I’m already on the path you describe. Even realized “I’m WAY overthinking this”. Feels good, man. Man will never understand a woman’s mind fully, and women will never understand a man’s mind fully. C’est la Vie
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:50 AM
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Hot girls are the NORM. Ugly girls are the outliers. Not the other way around. Put fat and/or uglygirls on pedestals of people you don’t want to be like or your kids to be like.
/r/seduction05/07/22 12:00 AM
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Hey…FUCK YOU. “I’ve been laid 3 times in the last 7 months”, I haven’t had jack for shit in over a year and a half. It was 5 years after graduating before I actually got any. You’re fine, mate. It’s not bitches every day, we’re not rappers. I bet they don’t even get bitches every day but that’s more likely “nah, no bitches today, I need an aspirin” 3 in 7 months ain’t bad. And if it is, I’M wayyyyy in the dumps
/r/seduction17/03/22 02:53 AM
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I struggled with this for a bit, and I still do. I notice that if I go internal I can go too deep out of fear of the outside world beyond my pupils. I question myself. Or I go internal and run fine because I’m being me. Or I try to keep up with the outside world, externalizing myself - trying to suck it inside of me. It won’t work. Try meditation. It gets you internal, and spreads that out to the edges so you are grounded. You become Yourself. Instead of trying to be the external You that everyo…
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:43 AM
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That’s actually a good thing. Competition is good for business, it would be riskier to try and create a new market than it is to fill the demand for a market. I love the idea of pioneering an industry, but without large capital, it’s not wholly feasible to do so - you can’t really say opening up a new industry in a small town is “building” an industry, there’s no industry. There’s just you Competition is good, also allows work to be made faster. Can’t copy off their patents, but you can generate…
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:17 AM
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I’ll put it this way, my experience with girls is almost solely rejection. I expect it and don’t mind it. As I put it in my head, I’m walking around on a planet where women don’t exist, though they’re encountered occasionally, but nothing comes of it. I don’t have a problem with that, that’s my natural. To just let go, because I don’t like to cling to women, I don’t like to think “I want a girlfriend” or “I need a girlfriend”. I don’t want to think “I need to be cured of my loneliness”. I’m actu…
/r/seduction16/03/22 11:09 PM
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That sounds like a friend I wouldn’t want. “You guys are having fun, but I’m not - so nobody gets fun and sex anymore”. Just cockblocks the whole group, men and women. Fuck mother hens. They’re cunty bitches who almost literally see themselves as their friends mothers. It’s pathetic, we get it becky you hate being ugly, let the rest of us have some fun.
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:54 PM
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No, you’ll keep doing things. Those things being, your house gets repo’d, you get evicted, your life falls through the cracks. If your life is set and on track, you can shift priorities to seek dating. It’s not the main priority, but as a facet of life it shuffles itself towards the top because other needs are being met, they’re not a priority as they’re the baseline. It becomes a priority when that begins to falter. It’s the balancing act of life. Lots of areas to keep track of
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:35 PM
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I already had plans to build sentient sex robots for the weeb community, I heard about China and I just had the biggest “CHA-CHING” moment ever. Now what the fuck to build it with, how to build it, where to get quality parts, where to get a laptop to run Fusion360 Big project, but it gives me an excuse to draw porn
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:33 PM
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I dunno if he’s saying that. I think it’s implied in Dating that before dating you need to be comfortable with yourself. Not everyone gets that memo, but they get it eventually. I think OP is just tryna think of how to do better with girls. There’s higher chances of something working out if you do three at once - I know it sounds like “uh but if I only have one I’ll be desperate”. THAT is an issue of Ego, but rostering three girls isn’t an issue. It’s like dividing your eggs between baskets inst…
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:31 PM
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Tell that to the men in China, 30million of them will be without a partner unless they mail order a bride or leave the country to marry - and what that would do to their social credit, no idea. It’s healthy to be able to just “deal with it” by not having any desire for girls, it puts you in a position of “I’m satisfied with myself”. And then after that you can go “Okay NOW I’m ready for a girl”. I disagree with them that self love is ALL that matters, but it’s 95% of the whole mess. Self-compass…
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:25 PM
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Posters, flyers, resumes, “friendship applications”. Just throw them everywhere, and watch the numbers roll in
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:21 PM
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AAAAAAAHHHHHHH but it’s fuckin annoying though. It reminds me of school so hard. I couldn’t make any friends in school I had to be transplanted into a group artificially and was always on the periphery of it and being picked on. My nick name in school was “Cancer”…I’m a fuckin Libra. Maaaaaaan, okay, I’ll do it. I just have an issue with approach anxiety. I hate feeling it. It goes away after starting to talk, it’s easy to talk to people but the nerves beforehand are just unbearable
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:20 PM
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Heatmap of Touch Boundaries
/r/seduction16/03/22 09:16 PM
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A guy can act silly, he can’t BE silly. Make sense? Always have a base-frame of your life, the one that wakes up in the morning, have that be the kind of guy that is taken seriously. Everything else as a man is like a decoration for socializing. As a society, as men, we build and provide. A serious job, for serious men. But that’s not the fullest a man can be, it’s his natural, but not his peak potential. He can be silly, he can be smart, he can be bold, this, that, WHATEVER. But Reputation is i…
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:34 AM
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…mate…you just… I couldn’t have put it better myself, though I’d give the same answer, so thank you. HUMANS are walking shit tests. They all have buttons to press. Sometimes ypu don’t press the right buttons. Sometimes you push the right buttons for someone else, but not that particular person. Sometimes you push all the right buttons, but your face isn’t appealing to that particular person - which is a MAJOR button typically weighted more heavily on first contact. Humans. Are. Shit. Tests. This…
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:29 AM
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Nah, women are just women. What you see and experience of them is what you get. They’re just the sun and a glass of water, they know they make us thirsty. They’re hot, AND they’ve got the sex to refresh after feeling the heat. The part of thirst quenching, either through control of ourselves to just “quit being thirsty” (it takes more than just “don’t SA girls”, it’s a man’s head game with himself to control the thirst in all quantities), or quenching it by asking to drink from the metaphoric gl…
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:15 AM
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I wouldn’t say “IG is for Girls” is disrespectful. I’m sure it’s a majority of the demographic. What do guys use IG for other than to waste time not making money, oggle at asses, and get left on read because she has 1,000,001 DMs that you’re drowned in. Having a preferred method of contact isn’t a big issue. That would be like my Dad going “Yeah, I’m an old hand, I don’t use social media. Could I get your number like I asked, instead?”, literally nothing harmful. Obviously you word it more smoot…
/r/seduction16/03/22 08:02 AM
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Bro, it’s all a shit test. That’s the secret. It’s not like girls go “I’m gonna shit test this guy”. They vet thoroughly by any and all means - it’s kinda remarkable. Whether they consider that vetting afterward is another questions, some girls get in some bad groups - but understand that women ARE shit tests. They don’t DO shit tests. You’re both talking about the same thing.
/r/seduction16/03/22 07:58 AM
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People are out here looking for butterfaces? WHAT?! I’ve looked at them my whole life with the idea of “Its a crying shame…slammin’ body like that…with a face like that…enough to make a mother cry holy shit. Not with a ten foot pole, I don’t need confusion boners” Like, y’all be out here looking for any wet hole. How about look for a wet hole that has a pretty face and personality attached to it? Like, quite casting buckets and nets, just cast a single line. Be more selective, look for the hole …
/r/seduction16/03/22 01:02 AM
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This. Women in their entirety are a thirst trap in the desert. They’ll make you thirsty on approach, they’ll either quench it or they won’t, sometimes they quench it with alcohol instead and they get you right fucked up from what seemed like such a good time. Or they make it a great time for 2 years, then leave you thirsting when they leave. Women, from start to finish, are a pure thirst trap. No thanks
/r/seduction16/03/22 12:22 AM
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Women are the ultimate women moment, every single moment. Always with their emotions and shit. How do they survive?! I ditched those when I turned 10
/r/seduction16/03/22 12:20 AM
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Put in bio “Am only looking to fuck. Literally. That’s it. I’m ready to be a human dildo, I ain’t looking for a good time I’m lookin to be a good time, all you horny mofos out here, look no further in your “selecting” because I got the body, I got the dick, I’ll put a bag over my head and turn the lights out. Line’s open, ladies” Something this outrageously laughable should maybe get a couple self-pity fucks from the girls that also pity themselves. It’ll like hiring a hooker but more dignified …
/r/seduction16/03/22 12:14 AM
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They know what turns them off. I don’t think they realize the effort guys that turn them on have to put in - but those guys probably just think it’s a new normal anyways. I don’t think anyone cares. Do what you have to to get a girl, nothing more to it.
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:05 PM
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This doesn’t mean hope is lost though, OP just needs to slow it down and try for the relationship route because the sex route has failed. Which, isn’t a bad thing - dating should lead to relationships. Dating market can’t all just be hookups, we’ll go extinct for the most part minus all the ONS babies.
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:38 PM
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More or less
/r/seduction13/03/22 11:11 AM
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Never EVER try to unintentionally get the girl jealous. Even when you don’t know that sets girls off, you’re just making conversation, it sets them off. Act like other girls don’t exist, and make sure you feel the same way about her too, for good measure. Girls aren’t real, they’re just illusions.
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:49 AM
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Assume all girls have the potential to be the diamonds, and then put the coal down when you find it. Keep sifting around for diamonds
/r/seduction12/03/22 11:24 AM
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Well we get microaggressions tossed at us a lot, like the awareness of them, so we should look for microattractions too
/r/seduction11/03/22 11:07 PM
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I feel this way about my ex now. At the time, I was head over heels for her being head over heels for me. She was a very dedicated girlfriend, honestly, wifey material in all aspects EXCEPT for the concept of working and helping to pool money into the household, her anxiety caused her to shy away from studies and finding work. Which really sucks, the first girl I found coulda been the one, she was just incredibly unstable in herself. A good girlfriend experience though, got to experience a lot o…
/r/seduction11/03/22 10:57 PM
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Nah, don’t mind the downvotes. You’re correct. Been a doormat, been the one to turn cheek - it doesn’t work. Crushing your enemies in subtle ways works
/r/seduction11/03/22 10:51 PM
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Here’s the thing, you’re assuming it’s an emotional response. Upon being told “i’m way out of your league” I’ve just been given a great gift, they showed their true colours - and they’re a pretty stinky shade of brown. So, for their gift, and for thinking they’re hot shit, they need to know that they’re being a piece of shit. I don’t have to clap back like it’s a roast off, you just have to say it. Who said anything about getting emotional? Not every clapback is because of an emotional response,…
/r/seduction11/03/22 10:50 PM
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Throw it back at them. “Ah right right, that was my mistake; by looking at you I thought you had a chance with ME, but you’ve made it pretty clear you don’t, so I’ll be on my way” Insult her personality, it runs deeper than any vapid surface level things will. And you’ll walk away feeling like a boss. If you can’t hit girls, at the very least you can learn to deal a shit ton of emotional damage to them. Why is it fair they can do physical, emotional, and psychological violence to them, but we ca…
/r/seduction11/03/22 06:45 AM
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They don’t understand themselves
/r/seduction11/03/22 06:39 AM
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I’ve dated a girl like this, it’s rough for both sides. One side latches and is going to want to die if you go - that’s their problem, to be sure. But they’ll hang it over you, not because they don’t love you, they love you in such a twisted way that they can’t love themselves without someone else there with them. They’ll be incredibly loyal in your presence, though if you work it might not be enough. At some point they have to go get some sort of connection supply. You know how a baby might be …
/r/seduction11/03/22 02:53 AM
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“Haven’t had time to miss you, too busy grinding money fo dem hoes”
/r/seduction11/03/22 12:46 AM
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I haven’t ever been fat, but there was a point where I noticed IOIs instead of just assuming “no girl ever flirts, they’re always just ‘being nice’”, so I didn’t know what to do. What I did was just take the compliment that’s implied. “Damn, people think I look good. I must look good, then. I make this look gooooood” and just vibe with a bounce in your step because of it. If you’re having a good day because of that, you should “celebrate” by going and doing something that get adrenaline going…li…
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:46 PM
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Clapping IS weird, I feel like a seal when I do it. I find it helps to externalize myself to those experiences, it keeps me out of my head. If I clap my hands, then I’m not enjoying clapping. But if instead I “make a sound”, instead of wanting to clap, I clap to make the sound. And the act of clapping ain’t so bad anymore because it’s what is needed to make a clap sound
/r/seduction10/03/22 09:31 PM
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Practice it. At home making dinner, smile for a bit. It’s gonna be some good grubbing, hopefully. Find every excuse to smile through adversity
/r/seduction10/03/22 05:54 AM
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It’s weird that I read this as “you’re not being a stereotypical white guy”. Dang man, thanks for bringing me back to my roots. I’m gonna go talk to people
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:50 AM
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I have no idea where to find one, I live in hick nowhere. So for me, going and finding a sex worker takes more effort than just talking to a girl
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:46 AM
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Nah nah step it up a notch, ask her to cut it for you ;) I think that’s a thing some couples do, guys to girls anyway. No idea about the other way around - I’d be fuckin terrified. At least a girl can rest assured a guy knows how to shave a face which translates to down there. Big curly man bush is a bit trickier with all the moving parts
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:26 PM
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Yes, “Gossiper” rules matter here. “If they’d tell a secret to you, they’ll tell secrets about you”. This isn’t one sided, it’s for all sides, so being able to keep your cards to your chest more often than you reveal them is a good life strategy, just in general.
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:32 PM
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Exactly!
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:19 PM
1

Wait you guys are sharing nudes? I always kept them to myself
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:14 PM
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Nothing says you have to do, be, or say anything. You’re free to do as you want. Depression every single morning tells me “You can sleep until the last 5 minutes you have to get dressed, THEN you can get up and go to work, you can eat on your lunch break”. I don’t eat til 3 hours after dinner, generally. The thing is, I can easily push passed that when I remember “wait a minute…I’m free. I can do whatever I want to do”
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:27 PM
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There’s no division as humans between guys and girls, but as people there is a lot of division. Between Man and Woman, it’s peanut butter and jelly if you just be the PB or the J, don’t try to be them before mixing with them. “You are the 5 you surround yourself with” - not before. Girls will always be there, they don’t get any older ;) The ocean gets bigger when you get out of the bay and there’s great beaches and sharp rocky death zones. an entire beatup session until knockout, or choking them…
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:15 AM
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Keep it brief, like a conversation. A sentence in a few words. ^ Aim for fewer than that, language is flexible enough. Be more concise and articulate, don’t get sucked into your phone - aim to spend more time living and being with them than texting.
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:24 AM
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I’d see the “you can come to a portion of it”, whether it’s work or not to feel like, even with The Boys, that only being there for a little bit instead of the whole thing, makes me the odd one out. Especially after coming in after it has started, it’s not as bad when you have to leave after being there at the beginning. That puts me in a position where it’s “I got my own stuff to do, goodbye” and not “Hey I managed to organize my time so carefully that I came to this, putting in plain view I th…
/r/seduction09/03/22 06:54 AM
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Fuuuuck, you guys do it way more often than me. I go for like 6 months to 2 years without shaving if I’m not seeing anyone. I check daily and maintain it when needed if seeing someone If I’m gonna be seeing a woman, otherwise I just go until I’m disgusted by the 4” bush that finished growing to 6” three weeks ago. Takes a while for it to grow back to that point, I try to keep much more on top of it for the sake of my plumbing, my clippers, and my balls - because tugging hurts like an atomic turd…
/r/seduction09/03/22 04:22 AM
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Have you tried leaning onto that player archetype then? Like others have said maybe they see you as someone who should be doing that sort of thing and they see the relationship route as you trying to work an angle. Go for the Fuck route, and maybe they’ll want you so bad they get you into the dating route. Art of Deal says “Overshoot your offer so it can be negotiated down to what you truly want. Make the offer so outrageous they’ll give you what you originally wanted without question”.
/r/seduction08/03/22 11:08 PM
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From what I hear from Vice - it’s vice, take it with some salt - is that an escort is a little different from a prostitute. An escort is basically a girlfriend without the title, actually it’s more like a date. You’re on a date, this girl has her career picked out for the moment, being an escort. Doesn’t need you to recommend a career change, that’s her decision, and besides it will be WAY more work for you trying to be captain save a hoe if she does switch jobs anyways. That’s her stuff to work…
/r/seduction08/03/22 09:47 PM
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Thought of this, never went through with it. I asked people in person if that was viable. “What the fuck? No, dude, you gotta talk to them anyway to give them a card, and it shows you have no balls if you give them your number. Might take the pressure off, but they want to be asked. Fuck no, don’t do a card. Jesus, you wonder why girls think you’re a freak? you do shit like this” We’re not friends anymore, that was a bit personal - but he’s right. Stay away from a card. Doesn’t matter how class …
/r/seduction08/03/22 10:25 AM
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Oh you’re DEFINITELY missing out on everything that is unimportant in life
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:32 AM
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Precisely
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:42 AM
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“Safety” also falls under “Do I like this guy’s vibe, is the safety of my contentment in jeopardy - or does this guy make me want to know more about him? Safety is a VERY loose term they can use to signal a REAL feeling of unsafety, or they can use it as it suits them. Either way, accept that “I don’t feel safe” is “No”. And “No, means No!” Got it?
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:20 AM
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That’s not the point. A dating app is like a blind date only you get to see their face and a thin facsimile of their personality through their bio. In this case, consider this as you didn’t pass meeting face-to-face with the Tinder date when they showed up, and they cancelled the date when you show up. It’s not exactly like that, but you wanted to chuck Tinder frameworks into In-Person frameworks, it’s not 1:1 but I hope you get my meaning.
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:17 AM
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You’re right. You can’t fix those. So why bother worrying about them, those are simply dead-end self-doubts. They’re YOUR flaws. I have my own, I’m not perfect, I’m also a bit autistic, I’m don’t have to cope with my height, I hit 6’0” and like the size of my dick…but guess what: I’ve got one of my nuts up in my hip because it didn’t drop during puberty - I try and try and try to get it slithered down into my scrote but try as I might nothing short of invasive surgery is going to fix that. MY bi…
/r/seduction05/03/22 11:19 PM
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You can do WAY more in life than you think. See the Asian navy seal/doctor/astronaut. HUMANS are capable of A LOT. By nature. We are absolutely insane when it comes to that, and we surprise ourselves with how much we can do. How often do you surprise yourself by what you can do? I’m willing to bet “Not enough”. Surprise yourself, mate. Seriously. You’ll feel some of that childhood joy that few of us feel into adulthood. We get clouded by adulthood and its doubts. We can easily push past them if …
/r/seduction05/03/22 10:54 PM
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You have physical qualities. You’re corporeal. You have enough to seduce someone. A mind to generate and analyze responses, two ears to listen double to your speaking - always be a good listener, and you have a chest to make your speaking a little more baritone, a little bassy, a little more what women would consider sultry. You have a body that can lift things to morph itself over time into a greek god. There’s a god underneath any marble of yourself you want chipped away - go break yourself do…
/r/seduction05/03/22 10:18 PM
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Your first point: This is cognitive empathy, not affective empathy. Normal people operate under affective empathy and utilize cognitive empathy when needed - such as dealing as a cop, you can’t let feelings get involved but you can “empathize” with shitty situations cerebrally. Feeding people the “right” inputs, is manipulation. Doesn’t matter if it was the only way you survived childhood, it’s still manipulation - expressly for the fact it’s not genuine. They don’t like YOU, they like who you a…
/r/seduction05/03/22 12:23 AM
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Fo sho, mang. Anything to waste my time giving advice so I can finally put MY money where my mouth is. Wasn’t really for you, in honesty, it was for internet validation of which I care little - and getting my ideas straight in my head so I can function properly. Kind of two birds with one stone, situationally. Glad I could be of help.
/r/seduction04/03/22 06:37 AM
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THAT. “If I say _____ I’ll be creepy”. STOP THAT. I understand why you’re saying it, it really does feel like that sometimes, but STAAAAAHPPP. THIS is killing your confidence. If you can’t say something CHARMING as a 6/10, what makes you think you have the right to say ANYTHING? Seriously, consider this. I’m not saying you don’t have the right to say anything, what I’m saying is: If you believe you don’t have the right to be charming, one of the biggest factors in getting a date, then what makes…
/r/seduction04/03/22 06:35 AM
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Only if you choose to act that way without thinking about it. We can’t think about it all the time, we can’t change overnight - this is personality we’re talking about, Personality that has been given around 18 years to develop and take root. It’ll be hard to break those habits, but being conscious of your urges before hand - understanding what kind of action it is perceived as. Throwing someone over a balcony, feels great in the moment for the aggressor, is a “very bad” move socially. As an ani…
/r/seduction04/03/22 06:09 AM
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By having a discussion with the commenters and asking for clarification - hell, sometimes stuff gets metaphorical here so it even helps to figure out on what level of “self-awareness of life” you’d need to consider that information. But you gotta do the work and talk to people. Post a field report. Do the field work just to have a reason to make a report. Forget rejection for right now, it would almost be easier to get rejected ASAP so you can start making reports faster, you can start dissectin…
/r/seduction04/03/22 04:18 AM
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Also remember, you don’t have to “gun down” every “target”, not when you are comfortable at it. But to start with, to be able to hold eye contact, you’ll have to. Each time someone looks away, count is as a victory NOT AGAINST THEM, but against yourself. You held out, and you stuck it out until the end - against your anxiety. You can later start to submit because it’s easier and faster, in that it doesn’t waste microseconds of your time. You can look away because you want/need to look at somethi…
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:45 AM
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Without a lot of self improvement and self-monitoring, Yes, we’re fucked - or we WILL fuck someone else up over it. We will drive our partners crazy without meaning to, we’ll just be ourselves and because of how we operate we end up breaking them mentally. Not in a cool way either, it’s kinda neat that it can be done so easily, but it’s not really fulfilling. It’s just that when we walk, birds fall out of the sky. It’s just destructive. That’s it. Not a good way to build something lasting when a…
/r/seduction04/03/22 01:07 AM
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Remember: The thought of Backing Down from a staring contest is the scariest part. THAT is what makes you break eye contact. If you maintain “These are my eyes, I’m in control of them, I control all I gaze upon - everything in my field of vision is to be under control” then you’ll have no problem. I’m not saying Control as in you’re allowed to Control people. What I’m saying is, if you go breaching into a room with a gun, everything in your vision - in front of your gun - is the “Control Zone”. …
/r/seduction04/03/22 12:55 AM
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The thing is, it’s not “Good” advice, it’s neutral-grey amoral advice which will only harm you and the others involved - when they find out you never were capable of loving them. This is me speaking as someone who employs the tactics you do because I haven’t much idea what else to do. Eyes just seem to draw people, but no matter how much they’re drawn to me I never let myself hit a “Love” point, let alone an infatuation point if I can try hard enough. It feels like being mindcontrolled. Fuck Lov…
/r/seduction04/03/22 12:45 AM
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Fuck off with that, what girl looks slutty approaching a dude? Every girl that has ever approached me or my friends has been met with kindness and appreciation for having the balls to do it. I’ve NEVER met or even heard of a girl being slut shamed for doing such a thing in a western country. “We get slut shamed all the time when we do it” “okay when was the last time you did it?” “About that…we didn’t, but we could tell that’s what people would say”. Just a bunch of insecure what-if’s. Drawn fro…
/r/seduction04/03/22 12:22 AM
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Yeah that part too. Adults have always been easier to talk to in my case
/r/seduction02/03/22 05:02 AM
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They seem to be appreciated by older women more. All the gentleman advice parents give works on parents, just not as much with the youngin’s, that takes more confidence
/r/seduction02/03/22 04:26 AM
12

YOU own the car. You’re in the exact same scenario as if you just picked up a hitchhiking stranger, or if you were an uber driver. Cab drivers don’t talk much, but Ubers are way more casual. You’re driving an uber, and your pay is possible connection and/or a single-serve friend to talk to. Your pay is a possible relationship, you’re paid on commission. You get “paid” if you just chill out and drive like an Uber and make conversation. Go for a 5 star rating. Not talking gets you 3 stars or below…
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:31 AM
5

Yeah ditch those people, they’re using you. It’s shitty. Go find people that will introduce you to people.
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:08 AM
2

Somehow get around to asking the question “So what can Yoga do for me? Will I be better at sex?” Uhhhh good luck, remember to pace yourself, get it lubed up first, don’t just shove the sex joke in there - it’s never a good idea to ram in at full speed.
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:48 AM
2

All I’m hearing is “I don’t love myself, I’m unwanted by my own self, I consider myself below average, I’m the worst, I hate MYSELF”. Nobody else hates you unless you’ve given them reason to. Love your self, chummer, you’re the only one in the world who is capable of always giving that to yourself. Everyone else will be hit or miss, depends if they end up liking you. Never EVER base your sense of self worth on others liking you. Are you someone YOU would look up to? Why the hell not? What have y…
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:37 AM
1

Yeah that’s pretty much it. Practice your game in front of a mirror, practice your ordinary life in front of a mirror. Make every part of your life as being simply YOU. There’s no “Dating Game” You, and “Sportsball” You, and so on and so on. It’s all YOU. So just be, and adapt for the environment as YOU would. Not what “Game” would. Be YOURSELF.
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:03 AM
2

These ones liked you despite not “doing the steps”. Great sign Works for some, doesn’t work for others. Seduction is guidelines mostly
/r/seduction28/02/22 10:44 PM
6

The mind doesn’t take jokes or sarcasm. Don’t ever say you can’t do something. It will take it literally and you’ll be stuck there. You can try, but there is no try. Do or Do not, there is no Try and there is no Can’t* *barring exceptional circumstance like disability Life finds a way, and you’re life. You not having confidence is actually natural if you have had difficulties finding a mate, rejection does that. It’s okay. It’s a part of natures, it happens to all animals - “defeated male leaves…
/r/seduction28/02/22 06:02 AM
0

She’ll probably just think you’re a guy with options if you’re approaching. If you have a gf she KNOWS you’re not supposed to approach, soooo if you’re approaching it’s a good sign for her - cheating or not, dating your friend or not. Go without her next time but your friend might’ve actually bumped you up in your crushes mind inadvertently - which could’ve been her plan or she was innocently checking callouses or she’s claiming you for herself but not dating you…ie. making an orbiter out of you…
/r/seduction28/02/22 04:01 AM
23

You die alone when you face rejection, why not bring death closer, SOONER?! Go get stabbed by some spicy latinas, you deserve it
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:15 PM
0

No no, he’s got a point
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:10 PM
1

Aaaaand what do you do about looks? All you can do is stack yourself to the highest limit of what you’re given. This is why looks aren’t important. If you look YOUR best 100% of the time, there’s nothing else to change but the way you work your game. Self-Love is the key, love yourself first in all aspects so you can become a healthy functional person in entirety, then you can go pick girls up. If you don’t have your life together, where it feels like you’re running on rails - you can’t divert o…
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:09 PM
1

Man your text game must be weak as shit, then Not that it needs to be strong, there’s other ways. But if she’s gonna text bomb you in the relationship, being able to keep up sometimes at will is good to keep you in her mind when you’re away. You get a lesser chance at a breakup or divorce that way. “He didn’t pay enough attention/He paid too much attention”, this is just striking a balance. Make texting fun, not dull and “yo x place y time be there”, do it as you can, don’t completely invest in …
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:51 AM
3

Do that too, either way you slice it, it’s a fear you have to face. Walking away from a friendship, maybe two if homeboy knew you liked her and went against you if you guys talked about it, bro code can be subjective for those situations. Or you face it continue your friendships. Either way, those probably won’t be the people you’re with on your death bed, but if they are - consider thanking yourself right now for your future self, and in the future thank yourself for taking the leap in the past…
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:46 AM
1

Be Higher energy and don’t let them get you down - decide whether you can sustain being around someone low energy, generally high energy can’t mix with low energy. Different wavelengths, emotionally and psychologically. Can be incompatible. Not to say it always works that way but it’s a general rule, some people can mould to different people but typically you’re better off picking someone who matches your vibe.
/r/seduction27/02/22 08:43 AM
2

So, you’ve escalated “touch” to the ultimate level, on the first go. Didn’t even have to touch her hand. This should make you way more comfortable touching other people normally now, eh? You touched a woman on the inside, your next attempts can certainly include touching inside Mate I’ve had dates where a girl wanted to kiss and fuck and I completely did not see that at all. To me it was just a coffee date but she touched my hand, touched my thigh but laughed it off like a joke and I believed he…
/r/seduction27/02/22 02:13 AM
1

I still don’t see what the issue is. If you’re alone at the club I’d assume talking to 10% of the people in there would be normal. Is it not? None of my friends have ever taken me to a club, and I’ve gone to a local bar. Small town bars you can talk with everyone and anyone, I have no experience with cities
/r/seduction27/02/22 01:54 AM
16

Mate she’s in your head if you think like that. Don’t give a shit. Cut it off, who cares what she thinks? She’s going to draw 1000 different conclusions, none of them will be right except for one of them - and who cares if she gets it right. She hasn’t “found you out”, instead you’re just living your life and continuing on. Move on, bruv, for your own sake. It’s going to hurt you more if you don’t and you keep trying to be low key, searching for some reason to drop her when you have an out right…
/r/seduction27/02/22 01:29 AM
6

So, think of a warrior in the field, he’s trained up on HIS “Game” of swinging a sword, he doesn’t need to stance up anymore, every moment of every day he’s primed to swing the sword, whether he’s eating an apple, standing relaxed, soon as shit goes down he’s already ready. Like, soldiers on downtime are already ready to go into combat mentally, they’re just relaxing at the moment. This. Don’t stance up like you’re still practicing, “okay, now I’m in Game mode”. Just Be. Just be yourself, your g…
/r/seduction27/02/22 12:36 AM
3

Fearing an altered state of confidence is just one more excuse for our fears to cast doubts. What if you consider the opposite? “My confidence won’t be shattered by a rejection; I’ll just find another or go play Pool or something”. Don’t give Fear an inch, it’ll take not just a mile, it takes the entire mental-planet. Instead if thinking of the negatives, really catch when you’re thinking in negatives. Do the opposite, supplant negative thoughts with positive ones. “Would I have fun if I was hav…
/r/seduction27/02/22 12:00 AM
1

No, girls really don’t like it when a guy is funny it just rubs them the wrong way or something. Tryhard or whatever, they really don’t like funny people - nobody does I hope this is seen sarcastically but…/s just in case
/r/seduction26/02/22 08:36 PM
1

What’s chess?
/r/seduction26/02/22 01:28 AM
13

That’s why you never join a circle and just float through circles. Make friends with everyone, forget “borders”
/r/seduction26/02/22 12:47 AM
1

No, not like that. You could say “I feel comfortable around you” but girls can pick meaning out of anything - this could imply you don’t feel comfortable around other girls. A) This either says something about you to her, rather, it says something about how she views people - easy opportunity for her to misinterpret it. B) She feels flattered and accepts the compliment that she’s easy to vibe with, could further compliment she seems open and chill - noticing her feminine confidence. C) Any myria…
/r/seduction26/02/22 12:06 AM
2

TL;DR - Find a way to turn anything bad in your life into a good thing. “A chance to prove myself, that’s all I need”. Filter your experiences to see the good in the bad, the forest for the trees. Hey, think of life like sparring. You can learn a lot about life by taking a martial art, one of those things is you learn about challenges, and taking hits. You took a kick to the rib, it hurt for an instant - it’s now the problem set ahead of you, right? To let the impact hurt you further wouldn’t on…
/r/seduction25/02/22 11:52 PM
2

You’re a 10/10 YOU.
/r/seduction25/02/22 10:52 PM
1

Ask yourself the opposite question. What sort of Game does Porn give me? Cheesy porno lines. That’s it.
/r/seduction25/02/22 10:51 PM
0

It’s situational, engage that energy - don’t worry about specifics. Context is everything Some girls read erotic literature, doing this isn’t all that hard by comparison. Just be a good writer, you have to imagine it just as much as you want her to imagine it, so do that while texting. Review it afterward after putting it down for maybe 10 seconds, get a sober mind, fix it up if needed and send it. Return to whatever you’re doing, rinse repeat, escalate slowly, as in when you’re walking you’ll l…
/r/seduction25/02/22 09:07 AM
2

Yeah dynamics are great, fluid dynamics in relationships are a blessing, both sides being switchy
/r/seduction25/02/22 03:41 AM
14

Maybe but even still it’s not. Feels powerful to go down on a girl, it’s immediate force feedback the entire time to reinforce it. Shit’s weird
/r/seduction25/02/22 03:28 AM
6

“I don’t want you coming around here anymore, If I really hated you I’d just ignore you and walk off, but I can’t do that which is why you’ll only get in my way” - Takumi Fujiwara, Initial D Walk off, man. Ignore her and walk off, like you’re perfect strangers. Your memories of her are an alternate timeline, it happened to you but never happened between you - not after the break up. Same goes for her, it happened to her but you were never a part of her life. Y’know? Mutually. Ignore her and walk…
/r/seduction25/02/22 02:37 AM
38

Bruh, how is it cucky? Cucking only pertains to enjoying how she takes other guys. That’s it. If you record yourself because you get off on the idea of cucking, so you’ll “cuck” yourself - you’re not cucking, you’re making a sex tape. Cucking involves another man, where’d you get this silly idea that eating puss is akin to cucking? Give your head a shake
/r/seduction25/02/22 02:21 AM
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Hey, I struggle with those ways of identifying as well. My mom used to imply I had a girly body by saying all the girls would be jealous of ME, not the girls who were with me. She raised me independently of my father, I learned more about being a woman than a man, and would be crying every time I did anything with him on the weekends because I wasn’t manly enough. It took me until now, 22, and parsing out 19 years of abuse that I remember to be able to look at my body and go “That’s a male body……
/r/seduction25/02/22 12:15 AM
1

Nope, I’ve had sex - and have gone through a SA (hesitant to say the stronger word) when I was younger with a woman, weird time. I should focus on bettering myself, sex can wait. It’s kinda overrated
/r/seduction24/02/22 09:16 PM
1

Sometimes work goes unappreciated, but it’s unappreciated all the same. It sucks, it’s not a shame - there’s no shame, you put in effort. They’re just not into that for reasons, or they’re selfish It might be a me thing, dunno if he’d agree, but if a girl told me in detail all the work she put in, that would make me weak at the knees, it puts an image in the head - for me I basically imagine the person saying that to be doing it, and then jump in their shoes and be the one doing as them so I got…
/r/seduction24/02/22 08:51 AM
6

I do the same thing, it’s a habit of mine, it is seeking some sort of validation at some root - everyone does, we’re social creatures. Just notice when you’re doing it, it helps keep a clear mind for focus, all thoughts get sorted into it’s mailbox, and makes it easier to recall thoughts. Expressing thoughts as they come up and not organizing them, leaving them scattered on the desk leads to a cluttered mind, which leads to scattered functionality instead of being on a singular purpose which has…
/r/seduction24/02/22 08:45 AM
1

Who the fuck avoids eating pussy when offered? Gays are understandable, dirty is understandable but if it’s clean that should be like a buffet table, she should get off as much or more on it. It’s not sex otherwise, it’s just masturbation - booooo what a lame-o
/r/seduction24/02/22 06:36 AM
1

Don’t get caught up in her but DO ask her out. The ones that stay on your mind like that are the ones you’re interested in. The rest are just pretty girls, who didn’t stick on the brain. Ask this one out, if you get rejected be very grateful to yourself for taking a chance.
/r/seduction24/02/22 05:01 AM
4

This is a form of bioenergetics, whatever that is. It gets your pain out, your nervousness. You’re speaking softly because you’re not confident, from a “Personal Space” stand point, you’re not giving your voice any room to breath, you’re gating off the decibels, when it would be perfectly acceptable to speak a little louder to reach a normal tone. I spent 18 years hating my father for the way he raised me, and one day I found a video. I couldn’t express emotions, I became a shell of a man. This …
/r/seduction24/02/22 04:26 AM
5

Very much so /s
/r/seduction23/02/22 10:12 PM
2

Yeah, this would be playing the Hoe Phase Game, definitely not the Long Term Strat, and it’s not really meant for long term strat
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:36 PM
1

That’s the thing, I don’t really approach. If I do, I’m masking as whatever the hell goodboy my parents wanted me to be before 15. Escort and prostitutes are out of the question for a few reasons, one: that’s sadder than misogyny. “I hate women, but fuuuuck I need sex” like… The other part of it, I don’t respect them. That’s not to say I’ll go out and disrespect them, that’s never been something I entertain, I keep all that inside my head, and vent it out to reddit
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:36 PM
1

Great to know, generally I’m a pleasant guy, was for the last 16 years - guess life’s wearing on me. I’ll tend to my emotional wounds before trying to date
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:32 PM
21

It’ll have pickups in front of it instead of cars
/r/seduction23/02/22 10:24 AM
1

I hear chicks dig jaded, allows men to come off as brooding and mysterious - but they won’t admit to jaded. “Jaded guys are creeps”. Like, bruh…you want brooding and mysterious but not jaded…do you hear yourself?! It can’t be done” Ya dig?
/r/seduction23/02/22 07:03 AM
1

Less of a meltdown and more just an opportunity to get every piece of “Game Logic” into a post, because I’m sick of feeling like I have the handbook and can’t share it. I’m not bashing them down, necessarily, I’m moreso punching across. Us as guys hear all the time about Men’s Wrongs, even that us being Men is wrong. You never hear Women’s Wrongs, and if you do - EVERYONE lambastes that guy - “Defend all women”, y’know. Now, why would guys, who have a better understanding of the bullshit women p…
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:59 AM
-5

Mate, I tried writing a big old essay for you, but I’ve posted plenty of those here. I’ll put it in point form. Women control the world, through Men. This world is a Covert Matriarchy, and they let the men think it’s an Overt Patriarchy. They even call attention to that, and never shut up about it. Never EVER considering to listen to the idea that women understand men’s minds way better than we understand them - and use that to get whatever they want from us. KNOW that women are manipulative and…
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:24 AM
9

“Not even gonna grace that with a response. Bye”. Better yet, ghosting will get that same message across. In your head, you’re “scared to respond” in both yours and her head. In HER head, she just got brutally rejected. Good job :D Mate, place yourself in her shoes. THIS is a GIRL’S version of a copypasta. They have shit tons of dudes asking them out, and they don’t reciprocate BUT they’ll keep them around for validation. “Friendship”. They tarnish the name of friendship, us dudes don’t do that …
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:17 AM
3

Eye contact, feet positioning, open or closed body language, and noticing if they’re often closed off BUT open up for you - or maybe the opposite.
/r/seduction22/02/22 02:55 AM
1

Mate you’re the reason girls call us dumb for not catching signals. If it feels lowkey, it’s likely a sign. If it feels cold, it’s not a sign. Girls are easy to read. Figure out when they’re cold towards you. If they’re not, then you’re clear for takeoff
/r/seduction21/02/22 08:00 AM
1

Not that they don’t put in effort, it’s just that it’s akin to easier for them to lift 50lbs whereas it takes more effort for you lift that same weight. It’s the same work done, it comes down to social strength
/r/seduction20/02/22 10:53 PM
73

Based and True
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:22 AM
4

Didn’t have to take your studs out to show him! You just dropped a building on him dude!
/r/seduction19/02/22 10:17 PM
0

“I’m being racist by allowing myself to be afraid of being the minority”. Not saying you said this, but you’re talking yourself out of going. In the cultural landscape we live in, assuming you’re white - you might feel very out of place and ashamed of your pigment because the world says you should be. Ignore that attempt at oppression. I watched a video of a small black child in Africa get approached by a white man with some guides, the children were terrified. They thought the white man was a g…
/r/seduction19/02/22 01:33 AM
2

You drop that attitude and start approaching girls. Girls approaching you is not the norm. Show confidence, show openness, show that you’re approachable - a buddy of mine has a sort of feminine charm to him that has made a lot of girls approach him. Don’t be girl, but don’t be so masculine that you’re intimidating. Chill, relaxed, calm, cool, collected, vibing, and emanating vibes. Sitting reading a book, closed off. Sitting at a commons table and doing some homework, spread it out a bit - allow…
/r/seduction18/02/22 10:52 PM
2

Become them. Match their vibe. This is just creating a different branch of You, this is not replacing You. All parts of you are you, if you’re a doctor by day and a death metal drummer by night, so be it. Both of those “You’s” are equally valid as an expression of who you are inside. Changing your look outside doesn’t change you on the inside. So if you want to mingle with vastly different crowds, you have to assimilate yourself into that crowd, and remember who you were before that so you don’t…
/r/seduction18/02/22 10:17 PM
2

I thought this, and this was the first comment. I love it!
/r/seduction18/02/22 11:04 AM
2

Yeah bro, it sucks being tall and lanky. Not just for us, but girls too. There’s nothing to cuddle but a few sticks and some skin and flesh to hold it in place. Bulk up, you’ll not be bone solid, muscle when relaxed acts as a good pillow. Body fat works as a pillow too, but it’s a jello-ey pillow, y’know? Muscle-pillow is like a headrest or a couch, it’s proper comfy. Get some bulk on ya, I’m 6’0” @ 144lbs, I gotta bulk too. We can PM some tips or make sure we’re keeping up on caloric intake and…
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:36 AM
2

Yo, come back to your post, read it. Is the writer being compassionate to themselves? Is the writer aware that there are infinite opportunities? Probably not, because each negative feeling creates a box around us. A literal glass ceiling of our own mind. Reread and give compassion to the writer, who will end up having been you, and then show yourself some compassion. See your bedroom? There’s a Jerk-Off Demon in there, call it a succubus if you want. It wants you to be drained so you can’t face …
/r/seduction17/02/22 10:54 PM
8

I always approach women as if I’m befriending them first, BUT always give off “more than a friend” vibes. And if I can somehow let them know “Yeah,I wake up and do a LOT of shit, I have lots of fun and could be a great source of fun for you”. All implied of course, never a good idea to let the advertised know they’ve been advertised to. Better to let them have the cinematic experience of watching a car on the open desert road with a vibey sound track going on. Play to their emotions, not their l…
/r/seduction16/02/22 08:58 PM
31

You can ignore or hit her up. What if she’s just in your phone as a booty call, try setting that up? Don’t talk to her, she talks to you. Like, think of it like a pen pal in another country, and you talk occasionally. Keep it fuckboy on those ones. She either ignores you, like you want, or she fucks you; like you want. She ignored you first, return the favour. Make HER into an orbiter. This is my movement. Reversing the tactics, but also having an excuse. Work. Not “busy”.
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:40 AM
12

Notice when you’re being a wallflower. It takes root and the longer you sit there the harder you’re going to have to pull to get out there. The roots are based and fear, and latch you to a wall, a chair, the floor, it’ll turn you away from people, close you off and suffocate you. The faster you notice yourself being a wallflower, the faster you’ll notice everyone is mingling and you’re sitting around. It’s not weird for you to mingle too, it only seems like it because you’re in your head stuck i…
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:37 AM
2

My family is a reality show waiting to happen, but we’ve burned out of each other and all sorta split. Kinda wanted to stoke the flames and make us some bank at the same time by trying to host it as a show. Some wild shit. Like hoarders and maury in two households with issues throughout the whole family, it’s fun watching reality tv and then seeing life be that funny, then it’s completely normal for everyone else, non-dysfunctional families. Everyone else’s life feels fake to me, like a nativity…
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:26 AM
5

I’m hesitant to ask what kind of group you mean. The helpful kind or the scary kind
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:20 AM
13

Then why was the house also covered in ants and fruit flies? They existed in the house, they just propagated to the free decaying organic matter awaiting consumption I bet you those fruit flies ate his children. Flies. Ate. Babies. Horrid.
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:29 AM
38

Those things will forever haunt me. Was cleaning out my brother’s house to move, there was fruit flies crawling out of it and his fleshlight I found in his nightstand that he used as an end table…he slept in the living room. Should’ve known. Scarred me from real pussy too, and anal. Fuuuuck man, they were everywhere. Don’t think I’ll ever be clean again. Dunno what’s worse, that or finding my mother’s sex toy under her bed (she also slept in the living room, the mattress doubled as a couch, prob…
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:12 AM
2

The’s a good thing to note. I don’t have to be a rock, I can be made of styrofoam. I just gotta look real
/r/seduction15/02/22 06:17 PM
1

Myself and a few girls. Been hurt ever since, and I don’t think it’s fixable
/r/seduction15/02/22 06:16 PM
3

Is that considered chasing thought? To me that feels like I’m floating from a pie, and it feels pathetic, and somewhat demeaning to me. Like being led along by a finger. Makes me feel like being led on a leash. Gotta get pride stepped on, I suppose
/r/seduction15/02/22 08:45 AM
9

Next time it happens, hold your ground. You’re staying, unless SHE blows you away. You goal is her, not him. Make it known through body language that you’re not moving, you’re planted there. No need for aggression or “cool guy movie badass type” lines, just keep it relaxed, you own every room you walk into. So does everyone else, your level of confidence is your “shareholder stake” in ownership of the room. If they’re more confident, they muscle you out and you walk away. If you’re more confiden…
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:33 PM
4

That’s why you just kinda look at them like they’re the problem, only the don’t know. And, they are. They’re jumping into the middle of a conversation, the girl might “appreciate” that help, but will also probably feel “i can protect myself, this guy’s harmless to me”. Take her side in seeing that guy as annoying, don’t bring it up until she says something about it. “I don’t wanna shit talk your friends, that’s rude I keep it to myself - but I agree. What a dick”. And then continue with the nigh…
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:31 PM
1

So I could pay to be in this space, and just doodle some drawings in the corner? The “club” is just for hanging out, if they happen to bang then so be it. That’s just prostitution with extra steps. A loophole
/r/seduction13/02/22 11:55 PM
1

But then you’re a barbarian for wanting to stick to the old ways. I don’t stick to them for a love of them I stick to it because that what humans are, THEN I can progress in thought. Most want to just progress in thought and not return to their roots. They don’t even know what they’re progressing, just as long as it progresses
/r/seduction13/02/22 11:49 PM
1

I just don’t even understand what a swingers club is. I understood swingers to be couples that screw other couples. I got that from british television. But reading comments, it sounds like it’s a group that brings in money to pay for a space where they can bone. But that opens the doors for profiting on it, and that becomes prostitution but is more closely aligned with pay-to-play Orgies
/r/seduction13/02/22 11:47 PM
1

How is a Swingers Club different from a prostitution club? Sounds like you pay money to join a club where you bang people vs paying someone directly for sex. How is that legal? Not saying it shouldn’t be, but how does it dodge prostitution restrictions?
/r/seduction13/02/22 11:34 PM
2

Yeah been living that life since I was 6. It’s cringe, but I used to stay indoors and read art of war, way of the warrior, any matter of material that would make me a stone face rock ready to kill anything - because that’s what history was. Being a lone man fighting for his life. Society these days is very backwards compared to that, but the skills still help in this world to keep you grounded and undistracted. This world has a lot of distractions when all that matters is “Wake up, Work the Farm…
/r/seduction13/02/22 11:30 PM
2

Do you know how MUCH MY PARENTS SACRIFICED?!
/r/seduction13/02/22 10:15 PM
5

So…12? If there’s a 12 case of beer, that’s enough to party, so old enough to party’s gotta be 12, right?
/r/seduction13/02/22 10:10 PM
2

My life. My family is unpredictable. You can ask for something one day and be fine, but ask another day on the opposite end of the year and suddenly you’re ungrateful for asking anything of your parents. So I had to find a work around. Avoid what you want, you can mention “Eh yeah it’s cool, whatever” if you’re asked if you think something’s cool but the more chill you are about something - the better. The more you wish to not have it, the more likely you’ll be to have it. Not always. But often …
/r/seduction13/02/22 01:05 AM
1

You’re allowed to like something if you can’t have it. But showing outward indifference lets you compartmentalize it and store it away in your mind. If you hate something, why would you think about it? So if you want to buy a Lambo, hate Lambos for a while, stop looking at them stop talking about them. Focus on saving money and other things. Need to stop buying this or that to make money goals? Hate that which you used to love within your budget. Smoker? Hate smokes now. Use the irritation from …
/r/seduction12/02/22 08:35 PM
1

Is it wrong to suggest that her saying she usually does it when drunk mean she’d be dtf but is just used to being drunk? Why not mutually agree to get drunk and have sex. You both consent at the same time when you can still do it, you both get drunk at the same time, if either wants to rescind the consent they no longer have after starting, they can, because they consented at the beginning and it’s been withdrawn. For either party. Or is this taking advantage? I’ve told girls “I can only fuck wh…
/r/seduction12/02/22 09:42 AM
1

Focus on school, everything else is a rabbit. Go pet rabbits when you’re in the mood to. Avoiding falling into a specific clique keeps your people options open, which in turn keeps your options for girls open. Approach everyone and float.
/r/seduction12/02/22 09:25 AM
1

Yeah, girl adds you, ignore her back, it goes to her court, she responds, keep it sweet and short, it progresses from then on
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:06 AM
2

It’s only weird for the related parties. The non-related party I’d assume of both sexes would be coming out on top if they were the ones interested. That said, don’t cheat on your wife. Cheating on her will blow up your life. More headache than it’s worth. If you want a loyal woman, be loyal. If you do do it, it’s gonna have to be ALL on the girls. She will have to ask your wife, she will have to broach it with you first - you are not to seem interested in it in anyway. If you want something, bu…
/r/seduction12/02/22 02:33 AM
2

Another way to gauge if they like you in a conversation is the same thing as guys texting girls. It’s the frequency of responses, and the amount of response given back each time, including the body of what’s written. How much is there to work with? But instead of us overdoing it, check if she’s “overdoing” it Use SILENCE to your advantage. We as humans dislike silences, it leaves too much uncertainty about whether it’s a good awkward silence or a bad one. Silence is always comfortable and good, …
/r/seduction12/02/22 02:09 AM
2

Flip the script. A girl is dating two guys, she don’t feel bad about it. She’s just trying on a new pair of pants while she tries a shirt on. Then she picks one. She ain’t trying two pairs of pants at the same time, she’s investigating two different options at the same time. Fuck em, bro, quit feeling guilty. THEY want you to feel guilty, while they go out guilt-free and get a train run on them. Fuck bitches, get money, and don’t care bout no bitch’s feelings unless she’s your wife and demonstra…
/r/seduction12/02/22 01:47 AM
1

Eh, I read this compliment more as “You’re perfectly imperfect, just like the rest of us”. Not really calling her perfect, it’s just saying she looks fine and not ugly. She just didn’t think about it deep enough, she latched onto perfect, what mans really said was “You average”. Good job. Keep calling these hoes average, deflate their over inflated egos
/r/seduction12/02/22 01:31 AM
3

Mate, you have to put in any work to get somewhere. If you don’t put in work, you don’t get lucky. Only people making their own luck will get any true luck rewarded. Sit around, you’re not gonna have many opportunities to get lucky in anything Fortune favours the bold.
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:54 PM
5

Bro, if she shot you down your feelings would he hurt. Do it gently, but make it clear it’s a rejection. Should honestly be simple enough. You can’t account for their reaction, so say it however you want. Mate you’re a dude. You already have to deal with approach anxiety, you’re gonna let yourself get anxious over rejecting someone you don’t like? You don’t like them. What does it matter? Don’t worry about saving face. That’s a girl thing…be a Man
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:13 PM
1

Don’t double glove it makes condoms less effective
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:07 AM
18

Still seduced your mom thoooo 😜
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:00 AM
2

You know what puts me in a slump? It’s the easiest equation ever. Activity vs Inactivity. Am I being inactive in how I can handle a problem? Yes? Then what the fuck am I bitching about? Am I active in solving the problem and it’s still not working? Okay, why am I bitching? Did I expect it to fall on my lap just because “i’m trying”? Fuck no. Life will pose failures for you. Big deal. Failure isn’t a failure if you keep trying. And, I know “keep trying” won’t work after rejection, that’s a recipe…
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:33 AM
3

But being alone is better than being ignored. When all a guy is to a girl is a number, there’s zero value for having been put in her phone. “Better than no matches”. Nah, it’s worse. She DOESN’T want to match with YOU, she just wants numbers in her phone. Pretty shitty, if you ask me
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:07 AM
3

The fact that most guys and girls don’t meet the basic requirements for being a functioning person makes the functional ones stand out
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:05 AM
4

This goes for everyone on earth. You all aren’t shit. I’m not shit. Fuck you (me), fuck your (my) mother, fuck your (my) dog that died last year, none of us are special. We’d all like to think we’re exception though. Treat yourself and everyone around as they SHOULD be valued, not under or overvalued. If everyone’s dirt, nobody will be, and we go back to being regular old humans
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:03 AM
2

Bruh, any excuse you give yourself to not talk to girls because of some fictitious, false label you pre-apply to yourself due to future actions, without KNOWING if it’ll turn out in your favour, is just some pussy-ass bitch boy logic. Guaranteed if mine or your old man were given their youth back, they’d mop the floor with us because: They’re confident, and they don’t give a fuck. Girl said no? Called me creepy? Who fucking cares, onto the next girl. She hasn’t called me creepy yet”. Like, get o…
/r/seduction10/02/22 01:55 AM
1

Jump into conversations with them with two things in the back of your mind: 1) What the arms doing? Am I sitting relaxed? Am I claiming an adequate amount of space for MYSELF, regardless of others being around? Are my arms shutting myself off? Am I looking confident? 2) Do I like this person’s character? Do they bore me, even if I could look at them all day? Would I be able to tolerate them on a drive where I can’t just stare at her all day? When I sparred back in taekwondo, you know what the bi…
/r/seduction10/02/22 01:30 AM
1

Not all women. And you might surprise yourself with day game. That takes more balls then waiting for a sanctioned time to go fucking around with girls. Besides, what distinguishes you from one of the many girls who approached at night? Nothing. Approach in the day and you shine above the others that already went “Yeahhhh, girls don’t do daytime anymore”. Says who? The women? The betas who nervously approached in the day the same way as night time? With uncertainty? With day game, you can go “I’m…
/r/seduction10/02/22 01:01 AM
2

Bro, asking girls AT NIGHT is creepier than during the day. They can be more sure that you won’t attack them in broad daylight than they would at night. Besides, if your experience of girls is heavily leaning towards night, you’re missing out on a lot of daytime interaction. Day game works, takes more balls, and creates a warmer environment for everyone there, night time is 50/50 this guy will rape me. Day game is 80/20, this guy will rape me - it’s safer to play in the day
/r/seduction10/02/22 12:56 AM
1

To the ego, it’s a loss of life. That’s why it hurts so much to be rejected. It can’t distinguish between mortal injury and emotional injury. In a way, it’s similar. At least to the mind. It’s still pain that the mind is trying to avoid.
/r/seduction09/02/22 09:29 PM
1

If people are cutting you off, cut them off first. If you can see an iceberg coming your way, move out of the way. This isn’t a hard concept. Live your life for only you, filter through who you want. You don’t even need to interact with the person for a long time, if they show signs of not wanting to interact but they say how much they enjoy interacting, they’re just tryna keep you around. Why waste your time? It’s more hassle free, and you become more selective of who you hang around. Not an as…
/r/seduction09/02/22 08:30 PM
2

Yeah, you prepped for a swing when she was messing with rope on the post. Untying it rather than chopping it. She was playing games, doing fuckery to the rope. No deal, so you readied for a swing - you communicated you’d cut it off. This scared her away from “ruining such a good thing” when she was fucking you about, and she stopped. She was gonna lose an option, and that happening is not an option to them, the option can’t just leave. Who does this man think he is? …it’s all bullshit mind games…
/r/seduction09/02/22 08:24 PM
1

She’d do the same, why give your heart out so early? Be as selective as she is. Cut the rope to the bridge at the first sign she starts swinging to cut her rope. Follow people’s intentions
/r/seduction09/02/22 06:56 AM
1

Bruh you fucked your cousin, stfu about dick disciple, good lord
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:00 AM
11

Think your brain can tell the difference between No-Fly List and “Approved for Fucking”? God damn, you Alabama mama llama ding dong dumbass!
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:58 AM
1

You keep trying to build options. Think about it like building a wall of options, each option is a brick. She don’t want it? That’s a brick off the wall, go find a new brick because that old one is broke AF. Keep laying bricks, keep finding bricks, keep making bricks. Go build that wall, discover momentum
/r/seduction08/02/22 02:20 AM
2

Building sexual tension with girls takes wanting to build sexual tension WITH them. Not towards them. It’s chemistry, its calibrating yourself to them or them to you, or both. Both, actually. If you want to be sexual with them, do it. Crack the door, get a toe in the water, then get your ankle to the water, then a leg, then your hips, by god you’re halfway there. Commit. Not even in a “commit to a relationship” sense, just in a “I want to jump the shark” way. You’re scared because you know you c…
/r/seduction08/02/22 02:06 AM
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Shit, THAT’S too much. Fuck I need to put the phone down for a while then
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:37 PM
1

It feels like an insult but that’s just fax. Brain advice, not dick-brain advice
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:40 AM
1

No no, he’s got a point. Don’t pedestalize them. Any woman, matter of fact. Means you settled for less any time you don’t have a model girlfriend. They’re all made with the same parts, they’re all kit cars tryna look like Ferraris but most run like a Ford Focus. Ferrari on the outside, shit and guts on the inside. Nothing special Just like every last one of us
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:23 PM
3

So, girls play these games on the regular, one week is a huge rookie move in their eyes so she uni reverse you, aikido’d your weight and doubled it with force. Ya played yo self. Ask out, dip out, don’t wait that long again.
/r/seduction04/02/22 06:34 AM
2

Take inventory of your day to day tasks, your week to weeks, month to month, year to year. Start with year to year when you aren’t busy, or if you’re busy RIGHT NOW start with the present moment of “what am I doing right now?” When you’re not busy think of big life goals, then think small and medium picture on how you’re going to pull that off. As you do what you need to for yourself, check the map, compass, and sextant to navigate your life ship. Correct course if needed. Life is only stressful…
/r/seduction04/02/22 05:52 AM
1

This is just finding prostitutes with extra steps. Do something productive with that money why waste it? That’s just burning money, provide value to other people through productive ideas, not just giving them money. You’re suppose to set their wallets on fire not your own. Doing that makes you more money anyway, mo money mo bitches mo problems my guy
/r/seduction04/02/22 05:22 AM
0

Doesn’t make me gay…
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:13 AM
4

Success grows where attention of the mind is focused. Mind your decisions and only your decisions
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:09 AM
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Wish I were. Girls are fucked, at least homies will have your back through it all because there isn’t a relationship riding on that. Girls is like having a guy friend, then that guy friend is no longer a friend over something that normally guy friends could get back together with over. Girls is just a whole other world of weird. “Happy Wife, Happy Life”, right? What about a man’s happiness that he slaves away in search of and when returning to a place it should be, he can’t find it? Women wanna …
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:06 AM
-1

Mate, why not forget girls? Better yet, introduce a concept to yourself: Women THEMSELVES are a Concept. Take the concept of men, they feel just peachy to be around, it’s generally easy to bro down with any dude, you’re automatically part of a group, you can make best friends with any of them. What are women as a concept, from the view of men? A good time for a short time, periodic but common bursts of dissatisfaction in the home, not of your group, this group these days is generally hostile yet…
/r/seduction04/02/22 01:54 AM
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A secret for you brah: You haven’t truly caught feelings for her until you determine that you’d want to marry her, and until you’re married you haven’t caught feelings for her. Anything you’re feeling is some type of lust, could be LUST lust, could be cutesy lovey dovey lust - that second being WAY more close to what love is, it’s just an imitation of it - whatever it is…it’s lust and infatuation. Not LOVE. Love is a much more, mmm, laidback feeling. If lust is an inferno from a dragon’s mouth, …
/r/seduction03/02/22 10:01 PM
1

Nobody goes out and does it by accident. That’s some anime or porn logic. “It just fell it, but I like it so I’ll keep doing it”. WHAT?!
/r/seduction03/02/22 09:24 PM
1

Girls? What are girls? I’ve never heard of the girls of whom you speak of. I see these other human like creatures, like they took some brothers and carved down their skeletons, stuffed their breasts and behinds, just rearranged everything - just some warped facsimile of a man. What are they?
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:30 AM
2

Say it another away: You look like you have a low body count. “You don’t seem like someone with a high bodycount” is just an insult and a way to mask it. Think mean, then say it gently. That’s girls - some are better than others
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:23 PM
4

Monk mode gets them fucked up
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:20 PM
2

Know where to direct your eye contact. This is big for public speaking. You can look ALL OVER the room, anywhere you want. Only SOMETIMES do you bring it back to eye contact, just to keep them engaged. As a “fight”, thing of it as engaging, pushing it away, then bringing them back in, disengage, bring it back in. Eventually it’ll get to a point where you engage when you’re engaged but otherwise your mind is elsewhere. Then if it seems to you that you’re a little too disengaged, bring eye contact…
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:10 PM
0

Sounds like Evil Women moment, using you two to pit men against each other. I would, even just out of curiosity of those womanly powers. It’s manipulative bullshit if that’s what it is Like a married woman lying about her marriage and setting a situation up where one “loser” gets beat up and her boyfriend gets jealous, and she gets attention. As a man, if I got attention on the level of women, I’d get addicted to that shit.
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:30 AM
3

If you choose to love ALL women, as like “oh know I only see you like a sister”, then you notice which of your sisters are attracted to you. And you get to decide if you go for them or not. They hold that brother model, not literal brother or sister just that closeness thing - call it what it is, wanting orbiters. Not “oh step bro I’m stuck”, I’m talking seeing everyone as platonic brothers and sisters and then finding the romantic signals towards you and not just everyone. If you’re too busy lo…
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:01 AM
2

That’s the secret. You’re only a victim if you decide you are. If you’re a mouse and you’re eaten by a fox you’re not a victim, you’re a mouse that got eaten by a fox. Staying stuck on “i was made a victim, they made me a victim of some sort” is enough to have your brain go “stop all motions, we’re not doing shit till we sort this out”. Sorting it out by going “They made me a victim” really only keeps you in the loop of “omg somebody victimized me”, it renders you unable to move past it. If you …
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:10 AM
1

Compliment girls on their effort for dates. That’s what they want, they get told they’re pretty all the time but if you splash a drop of gay friend energy about their makeup, or their outfit, anything that they had to do to get ready, you’ll have told her she’s pretty without just saying “You’re pretty”. You also might come off as someone who would notice if they changed their hair or got new earrings or this or that. With women it pays to be insanely observant about their looks. Pay attention t…
/r/seduction31/01/22 05:19 AM
1

It’s fair game, and you know what? It’s revenge on others that made you feel lesser, and revenge towards yourself for letting yourself be pegged as lesser enough to not approach them. Absolutely go for the old highschool collegues, at least to prove it to yourself that you could if you wanted to, if you did want to back then…you would’ve. Sorry, bro. Them’s the brakes. Go for it dawg, this is definitely an underdog story for the ages, even though those girls will see you as a Chad in their movie…
/r/seduction31/01/22 05:08 AM
2

Sometimes, but not all women. I’ve experienced that. When that happens it just baffles me but I can never let that paint my lens as that’s what all women are gonna do. You become a wallflower like that. Game Over. You lost because you never even tried, didn’t leave the starting line out of fear of losing the race. Fear getting second place, don’t settle for second place. Go for first place, every time; any time you don’t get first place, you try again until you do. You can take a breather if you…
/r/seduction31/01/22 04:55 AM
1

Girls will ruin your reputation anyways, they find all sorts of reasons to hate someone. Just go for it, hurt feefees never hurt anyone, if they feel hurt by hurt feelings they’re an utter pussy. Feelings heal. If you could break a bone and then have it heal with no pain and do it all over again you’d care less if it started happening more often because it’s now a non-issue.
/r/seduction31/01/22 03:27 AM
2

Yeah but keep it business like, type beat y’know? Draw the line at like a few questions here and there, then put the phone down. It’s still asking for your time. Do it a little more frequently, lower the amplitude of how long you do it, get back to living your life. Don’t waste it on the phone when you’ve got life gunning out for you already
/r/seduction31/01/22 03:19 AM
3

That’s an extreme over-exaggeration, just as well be a meme. If you approach and they say go away AND THEN YOU PERSIST, THEN it’s a harassment case. If you approach someone and they immediately start calling harassment when you’re acting normal, then THEY are the basketcase that needs a harassment order against them
/r/seduction30/01/22 09:17 PM
4

The other guy saying “be toxic” might be saying the same as you, depending on where they draw that line. Telling the truth and living with it because “i want a rotation of girls” might be taken as toxic by girls, but fuck it. Go talk to girls. If I had a dude friend that said I couldn’t have dude friends anymore because I’m bi, I’d flip the fuck out. This is way more free being in a rotation
/r/seduction30/01/22 08:36 PM
6

To save his virgin ears, girl’s a freak with that music you heard?
/r/seduction30/01/22 08:20 PM
1

Edit; this got really long. Recognize within yourself that anxiety is silly, like, actually something to laugh at over. Anxiety is just walking with shoes ties, and it’s funny because if we untie that knot, we’re running and bookin it to the finish line. Winning. This is my problem too, always. Actually my real problem is with my comment…way too long. TLDR: Stop being a wallflower, get more acquainted with the room, ignore the people around for a moment because they don’t exist. Get comfortable …
/r/seduction30/01/22 07:15 AM
14

We don’t, or we realize Introversion works against us, so we use “extroverted” tactics. I’m an introvert, but on the outside to others I’m an extrovert. It is what it is. Can’t win the game without shedding some skin
/r/seduction29/01/22 09:20 PM
2

6:1 ratio. Pretty good
/r/seduction29/01/22 03:48 AM
2

It’s not weak of you to leave under those circumstances - it would’ve been weaker to just take it and get fucked. Weaker still, if you respond back to it with anything as it would be reactive. Ignore and move on, cast your line back into the ocean
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:33 PM
1

Any action is a reactive thing
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:17 AM
2

You could focus on something, do as your mind dictates. You wanted to text, then wanted to do something else, go do it, wait for inspiration to kick in suddenly about what to say and do if you set something up, or something else you could do by yourself - and it happens to be something you could invite someone to. Just do you, basically. Focus on you until you hit some inspiration to hit them up. Not working up the courage, you just hit the spur of the moment stuff, then go back to whatever you’…
/r/seduction28/01/22 08:40 AM
1

I’m the fairest looking version of me I’ll ever get, and I can put extra effort beyond maintenance to do that. I don’t feel the need for the extra though. So I’ll be myself by being an example to myself, and others as everyone sets an example for themselves, and just act like I’m a 10/10, but being super humble about it. I might only be a 5, could be a 4, maybe a 7, but to me you’re as young as you feel, and a pretty as you feel. Your body is the only subset of who you can rate. You are your onl…
/r/seduction28/01/22 08:08 AM
1

Yeah, Human Nature is wild, man. You should write a book, go study. Go see the absolute wild behavioural traits in Humans, it’s actually whacky once you see it. It basically reduces everyone, even yourself, to an NPC and people just get easier to deal with. If you watch others but don’t watch yourself, you’ll go crazy. Trust me. You’re an NPC too, observe your behaviours and why human nature works. Easiest way to explain it on paper is have 5 people, use 2 of them for some 1on1 examples of any f…
/r/seduction28/01/22 06:39 AM
3

When you’re “thinking” in those moments of anxiety, you’re not properly thinking, you’re near-panicking. Stuck in your head. It’s a way to retreat. You can’t approach an “enemy” while retreating. Women aren’t enemies, they’re just different sovereigns. You’re a sovereign, she’s a sovereign. A sovereign cannot attack and retreat at the same time. They must do one or the other. If you’re in your head thinking about what to say, you just as well know that your mental troops are in Retreat Mode. A g…
/r/seduction28/01/22 06:28 AM
2

You need Towels, Lube, The Mood, Creativity, and PATIENCE. Car Sex is NO JOKE, that shit will get you so fucked up emotionally if you’re not careful, and you’ll try not to get emotional and likely succeed…but at the cost of your boner. A lot of attempts on the inside of the car are not going to work. Don’t let that discourage you, and if it’s not working try again - don’t try to try again sneakily like you didn’t just fuck up and meanwhile try to hide it by caressing and fondling her. Do fondle …
/r/seduction28/01/22 06:04 AM
3

Bruh, it’s just a girl that likes sex. Make of that what you will. Don’t marry this one, just fool around. Have some fun with someone who obviously likes to have fun. It’s something (not specifically done to) to let you know she likes fun…so go have some fuggin fun ma broski Vagina’s clean themselves, I promise you that unless you’re running a train on a bitch, you ain’t getting no PP germs from other dudes. Wear a condom, if you’re a risk taker, get yourselves tested and have fun without, but…b…
/r/seduction28/01/22 04:19 AM
1

“Ask for consent, don’t ask for consent…WHAT DO YOU WANT, WOMAN?!”
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:57 AM
3

THIS THIS THIS. Dudes are too busy having to be dudes and rough the shit out of life to notice that women take life in a much different pace. It’s, not “slower”, but that’s the only way I could it. They’re not rush rush rush go go go COME ON we gotta move 1000 more tonnes of concrete by last week LETS GOOOO they definitely operate in a more “smell the roses” type of way. That is to say, they’re very observant of their environments, and the people within them. What they see in 2 seconds of seeing…
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:56 AM
4

THIS. I still feel like a little boy when I do that, and there’s no way it doesn’t look like that from the outside. It plays better in my head when I imagine myself in third person I nearly scream in my head “Bro, look at you you’re stuttering on your steps GO TALK TO HER”. Guarantee women like being approached and not cautiously walked up upon on a deer cautiously approaching a bush to eat with people nearby. Be a lion, go for the kill. Don’t be a deer. Deer get killed by others or get rejected…
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:29 AM
6

It’s tricky sometimes, but what helps me is just believing we’re in a simulation. Now…this part gets complicated to break it down but lets establish some rules for this: 1 We live in a Simulation 2 This Simulation was built for YOU [Reader] 3 [Reader] is the Main Character of the Simulation 4 All others apart from [Reader] are Simulated 5 Those within a simulation who believe they are in The Simulation are also [Reader] Keeping this mind, you can do whatever you want. Go talk to whoever you want…
/r/seduction28/01/22 02:48 AM
2

That is the same mindset needed when you shower and look proper. But double down on it after the shower. You need to give a fuck about not giving a fuck Nah nah jk. Just pretend you’re in work clothes. Actually, swapping around your clothes and getting used to not feeling a certain type of way in them. You should feel baseline in all your clothes, and if being dappered up makes you feel like you can pick up some chicks, well, you may not pick up any chicks…because you may feel like you give too …
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:55 AM
4

As a guy, if I received this text, I’d see it as a homie tryna be cute. Look, bottom line is this: “You sent the text, Jerry. Full send. You hucked, and now you gotta pray. It’s all you can do” Huck and Pray, Jerry, Huck and Pray
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:45 AM
2

Oh shit only 10%? I knew something was off, I must’ve given like 40% - 50%. My bad
/r/seduction26/01/22 08:33 PM
1

Treat oneself as a human being, more like. I think social anxiety comes from not feeling like you belong to humanity, so anything you do would be weird. It’s kinda alienating.
/r/seduction25/01/22 06:19 AM
1

I’m in that same boat
/r/seduction25/01/22 06:10 AM
1

I knew this deep down, and if I have a girlfriend it’s generally how I be, but enough girls get fed up over it that it piles on. Thanks for pulling the wall of corpses off me, bruv. Back to the slaughter we go, I guess
/r/seduction24/01/22 07:46 AM
2

See I’ve never really realized this entirely. My mother was always really stoic, a single mother, almost masculine, kinda felt like having two dads. Kept a strong face for her kids, my guess. So my experience with girls outside my mother has generally been that they’re landmines, and anything I’ll do will hurt them and they all hate me for it, and any love is just temporary because I’ll step on the landmine at some point and I’m dead. Back to villain status. I felt underprepared I guess. Good to…
/r/seduction24/01/22 07:12 AM
1

Sweeeet! Time to dig up all the internalized misandry. That’ll be liberating
/r/seduction24/01/22 06:27 AM
0

Ahh, all stuff I was already doing. Just gotta spend more time doing it I guess Thanks, mate, you confirmed on the right path, I just need more practice. Bettus.
/r/seduction24/01/22 06:06 AM
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One last question: So is squirting a thing that happens after ENOUGH stimulation? Or SPECIFIC stimulation? I watched a video on mute explain it, I couldn’t tell much of a specific technique to it other than be fast, near-rhythmic, and always be touching a sensitive zone. So is it a general sensitivity build up? Or specific areas? Or a combination?
/r/seduction24/01/22 05:56 AM
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Crushes on multiple women? I Huhhhhhh? I thought that was illegal! Or at least that I was a scoundrel for doing that. Whoaaaa. Brooooooo I fucking love being a guy! Everything I thought about me was horrible is just normal!
/r/seduction24/01/22 05:53 AM
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Whoaaaaa, you might be touching onto something there. Like, if a guy can give a girl the most insane sex she’s ever had, do all the ones before even count after that? Can GREAT dick “re-virginate” someone? Can great pussy do the same? You’ve given me much to consider. Man…I might be a virgin again. This motivates me to find even better puss puss
/r/seduction24/01/22 05:49 AM
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“All men are pigs. Vile. Disgusting. Bastards.” Operate on something like this. But for girls. If guys did suck, women wouldn’t put up with them for relationships and sex. So for the record, women don’t suck. Men don’t suck. But we have our criticisms of each other…thus…”all men/women suck” There you go. Attachment averted. People suck. Care about nobody but yourself, and give people any validation you feel they deserve. You’re playing Tomogatchi now
/r/seduction24/01/22 03:10 AM
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“Just do it” actually works really well once you figure out what it is you’ve been doing wrong. But thing is, seduction is easy to overthink. Overthinking is wrong. Literally, if you want to talk to a girl, just do it. Easy. Don’t care about if she gives you a yes or a no. It doesn’t matter. Face Death with open arms, be a samurai whose been dishonoured and wandering an empty battlefield, the last remaining opponent in front of him is the one he is going to “trade” with. Both are going down, or …
/r/seduction24/01/22 02:46 AM
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From a guy perspective, if I’m shy to do something, I suck it up and go for it - if it’s something I want to try, but am nervous to do. Help her try to be a little more comfortable, even keeping it known that if she wants to jump the shit out of you sexually, she can. Let her be allowed to “attack”, her nerves might come from not knowing how you’ll react. Let her know that “attacking you” with her sexual urges and just going for it is something you see as attractive. It’s take initiative. She ju…
/r/seduction24/01/22 12:11 AM
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It’s that post nut clarity. Let it dissipate by saying to yourself “Nah, we’re not done, it’s still horny o’clock, this girl is getting her’s whether I’ve run out of steam or not”. Sex is never a place to leave anyone hanging with sexual frustration - everyone gets theres. Once you’ve got yours, time to help her get hers because leaving her to finish herself off isn’t gonna be nearly as good as you finishing her off. Same as how beating your meat isn’t as good as a girl doing it for you through …
/r/seduction23/01/22 11:48 PM
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Could be, but I’ve usually gotten the response of “I didn’t know it was a date” but nothing much of it. I’m guessing that’s a rejection, and I’ve made the mistake of trying again and specifying it as a date the second time around. Shot down cold on that one It’s why I preface it before hand, everyone’s on the same page and they can reject you faster and save you cash towards an accidental friendzone
/r/seduction23/01/22 12:33 PM
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Same way you want to hang with a friend but they keep having a conflicting schedule. “Sorry bro, maybe another time I got work” “Yeah, sounds good, mane” And then you move on with your day, you’ll see your friend another time, or you won’t. Another time. Are your friends on your mind all the time? Or just your crushes? Get them off your mind, keep them on your mind when you want to go do anything by yourself, and hit them up
/r/seduction23/01/22 07:53 AM
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Remember: If she cheats on him, she could cheat on you. Don’t surprised pikachu face when it happens. Continue to proceed as normal with this knowledge, this is your secret tool for later if it happens and you can drop it easier. History is a history, learn from it as it occurs
/r/seduction23/01/22 07:43 AM
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Or talk in private, or shoot a text and say “Yo, stop feeling me up. Boundaries bitch!
/r/seduction23/01/22 07:13 AM
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I always approach girls with the mindset I’d assume they would have of me. “This guy’s weird”. It cancels out, if I project she assumes I’m weird, and I assume she’s weird, then neither of us is weird and you’re free to witness their weirdness a little more comfortably, more focused. Not psyched out. “I’m weird”. Psyched out brah
/r/seduction23/01/22 06:45 AM
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You’re not in trouble for being rejected. If you’re not a criminal, don’t worry about committing crimes, in thought and action. If you take rejection well, it’s perfectly fine, even beneficial. It builds character. Think of it like you’re going into a sparring match, both sides giving light contact kicks with pads on. Pads being everyone’s emotional walls, some are thicker than others. Harsh Rejection is a kick to the head, Typical Rejections are a kick in the nuts with a jockstrap on. Scary, no…
/r/seduction23/01/22 06:40 AM
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Always specific if it’s a date, they can feel led on for a friendship otherwise. I’ve had plenty of dates with strangers that assumed it was “like a friend hangout” because I didn’t specify it as a date. Lesson learned: Always propose a date, never a hangout. Keeps the Mooches to a minimum
/r/seduction23/01/22 03:37 AM
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Which is a personality disorder typically characterized by abusive tendencies or mindsets that are more capable than others of facilitating violence
/r/seduction23/01/22 02:17 AM
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Recognize you are a woman, and that is your power. Deadass. Your entire being can be used to turn us on, that’s just how it is. We’re [Men] visual creatures, so do something physical to get his attention. It can be something small, it can be something big, as long as you call attention to it and feel spicy while doing it, he’s gonna get some ideas.
/r/seduction23/01/22 12:24 AM
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Good types of awkward silences, good conversations that always start good but it feels like you’re both running out of things to talk about for the moment, and eye contact. If she’s not breaking it, and you catch a downward glance or something - which she will hide, same way a guy sees tits then looks away, you’re probably good to go If you wanna be sure, just ask if you can kiss instead of going for it and getting shot down. The tension’s palpable when you can just go for it, you’ll be getting …
/r/seduction21/01/22 04:57 AM
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Yeah weed hangovers are mild compared to drunk hangovers, but I’ve never had a proper hangover as I rarely drink. But that extra fatigue when waking after a sesh, is something else. The world feels like it moves in 720p instead of 4k and I feel like I’m in 144p
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:47 AM
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I’ve been there. I used to be really shy in highschool, still am after the breakup with my girlfriend, but to get that girlfriend - my first serious girlfriend - I operated on a couple presumptions about MYSELF. 1) I am visible to others. So if I LOOK confident, others will assume I am, so ACT confident (not arrogant) and I’ll automatically be confident - because to others, I am what they say I am and they can’t read my mind. My mind is a steel trap, impenetrable from the outside. 2) I was born …
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:42 AM
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Yeah weed makes me introspective as well, at least indica strains do - they seem to be more potent than sativa. Either way, they make me someone else, I enjoy that feeling alone or with friends when smoking but if I’m high around people who are sober I just feel like a fuckup. So ye, probs gonna ditch the weed. Ahhhhhh fuck but what do I replace it with? I stopped for 2 months and was really vibing with it and waking before 9:00am. Soon as I picked it back up it was hard to wake up before noon I…
/r/seduction21/01/22 02:52 AM
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I get masturbation and working out, but why quit weed - specifically in the context of girls. I get there’s health benefits to quitting, but how does it work for girls? Creepy factor of stoners? They’re usually chill. Smell? Not being sober, which causes mistakes? Anxiety? What is it, man?
/r/seduction21/01/22 02:42 AM
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This why I view women as hostile, yet desirable. Love is a game of war, that way. Don’t let them change you, change for YOURSELF. You can try to change them, they probably won’t like it - just as you don’t. You can make good progress changing them by being firm that you won’t change without your own permission and deliberation. As for sticking with them, if they’re acting like princesses they likely won’t change…HOWEVER, you could get a dynamic going. Bit risque but if girls are gonna play Princ…
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:41 AM
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Badboy attitude is just being nonchalant about life, being steadfast in your own values, and having a way of doing things. You don’t need to force people to act how you do, you can make suggestions, and just leave people to decide for themselves. Being a badboy is just NOT being a nice guy. ALL men are badboys, unless they’re being a nice guy. Badboys are trash. All men are trash. See where I’m going with this? Treat your life as the most important thing to you, because it should be. Everything …
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:25 AM
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Bro, did you even read what you typed out yourself? “She has guy best friends but doesn’t want me to” TL;DR - FIND SOME GIRL FRIENDS TO HANG OUT WITH AGAINST YOUR GF’s WISHES, she’s pussy whipping you. Stop being whipped, have some respect to see your relationship is based on unequal footing. If her excuse is that all men want to fuck everyone, she’s out of line. That assumes you can’t control yourself sexually, or be faithful. That’s detrimental. It’s also controlling. It’s one sided, and you’r…
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:17 AM
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Why would it? You can’t change it without literal torture methods, which are just gonna kill you anyways You’re stuck with what you’re stuck with. People need to get over themselves for that, you look like what you look like. Not happy with it? Grind up enough cash to alter it with surgery. Not into surgery? Aight, cool, now shut up and go talk to people. There’s many fish in the sea and some of them are uuuuuuglyyyyyyy. You got a chance, everyone does
/r/seduction18/01/22 08:47 PM
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It’s always porn bots for me. Quite annoying. Never had a real one hit me up…what is it like? What are girls like? They make me scared to be myself, that’s all I know about them. Like they’re hostiles. Love feels like a game of espionage, which is fun in it’s own right, but it’s definitely the right way to go about girls, that gets the “Asshole” label
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:34 PM
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Think about tanks, ww1, ww2, naval combat, KEEP THOSE BOATS AWAY FROM THE MOUTHS OF CHANNELS. Open seas only. If the thought of the sea gives you swimmer vibes, stay away from the sea. Actually, infantry combat and tank warfare works, if you ever think about your swimmers all up in that business, remember it’ll grind your life to a halt AND those millions of potential spawn of yours, they gotta go to what amounts to a war within your lady friend’s uterus and the path hitherto. Good luck, soldier
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:32 PM
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Bro, that’s the cheesy movie stuff they’re talking about. Don’t do that. Don’t bring anything to a date other than Yourself, recently polished up and shining bright all spiffy like, your phone, your car/house keys, and your wallet. Look at you, all set for the date. No this or that to worry about, no need to worry about when to give that stuff or what to say when you do. Chillaaaaaax, bruv. You don’t need all that shit. That stuff is for GIRLFRIENDS only, it’ll cheapen it for yourself when you s…
/r/seduction18/01/22 02:30 AM
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You see those girls proclaiming to themselves “I’m such a baddie” Do that. BE a baddie, bro, and you’ll get baddies.
/r/seduction17/01/22 11:23 PM
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60% of the time it works every time
/r/seduction17/01/22 06:43 PM
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Sex do be out here makin men into witch doctors playing with fleshy voodoo dolls tho
/r/seduction17/01/22 06:34 PM
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Anticipation, more like. Slowly ramping intensity, climbing closer to a new peak, then dipping down, going off to something else still around the area. “Energy” wise, it’ll be like a wave of whatever colour you please being around her. If you attentive on her legs, that “energy” will be around her legs, it will follow wherever you go, some will linger - meaning you go from her legs, to “the button”, and skip the button, some will remain at her legs, a lot will remain at the button, the rest foll…
/r/seduction17/01/22 02:12 AM
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Eh, I hate gifts for the very reason that I’d feel obligated. Having people be mean to you and constantly getting gifts and an apology killed any gift recieving from me, even from those I love and would love to receive a gift from. Has overshadowed gift giving as a whole for me. It’s either reciprocity and wanting to stay un-obligated to it, which is everyone’s right - or an aversion to gifts in general. Without knowing if she does the same to others it’s hard to know, but best to assume for one…
/r/seduction14/01/22 12:08 AM
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Been doing that well before turning 16. It ain’t broke, don’t fix
/r/seduction14/01/22 12:03 AM
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What is the nebulous 16-18 title called then? Is one a man at 16?
/r/seduction13/01/22 11:36 PM
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Your mental health might drastically decrease by using dating apps. Might. It’s a risk, and a heavy one at that. If you don’t get matches, don’t take it personally. It will be very tricky not to, but not matching on tinder does not make you less of a man. If anything it just confirms that you’re more a man than you thought, which isn’t a dig at you; it’s just how the dating climate is these days. In person approaches will always come on top over online dating. Always has, always will
/r/seduction13/01/22 11:31 PM
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Common interests help. If she’s shy, and this is almost stereotyping, but music allows shy people to get lost and escape. So they typically really like music, so find some common music tastes, ask for suggestions, offer some of your own within the same or a similar genre. This gives her at least something to have an opening to initiate with. Otherwise, she might just end up staying introspective and bottling up whatever she might want to say because “he’ll think that’s stupid”. Give her an out t…
/r/seduction13/01/22 02:43 AM
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Then she’s not comfortable with it yet. Give it a few more dates, maybe next time ask to cook at her place. It’s familiar to her, it’s not your home-field advantage. Inviting to your place, whether you would or not, will always have the potential to have some secret rape dungeon. We’re dudes. We’re “creepy”. Just how it is. If you’re gonna do a home visit, her place is the way to go unless she asks to see yours. If she invites you to hers, 60% chance you’re getting some. Honestly, closer to 100%…
/r/seduction13/01/22 02:27 AM
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So blow her off. Be top dog who don’t need no woman? That could work? Be the opposite of a horny perv without going “No I’m not STOP IT!” Because that shatters the frame. Just be chill and it should work out
/r/seduction10/01/22 11:30 PM
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Life isn’t about that. Well, solely about that. If you wanna see that stuff, watch a little porn, get bored with it. Naked bodies aren’t really all that. Yours isn’t right? To you it’s just the body you’re given. Same goes for girls. Nothing to really ogle at, and they can be either creeped out or flattered by it. Do your own thing, focus on building a life, on your off-days, go talk to people for the sake of talking to people. You might get hints that they want to hang out more. If a girl wants…
/r/seduction09/01/22 02:25 AM
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Why care if it goes south? Just ignore her and do your job, you’d not be in a relationship anymore. Coming from a serial coworker dater
/r/seduction07/01/22 02:19 AM
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That is excellent, mate. “I can” is very powerful psychologically. Always say to yourself “I can” and don’t say “I can try”. Let “try” come up if you fail, because then you can go “I tried”. It’s all that is asked of you. To say “I can” when approaching anything, and “I tried” when you have done it. What we say to ourselves affects us subconsciously. Our subconscious takes in EVERYTHING, including what we say. So using more positive words in your day-to-day is going to help you mentally, which w…
/r/seduction12/11/21 02:36 AM
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I call shyness being “reserved”. Not a bad thing. Just gotta get comfortable with people in silence I guess. If you’re in a group it can feel nerve wracking but many guys I know that happen to be reserved, end up getting many laughs when they do speak and make a joke because they chime in at the “right moment”, meaning, “when they feel like it”. Don’t feel pressured to be talking all the time, silence is a valid option
/r/seduction12/11/21 02:21 AM
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Good point Might be the romantic in me I guess. Picnics could work though those would require legwork from both parties and gets to be kinda complicated. Good team exercise though. They buy, drop stuff off at the door, it gets prepped for a picnic in the park, both parties meet up, boom….PICNIC in public. Quasi-dinner date. Maybe I’m just hooked on picnics and being “super romantic”. Likely best to save that for future dates
/r/seduction11/11/21 09:55 PM
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Yeah it could go either way. A more stable strat is have something in mind you want to do with them. Coffee is boring, sure, but its the easiest thing to do to get to know someone. “Hey, ____ you wanna grab a coffee after this shift? Oh you’re busy tonight, alright, how about such-and-such day? Ahhh you’re busy all week? You can schedule coffee then. Seeya later!” then scoot. Try to set it up, if fails for ‘busy’ reasons, ask about another day, you’re not harassing they said they were busy TODAY…
/r/seduction10/11/21 11:15 PM
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“Yeah, let’s do a dinner date, you buy the food, I’ll cook”
/r/seduction10/11/21 10:35 PM
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Still might be a seed in her mind though for you to come over. She still said yes to herself in a way, same as saying yes to a pen from a salesman, only in reverse order. Keep it how you’re going, get it casual, get the ball in her court, this is volleyball. Plant seeds of doing fun shit, don’t be committed to it, you’re throwing crumbs to pigeons, not fishing for milfs. Hot neighbour next door, definitely gonna have to be her swoop in, on your crumbs. Fishing for this one is definitely a way to…
/r/seduction07/11/21 09:48 AM
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Yeah my brother had that. Had to get what we called “Peen Cream” and everything. Something about the skin being fused to the head. Sounds painful. Gotta teach kids to pull it back when they pee, its just keeping your dick skin limber, and the only time you’ll ever be able to do it without going to jail is in a bathroom or bedroom, so just as well when peeing
/r/seduction07/11/21 09:34 AM
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Or its a girl who is insecure about OLD and is trying to open up a conversation with you without being direct. Maybe she’ll give you a reason why she liked your if your answer is good
/r/seduction07/11/21 09:32 AM
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But still be engaged with your muscles though. Engaged, not tensing and flexing as though you’re weighing down a helicopter. Engagement forces me into a dominance mindset. Like standing in front of a sparring opponent, only the fight never breaks out unless someone starts throwing hands, always be ready to throw hands, never be willing to throw the first punch. Dodge or take it, then dish it out.
/r/seduction07/11/21 09:30 AM
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Consider dating as a dance THE ENTIRE WAY THROUGH. Talking is a dance, and your moves always come out best when you’re being yourself. Dance how YOU dance, not how you think someone wants you to. Sex too. Do sex how you’re gonna sex, ask her how she wants it by leading with your hands, she’ll shift her body and move yours where she wants you - or she’ll tell you. Make SUGGESTIONS is a better tip, say it seductively, watch for signs of agreement. Try a whisper, but instead of it all being breath …
/r/seduction07/11/21 09:19 AM
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A man’s hesitation is a woman’s reservation. Keeping that!
/r/seduction07/11/21 09:02 AM
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TLDR; Sex is a dance, guy’s lead the dance. That’s just what you’re taught in dance class, classically. Start the dance, she’ll get lost in it. She’s nervous too, make her less nervous by getting on with the show already! Okay, go into it with “i’m gonna manhandle her!!!” And then…don’t manhandle her, unless she asks you to after you’ve been gentle. Stare into her eyes, you WANT her don’t you? Go for it. She wants it too, life is a dance class and if that’s so, sex is a salsa. So you gotta lead …
/r/seduction07/11/21 09:00 AM
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If I were to say, consider if it’s a shit test, it’s almost always a shit test. So just decide your values, and being faithful is always a good value, why would someone judge you poorly for that? Shows you would be faithful to them if you break up with her, it’s competition if she’s asking you to cheat. You’re not out of the competition either, you’re a different kind of piece of the board
/r/seduction07/11/21 05:23 AM
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Easy. You mark those times of rest as times of rest. There’s only two kinds of time, Times of Activity, and Times of Rest. When you go to bed, look at the time on the clock. Say its 10pm. Between 10pm and 6am, you still exist, but you’re asleep. You’re doing an activity in your sleep, your body is healing and feeding itself, and the mind is at rest - succumbing to any dreams floating in the mind. Your body is in a time of rest, but for us, we’re in a dream from 10-6. The mind is active for 8 hou…
/r/seduction06/11/21 08:24 PM
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Eh. No. You can be Kind guy gentlemanly and Nice Guy gentlemanly. With nice guys its an act. With kind guys they do it because they want to. If a kind guy is doing ALL of it, well, that’s what he wanted to do. Maybe he was raised to do all of that shit for his grandmother or something, so now its just natural. A nice guy would do ALL of it, but its obviously an act, he KNOWS the chivalry procedure but he’s acting the procedure, not living it. Back to ulterior motive. It’s easy to pick out which …
/r/seduction06/11/21 02:36 AM
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The only use I have for porn since turning 18 has been spice. Theres so many crazy positions, so much to try. The kamasutra is a better alternative though, its not addicting
/r/seduction06/11/21 12:56 AM
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Yes, be slow, BUT ALWAYS MOVE WITH INTENT. Edit: This applies to LIFE. This is not a seduction thing, this is a life thing. If you move with intent in life, you’ll automatically do it when you have to express it in one of life’s many facets. Practice Intent by being one of Body and Mind. I AM going to do this., and then it is done. No dillydallying between Body and Mind. They move as one, fully intentioned. I dunno if men get taught this, I wasn’t, but moving with full intent is hot. You’re like…
/r/seduction05/11/21 10:09 PM
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I’m your age, and I’m noticing, Don’t be afraid of girls. They’re literally just dudes, but toned down a couple notches slightly. I thought being a gentlemen meant be a “nice guy”, it does not. You can have all that gentlemanly stuff, just do not show it nearly as often. Let it come out genuinely when you feel the need, not because “oh my god, girl…okay turn on ultra chivalry mode”. It is not the 1800s, people have become WAY more laid back about that stuff, so for like 90% of your life, just do…
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:39 AM
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Damn dude same
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:14 AM
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YES. Martial Arts as a kid definitely helped my bed game. Was nervous to begin with, and wasn’t very confident in myself, until my girl started showing signs of being submissive, and from there I just thought “hmm, i don’t get horny if I see this person as a person who wants this, what part of me do they want? I’m not wantable, I see sex as violating that person, even if they want it. It is just such a submissive place to be, there is no way I’m not being an asshole by just having sex”. That wen…
/r/seduction04/11/21 10:17 PM
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THIS! This always keeps me in a romantic and suave mood. Otherwise if I’m not, I friendzone myself because I’m trying to be something. I don’t have to try, I just have to be the sexy version of myself, its still being myself. Be smooth, always. Flirt with the homies, flirt with the grannies, flirt with everything, because its Love and you should Love earth and all its things. Then boom. Can’t be searching for romance if you’re always bringing the romance
/r/seduction03/11/21 09:09 PM
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That’s why its perfect. You ONLY met once. Why would she have any reason to miss you? “I didn’t think you missed me that much” is like “I didn’t even think you thought about me, we barely even talked”. But the first one is framed better, the second frame here says the same thing, but it makes you look weak and insecure about yourself. So pin it on them, they missed you. See? Frame is actually really easy, frame is connotation. What is the message underlying the message? How to say the same thing…
/r/seduction03/11/21 08:51 PM
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Well, bright side, YOU CAN go to school for this stuff. It’s the school inside yourself. You learned things as a kid before school, right? Putting square block in square hole, cone goes in the circle hole, that sorta stuff? Well, you’re over 30, i don’t even remember how old you are, rn, sorry. But, you’re an adult. You can do literally everything you wanted to as a kid, you might be stiff, but that shouldn’t be enough to kill fun, right? The mind continues to have fun and without pain, even if …
/r/seduction02/11/21 10:46 PM
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The easiest way I can describe it is texting isn’t being in the face. Face to face those boring conversations have charm, they’re kinda what you do when you’re with someone. But texting is different. It’s like telepathy, so through telepathy why don’t you do something interesting and instead of using it for the same ol’ face-to-face conversations, AND in the face-to-face conversations, “overshare” by telling a funny story. It’s seen as storytelling, comes off as charming. It’s not an overshare, …
/r/seduction02/11/21 08:38 PM
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I’d wager to guess stick around them, not WITH them. do your own thing, maybe. Don’t focus on them, focus on your drink, focus on other people at the bar. Ignore them. If they want you, cool. Ignoring worked. If not, well, you were ignoring them anyway
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:03 AM
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Maaaaan i miss the days when talking about sex was taboo…cuz we were like, 12
/r/seduction02/11/21 01:59 AM
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So let them escalate. I’ve figured that’s always been the answer. Let them be the escalator and only sometimes do i take a step up, then let them continue. Kinda feels like we’re a vaccine and girls have to be the one to shoot up the needle. If we are too eager to jab, well…what’re they putting in there that DESPERATELY NEEDS to be jabbed into me? Lowkey is the only key.
/r/seduction01/11/21 10:08 PM
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Walking backwards. That’s the most apt description of it i think. I sometimes work their tactics out in my head as if I were them, and it can be walking backwards, sometimes its walking forwards, sometimes sideways, sometimes not at all - because she ain’t the boss, she can’t tell you were to go, and if you do you’re a loser, sometimes it’s walking where she says. Women are weird
/r/seduction01/11/21 07:38 PM
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Ohhhhh that may be why I’m single, I’m respecting that shit because, what the fuck else do you do? “I’m not having sex with you”. How do you challenge that and not seem rapey? Is this why PUA will go “No doesn’t mean No?”. Obvious NO, means No, but “I’m not having sex with you” isn’t the same as “No”? Its more of a statement to challenge? Is it framed as “currently, right this second, i’m not having sex with you” in a girl’s mind so it’s not a “No” that you’d be harassing her for a yes? I knew g…
/r/seduction01/11/21 07:35 PM
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Its kinda weird, its mixed signals. “Do something with your life” “you owe us, you can’t abandon us” Definitely gotta go
/r/seduction31/10/21 12:48 AM
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I won’t meet anyone in this town. I don’t much care to, i don’t click with patch working girls. I’m some Oregonian lookin-ass kid with the same vibe, born in basically Winter Texas where hunting is the best shit ever. I won’t meet nobody, I just am not going to find the right girl for me in this environment. You’re right, I’m being a bit pessimistic but thats just from a lack of having travelled. When i get out of this podunk rathole, its going to be a blast and ill be much more optimistic
/r/seduction30/10/21 10:50 PM
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You know when you were a kid, you probably had a stuffed animal, even as a dude? You’d tell it all your problems, and it would “listen”. Your mind may have repeated your anger back to you, compassionately. It validated your feelings by existing? Do that, only, you need to be their mind’s reflection. You’re your own person, so staying quiet with no answer - as they can’t read your mind, will only invalidate them. If the teddy bear could talk, it would reflect their words back to them, it can’t th…
/r/seduction30/10/21 10:47 PM
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Breathing, just to slow yourself down so the situation doesn’t feel rushed. Fast. Urgent. Breathing halts bodily urgency but it still stays in your mind - because you’re clear headed. As for the vibes, not much I can really say to that other than just provide appropriate responses to how someone is acting. If you were distressed, how would you like to be helped? You know what you want, so you’ll ask for it. When helping another, you don’t KNOW what they want, but you can guess and then ask if it…
/r/seduction30/10/21 10:42 PM
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I should, ive been told that many times, then get guilt tripped into not going because im “abandoning my family, i never cared”. Its messing with me. That’s just a bigger sign to leave though. The great escape is being planned
/r/seduction30/10/21 10:23 PM
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Yeah, doing otherwise, for myself anyway, just doesn’t feel like me. Me can jump through hoop, but me not a hoop jumper
/r/seduction30/10/21 10:21 PM
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“Hey, I see you lookin at me a lot, I don’t wanna ask you out for a date in your work clothes though, you probably wanna change, I’d do the exact same thing, honestly. I’d like to get your number” Or you do it the same, except say “Here’s my number”. Works better to write it on paper and give it to her, but more often then not, ask for her digits. Giving your number is a great option if you can tell she’s a shy girl, it takes some pressure off of them. “Normal” unshy girls, always ask for their …
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:46 AM
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Ehhh, at the very least it signals pessimism. Gross. Don’t even worry about how modern dating, your answer should be “it is what it is”. Hell, I bet cavemen complained that they had to drag their “wives” to their den instead of them walking themselves, more arms to hold meat with, right? So, just don’t worry about it. Girls love a guy that vibes, but if that guy can vibe AND change the vibe on his own, bring in tension, de-escalation, safe and protective vibes, ‘dangerous’ vibes, as in adventuro…
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:38 AM
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Bro thats been my mindset. I don’t EVER go out and chase girls just to date girls. I plan my day, and if theres girls around, im shooting my shot. Takes away so much pressure. Its like walking off going hunting, but on the way you stop and try smelling a rose, and the rose pricks you (rejects) and you show the flower that her pricking your finger doesn’t even so much as make you hold your finger or shake your hand back in forth in pain, you just go back to hunting and respect the flower and mayb…
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:25 AM
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Your game is built enough then. You’re ready. Stop gaming, start living. That game will still be there, it’ll just happen naturally. You’ll be “naturally” charismatic, when in fact you just practiced it. Guess what uncharismatic people did in their life. Practiced being uncharismatic, duh Go have fun, stop having scrim games, go have a real game. The game of living life fully, instead of gaming the dating world.
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:03 AM
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Escalate PROPERLY, not quickly. Gauge her reactions, does she escalate? Just her answer make it like an awkward silence? Do you feel like she might not be into you? Good, keep listening to your unconscious mind, it knows. If it feels good, its probably going good. It’ll feel quick, that’s just nerves. Do it when it feels RIGHT. If it feels TOO quick, it is. AND STAY AWAY FROM ISOLATED SPOTS. Third date I had with a girl, i made a pillow fort in the back of my SUV, parked out on a lookout 10 minu…
/r/seduction30/10/21 02:13 AM
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I live in a small town, barely know anybody, get bloody nervous of all of them, dad was an oil patch worker…non stop screams at me for the smallest shit. “I’m preparing you for the real world”. No, you’re not, nobody screams at people like that, I’m afraid of people, and haven’t a costume, don’t much care, been caring less about life, feel stuck in the hometown vibe of “boy who never left home”. Fuckin sucks, there’s no girls here I’d want to date, none really catch my eye. Going stag boys
/r/seduction30/10/21 02:08 AM
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Pro tip: Practice your body posture all day every day, when you wake in the morning it is best to immediately get into “Go mode”. No tired slouching, you’re awake…act like it. If you’re not sleeping, you’re being. Whenever you remember it, you catch yourself slouching, straighten up. Pull those shoulders back, your shoulder blades should be what is pull them back, not from the shoulders themselves. This might tighten your back, that means you need a massage or some other corrective work, you’ve …
/r/seduction30/10/21 02:01 AM
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Its not waiting, its moving on. Doesn’t mean you can’t still find that person likeable, maybe something comes of the future. Maybe that person is the person for you, its just not the right time yet
/r/seduction29/10/21 06:51 PM
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Well duh, but eggs are still on the farm. Didn’t say it was your farm, just the eggs you’re responsible for. “Your eggs”.
/r/seduction28/10/21 09:30 PM
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Precisely. Reveals your “cool” act was a facade. No facades in dating, only authenticity. They’ll come
/r/seduction28/10/21 09:29 PM
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Yeah that’s what i was trying to say. Ignore isn’t the right word and it gets tossed a lot here. Ignore is part of it IF you’re busy. Otherwise, be friendly. The way of Chad
/r/seduction28/10/21 10:09 AM
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Not always, never count your chickens. Just leave the egg, if it hasn’t hatched, aight, go put it in the non-hatched cordon and if you hear a cheep, well by golly its a miracle, the dead egg hatched!
/r/seduction28/10/21 10:08 AM
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It can be both
/r/seduction28/10/21 10:05 AM
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If you’re TRYING to sell, you’re trying to sell. Be a diamond in the rough, not a rigid rock you have to sell yourself as. Be fluid, go with the flow, but more importantly go with your flow. Do your shit, hell why do you need women so back you NEED to sell yourself. Do you enjoy being approached by kiosk salesmen at the mall? Of course you don’t, first, a stranger approaching can be inconvenient if you’re on your way somewhere or just don’t want to be bothered. Secondly, they try way too hard, a…
/r/seduction28/10/21 10:04 AM
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To add to this, she still may just be deciding on it, she could very well be talking herself into a yes, maybe she’s got shit going on, maybe she’s busy. Hell, maybe she forgot and she’ll go through contacts in 6 months and see his number and go “oh, FUUUUUCK i forgot about that guy, he was cute. I should hit him up, guys always say Hey, so I’ll just send a Hey, whats up?”
/r/seduction28/10/21 01:57 AM
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So it does come down to confidence, as many stated, but maybe you find your face is too much of a focus. Peacock a little bit without feeling like a peacock. Just find a style you enjoy, it’ll distract from features you don’t want to draw attention to. Bonus points if your look matches your face. I have a friend with Oval faces and long hair, he admits he looks like a rat. You know what he does? He leans WAY into it “HAHAHAHA HOLY SHIT YOU’RE RIGHT! I’m a fuckin rat, then he dresses up a little …
/r/seduction28/10/21 01:46 AM
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Exactly! Because we do. We humans own the world and should feel comfortable taking up space and being expansive, whatever form that takes. Don’t be so expansive you slam everyone into the wall and suffocate them, but just claim your own space. Hell, manspread. Same goes for girls, setting their purse to the side is the same thing, and good on them. If you’re made to feel shy and small when holding your purse to your lap and taking less space, justifying it by saying “I am being polite, I am taki…
/r/seduction28/10/21 01:24 AM
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Your example doesn’t FIT THE CONTEXT
/r/seduction28/10/21 01:19 AM
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Dating ISN’T a sales pitch. It is a whole different ball game. YOU’RE NOT SELLING ANYTHING you’re just being yourself and expecting the same from the other, or expecting them to buy. No means no. If you’re unphased, maybe she changes her mind and “asks you out” by going “is that offer still open? Still wanna grab a coffee?”. Doing otherwise is being inauthentic to yourself, and IT WILL be a juggling act you have to do with yourself, and you will lose. You’ll try so hard to be so many different t…
/r/seduction28/10/21 01:18 AM
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Why not still go to the store? Don’t have to make eyes or anything anymore, just ignore. Don’t let a rejection be so obviously wounding that you’re too “embarrassed” implicitly to them that you will never go again. If you can be comfortable in the presence of someone who rejected you or broke up or whatever, you’ll seem WAY more like a Chad
/r/seduction28/10/21 01:14 AM
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Sounds like you’re hooked on the drama, maybe you feel like a knight in shining armour wanting to help. That’s noble of you. That’s going to get you a sack of rocks at maybe 100lbs on your back though, on top of your life burden you carry. You can’t carry another’s burden, if you do they won’t be able to carry it when you give it back. They’ll crumble under the weight. If you wanna help, do it from a distance, offer advice. DO NOT do shit for her, ever. It’ll keep happening, and when you do try …
/r/seduction27/10/21 04:10 AM
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The only thing I can think of for that book store bit, the freezing, just immediately try to forget those girls for a few moments. Find a book, read, settle yourself. You’ll probably find them again, and you can be settled and start looking for IOIs. It is unwise to meet an opponent when you’re shaken off balance. Find your footing, and then go back in. Don’t focus on what shook you, just focus on getting unshooketh by focusing on you. The task you’re doing, and do it for a bit. You’ll calm down…
/r/seduction27/10/21 03:54 AM
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No no, you got a point. All i do is speak in metaphors and comparisons, its how i relate to the world. Very useful knowing I can just be myself then, thanks dude
/r/seduction27/10/21 03:45 AM
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With shy girls, take the lead. Small favours work wonders, they’re shy, they’re probably gonna - not to be rude - be almost a pushover and they’ll lend you and eraser, or pen, or what have you. Shy girls are also pretty sweet when you do get under their shell, its part of the reason they’re shy in the first place, speaking as a shy person. You don’t know if she is a diamond, in fact everyone you meet ISN’T a diamond until you find out they are. Keep talking to her, dude. Hell, later down the roa…
/r/seduction27/10/21 03:37 AM
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No dude, you’re ENTIRELY right, I’ve had the idea to make a wild fool of myself like this - not that you’re a fool, because you doing those things really doesn’t matter. It won’t haunt you when you’re even say 10 years in the future, it was something you did to help yourself. I say to hell with civility, much of it feels like NO FUN, EVER! YOU’LL BE A BOOTLICKER IN THIS GREY WORLD AND LIKE IT! So shit like this, golden. The most fun ever, I think. Just being Free. Good on you, mate, I’m gonna ta…
/r/seduction27/10/21 01:40 AM
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This should be WAY higher up
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:32 PM
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So I’m not gonna psychoanalyze, but if you’re looking for LOVE, thus strat won’t work. If you’re looking for a fun life, to feel like top dog, getting bitches every night, go for it. Who DOESN’T want to be able to say “Yeah, I’m an approach machine, I can talk to women with ease”. When it comes to love, you can back off, chill out, and actually find love, but it won’t be the same as Pickup. Pickup is great for confidence, not for love. Love just kinda happens, so don’t expect to find love with p…
/r/seduction25/10/21 08:53 PM
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Bro, slow the fuck down, and read your FIRST sentence of this paragraph. “I am”. By definition, you are not egoless. I’ve experienced an ego death, there wasn’t even an “I” or “me” for about a month, and when referring to this body as “I” or “myself” i felt off, disconnected from everyone else, because I had no self for a while. True egolessness. I’d fuckin talk to rocks, which is simply talking to myself. This isn’t to say I am egoless, far from it. You cannot, I’ll repeat CANNOT kill the ego. …
/r/seduction25/10/21 08:15 PM
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You’re approaching a stranger who is a friend you haven’t met you, until either of you decides otherwise. You’re not cringe, you’re feeling cringe at the prospect of approaching. Cringe doesn’t exist
/r/seduction21/10/21 10:35 PM
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It is good, try for control when doing it, try to specifically chose your jumping height instead of going 100% height while making time with the rope. Small hops and bounces are good too, make for longer session, get the heart rate up to speed for a good while longer because you don’t burn yourself out. It’s pretty good cardio, and a must if you’re gonna try combat sports, keeps you light and nimble on your feet
/r/seduction21/10/21 10:14 PM
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It’s gonna take a few positive changes. That’s the key here, positive change. Growth. I’ll address some of your points: How to become the man women want to sleep with? I am 20 and I am 5’10 235lbs. I am a virgin and I never kissed or hugged a girl, apart from my mom and aunt. We’re gonna use your virgin origin story - as everyone starts somewhere - as the foundation for change here. It’s not a bad thing you’re a virgin, you’re not doing something wrong as a human being by not having had sex. In …
/r/seduction21/10/21 10:09 PM
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Agreed
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:00 PM
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Of course! Before asking questions, ask yourself the questions. Don’t think, just sit there with the question asked into the room, and into your mind, you’ll likely come up with the answers yourself Good rule of thumb is to have two perspectives, two dots. Be both dots. Now run a simulation of whatever your question is with those dots, if you care about yourself you’re gonna automatically care for the other’s needs, because in ‘the simulation’, they’re both you. This’ll build more empathy as you…
/r/seduction19/10/21 08:53 PM
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I don’t think its hate, per se, its a harder emotion to pin down, I used to feel this way too. Its more like fear, if anything. As far as one can be aware, on both sides, and as we may be raised, “the opposite sex is trouble”. Only ONLY dating advice I got from my father was “Girls are trouble, stay the fuck away from them” followed by “Always wrap your tool” Not a whole lot to go on with that, but seeing my grandfather be “whipped” by my grandmother with comments like “Happy wife happy life”, a…
/r/seduction19/10/21 08:40 PM
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Its YOUR body, you’re mostly talking to dudes, they wouldn’t know. Just try what works, ask your mans if its going good, be sure to include “should i do it more like this or this? Forward and backward? Or up and down?” And give him a demo while doing it, so he can feel it instead of assuming what would feel good. Do what feels good for you and isn’t painful, that’s priority #1, next is prioritizing NOT snapping his cock, seen that happen, have had it almost happen, not fun, makes the sound of a …
/r/seduction19/10/21 08:30 PM
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Eh, put it another way. She throws those pictures into the void, same as going to the beach, and she makes bank off sorry losers too wrapped up in their porn addictions and fuckin simp mentalities to ever get close to a girl, let alone a pretty girl. You’re throwing out anything and everything just to satiate your ego, maybe check yourself, bud. I hate that girls can make money for simply existing and doing what they’d already do, but we’d both do it if we were girls. Maybe curtail your jealousy…
/r/seduction19/10/21 08:25 PM
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Yeah my bad, in the back of my mind I kept saying “this might not be exactly what they’re asking”. I think focusing on a routine might be a bit robotic vs energetic, if you get what I’m saying with that. Just flow with it, if she’s having fun and you’re having fun, you’re both having fun. A trick I use that has served me well, is imagining I’m the girl that I’m fooling around with. If I were her, what would I find fun? I’m not saying you need to know what she’d find fun and try to guess - that b…
/r/seduction18/10/21 10:23 PM
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Yes it is better to talk in person when available. However, it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t call or text when they text you or call you, just don’t let it eat up your time. A VERY easy way to make sure it doesn’t, make sure you have something going on later when she does text or call so you have a reason to leave and not get sucked in the trap of getting ghosted for being too available, I see that one happen a lot. If she wanna text, maybe shoot back a text saying “how bout you call me instead, pu…
/r/seduction18/10/21 09:28 PM
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Hey im gonna tell you something, even after only having had sex with one long term girlfriend. It’s not about specificity in what you say, its about energy. Do NOT focus to much on that, or any of what I say when you go into the actual scenario. Just chill wayyyyyy the fuck out. If you imagine that EVERYONE on earth has a tempo, like a vinyl record spinning below their feet, you might find your walking tempo to be quicker than it spins, meaning you’re too fast for your own vibe. Anxious. If you …
/r/seduction18/10/21 09:20 PM
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I think the Japanese do this. Breasts aren’t overly erotic - even if they’re still a part of sex, but its the back of the neck that does it for them. I agree with you halfway, as they’re both beautiful, and serve a function. Remembering their function makes it clinical in nature and ensures no attraction for that body part, until you ‘forget’ the nature of them and go back to being mesmerized by them at your own will. Good strat, mate. This’ll keep the boner down and the gaze up
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:13 AM
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Telepathist? Or therapist? Neithet, truthfully, though I’ve been in therapy since I was 5. It’s just a matter of considering both sides, which isn’t as tricky as one thinks, just think of yourself in their situation. You would probably want some time to think up a response, and you can also imagine what it feels like to leave someone left on read - either due to thinking, forgetting, or perhaps ignoring them, and knowing what that would mean for the other person (in this case, yourself). “Spend …
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:11 AM
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I find people need to lighten up on the concept of “Seen” over texts. If you’re left on read over into the next day, may be a bad sign. But some people are bad at texting and the benefit of the doubt that they’re thinking up a response should be considered. This doesn’t mean double text either, its just another possibility of either being ignored OR thinking. It can’t be known either, so no need to worry about, and that goes both ways. Don’t worry about needing to speak; in person, over text, yo…
/r/seduction16/10/21 11:33 PM
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Depending on the context, it reads as dumping your emotions on someone else. Reads as clingy, and thats the only way it could come off. Seeking validation for the thoughts. My strategy to that is to type it all out, and then let it sit there for a little bit while i sort it in my head into something easily digestible, like one sentence. If not, i just delete it, and keep that thought for me. Leave the phone. Come back to the same text as if i just got it for the first time and then i can respond…
/r/seduction15/10/21 11:52 PM
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Then get in their way. Love yourself first, keep doing it, you’ll get bored of only loving yourself. If you do get bored of that, stay disciplined in loving yourself like your parents might love you, thats your job you owe to yourself. THE GAME isn’t dropping responsibility for yourself and then loving someone else, its loving you, then loving a second person. When someone catches your eye, they’ve appeared in front of you. ALL of reality appears before you, sometimes its down the road, the road…
/r/seduction15/10/21 11:48 PM
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Attitude = Altitude
/r/seduction15/10/21 11:11 PM
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I believe that means they’re emotionally bonded with you. I wonder if getting emotionally bonded with both, then acting to the other like you like the other more. For both of them. Maybe both girls should feel like the favourite, and that you like them more than the other one. I think thats easy in theory to do, but it might involve some fuckery. Not really though, since if youre a really genuine and nice person, if you’re clever with word choice you can put that notion in their head. There is N…
/r/seduction14/10/21 11:39 PM
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I lock myself in my head, i suppose. Trying to articulate emotions and everything and trying to not be a stone cold person like my dad, so i would say - honestly - my “deep” conversations are pretty much just me being my mother’s therapist when growing up, and then extending that to myself. Which is good, i need to do that for myself, but it probably seems self absorbed to others, whom i also try to help out with their stuff. Not to try and fix people, but its nice when i manage to coax out some…
/r/seduction14/10/21 11:29 PM
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You make an excellent point about that. Most people i talk to though seem like they’ll talk and talk and talk, and ill gladly listen, i could do it all day, but it feels like its never reciprocated back. Feels like few chances to talk, never really get asked questions about myself. It always feels one sided like I’m asking questions and having to answer back, but never the other way around Maybe i just dont get conversation too well. Ill work on it, thanks
/r/seduction14/10/21 11:18 PM
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You are looking at “be dominant” wrong. Theres a right way, and a wrong way. Wrong way is exactly what you’re imagining when “be dominant” is said. The right way is to be dominate over yourself. Over your life, the parts you can control. You can only control yourself, and any parts you think you’re in control of, the Life Dragon you’re riding is merely letting you believe you’re in control. Thats okay though, because it at least feels like control. When shit gets out of control, people freak the…
/r/seduction13/10/21 10:14 PM
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Bro thats fuckin easy, its the surface level shit i struggle with. My surface level is some deeeeeep shit because its all i think about all the time, nearly obsessively. I dont think its obsessive, as its kind of my lifestyle since i was but a wee lad. My issue is not knowing what other people’s surface level is. Easy fix to that is just observe the room, take a few minutes to socially calibrate to a much more surface level discussion, and i just pull the conversation ever so slowly down into th…
/r/seduction13/10/21 09:55 PM
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“Hey, just curious, why do you do such and such?”
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:37 PM
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You have to go out of your way anyway. But guess what? You never went out of your way, you went where you decided to go, Tiger. March on
/r/seduction06/10/21 06:52 AM
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So this has been flared as Outer Game, but here’s the secret. The secret to outer game is inner game. Outer game is simple: Go talk to people. Boom. Done. People are just things to watch by your inner self. It’s easy to know what interests them, just follow popular culture and find the exceptions to the rule of popular culture, keep your niches as something they discover as you sprinkle it if you feel ashamed. You shouldn’t. Everyone has hobbies. You’ll see them sprinkle their niches around you …
/r/seduction06/10/21 06:50 AM
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Uh she tried to rape you bro
/r/seduction06/10/21 06:30 AM
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You do belong to something. You belong in your own skin. You’re a human. And you belong to the group of beings called humans. You already belong, bro. You don’t need a group that contradicts itself (as much as it says women contradict themselves) to tell you that you belong. The fact that you long for belonging means you’ve forgotten what it means to belong in the first place. When I was told by my family they loved me unconditionally I couldn’t feel it. I blew my family up, became homeless for …
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 11:07 PM
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I think what it takes is having a plan before you enter the classroom. How do you lead a group anywhere when you don’t have a plan for yourself to move to. Being a leader isn’t leading others, it’s leading yourself and letting others let THEMSELVES be comfortable with your lead. You ARE the classroom, as the teacher. That whole room that kids enter? That’s you. You are the all seeing eye as a teacher, and they have to know this. They know this by you calling them out on their shit as you see it,…
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 10:58 PM
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No, if my girl isn’t making around what I make, or put it another way, if she’s not putting in as much effort into her life as I’m putting in my life, she’s not high value, and why would I as a “high value man” settle for someone who does less than I do? I don’t want to have to slow down my morning jogs because she can’t keep up, is too lazy to XYZ with me. I want an equal, I don’t want to have someone below me, who is automatically my equal because she’s a woman. You’re real fucked up here, so …
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 10:27 PM
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Holy fuck you slayed them
/r/MensRights03/09/21 08:23 PM
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Men gotta unlock the potential in themselves. You can help foster this by hanging around women, not to be sexual, but to just talk about softer topics. Men and women are two sides of the same coin. Women are typically emotional ones, and can be more ‘manly’ and get shit done. I see it all the time around my town, there’s some hard women around. But they don’t live in it. The ones that intimidate me are the ones who are ‘too manly’. They’re too similar to a man, they just have a woman’s body, and…
/r/MensRights02/09/21 10:46 PM
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Exactly! Don’t be afraid to compliment men more because you think they’ll think there is ulterior motive. That’s often on our mind, until we’re proven that there wasn’t anything other than a compliment. Women being afraid to compliment men because of this, and thus not complimenting anymore, would only serve to confirm our bias. We’re all friends, and friends compliment each other simply for the compliment. I don’t assume my bro friends are seeking something, other than a compliment back. With t…
/r/MensRights01/09/21 12:09 AM
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You can do the same with girls, it just takes practice to find the voice for guys. But both of them, are hypnotic. It’s what the inflection up and down is for. To grab the mind and pull it like a horse on a lead, up and down, up and down, up and up, and back down. It’s seductive. But seeing it happen, by breathing and not letting emotion, key one here being lust, you can see what buttons they try to push. It’s your control board, get that bitch outta your DJ Booth, she’s messing up your set. Or …
/r/MensRights31/08/21 11:46 PM
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You’re not inconveniencing them, they just don’t know how to take a compliment because we don’t take them. We give them. But life is give and take. We’re just flustered. We should just be seeing a faceless mannequin (meaning, could be guy or girl) compliment us and we should take it as an objective truth that we look good, or this or that, but we see “woman complimenting us” and we breakdown. Men, you gotta embrace compliments. They’re the gold stars that we bust our asses off at work for. You w…
/r/MensRights31/08/21 11:33 PM
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Just don’t pick sides. Play your side, your role, you’ve been given a jersey, but shake the opponent’s hand because we’re all friends playing a game. That’s all. It’s like a chess match. You’re white, I’m black, let’s play. But let’s understand it’s just a game and I respect you and will shake your hand, end of the day. I think I’m just parroting what you said
/r/MensRights31/08/21 11:25 PM
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This directness doesn’t just translate to romantic relationships. EVERY single interaction you have someone, there is a relationship. It’s a bridge between two people. It can be platonic, it can be romantic, it can be platonically sexual (FWBs), it can be romantically sexual (western dating relationships). You have a relationship with everyone around you, and it is everyone’s job to be aware of what signage is mounted above that bridge. Men like directness. We hate indirectness, rather, we just …
/r/MensRights31/08/21 11:19 PM
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How is that even possible to get graded lower for just a name? The answers should be the same, there shouldn’t be discrimination as a result, how the fuck does this happen?
/r/MensRights29/08/21 11:53 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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