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| 30 | How do I gently tell my bf that he should start doing more leg days?Hitting legs/ lower body is the fastest way to become more muscular overall. It also boosts testosterone and growth hormone. Tell him that if he wants to increase his test levels and get bigger up top, he should focus on gaining lower body size as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/22 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Learning to run through HellNot just the nature of women but his own nature. OP fought toxicity with toxicity and dropped himself down several levels in the process. The goal of a man RP or not should be to always get better than he was in the past. What OP did was petty and fearful (cloning your girl’s phone is the definition of BP). No amount of vetting or screening can prevent weak inner game. OP is angry and bitter and reluctant to accept their own flaws. Their responses to people pointing that out in this thread is de… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/22 02:29 PM |
| 5 | Guy getting gaslit for 16 minutes straight (Breakup video)AWALT is a reminder. It’s easy to forget this side of women when you’re lost in the sauce. And forgetting it can be very costly. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/22 01:11 AM |
| 4 | I [33M] just decided to separate from hot ukrainian wife [32F] right after she started to build a new LTR with a random dude. Why has she ruined our marriage? To what extent is it my fault?No he’s not spinning plates but he’s not under any delusions regarding the attraction he’s receiving from his ex. He knows she wants him physically because she’s demonstrating as much with her behaviour. You seem to be finding it hard to understand that said attraction is possible and instead are assuming that he’s lying to himself (and you) because he doesn’t display the ability to “provide and protect”. The former has no bearing on whether a woman wants to fuck or not. The latter’s is marginal… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 03:45 PM |
| 1 | I [33M] just decided to separate from hot ukrainian wife [32F] right after she started to build a new LTR with a random dude. Why has she ruined our marriage? To what extent is it my fault?You just don’t get the concept of AF-BB do you? Clearly not if you think attraction is based on the ability to provide. Read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 03:37 PM |
| 3 | I feel a void/emptiness in me I cannot fill or satiate. Sometimes I feel like I am not who I am supposed to be. How does one overcome this?You’re the product of emotional neglect. Read running on empty. It won’t give you all the answers but it will situate you and provide valuable insight. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 04:36 AM |
| 65 | A month ago I was addicted to cocaine, heartbroken, and broke. Smoked DMT one day and swallowed my red pill; been lifting, working construction and sober every day. Cheers to a life worth living.Good work. A word of advice: be smart (and patient) with your body. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 03:06 AM |
| 22 | Just found condoms in my LTR purse. WE DON’T USE CONDOMS.He already has his answer. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 01:15 AM |
| 1 | I’m kinda losing it boys. Talk some sense into me please.You haven’t mourned. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Feel like a loserRead Running On Empty by Jonice Webb. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 03:37 PM |
| 6 | Red Pilled Women don't want to be with red pilled men, which is a misconception I see people making on other subs. Difference between a HVM and a RP man.People have been misunderstanding TRP for ages now and it’s gotten even worse since the Reddit ban. I was endorsed there a long time ago and generally keep a low profile, helping out on asktrp where I can. But with more and more people getting a distorted view of what TRP is, I find myself more and more keeping my mouth shut. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/21 06:24 PM |
| 2 | plates as escapism from anxietyYou’re finding that the external is all superficial. Women, sex, money; all that stuff is meaningless in the grand scheme of things. Your anxiety likely stems from feeling a lack of ability to control your self/ situation and a sense that things are not really settled in your life. You may be on a mission and are working towards satisfying your needs as they relate to it, but I believe there may be needs you have yet to address that are now coming to the forefront of your awareness. Needs like r… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 04:05 PM |
| 82 | Dealing with loneliness?Loneliness is a symptom of isolation. It’s likely you feel isolated because you’re not connected to people or part of something bigger | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 12:17 AM |
| 3 | Need advice on dealing with promotion rejectionYour question doesn’t pertain to sexual strategy and is better placed in another sub. I will say this however: you are the prize and whatever decisions you make should reflect that mindset. If you undervalue yourself, you give carte blanche for others to do the same. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/20 08:16 PM |
| 2 | My brother plays video games all day and he's 26 with no job, job experience, or degree. What should I do?Then there’s nothing really you can do in this situation because you have no authority. Your mom is the enabler but you have no leverage on her so realistically anything you insist she does will not happen. Clearly he lacks awareness so it’s not likely that any initiative will come from his end. Until you’re in a position where your mom depends on you for something and you can provide that thing with conditions for your brother, the situation will not change. The best thing you can do now is to … | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 11:35 PM |
| 3 | My brother plays video games all day and he's 26 with no job, job experience, or degree. What should I do?You’re supporting him too much. In fact you’re downright enabling his lifestyle. If he didn’t have a roof over his head do you honestly think he’d be as relaxed as he is now? Kick him out. Keep tabs on him but ensure he’s fending for himself. Then he has to choose to either sink or swim. If he chooses the former you have to accept there’s nothing you can do. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Don't know where else to post, just have a lot on my chest.Understanding: it feels terrible to open your heart to someone and have them take it for granted. To be trampled on and not shown an ounce of respect. Advice: you need to be honest with yourself about what happened and how it happened. You need to think about boundaries and validation and what those terms mean to you. Frame has been lost. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Is putting effort into improving a girl's life a mistake?You’re doing things with the expectation of reward. Either come to terms and vocalize the expectations or don’t have them in the first place. Or stop doing things altogether. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/20 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Are some guys really arrogant because they've gone way too long without someone putting them in check?That’s not inner game. That’s inner delusion. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 03:26 PM |
| 3 | How long did it take you to build a body that was in the top 1% - 5%?It never stops | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 08:43 AM |
| 4 | Really don't know whats wrong with me.You have victimized yourself and now come asking us why you are a victim. You make excuses for why things will go wrong before you have even made attempts at them. Stop complaining and start actually doing something with your life. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 03:19 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being envious of friends and people in general ?Use your school’s resources. Talk to your advisors, program, coordinators and counsellors until you have something you find you can actually make use of. Forget about trying to find something interesting or that you’re passionate about. Find something you’re good at, that you can get better at, and that you can be challenged on and has some real future applicability. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 02:13 AM |
| 14 | Ex LTR Messaged MeShe said a lot about her feelings and little else about specific behaviours that needed to be addressed. Basically what she provided you was fluff to make herself (and possibly you) feel better with “closure”. Unless there is a clear plan and she’s taken the time to identify behaviour that needs correcting, this is a waste of time. Don’t engage. Oh and get your head straight before you jump into another LTR. Yea you might be a “high quality man” now but you said it yourself - you were simping ha… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 03:41 PM |
| 1 | How did you deal with the red pill anger phaseThis is when you stop making women and sex the focus of your life and look for something greater. You need monk mode. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/20 09:25 PM |
| 15 | Doubt sidebar, pay the price.Then you’re not ready to be in a LTR. Being invested at a higher degree does not mean compromising who you are. All relationships are an addition to, not a replacement of, who you are and what you stand for. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/20 11:16 PM |
| 2 | What are good cheap causes to donate to that make an observable or significant impact and can make you feel good the most, for the least investment?Initially, I was thinking sponsoring an African child orphan, but those charities are sketchy as fuck, and honestly, sponsoring a random African child would seem pretty fucked up in the sense that I'm throwing dollars at a human being trying to make it out another day and treating their literal "do or die" experience as my plaything for a little gratitude experiment. So I'm crossing that option out. Clearly you can rationally reason (and thank fuck for that). The question then becomes: what is t… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 04:41 PM |
| 4 | Can’t figure out what to do with herHow were you allowed to post this? | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | How does one get better at story telling?Make a point to whatever you’re saying. People often stare facts with no sense of progression or conclusion. If you have something you want to say then say it in a way that you want people to listen. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 11:39 PM |
| 1 | How to control your own thoughts?Do you work out? | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Dating very attractive girl with high N-Count and many male "orbiters". Seeking advice on handling jealousy.In saying that, you’re already committing to a course of action that puts her validation of you above your own. You should never want to be an ‘anything’ for anyone other than yourself. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 03:21 PM |
| 7 | How to keep motivation for academics?Your distress stems from a lack of purpose. You’re doing this thing but you’re not sure why you are doing it. You’ve heard it’s the right path for you but you don’t believe it. You might feel that you’ve put too much time and effort in to it to just stop now but at the same time, if you spend more time and money on something you’re not sure of, will a part of you not regret it? This is a part of the process. You’re at a point where you need to ask yourself some hard questions. The first being, c… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 02:02 AM |
| 19 | Group of friends says I make other females feel uneasy and uncomfortable.Some of you find TRP then go full sperg and alienate everyone you know. Then you come here, get circlejerked into thinking you’re “muhAlpHa” and don’t learn a thing about social dynamics. You can’t change your skin overnight when your circle has known you as you for as long as they have. Either learn to change gradually or find a new circle entirely. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 04:59 PM |
| 4 | LTR of about a year says “I feel like you have no problem with throwing me away anytime and it scares me so much”Are you actively listening to what she’s saying when you argue or are you focused on reaffirming what your position is? Relationship game is different from plate-spinning game. You need to tone down the alpha somewhat to sustain a healthy and conducive relationship. Her telling you that is a sign that your dread levels might be too high or disproportionate to your arguments. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 10:02 PM |
| 9 | My life is decent and I'm lucky. I am also depressed and nothing excites me.“Don’t be ashamed to need help. Like a soldier storming a wall, you have a mission to accomplish. And if you’ve been wounded and you need a comrade to pull you up? So what?” Marcus Aurelius (Meditations, Book 7, Section 7) You cannot be weak minded if you’re taking active steps to better your mental health. Therapy is one such step. You take care of your body when it’s not well. Why should your mind be so different? I can’t quite speak to your brothers situation, however I think I can say with c… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 06:21 PM |
| 20 | My life is decent and I'm lucky. I am also depressed and nothing excites me.You might also need to speak to a professional about your depression instead of just self diagnosing. Your issues may be set off by events in your past that you’ve since forgotten or have suppressed. Rather than falling into a cycle of peaks (when you have a new plate, things are ‘going your way’ etc.) and troughs (plates break, obstacles with work/life etc.), you need to find a way to be more mentally consistent and resilient. I say this as the former may have you in a ‘one step forward, one st… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 05:29 PM |
| 9 | My life is decent and I'm lucky. I am also depressed and nothing excites me.He might be trying to minimize his costs for early retirement. Jumping ship as soon as you can is increasingly becoming the less smart decision. If you can afford to save as much as you can as early as you can while maximizing your income, you stand to gain a lot for your future. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Am I the ultimate blue pill right now?Talk to a lawyer so you get custody of your child. Do not in any way inform her of this. In the meantime start looking at ways to get as far away as possible from her. Once again do not in any way allow her to clue in to any of this. This woman has broken you and does not care about you. The result is that you care very little for yourself. You’ve internalized the way she sees you and have come to view it as the way you are. Your tone even in the title - “Am I the ultimate blue pill ?”- is defea… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Lost work - sexual harassmentThat you gave me an answer means you made what I was asking out to be harder than it was. Honestly you strike me as someone that’s used to having things somewhat easy based on your post and your responses to very simple questions. Read the sidebar and start actually practicing this shit. Live and breathe TRP before you post here again. This isn’t a fucking hugbox. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/20 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Lost work - sexual harassmentWhy? I asked you a straightforward question. If you feel your answer is so complicated to warrant a DM then you should be the one to message me. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/20 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Lost work - sexual harassmentWelcome to real life. Shit isn’t fair. Especially as a man. You have to learn from it and learn to deal with it. What are you doing in your life right now that’s in line with TRP? | /r/askTRP | 26/02/20 05:57 PM |
| 6 | Lost work - sexual harassmentThen you’re not as bad off as you made it out to seem. Losing out on a grocery store job is hardly a career killer. Take your L and learn from it. Pursuing action here will likely be way more hassle than it’s worth. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/20 05:53 PM |
| 6 | Veer Clear of Female TherapistsA good therapist can you dissect and analyze life events and behaviours that hinder your growth. The gym alone cannot do that, but it is a good starting point from a mental-health-is-tied-to-physical-health point of view. Don’t undersell the value of something just because you’re not aware of it. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 01:52 AM |
| 6 | Girl literally gave me the dates and times during the week where she would be somewhere and told me she'd give me her number then.This is it. She wants to see just how desperate OP is. Do not pursue. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/20 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Why would my LTR say this shit to me? Is it a shit test or is she just stupid?/thread | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 03:58 AM |
| 1 | You can't be perfectThat’s just the point though. His idea of masculinity isn’t something you should take note of in an attempt to form your own. You form your own idea of masculinity through your own experiences as a man. You have a resource in TRP in that it gives you the facts of sexual dynamics. TRP doesn’t say “do this” or “do that”, it tells you how things are. How you navigate those dynamics forges your experiences which in turn, moulds your ideas of masculinity. Do you see the distinction? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/20 05:30 AM |
| 9 | You can't be perfectYour comment is exactly the wrong behaviour that is being alluded to in this post. Why does his definition matter? Does it help you define yours? That in itself is a contradiction. Your journey is your own as is your definition. TRP is a toolkit. You have the tools. You don’t need a model as no one model applies. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/20 11:46 PM |
| 2 | UPDATE; my fiancé cheated on me while drunkThis needs to be higher up the page. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Course of action hereWell look at the facts of the matter. You set plans. She changed those plans (1st strike) and gave you notice of the change after the plans were scheduled to take place (2nd strike). However she attempted to reschedule your plans conveying sustained interest in you. In this case I would say rather than cutting contact for a few days which would make you seem butthurt, plan and set your own schedule and events first and then respond to her request, communicating what works for you after it has be… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Course of action hereTreat her as a plate but be aware that you may have a tendency to pedestalize her given that she represents a break from what has been your recent norm. Having said that it’s probably a good idea for you to brush up on plate theory so you know what boundaries to enforce and what to be aware of given your perception of her. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 08:25 AM |
| 3 | Course of action herebut still a plate I invested in more than the others Then she’s not a just a plate to you. She is more than that and more than you’re willing to admit. If you can’t be honest with yourself and what you want then you’re already treading in oneitis territory. Leave it on read, proceed as usual - it doesn’t matter. You’ve already caught feelings by thinking about “this one girl” so much. Read the sidebar again. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Course of action hereYou’re still stuck in the retaliatory mentality. You think just because of a perceived something she did, you have to respond in kind. That’s over investing and shows that she means more to you than you’re willing to admit. She’s a plate. You meet up when it fits your schedule best and don’t give it more thought than that. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 07:07 PM |
| 6 | One-ItisYou’ve still got her on a pedestal. You spinning plates is not helping you address the real issue which is your insecurity and your low valuation of yourself. You’d be better off going monk mode for a bit (and actually sticking to it) than trying to fill a void of your own creation with other girls. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Hey, I'm recently unplugged and I've been dating my first girl post redpill. I've run into an ldr situation and I need advice.The girl didn’t tell you how long she would be gone for and you think you matter to her? Are you that desperate to be in a relationship? You have a lot to learn. Stay out of relationships for a while and cut this one off. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 06:55 PM |
| 16 | Has anyone deep in TRP noticed just how relevant the 48 laws of powers is in social dynamics? It's like it makes more sense every day.Now that’s a wild idea. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Taking creatine for the first time?$12 for gains Sounds like you think that creatine is a wonder drug to me. But maybe you meant something else I have gone through the motions of the process by making significant natural gains in the past 2 years. You’ve been lifting for 2 years and yet you don’t know anything about creatine use? Come on man. You’re spending time getting agitated instead of listening to what’s being said. Whatever man. Good luck to you. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 07:49 PM |
| 4 | Taking creatine for the first time?You seem to be under the impression that taking this “wonder drug” will improve your life immensely. To start, creatine is only effective for some and not for all. I myself never found any benefit to supplementing with it so know that if you are going to try it out, you might not get the results you want or expect. Second, gains are made in the kitchen. You need a caloric surplus and enough protein intake to build muscle. Supplementing with creatine won’t magically make you huge. Creatine is not… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Shitting all over my tableNo good can come of it. This is especially true in the service industry where lines seem more blurred. You will regret it. But on your own head be it. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Dropped by a FWB and It has confused me....For future reference women care less about a man with kids than men care about a women with kids. If anything having kids means that a man has means to support both himself and others and that he is responsible to some degree: qualities in line with those of a beta bux. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 03:27 PM |
| 8 | When a plate knows they are a plateSo you’re entirely defined by your genetic potential huh? You must be the missing link between man and beast then. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/19 01:20 AM |
| 8 | Got offered a DJ gig in a nearby country by a girl I used to sleep with. Tempted to bring my FWB who loves skiing. Recipe for disaster?You want us to tell you it’s a bad idea? Fine. It’s a bad idea. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/19 08:15 PM |
| 45 | AWALT. Lesson's you can learn from Chanel Miller and Brock TurnerMen will always lose a case of he said vs she said. Black men lose more. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/19 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Girl is attempting to friendzone me even when she is clearly attracted to meYou’ve already been friend zoned. Just how much talk between you two involves anything sexual in nature? And may sexual I mean you doing something to her or suggesting that you would do something to her. My guess is none at all. If sex isn’t spoken about then your relationship is platonic. Remember that for next time. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 01:26 AM |
| 19 | The Correct Way to Ask a Girl OutYou had plans either way right? Her maybe doesn’t change that. You are the prize. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/19 02:54 AM |
| 1 | I’m a girl [F18]. I know this subreddit is meant for guys but I need some advice from dudes. It’s to do with my boyfriend...I see two possible scenarios: The first is that his libido doesn’t match yours. What’s his lifestyle like? Diet, exercise and work-life should be condidered here. If he’s leading a healthy lifestyle then it may point to the second scenario - that you might be too aggressive in your approach. Men welcome openness to sex from women but we also enjoy the chase. You being so forthright may be something of a turn off if you’re being too forward about it. By being so direct you remove the opportunity … | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 06:25 AM |
| 1 | I’m a girl [F18]. I know this subreddit is meant for guys but I need some advice from dudes. It’s to do with my boyfriend...What are you doing besides talking to spark his interest? | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 02:57 AM |
| 6 | No more Interest from Girls after Maximizing my Looks & Steroids. Diving into Depression. Should I switch to Cold Approaches?You’ve read TRP but you haven’t internalized anything by the looks of it. You’re still searching for validation from everything outside of you and forgetting that the only validation is that which comes from within. Your mission is so linear and one dimensional that it’s no wonder you’re not coming anywhere close to the end of it. 2 years and no results. That should tell you everything you need to know about what you’re doing with your life (hint: it’s not much). Your entire post screams victim … | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 07:26 PM |
| 4 | Instagram model that confuses me , need adviceYou pedestalized her from the get go and that ruined any chances you had. So what if she’s got a million followers on Instagram? “And she chose me.” Sheesh. You’re so sad. Read the sidebar and start from scratch. You’ve got a lot to learn. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Otherwise great LTR has health issues affecting our sex lifeTRP is amoral. That’s literally one of the first things stated in the sidebar. Stop giving out advice based on your own sense of morality. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 09:24 PM |
| 7 | Otherwise great LTR has health issues affecting our sex lifeThis is a moral question. TRP is amoral. This is on you friend. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 03:02 AM |
| 4 | FWB has at least two other regular guys. I want her more regularly but not sure how I can do thisYou are captain save a ho in the flesh | /r/askTRP | 04/05/19 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Wanted to share my thoughts after reading No More Mr Nice GuyHow is this even being downvoted? What ever happened to taking a minute to think? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 11:15 PM |
| 4 | Women will prove AWALT out of nowhere.Wait until you realize that a major part of why you two got together in the first place was because of how ‘exotic’ you are as a Brazilian. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/19 07:23 PM |
| 2 | A view from the other side: I'm now the guy I was afraid of while in relationshipsI’d argue that the two worked hand in hand. Societal pressures made men hold themselves to a higher standard, and holding each other to a higher standard made societal pressures more evident and effective. My argument is that as the founders and creators of society, men have a duty to ensure that it continues to exist over time. In handing that responsibility over to women, and by being more outwardly self-serving, we’ve put ourselves on the precipice of societal collapse. We’ve lost sight of sa… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/18 04:40 PM |
| 19 | A view from the other side: I'm now the guy I was afraid of while in relationshipsIf I see a girl that I want to fuck, and she is receptive, I will fuck her, no matter if she has a boyfriend or not. And you’re part of the problem. I’m not going to judge the morality of your outlook. Instead I’m just going to flat out say that said outlook is more female than male. You’re acting on impulse to satisfy an immediate desire, consequences of your actions to your cohort be damned. Society functioned better when men held themselves to a higher standard. You saying fuck everyone but y… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/18 01:15 PM |
| 5 | A view from the other side: I'm now the guy I was afraid of while in relationshipsMy comment wasn’t directed at anyone in particular and was more so intended as a PSA. The report button calls the mods ban hammer to action, but the masses don’t get to see why said action was taken. By piggy backing on said comment, I’m doing my part to dispel false notions and give people a visible wake up call. If I have to use my EC stripes to do it, then so be it. Either way, my comment was more than just reactionary. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/18 01:11 PM |
| 41 | A view from the other side: I'm now the guy I was afraid of while in relationshipsIt’s not redpill. For the millionth time, the red pill is a toolkit not a dogma. There is no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ way to do things. There are only facts and what you choose to make of them. People cheer behaviour like that on and say enjoy the decline like it’s something cool. Most of y’all are still too stuck on your anger phases to actually be getting any pussy anyway so you play up such behaviour like it’s anything other than a means to live vicariously through another and jerk yourselves off t… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/18 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Keeping the weed smoking to a minimumI smoke weed everyday and it doesn’t affect me the way it seems to be affecting a lot of people here and I’ll tell you why. Weed is a psycho stimulant. Very often it amplifies whatever mental state you’re in. If you’re subconsciously anxious or apathetic, you will become more so on pot. On its own it’s not really “the source” of anything. Like anything it can be abused and I see it here all the time. You have to get in the right mental state before you can use it. I took a break for a year and h… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/18 04:46 PM |
| 12 | LTR showing IOIs to a guy with higher SMV.She’s not yours, it’s just your turn. Why is nexting not an option? You lack abundance and cannot execute dread game because of this. Focus on raising your SMV and making options available. Not telling you to cheat but having options is a DHV, facilitating dreadgame. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 03:14 PM |
| 10 | Disrespectful plate snaps me a pic of another guys bedsheetsSays more about the OPs vetting process if you ask me. If he feels strongly about her behaviour, he shouldn’t have associated with her to begin with. Part of having a plate is knowing what you’re getting yourself into. Can’t get mad at people for acting in a way that you know they’re going to. Only person he can get mad at is himself for feeling some type of way about it. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 06:13 PM |
| 5 | Would this gift be too much and too early?You should totally get her a phone that she can use to send nudes to other guys with. In fact, after you purchase said phone, you should send me her number so I can make sure the new phone works. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 02:56 AM |
| 12 | Best way to let a girl down in a reasonably nice way?“Hey I had a really good time last night but it made me realize that I’m really not ready to date right now. I’ve got some issues in my own life that I have to unpack and don’t want to lead you on and get your expectations up. I wish you all the best in the future. Take care.” | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 04:00 PM |
| 1 | What happens when you lose "passion" for women?And just like that you’ve now realized that TRP is not PUA. Congratulations. You’re journey has just begun. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 09:45 PM |
| 8 | Betrayed a best friend. My lowest point.If your friends are the type of people you can’t be honest with about serious shit, then you’re not as close as you think you are. Navigating peoples emotions is a large part of day to day interaction in society. While you should also navigate the emotions of those you call your friends, real friends should be willing to be put up with honesty that makes them uncomfortable (goes for you too). That’s because real friends will be there for both the good and bad. If your friend isn’t willing to go … | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 03:30 PM |
| 2 | FR Hotel Bar Hypergamy Direct Game ONSI never said you were cool. I said you aren’t as cool as you think you are. To be honest, I can pick up on your insecurity through your post. Also your better man comment: I suspect you’re confusing being a better man with being a NiceGuy. The two are not the same and you’d do well to understand the difference. Your approach now is rough and unrefined and my moneys on the fact that you’re still coming at the game from a point of scarcity. That scarcity is grounded in the fact that deep down you … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/18 04:54 PM |
| 1 | FR Hotel Bar Hypergamy Direct Game ONSYour story reads more like PUA porn than a TRP field report. That points to the notion that you have yet to internalize RP principles. Your self-importance is cosmetic. I doubt you honestly think you’re as cool as you think you are or portray yourself to be. Can’t fault you on your progress, but if you want lasting results, then you need to stop looking at the resources here as tricks to get you laid, and instead as tools to be a better man. A sidebar refresher is needed imo. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/18 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Is Entrepreneurship the only real way to become wealthy?Start a patreon or something. I’d contribute. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 01:09 AM |
| 3 | "A woman's sexual prime is in her 30's" <--myth?It’s a hormone thing. The dwindling fertility compels their bodies to try for ‘one last hurrah’. The closer they get to menopause, the more the body cries out for the fulfilment of its biological imperative: reproduction. Social constructs frame this as a sexual peak. It’s really just biology. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend got mad at me and we broke up for no reason, as I know..Judging by your responses I have to ask what you think you’re doing here. You know it’s over and possibly have some idea why now. Stop asking more questions until you’ve read the sidebar. That’s if you want to stay. If not, don’t let the door hit ya. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 01:48 AM |
| 2 | What books do you suggest?48 Laws of Power. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Another Depression/Isolation postYour sources of validation and life satisfaction are all external. Take away your money (or lack of it), your attractiveness, your progress in the gym, and what of you is left? Do you even know who you are as a person? The thing with depression is that it’s easy to get into a cycle of blaming the world for your problems or seeing yourself as incapable of dealing with your problems. Both of those stem from a lack of faith in yourself caused by a lack of understanding of yourself. And by understan… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 01:54 AM |
| 50 | Scientific Research validates Hypergamic Instincts in Women. The Redpill verified by science.Yup. Unfortunately most men still operate under the assumption that sex is the final goal - especially men who come here. When you’ve had enough, you realize that it really is replaceable. Higher awakening is something I’ve been calling for for a while now in this sub. It, however, requires a collective shift. Unfortunately for as long as people see this space as one to guide men to getting laid, and not as the greater tool that it is, we will continue to hear and be told that a tight wet pussy … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/18 04:30 PM |
| 3 | I have so much trouble holding frame.These things take time. Your awakening is just one step in a larger journey. The sooner you understand that and accept it, the quicker you’ll grow. There will be days when you feel like you’re regressing. Days when you feel like your progress has been for nothing. This is entirely normal and happens even to the most seasoned RP vets. It’s a consequence of being aware. Key to this is to remind yourself that it is a continual process of growth and rebuilding. That above all you are doing this to b… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 04:19 PM |
| 4 | What if we flipped the script here?Look I get it. We see stories of injustices and question what would happen if the roles were reversed. It’s a logical progression based off a series of events, and, as we are logical creatures, typical of the male mind’s need to make sense of things. The point you miss in all of this, is that all these exercises are a waste of time. Men and women are never, and will never, be judged by the same criteria. Thinking otherwise implies that you have fallen for the same convoluted and irrational thoug… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 12:01 AM |
| 3 | Whats your take on mixing weed with red pill?It's a pyschostimulant meaning it amplifies your pre-existing state of mind. If you're worried about stuff or feeling unfulfilled, even on a subconscious level, using cannabis will bring those thoughts and feelings to the foreground of your mind. In your case you're anxious because there are issues your sober self has yet to address or are not where you want to be. Pot brings those issues to light and forces them to be considered. Whether or not you're ready for that is a different thing altoget… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 08:24 PM |
| -8 | Cucked husband (married to a single mother) gets cheated on. Don't be that guy.And yet your post history suggests you are comfortable giving RP advice. So which is it? Are you new or are you aware? Here’s a piece of advice if the former is true. Read the sidebar before you go around dispensing advice, or asking questions even a cursory search of the sub can provide answers to. This is TRP. Our standards are higher here. Respect the space. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/18 04:42 PM |
| -2 | Cucked husband (married to a single mother) gets cheated on. Don't be that guy.Rollo’s spoken extensively about this. Does anyone use the sidebar resources anymore? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/18 04:35 PM |
| 20 | Guy rejects girl on Tinder, girl responds with vitriolic hatred and tells him to die, reddit responds with "He shouldn't have wasted her time!"And you’re suprised by this why? Stop holding yourself to the standards of women. Start holding yourself to the standards of men. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 02:48 PM |
| 5 | Plate found "The Art of Seduction" in my bookshelfNow you’re onto something. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 03:11 PM |
| 5 | I Answered to my hard-nexted ex text because today is an important day for her, did I fuck up?What was she doing with her life before you entered it? I ask because it seemed that she was doing just fine as far as coping goes, before you. Why then do you view it as your responsibility to be there for her after? Stop buying in to the illusion of being a nice guy. She'll live without you. Now block her and cut her out of your life. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 05:10 PM |
| 0 | I keep messing up my chances with women by being a nice guy. Really need help on how to change?Get a hooker. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 09:01 PM |
| 4 | Need some feedback on where a date went wrong.If you give a sexual vibe off early enough, it’s hard to come across as thirsty. Instead you communicated that you were looking for a relationship by being so generous without communicating a need for the reciprocation of your own resources. To be clear I usually handle the bills when I take girls out (after they’ve made an offer to pay). But I make it clear that I’m a sexual person and our whole reason even meeting up is to fuck. Starts off with casual physical contact quickly escalating into s… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 08:42 AM |
| 19 | Wtf just happened ?Where was your plausible deniability? Have you not read the sidebar? Girls want to feel like "it just happened". You didn't give her that option. In fact you had multiple opportunities to do so and did not. When you're inside them, feel free to use them like the sluts they want to be. Until then, you have to play the game. You can give it a week and then try and hit her up, but vhances are this is done. Call it a learning opportunity. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 08:02 AM |
| 0 | I would like to find a girl / woman for casual hookupYou came to a RP sub to mask your own failings and find casual companionship? Mods please ban this loser. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/18 12:06 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend became emotionally distant. What can I do?Oof. Debilitating oneitis, scarcity mentality, and lack of self confidence. Have you read the sidebar at all? | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 12:03 PM |
| 6 | My [22 M] college girlfriend [23 F] of three years left me. Says we need time apart.Sunk cost fallacy at play. You can make new memories. You can share new experiences. You can go through new things. All with a new girlfriend. She's not a part of your life anymore. But you are. Focus on that and move on. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/18 12:16 PM |
| 9 | The Only Real Reason for School ShootingsIf anything anger in men is seen as an unavoidable and defining shortcoming of our species. We can’t help being prone to anger because we’re brutish and prone to primitive behavior. Never mind the fact that it is men who are responsible for the bulk of societal development and said development could only have been achieved through our elevation beyond our simple primitive nature. But society wants men to be angry and belittles our anger as nothing more than a consequence of our nature. You keep … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/18 05:14 AM |
| 4 | How much do TRP rules apply to friendships with dudes? Like my lifelong best friend ignored something I posted for him on social media, and then he ignored my FaceTime call. So I playfully called him out on it, but I’m wondering if I should’ve pretended not to notice? He made excuses for all this.Have you read the side bar? If you had, you’d know that altTRP exists for exactly that purpose. Don’t be so quick to dispense advice if you’re not entirely knowledgeable. We have standards to maintain here. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 04:56 PM |
| 10 | How much do TRP rules apply to friendships with dudes? Like my lifelong best friend ignored something I posted for him on social media, and then he ignored my FaceTime call. So I playfully called him out on it, but I’m wondering if I should’ve pretended not to notice? He made excuses for all this.The essence of sexual strategy is lost on a lot of people and is why TRP is often mislabelled and misunderstood. I’ll give you a brief run down so you know exactly what this sub is about. My intention is for you to understand what TRP really is and see it for more than the “get-laid guide” a lot of users think it is. Sex refers to gender. Sexual strategy refers to the strategy you employ which is congruent with your gender. TRP is the toolkit that allows you to be the best man you can be. To be … | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Ignore her?You’ve got oneitis boy. Start looking for a new job. You’ve already fucked this one up. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 02:30 PM |
| 4 | How do you maintain IDGAF attitude while ensuring Law 5 of 48 Laws of Power is not broken, "so much depends on reputation—guard it with your life."I’m an asshole. I know I’m an asshole. Other people know I’m an asshole. But I’m also principled and fair. I know that. Other people know that. That’s my reputation and my NGAF summed up. It took time but it grew from being comfortable with myself. When you stop pandering to people and their judgements and put yourself first, you develop an understanding of yourself that makes this possible. Become more self-aware and the rest will fall into place. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 02:16 AM |
| 19 | Can you be neither alpha or beta and to just exist as a "lone wolf"?No. You want results, you put in the hard work. Either that, or TRP isn’t for you. You discredit and dishonour the sweat and toil of many men when you look for shortcuts. And that means that you do not deserve my respect or help. Be a man. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 01:06 PM |
| 15 | Can you be neither alpha or beta and to just exist as a "lone wolf"?If you’d done enough sidebar reading you’d know that what you’re referring to is a sigma. We are few and far between, but are the more natural alternative to MGTOW. Before you rush to identify as one though, ask yourself this: are you doing so because that’s what you actually are, or is it because you find the journey of self-discovery prompted by the pill, too difficult to stick with? If you answer honestly then you will know for sure and have congruence in life. Be dishonest and you will keep … | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Dating isn't for me right now because a. I'm not ready and b. Busy as fuck“I totally understand. I’ll speak to you soon.” No more. No less. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/18 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Why tf do I get teary-eyed when confronted.Because you’re a teenager and an emotional/hormonal mess. Stop being so hard on yourself. Give yourself time to become a man. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Getting an LTR to lose weightSure you could broach the idea of a couples work out but don’t hold your breath on it. In fact gym activities might not be your best bet there. I would suggest putting her on to some kind of fitness class or something of the like. Preferably something with an all female demographic. Pole-dancing lessons, burlesque dancing classes, hot yoga etc. could all be options. IMO that would be a better intro for her to get into fitness than a couples work out sesh could be. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 04:28 PM |
| 6 | girlfriend (24F) and what she did to me (31M) on NYE's this past year and how to handle future situations.Everything you’ve said and continue to say in this post points to your real and present belief in the notions of sunk costs of relationships. That is a fallacy. You stand to gain nothing more from this girl than you would from any other girl. You want RP advice? Leave this relationship now while you can with your head held somewhat high. Either that or we’ll be seeing you post here again in a few months saying how she ‘left you’. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Getting an LTR to lose weightIf you’re already on point about fitness in your own life, then simple dread or leading by example may not cut it. In my last LTR, I had to actively start mentioning other girls I saw that had a similar body type but were fitter. The thought of me checking other girls out and the knowledge that I was clearly points above her on the SMV scale, compelled her to start getting her shit together. I’d also reward her by being more freaky in bed. E.g she would make squat gains, I’d eat her ass more etc… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 09:22 PM |
| 1 | This girl wants me to fuck her while being engagedI hear you and your points are valid, but you’re looking at it from a pretty narrow perspective. In so far as blame is concerned, there is little that can touch him in the eyes of the law. But socially, he stands to gain nothing from the battering of another males psyche. If anything one could argue the net gain from informing is potentially greater than the gain from fucking her and harming this guys future. There’s a reason why the culture and building power flairs were instated on the main su… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 02:39 AM |
| 5 | This girl wants me to fuck her while being engagedI mean yea but here’s a thought: men are stronger in numbers. The enemy you create today may come back to haunt you. Is that a risk worth taking. Sometimes there’s more to life than NGAF. Foresight is a skill that one can develop and this could be an opportunity to hone said skill. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 03:23 AM |
| 4 | Can't connect during sexIt cultivates mindfulness which is in essence what allows you to resolve internal strife and conflict. Free-writing is one way to do it. Sitting down and meditating is another of the many more that are out there. As men we have a tendency to keep shit inside us. Our instinct is to get shit done and a lot of the times, that means putting aside whatever emotions are playing on your mind at the time. However bottling stuff in never helps. Catharsis is a necessary component of humanity, both for men… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/18 07:22 AM |
| 3 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaBecause it’s in their nature to be protective of their offspring. Women play the game on an instinctual level. We use TRP as a resource; they need no such resource to win. That knowledge of the game also comes with a subconscious knowledge of the perils it presents. Because they wish to shelter their offspring, they dispense advise that they think will mitigate any damage. The problem however is that their knowledge of the game is based in their use of emotion as a mechanism to understand realit… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 07:05 AM |
| 12 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaDamn long time no see my man. This is your answer OP. Calm down and take note. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 06:57 AM |
| 80 | one year of clubbing; here's my thoughtsYour writing is painful to read. It may work for the children and youths you surround yourself with, but this is TRP. This is a resource for men to better themselves with and a certain standard must be upheld. If you can’t respect that, then you have no business posting here, even if you have information to share. Respect is what binds men. If you can’t give it, don’t expect it. Now on to the subject of your post. Clubs are fun for a little while but a dead end for most people unless your plan i… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/17 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Going from "hoe" to "housewife"Is that right? I was looking at it from the perspective that a HQ man would take the time to properly vet a future partner’s past. If said man is RP, then the chances of him finding out about her past are increased. Hence my suggestion that she temper her aspirations - not abandon them totally as some may think. But hey, if you think that I’m projecting then I’m happy to hear you explain how and why. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/11/17 02:03 AM |
| 4 | Going from "hoe" to "housewife"Temper your aspirations. One way or another the truth outs. Not to say you can’t get what you want in terms of the relationship and commitment you seek. Just that it won’t be with as high a quality man as you think you can get. In short, the past is never the past. But that’s just my two cents. Maybe the ladies here can offer you a different perspective. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/17 09:35 PM |
| 133 | Study: Women prefer muscular, dominant, wealthy menYou’ve got the right idea but don’t be so quick to dismiss guys that do that. If you’ve ever been through a serious drought, then you should know that not getting any can create a crippling feedback loop. Dudes that can at least get some are often better off in their attitudes towards women than those who haven’t gotten their dicks wet in a minute. You are right though; the goal should always be to be better and get better. Hunger drives men on a primal level. That fact should never be forgotten… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 10:14 PM |
| 2 | how to bring a plate home in front of her friends?Only if you fuck it up by not doing what you’ve been told above. Honestly from the way you’re talking about her, I think she’s more than just a plate to you. Are you seeing anyone else? | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 08:19 PM |
| 2 | how to bring a plate home in front of her friends?Women talk. They know you're hooking up. If you're worried about discretion then you've lost. Have a good time, be fun to be around should your groups meet and have a back up option ready. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 06:52 PM |
| 5 | how to bring a plate home in front of her friends?There’s no way to be discreet. Women talk. Befriend her friends beforehand or at the event. If you put it in their minds that you’re a good guy, they will be less inclined to block you. However nothing is guaranteed. Your best bet is to have a back up option should things not go as planned. Also you’re going to events with her and friends. Are you sure she’s just a plate? | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys eat ass?Yup. My most recent plate is a freak and she loves it when I do. Also preps her for anal which is great. If you’re a freaky individual then do it. If not, move on. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/17 08:04 PM |
| 4 | New to RP. Best things to say to piss off girlClosure is for women. Be a man. Lift heavy shit. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/17 06:10 AM |
| 7 | Did I committed an imprudence at workYou broke a rule of power. Never outshine the master. Who appointed you as the staff spokesperson? I guess the answer is no-one. Will any of your co-workers come to your defense when you get singled out by your director? The answer is no. Start looking for a new job. And don't count on any references. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 06:23 PM |
| 13 | CNN released a 12 minute report about this subredditI get this all the time. I also have to downplay my own achievements and credentials so as to ‘prove my worth’ to other people. It’s frustrating for sure, but it’s also a way to filter those worth keeping around, and those to use for my own gain. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/17 06:11 PM |
| 4 | Anybody else find it really hard to let go of the past?Oneitis man. You gotta go out there and fill as many twats as you can. It’s the only cure. Fuck fat chick, hire an escort, hell go to a damn fetish party if you have to. Your mission is to get your dick as wet as possible. Take no prisoners. You’ll get over it. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 09:05 PM |
| 7 | Is this what you get when you stop trying to hard?Congratulations you’ve now discovered just how easy it is to get women. The apathy you feel is a sign that you need to refocus yourself on to a greater purpose. Women will come. Your life is still ahead of you. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 09:23 PM |
| -7 | How to handle other men coming to hit on a girl I'm *currently* talking with?Do you guys even read the sidebar? She’s not yours; it’s just your turn So what if some dudes hit on her? If you’re the prize you should be and you’ve done the necessary vetting she’ll shut it down anyway. If not then you move on. Simple. Now go read the damn sidebar. | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 06:34 PM |
| 2 | My GF Wants To Pick Up An Assistant/Escort Gig For A Weekend And I'm Not OK With It. How To Deal With This?You knew what you were getting yourself into. You have no one to blame but yourself. You want to stop feeling shitty about this situation? Leave. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/17 05:26 AM |
| 8 | I don't understand why she's suddenly such a bitchLmao she doesn't want you to solve her problems. She wants you to listen to them like the good little orbiter you are. What are you even getting out of this friendship that you wouldn't be able to get if it didn't exist? Move on man. You're looking real sad right now. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 09:43 AM |
| 6 | Anyone here been cheated on before?Yes you can but by that time you've already lost. A man must always be aware of his actions. But if you approach your actions towards your mate as preventionary then you don't have the abundance mentality and self-sufficiency necessary to even enter a relationship to begin with. The only way to enter a relationship is to have no fear of it ending. Anything less and you're just lying to yourself. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Been on TRP for 2 years. It's gotten me in bed with 60+ women and created a confident and aloof man. The side effects? Loneliness and the inability to form a bond to a woman who I should probably stick to. Side effects of TRP, not worth it. What do I (we) do?Again with the blaming. You got yourself sucked in. You succumbed to your anger and hate and let it dictate your course. TRP is not an entity that has say over your life. That's on you. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Been on TRP for 2 years. It's gotten me in bed with 60+ women and created a confident and aloof man. The side effects? Loneliness and the inability to form a bond to a woman who I should probably stick to. Side effects of TRP, not worth it. What do I (we) do?If you had actually read the sidebar and internalized it, you would understand that TRP is a toolbox not a way of life. You chose to create what you have with the tools you used. You have no one to blame but yourself. Be a man and accept responsibilty in your life. You said it yourself - you chose abundance over quality. You chose. You. You have to deal with the consequences of your choices. You're not beyond hope but you have to recognize your own agency before any redemption. Women blame. Men … | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 05:25 PM |
| 6 | I'm confused, women LIKE dirty talk???This is your answer OP. Recently started spinning this plate (~3 weeks). First time we fucked I tied her up and used my leash on her. She's been my kinky little slut since. She just texted me telling me how she can't stop thinking about me eating her since we last fucked. If I had started off trying to "make love" to her, her behaviour and subsequent responsiveness to my dirty talk would be entirely different. Frame is everything. Most girls want to be sluts for the guys fucking them. You just h… | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 08:43 PM |
| 20 | The journey so far (And how I could have got where I am faster)You include rap lyrics in your write up but don't go into detail about how those lyrics pertain to you. There are dozens of posts here rehashing RP concepts or repeating influential quotes - the mods can attest to the amount of bullshit they have to clean up. What separates good content from the mediocre is thoughtful analysis. As an EC and a hhh, it's easy for me to repeat lyrics from my favourite rappers and call it a lesson. But that's not enough. People - men especially - respond to the real… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/17 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Friendzoned by a plate?A plate is someone you're sleeping with on a casual non-exclusive basis. You're not doing any of that so she's not really a plate. There are no losses to cut when the stakes do not exist to begin with. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/17 04:31 PM |
| 5 | Broke up with my oneitis, need directionYou want a mission and you can't even get working out regularly down. What makes you think having a mission will be any different? Grow up. You don't build a wall in a day. You start with a brick at a time. Get your bricks in order. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 08:29 PM |
| 14 | Girlfriend of 4 years attracted to other guysYou're in the wrong sub. Ask for help at relationships. You're not ready for TRP. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 05:12 PM |
| 4 | Roommate who brought home a girl last night who moaned for 4 hours, not sure why I feel so bitter.Have you ever asked him for advice? I'm willing to bet you haven't. You've got a pretty big ego but it's based on arbitrary measures of success. Ask him to wing for you sometime. Put your ego aside for one second and you may learn a thing or two. You're roommates. I'm sure he's aware of the drought you're going through. You really have nothing to lose. Hell, you may even learn a thing or two. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/17 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Guy talking shit about meIt's the second law. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/17 05:22 PM |
| 10 | Guy talking shit about meThat's a symptom of the society we live in. Men have been feminized to the point that our greatest strength - male camaraderie - is a source of ridicule and derision. Friends don't really exist any more. They are way too few men out there willing to accept the burden of friendship. Robert Greene picked up on this a long time ago when he wrote the 48 laws. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/17 10:17 PM |
| 7 | How can I stop being funny, a clown and trying to make jokes and beign funny in class and just be serious as a teen?Why are you so worried about how you should be? What makes you think changing your personality to some arbitrary model is what you should strive to? Cultivate your own personality organically. You're a clown? Cool. Own that shit. The whole world is telling you what you should and shouldn't be. Are you really going to fall in to the same trap your peers have/will or are you going to be a man and make your own identity? | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Answering to "Are you ok? / Is everything ok? You seem off" in the correct way.Asking a counter question (i.e. "Why?") legitimizes her 'concern' and puts you in her frame. Speak in statements and avoid legitimizing shit tests. She's in your frame. Not the other way around. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Her mother shit tested meThis. It's especially true if the girl had a single mom. You're getting all the mom and none of the father. Generally speaking such girls should not even be in the running for commitment but with society the way it is, it's often unavoidable. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Not enough SMV for plates and too poor for escorts?Not the same thing. The dopamine release mechanism is still improperly triggered when you rub one out. Fucking a fat chick still requires some effort and it's that effort which ultimately trains your mind to approach bitches in the right way. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 06:32 PM |
| 8 | Not enough SMV for plates and too poor for escorts?Fuck a fat chick. Seriously. Sometimes you just need to get your dick wet enough to stop thinking about pussy. When that happens, women start to flock to you and show you more attention. They become drawn like moths to a flame just because your mind and demeanour isn't openly on poon. Fuck a fat chick. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 05:03 PM |
| 22 | Why do women/girls go to Church?Who knows. I know a woman who's a raging whore who goes to church every Sunday and teaches grade school. I fucked a girl a couple weeks ago who had crosses and scripture tattooed on her body. She wasted no time in telling me to fuck her in the ass. Bottom line: women do some pretty illogical shit. Not everything needs to be viewed with a RP lens. Focus on yourself and on understanding social dynamics that will help you. Musing on why women go to church is not one of those dynamics. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/17 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Back when TRP first took off, there was a quite abstract intro in the form of a story. Anyone has it?Might be confessions of a reformed incel. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Too many plates?Sounds like you're failing comfort tests. Even ONSs want to feel like they're more than that. For example, I just had one who called me an hour after we said goodbye asking to come back and spend another night. If you pass comfort tests, they'll be more likely to seek you out. What are your post hook up interactions like? | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 04:09 AM |
| 6 | Too many plates?Are you actually fucking these girls or laying ground work. If it's the former then it's an entirely personal thing as to what's too many. Personally I try to keep it at 3. If it's the latter than you need to actually cultivate the plate before moving on to the next prospect. Otherwise you're not using your time efficiently and are sending mixed signals. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 03:51 AM |
| 2 | #1 Trending Video on YouTube today is titled "Alpha Males Do Not Exist"Trap is the new gangsta rap. More shallow over all, but if you want entertainment that actually talks about the best mindset for women with men, you should check it out. Artists like Gucci Mane are real. More real than any of the mainstream trash you hear nowadays. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/17 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls always complain they were 'used for sex' when they get dumped?There's a concept in economics that pretty much dictates all principles that follow: demand and supply. Where it applies to the SMP is simple. Relationships between men and women revolve around the demand and supply of each other's currencies. For men it's time and commitment. For women it's sex. We demand each respectively and supply our own for the other. When a women feels 'used for sex' it's because she either supplied more of her currency and demanded more than she received, or overvalued h… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 09:45 PM |
| -23 | An AWALT Classic - Girl breaks up with her bf for living too frugally only to find out he's actually loaded, a year later the story's changed to her breaking up with him for "lying by omission".Women are prone to promiscuity. More so than men. It's a consequence of hypergany. He focused on that particular statement in the entire post. It betrays latent bitterness. You can't hold what is essentially female nature against a female. That's just a waste of time. But hey, interpret it how you will. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/17 06:18 PM |
| -43 | An AWALT Classic - Girl breaks up with her bf for living too frugally only to find out he's actually loaded, a year later the story's changed to her breaking up with him for "lying by omission".Angry. True? Maybe. But definitely angry. Move past that. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/17 04:26 PM |
| 1 | "The Red Pilled"True. And discipline comes from within. You both have valid points. You just need to recognize that. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/17 07:38 AM |
| 4 | What's the point ?You don't identify with any of the things you've mentioned. That's why they don't really matter to you. You lift and fight and earn because that's what you think you have to do, not because it's what you really want. Who are you doing all of that for? It certainly isn't for you. You need to find the thing to do that's for you. No-one's going to help you with that. It wont be easy to find out what that thing is. But it's better than lying to yourself and being depressed. Men need to create to fee… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/17 08:23 PM |
| 15 | How should an alpha react when betrayed, lied to, or taken advantage of?Your machinations should be kept to yourself. They took advantage of your trust? You don't trust them again. Outwardly your demeanour should not change. They've slipped up and showed you their hand. You keep your cards close to your chest going forward. Perceive this opportunity as a gift. Before anything though, you have to ask yourself how you came to be betrayed in the first place. There is no alpha or beta here. Just an opportunity to learn and be better. Be Machiavellian. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/17 07:04 AM |
| 3 | How to Train Your Brain to Wake Up Like a Coked Out MadmanMeditation is a mechanism for mindfulness. Sleep is a mechanism for rest. The two are different. You would know this if you meditated. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/17 03:50 PM |
| 20 | How to Train Your Brain to Wake Up Like a Coked Out MadmanGood, though a little over the top. Here's a condensed version: Set an alarm. One. Get up when it goes off. Dynamic stretches and some short form of exercise. Push-ups, pull-ups (if you have a bar on your door frame), or even burpees to get the blood circulating. You've been still all night. Meditate. 'Nuff said. Journal*. Writing your thoughts down makes them real. Also helps you connect what could be potential dots. Shower + breakfast. Self explanatory. __ *Optional but recommended | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/17 06:39 AM |
| 1 | I lift, enjoy fucking girls... and anal jerk masturbation. Am I the only one?alttrp | /r/askTRP | 15/05/17 02:42 AM |
| 5 | "No sex until a relationship" Shit test responses?You shot yourself in your own foot there. Never explicitly tell a woman you're not looking for a relationship. The trick is to always keep the promise of commitment a possibility (while protecting yourself in every possible way of course). You get sex, while she hamsters at the possibility of catching you. Is it a nice thing to do? Fuck no. But women play dirty. Why should you be any different? | /r/askTRP | 01/05/17 03:24 AM |
| 10 | Hurting shy girls?The only way for you to ever really figure anything out is to actually go for it. Goes for women and just about everything in life. Grow a pair. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/17 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Not stoked about my relationship lately, here's my game plan, thoughts?Yeah no she's definitely not anything special, but she's fit, one of the wittiest people I know (rare for women), and she goes out of her way to make me happy, and the sex is good (was better). Everything our relationship was in the beginning (and in the plate stage) was everything I needed to be satisfied, which I why I felt the relationship trade off was fair. Some hamstering here. You're speaking in the past tense. Past benefit does not determine present and future association. Here's the thi… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/17 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Not stoked about my relationship lately, here's my game plan, thoughts?Matty's got your answer dead to rights. Really what makes this girl so special? You said you journal which I'm assuming means you can look back on what you write down from a different perspective. If you can't objectively find an answer as to why she's different from every other girl out there (hint: she isn't), then you need to start lining up and fucking other girls. You're too available and she knows it. She's got your commitment and has no fear of losing it. Dread will either make her fall b… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/17 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Girl wants to milk the prostatethe most honest thing i've said? I never once said what is TRP's stance on prostate stimulation. I'm just asking the men. In this thread. Learn to read. In any case, who said there was a RP stance on it? Who said you need to "ask the men"? The statement above is the the most honest thing you've said this thread because you admitted that you did what you thought you were supposed to do, not what you knew you were supposed to do. If you understood TRP, you would understand that frame is your bigge… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/17 02:05 PM |
| 5 | Girl wants to milk the prostateMost honest thing you've said in this whole thread. TRP is a toolkit, not a model to follow. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/17 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Seeking mentorshipYou've been going to the gym for a year and only weigh 130 at 5'10". You also claim to be better than the "sorry saps" here. Yea good luck finding one buddy. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 04:16 PM |
| – | Nightlife IndustryI used to bartend at a nightclub. If your goal is to find a RP man, you reduce your chances excessively by doing so. Proceed at your own risk. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 12:11 AM |
| 1 | GMP again on what men want more than sex. Need your opinion.There is no Right Girl/ One/ Unicorn thus there is no way that such a thing could play out. Whether you like it or not, that's just a fact you have to accept. It may be what you want, but it will never be achievable. Again this is all in the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/17 09:19 PM |
| 8 | GMP again on what men want more than sex. Need your opinion.Men are the romantic sex. It follows that what we desire in addition to sex, is romantic love. Women are not capable of giving that level of love to us. The love hierarchy applies here. While we may want a 'safe harbor' such a thing does not exist outside ourselves and, to a lesser degree, our circle of close male friends. All of this is in the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/17 05:22 PM |
| 12 | [FR] - "I made a mistake"Aside from holding frame there's another lesson here: treat women like children. Imagine arguing with a child. You can bet they would use every aspect of their imagination to get their point across. Does that make their point valid? Nope. A child's argument will always be just that - the argument of a child. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/17 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Take her out to breakfast the morning afterGood to see you round these parts my man. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/17 09:59 PM |
| 25 | Congratulations, you gamed yourselfYou're on the right track but you need some correction. Never "focus" on any woman. They don't want to be your focus. Focus on yourself. They should always be an afterthought. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/17 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Where the quality bitches at?I spend more time on asktrp. The question of where and how to find a good girl comes up more than you'd expect. My answer is always the same: it's a waste of time. Women will always be women. No matter how good you think you have it or how RP inclined a woman might be, her nature will always prevail. Which is why I believe seeking such a thing is an exercise in futility. In a way that "needle in the haystack" doesn't really exist and is simply another form of social conditioning. I think it woul… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Where the quality bitches at?I agree with you but I think OP is approaching this from the anger/disillusionment perspective. On the one hand he understands that this is a good thing, but on the other hand, he struggles to reconcile how this is possible given the conditioning we've all had to believe that women are these innocent little snowflakes who aren't supposed to know about such behavior. It's a part of the unplugging process and I believe he'll figure it out for himself soon enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Unattached GfSoft next. Let her reach out to you. You're occupying yourself with work. Good. Game other women in the meantime. Only meet up for sex when/if she does get in touch. That is what a plate is. What you were doing before was not you spinning her as a plate. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/17 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Unattached GfThat was your mistake. Commitment is a man's currency. It's something a woman has to earn and desire. It is not something to be given, but something to be bestowed. That you did not do that is why you are in the position you are in. She knows what your currency is worth and that is reflected in how she treats you. She is not your girl. You are simply occupying her time. She has primacy in the relationship and she knows it. No amount of dread will change that. Start looking for other plates to sp… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/17 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Unattached GfWho asked for the relationship? | /r/askTRP | 17/03/17 04:39 AM |
| – | She kiiiinda cheated on me..?Your second account is showing. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/17 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl I know out. Rejected? Persistence?What makes her so special? Why can't you find another girl that's more receptive if your SMV is so high? You've got oneitis. Deal with it now. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/17 12:53 AM |
| 0 | Christiano ronaldoExcept he married a woman 10 years older. Nobody's perfect. Even your idols. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/17 07:13 AM |
| 2 | I just want an average GF. What is the quickest way to achieve that?You're probably a troll. The red pill is not for you. Go find somewhere else to whine. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/17 02:05 AM |
| – | INSANE LMR with girl begging for me to fuck herWomen. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/17 06:08 AM |
| 1 | If you're getting frisky with a girl for the first time and she says she can't go any further because she's on her period, what do you do?Oral, anal, or if you're averse to any of those, lay a towel down and go at it. If a girl really wants to fuck you, not much will stop her. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/17 08:27 PM |
| 11 | "Thai porn star, who married elderly American millionaire after turning to Buddhism, gets a divorce and plans boob job to make a career comeback."Not a car salesman but this is an interesting thought experiment. Start off by imagining the two individuals: the first is a guy who is RP inclined (may even know about us). He's likely to have done his research and knows exactly what he wants. The range of bullshit available to you to sell the car is likely going to be small because this is an individual who is there to fulfill a desire that he has for himself. Now consider the greater beta. He's done everything he's been told to do in life and… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/17 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Sex as a commodity, How No-Strings-Attached Sex is Driving up Share Prices of Eligible Men. So much truth is a way the writer never thought!Both you and the responder above have one point in common that forms the basis of your argument for MGTOW: fear. I'm not saying that it's impossible, but a firm understanding of TRP, allows you to avoid both divorce rape and false accusations by virtue of the fact that you have an understanding of the games that women play and are capable of. To say that you don't want to open yourself to that risk is precisely a cop out because you've allowed a single (admittedly traumatizing) experience to sha… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/17 06:45 PM |
| 5 | Sex as a commodity, How No-Strings-Attached Sex is Driving up Share Prices of Eligible Men. So much truth is a way the writer never thought!I don't believe in MGTOW personally which is why I told the OP to do so if he can. It's a cop out to me; a self-inflicted handicap that serves no purpose other than saying to other men "I see the reality, but I'm not willing to accept it." TRP is the only choice IMO. What is seen cannot be unseen. A real man accepts and works with the reality before him. He does not acknowledge its existence and then decide to sit on the sidelines because it's unfair. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/17 07:30 AM |
| 2 | I think I just got redpilledDamn I haven't seen you around these parts in forever. u/divan93, consider yourself lucky to get a response from this man. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/17 06:13 AM |
| 14 | Sex as a commodity, How No-Strings-Attached Sex is Driving up Share Prices of Eligible Men. So much truth is a way the writer never thought!Then go your own way (if you even can). Or you could, you know, enjoy the decline. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/17 04:25 AM |
| 3 | (New Here) QuestionThere is no consensus. We champion lifting because a lot of the people who come here have never done so a day in their lives and need the kick up the ass necessary to regain their masculinity (and the state of mind that is 'alpha') that lifting provides. You can possess said state without it. But ask yourself: if you had the ability to better yourself physically, why wouldn't you? You're new. Here's some advice: read the damn sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/17 03:48 AM |
| 2 | "My boyfriend is really amazing, we're really in love"Are you fucking her? No. So why do you care? Go fuck some other women. And get it in your head that time is a precious commodity. You're wasting yours. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/17 01:03 AM |
| 1 | When she wants to do something the next day?Ok. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/17 05:29 AM |
| 3 | When she wants to do something the next day?You're applying logic to the SMP. Good luck with that strategy. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/17 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Being good in bed: of a woman is a virgin and an alpha RP man typically wants a girl that's good in bed, how can she be a quality woman if she hasn't had sex?A quality woman is one who knows the value of her femininity and is good at safe-guarding her currency i.e. sex. She is someone worth giving my currency - my commitment - to. Such a woman doesn't have to be a virgin, but she should be in no means a town bike. I can train my girls to be whores in the sheets. I can't train them to not be whores in the streets. Edit - I've also seen this post come up on RPW a few times (since you've said you are one). The answer almost all the time is that you're p… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/17 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Can a beta BECOME alpha if they understand TRP concepts and have the will and work really hard at it?You keep trying to find a model for how to behave hence the post question and the follow up comments. This is TRP not PUA. Your path is your own as is how you behave. There is no 'template'. Every action prescribed here is intended to foster self-actualization. How you actualize is dependent on you. Will there be similarities between individuals who have managed to accomplish such a thing? Sure. That does not mean that those similarities should be your focus. Stop trying to be what you think you… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/17 03:22 PM |
| 6 | Can a beta BECOME alpha if they understand TRP concepts and have the will and work really hard at it?TRP is a toolkit. If you gave a man who only had experience driving cars a toolbox and told him to fix a car, could that man become a mechanic? Who the fuck knows? At the end of the day, it's down to the man himself. Probability may not be your friend here, but possibility is. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/17 02:57 AM |
| 0 | When she get's jealous and starts asking...[LTR]Never apologize for being attractive to other women. Never stop gaming other women. Questions like those should be addressed with a "shhh..." and a slap on her ass. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/17 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Still Teetering on the Red Pill Fence? Check Out This Girl's FB PostFirst women spit RP truths all the time. Ironically these are voiced subconsciously so to the untrained ear, they're easy to miss. Nearly all women are self-aware. Second, this isn't self-awareness. It's delusion wrapped up in self-awareness. Take a little time to scrutinize it, and it'll become evident. Everything this girl has said has come from a place of fantasy. Unfortunately for her, we can read between the lines. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/17 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Tinder adviceThere's no such thing as a female who's a shitty texter. You just let the lead go cold. Move on. If you see her again keep it cordial but do not initiate. She'll either wonder wtf is wrong with you and initiate or she'll move on too. Either way you'll have your mind on other things. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/17 03:07 AM |
| 1 | GF told me I'm complacent but literally all I do is work and set and accomplish goals? I don't get it?When you immerse yourself in bettering yourself there is a chance that your relationship will suffer. In this case it is. Your LTR has identified herself as being unsupportive in your journey towards just that. You have two options: get her on your side or cut her loose. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/17 05:54 AM |
| 4 | Hitting rock bottom again?Maybe you read it for yourself and figure that out for yourself instead of relying on a cursory search and review? Or rely on the review. It's your life. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/17 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Hitting rock bottom again?Mastery by Robert Greene. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/17 01:36 AM |
| 7 | Girlfriend adores me, but she wants to go out drinking with her girlfriends too much for my liking. Did I handle this well?She's not yours; it's just your turn. Or as /u/HumanSockPuppet more aptly puts it: you're not hers; it's just her turn. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/17 11:27 PM |
| 18 | Old Friends.What was your end game here? To demonstrate your change? To rub her face in what she could have had (you mention kino so I'm assuming)? It's easy to fall in the trap of wanting to demonstrate your new self to old friends/acquaintances. I've been guilty of that too when I first unplugged. Just know it achieves nothing. Those people are in the past for a reason - to be a lesson for your future. Stop dwelling on your past. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/17 06:20 PM |
| 4 | The paradox of improving yourself to achieve high SMVWhat a lot of people who swallow the pill don't understand is that improving your SMV is not done for anyone but yourself. This is because improving yourself directly translates to an improvement in SMV. One follows the other and not the other way around. Also it's a known fact that people are more open to more attractive people. This goes for both men and women. You're narrowing your perspective by thinking that a rise in SMV is purely effective on women. There's no irony involved in bettering … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/17 05:38 PM |
| 1 | When can you share redpill ideas with someone who is bluepill?Lead by example. Don't tell him anything. He sounds like he's at the brink of making a change. There are other ways to effect that change other than a verbalized push. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/17 10:09 PM |
| 1 | I am not attracted to women, and this is a problem.Monk mode. You're still looking for that person to 'complete you' which is why you're having trouble getting over your ex. Remove the pursuit of women from the equation. Find fulfillment in yourself and everything else will follow. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/17 07:03 PM |
| 1 | I am not attracted to women, and this is a problem.Monk mode. You're still looking for that person to 'complete you' which is why you're having trouble getting over your ex. Remove the pursuit of women from the equation. Find fulfillment in yourself and everything else will follow. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/17 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Keeping a plate without commitmentFirst off, if you're not having sex, she's not a plate. Second your association with her is uneven: she's receiving your attention and time (aka your currency) without any exchange of her own. Third, all plates drop eventually. You don't 'keep' any one of them. "She's not yours; it's just your turn." Fourth you need to read the sidebar again. You barely have any idea what you're doing yet. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 12:41 AM |
| 10 | Elon Musk ex-wife asked for over 1 billion dollars in divorce settlementsRationalozations of a beta male. In my experience, even the most well read women tend to have nothing but vapid opinions about said topics. His 'curiosity' is poorly hamstered thirst. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/17 05:28 PM |
| 1 | How does one maintain a golden ratio in texting if men almost always initiate for logistics?Take a break from her for a bit i.e. be busy and soft next her for a couple of weeks. You say that you have options right? Work on pursuing those for a while. This gives her time to miss you and allows you to put your relationship in perspective and halt your growing oneitis. It's ok to have a main plate. However you should be mindful of your emotions and their effect on your relationship with said plate. If she really wants a LTR, then let her push for it. Your job is to be the best version of … | /r/askTRP | 20/01/17 08:26 PM |
| 16 | A coworker (woman) went behind my back and convinced my boss to get me to do her job... how can I put an end to this?Start looking for other employment options. You've made your boss aware of her shortcomings and he's done nothing to address it. You're better off taking your talents elsewhere and letting that ship sink. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/17 07:51 PM |
| 3 | My boyfriend has had lots of sexual partners and I'm still a virgin. It makes me really insecure and makes me feel bad about myself. Should I leave him?I don't usually post here but u/practicewhatyoulearn is right. Speaking as an EC, make of that what you will. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/17 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Downgrading Girlfriend to plate after dreading herFirst off, sex should be on the table on your next meet. She may or may not initiate but it is your duty to lead the interaction (you are the captain). Second, you have no reason to vocalize any of those thoughts. Less is more in this case. Act like nothing happened but also make it clear (through your actions) that you are there for only one reason. Let her make conclusions in her own mind. I am actively pursuing other woman, but my game isn't that good yet, so i wanted to keep her as backup Ge… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/17 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Too broke to lift?Go to a park. Use the jungle gym to do pull ups and dips. Progressively overload to increase the work done. Do sprints. Get a jump rope and skip. You have options man. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/17 10:44 PM |
| 1 | How to fix knee pain from squats?The whole knees past your toes is a myth. Trainers used to preach that to get people used to the motion of sitting back so as to maintain a straight back. You can achieve a straight back with knees going past your toes (I do). OP needs to reload and really focus on form. ATG is not necessary either. It's more important to break parallel. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/17 10:37 PM |
| 11 | Why do I Ian guys idolize white women so much?Residual colonial conditioning. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/17 10:33 PM |
| 2 | At a cross-roads - seemingly finally met a decent womanYou already know you're incompatible with her in the long run. You're just looking for us to tell you that you are. Based on that, you can start treating her as a plate and either commence spinning others, or you can let her drop completely and avoid 'cheating'. Up to you. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/17 05:27 PM |
| 1 | At a cross-roads - seemingly finally met a decent womanKeep spinning the plate until it drops. Don't get too invested. Start looking for more plates. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 08:04 PM |
| 14 | Give them what they want... Biological male dominates women’s cycling event in historic firstI wonder if anyone will publish statistics on how many MtF individuals participate in female events vs. the number of FtM participants in male events. Would be interesting to see if the number of the latter is similar or grossly different. My money's on it being much much lower. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/17 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Feeling Beta AFFirst of all you need to end it with her. It will be hard but it is the only thing you can do. The thing is, you don't have much self-respect to begin with. You've been made aware of where she's at and have overtly accepted it, covertly communicating the fact that you don't value yourself. That's why she says that she's not sure she's attracted to you. I mean why should she see the value in you if you don't see the value in yourself? Second you need to let go of any notions that she's 'yours'. O… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/17 07:41 AM |
| 5 | You should ghost women who have cheated on youThe sunk cost fallacy applies to the male hamster attempting to reason why the relationship should be saved. I'm taking about being practical. If I (am stupid enough to) have a joint bank account with a bitch and she cheats on me, there's no way I'm just ghosting her. I'm getting every single penny that's mine. Believe that. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/16 02:40 AM |
| 4 | You should ghost women who have cheated on youGhosting is only part of the solution and I've mentioned this in another asktrp thread. In most cases, men who are cheated on have made some significant investment into their relationship. Ghosting alone implies writing off those investments. Fuck. That. Be Machiavellian. Secure and protect yourself as best you can. Then ghost. You may have both your names on a lease, a joint bank account, hell you may even have a dog together. A woman may not have the foresight to think about what those things … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/16 09:25 PM |
| 6 | I never learn. My GF just lied and I know she is at a hotel with some guyYou're half right. We have been talking about marriage and I guess I let my guard down and here we go again. He's moved on from one marriage to potentially entering another one. This implies OP has already invested a good deal in this relationship. He needs to collect evidence and protect himself. Ghosting will be suspicious and may be the last thing he needs to do so. Using the evidence collected to devise a strategy is the appropriate move here. Leaving no evidence that he's found out is a goo… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/16 07:59 AM |
| 3 | No support from the person closest to me.but I don't pick snakes up and get surprised when they bite me. There's an African proverb that goes along those lines. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/16 08:15 AM |
| 14 | Kanye shows weakness and loses frame. Kim wants divorceYea and Kanye said he wanted to marry a pornstar. You get what you deserve. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/16 07:33 AM |
| 2 | On her bed smoking weedAlright I'll bite. Here's one piece of advice that you should consider gospel: of a girl ever asks to hang out, ESCALATE. You're better off being too bold than too timid. With the former, if you fail you can always say you read the situation wrong. But by doing nothing you will never know and just end up here asking us what you should have done. Always be bold. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/16 09:24 PM |
| 21 | HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD: 37 Rules of Approaching Model-Tier GirlsIt does. But what's wrong with that? Never underestimate what can be brought about by a change of perspective. In fact that's exactly what TRP is about. To use the Matrix analogy, Neo becomes able to stop bullets simply because he believes he can. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/16 07:47 AM |
| 8 | Girlfriend wants to bring over guy friend to sleep at our's placeHahahaha... Seriously? GTFOH. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/16 06:02 PM |
| 4 | I know this is fucked up to say, but I had more sex when I was BP. Since TRP, what I gained in self-confidence, I lost in emotional neediness. And now, without the feeling the need for validation from women, I don't feel motivated to pursue them. What do I do now?You do have a reason to pursue women: you're fulfilling a biological requirement. Instead of seeking validation, use that as your motivator. You can't be the best version of yourself if you don't satisfy all your needs. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/16 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Crabs in a barrel. I just realised I am the crab that pulls the other crabs from getting out. What is wong with me?You're aware of your shortcomings, now act on them. Create value, become someone worthy of association and these feelings will go away. Lift. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/16 06:53 PM |
| 24 | Chick I'm dating told me last night about a "guy who was really cool" that she was talking to.I got with a girl who has a boyfriend couple nights ago. She told him she was out with her girlfriends too. Just sayin... | /r/askTRP | 18/11/16 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Flake Rate 100%How overt is your sexual communication? | /r/askTRP | 17/11/16 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Do you try to bang girls who are below your level?What eucalyptusleaves said. You might be wondering how to actually achieve this. Keep fucking and trying to fuck girls you think are 'above your level'. Eventually it will sink in that there's not a girl out there 'above' you. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/16 03:05 AM |
| 3 | How to Handle The Fake Break-up: A Masterclass On Shit TestsI would personally end it as ultimatums and myself don't work. However, watch her behavior for a little bit. If she actually does try to improve then maybe you might want to continue it, seeing as you know what needs to be done. If not, downgrade to plate status and start looking for others. You said it yourself, you still suffer from scarcity mentality. Knowing that you can end a relationship on your terms, and knowing that you can find and spin plates will help you with overcoming that. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/16 05:43 PM |
| 1 | I've finally seen the light.She moved on long before it ended. You just found out about it late. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/16 02:45 AM |
| 7 | What are friends for? Am I deluding myself?The 2nd Law of Power applies here. For most people, part of the red pill journey necessitates stepping into Dark Triad territory. By definition this means being more Machiavellian, narcissistic and psychopathic. Attachments to friends runs counter to this. Have friends, but don't need them. Doing this will make you less partial to their effects on your mental state, and more self-sufficient as a man. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/16 08:46 PM |
| 2 | I want an LTR relationship, I know about dread and all, why do I crave it so much?Recall the love heirarchy: Men love women, women love children etc. You will never experience female love like the love you received from your mother (if you were close to her that is). Also as you had clear distance from your dad in your formative years, the love you received from your mom was doubly influential and significant. As an adult, this combination of powerful (and somewhat compensatory) motherly love, and lacking fatherly love results in mommy issues i.e. a subconscious desire to rep… | /r/askTRP | 07/11/16 07:25 AM |
| 3 | I want an LTR relationship, I know about dread and all, why do I crave it so much?Mommy issues. How close were you to your dad growing up? I'm willing to bet you were closer to your mom. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/16 06:58 AM |
| 0 | best book on Game?Your game is weak because you are weak and no book will help you with that. You're looking for shortcuts. Get in the gym, feel good about yourself and the confidence and egoism necessary to pull will come naturally. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/16 07:38 AM |
| 2 | GayLubeOil's Definitive Treatise On Why Nobody Likes Paul ElamIn summary, hamsters gonna hamst. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/16 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Is it me or do girls like you more after they get mad at you over silly shit?Nice to see you around these parts again man. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/16 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Was she going to cheat?Now stop being a little hypersensitive faggot or gtfo Ahem.. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/16 03:59 AM |
| 1 | how can i escape the cycle of anger, hate, and fear?This is about getting some. No. Maybe a different subreddit can help you. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/16 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Please, Break Up with Me!Two days and yet to reach a hundred upvotes? What a shame. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/16 05:30 PM |
| 23 | Scottie Pippen's Wife of 19 Years Cheats on Him with Rap Star FutureIIRC he made the decision to wait byhimself. It's bad enough that he settled for someone else's left-overs. But he made it worse by pedestalizing those same left overs. Moral: you can be on top of the world be still be BP as fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/16 12:34 AM |
| 1 | done with relationships what should i focus on instead of them?Whatever the fuck you want. You're a man going your own way right? Go your own way. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/16 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Game questionThis small talk type shit is what I'm terrible at. Which is why your focus shouldn't be trying to game undergrad girls; your focus should be trying to game everyone. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/16 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Have you seriously never done any stupid stuff when you were a teenager?That's the trope that's pushed down our collective throats from the moment we are able to process it - 'your college years are your best years'. Let's not fall for it shall we? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/16 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Have you seriously never done any stupid stuff when you were a teenager?But it wasn't stupid to me at the time -- there was nothing for me to "learn from" -- my priorities and values and mindset were different back then. Same with recreational drugs. I experimented with quite a few. Now I think about it and just believe my drug experimenting days are pretty much over. Things change like that, it's natural. There's a lot of evidence and multiple studies that deal with this sort of behavior exactly. In fact the psychological term, pluralistic ignorance, refers exactly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/16 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Women want to be ledWhy were you doing that to begin with? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/16 10:07 PM |
| 1 | My little field report about how I handled a flakey girlYou're a gentleman. Me personally? I would have acted like I didn't even know her. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/16 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Anyone have experience with this bullshit?Put as much distance as you can between yourself and this bitch. That's how you deal with this behavior. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/16 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Typical sequence of uninterested girls in LTRsOr literally just a penis. Had a ONS a night ago and she actually got mad at me the morning after because I couldn't get it up. This was after I spent the whole night fucking her brains out. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/16 12:49 AM |
| 5 | Wife says I'm changing. Doesn't like it.The longer I live, the more I become convinced monogamy is not a natural state. However, I have yet to be married so I cannot say with complete personal confidence that it cannot work, which is why I'm going to give you another way to look at your situation. Your wife is projecting her insecurities. This is normal. Women are more in tune with SMV and the changes that can happen to it. They've just been playing the game longer than we have. She knows your value has risen beyond her own and is: a)… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/16 05:46 AM |
| 1 | I need helpGFTOW | /r/askTRP | 05/10/16 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Went Rambo and I think I've nuked it... what now?Given you enough chances. The blame shifting is strong here. I think it's over personally. If you do want to keep this thing going though, you need to make it clear that she shoulders responsibility for it as well. You can't be the only one trying to make it work. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/16 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Going to an event where you don't know anyone [FR]I've bartended a few weddings in my day. Almost always got invited to APs. Learning to vibe with people is the best advice one can act on. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/16 06:51 AM |
| 1 | is the redpill a evil cult?As cultish as it gets bro. Here's a radical thought though: maybe you could read the sidebar and some of the archived/highest rated posts and make your mind up for yourself? After all, whose opinion can you most trust, if not your own? | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Am I in the running for some ass or becoming an orbiter?Who cares and why do you? She's already hamstering. Wouldn't happen if attraction wasn't there. As for shitting where you eat, well that's another can of worms altogether. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 07:07 AM |
| 2 | asked a HB7 out for dinner and she called it off last minute because she was busyInteresting approach. I usually just move on but this seems like something I must try. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/16 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Want to demote my GF to plate gentlyWhat's stopping you? You said it yourself: I'm a fit good looking guy in college and I thought being in an LTR would be a good idea, but besides pussy and food (but I can cook better), there's not much she gives me that I benefit from. You're aware of what you've got so why not just own it? People can tell; women can tell. You can't on the one hand proclaim knowledge of your worth and then on the other act like it's difficult to use that worth for your own benefit. This whole getting pussy thing… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/16 08:01 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with illness, TRP styleYea see I've never found that to work. I find a more effective strategy is that of self realization as opposed to habit forming. Things like lifting help you realize your physical potential, so practice at game etc. should also work to help you realize your inner potential. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/16 12:47 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Alpha male @ grocery store shits the bed. Don't stick to the script, know how to improvise.Fair enough. At least you're aware of that and will be mindful of it from now on. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/16 07:33 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with illness, TRP styleSo, TRP'ers (particularly ones in college), how do you spend your time when you get sick? How could I have done better? How do you act like an alpha when you get sick? You did fine though I will critique one thing: you don't act like anything. You are, or you are not. Don't do things because you think it's what's expected of you, but because you are trying to achieve an outcome most beneficial to yourself. In short, do this stuff for real. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Does TRP cultivate negativity, doubt and fear?Because you probably don't even know do you? This is TRP shit is no different than every other bullshit religion. There's no point explaining this TRP shit. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/16 05:35 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Alpha male @ grocery store shits the bed. Don't stick to the script, know how to improvise.I would have given him the card anyway. In the world we live in, you can't really blame the kid for turning out the way he did. We're living in a war zone out here. You chose to teach a lesson on here, but I dare say you could also have stood to have taught him one there and then (assuming that you didn't; maybe you did). Something to think about the next time you have an interaction like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/16 07:10 PM |
| 0 | Western Women Volunteering at Calais Refugee Camp Having Sex with Multiple Refugees Per DayThat kind of thinking is the same brand of cultural Marxism that brought us feminism. At the same time, you can't just brand all white people as racists or claim that racism is a white people conquering strategy because that's pretty much in and on itself racist. What? I said that racism is not endemic to any particular race contesting the statement he made that it is endemic to Southern areas, and the original commenter's statement that it is endemic to white people. Further I said it's use was… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/16 08:08 PM |
| 0 | Western Women Volunteering at Calais Refugee Camp Having Sex with Multiple Refugees Per DayHis response made it seem like it's more so the opposite. What I'm getting at is that it is neither. Instead I made the emphasis that its use by white people as a conquering strategy, was comparatively more pronounced by white cultures than any other. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/16 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Western Women Volunteering at Calais Refugee Camp Having Sex with Multiple Refugees Per DayCan't say I know much about Latin American, Asian or middle eastern history, but for you to say something like 'Southern African persecution of white farmers' only paints half the picture. Yes persecution did occur, and yes black people did hold responsibility for slavery and indentured servitude, but you can't possibly believe that white people and their practices were innocent either. If anything the current state of affairs in Africa right now is based on and was refined by the system importe… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/16 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Does TRP cultivate negativity, doubt and fear?Ok cupcake. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/16 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Does TRP cultivate negativity, doubt and fear?That was a shitty example then because a) it's not grounded in reality and b) because it's not logical, unless you're going after the choosingbeggar types, in which case you need to expand the circle in which you game. Also that communicates next to zero sexual intent. I'm not going to bother telling you what you need to do because the info you need is either all in the sidebar or discoverable through a search of the main sub. But as you've already evinced you're reluctance to actually find usef… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/16 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Does TRP cultivate negativity, doubt and fear?Why the fuck are you going after fat ugly bitches anyway? Unless you're into that thing in which case your fetishes cause you to pedestalize said hoes, leading your game towards them to be shit relative to normal girls, where your lack of fetish imparts the DGAF mentality necessary to succeed. Also do you know what escalation means? It's not about hand holding or any of that high school bullshit. It's about physically and verbally communicating your desire to fuck. No-ones saying you shouldn't t… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/16 04:59 PM |
| 6 | A simple test for her = epic failOP challenges her to lead a conversation, not just talk. Leading conversations requires some measure of depth to an individual that most women lack. When you say that most of the women you know can yap for hours without taking a breath, you're not wrong. The point is that they can't even yap without some kind of impetus on your part. I'm sure you can easily attest to the number of times you've brought up a topic in conversation and the woman moves it on to something pointless (or even worse, her… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 08:10 PM |
| 15 | A simple test for her = epic failDo those conversations leave you feeling like you learned something or gained a new perspective, or are they just fluff talk? There's a difference between yapping and actually engaging the people you talk to. Most women just can't do that. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 07:41 PM |
| 1 | I am an Indian guy......, As an Indian guy......, What are my chances as an Indian guy.......They are one and the same. Your mistake right now is thinking that male attrictiveness = female attractiveness. Women view physcial desirability as a minimal factor in total attractiveness. That has nothing to do with it. Think about it. Biologically speaking, our reproductive urge is to make sure our offspring survive. Men pursue that strategy by sleeping with/ impregnating the most women that we can. Women pursue that strategy by pursuing the fittest mate. For a woman, you physical features pa… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 05:22 AM |
| 1 | I am an Indian guy......, As an Indian guy......, What are my chances as an Indian guy.......You seem to be under the illusion that attractiveness = being good looking. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/16 02:40 PM |
| 2 | I am an Indian guy......, As an Indian guy......, What are my chances as an Indian guy.......Not Indian but I agree with you OP. One thing I've noticed especially about the Indian posters on asktrp is that they expect to receive some special shortcut or cheat code to make the game easier. I know a few brown dudes myself. Some highly logical people (mostly into engineering and finance) so I think it's a cultural thing but when it comes to the SMP that kind of logic is unnecessary. Only two rules are absolute. Rule 1: be attractive; rule 2: don't be un-attractive. It's that basic. There a… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/16 08:39 PM |
| 29 | Girl at bar rejected me found out I was doctor, gave me number, what to doThis is how the scenario will play out should you pursue it. Right now, you are firmly a BB in her eyes. If you set up a date, she will put out as soon as the situation will allow to secure commitment. It will probably be some of the best sex you will ever have. Following that you will be subjected to ridiculous demands and put through outrageous hoops as she dangles her pussy in front of you like a magical carrot to a dumb mule. Your game will need to be tight. You can fuck her and leave her bu… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/16 07:24 PM |
| 8 | After Second Date Girl Sends This TextShe wanted to be a slut, and you gave her the boyfriend experience. Just hit her back saying "Cool" and move on. If/when she gets in touch, fuck being all extra and shit. Get in and get out. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/16 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Plate tells me she's pregnantThis and this again. If you can get a dna test that proves the spawn isn't yours, that's better. Bitches are crazy. Pregnant bitches even more so. You'll go from not hanging out to finding out the child is yours. Also get tested yourself. If she fuckin another guy raw, you might not be safe. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/16 10:36 PM |
| 7 | Oneitis, never felt worse in my life, please helpYou're on the right track but I would suggest amending your thinking from "there's billions of girls in the world" to "I am the prize. There's billions of girls who would be lucky to have me." The change in nuance is crucial to really overcoming oneitis. It facilitates the shift in perspective necessary for the mentioned decision to be made. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/16 06:40 PM |
| 2 | I fell in actual love for the first time, and don't know what to doCheck my EC tag | /r/askTRP | 09/09/16 07:32 AM |
| 3 | I fell in actual love for the first time, and don't know what to doAre you for real? The guy has oneitis. Throwing a 'hail Mary' will not only keep the beta alive, it will reinforce the image of him as one to her and the people who know his situation forever. Reputation is everything. He needs to distance himself from this bitch and everything connected to her. He needs to see her gagging on another mans dick. He needs to completely destroy the pedestal he's got this bitch on. You're not helping at all with your 'advice'. If anything you're putting him on a cou… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/16 07:06 AM |
| 3 | Picked up girl in class, searched her up and find outMake sure you have evidence. The younger they are, the easier it is for them to cry wolf. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/16 10:18 AM |
| 2 | Women doesnt really want bad men.(TRUTH)You sound like a social retard. Go back and read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/16 06:54 AM |
| 7 | I beat her upYou're fucked. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/16 05:24 AM |
| 6 | Back to the anger phaseYou getting angry at something so minor tells me that you have yet to internalize TRP. You've put a lesson learned in your post but if it was one that you had indeed learned, you would not be getting upset about it and ranting. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/16 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Plate #2 found plate #1's underwear in my bedHumiliating her? She humiliated herself by acting the way she did. Did you ever make it seem that y'all were exclusive? I hope not. If you two are just hooking up then she should know the deal. Don't communicate with her later. Radio silence until she realizes that she's the one acting a fool (be prepared for the plate to drop). The minute you behave otherwise you cede power over to her and change the dynamic. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/16 07:51 PM |
| 6 | she lied but it was years ago, now what?At first I thought you were a troll, but you seem to have posted this question on multiple subs (including relationshits LOL) so I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. You've been told by many people that you should leave her, get a paternity test and ditch the counselor, but I'd like to ask you one simple question. You're trying to save the marriage for someone who obviously considered you a back up and treated you as such. Will you ever be able to live with yourself with that fact? And if so,… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/16 06:51 AM |
| 1 | The lie is easy to believeTo be clear I agree with you that sacrifice is not a masculine trait in itself. However what I'm getting at is the fact that in all cases where relationships are concerned (and many beyond that) men are more willing to sacrifice and entertain notions of the same. The love hierarchy confirms this (men love women, women love children, children love animals). The lie arises when women use said notion men are more cognizant of to their advantage, i.e. to secure commitment, to have a plan B or to sim… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/16 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Just got my car, how to have sex immediately?Save this post and come back to it in two years. You'll have an answer for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/16 07:28 PM |
| 0 | Just got my car, how to have sex immediately?Dumbass. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/16 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Why do we next women who don't give up sex right away. But when they do we label them as plates or not LTR material? (Serious discussion)Simple answer? Men are the prize. Women exchange sex for commitment. If she's not willing to give up the sex, then she's not willing to purchase the commitment necessary for the prize. Make sense? | /r/askTRP | 11/08/16 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Ex calls me and texts 2 months after NCHow can you be sure she knows it's you? Can you read her mind? As far as you're concerned you genuinely don't know who the number is. As for what you want to do with her when she texts you back saying "it's X" (which she will), that's up to you. Personally I'd avoid her at all costs. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/16 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Who is Red Pill for, anyway?Interesting perspective. I think a lot of the hate is also a result of how a lot of advice is given on the main and on asktrp. I'm more active on asktrp myself and try to take context into account where I can when dispensing advice, but for the most part the tone there is generally harsh (by modern standards at least). This, IMO, is done because men are assumed to be more willing to take insult at harsh criticism and use that as motivation. Unfortunately, it appears that this tone of advice is s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/16 05:07 PM |
| 7 | 36 year old omega checking in. Is trp worth it?If you've gotten to the point where you're asking if it's worth it, then shouldn't you at least try and figure that out for yourself? Just keep in mind that whatever changes do happen will be down to you. TRP is only a guide. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/16 03:43 PM |
| 3 | He wants me to sign a prenup but not get married!?You're saying that because they're not getting married, she should not sign a pre-nup. The user above has argued that they can still be together long enough for their relationship to be considered equivalent to a marriage, without marrying, in which case a pre-nup is still a valid protective measure (for both parties, I might add). You are trying to follow this argument up by suggesting that they should get married anyway, to which I have responded that it is possible that OPs man may not believ… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/16 05:03 PM |
| 6 | He wants me to sign a prenup but not get married!?No idea. Besides the point though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/16 04:52 PM |
| 6 | He wants me to sign a prenup but not get married!?Plenty of reasons. For one you may not believe in marriage as an institution. One of my closest friends' parents have been together for ~30 years and still haven't married. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/16 04:44 PM |
| 51 | So I (20 M) let my bravado get the better of me and confronted a group of 6 teenagers (16-17 year olds as a guess).Your story was about 6 teenagers but I counted 7. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/16 07:18 PM |
| 1 | What do you do about boners when talking to women dressed slutty? How do I not look like a creep?Lay off the porn man. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/16 08:32 PM |
| 6 | People who got there dicks Circumcised, how does sex feels?Considering most people are cut in their infancy, how the fuck do you expect to arrive at a general consensus of how it feels? Jesus what is this sub coming to? | /r/askTRP | 30/07/16 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Recent female college grad discusses how many females really feel about modern day hookup culture.Not if you fuck her good. A good dicking will keep a bitch loyal. It follows then that their inner drive is to find an alpha. Riding the cc is what they're told to do through social conditioning. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/16 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Gut feeling makes me thing GF cheated on me but unsure.You lose her number, you block her on every piece of media and you never speak to her again. No explanations, no closure nothing. Put her stuff in a box and drop it on her doorstop. That's it. Now that that's out of the way, where the fuck is your self-respect man? Do you even have balls? Seriously. I don't agree with all theories TRP has to offer And yet you need all of TRP the most. You need the anger, the hate, the cynicism and the thirst to better yourself. You are pathetic right now. Be un-… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/16 08:34 PM |
| 5 | Recent female college grad discusses how many females really feel about modern day hookup culture.You've got it backwards. A woman acts hypergamously. By definition that means, securing the best option available to herself. Riding the CC does not achieve that as it diminishes her SMV. That is the real lie they've been told, and the lie society today reinforces at every step: that riding the CC is good and that LTRs are bad. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/16 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Female college student basically proclaims casual sex is great and makes it seem like it is the default, widespread sex life during college.Of course they're supposed to care about yours. A relationship is an emotional transaction. She gives the sex, you give the commitment. If she's given out sex freely in the past, her stock is probably not worthy of your commitment. OTOH if you've given out your commitment freely, then you're probably not worth her sex. It's that simple. And this isn't my opinion. It's how these things work. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/16 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Female college student basically proclaims casual sex is great and makes it seem like it is the default, widespread sex life during college.Not at all. If anything that might push her away. In any case, what comparison are you trying to make? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/16 05:03 PM |
| 6 | Recent female college grad discusses how many females really feel about modern day hookup culture.Psychologists would refer to this as pluralistic ignorance. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/16 04:55 PM |
| 4 | Why do women say "It was only sex" when referring to their CC days?Others here have correctly identified the hamster at play when this statement is used. I have a slightly different take though. Sex is a woman's currency. The more freely it is given away, the less value said woman has. By telling you that it was just sex, she's trying to convince you that her value has not diminished and that somehow, in spite of her actions, she is worth committing to. Notice that this isn't trying to make her LTR feel special; rather it's to ensure that she continues to recei… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/16 04:42 PM |
| 7 | Female college student basically proclaims casual sex is great and makes it seem like it is the default, widespread sex life during college.Because one way or another, you pay for a whores slutty past. Big daddy government will simply reach into your pocket and make you care for her and her spawn. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/16 07:22 AM |
| 5 | Why the fuck do I feel guilty?TRP gives you the tools to maximize your potential and do what is ultimately in your best interest. It is sexual strategy that applies to all aspects of life. From what you've written here, it seems that you still haven't quite grasped that concept. Others will tell you that this is part of the program and you're simply beginning to separate yourself from reality but this I disagree. Without trying to get into a discussion of morality, you don't have to be an asshole to be redpilled. That's ofte… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/16 04:40 AM |
| 20 | Why the fuck do I feel guilty?They want good sex. They're told to be promiscuous to get it. The distinction matters because their current strategy is the most self-destructive available and the antithesis to the feminine imperative. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/16 04:32 AM |
| 9 | Divorce not related to financial strain but instead husband's employment status - BloombergMen were a social anchor back then in spite of their employment status. Nowadays we're less than a cash cow (the majority at least). Where a woman faced social ostracism for divorce, now she's got real incentive to go for one. It's simple economics at play really (cost-benefit). It doesn't take much to expand on what happened during that time: the rules of the game changed disproportionately on women's favor. Unfortunately the majority of men have yet to realize that and indeed have been conditi… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/16 02:33 AM |
| 13 | Could you date a girl that's been with black guys?I'm black and I'm a racist. So are you probably, if you've ever shaken your head and said 'white people'. We're all racist. And that's ok. Racism isn't necessarily a bad thing. It's when you hold things against people that racism becomes an issue. It's then when it can become weaponized. Don't buy into the liberal bullshit. Accept the realities of this world. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/16 07:59 PM |
| 1 | LTR & duty sexPay attention to what women do, not what they say. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/16 07:54 PM |
| 5 | The problem with Feminism. Why Feminisation leads to Third-Worldization. How, and why, Feminism destroys itself. Why Barbarism is the last stage of Feminism, and how it all ends.Lots of studies have shown that pretty everyone prefers to fuck white girls. Would love to read those if you could give me some sources. Seriously. If white men don’t regain control of our civilization like men in other cultures, then our civilization will fall. You give too much credit to men in other societies. Cucks are growing everywhere. Feminism unchecked is the enemy. Twisting the argument into reclaiming white identity risks you being unable to see the forest from the trees. Don't get me… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/16 11:53 PM |
| 1 | The problem with Feminism. Why Feminisation leads to Third-Worldization. How, and why, Feminism destroys itself. Why Barbarism is the last stage of Feminism, and how it all ends.I don't really participate there much. I use DE as a resource to learn mostly. The funny thing is that people always complain about TRP being full of angry and hateful content lacking in any real basis when that applies more so for DE. I guess my lack of participation and ability to ignore a lot of it keeps me subbed. Though I expect a mod to see this and ban me shortly. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/16 04:13 PM |
| 3 | The problem with Feminism. Why Feminisation leads to Third-Worldization. How, and why, Feminism destroys itself. Why Barbarism is the last stage of Feminism, and how it all ends.For future reference, more racially based posts will be better received on dark enlightenment. Signed, a black man that likes to fuck blonde girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/16 03:52 AM |
| 3 | What does it mean to 'fuck her brains out?Why? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 02:36 AM |
| 4 | What does it mean to 'fuck her brains out?http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/25545022 | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 01:18 AM |
| 37 | I'm a rich beta bucks who foolishly agreed to an open relationship, looking for adviceCall your lawyer yesterday. Do not let her know you are doing this. Keep up all appearances while this is happening. At the same time join a gym now. Get your diet in check and start putting in work. It's one thing for you to say you've found the pill and that things are looking clearer. It's another to find it and actually apply it to your life. Check back in here when you've started those two things. We'll move on to the next steps later. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Can I get your 2 cents/thread | /r/askTRP | 25/07/16 10:14 PM |
| 4 | What does it mean to 'fuck her brains out?It actually is. However there's a difference between the action of pissing and squirting. One is voluntary. The other isn't. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/16 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Beyond shaving head and lifting what are other strategies for getting girlfriend ?As a bald man who also happens to be of Indian descent what are tips and strategies for getting girlfriend ? Your entire mentality is wrong here. You will get taken for everything you've got. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/16 09:12 PM |
| 53 | Anyway to "fix" a terrible fuck?It's a shame there are so few women out in the world huh? | /r/askTRP | 21/07/16 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Can you go to the gym twice in one day?No. You think a PPL type workout requires 48 hours in between workouts? | /r/askTRP | 21/07/16 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Girl I want to plate redirects request for her to cook me dinner into "walk around the lake" or "go to a bar and have a drink"That FR tells me nothing. If anything it lends credence to my point. Remember women communicate covertly. Concurrently, they are more aware of what you communicate covertly, even if you yourself are not. You don't drink and are not a bar person. I'm willing to bet that in the event that you do go out for a drink or leave your comfort zone (i.e. your apartment), you communicate your unease without even realizing it. Is it a bad thing? Probably not because it seems to be working for you so far. Ju… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/16 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Girl I want to plate redirects request for her to cook me dinner into "walk around the lake" or "go to a bar and have a drink"Seems to me then that you have issues reading and controlling the situation outside of your comfort zone. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/16 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Girl I want to plate redirects request for her to cook me dinner into "walk around the lake" or "go to a bar and have a drink"You're the one who doesn't understand. Trying to get a girl to cook for you/ inviting her over for dinner sends the message that you're looking for something more serious. She's already told you that she's looking for new experiences (read here as her chance to jump on the CC). Why then are you acting like you're trying to wife the bitch? She's suggesting much less serious alternatives. Go with them. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/16 05:00 AM |
| 31 | Just received a "Don't ignore me goddammit" text from this girl I started texting a week ago; how do I (not) respond?Translate this conversation into a meet asap. She's already into you. You risk falling into her frame by continuing to message instead of actually meeting up with her and going for the lay. "Been busy. Let's continue where we left off at X place on Y day at Z time" | /r/askTRP | 21/07/16 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Women in the "women's sub" are suggesting it's okay to be sluttyWhy do you waste your energy with that stuff? The danger in arguing with fools, is that you risk becoming one. If your flair is to be believed you should be doing more with your time as an 18 year old. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/16 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Women in the "women's sub" are suggesting it's okay to be sluttyAnd that's where their entire argument collapses. That they demand concessions beyond even the strictest forms of equality shows that they have no faith in, or even a realization of, feminine power. You cannot profess a belief when you have no confidence in said belief. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/16 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend drunk texts "friend" to come meet for a cuddle...Oh I get it now. You're a troll aren't you? Almost had me going there for a second. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend drunk texts "friend" to come meet for a cuddle...Fuck you. You don't deserve our help. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 01:50 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend lied to me....what should I do?I do. People who read this might not. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 07:37 AM |
| 4 | Girlfriend lied to me....what should I do?Scarcity mentality. Not real scarcity. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend gets flirty with one of my best friends, worse when drinking. Need advice.Women will be women. You can only hold them accountable to so much. At the end of the day they will always look for a better option to swing to even if the one in front of them is the best they can realistically get. But these 'friends' of yours. I don't know man. If they don't know how to act towards their boy's girl then I wouldn't really consider them friends if I was you. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 05:37 AM |
| 14 | Girlfriend lied to me....what should I do?The number of people this point seems to elude is staggering. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 05:33 AM |
| 15 | Girlfriend lied to me....what should I do?Nothing. You say nothing. Didn't your parents teach you not to talk to strangers? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Plate with boyfriendYou've been given feedback: revenge is a waste of time. What more pointers do you need? Do you want me to tell you that you should translate the desire to exact revenge into more productive pursuits? As if you couldn't have come to that same conclusion yourself? This is TRP, not handholders anonymous. We are not here to coddle or cosset you. When you get shit on here, it's because you are assumed to be versed enough in the information here, yet either still too afraid or too lazy to apply it. Bo… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Plate with boyfriendIf you can't translate the material you find here into your real life, then your wasting our time and yours too. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 04:33 PM |
| 10 | Girlfriend drunk texts "friend" to come meet for a cuddle...A couple of my friends have said to leave her but it's not just as simple as that. Why? Is she carrying your unborn child? Have you signed a lease with her? If either of those things are true then this is the time to prepare yourself for the fallout. She is no longer your girlfriend. The sooner you accept that, the better you'll be. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 04:19 PM |
| 5 | On and off plate has new boyfriend (text message)"Cool". These types of messages are sent to illicit a reaction. The fact that you show none will make the hamster spin. The next time you see her, you act like she's just another person you would see again. Be polite and amicable like there was never any history between the two of you. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Plate with boyfriendRevenge is a waste of time. Jesus a post on the main was about this just days ago. Do you guys even bother to read the material? | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 04:14 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a girl starts touching you on purpose you but you know she's just teasing you (and is in an LTR)?You're being swolested here. She needs to check her privilege. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Question about anal and plausible deniabilityI don't know whether to take you seriously or not here. Why don't you do us a favor and conduct a little experiment. Load her up with metamucil, fuck her, and then let us know how it goes. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 06:43 AM |
| 3 | Girl Flakes Twice?To see what category you fall under first and then to keep you in orbit if you show yourself to be an orbiter. If you demonstrate that your time is valuable, this shit happens much less (the tests never stop though). | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 05:46 AM |
| 3 | How do I get past the fact my LTR was someone else's plate?You will always feel like shit about this situation and you will never be able to stop her having him in her life. Ordinarily you could just eject but because you have a kid together you will always be tied to her. The only saving grace here is that you are aware of the fact that she has been willing to share an alpha before. Having options (i.e. spinning plates) in spite of your commitment to her might soften the sting of having to deal with her past. Keep in mind however, that it will never re… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Question about anal and plausible deniabilityYou want to fuck her in the ass but are worried about it being clean. She's not a pornstar man. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 01:50 AM |
| 20 | Women in the "women's sub" are suggesting it's okay to be sluttyThe whole empowerment thing is a myth. How can you feel empowered when it's not at all difficult for you as a woman to find a man willing to sleep with you? If anything, power should come from withholding sex. They've got it ass backwards but are too far into the rabbit hole to even consider re-evaluating it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/16 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Wifey misbehaved help meeeRead this https://therationalmale.com/2012/08/27/girls-night-out/comment-page-2/ | /r/askTRP | 18/07/16 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Wifey misbehaved help meeeSo the wifey and her friend mid twenties went to some bar while I was at work Red Flag 1; you're a BB when I joined them they were disrespectfully flirting with the bartender talking about how buff he was right in front of me Red Flag 2; your worth is so low that how you feel doesn't register I ended up swooping between them and escalating kino with my girls friend in order to make him disappear Mate guarding. That you even have to be in a position to mate guard is sad. but they had been drinkin… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/16 05:43 PM |
| 0 | Wifey misbehaved help meeeDude... Run. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/16 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Explicitly ask girls out on a date?The problem all these other people are focusing on is more about how to approach a girl instead of understanding what they themselves have to offer (ie. do they look good, are they rich, etc.). Pretty much all of asktrp summed up. If they all understood that, I doubt this sub would exist. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/16 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Explicitly ask girls out on a date?Walk in the park or some activity that you want to do. Hell, just say you want to "hang out". It's the least suggestive thing you can say and gives a girl the plausible deniability she needs. I've gotten laid over suggesting we "hang out" a bunch of times. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/16 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Is it dangerous to be a "loner" (socially speaking)? Do women see this as red flag?Did you read the OP? He said he can make friends and play the social game but chooses not to. I didn't call him a loner. What I did suggest is that he re-evaluate his self perception by reading up on sigmas. Furthermore I don't think you understand what a loner really is as you're conflating a loner with a pariah. The two are not the same. You need to do some research of your own. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/16 03:01 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with a beta getting in the way of the alpha I like?Your problem is extending the LJBF branch. I don't have any female friends. Acquaintances or work colleagues sure. But friends? No way. To me girls are either people I have relations with or not at all. The same goes for a lot of men. Unfortunately those same men cannot accept that and delude themselves into thinking that the LJBF can lead to something more. It never does unless the girl is off the CC and looking for her BB. Kill his hope and he will no longer be a problem. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/16 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Is it dangerous to be a "loner" (socially speaking)? Do women see this as red flag?Read up on sigmas. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/16 02:03 AM |
| 5 | Things That Keep You Beta: Revenge FantasiesYea and then he went and acted a fool after the girl dumped his ass. Rap is good to listen to but don't assume that it's really how people live their lives. There aren't many rappers out there who have actually lived what they talk about. At the end of the day, you should look beyond that stuff to motivate you. If anything, it should come from within. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/16 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Good Workout Routine After 5x5PHUL worked for me primarily because of my work schedule. Also found it easier to transition from a 3x a week program to a 4-5x a week program (PHUL) than into a 6x a week program like PPL. Keep in mind that whatever template you choose is just that - a template. By now you should have an understanding of what you should work on and how you should be working. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/16 11:22 PM |
| 1 | RANT You Bitches made me a man hoeI grew up in a really conservative town. I mean really conservative. You saying shit like 'if you are caught cheating you gotta move cities' is the most naive shit I've ever heard. You're still plugged in if you think that people don't fuck around. As for your whole victim mentality spiel, that's even more evidence that you're still a beta bitch. Be a man. Take ownership of your life. No-one made you anything. And for future reference, think long and hard before you post here again. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/16 08:17 PM |
| 7 | Fucking the ex. Bad idea?It's people like you that give us here a bad name. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/16 06:56 PM |
| 1 | PSMF Protein Sparing Modified Fast -- Any better way to cut fast?I'm not sure about going below BMR as the science on that is still iffy. The closest thing I can think to what you're talking about is the Dukan diet. I knew a guy who did that for a bit and the weight just melted off but he couldn't sustain it, and felt like shit while doing it. At the end of the day you want to do something that you can keep up long term over something that has fast results. Maybe try keto for a while or a leangains type diet. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/16 01:55 AM |
| 2 | [Mod] What to do if you're approached by a reporter for an interview about The Red PillOh I hope they pick me. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/16 01:37 AM |
| 2 | "I feel too sensitive, I can't cum" - Girl I'm seeingYou might be a new EC or one I haven't seen around here very often but you're right on all counts. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/16 05:29 AM |
| 1 | The problem with platesWhat are you looking for? Is it just intimacy or is it something more? Because let's be honest, the shit tests, mind games and attempts to secure commitment (or comfort tests) never really stop. Women live in the moment. AWALT. That's just how it is. Because of that, the questions of your fitness will never stop. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/16 04:26 AM |
| 7 | Pokemon GO: Women will always try to shameOP your summary misses the point. It's not even about women trying to shame you if you're not worthy (which is a RP truth that honestly doesn't need to be explained further). It's that rad-fems especially, live in an alternate reality where every single interaction with a man is rape or an attempt of the same. So non-existent is their sense of reality on the matter that they are the exact antithesis of what they claim to be. That is, rather than being the 'strong independent womyn' they proclaim… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/16 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Small Town Plating, Three plates want me to take them to the same big party on the same night.Don't go. It's a small town. People talk. Refer to Law 5. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/16 09:59 PM |
| 3 | My Girlfriend is Furious at me, How can I Red Pill This?Sounds like she's pushing for more from you. It's been four years and something is telling her that your commitment needs to move on to the next level. In any case you are clearly in her frame right now. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 09:30 PM |
| 21 | I come here often but more and more often the posts are becoming make believe.Because a lot of the people here have never had to do difficult shit for themselves and expect the solutions to their problems to be neatly packaged. That's why a guy like the one you refer to gets EC status and posts bullshit like he does. He's simply acting on the majority's need to shave quick and clarified guides. Unfortunately that need will never go as long as there are people who need to swallow the pill. And the day you really swallow the pill is the day you realize that life is not work… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 04:14 AM |
| 6 | "The sexiest part of a woman's body is her mind"It's not. Let them try and fuck a mind. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/16 11:27 AM |
| 8 | GF trickle truths me about sexual pastYou're worrying over nothing. You should stay with this girl. You two seem perfect for each other. After all the past is the past right. Just because she cheated before doesn't mean it won't happen again. The fact that you are also less sexually experienced isn't an issue either. It just means that she knows what she's doing and can lead you. Also the lies aren't a big deal. I'm sure she'll be honest going forward. Don't worry OP, I'm with you on this. In fact I suspect you've been acting weird … | /r/askTRP | 09/07/16 12:02 AM |
| 1 | I'm only looking for friends (Famous line)Lived in Montreal for a while. Still one of the easiest hunting grounds I've ever had. If she's hitting you with the LJBF line then you gotta up your game and SMV. Women there are pretty independent TM . Consequently they're much easier to fuck if you know what you're doing. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/16 11:24 PM |
| 14 | One of my girls has bf, met this guy, now i feel bad for him. Should i let him know?Asking a moral question in an amoral place. Move along. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/16 06:56 AM |
| 1 | any druze on trp?Religion is man made. And just like any man made ideas, it is prone to delusion. If you're looking for further meaning in life, you're better off being a theist or an agnostic than subscribing to any one religion. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/16 06:52 AM |
| 1 | I'm ready to swallow the pill nowDelete her. Delete all social media. Go outside. Do everything you can until you find what you like to do. This is day one of your life. The point is not to do the right thing but to do something. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/16 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Struggling to rid myself of a fetishIf you want to fuck trannies, then fuck trannies. There's an entire part of the redpill dedicated to non-conventional sexual strategy (i.e. alt-redpill). Stop trying to be what you think you are and be what you are at your fullest potential. But first cut the porn out and go fuck a tranny IRL. If you like it, then you like it. If not, then you know it's just the porn fucking with your head. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/16 12:10 AM |
| 20 | GF admitted kissing somone on spin the bottle and says "it's not cheating"...WTF!?You're not ready yet. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 11:07 PM |
| 3 | My RP boyfriend is breaking up with me for going to a festival without himI understand everything youve said. But Im not even looking to give sex to anyone else, and knowing me, I probably wouldnt anyway (I guess this can be refuted from other peoples perspectives who arent me, if that makes sense). Who is to say for sure though? You yourself have acknowledged that there will be status-altering substances present. Unless this your first time ever using such substances, you should know full well that control is limited. Arent guys always after sex? Yes that is called a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/16 05:18 PM |
| 8 | My RP boyfriend is breaking up with me for going to a festival without himFor some reason your responses don't appear on this thread. In any case I'll address one particular one you've made here. I don't generally want him to not go to things. it doesn't bother me as much. If eh tells me hes going to the pub or a night out with his friends, Im more likely to be easy going with it. Where as when I tell him im going out with my girlfriends he gets all like "Thats not a LTR material girl, girls shouldnt be out till the early hours of the morning" It caused lot of frictio… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/16 01:22 PM |
| 1 | What music do you guys listen to?YG - She Wish She Was It's the only song you'll ever need to hear. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 07:38 AM |
| 1 | "You're too arrogant."I agree and amplify like a motherfucker. "I'm too arrogant? Well you are in the presence of a god after all." | /r/askTRP | 03/07/16 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend kissed her best friend (another girl)..?Let me tell you a secret: she isn't your girlfriend. Either go for the threesome or break it off (if you're that insecure). The most she is, is a plate. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/16 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Late bloomers who are now doing well, does your past still bug you sometimes?No. The past is not the past. The past is just as much a part of who you are as what you do today and what you will do in future. If the past is the past then you should be comfortable shacking up with a cum dumpster who has decided that "that isn't her anymore". Don't be a hypocrite. Acknowledge and embrace who you were. So you were a sad sack of shit before. Big fucking deal. A real man accepts his mistakes and wears them as a scar of war. Don't fall into the beta trap of thinking that you can… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/16 07:34 PM |
| 1 | I spend a ton of time in the gym but I can't get laid because of physical limitations and I am depressed about it.Your limitations aren't holding you back. It's you that's holding you back. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 06:49 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid being openly cucked?Prevention is the cure. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 08:06 AM |
| 2 | Plate wants to come 20 mins later from arranged timeShe's done this a few times. You withheld pertinent information here. I was writing from a position that this was a first time offense. Since it's happened before, the dynamic is already in her favor. I would simply not respond. Are you using iMessage? If so, you should turn your read receipt on. Let her know that you saw her text and just didn't find it worth a response. The point is to let that hamster spin. You are the prize. She should be chasing you. Anything other than that is unacceptable… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 07:28 AM |
| 2 | Plate wants to come 20 mins later from arranged time"Ok but it's going to cost you." Shit happens but you must make it clear that her breaking plans with you has consequences. Never tell her not to worry about it or that it's ok to reschedule just like that. The minute you do that, the dynamic changes. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 05:51 AM |
| 3 | What's incentivizing women to do better?Incentive to be better? How about doing what's best for you instead of following a self-destructive narrative that is mass produced for easy consumption? Everything about the red pill is about seeing the world for what it is and being better for it, in spite of the present circumstances. That applies to both men and women. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 05:48 AM |
| 3 | Is doing yoga alpha or betaHave you read the rules of this sub? | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 03:39 AM |
| 2 | "I have a boyfriend"K. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 01:26 PM |
| 2 | "I have a boyfriend"I was wondering what you guys would do. Not wasted my time for four months and fucked her anyway. That's irrelevant anyway. You need to read the sidebar again. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 01:17 PM |
| 1 | "I have a boyfriend"What is the point of this post. You want us to tell you did the right thing? You're problems are bigger than you thought if that's the case. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 01:00 PM |
| 7 | Ex-GF texts me after breaking up to ''talk about us''I'm not fully recovered from the break up. Stay away. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/16 10:45 PM |
| 24 | Now, I will no longer waste my gift.Brb, gonna go kill myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 07:23 PM |
| 15 | Girlfriend disrespects me in publicThis will never work and I'll tell you why: you cannot negotiate desire. This is not a shit test. OP is her BB plain and simple. His only recourse is to end the relationship. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/16 10:29 PM |
| 4 | Everyone who resorts to TRP has a little bit of alpha in them, or is at the very least aware of the alpha-beta dynamic.The reason people embrace TRP is due to their willingness to recognize, and more importantly, accept that the current dynamic and narrative is wrong. Alpha or beta-ness has nothing to do with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/16 10:22 PM |
| 6 | I'm yearning for puppy (motherly) loveYou haven't yet swallowed the pill. You may understand it, but you have yet to fully internalize it. I would recommend monk mode. Implicit in that is time away from your girl (which incidentally may result in the end of the relationship). As for why, the answer is simple enough: you're still looking for someone else to fulfill you. Until you learn what it is to be self-sufficient in your emotional needs, you will never move on from where you're at right now. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/16 10:15 PM |
| 29 | Emergency TRP LTR Advice Needed (GF Planned a w/e vacation secretly then lied to me about it)Don't ask to see her phone. Don't ask for anything. You'll be giving her the satisfaction of drama and that's the last thing you should be doing. Begin checking out emotionally and physically right fucking now. She is no longer your girlfriend. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/16 12:58 AM |
| 2 | What is the single, simple move from TRP that has changed your success with women?Being comfortable in my own skin. I used to be a Nice Guy; always trying to please people and not doing what I wanted. Then I decided to put myself first. Wouldn't you know it, but doors (and legs) began to open. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/16 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Milo Yiannopulos joining Pride-festival in Swedish "Muslim ghetto"Not really a fan of Milo if I'm honest. In any case, all religion should be outlawed, not just one or two. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/16 12:30 AM |
| 2 | When you next a girl, do you delete/block her on whatsapp or just ignore?If she's bugging you then block her. Peace of mind is paramount. Don't let an ex infringe upon that. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/16 09:46 PM |
| 3 | "You never tell me anything"Look deep in her eyes, let the tension build and then whisper "Only you can prevent forest fires." | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 10:52 PM |
| 8 | Booted a girl from my hotel room after I couldn't close, and I'm not sure how I feel about it.Don't let anyone tell you otherwise: you always pay for pussy whether it's a monetary exchange or otherwise. You didn't get what you were paying for, so you were justified in checking out. You did the right thing. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 08:53 AM |
| 1 | How did I handle my ex?It's a troll post. /u/semikindo has proven it below. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 08:14 AM |
| 1 | How did I handle my ex?Didn't even see this before I replied. Good spot. Report the post. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 08:14 AM |
| 1 | How did I handle my ex?You may have 'transformed' yourself, but you're still a child. You were petty, petulant and immature. So she hurt you. Big fucking deal. Let your actions speak for themselves. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Did I play this wrong or is this girl just a bitch?I wouldn't have put the word date into it. Women need plausible deniability. Saying something like that makes it real. On the other hand if you suggest 'hanging out' instead, it makes it seem like it's just as likely to be an innocent encounter or a chance to escalate to something further. I'd have simply put the event out there. Instead of haha you'll be able to answer that yourself after we go on a date. #? I'd have said: find out yourself at X place at Y time. In any case, I don't think your … | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 07:54 AM |
| 3 | She Does What She WantsAnd yet she will never accept responsibility for those choices. This should be sidebarred. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Anti-Male Media Continues War on Men: Milo Yiannopoulos Suspended From TwitterIt's funny that Twitter can let ISIS continue to operate, yet take issue with Milo. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 07:01 AM |
| 1 | How would you grade my performanceFirst, read what I wrote again. Tone doesn't matter. It's what you said that is the issue. Get that through your head. Second, take a step back and see that you're thinking way too much about this one girl. Who gives a fuck what she thinks. Focus on enjoying yourself. What she does or what she says should have no bearing on that. If it does, then you shouldn't even be in that position to begin with. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/16 09:06 PM |
| 1 | How would you grade my performanceYou act like she's someone you don't know and are meeting for the first and last time: amicable but not friendly. You're not trying to be her friend or listen to her problems. You're there to enjoy yourself. You think speaking in an even tone makes you alpha? You have so much to learn. You never ask her why she ignores you or why she hasn't been responding to your texts or why she hasn't said hi to you. Act like a fucking man not a little girl. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/16 08:04 PM |
| 2 | How would you grade my performanceYou should be furious. With yourself. You acted like a lil bitch. No wonder she treated you like one. A girl ignores you? You're the one who act like nothing happened. You don't go out of your way to say hi or whatever, but you don't give her drama. Women feed off drama. The more you give them, the more they feel that whatever it is they've done is justified. Now to why you behaved this way: you have zero abundance mentality. It took her disrespecting you and treating you like shit for you to ev… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/16 06:17 PM |
| 4 | Ran into my cheating EX todayPhew you still have a long way to go. At least you acknowledge that. You'll get there eventually. Just don't waste your time like that again. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/16 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend phone call left confused?You come to a place that has probably the best understanding of women you'll find, claim you know better, and still expect us to give you advice? You're a troll. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 09:36 PM |
| 37 | I just left my girlfriend. I am so fucking proud of myself.You can't negotiate desire. It just doesn't work like that. And it's not something you should try to change for any one person. You work on making yourself desirable for all women, not just the one you've got your sights on. On a related note, asking for sex (or anything for that matter) is a sure fire way to kill any desire that might exist. Never do that again. She told me that it's not that she's not attracted to me ( I never asked if that was the reason) or anything like that. Her reasoning … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/16 07:56 AM |
| 4 | Girlfriend fuxked a whole frat house right before we metYou've been told to leave and you should. As for your living situation, how long is the lease up for? If I was you, I'd speak to your landlord about and explain the situation. If you can find someone to take the place over, most landlords will be understanding enough to get you out of the lease. Just say things aren't working out between you two anymore and staying together is not an option. In the meantime, you should have a bro you can hit up for a place to stay. The longer you stay in that ho… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/16 08:46 PM |
| 9 | Reason not to get Married #7,382: Millionaire tycoon's ex-wife awarded six figure payout even though he made his fortune a decade after they split [UK]Do a little research before you make a post. Marriage historically has been a transaction where an exchange takes place. Be it for political reasons such as the marriages between monarchies or for practical reasons i.e. to strengthen business ties, marriage has had its uses. To say it is a bluepill concept ignores the history of the institution, and demonstrates ignorance on your part. Yes it is presently a fools errand to enter a marriage nowadays, but it is by no means only for bluepill chucks… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/16 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Automatic flirting with girls, do I embrace it?It does but like I said you have to learn to be more discerning on who gets your time and who doesn't. You are the prize. Does a doctor diagnose and treat everyone he comes across? Does a lawyer give consultations to whoever asks for them? No, the only exchanges either make are made when some value is gained in return. You should think of yourself in the same vein. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/16 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Automatic flirting with girls, do I embrace it?You've gotten past the first hurdle of opening girls up. Now you have to move on to opening girls (and people for that matter) up with a purpose. By all means be amicable with everyone you see but know who to invest your time and energy into. Remember that commitment is a man's currency. Even the time you spend gaming is a form of commitment. The easier you give it away, the less power you have. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/16 01:01 PM |
| 5 | Stopped Lifting - Failed With Girl.Yea there's no way it's that black and white. Women don't flock to you because you lift. They become attracted because the lifting helps you build the confidence necessary for attraction. You likely tried to pull moves that your SMV didn't back up and are trying to frame it as 'lack of lifting cost me pussy'. Your game was weak. The sooner you own up to it, the quicker you can progress. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/16 09:09 AM |
| 6 | [Rant / Venting] Woman really don't like being challengedPuts him back in control. Which would be something that is completely out of his demonstrated character. OP cannot win here. He's revealed himself to be a pushover. With this girl in particular, there's no coming back. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/16 06:15 PM |
| 5 | [Rant / Venting] Woman really don't like being challengedYou made the mistake of qualifying yourself to her. Of course she was going to react poorly. You never, ever do that as that's approval seeking behavior. The leader in any relationship never seeks approval. Council, maybe, but never approval. This had nothing to do with you challenging her. It was the way in which you approached the issue. Your standing has significantly lowered in her eyes. You're probably better off moving on. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/16 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Burnout with RedpillBest answer here. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/16 06:02 PM |
| 2 | My wife killed the love birds I got her as a birthday presentYou don't want a divorce yet divorce is your only option. Sometimes we need to do the things we don't want to. But hey it's your life; do with it what you will. And this bit: She is [...], gentle vs. To my shock yesterday, I caught her drowning the birds in aa bowl of vodka mixed with water. Yea ... no she's not gentle OP. I'd move to another country if I was you. And even then, who knows if it would be enough. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/16 05:59 PM |
| 4 | Red pill acceptance is grief, the loss of the dreamTo be fair, questioning along these lines can only lead you to question the very structure of society as we know it. It seems like something you're likely to tend towards. Look up the sigma. You might just have the potential to be one. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/16 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Consent form signed before banging a chick?Lol is this an episode of southpark? Be subtle about it man. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/16 03:24 PM |
| 2 | My LTR brought up TRP in conversationShe's made you. Deal with it. I'm actually more concerned about why she brought up this post in particular. She could be hinting at a lack of leadership on your part. All women are capable of branch swinging. Most will acquiesce to the impulse. Few will stay and work on the relationship/ their partner. It's time for some introspection OP. Your girl may be sending you a hint. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/16 03:14 PM |
| 5 | When your marriage, family and life as you know it implodes...Dark Enlightenment. It's the name given to information representative of the neo-reactionary movement. Check out the subreddit for more. I suggest you think more critically about DE however. With TRP, a lot of the information is easily verifiable and quantifiable. However DE is decidedly more 'out there' and will require you to be more open minded and more discerning of the truth and the bullshit. A lot of people use DE to justify their own beliefs under the umbrella of neo-reaction. When delvin… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/16 09:45 PM |
| 3 | When your marriage, family and life as you know it implodes...He's pushing some DE information. To be fair, there is some overlap, but with respect to DE, you're better off looking for that information yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/16 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Hey. Newbie here. Been reading the sidebar posts and have a few questions.You've been given the definitions and a guide on lifting. As for game, it primarily comes from within. You can read books on it (the Book of Pook and Bang), but really it comes from a point of self-confidence. That self-confidence is a result of acknowledging your own self-worth hence the emphasis here on lifting and self-improvement. The more you think you're worth, the more confidence you'll have. Don't worry about what other people your age are doing. Do what you have to do. Focus on the basi… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/16 02:02 AM |
| 6 | Welcome New Subscribers! The newcomers from Reddit's yearly "THE REDPILL WILL KILL YOU INSIDE" post are arriving.Because the people who often argue against TRP don't bother to do their homework and actually understand what it's about. That's why I personally advocate not talking about TRP and not bothering to convert anyone. If people want to swallow it, then they'll do it on their own. We're not here to hold any hands. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 10:25 PM |
| 13 | Welcome New Subscribers! The newcomers from Reddit's yearly "THE REDPILL WILL KILL YOU INSIDE" post are arriving.First off we're not recruiting anyone here. Recruitment implies some overt attempt to attract new members. No such thing happens here. You find TRP on your own, decide if its for you on your own, and stay on your own. Second, so what if names are called? Are you just going to stand there and accept that you're a cuck (which most men nowadays are) or actively prove that you're not? Third, the whole point of TRP is to ask questions and think critically. We're fed the feminist trope nearly every mi… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 10:23 PM |
| 1 | How do I fight a fetish of mine?Yup. It's like people want expert level advice, but wont even do the bare minimum and work on the basics. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/16 08:35 PM |
| 2 | How do I fight a fetish of mine?So what are you asking us? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/16 11:53 AM |
| 2 | How do I fight a fetish of mine?I'm pretty much ignored by women. This is because of many things that are all on me, such as my attitude and my weight, [...] I have a submissive fetish. Do you see the connection. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/16 06:31 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys just let loose with girls? And how do I improve my social skills?Sounds like you're focused on what you think you should be and not what you actually should be. You've found TRP and have chosen to distance your present self from your past self. Let me tell you something I personally learned soon after swallowing the pill: alpha and beta is not a discrete dichotomy. Rather it's a spectrum, and usually, most people who find the pill are at the latter end of the spectrum. However very often, it's not seen that way and people seek to do a 180 without doing enough… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/16 06:25 AM |
| 5 | A quick ventLet him be angry. Experience shows that the anger always subsides. His use of the word is nothing more than the manifestation of said anger. The reason people hate us is because we make no apologies about expressing said anger. Better us who do than those who only express it passive aggressively. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Relationship with an older women: possible?You have oneitis and are nothing more than an emotional tampon to her. For your own sake, move on. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/16 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Relationship with an older women: possible?Are your options that limited? | /r/askTRP | 04/06/16 11:21 PM |
| 12 | How can I stop becoming clingy with the women that become attracted to me?Abundance mentality plain and simple. You don't have it. You need to get. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/16 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Met A Girl At A Club Today [we're 21]Having worked in the industry myself, I automatically lose respect for a girl who goes clubbing. How does that relate to your particular experience? Simple: stop treating these bitches with so much respect. She's a club slut. You saw it with your own eyes. Stop thinking about trying to date or hang out with her. Pump and dump period. This goes for her and any other club slut you might feel yourself falling for. Internalize this in your interactions with them and you'll have much more success. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/16 05:23 PM |
| 3 | How do you respond to being swolested?Used this a number of times. Always followed up by 'are you a stripper too?' | /r/askTRP | 04/06/16 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Race, Globalism, Conspiracy Theories, and TRPEx-Muslim. Even moderate Muslims have difficulty being controlled. There is always a prevailing feeling of 'otherness' that is almost a pre-requisite to identifying as Muslim. That alone is a very real and serious threat. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/16 04:43 PM |
| 4 | Lawyers for 'Jackie' [Rolling Stone UVA girl]tacitly admit she invented her pretend rapistI can only hope that the unraveling of the Jackie UVA claim also seriously hurts the credibility of feminists who chose to #StandWithJackie despite the evidence against her. Not gon happen. How can their credibility be hurt when they control most of the means of expression? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/16 04:44 PM |
| 26 | Lawyers for 'Jackie' [Rolling Stone UVA girl]tacitly admit she invented her pretend rapistI was thinking the same until I remembered that a woman was behind it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/16 10:59 PM |
| 7 | Plate withholds sex, I soft-next her. Now she asks me why did I go radio silence out of sudden. Should I explain it to her?Fuck explaining. Tell her to come over on a certain day at a certain time. Carry on as if nothing has happened. Women feed off of emotional turmoil. Telling her what the deal is removes the mystery and denies her the chance to hamster. Your job is simple: make her wonder. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/16 05:28 PM |
| 75 | Is it OK to tell my girlfriend I feel depressed?Don't tell your girlfriend. Do tell your dog. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/16 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Girl has been pestering me since break upWhy bother responding? Just block her. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/16 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl has been pestering me since break upThis is such bad advice. Don't do this OP. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/16 05:13 PM |
| 6 | She wouldn't fuck me on our first "date", but I sort of didn't want to anyway.Your dick is too tiny. Sorry to break it to you OP but you will never get laid again. That girl was just a coincidence. Give up now and leave the women for the real men. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/16 04:59 PM |
| 1 | A subreddit dedicated to listening to rappers talk about treating women like hoes bash a dude for being a part of a subreddit that encourages the same thingThe rule exists for a reason: to allow us to think as we like and behave as others. If you want to question it, by all means go ahead. I'm not going to try and stop you. Just don't be surprised by the aftermath, as the OP and the user in question appear to be. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/16 06:04 PM |
| 5 | A subreddit dedicated to listening to rappers talk about treating women like hoes bash a dude for being a part of a subreddit that encourages the same thingAnd yet he broke the first rule of TRP: don't talk about TRP. Honestly, I find posts like this a waste of time. We know most of the people outside this community don't like us and don't understand us. Furthermore, we know that our principles are already widespread, and in most cases, subconsciously appreciated. Why then should we make a big show of saying, "oh look you like TRP principles, but hate TRP" when we already know that's the case. Let the sheep be sheep. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/16 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Better to have a "crew" or be a connector?They both have their advantages and disadvantages. I'm not going to go into detail about each as I don't have the time right now, but I will say this: in any social circle, the key is to maintain dependency on yourself. Whether you're a connector or a part of a single crew, that law of power should not be transgressed if you want to cement your status. As to which you should pursue, I would suggest looking at your natural talents. You seem more inclined to be a connector, so maybe it's a skill y… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/16 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Trust no one; my female coworker told people I was obsessed with her, and that I stalked her.Offers no value? Amanda was afraid the OP, catching her in the act of cheating, would sell her out. She spun a tale to preemptively discredit OP, so that if he made any mention of it, would come across as a stalker. OP made the mistakes of: a) being overly friendly/ too naive and trusting of his work mate and b) not keeping himself apprised of workplace politics and this transgressing a law of power (not guarding his reputation). Value enough for you? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/16 08:00 PM |
| 6 | How to regain alpha status in ltrEnd the relationship. Go into monk mode. You have a lot of work to do. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/16 06:51 AM |
| 18 | I've spent a year out of state while waiting to attend law school at one of the Top 5 Universities in the US. I've started dating a single mother in that time who wants me to stay at least a year longer so that she can move with me. Is this a bad idea?Stay with her. Have a long life raising another man's child with your not-lawyer income. It's the goal after all. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/16 04:30 AM |
| 4 | Women rewrite history AWALT How my cheating wife looks at the day I found out about her cheating.Of course you're going to feel like shit. In one way, you're no different to the millions of men out there who have been sold the lie that women can love you the way you want them to. You invested yourself in her, and she threw it in your face. It has happened to many men, and your story is no great exception. Where you differ though, is that you have been exposed to the reality of the illusion. You have found a community that works to reinforce the adoption of reality. You are now firmly on the… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/16 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Why is that TRP praises 5x5 training more than the 3x8 approach?In a nutshell, the former makes you strong. The latter makes you swole. To be swole you have to first be strong. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/16 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Love and the High Value Man TrapWomen are children. Only a child can successfully argue with a child. Think about playground rules. Girl says: "you're such a X". You respond: "well you're a X plus one!" | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 10:59 PM |
| 6 | I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid (Part 2)Girls with daddy issues are fun to fuck. Never try to raise them to more than just plates though. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 08:42 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on listening to music when doing things like walking somewhere, shopping, working out etc? I am going to stop this habit.Pimsleur isn't something you can just listen to though. You have to actually practice speaking out loud to hear the right tones and sounds. I'm using it to learn Mandarin right now and there's no way I could just let it play without practicing along. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 08:27 AM |
| 3 | Fuck Up at Job!Have you read the 48 laws? Law 1 is to never outshine the master. You say you can't stand disrespect but at the same time you have no sense of subtlety. Read the 48 laws. Learn how to play the long game. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/16 08:04 PM |
| 10 | How to react when getting eyeballed?You're being swolepressed. They should check their privilege. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/16 07:55 PM |
| 7 | The white coat (or how I lost my virginity)Embracing masculinity and being ok with that embrace. Varies depending on the person but that's the end goal. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 03:24 PM |
| 16 | The white coat (or how I lost my virginity)Are you going to keep being bitter now that you know how the game works or are you going to slay? Stop dwelling on the past. Work on the future. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 09:56 AM |
| 3 | Girl had epiphany after spending night at her place - decided not to do anything physical for a month/u/fnordsnord given you the answer. But honestly there's no point persisting. Just move on. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/16 07:13 AM |
| 14 | Hurricane GeneralizationsBut but, some womynz are special snowflakes!! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/16 05:27 AM |
| 2 | "You think you can fuck me whenever you want, it makes me not want to have sex"" Is this some kind of shit test?Congratulations. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/16 03:07 PM |
| 11 | "You think you can fuck me whenever you want, it makes me not want to have sex"" Is this some kind of shit test?Do you read what you type before you type it? | /r/askTRP | 17/05/16 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Your thoughts on creatine?Get micronized creatine powder. It's cheap and you don't have to split it with anyone. Dymatize or ON are good options. Take a teaspoon everyday. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/16 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Canada Environment Minister: Climate Change is SexistYou think that's funny, you should hear what our dear PMs wife said recently: http://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-36306388 | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/16 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Canada Environment Minister: Climate Change is SexistThere's an entire position within the eco-framework dedicated to this non-sense (look up social greens). It's all a joke really. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/16 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Lift bro..Go to a park and use the monkey bars for dips and pull ups. If you're skinny, up your caloric intake making sure you get enough protein. If you're fat, lower calories and eat enough protein. There's a whole subreddit on bodyweight fitness. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/16 02:55 AM |
| 3 | Guy supports wife through grad school, she gets new job, higher salary, starts treating him like a true betaNot a lawyer so not familiar with the laws but in the event of a divorce can he get spousal support? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/16 02:37 AM |
| 8 | Mate Guarding and Relationship Power: She Has the Power If You’re The One GuardingChildren will still push and step over boundaries, no matter how concrete they appear to be. In such cases, facing the consequences of said behavior, i.e. learning the hard way, is the only recourse. Communication can only take you so far, especially considering that most of the communication in a relationship is non-verbal. There's a reason dread works: because talking about your problems can only do so much. OP made the right move. She behaved like a child. He treated her like one. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/16 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Working men; what do you find hardest about working out and staying fit?Motivation is fleeting. Discipline is what lasts. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/16 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Sexual rejection from LTR.Up your dread levels. Start gaming other women and doing more things with your time. Be less gracious during sex. Deny her even. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/16 05:26 AM |
| 4 | Went to a nightclub, had fun but didn't do ANY approachesCount to three and just do it. The more time you give yourself, the more time your ego gets out of control. And stop drinking to get wasted. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/16 08:42 AM |
| 2 | I went full retard with TRP. How can future members avoid this?It's a Law of Power. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Went through GFs phone, found something I didn't want to see.Ok | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 05:55 AM |
| 5 | How do I begin lifting and improving myself physically?You seem to be asking us more how you should go about getting over your fear of embarrassment than how to begin. At the end of the day if this shit is important to you then who cares if you embarrass yourself? Besides, you're not that important. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 05:34 AM |
| 3 | Went through GFs phone, found something I didn't want to see."Trust but verify" is male hamstering. Riiiigghhhttt. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 05:21 AM |
| 2 | "Miss me yet?"The point is to make it absurdly obvious that he doesn't. Too curt and you can come off as being unnecessarily rude. This is perfect. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 04:39 AM |
| 1 | "Miss me yet?"Yes man. This is the answer. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 04:38 AM |
| 4 | How to keep the ego intactLet go of your ego. It's far better to appear to have one than to actually have one. You not only get a better sense of yourself, but others as well, | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Need advice about calisthenics or gym.Any routine, done consistently and frequently enough will give you the noob gains you desire. The point is to do something. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/16 08:40 PM |
| 4 | LTR constantly wet around me?Invest in straws. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/16 06:42 AM |
| 2 | 24yo incel looking to turn it aroundYou sound too outcome-dependent and focused on getting women. If suggest you get a hooker and stop putting women and sex on a pedestal. Get your rocks off so you can stop being so insecure. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/16 03:31 AM |
| 3 | GF's Dating Profile Still ActiveOut of habit? Jesus listen to yourself. She knows exactly what she's doing. You, somehow, don't. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/16 03:07 AM |
| 2 | I have worked in an office for almost 6 months, apparently all the girls thought I was gay, what do I do?I thought one of my co-workers was gay. Dude was way too friendly and the women in the workplace around him, way too comfortable. I was talking to him one day and he brought up a date with a girl he had. I was surprised to say the least but didn't mention anything. What I noticed about him was that his interactions were often really tame or toned down. He also doesn't use his man voice i.e. he doesn't speak from his balls up. Learn how to subtly be crude. Ditch the nasal voice and utilize your n… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/16 01:21 AM |
| 1 | What are you thoughts on wearing compression clothing (e.g., shorts, undershirts, etc.) to enhance male body shape.Looks. Status. Game. 2/3 will get you want until you get all three. Stop looking for shortcuts. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 04:55 PM |
| 5 | What the fuck am I doing wrong.. I've grown so much and still don't get laidThen he should stop being so desperate. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 04:41 PM |
| 86 | LTR goes out last night, casually mentions a guy added her on IG and DM'd her his number this morningDon't ask any questions. Downgrade to plate. Start gaming other women. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 04:12 PM |
| 4 | What the fuck am I doing wrong.. I've grown so much and still don't get laidI'm 5'9". Got with a girl who was 6'6". Had to change my sheets twice in one night. Stop using your height as an excuse. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 04:00 PM |
| 20 | What the fuck am I doing wrong.. I've grown so much and still don't get laidYou say you have periods of realization which lead you to amp up the energy and focus. However every time you do, nothing changes. Have you ever thought about changing your approach? Dialing it back a little bit and placing less of an emphasis on getting laid and more of an emphasis on actually building relationships of value to yourself. Hell, if sex is so important to you then get a hooker and get your rocks off already. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting differ… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 03:58 PM |
| 13 | The MethodGood write up but I'll add just one more step and sub-step: Step 0 be attractive; Step 0.5 don't be unattractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/16 10:48 AM |
| 1 | How to make this married woman at work I foolishly gamed earlier lose interest in meYou have two options both of which involve lowering your perceived SMV. Follow through, sleep with her and be really bad at it. That will likely tank your work reputation though. Get fat. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/16 08:01 PM |
| 4 | The Viability of the Red Pill in the Future - Border ErosionI'll admit to being guilty of tone policing myself. As I spend most of my time on asktrp, a lot of the times I find myself having to convince people of TRP. No longer. TRP speaks for itself. It needs no convincing. You either swallow it or you don't. Those who truly want to make the change will have to work for it the same way the rest of us did. Steel is forged in fire. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/16 01:05 AM |
| 4 | LTR used racial slur. Hard nexted. What ways can I improve my frame for future relationships to prevent from happening again?As a black guy who's been with his share of white girls, I'll say it can be hard to tell the ones who look at you as some kind of novelty. From what you've described it sounds like she falls into that category. Without going into the dynamics of why this happens and what it means, I'll just say that at the end of the day you have to associate with people who give you value inasmuch as they derive value from you. She likely didn't so your course was the right one. As for how you carried it out, y… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/16 07:22 PM |
| 7 | I'm (24f) ashamed to admit I'm an alpha widow. Is there any chance at recovery?Funny. For a self-proclaimed alpha widow you make no mention of the alpha that widowed you in the first place. Makes me wonder if you really know what an alpha widow is. In any case, you will probably not find the alpha you feel you 'deserve'. You pretty much blew your chances with that one. However there's still hope: at least you're self aware enough to know you fucked up (or you say you are). Be more mindful of your behavior. Be more discerning of the men you meet and give them opportunities … | /r/askTRP | 04/05/16 06:15 AM |
| 1 | I just realized that my girlfriend had a lot of one night stand, and it's hurting meYou're a joke. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/16 02:35 AM |
| 1 | LTR asking me to stop texting others girlsThis is the best response. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/16 01:43 AM |
| 6 | Need resources..Books will not help you. You need to go out into the real world. By your own admission, accruing information without spending enough time learning how to fully apply it has driven you into isolation. "Knowledge without courage is sterile." - Baltasar Gracian | /r/askTRP | 03/05/16 08:01 PM |
| 7 | The Media, White People, and “Trump the Tyrant:” A TRP AnalysisSouth Africans appear to be a little bit more realistic and less SJW, but I've known South Africans who appear to have internalized the SJW narrative. Because that's the narrative that's most frequently being shoved down throats. I'm not a white man, but I see it around me: the white guilt, the tip-toeing over racial issues, the inability of a white person to say 'nigga' when singing along to a rap song. Being a SJW is the way for people to fit in, and when one finds themselves in a crowd, the p… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/16 04:12 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on guys who are into subwifing?My level of caring is contingent on the investment I put in and the return I get. For a woman who means nothing to me - i.e. one in whom I have not put in any investment and am receiving no return - I couldn't care less what she does and who she does it with. However for someone in which an investment has been made and a return expected, in this case a wife, I would care a great deal about letting others share that investment. Hence my stating that what you describe is more likely a kink than an… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/16 01:25 AM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts on guys who are into subwifing?Fuck nofap and fuck the whole no jerking off bullshit. That shit is just plain retarded. Men need to get their rocks off. I'm talking about the effect that porn has on your psyche. That site, in-as-much as there's a lot of pseudo-science on porn improving your chances with women, has legitimate info on the effect that porn has on your sexuality. At the end of the day, if you enjoy passing around women, then that's your kink. However it's worth it to lay off the porn and see if you really feel th… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/16 01:06 AM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on guys who are into subwifing?yourbrainonporn.com | /r/askTRP | 03/05/16 12:53 AM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on guys who are into subwifing?It's more of a preference than a sexual fetish. What do you mean by getting off from my wife being fucked by other dudes? There's something about it you find appealing for you to even consider it. If you didn't you wouldn't be asking this question. Yeah, I watch a lot of porn but I also get laid more than my friends do. I got laid on Friday and some of my friends go months without pussy. So what? In most cases porn can limit your chances of getting laid but that doesn't mean it's an iron rule. I… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/16 12:46 AM |
| 6 | What are your thoughts on guys who are into subwifing?This is more of a kink question. TRP is about embracing your masculine nature. Specific sexual fetishes are somewhat beyond the scope. From a red pill perspective though I'd say that if it's in your frame and you're the one setting the boundaries, then do it. Though how you would reconcile getting off from your wife being fucked by other dudes, and being a dominant man at the same time is something I personally can't conceive. Incidentally, how much porn do you watch? | /r/askTRP | 03/05/16 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Can I get a little feedbackCouldn't have put it better myself. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/16 07:04 PM |
| 18 | I read No More Mr. Nice Guy and it absolutely changed my life. But there's a part of me that's worried I will revert back to old habits.Put it this way: you have seen the matrix; you cannot un-see it. Your fear of reversion results precisely because you have understood the costs that reversion entails. Your only way is up. Keep reading, lifting and working on yourself. That fear will soon subside as you grow into yourself. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/16 05:11 PM |
| 10 | [LTR] Extremely possessive girlSome serious sperg responses here. Your problem is simple OP: you have no boundaries. You're like the hopeless dad that gives in to his daughters every demand. I'm willing to bet your sex life isn't too great either. Simply put, you're in her frame. You need to start enforcing some rules. She acts like a child and throws tantrums? You put her in her place. You make it clear that you won't stand for that kind of behavior. Before any of that though you have to assess how satisfied you really are w… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 09:50 PM |
| 0 | Is it Alpha to cry?I find crying a waste of time. Back in the day I would have told you that it's ok to cry. But honestly it's a waste of time. Crying for yourself is basically self-pity. "Life is too hard for me" is what you're communicating. Don't get me wrong it's ok to have emotion. Get angry/ upset/ sad; but don't allow it to be on top of you. Translate that emotion into something productive. Life is hard? Lift. Take a boxing class. Hell, write it down in a journal if you have to. But don't sit around feeling… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many blondes, especially the good looking ones, ice queens? Is it just an American thing?You put it so well AW. That last line should be on a t-shirt or some shit. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/16 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Should I have kissed her? [other]Wrong place for these posts. Read the sidebar. On a sidenote, seeing all these posts by kids about romantic bullshit is quite telling as to how much y'all have been feminized. Read the fucking sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/16 04:07 PM |
| 4 | How I comeback from this!21 year old single mother: that alone should tell you that she is damaged goods. You deserve better. Don't contact her ex. Don't contact her. You've allowed these people to impact your life enough. It's time you moved on for your own sake. You don't need the satisfaction of revenge; you want the satisfaction of revenge. Try to think about the motivations behind that want and realize how petty they are and how they will affect you in the future. Move on with your life. Leave them behind. Be bette… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/16 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Did I make the right decision breaking up with my fiance?You did the right thing OP. You did what you had to do for yourself which is often the most difficult concept the recently unplugged have to grasp. You should not feel guilty in any way, nor should you allow her to make you feel so. I hope you've cut contact with her and her family completely. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/16 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Being an alpha tranny? or Am I fucked as well?Sounds like you'll find what you're looking for in a kink community. In any case there are things I think you need to address. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/16 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Why did /u/TheUltimateCad delete his account?You have issues man and they go beyond women. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/16 07:55 PM |
| 1 | My apologies for whining, but help me with dealing rejections!How old are you? It's been three months since you swallowed the pill. You think Rome was built in a day? We can't all be Neo out here. Have some damn perspective. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/16 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Being fit is important to my boyfriend but I am too exhausted from my job to stay motivated.Why don't you ask to work out with him? If my woman asked that of me I would be happy that she was making the effort and enjoy taking the lead in setting the pace. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/16 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Real life Chad brags about bedding 2500 womenEgo is overrated. Having the air of one is infinitely more useful than having one at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 02:53 AM |
| 1 | What do you use instead of logic on women?Appeal to emotion instead of reason and empathy. Dread game, dealing with shot tests, and comfort tests are all based on those notions. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/16 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Submissive fetishes: am i fucked?Porn distorts your perception of what is sexually normal. Go pornfree for at least 3 months then decide if you're into being a sub or not. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/16 09:44 PM |
| 5 | Ex slutting around after breakup?You are a prime example of feminized youth. Closure is a female invention. Men don't need it nor does it exist. Case in point: in spite of your 'closure' you're still thinking about her and keeping tabs on her. The only way to make peace with the past is to move on from it. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/16 09:42 PM |
| 5 | 7 months since swallowing the pill, lifting, boxing, meditation, therapy and I'm still suffering from crippling oneitisYour whole post is about what you've done, yet I don't see a single mention of sex. You want to cure your oneitis? Sleep with more women. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/16 09:38 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants to travel. Should I demote?Just straight up tell her. What good does silently demoting her do? If you feel some type of way about her solo trip and its impact on the relationship dynamic then make it known. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/16 09:36 PM |
| 1 | I suck in social situations because...I don't have anything to saySay more outlandish things. From what you say you find difficulty in maintaining discussion. A simple remedy is to be the one starting it instead. Let people discuss topics you bring up. This serves the purpose of including you in interactions and allowing you to observe and learn from the discussions thereafter. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/16 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Is there a version of TRP that doesn't focus on sexual strategy?If you know what the material emphasizes as the means to progress then how can you say the emphasis is on blaming women. Seems like you want to justify your own misconceptions. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/16 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Is there a version of TRP that doesn't focus on sexual strategy?Doing so implies that we live in a female world - a fact that you can't really argue or deny. Now I will concede that there are frequent complaints about this fact - hence the rant and men's rights posts on both the main sub and on asktrp. However every post and discussions therein involve firstly acknowledging this fact, and second, finding ways to maneuver the subsequent environment. To be sure, the responsibility of doing so falls decidedly on us, not on changing the world around us. A cursor… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/16 09:07 PM |
| 3 | Is there a version of TRP that doesn't focus on sexual strategy?You hardly know anything about the red pill then if you think that what we do here is blame women. I encourage you to do more reading. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/16 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Is there a version of TRP that doesn't focus on sexual strategy?The world is dominated by the female imperative. It follows that most of the discussion in the sub is about women. In any case, sexual strategy applies in nearly all life situations either explicitly or implicitly. The sooner you realize that, the sooner you will see that sexual strategy is a lot more relevant than you once thought. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/16 08:34 PM |
| 1 | My fiance of almost four years left me 5 months before the weddingLol sure. Outcome independence is a product of controlling the outcomes to the best of your ability. By accounting for what may happen you become secure in your knowledge of what will happen. Saying 'things will work out in the end' is female thinking. It presupposes some invisible force responsible for the resolution of possible future conflict. Saying things will eventually work out is what women do. A real man prepares for eventualities. In doing so he becomes outcome independent. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/16 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Where do I go from here? I still think I can fuck this chick.Hey I'm going out for drinks at XX tonight, see you there Will not work. You should have set up the date in the initial text thread. Her keeping you waiting just shows that she's stringing you along. To be honest it's your fault. Be more decisive next time. I'd next this girl just on the basis that you need to tighten your game. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 10:23 PM |
| 1 | LTR is playing up. What do?And yet that's the society we live in. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 06:03 PM |
| 4 | RP approach to my recent promotion.The incentive is management experience. It may not seem like much but in a year or two when you're looking for a new job, it will count for a lot. Don't just accept the position without making it clear that they're cutting your pay. Try and angle for parity at least. However also realize that you're sacrificing short term gain for long term benefit. Also this may be an opportunity to learn to manage your personal finances better. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 05:49 PM |
| 0 | My fiance of almost four years left me 5 months before the weddingIt's worth nothing. You want a hug box? Go to 2X or relationships. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 05:44 PM |
| 3 | LTR is playing up. What do?Normally I would agree with you, but the man's being threatened with rape. That is not a small threat to make. I would immediately end that relationship if it was me. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 05:24 PM |
| 0 | My fiance of almost four years left me 5 months before the weddingAre you in the wrong sub? | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 05:21 PM |
| 6 | My fiance of almost four years left me 5 months before the weddingIt sucks cuz now all my friends are married and with kids and here I am having to restart when I thought I was finally going to be able to settle down. You sound like a woman. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 05:20 PM |
| 7 | My fiance of almost four years left me 5 months before the weddingMan, you sound like a lucky guy. She just helped you dodge a massive bullet. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/16 05:19 PM |
| 10 | Sexual Utopia in PowerThanks for taking the time to do this RPS. To the newbies who are too lazy to read the sidebar for themselves, you now have no excuse. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/16 03:27 AM |
| 3 | Can't tell if crazy or slut, or both.Run. The only way to beat crazy is with crazy. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 09:31 PM |
| 1 | How has going bald affected your sex life?I have a full head of hair. Went bald all of last summer just for fun. Numbers went up noticeably. Helps that I have a nicely shaped head but at the end of the day it's all about confidence. You act like its something that affects you and it will be something that affects you. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Ran into my ex, wanted to know how TRP thinks I handled it.You aren't over her. At least it's something you acknowledge, but you need to go further and address why. It will be difficult but it's necessary. Also you did the right thing. You will look back at all this and truly understand why. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Lifting and 40+ hour professional work week is HARD!If you work your ass off in the gym, you can. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Lifting and 40+ hour professional work week is HARD!BCAAs | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Lifting and 40+ hour professional work week is HARD!10 hours a day. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Red pill and cheating?Know what you mean before you type. You're lucky it was just me poking holes in your statements. You let a bitch do that and you're toast. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Red pill and cheating?Women are loyal to power and tingles. And themselves. Not men =/= Women have no loyalty. If you know where their loyalty lies, then it's your responsibility to ensure that what generates their loyalty is done. That is if you want an LTR. If not then yes, you will be cheated on. Or you will not really have a LTR to begin with. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Red pill and cheating?Women have no loyalty. Even in an LTR theyll cheat. So if you're in an ltr, why let yourself be cheated on? The only option is to not ltr or to cheat in your LTRs Not true. Women's sense of loyalty is different. That does not mean they have none. If you let them cheat, they will. If you let a child misbehave, they will. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 02:28 AM |
| 5 | Red pill and cheating?Troll. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Red pill and cheating?Find a surrogate. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Need Help with Working Out / Mass Gaining - Need Advice Small-Hard-Gainer...Eat at a surplus and bust your ass at the gym. There's no magic formula. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 01:59 AM |
| 1 | I am a cuckold and I need helpTania and I are still dating and we get along well, but I want to be that guy to her. The guy that she wants to give head to, that she wants to fuck her and give her orgasms. This is so messed up. Stop dating. Stop jerking off to porn. Just remove sex from your life because I'll be honest man, you're problems go way beyond sex. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Can someone like me become alpha?Stop trying to live up to arbitrary self-definitions. Instead live up to standards that you know you can honestly be satisfied with. That means being the person that you can look in the mirror at and be proud of. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/16 02:13 AM |
| 4 | Shameless Brag ThreadGamed a woman a whole foot taller than me. Who said size matters. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/16 01:56 AM |
| 1 | How to accept it?It's never easy to accept it. What worked for me personally was the idea that was seen could not be unseen. Because of that I could never go back to it again no matter how much I wanted to due to my conditioning. It finally became a matter of choice; go back to the fantasy knowing full well that it's not real or accepting that fantasies are just that and moving on. Take a guess which option I took. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 08:53 PM |
| 2 | I'm in financial troubleBarbacking is the traditional entry way. It's physical work and you get a lot of shit but if you really want to bartend, you need to learn how the bar works first. | /r/becomeaman | 18/04/16 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Remember the girl who dumped her boyfriend because he lacked "ambition" but was secretly loaded with cash, well here's the update from the same girlThat's how it goes man. With the number of things that go on in women's minds, I'm surprised they can acknowledge reality at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Questions about BP SubA man who argues with a wall is crazy. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/16 11:01 PM |
| 2 | [FR] of Installed software on LTR phoneKeep in touch with friends and family? Real friends and family can find ways to contact you without having to resort to facebook. It's a waste of time. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/16 10:53 PM |
| 2 | "She only likes white guys." What do I do if she only likes white guys?There are some who will say that it's a matter of personal taste. For the record I disagree. Women don't have the same sense of loyalty that men do. Their in-group is not immune to this deficiency (see the behavior of French and Japanese women during and after WWII for evidence). They are attracted to status first and foremost. Don't believe me? I'm sure this girl who 'only goes for white guys' would not think twice if you were an NBA player making 7 or 8 figures a year. Demonstrate status. Perc… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/16 12:01 AM |
| 25 | The Guardian: Swallowing the Red Pill: a journey to the heart of modern misogynyStephen Marche Do you think TRP is mostly misrepresented or do you think it kind of courts that shock value? RedPillSchool I didn't ask for it to be misrepresented, but it is a great advertising scheme when people see shocking headlines and come read what we have, and end up staying. The truth is, some of these topics are just outside the overton window, no matter how true or false they may be and so there will be outrage Stephen Marche Does it bother you? RedPillSchool Not really. I didn't expe… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Found out my dad is a loser. Will this have any affect on me?When we talk about being brainwashed by the bluepill this is what we mean. Men today have lost touch with the idea of delayed gratification. Everything nowadays needs to be instant. You have an end date in sight: why is it so hard to restrain yourself until then? Are you honestly saying that no matter how hard you try you cannot restrain your emotions? I find that hard to believe. Be a man. Suck it up and lie if you have to. You don't have to enjoy the experience, but you can make it easier to t… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/16 03:01 PM |
| 14 | TRP spilling out in TwoXWhich is why you have to know your audience. You can't save everyone, but you can know who to save. In a way knowing who to broknight is a good way to practice judging character. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Found out my dad is a loser. Will this have any affect on me?You never said who was putting you up. All you said was that you had your own private space. If he's the one housing you, then you have to put up with it until you can leave. If not, then I can see no reason why he should still be there. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/16 11:36 PM |
| 5 | Endorsed Contributors: Respect The TagI hadn't had EC status for two full days when the snarkily negative but insubstantial messages started trickling in. Much insecurity and butthurt even within the manosphere. It's almost as if people get kicks from disproving an EC. BP mentality if I ever saw it. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/16 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Found out my dad is a loser. Will this have any affect on me?So you can't leave just yet. I don't see what's stopping you from throwing him out. It's not like you owe him anything. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/16 11:14 PM |
| 1 | LTR cheated with a landwhale in my bedA lot of the people here can't seem to comprehend that your sexual relationship is in some ways unique. The distinction of your master/slave dynamic seems to escape them. In any case, she violated a condition of your relationship and a major one at that. She is now no longer worthy of your commitment. Fuck her if you still want to, or drop her. It really makes no difference any more. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/16 06:35 PM |
| 6 | The only one you can save is yourselfHuman beings are naturally social creatures. That means that when we find something good, we tend to want to share that good with others. On TRP, we often talk about reclaiming masculinity as it is our natural state. However we don't pay enough attention to the unnatural components inherent in the definition of masculinity. And that is exactly where the problem lies. Most people, new to this place, wrongly believe that in swallowing the pill, we are choosing to revert to a primal state. They ign… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/16 12:16 PM |
| 62 | My LTR is a whoreYou're not ready to be given advice so OP, just stay with your "girl". And while you're at it, send me her number too. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 12/04/16 10:25 AM |
| 3 | My (single-mom) cousin shared this idiotic FB rant today along with the phrase "too true".Why are you wasting your time on Facebook? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/16 10:11 AM |
| 6 | An acquaintance of mine is good looking, but so beta that he repulses girls. Looks do matter, yes, but being beta can stop even the good-looking guys from getting pussyCan you blame him. He's been conditioned to be that way his whole life. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 05:37 PM |
| 19 | "I was sure I was flirt-texting with The One. Until he saw me on Instagram."I showed his picture to a few friends to make sure I was in his league and he was in mine — we were, they assured me. And here we have an important lesson. Not only do women over-estimate their SMV, the people around them support those over-estimations as well. As a result you have to be multiple points higher in SMV for a woman you have sights on to notice you. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/16 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Not drinking alcohol is so foreign to average 20 somethings, I find it hard to go out with a girl and notBuy a bottle of beer and nurse that baby all night long. Even when it's done keep holding it as a prop. You won't get drunk but they don't need to know that. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/16 10:15 PM |
| 1 | What's a good workout routine.Forget the curling - it's useless for a beginner. What you want is a program with a focus on strength first and foremost. Now I'm no doctor but your acid reflux may be a symptom of you doing too much too soon. If you can only do 3 pullups I would suggest even putting a hold on a weight training regime until you're more familiar with your body mechanics. Instead look into a bodyweight training program. R slash bodyweightfitness is a good place to start. Learn about how your body works first befor… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/16 05:30 AM |
| 1 | cant achieve erections at 20. what should i do?Depression is a state of mind. I know this because before I found the pill, I thought I was too. You have to find value in yourself. Only then will you see real results. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/16 04:44 PM |
| 1 | This sub is great, however...Groundbreaking. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/16 04:41 PM |
| 5 | I'm an albino, here is the most common shit test i getIgnore it. You've given her answer. You don't negotiate with children. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/16 01:58 AM |
| 5 | Is anyone just completely disgusted by women?Chuuch. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/16 07:11 PM |
| 1 | I'm being bullied and ridiculed in front of women and I really want to avoid smashing his teethWhat rubbed me the wrong way about this guy is that when he started picking on me more than usual I just laughed, as always, even though I didn't really like what he was doing. Because I laughed and had no problem with teasing, he started insulting me straight up. You've made yourself an easy target. You can't just laugh at mockery as that communicates that you're inherently ok with being made fun of. For example if he says something like "keep the cakes away from Anthony, the children are hungr… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/16 05:24 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with Resting Stone Face?I've heard that mentally smiling can soften one's features. Don't know why one would do it though. I like my stone face. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/16 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Resuscitating text conversations killed by logistics failuresForget resuscitation. If a woman wants you enough she will make time; no resuscitation needed. Move on. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/16 12:39 AM |
| 6 | I'm being bullied and ridiculed in front of women and I really want to avoid smashing his teethLearn to laugh at yourself. This guy's only weapon against you is mockery which is so far proving to be effective. Laugh at yourself, preferably in a public setting, to show that these jokes don't get to you. Then turn the mockery on to him. He seems like the type of person who can dish it better than he can take it so you have to turn the tables on him. It requires a bit of subtlety but it's honestly your best bet to disarm him. What he's doing is basically shit testing you (yes men can do that… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/16 08:22 PM |
| 15 | Ghomeshi's defence lawyer gets grilled by CBC for "Betraying Sisterhood"CBC was/is pushing this story so hard, because they were the ones fanning the flames to begin with. They can't exactly U-turn right now and say 'sorry we were wrong'. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/16 04:21 PM |
| 16 | LTR likes other guys to buy her drinks when shes out?Up your dread game. This girl is not getting tingles from you and is already looking for a branch to swing to. A soft downgrade is also be advisable, though I would hold off on dumping her just yet for the sole reason that you need to learn bitch management for your own sake first. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Old Slutty WhatsApp msgs on GFs phone. AdviceFirst off: she's not yours; it's just your turn. Second, I hope you know you can't LTR this bitch right? | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Best Multi-vitaminVegetables. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/16 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Comedy Gold! Wife is scared of husband's rising SMV.You ever got a woman dick drunk? They definitely enjoy sex; maybe even more than we do. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/16 04:47 PM |
| 1 | How to escape this hypersexualized societyNo it's not. read the sidebar. He's right. You're wrong. You should read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/16 08:56 PM |
| 22 | How to escape this hypersexualized societyRemove social media from your life. That shit is a waste of time pure and simple. I've been off mine for almost a year now and don't even think about it anymore. Also get more hobbies that you can do outside/doors. Minimize the time you spend watching tv and other. Create instead of consume and soon enough you will find yourself removed from all of it. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/16 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Cross Post from Relationships: [46M] with my wife [44F] 25 years together, Open relationship for 22 years that is now beginning to cause issues due to my wife's insecurities.Prepare yourself for the worst. Do not compromise. Talk to a lawyer. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/16 06:32 PM |
| 5 | Can the Red Pill make you straight?Lay off the porn and jerking off. Let your head clear and then ask yourself if you're gay or straight. Your orientation doesn't really matter but you owe it to yourself to be clear headed enough to come to that conclusion on your own. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/16 04:37 AM |
| 9 | BP guy: Gf wants to break up due to change in behavior since me practising TRP conceptsDespite what a lot of people think RP is not all about "dumping girls and being alpha". How important is this girl to you? Is she the center of your world? If so then you need to break it off for your own good. Does she make your life better without being irreplaceable? Then you could probably stand to work on the relationship a bit more. The truth is your case is common: you're in a relationship, find TRP, start applying principles aggressively and create stormy waters for yourself. You are sup… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/16 10:51 AM |
| 2 | (vent) I've been dealing with a psychopathic "friend".Your writing style is hard to follow but I'll just say this: Someone who impacts your life in a negative way does not deserve to be a part of it. Find new friends and/or people who bring value to you. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/16 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Trickle Down Media WhoreIt's telling that all the articles on this clip have already painted her as the victim and you as the oppressor. Even concessions of the validity of your assessment of the election and the media surrounding it take a backseat to you calling her a 'whore'. The bluepill is everywhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/16 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Have you ever been out there wearing a plain simple white tee shirt and had more looks from girls than wearing brandish ones?The only tees I wear are plain. Other than that, it's shirts. I'm partial to plain black tees myself, but that's just my style. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/16 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Swedish government threatening a 'quoting' law to force stock-listed companies to put more women on their boardsThat video is interesting but I can't say I believe it all. Some compelling evidence but also an undeniable sense of misdirection as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/16 05:49 AM |
| 1 | When a girl says, "I hate you."Women hate their own friends. How can you believe them when they say they hate you. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/16 09:11 PM |
| 3 | First time applying to be a barbackBe mindful of your responsibilities and learn to keep a record of things. Barbacking is not just a path to bartending but a path to management as well. A lot of responsibility is put on a barback's shoulders and if you show yourself capable, can get recognition. Bear in mind barback pay is shit (apart from tips) so be willing to put in the extra work for what might often seem like little reward. Also be courteous to all the patrons no matter what their demeanor is. Some people can be assholes an… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Learning to cook/meal prep as a teenager?There are plenty of resources out there to help you. Google is your friend. What I've come to learn about cooking however is there are people who actually enjoy it, and people who simply do it. If you cook just for the sake of it, you will be independent but learning to enjoy it gives you more than simple independence. Cultivating the passion for it as a teenager can be especially rewarding later on. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 06:28 AM |
| 5 | Women are fighting to get paid 'period leave' off work to cope with period pain.Fuck this shit. I'm moving to the third world. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/16 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Champion's Mentality - How To Stop Being A Loser & Become Epic - A spiritual successor to Monk Mode. If Monk Mode was "how to stop being a loser" this is "how to start being a winner"One of your best pieces so far. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/16 12:40 AM |
| 0 | Can't shake oneitis for ex-wife even with platesPicture her sucking off two dudes at the same time. Oneitis gone. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 12:40 AM |
| 1 | This girl keeps calling me out. Attraction or annoyance?Seriously is she your grandmother or something? | /r/askTRP | 01/03/16 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Stronglifts 5x5 questionDepends on your level of activity. If you've done nothing beforehand and keep your diet more or less the same (providing you eat enough protein already), you will lose weight. If not then eating at a caloric deficit will make progress on SL slow in which case you should bulk and then cut. The simplest way to lose weight is calories burned > calories consumed. You have to decide what to prioritize though. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/16 07:22 AM |
| 7 | Alpha or Beta?Is it Beta to not read the rules? Avoid asking questions like "is this alpha" or "is this beta?" Instead focus on asking whether or not your actions were congruent with your goals. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/16 07:10 AM |
| 1 | girl and numberDon't set up anything while she's drunk. Dismiss her politely. If she texts you cool. If not wait a bit then hit her up. In the meantime find other women. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/16 02:50 AM |
| 4 | Flaked on by same girl twice in one dayWhat abdada said. Don't be so quick to bounce a girl. It's not like she's stepped on your dignity per se. She's tried to give you alternatives at least so that's a good thing, even if they haven't aligned with your expectations. Keeping quiet for a while is the best strategy. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/16 12:12 AM |
| -1 | 'Girls in tech' competition won by boySo you can read my mind now? Cool I'll add that to your list of talents. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/16 11:19 PM |
| -1 | 'Girls in tech' competition won by boyYou want to tell me what TRP is and you can barely manage basic comprehension. Where did I say that there are no women in science or women who do perform better than men? Find that and I'll renounce my EC badge for good. What I did say was that men are hardwired for certain things and women for others. There was no mention of superiority or that women shouldn't be allowed into science. What there was mention of, was that forcing women into fields that they are on average not naturally inclined s… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/16 10:59 PM |
| 1 | 'Girls in tech' competition won by boyWhere did I say anything about superiority. Don't put words in my mouth. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/16 08:22 PM |
| 50 | 'Girls in tech' competition won by boyGirls will be girls and boys will be boys. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/16 06:22 PM |
| 2 | falsely accused of rape, help!!He's better off finding a lawyer who's a feminist and a woman. Relying on an MRA attorney is just handing the justice system a shovel to dig his grave with. A feminist is more credible and more likely to believe his story. Just look at what Jian Gomeshi did. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/16 07:00 AM |
| 5 | Would you help this girlYep. The male hamster is just as strong. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 04:55 PM |
| 0 | plate wants to see pics of other platesAre you dating? If yes then tell her and make it clear that she can either stick with you or leave. If not then what business is it of hers. Again make that clear that she should know the score and accept it instead of asking you stupid questions. I would normally say deflect and AA in these situations but with girls who keep pushing, you have to take a stand and let the chips fall where the will. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Cheerleader asks kid with autism to prom. Right/wrong?That said, it's practical to remember that people are self-serving first. Someone may feel good to help you once, twice, or a dozen times, but they'll still be taking care of themselves first. Which I have no problem with. Where I take issue is the fact that people do these things to self-serve first and then to help others second but try to pass it off as them helping others first and themselves second or not at all. That's blatant dishonesty and heightens this selfishness of the act in my eye.… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 04:28 PM |
| 21 | Cheerleader asks kid with autism to prom. Right/wrong?Call me a cynic but I can't say I've honestly met a person who helps others in this way that is entirely selfless. There is some measure of self-gratification involved in actions like this. Unfortunately you can't make the actor own up to it without some kind of social blowback or otherwise impeccable frame. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 04:53 AM |
| 8 | Do you guys ever burn out or crash?Everyone has off days/weeks or months. The key to getting back on the train is to remember that it doesn't last forever. I personally believe that life has to balance itself out somehow. In that way whatever bad happens in your life, must be followed with good. You just have to be patient and look at things from a grand scheme perspective. You've made gains. They are visible to not just you. They wont disappear overnight. Sure you've had a bad patch, but that patch wont last forever. Take some t… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 02:20 AM |
| 2 | My Father See's The Light, Considers Ending Marriage (FR)EDIT Don't get married. But if you do. Not to a woman like my mum. Also never lose your balls. Ever. You seem to be operating under the illusion that your mom is somehow special or different in how unbearable she is. Here's a hint for you: AWALT. The reason your mom is the way she is, is precisely because your dad lost his balls. Women hate to be tied down to a beta and her acting the way she did is a result of that. A dog that shits on the carpet isn't a bad dog. It's a dog that is responding t… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/16 02:31 AM |
| 4 | LTR receiving underwear snaps from dude, how to deal with it?Hey that was really funny and creative. I actually laughed. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 07:49 PM |
| 3 | LTR receiving underwear snaps from dude, how to deal with it?Do you know who you're talking to? Pay attention to what you're being told instead of getting angsty and wasting people like /u/abdada's time | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 07:05 PM |
| 3 | I'm a female that learned a valuable life lesson today.Maybe. Giving her the benefit of the doubt I see it as an admission of ignorance and a request along the lines of "what now?" hence my referral to RPW. In reality there's no way to really know what her angle is. However most of us can attest to having that awakening moment when we first become unplugged and not knowing where to go next. Who's to say this isn't hers? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 02:21 AM |
| 2 | I'm a female that learned a valuable life lesson today.Your entire argument is based on the fact that this is a male space and that her, being a female, removes her right to be a part of this space. In asking you about Karen I've directly proven the fact that women can and do participate in this space. To be clear this is not a space solely for men but a space for the "Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men." The fact that you don't even know what we do here precludes you from deciding who should … | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 12:42 AM |
| 1 | I'm a female that learned a valuable life lesson today.Lol do you know who Karen Straughan is? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 12:31 AM |
| 43 | I'm a female that learned a valuable life lesson today.You acted completely in line with your nature - solipsistic and hypergamous. People that really understand what is taught here, don't really care how 'women are viewed' when they do what you did. We understand it is as the nature of the game. It's likely you're getting flak because your recognition comes across as insincere since women communicate more by actions than by words. However I'd counter that your coming here is a communicative action in itself. Bottom line, go to redpillwomen. You're … | /r/askTRP | 21/02/16 08:48 PM |
| 2 | I'm a female that learned a valuable life lesson today.Relax man. There's definitely a lot she has to learn but the more RP aware women there are, the better it is for all of us. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/16 08:44 PM |
| 66 | I'm a female that learned a valuable life lesson today.Don't know why you're being downvoted. You're a textbook example of everything we teach here. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/16 08:38 PM |
| 4 | My best friend is married to a whore and he doesn't know it.And yet in spite of your attempts, he's still not budging, choosing instead to listen to the other 'friends'. Listen, men have a sense of loyalty - best friends even more so. Your friend cannot hear you right now, but when he's been reduced to nothing as a result of this woman, he'll look back and remember the one voice - your voice - that told him to leave. He'll most likely understand that you were on his side and hopefully have swallowed enough pride to look you up. If not then you tried your… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/16 01:03 PM |
| 7 | My best friend is married to a whore and he doesn't know it.Well you clearly aren't responding to the 'it's not your problem' advice being given to you so here's an alternative route. I warn you it will be unsavory and you will not like it but it's the only way, considering you've tried to reason with him and it just isn't working. Forget about him. No seriously, let him get burnt. Cut contact with him. Allow him to isolate himself and then get fucked by the bitch to the point when he finally wakes up. Right now he still has you on his side so the threat… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/16 12:29 PM |
| 2 | I'm a submanager trying to deal with a difficult employee, who constantly challenges me even though he's wrong. Best RP way to deal with this shit?Let him dig his own hole. Right now you pointing out the errors is what's likely keeping him in his job. Do you have records of you trying to give assistance and advice prior? If not, you should build that up to an extent. Then let him sink. When you are asked why this particular employee failed at his duty you can point to a history of you offering advice and constructive criticism and him being unreceptive. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/16 06:56 AM |
| 4 | Worst LMR ever experienced WTFSet your frame and stick to it. It's likely that she was testing you so hard because you didn't know what your frame was yourself. On the one hand you tried to act like you dgaf, and the next you were trying to get her to stay by being all over her. Of course she's going to treat you like you're spineless. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/16 06:49 AM |
| 5 | Feminist Hamster: Leonardo DiCaprio will end up "miserable and alone"Find a man who wouldn't want to be Leo or a woman who wouldn't want to sleep with him and I'll renounce TRP as blatant fiction. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/16 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Am I wasting my time?Lol you have a dead bedroom and you're not even serious with her. Look up the 12 levels of dread if you want to stay with her. Personally I would end it as you aren't ready to stand up fir yourself yet. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/16 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Gym 7 days a week, maximize gains??I used to train 7 days a week. It's not impossible. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/16 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Are there any exercises I can do to supplement StrongLifts 5 X 5?Weighted dips and pull ups. Hanging leg raises if you feel your core needs work. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/16 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Gym 7 days a week, maximize gains??Are you retarded. How is 70kg 280? Don't even get me started on the rest of your 'advice' | /r/askTRP | 17/02/16 11:53 PM |
| 4 | My gf of 2 years cheated on me with another girl. I beta'd the whole relationship. Now she claims she is lesbian? I need to unbitchify my life. I need to improve myself into version 2. Advice?You acted like a woman way more than a woman would. It's no surprise she chose to swing to a woman as you've likely colored her perception of men. The truth is that perception will change with time. However you should consider her your past and cut her out of your life. You say you're injured and that's the reason why you've slipped into laziness and alcohol but those are all excuses. Motivation comes from within. So you can't lift right now (I'm guessing); read, meditate, learn a new skill INVE… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/16 08:46 AM |
| 3 | Main plate has been hinting at me committing to her. I looked through her phone to protect myself.First off, get tested. Not for any other reason than to know that you're ok. Her results don't matter. Second, you just had a practical lesson in how not to save ho's. It doesn't really matter how you learnt it, only that you did. *side note - don't get hung up on checking her phone. Women play dirty (sending your texts to her gbf etc.); so should you. Third, plates stop spinning eventually, you could keep sleeping with her for the time being, but with the way she's acting, it's not going to be … | /r/askTRP | 14/02/16 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Getting second thoughts about dumping my gfWrong place to post. Go to r-slash-asktrp. You have oneitis. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/16 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Polite reminder: Never discuss your transformation with womenOne of my friends fucked up and almost sold me out once. We were at a dinner party and he told the girls around me that I was working two jobs with a full course load (back when I was in college). Cue the questions of 'How do you still manage? When do you get time off? Don't you have a life?' I deflected those questions by keeping my answers vague or light and they eventually stopped. Confronting my friend afterwards showed me that he actually thought he was doing me a favor. That's when I reali… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/16 04:04 PM |
| -1 | I've been cheating on my gf who I love... And I've been telling her lies. I feel guilty and horrible but should I?I appreciate that some of the standards here are lower than those on the main but OP didn't lower standards; he violated a rule. Facilitating discussion is one thing. Breaking the rules of the house is another. What's worse is that OP is not the first and is unlikely to have taken the time to see what the rules he has broken are. Add that to the fact that questions of cheating have been asked before and that a cursory search would have revealed as much, is even more disappointing. Speaking as a … | /r/askTRP | 11/02/16 05:10 PM |
| -1 | I've been cheating on my gf who I love... And I've been telling her lies. I feel guilty and horrible but should I?Why do these questions still come up? You're asking a moral question on an amoral platform. You're violating rule zero. You're lucky you haven't been banned yet. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/16 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Assume FormlessnessAnd that's why you're frustrated. You're looking at your life in the past tense and longing for things you can no longer have. You can't go back in time to your 20s and 'reach your peak'. You can't give yourself what you should have now or what you feel you deserve. What you can do though, is move forward. You can make amends for all those years. Will it be the same as if you had found it sooner? Of course not and no-one here is promising you that. What we are promising though is the chance to b… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Assume FormlessnessHow long have you been plugged in? You think undoing all those years of programming is going to be a walk in the park? Fuck no. You will fail. You will be disappointed. You will be at your wit's end. But you're here for a reason. You're here to learn how to pick yourself up again. We all are. Some of us have earned our stripes over time. That doesn't mean we've reached the end point. It's a continuous process man. You just have to accept that. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 04:53 AM |
| 3 | Assume FormlessnessOnly 14 comments and 100 points. This post deserves more attention. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 04:50 AM |
| 1 | LTR acting up♂ | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 02:26 AM |
| 3 | If a woman ignores you over text, do you just ignore her in person?First off move on from this girl. Second you should set the date up before you text. The text is to remind her. If she replies in the affirmative or offers up an alternative then good; if not next and act like nothing happened. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend openly told me she doesn't love meTo clarify: anger-stagers are the hypocrites. I don't think you'll find a man beyond that stage ignorant of the similarities. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/16 08:51 PM |
| 2 | FR - "I accidentally slept with a guy"To be honest I've started staying away from the 'k' unless that's really all I want to say. It's way too easy a tool to be taken out of context. I agree that OP validated her way too much though. He should have ended that conversation right after her "I miss you". | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/16 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Roosh V- agree or disagree?He's out to make money period. Whether or not he believes TRP is irrelevant once you understand that. I personally have no feelings towards or about him. To be clear there are things one can learn from him. You just need to go about it objectively. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/16 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Workplace employees are pissing me off at my uncle's warehouseIf that is the case and your uncle is on top of everything that happens then /u/Clint_Redwood's advice still stands: Work your ass off, keep your head down and demonstrate that you have as much of a right to be there as they do. You sound like you have your priorities straight and that you're just frustrated with the situation which is understandable. However there's a life lesson here that shit doesn't always go your way and that you just have to make the best out of a shitty situation. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/16 01:16 AM |
| 43 | Long term GF not returning calls.....what to do?First of all you can't lose what you never had. Remember she was never yours; it was just your turn. Second, she's put you in her frame. She wants to get engaged, you don't so she engages the silent treatment to get you back in line and acquiescing to her demands. Don't fall for it. Remember a man's currency is commitment. You set the tone of the relationship not her. Stop trying to contact her. Go find other women to occupy your time. And just a heads up - never think in terms of "I lost her" a… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/16 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Cheating gfWhy do you care? Move on and dump her already. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/16 03:10 AM |
| 7 | SMV and women propositioning YOUWe usually say about two points higher but hey go out with who you find attractive, internet advisors be damned. The point is to satisfy your own needs, not adhere to some arbitrary rules of what is and is not attractive. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/16 03:09 AM |
| 3 | [FR] First FR - MILF at the Gym... and Mandex. Just Approach!You got ahead of yourself and made your intentions known. Even older women need plausible deniability despite their assertions otherwise (remember pay attention to the meaning behind the words not the words themselves). | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/16 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Canada is fucked.Like the economy here is so great anyway. The housing bubble's about to burst and all those petro dollars that were propping up the economy are worth nothing now. There is literally no reason to stay in Canada anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/16 09:54 PM |
| 4 | Is there any good in telling her how much her advice actually improved my sexual life?Forget it. Speak through your actions when you get the chance. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/16 11:21 PM |
| 5 | Political Science classrooms are not safe for political discussion, OR I should have kept my mouth shut.It isn't unreasonable for most people to assume educational institutions and their constituents would address the content of an argument in a rational manner. If the exception is the norm then it is no longer the exception. One of the key readings advocated here is the 48 Laws. Law 19 states that you should know who you are dealing with. OP did not and for that he got burned. I could take it easy and say it's ok but sometimes you need tough love. Who knows where he stands now. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/16 12:21 AM |
| -8 | Political Science classrooms are not safe for political discussion, OR I should have kept my mouth shut.Stop making excuses. You fucked up plain and simple. Yes you own up to it but you do so like a woman. "I messed up but it's because I'm inexperienced". Listen to yourself. A man owns up to his mistake period. He doesn't offer this, that or the other reason why. Since you're 'inexperienced' take that as another lesson. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 11:44 PM |
| 5 | Made girl pay for first date drinks... calls me an asshole. Becomes huge topic of discussion.OP told her that drinks were on her. She agreed to the fact before the date. There's nothing douchey about it. Sympathy date or not, she didn't have to make out or talk about going home with OP. The fact that she did shows that sex was on the table. Women don't talk about sex with a man unless they've already thought about what it would be like. OP did right by making her stand by her promises. He failed by not closing. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/16 04:34 PM |
| 26 | Made girl pay for first date drinks... calls me an asshole. Becomes huge topic of discussion.It was the worst date because you didn't fuck her even though the signs were there. You set up a frame and then didn't follow through on it. She wasn't upset because you made her pay for the drinks. She was upset because you had her all ready for a good dicking and then just left her with the bill. Granted it could have been worse but keep it in mind for next time. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/16 04:31 PM |
| 1 | [FR]Sister stabs Dad's throat and cuts my hand, not her faultWhy the fuck are you still living in that house. Get the fuck out of there already man. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 04:25 PM |
| 4 | Finally grew a pair - Date nightAnd that's the most important thing you should take away from all this | /r/askTRP | 28/01/16 05:43 PM |
| 6 | Girl has weird fantasy - should I have played along?Focus on getting yours man. Who cares what she likes. If there's one thing that we keep saying it's that women hardly ever have real interests, instead reflecting those that people in their past or present have. Maybe she fucked a guy in her past who liked to wear it and who gave her a good dicking. Maybe she has a mask fetish that developed later on due to porn. Who gives a fuck. Just get your rocks off and forget about the whole "do you like me for me" thing. Oh and btw, never ask that questio… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/16 07:52 PM |
| 106 | UPDATE - My date with the brunette.Didn't I say you would have a FR up soon? Good job my man. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Female dating advisor shares why women can't find a Good Guy.It's not like she's doing anything new or novel. Every day social media bombards us with memes about nice guys being what women really want. A whole breed of men has spawned as a result of this propaganda. The truth is, it changes nothing. Women will still be attracted to what they've always been attracted to and no amount of conditioning will change that. In an ideal world all these 'dating coaches' would be culpable for fraud. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/16 04:04 AM |
| 3 | Opening doors goes too far?First off, you post these questions in asktrp. Second you are in her frame plain and simple. If you don't what that means or cannot understand why you should be nowhere near this girl, then you have a lot of reading to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Husband finds out he is infertile, wife tells him either he lets her EX impregnate her or she walks (XPOST)Maybe. But it could also be the disdain that she has for her husband driving her actions. Remember women find betas repulsive. Some will go to great lengths to shame them. The OPs wife could be one of those women. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 06:49 PM |
| 10 | Husband finds out he is infertile, wife tells him either he lets her EX impregnate her or she walks (XPOST)When it comes to who pays child support, the measuring stick is who do the children view as their father figure; it has nothing to do with genetic lineage. I read an AskReddit thread the other day that was interesting. Can't remember the exact topic of discussion but it was something along the lines of weird houseguests or something like that. One comment that stood out was that of a user whose wife invited a friend over to stay who was also a single mom. As soon as the friend moved in she tried… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Girl straight up asking for an LTR, but then goes on about wanting to be fucked first date?Personally I wouldn't do it. Not because the sex isn't worth it but because the crazy is worth too much energy. And this bitch seems fucking nuts. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Girl straight up asking for an LTR, but then goes on about wanting to be fucked first date?Run. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 02:22 AM |
| 7 | Girlfriend wanted a break. I initiated no contact. She came back crying. But WTF do I do now?The fact that OP has asked this question reveals the fact that he is yet to be a 'real RP man'. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 02:21 AM |
| 7 | Girlfriend wanted a break. I initiated no contact. She came back crying. But WTF do I do now?You're a man. You dictate the terms of commitment. She doesn't come back to you saying 'ok we can date'. She doesn't get to say you should have a break in the first place. You walk now, not 'next time'. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 02:20 AM |
| 16 | I got a girl's number by making her seem more desirable than the leader of her groupYou have nothing to lose. Expecting a FR soon my man. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 05:51 AM |
| 0 | Is it really all worth it? I kinda feel like clocking out, of pursuing women entirely, but at the same time I still want sex.You might just be a sigma. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/16 07:32 PM |
| 4 | GF soon leaving for a semester abroad - Advice needed.It can't be maintained. You can make peace with that now and save yourself some grief or learn the hard way. But hey what do I and the rest of the people telling you it can't work know right? | /r/askTRP | 16/01/16 07:29 PM |
| 3 | GF soon leaving for a semester abroad - Advice needed.What are some of the red flags? How about that she's going abroad in the first place? Face it, this relationship is over. Either she will fuck it up by getting some strange, or you will by dissolving into a needy mess. I've seen it happen way too many times for it to not be a fact of life. Enjoy the time you have with her if you really want to draw it out, but start checking out now. This relationship is over. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/16 05:26 PM |
| 36 | Saw LTR GF using Tinder. Stumped on physical and verbal response?She wasn't yours; it was just your turn. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/16 04:50 AM |
| 19 | Are chubby girls harder to get now? It seems as hard to get one to meet as it is a hot girl. I'm wondering if every dude is like me and goes after them because they're easy with less perceived competitionCan confirm. Bartended for a bit. I used to think only Japan condoned whaling. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 09:04 PM |
| 2 | "I can only see you as a friend."Haha good to have you back man. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 09:03 PM |
| 1 | "I can only see you as a friend."Congratulations. You are firmly in orbit and officially on your way to oneitis. Enjoy your stay. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Friends girlfriend wants the D. Not sure how to proceedWhen will people realize that this place is AMORAL? We can't help you decide matters of your own conscience. You want to fuck up a friendship with him? Go ahead and fuck her if your self-interest means more to you than his well being. Hell who knows? He might even thank you some time in the future for showing him how much of a slut she is. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 04:26 PM |
| 6 | Struggling, guys. My GF shot an armed assailant and I'm the one who can't wrap my head around it.You said you knew she was licensed to carry. Is it really so difficult to imagine that she would be carrying at all times? No by his logic the only way your relationship will survive is by a demonstration of leadership on your part. You carrying a piece, is not a necessary condition of that fact. So far you have not demonstrated that leadership. You gave none while the situation unfolded and you have given none in the aftermath, instead choosing to focus on how this situation has affected you. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/16 11:49 PM |
| 3 | How do they get over it so quickly?Their reality is defined by their emotional state. It's exceedingly difficult for strong emotions to be sustained for long periods of time hence the move from one emotion to the next and their ability to get over things so quickly. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/16 10:01 PM |
| 0 | Older Feminist English teacher is harassing me. Don't know what to do.Good to see you know your theory. Keep it up. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/16 03:33 AM |
| 22 | Older Feminist English teacher is harassing me. Don't know what to do.And yet she is. And because she is, OP must learn to play the game. Who said life was fair anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/16 03:33 AM |
| 102 | Buckets StoryGood story though I'll say that you sell yourself short. The truth is Buckets is lucky to have you as a friend. If you hadn't taken a chance on him and developed that friendship, who's to say he would have turned out the way he did. He did a lot of stuff on his own, but he would likely have never thought to do it without you. Good job. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 10:23 PM |
| 12 | Gf calls up other guys when we fightTrying to wife a ho. Next. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/16 10:10 PM |
| 2 | New plate, continue to spin or let it drop?HB9 there pre-selected me there and then as a "mountain to conquer" That should tell you everything you need to know. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/16 05:27 AM |
| 7 | Anyone deal with those nagging feelings that this woman isn't AWALT despite knowing better?Are you newly unplugged? If so then the lure of the blue pill still exists. Hell even some seasoned RPers have regressed and let me tell you why: women play the game on an instinctual level. Men on the other hand have to learn this shit the hard way, more so today with fewer male role models around. It takes constant vigilance on a man's part for this stuff to eventually be effortless. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/16 05:23 AM |
| 1 | "You look a lot like my last boyfriend"Fancy seeing you here. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/16 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Woman attempted to ruin my life.It's a revenge thing. And that's why a RP aware man is above it - it's the recourse of women. The only form of revenge one should resort to is to be better. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 03:16 AM |
| 5 | Did anyone NOT go through an anger phase?The anger phase stems essentially from an anger with onesself. Some people don't go through that emotive process and instead just move onto accept that a change is necessary. What you should undertand is that anger is basically detour on the journey to self betterment. For most people the detour is necessary but it doesn't mean it's the only path. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/16 05:20 AM |
| 14 | Because of hypergamy and women sleeping around so much these days. Men with smaller than average penises will never enjoy a satisfying sex life.Put in her butt. Problem solved. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Raised by a single mother, need to get employed and get the fuck out. Don't know where to begin.My last year in college saw me work two jobs, take an above average course load and still find the time to lift, plan my diet and have a life (this was after I truly unplugged where before I was just fucking around and getting high). You say you're done being a victim but aren't willing to push yourself. You'll always be a victim if you don't know what you're capable of. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/16 01:53 AM |
| 4 | UVA Jackie lied about gang rape, terminal illness, and invented a dude, all to manipulate one guy into fucking herFair enough though the point still stands that the burden of culpability is too easily removed by pleading BPD. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 09:35 PM |
| 30 | UVA Jackie lied about gang rape, terminal illness, and invented a dude, all to manipulate one guy into fucking herThese BPD diagnoses need to stop. Not a single mention of the consequences she faces for this was mentioned? And why? Because she was 'bi-polar'. It's become the go to defense for any transgression. This shit needs to stop. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 07:29 PM |
| 5 | Gaylubeoil's Guide to Avoiding Snap City and Making GainsCheck out Alan Thrall on youtube. His videos really helped with my OHP and barbell row form. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 09:42 PM |
| 8 | Gaylubeoil's Guide to Avoiding Snap City and Making GainsThe first time I put it on gave me a pump which made me take it off and put it on again for 5 sets of 5. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 04:51 PM |
| 5 | Gaylubeoil's Guide to Avoiding Snap City and Making GainsPro-tip: when buying an Alpha hoodie, get a size bigger. Mine already doesn't fit me anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Update "if you made more money, we would have more sex"Maybe for you. Personally I find continuing a story that I already know the ending to a pointless pursuit. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 02:20 PM |
| 9 | Update "if you made more money, we would have more sex"That's it exactly: OP is a masochist. That's the only explanation that makes sense. Sympathy is wasted on him. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 04:28 AM |
| 38 | Update "if you made more money, we would have more sex"You still want to marry her... Do us a favor and stop posting here. You're wasting our time. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 01:52 AM |
| 3 | "I Made My Bed"Can you see yourself still being attracted to this woman and in some way saving your marriage? If yes then head over to /r/marriedredpill. If not then there's not point staying in this relationship. There are way too many examples of parents who use 'staying together for the children' as a reason to remain in a toxic relationship. Often that rationale backfires and ends up being a worse environment for the kids than had the parents gone their separate ways. You want to do right by your kids. Tha… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 11:29 PM |
| 1 | How should I dance to today's music?People telling you, you should just focus on enjoying yourself are only half right. Those kinds of scenarios are like being put in the shop window in the SMP district. You need some kind of rhythm to be successful. If you're unsure of yourself then a simple one-two step is enough. Find the beat of the song and move to that. Or you could, you know, go to places that actually play the music you like. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Girl texted me after ignoring me for about a week. Now what?You should have already have lost her number by now. Her: hi You: who is this? | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 10:46 PM |
| 5 | Israeli academics discover the post-wall women in the HR department, and find that they discriminate in favor of attractive men and discrimiate against attractive womenEvery so often, studies like this come up. While I find the information contained therein useful, I can't shake the fact that this kind of information will never make it into mainstream discourse. By and large that makes this kind of information irrelevant if only for the fact that you should know that being attractive has uses beyond sexual gratification. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Am I in the Friendzone?Do or do not. There is no try. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 08:33 PM |
| 17 | "If you made more money, we would have more sex"Then break it off now. You think you've lost money by planning the wedding? Just wait until your unhappy and want a divorce and watch how bad your finances will get once you've been divorce raped. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned - and a female lawyer is the devil incarnate. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 06:25 PM |
| 31 | "If you made more money, we would have more sex"Hear hear. The most disappointing thing about this thread is that OP doesn't realize the 'cost' of breaking it off right now will pale in comparison to the cost he'll inevitably face down the road. Actually, I call troll to this whole post. OP's just trying to pull our leg. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 06:23 PM |
| 0 | A girl found outI'm into Red pill stuff, and is telling all her friends that I'm like eliot rogers. I need help. The girl is gross, its not about her, it's about my rep.No-one is making threats of escalation. Delivery here matters or do you think OP should actually intend to mean what he says? That's the whole point of agreeing and amplifying to absurdity - to make it clear that there is no way in hell that any of those allegations are true. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 05:53 PM |
| 1 | A girl found outI'm into Red pill stuff, and is telling all her friends that I'm like eliot rogers. I need help. The girl is gross, its not about her, it's about my rep.In that case what would you say? Any attempt to defend yourself puts you firmly in the backseat because it makes it look like those allegations are true. Silence is even more damning in this scenario. So what other options are there but to go on the offensive and make her allegations seems absurd. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 05:17 PM |
| 6 | A girl found outI'm into Red pill stuff, and is telling all her friends that I'm like eliot rogers. I need help. The girl is gross, its not about her, it's about my rep.Her: OP is like Elliot Rogers. What a creep. You: Careful now. I might just go around shooting people at random. And have you seen my manifesto yet? It's literally to die for. This is stupid situation. You should treat it as such. Agree and amplify all allegations to absurdity. Make her seem like the fool she is. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 04:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with a girl who always agrees and amplify/ sarcastic?Watch more stand up routines. You need to sharpen your wit and reaction times. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 01:44 AM |
| 1 | TwoX Covering Up Actual RAPE Story Unfortunately it Does Not Fit The Progressive NarrativeActually sharia law is very open to interpretation which is why it's position as being the go to source of jurisprudence in Islam - a religion that emphasizes a specific set of tenets to dictate how to live life - is so ironic. Sharia law in itself is a juxtaposition. It draws on a supposedly infallible text (the Quran) which can be interpreted either literally (as the Wahabbis do) or figuratively and the teachings and opinions of a fallible man (the hadiths of Muhammad) to create a system of ru… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 01:06 AM |
| 12 | TwoX Covering Up Actual RAPE Story Unfortunately it Does Not Fit The Progressive NarrativeEx-Muslim checking in. One of the biggest ideas ingrained into a Muslim's head from very early on is that of being "in the right" so to speak and that any 'attack' on a Muslim is an 'attack' on Islam. The result is a person who expects their 'beliefs' to be respected unquestionably and is almost always prone to retaliation the minute they feel that said 'beliefs' have been 'crossed'. Allowing said people into Western societies en masse is the allowance of cultural maxims (justified by a religion… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Diet and workout routine for a skinnyfat guy?Edit 2: ALSO if you are in college and are drinking. Hit up Vodka cranberry. Beer adds belly fat, not sure why. Beer is loaded with carbs that's why. More and more scientific literature is pointing towards the efficacy of low carb diets. If you really must drink then avoid sweeteners and mixers. I used to be a big rum and coke guy. Now there's nothing I like more than the occasional whisky on the rocks or with water. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Asking what happened?Do you meditate? If not you should start. You need to learn to detach yourself from your ego. Also stop making excuses for yourself. If you're serious about this path, then the time for making excuses is over. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Asking what happened?Why? What's so special about this one piece of pussy that dulls every other surrounding piece of pussy? How would I recommend going about that? The answer is I wouldn't. Forget about this girl. Find someone else. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Insecure girl game?First of all why should she want to be your housewife? What do you have to offer? Have you clearly demonstrated your value or have you just assumed it to be known? Being the prize means that it should be known by others and not just yourself. Second if she is insecure as you say then it's likely the result of low-self esteem. You need to run game to bring up her perception of self-worth. That's not going to happen through regular push-pull. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 05:16 AM |
| 1 | I got invited to a party tomorrow. My social skills suck. Should I still go?Go to the party. Hit on the hottest girl you can. Say things that will be embarrassing just thinking about. Leave kicking yourself. And then learn from it all and be better. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Asking what happened?You: Thanks but I have enough friends. Her asking you for friendship is an attempt to keep you in orbit. Remember your power is the validation you give. If you give it away freely as in 'friendship' then you have none to begin with. Let her hamster spin as she tries to understand why you aren't the beta that she thought you were. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Asking what happened?Yes it would be wrong. It shows that you care more about the relationship than she does. She decided that it should end. You asking why says that you don't agree with her decision. At all times you should be ready to move on. That's abundance mentality. Her: It's over You: Cool And you never initiate with her again. If she comes back she will only ever reach plate level and nothing more. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 05:54 PM |
| 2 | The_Titleists’ Get Big GuideWhat are your thoughts on foam rollers? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 12:17 AM |
| 10 | Fuck my room mate's plate?Do whatever the fuck you want. No-one here will or should tell you what the 'right thing to do' is. What we will tell you is that if you do fuck your roommate's plate then you should be ready to live with the consequences. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 05:20 PM |
| 8 | Have Something They WantYou can dwell on the missed opportunities or create new ones. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/15 04:43 AM |
| 2 | How to overcome the general sense of nihilism is the face of wanting children?You're falling into the BP trap of looking for meaning in life to appear out of thin air. Meaning comes from within. This means that you just be the one to define your purpose in life. Nihilist thought is a waste of time. Life will end. That's the only fact that is a 100% guaranteed. You can either put a bullet in your brain right now and get it over with or enjoy the ride while you can. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 03:34 AM |
| 1 | "Race whiners": Understanding guys who believe they can't get girls because of their race.Fair enough. Your initial post wasn't too clear on that so your clarification is welcome. And I agree with you, affirmative action is discriminatory. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/15 03:08 AM |
| 3 | "Race whiners": Understanding guys who believe they can't get girls because of their race.You started off on the right track with not all Asians but went off an a tangent with the 'Asians know they have to work harder and do so on SATs' line. The truth is those on TRP who end up being successful are those who are willing to put the work in period. Race is not a guarantee of willingness to better oneself just as it isn't a guarantee that certain races will work harder in certain scenarios because they are aware of what's expected. We need to dispel these notions once and for all. You … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/15 02:24 AM |
| 16 | Post-wall Single Woman and IVF with ChadGood question. A little bit of understanding of evolutionary biology will highlight the fact that humans will generally act towards self preservation. This falls in line with pure capitalism. Ironically, feminists want the benefits of capitalism without the structure. They're living in a fantasy. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 07:14 PM |
| 2 | dancing with girl at concert and her friends drag her away and give me a mean look? why?You failed to win her friends over first. This is basic PUA stuff: you make sure the group accepts you before you isolate your target. It's likely that she probably ended up with a guy who the friends 'accepted' afterwards. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Rebuilding burned bridgesNothing says that you haven't changed more than you saying "I have changed". For future reference act like a man and let your actions speak on your behalf. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/15 10:40 PM |
| 13 | Girlfriend of two years says she only loves me as a friendRead Briffault's law and then read it again. Remember what we say here - she was never yours; it was only your turn. It's going to be tough if you've never been through this before (which I'm guessing is the case) but you have no other alternative but to man the fuck up right now. You need to vent right now, and the best way to do that is to put your pain and anger into iron. Forget about even fucking other bitches right now, that will only make you think about her. Cut all contact, delete her n… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/15 06:08 AM |
| 1 | What is that one incident that turned you red pill?My oneitis bubble burst. I was sprung over this girl and had been for a minute. She was engaged when things 'feel into place' for me. For two weeks her fiancé wasn't in town and I fucked her everywhere I could. Thought I could 'win her over'. It was only when I realized she wasn't planning on breaking off the engagement that I realized I was being taken for a ride. Not gonna lie, it hit me hard for a bit. Then I saw someone mention TRP on Reddit. Read some of the sidebar stories and things just … | /r/askTRP | 22/12/15 12:02 AM |
| 1 | You're too coldI get what you mean. The sigma route isn't as easily accessible as we like to think. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/15 07:27 PM |
| 1 | You're too coldAren't you an EC? I guess we all need help sometimes. Here's my answer: refer to Law 24. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/15 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Cheated on my girlfriend, feel like shit, can feel my behaviour changingLook at the comment I made below. OP has viewed what he did from the perspective of an exchange when no such exchange took place. In light of that what decision he makes will have to be according to his own set of moral principles. I can't and will not comment on what lies were or were not told or which social contracts were broken because my sense of morality and his are different. All I'm saying is that before he makes a decision, he must be informed enough to do so. I'm giving OP amoral advic… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Cheated on my girlfriend, feel like shit, can feel my behaviour changingGTFOH with your morality. Sexual strategy is amoral. If you're too dense to understand that then you're in the wrong place. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 06:27 AM |
| 0 | Cheated on my girlfriend, feel like shit, can feel my behaviour changingMen and women view sex differently. Male currency is commitment. Female currency is sex. As far as OP is concerned he made a positive exchange. Educate yourself. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 04:37 AM |
| 3 | Cheated on my girlfriend, feel like shit, can feel my behaviour changingYou're asking a moral question in a place that dispenses amoral advice. Do you really expect to find consistent answers when the people giving them to you will all be giving them from subjective perspectives? The truth is you fucked up. You know you did and a lot of people here will tell you so. But /u/SkorchZang is right; you're allowing your guilt to pedestalize this girl, when the truth is, her visiting your mother and taking care of your needs is the minimum you should expect from a relation… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 01:27 AM |
| 2 | How do you create a lifestyle that raises your lay count and makes it go through the roof?Sell drugs. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/15 02:15 AM |
| 3 | "Don't Rekindle Old Flames"You've basically highlighted what I like to call the paradox of Briffault's law. As we know Briffault's law states that for a woman, past benefit does not determine future association. However an extension to that, and the paradox in question, is that past insufficiency, will always play a role in determining future association. As ironic as it may seem though it really isn't. At the end of the day women base their judgement on emotions. It just so happens that good emotions have less of a lasti… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 02:01 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Met her after 3 years: An aftermathI wish more people in here could look back without hatred. That's because most people have yet to come to terms with the root of that hatred - themselves. We see it all the time here; people deriding themselves for being a loser or a beta bitch once they've "alpha'd up" to a certain level. The only problem with that is that to be truly 'alpha' you must accept that who you were was necessary for you to be who you are now. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/15 02:28 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Met her after 3 years: An aftermathIt doesn't justify it, but then again nothing justifies being a beta either. The point of OPs post is to explain what made their paths diverge and how he was OK when they crossed again. It speaks to getting over the anger phase which for most people who swallow the pill, is the hardest one to pass. OP isn't condoning what she (or he for that matter) did. He's accepting it as a part of his life that was necessary to make him the man he is today. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/15 02:26 AM |
| 1 | I'm trying to make gains.Hit your protein macros. Also you'll find it's easier to get a calorie surplus if you're on a low carb high fat diet, than on a high carb low fat diet. You'll also feel fuller too. Check out r slash ketogains for more info. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 12:55 PM |
| 6 | I finally fell into my place as a beta at the work place. No what?Enough. You know what you need to do, but can't get past your own pity party. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. You put yourself in this situation by being inadequate. Now get yourself out like a man. Stop bitching, stop asking for help unless necessary, and stop dwelling on how your colleagues perceive and treat you. Keep your head down and do your job. Earn their respect. More importantly earn your own. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 07:37 AM |
| 1 | RP way to to reply to this girlWhich goes back to what I was saying about windows of opportunity. You don't have to sleep with every girl especially if that window doesn't fit your schedule. If you worry about fitting in every girl that comes your way, who isn't really meant to be fit in, then you've not got abundance in mind. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 08:05 PM |
| 1 | RP way to to reply to this girlWhy haven't you fucked her yet? Was it on your terms or hers? If you've dated her and she still hasn't put out then she's not even a plate yet but somehow she expects you to give her main-chick status commitment? For what? What has she given you in exchange? And don't give me that 'I enjoy her company' crap. A woman's currency is sex. If she hasn't put it up for exchange for your currency of commitment, then she's not worth your time, period. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 07:40 PM |
| 1 | RP way to to reply to this girlAre you sleeping with this girl? If not then you have no need to qualify yourself to her. She's issuing comfort tests here, but if you're nothing more than an orbiter there's no point responding. My guess is you're yet to do anything with her. In which case let her move away. There's always going to be a window of opportunity with women. Some of those windows don't coincide with your own timetable. Rather than trying to force it to fit, you move on until a window that does fit presents itself. T… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Girl flaked hours before going outGood to see you back on here. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/15 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Post wall behaviour from a 19 year old + wtf orbitK | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Post wall behaviour from a 19 year old + wtf orbitWhy do you care? Get over your oneitis man. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 08:26 PM |
| 3 | You Got a Stranger Pregnant: A Guide.I only have one thing to say: archived | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Please speak sense into me, I think my girlfriend is a slutAnd TRP says not to care about women does it? This is not PUA. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Ex slandering me to friends.A&A to absurdity is a better tactic here in my opinion. Silence would give credence to her claims and make the 'I tried to help him but he just laughed' allegation seem more real. You already know what she says about you. With that, make everything negative she says about you seem so ridiculous, no one pays any attention to her. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 04:28 PM |
| 44 | Hooked up with my ex-unicorn to prove AWALT to myself. Cognitive Dissonance abounds!There are two possibilities in her saying that'd be cheating: The first is that, if you do in fact bring another girl into the equation, her sleeping with you and stepping out on her boyfriend becomes a hard reality. Remember a woman must maintain plausible deniability, especially when branch-swinging. Having someone else witness and participate in the act removes that option. The second possibility is that in her mind you are now 'hers'. By having a threesome, she is sharing you with another pe… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/15 06:56 AM |
| 24 | Black Man, Red PillYou could go the Rachel Dolezal route and identify as black. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 04:18 AM |
| 39 | AWALT: Fuck up your family for attention!This family sounds like trash. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Maintaining a relationship without sex in IndiaYou're still on this? Dude if you in your 21 years (I'm guessing the 1994 in your username is your birth year here) have been blind to this and are willing to assume that what you've seen is the Truth then go right ahead. But don't try and argue a point that you cannot factually back up. Case in point I come from a highly conservative background. I used to think like you that 'sex doesn't happen'. Then reality hit me like a ton of bricks. Truth be told that's probably what you need - for your pr… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/15 07:06 PM |
| 0 | Man refuses blind set up date, every women who knows the people involved take the girls sideFor some reason this hasn't been posted, but what if the dude was gay and in the closet. Can you imagine the hamster tear itself apart over a bruised ego on the one hand, and an obsessive need to be viewed as progressive on the other? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 07:03 PM |
| 6 | Feminist scream for equality for can't even put in the workThe feminist machinery will not allow that. Womyn must be equal to men in every way for the feminine imperative to take primacy. Admitting that there are things that men are better at, runs counter to that narrative. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Women. Are.Expensive.Why do you think most products are marketed to women? They are the drivers of economic growth. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 11:27 PM |
| 1 | No longer being betaWhat you've set out is abstract. You have no strategy which is why I said you sound like a child dreaming about what you're going to be when you 'grow up'. I have no goal about lifting a certain weight or anything. Do you think I should set some? Yes. Even if you want aesthetics, you have to be strong enough to shape your body. Check out r slash fitness and r slash weightroom for places to start. NMMNG is good but have something else to go on to after. I'd recommend Models and either one of The … | /r/askTRP | 27/11/15 03:59 AM |
| 10 | Mommy Issues Boys - TraitsBut I will overcome this in due time and I will try to help him see the truth. Now that's called being a man. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 03:55 AM |
| 1 | No longer being betaI'll deal with getting in shape because that's what you asked for. First thing's first, why are you lifting? To get bigger, stronger, or just to impress the ladies? If it's the last one then you're doing it wrong. If it's the first two then proceed on to the next step which is arguably the most important: diet. If you're not eating right, you're not going to grow, period. Assess your diet now? Are you eating clean? Getting enough protein? Hitting your macros or supplementing enough? Pick a diet,… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/15 01:55 AM |
| 2 | No longer being betaYou sound like a child talking about things you want when you grow up. Aside from the video games have you set up any kind strategy to achieve any of these 'goals' you've set for yourself? I'm guessing you haven't. Read the sidebar especially the post on how to set goals. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/15 12:05 AM |
| 3 | The more I know her, the less I trust her. Did I overreact?Sounds like a lucifer daughter. Take the L and walk away. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/15 12:03 AM |
| 5 | Should we break up?Yes, which makes me apprehensive and not want to waste any time. It sounds like a lot of your issues stem directly from you. You don't want to waste time? Then start working on yourself right now. Be someone worthy of being committed to. Thinking that you should just 'cut your losses' is simply shifting the responsibility of being better away from yourself. In the long run, you're setting yourself up not to resolve the issues that you've highlighted here. Again it's up to you. If you want to wal… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/15 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Maintaining a relationship without sex in IndiaYou're entire argument is a fallacy and speaks to your immaturity. Nearly everyone in this thread has told you that what you claim is bullshit. Yet you feel confident enough to make the assumption that the people who have responded to you have no experience in the matter or that they do not come from places that are or may be culturally similar. Based on these false assumptions you are unwilling to accept the opinions and advice given here. Like a child, you act like what you know is the only tr… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/15 05:25 PM |
| 6 | Maintaining a relationship without sex in IndiaYou're very naive. Just because you've been told sex doesn't happen doesn't mean that's the truth. Grow up. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 07:42 PM |
| 2 | It might be time to move.Opening data to targeted advertising opens the floodgates to more sinister ends. To be frank, I never believed that I was ever 'anonymous' on Reddit - the Internet is the Internet after all. However with this move, we stand to be more vulnerable than we were previously. My point here is that preemptive action might be warranted earlier than thought. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/15 07:32 AM |
| 2 | An Easy Technique That Shuts Off Mental Chatter And Makes You More ExtrovertedWeed fucks with you plain and simple. There are people who are highly functional on it - but they are few and far in between the majority. I was a religious pot smoker for 6 years. Shortly after finding TRP I made the choice to quit for good. Couldn't have made a better decision for myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/15 05:18 PM |
| 4 | I'm not sure if I'm still blue pill...You have yet to accept reality from a RP perspective. The conflict you describe stems directly from that lack of acceptance. At your current state, your only long term outcome is to go your own way. hating the idea of becoming a guy who could "bang chicks" or anything that RP success stories talk about. This is not what TRP is about and honestly I'm tired of repeating myself on this matter to you and the endless number of people who have 'read material' yet fail to grasp this singular truth. TRP… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/15 04:20 AM |
| 35 | An Easy Technique That Shuts Off Mental Chatter And Makes You More ExtrovertedWhat you're describing is mindfulness - something you should already be familiar with if you're meditating regularly. It is however, not a sufficient condition for extroversion. Rather than emphasize extroversion, the emphasis should be on general awareness. Not everyone can be an extrovert. But everyone can be more aware of the stimuli around them, be it verbal communication, body language perception or taking note of social cues. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/15 02:16 AM |
| 13 | Dating girl who hit wallOP must be colorblind. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/15 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet...You're paying for it one way or another. Depends on how much you're willing to spend | /r/askTRP | 20/11/15 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Got set up with girl, set up coffee date but feel like she keeps angling for dinnerSo then why not let her re-initiate? Even if a girl does tick all your boxes (as if you're that picky anyway) putting the onus on her to reschedule works in your favor by making her demonstrate just how valuable she views you in relation to her. You fucked up by acquiescing so easily. Abundance mentality implies that you always have options, even if you really don't. She can't make 4.30 and wants it to be 6.30? Too bad you have plans. Whether she's angling for dinner is irrelevant. What's import… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/15 09:55 PM |
| 5 | Where to meet...Get an escort. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/15 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Did any of you fail TRP in the long run?To fail in your TRP journey is to fail in bettering yourself. Think about that in light of your question. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/15 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Anyone tried or know kinobody ? - Expert Body Builders help !r-slash-leangains or r-slash-ketogains. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/15 04:52 PM |
| 14 | Girlfriend isn't ove rher ex- dealbreaker?"Relationship". Lol. You were always a back up option OP. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/15 04:51 PM |
| 3 | How to approach this girlWay too much investment in just one girl and you haven't even spoken to her. Want to know how to approach her? Here's your answer: don't. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 10:27 PM |
| 3 | So this guy David Futurelle, a male feminist blogger, tried to slander and take down the redpill movie. He's also written hit pieces on many redpill writers including myself.I hear you but the truth of the matter is that even thinking about creating a similar defense mechanism for men is equally suicidal as being singled out by such a mangina. I'm all for solidarity that's actually capable of achieving something tangible - a fact the current MRA movement is not capable of (and doesn't understand why). The only question is how do we achieve such a thing when it's so dangerous to do so. The more Machiavellian approach is to let the current feminist machinery implode o… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 07:41 PM |
| 4 | I recently got one of those two wheel segway/ hoverboard things, and recently my friend scratched it up. What should I do?Wait what? Am I on the right sub? This is asktrp right? | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 05:26 PM |
| 1 | She's not that kind of girl anymore - QuestionEgo damaging depending on how you look at things. If you see this as more reason to be better, then it's not necessarily a bad thing. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 05:22 PM |
| 3 | So I`ve been texting this girlBullshit. Soft next until she gets in contact with you again. If she does set up the date immediately. Wasting time with niceties will put you firmly in orbit. If she pulls the 'thought I replied' shit again move on. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 01:25 AM |
| 3 | What's with the hate on FB on TRP?I hated it but that was back when I didn't know how to use it properly, if you use it properly it only has advantages no disadvantages. First off, there is nothing in life that is fully advantageous. To think that is dangerous. Second I agree that, with proper use, FB and social media can be a powerful tool, beyond simply increasing your SMV. However most people don't use it properly and because of that, should stay away from it. I personally don't use any kind of social media simply because I d… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 01:22 AM |
| 5 | How do I proceed with this girl?And just why shouldn't you tell her that? Do you not think women are sexual beings too? Stop being shackled by your blue pill conditioning and actually take charge. If you want her to do something, then tell her to do it. You'll do more for your sex life by actually taking charge than by expecting her to reciprocate somehow. Be a man. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/15 06:48 PM |
| 4 | Female Head of Diversity and Inclusion disregards International Mens Day because it is for menIt's even more aggravating when you look at it from an economic point of view. So much deadweight for nothing other than placating them feelz. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/15 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Becoming Jealous of Close FriendsOh man. OP in his post has already said he's taking steps towards self-betterment. His jealousy stems from the fact that he doesn't feel like what he's doing is bearing fruit. More appropriate advice would be for him to be more patient and keep his long term goals in mind. This is opposed to saying 'lift' as if it's some game changing advice, and completely ignores the fact that he may already be doing just that. But hey if you think you're helping, then go on ahead giving more meaningless advic… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Lost frame with plateWhatever feels more natural is my answer. The point is disqualify her concerns as being irrelevant and immature. How you do that is ultimately up to you. Personally, I'm a more direct person so being straight up works for me. If you're more playful then laughing at it will probably work for you. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 07:14 PM |
| 5 | Becoming Jealous of Close FriendsHere's a revolutionary idea for you: context fucking matters. OP's concerned about jealousy towards his friends and how that impacts his long term goals. How does telling him to lift without any supporting advice help him? Does it make him less jealous? Do you even know if he's lifting or not? If you can't take the time to actually explain yourself when an explanation is needed then don't bother giving advice. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 05:16 PM |
| 0 | Becoming Jealous of Close FriendsStupid advice. It's people like you that detract from this community. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 04:45 PM |
| 6 | Why do women do this?Unless you're profiting from it monetarily, social media is a waste of time. By extension, actions on social media are irrelevant. Treat them accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Lost frame with plateYou fucked up by qualifying yourself to her to begin with. The minute she began with the "you're lying because you don't want to pay for dinner" you should have shut it down with a "you're being childish. I'll speak to you when you're ready to act like a grown up". All your actions after that (bar telling her to "fuck off with her shit") were acts of qualification on your part - including apologizing for swearing. For future reference, cougars are just like all other women in that they should be… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Masculine characterYou forgot the most important of all: self-respect. Arguably all of the things you've mentioned here flow from that one concept. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/15 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Chad won't propose my sister for marriage and she will soon hit wall. She broke down. Should I talk to her?You're blinded by your attachment to your sister. Ask yourself honestly, if the shoe was on the other foot, whether she would go to the lengths you are now to get you an 8+ for life? Women are solipsistic. You're a fool if you think that just because she's family, she somehow has your interests at heart the same way you have hers. The sooner you realize that, the sooner you'll abandon these delusions. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/15 11:24 PM |
| 1 | No longer interested in connecting with women after exposure to TRP truths.The bubble has burst. Whisper talks about the five (six) stages of TRP. Just know you're not alone and that it gets better. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/15 09:28 PM |
| 20 | Women are 3/4 of Muslim converts in the west because they want a Muslim man & are "re-embracing... rigid gender demarcation", at an increasing rateYou're an idiot if you think that AWALT means all women are the same. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/15 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Extended trailer for "The Red Pill", the movie about men that feminists didn’t want you to seeMaybe but I'd say it shows where she actually leans. The only picture she shows of the real RP is one where the caption is 'women are incapable of change' in a movie where MRAs are supposedly misunderstood. That's really her going out of her way to paint us in a more positive, less sensationalist light right? But hey I'll be the first to admit that I'm cynical about this project. Like we've said here multiple times, the first rule of TRP is not to talk about TRP. That she saw fit to make a 'movi… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/15 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Extended trailer for "The Red Pill", the movie about men that feminists didn’t want you to seeOdd? You really think that was a coincidence? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/15 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Long ass story about an ex I dumped to bang other girls, who I then decided Id rather be withOk man. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/15 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Long ass story about an ex I dumped to bang other girls, who I then decided Id rather be withYou're talking about ideals and ignoring the reality of the situation. You fucked up. Instead of doing what you've been told and take the time to avoid doing what you did to fuck up to begin with, you're asking to help you do damage control. For what? So that you can come back here asking for more damage control when you eventually fuck up again? Get your damn head straight. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Long ass story about an ex I dumped to bang other girls, who I then decided Id rather be withIf you don't see the help in what I've told you, then you can't be helped. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Long ass story about an ex I dumped to bang other girls, who I then decided Id rather be withNext time you post a wall of text put a warning in the title so that I know not to waste my time reading that shit. Here's a TL;DR of your entire post: "Had a girl, wanted to be more alpha, thought that meant dump her. Realized it was a dumb move, have serious oneitis. Turns out not alpha but really beta bitch." You talk about being a man and owning your shit? Well here's a piece of advice, you've made your bed now lie in it. Learn from it and next time don't try to fuck up a good thing. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a behind your back trash talker?A&A all the allegations you hear from other people. The next time you see him act friendly and talk to him. When it's time to leave, say something like "well it was nice catching up, but I really gotta go home and masturbate". The above shows that you know what he's saying and that you really think that little of it, that you're willing to find it funny enough to joke about. That both sullies his own reputation as being dishonest, and places you on a higher social footing. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 07:35 AM |
| 1 | What's your criteria for you to finish monk mode?The point of monk mode is self assessment and the identification of your own shortcomings. Those shortcomings can be anything from not knowing enough to not lifting enough. Entering and being in monk mode entails cultivating the necessary behavior and mindset needed to change those shortcomings. You leave monk mode when you can effectively and honestly sustain the progress and development that took place while you were in monk mode. When that is, is entirely dependent on you and the nature of yo… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Please critique my game, and guide me on how to proceed with potential plate?Summary judgement: not too bad but definite room for improvement. As you already acknowledged, your f-close could have been smoother. You shouldn't have tried to make plans the day after you hit it though. On the one hand you projected a dgaf aura it on the other, went looking for her as soon as you got a bit of sexual release. That's the antithesis of abundance mentality. The only text you should have sent was to confirm that she enjoyed her night with you. That's it. A little bit of mystery go… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/15 08:00 AM |
| 3 | Worried about my girlfriend and her male colleagueWhat will confronting her about it achieve? Will it save your relationship? Will it make you feel any better about yourself? Will it in any way, place the power dynamic in your favor? Of course not. All a confrontation will do will show her that you're way more invested in this relationship than she is. And that will translate into you being needy. That's why I said you should break up with her so that you can learn to be self-sufficient. Because right now your neediness is what's pushing her aw… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/15 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Worried about my girlfriend and her male colleaguethis is killing me inside and i feel i need to bring it up Drama is for women. Don't reward her behavior by giving it to her. at this stage i want to break up. You probably should but not because she's done anything wrong (yet) but because you get fulfilment externally. You need to learn what it is to be independent and for that you need to be alone. I would say you should downgrade to plate status but you don't strike me as having the strength yet to proceed with such a venture. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/15 04:55 AM |
| 2 | "Too bad you're a Taurus, because my last boyfriend was one and it was terrible and abusive". What to say to this?Alcohol lowers inhibitions but it doesn't 'make you' anything so that's not an excuse. Yes drinking less is a good idea but more important is the mentality you go into these situations with. At all times you have to believe that you're the prize whether you're drunk, tipsy or sober. That mindset is what defines your entire interaction. It's what puts you in a position to be qualified to, not qualify. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/15 01:14 AM |
| 7 | "Too bad you're a Taurus, because my last boyfriend was one and it was terrible and abusive". What to say to this?Oh man. Ok here's a simple explanation of how you fucked up: Well, it depends on his venus, not all people are alike. Translation: I'm different. Please like me. She got up and left because you tried to qualify yourself to her. Remember, when you're gaming a girl the burden of qualification is always on her. A better answer would have been something like "Hey now I know you have a type" with a shit eating grin. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/15 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Loss of words with a girl when I message. Don't know what to do.And that's why we say texting is primarily for logistics. Interaction through text lacks tone and emotion (you just have to see how many times a girl will send emojis and not even be smiling to confirm that). Don't sweat the small stuff. Use text to set up dates and leave conversation for irl. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/15 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Why is it so hard for me to give my life a puporse?If you're going to be so nihilistic then there's no answer to your question because what you want and what you're outlook is are not in sync. TRP is for people who are actively seeking improvement not for those who view improvement as an impossibility and in turn simply wish to minimize the cost. My advice is to seriously evaluate what you're living for. Hopefully you'll find something in that process because I doubt you'll find anything here. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/15 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Why is it so hard for me to give my life a puporse?First of all inner motivation is not something you find; it's something you create. It's something that resonates with your values and who you are as a person. Now I've looked at your post history and you seem to be simultaneously going through a pity party and suffering oneitis. In the past 3 days alone you've made posts whining and moping like an adolescent. Grow the fuck up. Stop waiting for life to come by and do shit for you. It doesn't and will never work that way. Stop dwelling on past re… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/15 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Why is it so hard for me to give my life a puporse?What's your program like? Are you doing enough deadlifts and squats? When you say veggues what do you mean? Are we talking cruciferous here? Enough onions? Are you supplementing your diet with Zinc and Vit. D? You don't go out because you dislike being seen yet expect to have an idea of what you want to do without human interaction? Do you see the disconnect there? If you want to be a hermit all your life then so be it, but don't try and pass yourself off as desiring an external motivator when y… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/15 02:14 PM |
| 8 | Why is it so hard for me to give my life a puporse?All I've seen in this thread is people trying to help you and you being nothing but a little bitch coming up with an excuse for everything. First of all do you even lift? If so how many times a week? What's your diet like? What's your sleep like? How often do you spend in the sun? How often do you jerk off? Second, life is what you make it. If you expect some purpose to magically appear in front of you, then you got life fucked up. You're a man and a man takes what he wants. Start acting like it… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/15 02:00 PM |
| 3 | HelpOneitis. You have to come to terms with the fact that she was never yours to begin with. It was just your turn, and now it's your turn to move on. That means no more friendship and definitely no more contact. Stop blaming her for hurting you. The truth is you set yourself up to be hurt so really the blame lies with you. But rather than dwell on it, see it as an opportunity to learn. We've all been where you are now, so even if it seems like what you're going through is unique to yourself, the tr… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/15 01:37 AM |
| 0 | I have decided to go Hookers way.You're comparing starving to lack of sex? Seriously? The reason why 'its so bad for him being starved of sex' is because he views sex as this great thing that will somehow complete his life. It wont and it can't. That completion comes from within and the sooner you realize that, the better off and happier you'll be. Again I find myself having to correct you. TRP is not sexual strategy alone. To think of it in only one dimension is to conflate it with PUA. Everything we do here is to make ourselv… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/15 04:23 AM |
| 0 | I have decided to go Hookers way.In our nature to put pussy and sex on a pedestal? Are you sure about that? I'd argue that history would suggest otherwise but I'll let you do your own research on that. Your suggestion is wrong because you're making the same mistake as the OP: making getting pussy the main motivator to getting ripped. Women can always tell if a man depends on external validation. They might not always do it instantly but it always happens. And that is the difference between TRP and PUA. Here we give you the tool… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/15 02:23 AM |
| 1 | I have decided to go Hookers way.Your reply is a prime example of lack of self respect and putting pussy on a pedestal. You need monk mode. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 09:54 PM |
| 5 | Overcoming the "I'll be happy once... " mentalityDo you have goals? And not the type of goals like I want X car or X amount of money. I mean real goals as they pertain to your personal development. Having and achieving goals in your life is what brings you real happiness. The process allows you to look back at the journey and say to yourself 'I did that'. Some people will say getting older is the key to changing that mentality but I disagree. I'm in my 20s and while I'm not where I want to be just yet, I know that I'm on my way there. The thou… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 06:47 PM |
| 15 | I have decided to go Hookers way.Stop jerking off so much. If you need to get a hooker, get a hooker but the more you beat your meat, the more you throw away that sexual energy. Also stop looking at being ripped as your saving grace. Just because you're a physical specimen doesn't mean you have the tools to pull women or even be a better version of yourself. Most importantly if you're lifting to get women, then your motivations are completely wrong and you need to reassess your priorities in life. No amount of pussy will ever m… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 05:03 PM |
| 15 | Failed dosage?Your initial reaction to remain stoic and deal with it after wasn't bad (I would have just walked out to be honest) but arguing about it after was a waste of time. The way I see it you have two options: stay with a bitch who doesn't respect you and try and tame her, or have the balls to walk away. No pussy is worth that kind of disrespect if you say she's done it before. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/15 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Girl is in a relationship with a wealthy alpha that maintains impeccable frame and doesn’t put up with her shit tests. She feels neglected and hurt (hamstering ensues)Some? Years of "you go guurrlll" feminism has brainwashed western women into believing that they're irreplaceable. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 03:36 AM |
| 1 | In a rare moment of insight, feminist author notices the lack of an objective existence of "Patriarchy" in the western world. Other feminists are disturbed by this.Organisation is poor yes, but the themes she brings up are pertinent nonetheless. You're right, education does make women dumber but this quote especially illustrates why: After decades of looking for certain patterns, they may become all you can see. Women are being taught to recognize patterns by people who have themselves, made it their life's mission to recognize those same patterns. Instead of expanding their knowledge, as education is supposed to do, they are actually shrinking it. And the… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Guy who rescued a deadbedroom after stumbling onto RP tactics is now angry and getting propositioned by hot young womenBut you understand that you don't really hate your wife. You hate yourself for not realizing what was necessary sooner. You hate yourself for not being aware of why the changes happened when they happened. This guy has none of that understanding. And of all places, he goes to that sub for advice. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/10/15 05:06 AM |
| 7 | Girl asks if guys would look past her 60+ partners by age 23 and accept her for a long term relationship, or is she should lie about her body count.Or she can actually become a professional slut and make some money off of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 04:40 PM |
| 1 | She left but she's still cleaning the house. WTF?Aww someone got their feelings hurt. Don't worry it'll be ok. /s Man the fuck up. And re-read Briffaults law. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/15 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you think being a light skin Arab can make or break you in the dating world?Sounds to me like your making excuses for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/15 04:58 PM |
| 8 | How to keep an alpha male?Caught up in the mundane bullshit that seems to be everywhere these days. I don't want to have to talk about which Kardashian became a man or woman or whatever else is trending in the world of social media nowadays. Yes we can have filler talk once in a while. But honestly a woman of substance who can actively demonstrate it is worth far more in my book. Otherwise silence suits me just fine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/15 08:47 AM |
| 1 | How to reignite interest after losing mystery?Take a step back and read what you wrote. Can you justify your level of investment? If not then you know what to do. More so, I think you need monk mode. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/15 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Sleeping with a girl you have no intention of ltringDo you even know what you want? You want to pump and dump but you don't want to feel bad about it. You don't want to ltr her but you want to do ltr things. Make up your fucking mind. You can't have it both ways. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/15 07:42 PM |
| 4 | My older Sister is cheating on her BB fiancéWhat you're asking is a moral question. TRP is amoral so any answer you'd find here will reflect the poster's sense of morality. In light of that, what's your relationship with the fiancé? If you consider it worthy enough of telling him, then do it. But don't do it because of any feelings you have towards your sister. That's petty and the antithesis of everything we advise here. Your sister will be able to find another BB. Will you be able to find another genuine friend though? Only you can answ… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/15 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Girl doesn't respond after saying yes for a date. What should I do?Send her a message Friday morning. 'See you at X at Y pm'. If she responds the date is on. If not then next. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/15 07:34 PM |
| 2 | x-post from RPW: Advice for LTRThis post sounds too good to be true. I call troll. But in the event that it is true, keep your insecurities to yourself. Behave yourself until he decides to trust you or until he finds this sub. Whichever comes first. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/15 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Nice guy has 3 1/2 weeks to Alpha up. How do I do it?Not oneitis but you want to 'alpha up' to impress her. Riggghhhttt. If you can't see the disconnect then there's no helping you. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/15 07:24 PM |
| 9 | A Red Pill on EconomicsThey're going to be utterly unmarriagable because of their debt. You underestimate the number of BBs in this world. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Gf says that's she's attracted to me because I'm a bad boy. Kinda feel gross about the whole thing.You live in a society that demonizes masculinity. You've been conditioned to view any kind of admiration of it in a negative light. This includes your gf's confession of her attraction to the 'bad boy' vibe. Don't overthink it. You're a man because of how you behave, not how society tells you to behave. There is nothing to be 'grossed' out about. Embrace it and get yourself a threesome. She won't say no. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/15 03:01 AM |
| 4 | How to reignite interest after losing mystery?She's a very jealous person and she thinks she owns me right now, so I think even mentioning a girl casually and then not responding to her questions is enough to stir up waters. Stir up waters? Yes. Generate your desired outcome? No. You're right in assuming that she thinks she owns you. But you're wrong in believing that she sees you in any kind of sexual light. You're her orbiter plain and simple. You bringing up another girl won't do anything except set off alarm bells in her head that her f… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/15 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Age respose"Yea I don't want to be charged as a pedophile anyway" | /r/askTRP | 05/10/15 09:05 PM |
| 5 | Something about interacting with other males that's really bugging me...Sounds like you're just paranoid to me. Lay off the dope. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/15 06:32 PM |
| 8 | Girl I'm dating giving ultimatum'sYou are petty. Women will hamster either way. Why waste your time explaining yourself? Actions always speak louder than words and are, most often, the best teacher. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/15 04:23 AM |
| 80 | The Oregon shooting, beta males, and CNN.Don't kid yourself: no-one is content with coming in last. Omegas are just adept at suppressing their frustrations and hamstering their failures. Everyone has a breaking point. It should come as no surprise that the higher that breaking point is, the more likely the fallout once it's reached will be a shitstorm. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/15 04:16 AM |
| 12 | Beta found his girlfriend is a prostitute. /hamstering sees nothing wrong.Emotional reactions in this case are a waste of time. If you took it all into context you wouldn't be surprised at all. This poor sap is a product of societal conditioning that's been taking place since before he was born. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/15 12:38 AM |
| 3 | Girl I met at a party today gave me head and sais she wants to come over tmmrow. Tommorow if she doesn't text/call should I cal her and ask her to come over? I don't have netflix what's another lowkey way of telling her to come over other than Netflix and chill?Netflix doesn't work everywhere. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/15 02:23 PM |
| 7 | Girl I met at a party today gave me head and sais she wants to come over tmmrow. Tommorow if she doesn't text/call should I cal her and ask her to come over? I don't have netflix what's another lowkey way of telling her to come over other than Netflix and chill?Netflix and chill but use popcorn time instead. Finish whatever shut you gotta do first. She should not be the priority. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/15 08:13 AM |
| 15 | Ex wife makes a moveFade out. From both your ex and your 'friend'. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/15 10:59 AM |
| 2 | I have a strong suspicion my dad is getting cuckolded...That might not even yield any results. Some people are so far plugged in, that unplugging them is impossible. CWM is right: he should start lifting. Maybe raising his T-levels will be the kick he needs. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/15 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Me [25M] with my wife [29F] of six years, is not sexually adventurous with me like she was in her college years before me.Oh boy. You've got a lot learn. Honestly read the sidebar. Read the rational male especially. There are a bunch of articles Rollo has for you. Also your account is 10 days old. I don't know if this is a troll post, as we get a lot of those here, but giving you the benefit of the doubt, I expect you to be very angry, very soon. Come back when you need/ are ready to vent. We'll be waiting. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/15 12:45 AM |
| 3 | Group of 3 friendsMake new friends. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/15 09:02 AM |
| 9 | U.S. Marines test male squads vs mixed gender squads in anticipation of an integration order. The results? You guessed it!It worked because it was allowed to work. No such lee way will be given by an ISIS fighter who's social indoctrination is vastly different to the one here. If anything it's like sending lambs to slaughter. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 04:45 PM |
| 3 | I just can't do itYou're obviously a troll but I'll indulge. First off everything about TRP theory can be boiled down to having self respect. If you think otherwise then you obviously don't understand it yet or haven't taken the time to do so. Either way you have no business debating a topic you have no knowledge of. If you have a legitimate question then make a post here, otherwise kindly fuck off. Second women are not mindless creatures. They have free will much the same way children have free will: they act on… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/15 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Man loses job and breaks down crying when he tells his wife. She is surprised to discover that she feels disgusted by him.Meh I personally never let anyone see my weakness. Asking for help is one thing but actual weakness should never be demonstrated IMO. Weakness is leverage and in games of power such as life, giving up said leverage can prove fatal. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/15 01:49 AM |
| 3 | How old were you guys when you found TRP? where are you now?There's a post on the main sub about fairness being a beta preoccupation. I suggest you read it. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/15 05:56 AM |
| 5 | How old were you guys when you found TRP? where are you now?Good for you for improving your self-awareness but I think that you're still holding other people responsible. The key to TRP is the understanding that you have agency. You'll never be able to get over the anger phase without accepting that fact. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/15 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Girls seem to be "turned off" when they find out they aren't the only ones./u/RPSigmaStigma and /u/fnordsnord are both right. You can't spin plates forever, and you're also not projecting as much of an AF vibe as you think you are. Remember a woman would much rather share an alpha than have a beta all to herself. If you think they're being turned off then it's a sign that you need to evaluate your behavior. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/15 07:55 PM |
| 1 | The Cock Carousel, Beta Bucks, and Polygraphs. r/relationships case file #976224"I was a free spirit before but now I've grown and matuuurrrreeeedddd' Let's that be a lesson to you gentlemen. If you ever find yourself in a situation like that (bonus hint: you shouldn't), run. Run fast and far away from the succubus before you. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 01:46 AM |
| 4 | After being asked whether it's easier for girls to get laid, AskWomen responds "Ugh, it doesn't count as sex if he's an unattractive beta!"Oh, I could find someone who'd use me like a fleshlight, stick their penis in me, but ... I wouldn't get off, I wouldn't even come close, and I don't see how that counts as "woo, I got sex" in any but the "I could possibly have gotten pregnant or contracted a STD". Lol at this woman thinking that getting an STD isn't the same as getting sex. Last I checked that stood for 'sexually transmitted disease' implying that sex must have taken place. Oh the hamster: it's potential for humor know no bound… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Do you respect women?That's the anger phase talking. You've begun to depedestalize women. In this case the question of respect is directed to what you expect them to be, not what they are. Once you accept that they answer to their nature, then you will understand that they should be respected. I will however say that, as it is throughout nature there are no absolutes. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/15 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Going bald at 19. Whats my next course of action?Speak for yourself. Personally I've already got an intimidating look about me. Shaving my head added to the bad boy vibe. Attraction towards me has never been higher. Now let me be clear: I agree that hair can be an advantage depending on how you look. But in OPs case he's already facing a future without it. Which is why I see he should embrace. Because at the end of the day he can either let it be a burden on his self-esteem or embrace it and be better off for it. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/15 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Going bald at 19. Whats my next course of action?Not everyone is blessed with good looks. From what you've said so far it sounds like you have low self-esteem. Are you lifting? If not then you need to start. You might not be as ugly as you think you are but if you're fit and bald, you can definitely look more masculine. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/15 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Going bald at 19. Whats my next course of action?We get posts like this every so often and my response is always the same: start shaving your head. I'm in my late twenties. I've got a full head of hair. I choose to shave my head clean. You've got choices too: either delay the inevitable or learn to embrace it. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/15 11:42 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Holding frame got me free lunch from a total bitch.Never rest on your laurels. Briffault's law is a law for a reason. Past benefit has no bearing on future association. You've made strides at developing your Machiavellian attitude. Don't let comfort negate your progress. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 04:43 AM |
| 7 | "The Cuckold and The Slut"Since swallowing the pill, I have become adept at keeping my mouth shut. Law 38 is my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 04:29 AM |
| 2 | I'm a little confusedThere's not a single post on TRP that says that 'everything else will come'. The very idea runs counter to RP theory. Working on yourself implies that you will improve to a point that you can make those things that you want in life happen. In the case of women, by learning game and practicing your approach, you are in fact working on yourself. You develop skills that make your goal of attracting women a reality. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/15 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: 1 Day; 3 GirlsGood FR. The emphasis on abundance mentality is key here. You held frame and did what you wanted to do. Youngins pay attention. Funny thing I've noticed, and I'm sure you have too, is that when a woman's around a real man, feminism as a concept aint worth shit. Seeing as you brought that up in the post, I thought I'd highlight that point. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/15 07:57 AM |
| 3 | FR: Bluepiller makes an attempt at picking up my LTR and it backfires. Why you should learn the art of AMOGingYou haven't seen that term here? Seriously? Sounds like you're new here. Read the sidebar and the top posts. And welcome to TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 03:40 PM |
| 7 | I watched five minutes of "Trainwreck" so you don't have to.They're not Chads; they're BBs. You think Chads would go around giving their commitment away the way she portrays them? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 02:40 AM |
| 9 | The best/unexpected bits of RP truth you've received from women?I'm depressed because everybody keeps enabling me to be a monster. Even without verbally communicating it, she still shifts the burden of responsibility away from herself. Funny thing is, I've read a few fat people stories lately and the correlation between hamstering and fatlogic is actually quite intriguing. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/15 08:34 AM |
| 15 | Date with hot girl was leading to sex at her place. I said "nah- I'm good. Cya" and left.I did this to a girl who lived in my building. Had her in the morning and pulled out mid stroke. She looked at me like I took away her favorite toy. Told her I had shit to do and that she could come back later. Didn't speak to her after that. I next saw her at my door at midnight the same day in nothing but a t-shirt. Sex that night was the best it had been since. It's a risky game to play, but if you can pull it off, the rewards are that much greater. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/15 03:19 AM |
| 5 | Post asks women how their SO reacted to their 'high' sexual partner count. The responses are priceless.Should have followed up with questions of how many of them lacked father figures. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/15 02:48 AM |
| 2 | 50 Shades of Red - Wisdom for Men About WomenYou misunderstand. The most love a woman can afford a person other than herself is her child. A man can never expect to get this level of love from a woman, except possibly, from his own mother (see maxims 20 and 21). Ironically though, a man's capacity to love a woman is as great as a woman's capacity to love her child. In all relationships a man's love for his woman is greater than her love for him. This is because a man's love is sacrificial, while a woman's love is hypergamous. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/15 04:14 AM |
| 2 | 50 Shades of Red - Wisdom for Men About WomenThis should be sidebar material. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/15 04:09 AM |
| 5 | Ex-gf of roommate cuckolding in our apartmentTell the landlord. She can't lease out a room without being on the lease. And fuck friendship with T. He made this decision without considering his friends. Why should you? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/15 01:07 AM |
| 121 | Man faces 6 months in prison for disagreeing with feminist on twitter (No joke..)The plaintiff is a "Gender Justice Consultant". I swear you can't make this shit up. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/15 04:45 AM |
| 4 | How the Feminine Imperative is Destroying Reddit... on PurposeI always say I'm a feminist when talking to women...then get them to admit that men and women are not equal. Try it some time. It's a lot of fun. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/15 01:30 AM |
| 4 | BBC reports David Cameron is ready to "tackle gender pay gap" by "pressuring firms into boosting women's wages". Public comment section absolutely rejects gender gap as myth.First off men will always fight for women. We're hardwired to do so and the majority of the population are not conscious enough to override that programming. Second, because of the above, men could never take that one back. The machinery of the left have made it so that is impossible. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/15 07:37 PM |
| 2 | BBC reports David Cameron is ready to "tackle gender pay gap" by "pressuring firms into boosting women's wages". Public comment section absolutely rejects gender gap as myth.Which begs the question of whether universal suffrage was all part of the plan to begin with. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/15 07:34 PM |
| 4 | I need TRP's help to deal with a "friend."Anytime I see someone say "I'm alpha now" I immediately register them as a hamstering beta bitch. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/15 09:31 PM |
| 6 | LTR - Issue with her fatherHer dad is a BB white knight. That much is obvious. However he is her dad and will always be in her life. For that reason you cannot turn her against him. She has to decide for herself if she wants to listen to him or not. What you should keep in mind though is the fact that it's most likely that this is not the first time he has spoken to her about you. She may have kept the fact hidden from you but remember AWALT. Women will always avoid confrontation if they can help it. Her keeping this from… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/15 08:47 AM |
| 6 | The Redpill has ruined my life and yet I can't stop reading.Solid advice ♂ | /r/askTRP | 09/07/15 07:54 AM |
| 7 | Woman's Hamster Spins Into Overdrive As She Widens Her Preferences To Include Short Guys As She Crashes Into The WallDon't get it twisted: it matters. Just like good looks matter. Just like intelligence matters. Just like the drive to succeed matters. These are all things you are judged by. You can be deficient in one area but more than proficient in another. The key is to know your limitations and work with what you have to maximize your potential. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 09:23 PM |
| 76 | Woman's Hamster Spins Into Overdrive As She Widens Her Preferences To Include Short Guys As She Crashes Into The Wall"There comes a certain point in a woman's life..." Stopped watching after that. She rode the CC, the ride finished and now she's looking for her BB. It's as simple as that. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Question about anger phaseOne is RP in their actions not their words. You questioning his emotional health speaks to the fact that he may not be as RP as he says he is. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 08:56 PM |
| 2 | This looked like the right place to get a cut and dry opinion. I'm having a date with a girl I met on Tinder (Yeah I know..) tomorrow, but I'm doubtful if I should go in with this. Can you guys give me some advice?Abort. Abort. ABORT. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 07:10 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with a clingy girlfriend?Your letting her blow up your phone and throw tantrums, is her drawing you into her frame. You need to set boundaries and be firm about them. The next time she throws a tantrum make it clear that she's behaving like a child. Don't be harsh, but be firm. Your leaving her momentarily is not the end of the world. She should be an adult and realize that. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 07:05 PM |
| 10 | How to take compliments?Law 30: Make your accomplishments seem effortless. "Whoa man you been hitting the gym?" "Yeah, I go once in while" "Oh, goatcheese26 you look good giggle" "Thanks." | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Question about anger phaseI'm with /u/tepper2 on this. How do you know if he's RP or not? We need more info. And besides him being RP doesn't mean he can't be emotionally stable for a committed relationship. People (especially the recently unplugged) conflate RP with PUA and commitment-aversion. The two are not the same. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 06:58 PM |
| 3 | LTR stops sex mid-actionGet her to give you dome finish you off. You gotta get yours man. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/15 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Your Gut is your best friend.First rule of any business: you never hand over the cash before seeing the product. Especially in a business like this, trust means nothing. What matters is you knowing exactly what you're getting yourself into. You lost a bit of money but it could have been worse. Second your gut is often right but not always. That feeling in your gut is your subconscious mind responding to stimuli your conscious mind can't see. You have to train yourself to take a step back and assess the situation before you … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/15 06:46 AM |
| 1 | What's a good diet?I'll check it out, but keto as a diet places a high emphasis on the burning of fat as fuel source. There's empirical evidence to suggest that the burning of fat releases hormones which can positively affect T levels. Check out /r/ketoscience - there's a lot of information there. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/15 07:17 PM |
| 156 | Pick up a girl from the bar. She is married.I didn’t even give my husband blowjobs, you should feel lucky. This right here is why marriage as an institution is doomed. By unburdening women of all responsibility of keeping the relationship going, our society has effectively cuckolded itself. The 'happy wife, happy life' paradigm has made it so that a woman needs only place the absolute minimum level of investment necessary to reap benefit. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/15 06:04 PM |
| 3 | What's a good diet?Says who? Meat, fish, eggs and cruciferous vegetables are the cornerstones of the diet. All those things increase your T levels. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/15 04:40 AM |
| 6 | In love with my ex CC riding ltr21 and her notch count is 13 (so she says) and you want to make something out of this? How sad are you? Have some self-respect. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/15 03:24 AM |
| 5 | What's a good diet?Keto. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/15 02:04 AM |
| 17 | The Reddit Revolt and Red-Pill dynamicsMe neither. Boy will that be a lot of fun. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/15 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Applying redpill to religious LTR (chaste until marriage)I know a couple of religious girls who would only let me put it in their butt. Just sayin. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/15 07:00 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill Life TipsMake your bed everyday. You'll be surprised at how something as simple as that can affect your mood. Plus on the chance that you bring a girl home, you know that your area is on point. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/15 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend issues in an LDR/LTRIf you can't stand for cheating then why do it yourself? What can't you get from a girl closer to you that you can only get from her? The answer is nothing. There are no unicorns. Your LDR is not some special snowflake who you have to stay with at all costs. What you found in her you can find in any other girl in your immediate vicinity. TRP is not about encouraging men to cheat. It's about maximizing your potential. That means living to the standards you set for yourself and others. If you can'… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/15 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Is it beta to get back with ex after a break-up, knowing she fucked another guy?Yes. And read the fucking rules before you post questions like this. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/15 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend issues in an LDR/LTROk. LDRs are a waste of time, period. Your decision to pursue such a thing is rationalized solely by your hamster. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/15 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend issues in an LDR/LTRAh the male hamster rears its head once again. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/15 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Woman cuckolds husband, becomes miserable when her husband begins fucking women regularly in responseDefinitely. I'd actually say as a result of meditation I'm more in tune with nature. That's the beauty of meditation: the noise all around me doesn't affect me like it used to. In any case if finding peace through nature works for you, stick with it. We can only maximize our potential when we know ourselves. Inner peace is essential for that. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/15 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Woman cuckolds husband, becomes miserable when her husband begins fucking women regularly in responseIf I had to say I would say agnostic. Can't really speak to whether or not there's a higher power as it's a personal belief that human beings don't really know shit. In that respect, absolute conclusions are an exercise in futility. As for who I know who's the same, my circle is small. Once I started meditating regularly I found a certain peace that religion could not give me. It was simply a matter of realizing that rather than give myself up to a certain deity or religion, I could trust in my … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/15 07:41 AM |
| 15 | After reading NMMNG, I realize I'm not direct about my sexual needs. How can I over come this?Law 28: Enter Action With Boldness. If you haven't already, read this book, specifically this law. You need to stop thinking about how others perceive you as this is the root of your insecurity. Train yourself to be bold in your actions. Err on the side of being too cocky than too timid as you look to find your balance. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/15 08:17 PM |
| 3 | She "rejects" me, then comes after me when I start ignoring her.Women are adept at reading the signals you put out. Most of the time they pick up on these signals unconsciously but rationalize them consciously through the hamster: "he seemed creepy... he wanted a relationship and I wasn't ready." | /r/askTRP | 27/06/15 07:06 PM |
| 7 | Sir Tim Hunt's claims that remarks on girls in science were 'not sexist' are backed by leaked EU reportNot that it will make a difference. The damage has been done. He'll forever be remembered as the sexist scientist. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/15 05:57 PM |
| 7 | Woman cuckolds husband, becomes miserable when her husband begins fucking women regularly in responseEx-muslim so I can weigh in. Islam allows polygamy because it takes into account the polygamous nature of men. It also ensures that women's hypergamous nature is taken care of because if you're fit enough to have multiple wives, then you're fit enough to associate with, period. Also from what I've heard from my sister (also a second wife) polygamy adds extra security because at least she knows who the other women in her husband's life are. Incidentally she's a better second wife to her husband t… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/15 05:33 PM |
| 6 | Woman cuckolds husband, becomes miserable when her husband begins fucking women regularly in responseYou guessed right. I'm from Kenya, but I moved to Canada a long time ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/15 05:29 PM |
| 1 | I Followed TRP for a Year...I got out of a really bad break up so I was slow to move again. That's your problem there. You're hung up on the past and you've got oneitis for your ex. You need to let go of that if you're ever going to move forward. What happened has happened. You can't change it. You can't get it back. Why hold yourself back for someone who doesn't even feel the same way? Is that fair on yourself? No-one's telling you to get back into another relationship. But closing yourself off isn't healthy either. Maybe… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/15 05:27 PM |
| 2 | I Followed TRP for a Year...This is all talk. Without real life examples we can't help you. What was your most recent interaction with a woman like. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/15 04:17 PM |
| 40 | Woman cuckolds husband, becomes miserable when her husband begins fucking women regularly in responseTheir logic is absolutely twisted and I can say exactly why. In my home country polygamy is legal. My dad has two wives. He would alternate between each wife (so one night spent with my mom; the next spent with my step-mom and so on). As you can expect my mom hated this arrangement. She especially hated my step mom (and vice versa). The amount of times I was used as an emotional tampon by mom are way more than I can count. I was the only child between my mom and my dad (my dad had other kids wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/15 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Whats the point of LTR?I was going to say the same thing. At least someone's keeping this sub honest. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/15 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Worried about getting a reputation as a pick up artistFirst of all who gives a fuck. Second I'll let you in on a secret. No matter what girls say, 'the sleazy guy who only looks to pick up women' drives them wild. If I was you I'd be less worried about what people think and instead own that shit. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/15 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Discovering cheatingStraight up your saying that what happened in the break doesn't mean anything to you is a joke. You should be done with this girl. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/15 01:11 AM |
| 2 | How much slack should you cut them? Did I overreact?Na. Saying that shows no abundance mentality. The point is to demonstrate that you have options. She already cancelled on him once. Him trying hard a second time demonstrates that those options don't exist. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/15 01:04 AM |
| 12 | Man dates TEN attractive women, gets caught, shrugs it off, and plates 10 new womenAnd to think, I would've remained blissfully ignorant and happy with a man I'm attracted to if I had not snooped through his private computer files. Notice the double speak here. Even in admitting her own transgression, she shifts the blame onto him - "I fucked up, but it's still his fault". Lesson to be learned: a woman will not accept responsibility for her actions. It runs counter to her narrative of being a victim. For that reason never expect her to admit that she's wrong. Instead demonstra… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 03:37 PM |
| 3 | What do you think are the best countries to find good-looking, well raised, low cock-mileage girls?What /u/Red-Zen said. You're looking at the problem wrong. All women have the propensity to cheat or branch swing. That's why we say AWALT. There is no magical country with unicorns aplenty. Get that out of your head now. Even the most prudish girl in the world will turn into a hoe for the right cock. Your job is to learn how to screen them. To not get attached. To realize that the value you display will be directly proportional to the women you attract and your capacity to keep them around. The… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/15 03:01 AM |
| -1 | Dirty SheetsWhich is why I said "on your terms" in italics. If the door closes for reasons outside of your own then it pays to retrospect. Otherwise you move on to the next one. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 04:20 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] Should TRP be about the "red pill" of life rather than exclusively sexual strategy?Beat me to it. Was going to say the exact same thing. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/15 02:35 PM |
| 4 | Dirty SheetsBut do you honestly think she cheated just because "she wanted dick"? I have a feeling there's more to this than what she's telling you. Who cares? That should not be a concern. Once that door is closed on your terms, it is closed. You don't look back; that's just a waste of energy. You look forward. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 02:09 PM |
| 1 | How can I get my brother to save his marriage and himself?If he can't help himself then chances are you wont either. But if you really insist on it, then the first step is to get him to start working out with you. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/15 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on african women?It depends on how much of the culture is preserved, and how important their fathers are in their lives. Having an African background myself, I can say that culturally speaking, women with this kind of heritage generally have their place. Strong in their own sense, but cognizant of the fact that a man is expected to be a man while a woman is expected to be a woman. Now if you're talking about actual African women on the otherhand, it's a different story. African women in major African cities are … | /r/askTRP | 22/06/15 11:29 PM |
| 12 | GF fell for tattoo artist. AWALT.Truer words have never been spoken. The irony though, is that girls like this, are the ones who want their fathers the most. Their acting out is indeed a giant 'fuck you' to their absent dads but is more pertinently a cry for attention. Sadly that ever enlarging hole can never be filled. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/15 10:30 PM |
| 5 | Disney Pixar's Inside Out literally showcases and details hypergamyThe real question is did you expect anything different from a movie with Amy Poehler and Mindy Kaling? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/15 02:43 PM |
| 3 | So i'm intimidating to most girls...You have to be more direct. You can't look like a bad boy and then never act on it. That's just a waste. Take it from someone who's got that look down pat. Take what you want. Give commands. Be the one to initiate. And stop whining about your foreign friend. Your focus should be on you. He's a beta who thinks a hat is going to do it for him. You should know better. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/15 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Escort tells me I'm too young. There's literal money involved and she rejects me. I feel like this is a worse form of rejection as opposed to a normal chick.First off understand that it's her loss: she's not getting paid. In light of that, why waste your time trying to 'convince' her? She's. A. Ho. Just move on to the next one. And lose that number. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/15 07:18 PM |
| 1 | 23 Yr Old Man falsely accused of rape freed. It's not Just a Western thing. Tread carefully - AWALT.Your mistake is believing that the rationale is rational to begin with. Here's a hint: it's not. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/15 05:31 PM |
| 3 | [AWALT] My single mother made swallowing the pill very, very easy.It got long but still a compelling read. We differ in our opinions of monk mode though. I think you're only looking at it is pertains to game. I on the other hand, see it as being pertinent to the entire RP transformation. A lot of the times, we need the pill not just to improve our interactions with women, but with society as a whole. Monk mode necessitates a level of introspection that is essential to change. For example someone may have been a pushover in addition to being a beta with women. … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/15 01:56 PM |
| 1 | I ask a girl out, she rejects me. 6 months later, she asks me out. The tables turn.Good job on your transformation man. The journey's not over but you should know that by now. If I was you I'd lose the number. Oneitis is like cancer. You can cut it out, pummel it with chemo and send it back in to remission, but there's always a chance of it coming back. You're in a better place now anyway. Look forward instead of backwards. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/15 01:07 PM |
| 6 | A reminder on women's hypergamous nature"Men can't compromise sexually; women can't compromise in lifestyle." - Chris Rock The minute she sensed her lifestyle was under threat she made the decision to abort. I'm not going to generalize and say that all women will jump at the slightest sign of trouble, but AWALT exists for a reason. Even the ones who will 'stick by you' have you working on a deadline, whether you're aware of it or not. In this case she did you a favor. Others may not be so lucky. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/15 01:58 AM |
| 2 | What did she ever do to deserve being called a woman?Where are we swimming? Why? I agree, but what then is the alternative? To stop swimming completely? That is even more emasculating. Not saying you have the answer but sometimes getting bogged down with the existential can make one lose sight of the practical. Better to just live and the let the chips fall where they may. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/15 01:50 AM |
| 4 | The feminist shithole of Sweden just got the princess it deservesI agree with this to a certain extent, but being active on asktrp myself I have to say that /u/YouDislikeMyOpinion has a point. There are too many people who post questions that they could easily answer themselves if they just read the sidebar material and quality posts on the main sub. I'm not saying asktrp should not exist. I just think the screening process should be improved. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/15 04:47 PM |
| 5 | The feminist shithole of Sweden just got the princess it deservesThe thing with this is that the end is unsustainable. The family unit is what brought about development in the first place. Dissecting it and forcing people to become cogs in an economic machine can only last for so long. This will all come crashing down sooner or later. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/15 04:43 PM |
| 2 | The Rational Male – Adaptations Part II think some men we consider unreachable, can be awakened , but require such a high threshold of anger or tragedy that they would snap. Which goes back to the matrix analogy of not freeing a mind beyond a certain age. The costs are just too great. That is why this sub exists, for those who decide to venture off the conventional path of thinking into this secluded section of the woods, acknowledging the fact they might be wrong and wanting answers. It's also why this sub is under threat. The curr… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/15 06:49 PM |
| 2 | How do I kill the beta inside and what do I do with my extremely beta dad?Read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/15 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Signs she's a slutThese kinds of posts should not even be allowed. Read the fucking sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/15 06:24 PM |
| 4 | The Rational Male – Adaptations Part Iwhile many man are still playing the beta bux strategy because that's what they're being told. But that's exactly Rollo's point: that men are playing this role because of the assumption that women are rational equals in the game. If this assumption was exposed for what it is - that women employ the AF/BB strategy and thus are not rationally equal - the entire dynamic would change. However the propaganda arm of the left cannot and will not allow this information to be made public. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/15 06:13 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Social proofI immediately think anyone who says 'brah' is an imbecile. Speak like a man, not a frat boy from 2006. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/15 04:43 AM |
| 7 | The pussyification of the post millennial generation : Jerry Seinfield & Chris Rock refused to play collegesWhoever wrote this article doesn't get it. Seinfeld and Rock aren't avoiding colleges because the kids there have opinions. They're avoiding them, because the kids have made it their life mission to ensure that people with a contrary opinion should not be heard. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 05:18 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill HandbookYou've got my donation. | /r/AlreadyRed | 11/06/15 04:04 AM |
| 0 | I think I am a hard case. Please guys if you can help me.Anytime cupcake. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/15 02:33 AM |
| -1 | I think I am a hard case. Please guys if you can help me.K | /r/askTRP | 10/06/15 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Neg in Tinder throwing my game off?You need to switch your game up. If you are going to use something like tinder, use it to get dates as quickly as possible instead of trying to build rapport over text. Statements that can be interpreted with a degree of plausible deniability are you friends here. Get the number. Set up the date. Neg in real life. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/15 10:38 PM |
| 1 | I think I am a hard case. Please guys if you can help me.Oneitis? Where in this post does he talk about a love interest? It appears you have a talent for seeing things that the rest of us can't. I wonder what your next trick is going to be. Let's be clear about one thing: no-one will help him feel better but himself. But going to a hooker can be useful in his own journey to self-betterment. The guy is 26 and has never got his dick wet. In this day and age, with so much emphasis on being sexually active, staying a virgin for so long is bound to have a … | /r/askTRP | 10/06/15 10:27 PM |
| 19 | [META] Reddit rolls out first ban wave of "Harassing Subreddits"In addition to posing as members to mislead newcomers? If they put this much energy in actually bettering themselves, the world might be a better place. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Lifting After An Injury - AdviceSounds like you need to get back some mobility. I'd recommend yoga and bodyweight exercises. Not too strenuous, but enough to give you a decent pump. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/15 03:10 PM |
| 5 | I think I am a hard case. Please guys if you can help me.26 is puberty now? The guy's been lifting for a year. This problem is psychological. Staying away from women won't help. He needs to get over the fact that losing one's virginity isn't a big deal. A hooker in his case would be the best way to do that. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/15 03:08 PM |
| 3 | I think I am a hard case. Please guys if you can help me.Don't know why vandaalen's been downvoted as that was my first thought as well. His virginity is clearly creating a barrier in his mind. A hooker, will remove that block. It's as simple as that. The point is to take that first step, not adopt a one-size fits all solution. He could bed the butter faces but it's likely that even that will be difficult for him. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/15 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Feminist Software Foundation...if you missed it, too funnyHave to admit it got me first. But for those who don't bother to look around this is satire. Especially lol'd at the website leading to the Russian Ministry of Internal Affairs. A feminist organization if I ever saw one. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Reawakening to a truth (FR)Can't think of a specific author behind it, but it's something that comes up every so often here. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Can someone explain to me why there are posts of indian/pakistani guys always saying they can't get the attention of white women constantly?Check out Dark Enlightenment and Anarcho_Capitalism. As with any sub there's some bullshit, but there's also valuable information to be found if you're interested. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/15 04:38 AM |
| 4 | Can someone explain to me why there are posts of indian/pakistani guys always saying they can't get the attention of white women constantly?You're cute thinking political freedom and other liberal nonsense = greater quality of life. Here's a suggestion: read up on Singapore. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/15 02:56 AM |
| 11 | Why are women attracted to guys with defined biceps?Short answer: it's the simplest indicator of reproductive fitness. Muscle definition sends a message to the lizard brain that this specimen is a viable candidate to mate with. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/15 02:54 AM |
| 30 | Female Prison Worker Questioned in Murderer's EscapeIt's plausible that she may have been an accomplice, but until there's evidence of the fact, this should not be posted here. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 11:15 PM |
| 6 | Girlfriend had tons of sex with her ex but not with me. Why?Not condoning the rape here, but the ex was clearly more dominant than this AFC. Hence the girls tingles for him. But of course, being the little BP'er that he is, he does what all of his ilk do: try to negotiate attraction which, unsurprisingly, does not work. Again, as expected, the comments are all about how the rape has something to do with it, yada yada yada. Now that may be true, but the fact is she still has tingles for him. Rather than try to understand why that is, they hamster it away … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 10:34 PM |
| 27 | Reawakening to a truth (FR)She's not yours. It's just your turn. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Reaction to a rejection?You're not getting it. Bottom line is she missed out which means that how she feels is irrelevant. That should be your mindset as you move on to the next one. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/15 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Girl is making me wait for sex. Journey into TheRedPill.Read this and then read it again. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/15 04:29 AM |
| 9 | I rejected a super hot woman. It felt good. Was I too harsh?Butthurt much? | /r/askTRP | 08/06/15 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Reaching out to an old friendHave a plan and call them both. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/15 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Reaching out to an old friendSounds to me like y'all are beefin over minor shit. I'd reach out to him if he's really that important to you. Friendships between men are easier to mend than friendships between women. Be a man. Own your part in the split. Rebuild those bridges. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/15 03:50 AM |
| 69 | User posts to /u/askreddit for reactions when they saw their SO having sex with another partner. Most top comments are from men.TL;DR - It's not what you think it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 03:57 PM |
| 1 | The one mistake that killed Blue Pill-me.allowing injustices to go unpunished turns you into a beta or worse. Allowing these things to happen in the first place is what 'turns you beta'. OP's attempt to shame her revealed that a) he invested more in this girl than she did in him; b) he allowed himself to be driven by his emotions; and c) acted on those emotions in a public and petty way. In fact OP acted like a woman In light of that, tell me again how you think what he did was vindicated. Or better yet, don't because you really can't.… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 02:43 PM |
| 1 | The one mistake that killed Blue Pill-me.In most cases. In most cases. In. Most. Cases. Read before you refute. today, our communities are very fluid, and if you get a bad reputation in one community you can easily move on to the next. This is especially true for women in our feminine-primary society. You think that OP's actions affected her prospects long term? So she suffered some momentary shame. You think she's suddenly going to stop doing what she's doing? You've got a lot to learn about women if you do. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 01:20 PM |
| 5 | Ex Gf, Jealous, Give her the boot?TL;DR Oneitis | /r/askTRP | 07/06/15 04:04 AM |
| 2 | LTR wants to abstain during Ramadan.Radio silence. She can't have your commitment without putting something up in return. Give her enough time and she'll come back to you. In the mean time, find some plates to spin. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/15 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Text game / ASD - "are you just looking to hook up or something?"Lol, you must enjoy suffering man. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/15 03:34 AM |
| 2 | It's All Men's Fault! AKA "the Red Pill Feminists"Interesting post. You raise some pertinent issues though I think your conclusion is slightly incorrect. For the most part taking the position that women have no agency, and thus cannot be held responsible for their actions, is dangerous. However I think that people who hold that position, in general, do so for the purpose of being prudent more than anything. Becoming aware of the fact that we live in a feminine-primary society also makes you aware that, as a man, you need to be prepared for the … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 04:37 PM |
| 11 | The one mistake that killed Blue Pill-me.So all that time plotting, thinking up what to say and making a petition is not time wasted? You need a reality check man. You're angry, I get that. But your eyes have now been opened. What's done is done, but from now on remember that AWALT. Read the sidebar. Learn that revenge is, in most cases, a petty venture. And for the love of god, start lifting. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 02:13 PM |
| 1 | I beat up her best friend (male)K | /r/askTRP | 06/06/15 01:15 PM |
| 1 | I beat up her best friend (male)No but from the synopsis it seems like a worthwhile read. I'll give it a look. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/15 05:00 AM |
| 1 | I beat up her best friend (male)That's practically a children's book. By your logic, so is The Old Man And The Sea. Doesn't mean there isn't RP knowledge to be found there. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/15 04:59 AM |
| 7 | I beat up her best friend (male)the consensus appears to be that I should forget about this girl. Of course. /u/bsutansalt made a post on the main page detailing how to prove your girl is loyal. In this case, she was aware of this orbiter, told you about him, yet did nothing to stop his advances, and probably even encouraged them. That qualifies for an instant next. But I should warn you that you shouldn't simply forget about this girl. You need to understand exactly why she acted this way in the first place. That means analyz… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/15 07:33 PM |
| 8 | I beat up her best friend (male)You're right in that he should have never let it come to this. But BBS is also right in that context matters. OP made the mistake of making an enemy. But an enemy, once he has presented himself, must be removed. Law 15 - Crush Your Enemy Totally. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/15 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with bratty little sisters & new step-sistersIf her own brother wont deal with her, why do you want to? The easiest solution is to just move out. Also, if you've just finished a post-grad aren't you a little too old to be living with parents? | /r/askTRP | 05/06/15 02:29 PM |
| 9 | /r/relationships wife nonchalantly mentions to her husband that she cheated on him, then dances with the affair partner in front of him, all on his sister's wedding dayI disagree. Fathers are responsible for setting boundaries for their kids, especially little girls. From the looks of it, the dad raised his daughter to be a princess. Apologizing and owning up to the fuck up is not enough. He should have prevented the fuck up from happening in the first place. That he didn't amplifies his failure as a parent. The guys below you think that the father is part of the ploy, making him a Loser. I think he's more of a Clueless myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 12:35 PM |
| 22 | /r/relationships wife nonchalantly mentions to her husband that she cheated on him, then dances with the affair partner in front of him, all on his sister's wedding dayWhen you're that plugged in, those things don't factor. The guy isn't even thinking about any of that. All he's thinking about is how much he loves her and how he can make his life 'whole' again. That's what happens when you make your happiness and well-being dependent on another person as buddy has done here. I think he might just 'give her another chance'. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 12:25 PM |
| 7 | "The Man-Eater"Agree with all this. From his FR, OmLaLa was dealing with a Bad BitchTM . And a Bad Bitch can be put in her place just like any other ho. No. 5 is especially important. A girl like this only ever needs some dope dick. Having to ask her why she needs him is pointless and takes points away from his frame. Granted it's not everyday you come across a bad bitch but when you do, their game is even easier to read. They need want someone who can keep up and, in general, not be phased. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Help starting to liftLiver and tuna. Two of the cheapest and best protein sources to gain mass on a budget. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/15 02:26 PM |
| 1 | What about men who don't even try to act manly?Read The Art of Seduction. Specifically the Feminine Dandy. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/15 02:23 PM |
| 4 | Rejected a girl sexually. What to expect now?You think that's the worst case? The worst case is that she claims she was sexually assaulted by OP. Never underestimate the lengths a damaged female ego will go to. OPs best bet is to make sure there's proof that nothing happened, or at least a supporting story. Also he should keep this quiet and treat her as he normally would so that the damage to her ego is as minimal as possible. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/15 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Criticizing Alberta Health Minister for being obese is ... sexism!What's telling about this and other stories like it, is that the 'victim' is never really the one to defend themselves. It's always other women, or other feminists or SJWs that take the defensive burden upon themselves. The irony that a man in the same position would be expected to defend himself is completely lost on them. In spite of the fact that they consider themselves fighting for the cause of equality, their strategy ultimately un-levels the playing field in their favor. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/15 12:54 PM |
| 1 | calisthenics vs Lifting or Both?Calisthenics is for aesthetics. Iron is for size. Ideally you want a balance. For the time being calisthenics will help you build that foundation. But don't neglect the iron. Iron sharpens iron. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/15 03:53 AM |
| 5 | On the front page: "Girls of Reddit, what are common mannerisms for a guy that screams low self confidence?"Simple. By stroking your ego just that little bit, she keeps you in orbit. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/15 10:51 PM |
| 236 | On the front page: "Girls of Reddit, what are common mannerisms for a guy that screams low self confidence?"I think the anonymity of reddit is partly the reason why these answers are so candid. If you were still in BP land and asked a girl you knew the same question, you'd probably get a, "Just be yourself" or the ol' "There's nothing wrong with you. The right girl just hasn't found you yet". Women are so amusing. I can't help but smile. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/15 07:33 PM |
| 17 | Getting touched by Females in Public.The bigger you get, the more it happens. Some will say it's validation and you should feel gratitude but I don't see it like that. It's an invasion of privacy plain and simple. Unfortunately, your reaction to it can never be plain and simple. Get aggressive and you'd be branded a rapist. Come off meek and your sexuality might be questioned. Next time it happens without you wanting it to, hold eye contact, make your frame imposing and simply say "No touching". Also as they say in the swoleaccepta… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/15 05:18 PM |
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