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Yes. Are you just here to argue semantics or…?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 05:37 AM
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I don’t think the last two dudes I listed are radfem adjacent?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 05:27 AM
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In the long run sure it will help some men, but the abusive ones will lose out. And that’s a great many of them. Plus like if you’ve grown accustomed to the idea of a female domestic servant, and jobs preferring you as a candidate, feminism doesn’t benefit you at all. Some men’s hatred of feminism makes sense because it undermines entitlement and unfair discrimination that benefits them.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 05:26 AM
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Well, your feminism is useless then. Basic human compassion/humanism is about everyone equally. Feminism is for women. Die mad about it. I don’t walk into POC groups whining about how hard Europeans have it.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 05:22 AM
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Michael Kaufman and Michael Kimmel then?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 05:14 AM
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Can’t talk about that here. These men ended up RP for a reason. The underlying misogynistic beliefs were already there before they got further radicalized. Some will make it out as good people, but some won’t.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 04:34 AM
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Wow this comments section sucks. I hope I never date any of you by accident. Feminism isn’t about equality. It’s about protecting women from male violence and oppression, just like civil rights in the 60’s was about overthrowing white supremacy. Don’t use nebulous arguments about equality to erase structural reality. What you should do is stop consuming the stupid online vent content and check out the work of men like Robert Jensen.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 04:31 AM
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First of all I’m really sorry for you and your entire social circle descending into madness, that’s terrible luck. Secondly, this person sounds mentally unstable. Married four times? Switching her entire personality to appeal to a new man instead of taking care of her only child? Wildly irresponsible and unstable, I feel bad for the kid having to witness this level of dysfunction. I would ignore the ideological bullshit and try to focus on the underlying person.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/24 03:10 AM
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Sociopaths get ahead in life what else is new
/r/ExRedPill25/05/24 06:07 AM
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I love that book. It’s such a valuable perspective. Our rights weren’t won in one generation, it was a slow and gradual change.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/24 04:03 PM
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God I love that source.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/24 04:02 PM
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It’s mostly speculation. But interesting to this about if you’re willing to be open-minded and not just regurgitate redpill talking points. Also, some parts of evopsych actively contradict RP. They have a very biased view of it. That’s not a knock against EP itself. Check out this channel for more info: https://youtu.be/XoH0223tFdU?si=hJOLlxxqkEGJTkmE
/r/ExRedPill20/05/24 03:58 PM
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Yup, people in certain demographics actually have to compete now to get ahead. People in the upper classes still have it easy, though.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/24 08:48 PM
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That and desperate people don’t charm anyone, man or woman.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/24 04:08 AM
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Ironically* enough, women bring in most of the calories in the tribe. We’re the actual providers historically because gathering is more reliable and less physically risky than hunting big game. That said, men’s hunting (along with some women of course) provided nutrient-rich meat and marrow, which is useful to menstruating women and recovering mothers. So it’s like a give-and-take evolutionarily.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/24 02:08 AM
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They think that paying for a coffee or a date automatically entitles them to sex. They slut-shame other women, hoping you’ll go along with it. Tend to be insecure. Simplistic black-and-white thinking about life. Attempt to escalate physically before you’re ready.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 04:41 PM
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A family history of abuse can normalize some fucked up shit
/r/ExRedPill19/03/24 03:04 AM
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This is how it works in Eastern Europe and Asia lol.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/24 04:46 AM
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So we’re gonna cherry pick one study from 2009 to generalize about all women now? Cool story bro. The interesting part of this is how only 14% of the women had them consistently, meaning you’re generalizing the 14% to the other 86%. In addition, around the same percent of men report having actually committed forcible intercourse (rape), so maybe there’s just a 10-15% of the population that has some underlying psychological factor pushing them in the direction of rape play (or actual rape).
/r/ExRedPill12/02/24 01:13 AM
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Be a unique person. Be some version of the Tender Defender archetype. Be getting your shit together. Learn what your needs/wants are from a relationship so that you can pursue them with clarity.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/24 09:43 PM
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If she thinks women shouldn’t vote, she should opt out of the next election and lead by example. :))
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 06:22 AM
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Not shallow, it’s just life.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 01:11 AM
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Says the creep posting on thirst trap subreddits
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 07:07 PM
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Redpill blames women for having high standards for hookups when most women want long-term relationships (not all, just most). Like, yeah, if you were risking pregnancy and assault to have sex you’d have high standards too. It’s not women’s fault that most men are not physically/sexually attractive the way most women are.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 04:03 AM
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Take on more “feminine” coded tasks.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 05:05 PM
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Why did you feel so triggered by this post you had to repost it to a different social media platform?
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 05:03 PM
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It will make most women write you off and not look at you as relationship material. Also, a prostitute is a world’s away from a real relationship. Her interactions with you will stunt you as much as pornography does. Because her paycheck is dependent on telling you entirely what you want to hear, you won’t get anything out of the interaction besides an orgasm and $1000 less in your pocket. Plus most FSSW were trafficked as children so have fun with that on your conscience. :))
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 02:42 AM
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Holy shit, I’ve recommended you to people here.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/24 06:27 AM
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For a second I confused Rich Cooper with Richard Spencer, the white supremacist.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 03:06 AM
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So basically they are the real beta males and they know it
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 07:43 AM
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Any man whose personality is significantly outside of “average Joe” is attractive to women. These guys have carved out a niche for themselves as being slightly sociopathic and they attract a certain type of woman. You shouldn’t imitate these men, you should find out what makes you unique and lean into it.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 06:26 AM
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Their problem is that they view female attention as their main source of validation as a human being. No woman wants to be in that position, so it scares women off and then they end up ironically even more single and lonely.
/r/ExRedPill08/12/23 06:57 PM
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Watch Aba n Preach, F.D. Signifier, and find some male voices who aren’t really that problematic.
/r/ExRedPill08/12/23 06:52 PM
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Strict gender hierarchy beliefs are actually a strong predictor of divorce.
/r/ExRedPill08/12/23 02:13 AM
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TRP is mostly men who know that they can’t get a woman by being a decent partner, so they have to resort to force. They’ve convinced themselves (rightly or wrongly) that they can’t win in a fair fight, so they have to play dirty by raping and oppressing women. For the bottom 10% of men who have personality disorders this might be true. For the rest, I’m not so sure. But they also have unrealistic expectations for women so there’s that too.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/23 08:46 PM
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Your stats put you above other men who are trying, but you have to actually try for that to help. You can’t just sit your ass at home and hope for a spouse to manifest themselves.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 04:44 PM
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Women like that are just saying “men should be useful to women.” And they’re using regressive gender roles to do it (and avoid doing labor they don’t want lol).
/r/ExRedPill05/10/23 01:34 AM
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Outrage dollars. If it bleeds, it leads.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/23 05:56 AM
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Imagine talking about friendship this way? It’s a phrase specifically designed to invoke insecurity. How is a dude ever supposed to feel safe in a relationship if all he can think about is the end of it?
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 05:10 AM
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I don’t think everyone who says this is redpill. This seems more like a social media thing.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 05:28 PM
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1.) Grifters 2.) psychopaths who enjoy seeing other women suffer 3.) to thin out their sexual competition 4.) brainwashing.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 11:33 PM
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I’ve heard he’s useful for ppl with PTSD as well
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 10:05 AM
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Even if they did, few women have the physical strength to do any serious harm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/23 09:39 PM
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I can’t wait for the next one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/23 09:53 PM
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We need the Part 2 of 37 truths you were never taught about men. Edit: maybe they’re waiting until Lilith comes back to record it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/22 05:19 PM
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Around 30% of men say that they would rape if they could get away without consequences. And that’s only the ones who would admit it on a survey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/22 05:08 PM
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I always thought the BDSM themes in her music and fashion line were weird. Guess this explains it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/22 05:00 PM
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It’s basically macho bragging rights. You’re more of a man if you can get more extreme things out of a woman. It proves your masculine prowess lol. I hate porn culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/22 02:10 AM
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Exactly. If women were the ones pushing for it they’d call it disgusting and unhygienic and dismiss their partners. It’s only fun when they can force a woman into something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/22 09:01 PM
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Oh that’s why there’s been an influx of weirdos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/22 09:00 PM
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What do you mean by that? Politically we got voting rights and the right to own property/sign contracts. Culturally...we have hookup/porn culture (redundant, sorry). I was also gonna say we have abortion but no. :|
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/22 09:30 PM
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Yes. But in their defense, they were just rebelling against restriction and purity culture. I don’t think they realized then how bad the free love movement was gonna end up. Female sexuality has been so repressed we don’t even know ourselves anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/22 09:11 PM
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Wow, I had no idea there was a name for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/22 08:40 PM
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Yeah they’re salty that we have power over them in that sense, even if it’s just a tiny amount (that expires with age!). They don’t want to be so attracted to and obsessed with the “inferior class” and yet they are. You see it everywhere on Reddit too. They claim we have no value outside of sex and we’re all so boring and have no personality yadda yadda. Distinct type of misogyny, as you said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/22 06:20 PM
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Truly!! How can sane people defend a man who says he wants to rape his ex’s dead corpse? Like wtf is that? Under any other circumstances feminists and even public opinion would hound a man for that kind of remark but when the opportunity to blame a woman presented itself everyone showed their true faces!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/22 05:09 PM
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Yeah it’s been very instructive to the quiet nature of most men’s misogyny. I couldn’t stand the toxicity of the trial and was surprised by how many women (even feminist ones) joined the protect Depp train. I sideeye a lotta people now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/22 03:28 PM
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They understand that porn and women’s sexuality has disproportionate power over them and they’re salty about it. It upsets their ability to feel like they got one over us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 09:22 PM
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Homebody lone wolf? He def LARPs as an INTJ online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 05:51 PM
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Also sounds like he just copy-pasted a Myers-Briggs test result lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 03:07 PM
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Yeah the real underlying theme is misogyny. Whether at the top or the bottom of the pyramid, if he wants to beat women he hates women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 08:09 PM
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I’m so sorry this happened to you. But now you know that your intuition is a powerful thing and that you can listen to it. Congrats on the medical degree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 02:31 PM
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Which, it stands to reason, encourages a culture of retribution against women. Now we can be targeted for abuse and harassment in a brand new way. Have a personal beef with a lady? Report her for having a miscarriage or abortion, little proof necessary. Literally analogous to the European witch trials and how they used accusations of witchcraft to seize women’s property or punish them for personal slights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 09:19 PM
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You’re so right. The scariest part is that these actions are only the tip of the iceberg, and so many people can’t see it coming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 08:57 PM
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Start social networks of mutual abortion aid on the downlow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 08:54 PM
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Great genetics that I want passed onto offspring. Moral backbone, similar values. Hobbies that I think are interesting and can teach me something (I love to learn, please impress me lol). Financial stability is obvious. Ideally, you’ve gone to or are preparing to go to graduate school. I relate to nerds and usually nerds relate to me back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 10:59 PM
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So basically our entire world infrastructure is run by predatory, misogynistic men, and women often lack these skills. Now everything makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 12:07 AM
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She’s actually kinda right, the wealthy almost exclusively marry very thin women. Whether you get that way by genetics or by anorexia is up to you, but eating disorders are rampant in these neighborhoods. If you wanna be a legit gold digger you will never eat properly again lol. Which is exactly why women need to be making their own money and not depending on men. Do your thing and accomplish your dreams so you don’t have to count calories and get negged by a high-income scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 04:57 PM
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This shit. Some of these women I am convinced were diagnosable psychopaths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 06:50 AM
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Or some kinda kink role play on one of those porn subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 02:59 AM
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I’ve even seen social researchers use people’s photos off Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn for studies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 08:15 PM
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Yeah, it sounds like at the very least he wants her to develop one. I’m so glad she’s showing resistance instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 01:05 AM
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Ditto but elementary school. You wouldn’t expect a porn magazine to infiltrate a Scholastic mag aimed at young children and yet......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 09:26 PM
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Valid, lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 09:36 AM
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And the idea that the more time a woman spends on performing beauty standards, the more valuable/expensive she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 09:36 AM
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Take my poor woman’s gold 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:09 AM
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Never forget that one study that showed that when researches tell students ahead of time that girls typically do worse in math, the girls’ scores dropped by something like 50% compared to not being told this. Lemme see if I can find it later
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 06:20 AM
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See: men’s reaction to Timothee Chalamet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 08:19 PM
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Great, so it’s not 90/10. It’s moved down to 75/25. That’s still another part-time job!! All that lost potential income and rest time eating away at women’s health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 04:08 AM
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Female socialization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 10:52 PM
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She’s so eloquent! And yes, I hate cooking and especially baking (gasp) in 2022.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 04:46 AM
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He wouldn’t be able to follow an average woman’s haircare regimen never mind the rest of it. “Just exist” yeah and do all the invisible work you’ve clearly not gotten laid enough to know about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 04:41 AM
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And permanent video evidence of what those men did to them. :|
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:53 AM
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Damn, I went the opposite. From 35-42 day cycles down to 28-32 days :(. But covid vaxx made my periods more bearable, somehow. Less pain, more flow. We need more research!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 07:59 AM
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He tried to underhandedly force her hand by going to a place that would socially pressure (ie bully) her back into her place. Clown indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 03:13 AM
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Including access to our (offline) photos app, so that they can definitely not download our nudes or anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 01:47 AM
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😈😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 03:09 AM
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Yeah, this is why “you’re not like the [women of my race]” is not a compliment from a guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:48 AM
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I get you there, I was that girl beating up boys on the playground in elementary school lolol. In a society where men are both physically and socially privileged, it makes sense that you pick them as a target. You’re punching up, not laterally. It’s more of a challenge. Just be careful about annoying some of their more chivalrous members, they can sometimes make good allies instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:14 AM
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Reaux was right. Use the Jesus card.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:50 AM
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Which also isolates women from each other, forced to pick our tribe’s men over the others’ and never getting the chance to work with the other women. So much innovation and peace is stopped by us being trapped behind warring men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 04:38 AM
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And he’s laughing at the pain and destruction she’s causing to her own life. This is incredibly low-value behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 03:13 AM
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Party hard sis. You deserve it 🎉🎊🎈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 02:46 AM
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Anything to avoid the degradation of the woman’s role. Gotta let her know that you’re above her in the pecking order!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 02:34 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/snr0rf/how_to_win_in_family_court_a_psa_from_a_lawyer/ Same goes with family courts, equally between male and female judges. hope the link works, sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 02:24 AM
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Culturally-induced narcissism in men. We in the west are not immune to this phenomenon!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 02:17 AM
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Yeah, this is a core message in Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Agrov (did I spell her last name right?). Don’t ‘communicate’ with him, just do what you need to do. Most men are too misogynistic for real emotional depth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 02:14 AM
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Yeah, one thing I love about this century is how much we can pick and choose which standards we conform to lol. Our livelihoods don’t depend on male ego anymore, worst they can do is bully us a little.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:27 AM
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I’m seeing this mindset revived on liberal forums and from some fairly respectable platforms now, unfortunately. (Used to be a trad thing mostly.) Every host I know (except for the most staunch feminists) are What About The Men-ing now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 02:18 AM
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God I love Stanzi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 02:01 AM
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It was so disappointing and borderline betrayal trauma-esque to find out how many of my male childhood friends saw me as inferior to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 01:59 AM
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I just realized what this feeling is called. 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 01:34 AM
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I’ll be ready to date when I learn what peace, freedom, and contentedness feel like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 01:32 AM
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The expression on her face makes me think satire lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:48 PM
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Sounds like he was really hoping to guilt her over her past abortion. Really scared he can’t baby trap her now...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:56 PM
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I’m not hopeful about your efforts to “train” men, and I’m Gen Z too. Collective social pressure works better, usually. But I won’t stop you cuz we learn things from talking to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 01:23 AM
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I feel like this is an unspoken rule of female socialization I’ve constantly rubbed up against. I’m an introvert so I often have trouble reciprocating. How do you handle this stuff?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 05:07 PM
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They want an intelligent pack mule, I suspect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 08:57 PM
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Worst of all, they try to sidetrack the careers of female medical students/residents to do this. Imagine working that hard to get into med school and this guy pressuring you into choosing a less competitive specialty so you can wash his socks and fuck him. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 08:51 PM
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Yeah, it’s like she hit a good point with the “your partner can’t meet your every psychological need” message and then veered off in the direction of libfem insanity with the rest of her work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 01:10 AM
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I’m such a big fan of her videos 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 05:30 AM
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Yeah, libfems try to be so noble towards men. So empathetic. We’ll help you by approaching first, paying 50/50, putting out constantly.....and honestly, men don’t even want that shit. They’ll take the free sex and money and still be disappointed because she denied him the ego boost of having to earn a woman’s love/sex/attention/etc. They’ll thank you by thinking you’re defective and calling you a whre behind your back. We gain literally *nothing from approaching men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 01:55 AM
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That and we also insult ourselves. Notice how we can recognize that only misogynists call women masculine, but can’t recognize the sexism in calling men feminine? I don’t mean to be rude or call anyone out but it feels like we’re just making fun of men for not being dominating enough. Why??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 01:47 AM
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My mother, who had a life-long case of pickme-itis, realized a bit too late that FDS is right. She agrees. Most of my friends are lesbians, so they love FDS just because we roast the fuck outta scrotes. I’m still working on converting my straight and bi friends....they have good hearts and wanna be equal/fair to men, but I’m gonna have to spoon-feed them FDS arguments over a long time to make any progress. I think they think we’re too mean. :((
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 02:34 AM
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How are cooking and reading not legitimate hobbies? Scrotacity. Like, tell me you haven’t read a book since middle school without telling me you haven’t read a book since middle school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:40 PM
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It’s sad, because I was a part of the Alita: Battle Angel fan base at that time (another great movie with a great female lead - do recommend) and all the male fans were busy pitting her against Captain Marvel/Brie Larson. It was so incredibly toxic. It’s like they can’t have multiple women in lead roles at the same time - they view 50/50 equality as oppression. (Also I think they’re defensive of Marvel just because it’s always been male-dominated, they believe men are being replaced or whatever.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:41 AM
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Low IQ individual (scrote). And abusive asshole. Girl, run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 01:14 AM
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Wtf is wrong with people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:57 PM
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I’ve never understood that. Why are they like this?? I know part of it is their inability to see women as humans but like, still!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:00 AM
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It’s sad how true this is. We need to evolve men to be better-looking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 09:02 PM
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Parasitically attached to our bodies? That’s one way to think of the nervous system....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 09:00 PM
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A guide to surviving the 21st century ⬆️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 09:00 PM
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Yeah, I got bullied hard when I was underweight too. By a grown ass woman no less They just see a pliable, vulnerable person to victimize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:01 AM
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Co-signed, That Girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 07:21 PM
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Sounds like this is going to be legal evidence in a future court case but okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 06:28 PM
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Yeah dopamine deficiency is a sign of anorexia too, another female-dominated mental illness. (Just to back up your theory.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 04:26 AM
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And only in her early twenties, of course. Legally old enough to fuck but still before she hits cognitive maturity! I’ve started to take those words as an automatic red flag now 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 01:49 AM
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Amen 🙏 God bless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:56 AM
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“What do women bring to the table?” If you’re asking me, why are you even here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:00 AM
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Her face says it all 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 09:33 PM
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Damn, you go sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 11:25 PM
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I think all the processed meat they’re eating is contaminated as hell, not just with glyphosate but microplastics too. Plus, they’re all sitting around all day doing no physical labor to produce testosterone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:04 PM
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Me too, in high school. My body was so traumatized by it that now I struggle to get below 140lbs. It just won’t let me. Now I gotta concentrate on slowly building muscle/strength to improve any further. It’s not healthy for most women to be that lean. (And I feel you on the stomach thing, that was literally the last place on my body to lose weight, even when I was underweight!!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:57 PM
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You’re doing well! Also I share your frustration, sis. I can’t believe I’m still heterosexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:45 PM
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I will simply play dumb fox and pretend not to know what that is. Ask him to explain it. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 04:41 PM
57

I took a women’s self defense class in college and I noticed two things: twine your legs around his to provide resistance (make it harder for him to run/walk) and she had some leverage to turn around and slam her elbows into his head or neck. Not saying she could have won, or that it’s 100% effective, but that’s two helpful instincts to have. Otherwise stun, drop down, and hip-throw if you’re good at it (lift with your hips and right over your head!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:34 AM
22

And don’t let your daughter get bullied off the teams/activities. Talk to your kid, talk to the teacher, even talk to the other kid’s parents. Back your daughter up and believe her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:47 PM
189

Yeah it’s a potential sign of low self-esteem. Women aren’t looking for quantity, we need quality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:38 PM
22

Right! They mean easy to use and doesn’t say no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:13 AM
15

Yeah, it can’t be that the man’s incompetent. It’s his devilish, narcissistic, conniving wife that’s at fault [for whatever we don’t like about him]!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 11:28 PM
57

Fading is even ruder than blocking but at least blocking protects you from ever going back and making stupid mistakes? I feel like this is a safety first kind of thing. I don’t care if some narcissist gets more satisfaction by just ignoring desperate texts. I feel like this is just younger generations growing less and less empathy over time. I’m listening to this, as a Gen Z lady myself: https://www.apa.org/news/podcasts/speaking-of-psychology/empathy-narcissism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 09:08 PM
53

No ma’am. And I never hope to. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 01:44 AM
4

Someone earlier mentioned You’ve Got Mail! as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 01:21 PM
177

I’m worried for the next woman who crosses his path. I bet he won’t make that mistake again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:54 AM
8

It works somewhat but at the level that I’d need to take it for full pain relief, my bowels would just fall out of my abdominal cavity. Really irritating to the guts to have to take four pills at once. That’s why those other meds are so useful - they don’t often have these types of side effects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 09:53 PM
16

It’s the plastic surgery we can’t afford, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 03:15 AM
19

Those are probably the same miserly rich men who try to gold-dig rich women for marriage. And then abuse those women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 01:47 AM
16

Yeah, I realized they saw me with silent contempt. It felt really awful and uncomfortable and I’m still angry. I blocked and deleted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 07:52 PM
55

Yeah, I’ve had this experience before. Usually they do the exact thing they’re trying to justify to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 09:49 PM
27

I never even got meds. 😒 Never going to a male doctor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 03:00 AM
24

As if women’s feelings get respected lol. Besides, it’s other men making male friendships difficult. We didn’t do that to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 01:57 AM
14

This is female DATING strategy not female single forever strategy You can say that again!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 08:30 AM
24

In the USSR they would give them muscle relaxants until they passed away. Same with serial killers. Slow death by drugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:17 AM
12

They can be reversed in the US too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:30 AM
11

Literally did the cost-benefit analysis between hiring a prostitute and buying a ring. Omfg. Well, at least that knife cuts both ways. We ain’t giving it up that easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 06:22 AM
3

This right here. This is the new misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 03:30 AM
18

Seriously. I would immediately dump and block, no hesitation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 02:15 AM
11

It’s also something I heard in a lecture by the Gottmans (professional couples’ psychologists, founders of the Gottman Institute). They met on like the 63rd date during the summer season and instantly clicked, married soon after. It took that many people to find one that they didn’t hate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:51 AM
15

Same. I was the disrupting influence. Kicking boys was my main ambition at the time. x)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 05:05 PM
12

Same, I’m sick of the “girls grow up faster” narrative. I even see liberal men parroting it. It’s a total excuse for their own bratty behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 09:11 AM
4

New goal for 2022 resolutions!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 09:03 AM
17

Mentally unstable and will definitely need you to never question him about anything (that’s what the “liberal” part means).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 07:36 AM
87

I feel like those of us who started off low in agreeableness had that hidden advantage, but patriarchy affects all women no matter who you are. They’ll always beat you down, so you may as well do what you actually want!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 05:56 AM
3

I intend to keep him with formaldehyde. No, I am not taking any questions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:45 PM
8

Expensive necklace? Property maybe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:29 AM
-39

Surprisingly good! Excited to see the premiere of FDS Political Strategy! I only worry about how we’re going to handle conflict and feedback between FDS women in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:40 PM
21

Wow, the downvotes on your nice, supportive comment. Scrotes are legit fuming at this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:40 PM
13

Yeah in my experience tall men feel entitled to put in no effort into their appearance besides being born tall. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:39 PM
13

I love the feeling of deadlifting more than a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 11:17 PM
9

Preach!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:15 AM
53

“Post-nut clarity” is where they realize and choose to do nothing about it because they already got off. Disassociate from what it says about them as people because “porn is natural.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:30 AM
23

This is also a way to abuse and parentify children. It’s not cute no matter who’s doing it to you and you never have to put up with it as an adult. I cannot imagine willingly staying with a person so callous and indifferent to my well-being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:05 AM
2

Handbook-worthy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:14 PM
13

IMO the second one is better. 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 10:55 PM
125

Don’t these scrotes watch enough porn to know what a vulva looks like? They’re ignorant out of spite at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:37 AM
52

I’m pouring the Chambord. Any of you ladies want some?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:43 PM
19

Curry chicken + salad w/green goddess dressing 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:42 PM
27

I’m glad the other commenters are giving him hell for it. Little hope, but some.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 04:49 PM
21

https://youtu.be/g6gm3O2ipfs Not OP but I do like this video by Thais Gibson about limerence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:24 AM
6

Queen shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:48 AM
7

Yes. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:52 AM
75

Disturbing as hell. They would rather die than relinquish their sadistic control over women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 06:57 AM
214

God, I wish I had more resources on this BECAUSE SAME!!!! I’ve gotten yelled at and berated by narcs for not reacting (my mother included). And now men want to talk about how hard it is to not show emotion? Get in line! Nobody was pitying us as a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:06 AM
43

A huge loss for us, I’m sure 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:03 AM
107

They connect degrees with less sex because it’s harder to economically coerce an educated woman into sex she doesn’t want. Liberal “feminism” is trying to close that gap through ideological pressure but we’re not giving in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:01 AM
67

I can’t wait until psychological trauma science catches up with the reality we’ve been living in this whole time. It’s going to be revolutionary to psychology, and maybe society in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 08:03 PM
31

It’s concerning how true that is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:56 PM
64

Or endometriosis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:11 AM
25

Come on, let natural selection do its thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:10 AM
107

This goes for a lot of things in life, I’ve learned since FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:25 PM
103

I remember this tumblr post, it was a good one. The only way to make it fair is to put more pressure on men. They are not entitled to us, relationships with people are a privilege not a right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:21 PM
253

Sounds like he was just salivating at the thought of causing a woman pain. What a creep. I’m so so glad you walked out on his dumb ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:57 AM
63

Ditto for my mother. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 11:44 PM
2

Can confirm, had this happen to me and my mom. Also resentment that they even have to care about making us afraid. It comes off as “oh, those pesky women and their feelings”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 09:43 PM
20

Yup, same. Guess that’s called a “late bloomer” nowadays, but still!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:15 PM
116

Wow, send this guy to talk to libfem pickmes! He really says the quiet part out loud. 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:34 PM
63

Honestly it’s even worse in educated women. I’ve...heard some embarrassing kinkmeisha stories from Ivy League women too. In the case of working class women it would make some sense to be desperate for that second income from a LVM because you’re struggling, but women who don’t even need men? Why??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:48 PM
72

I’ve noticed these stories in the FatFIRE sub too. It’s so disturbing when even high-earning men choose to gold-dig and pimp out their wives to retire early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:46 PM
16

Would you rather find out from here or from personal experience? The collective wisdom of this sub is protective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 06:08 PM
40

Yeah even the empathetic ones are kinda paternalistic and patronizing. I don’t mind the “protect and provide” mantra that much but there’s no such thing as a free lunch with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:03 AM
32

I’d rather die than take some dude’s name, omfg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 01:32 AM
6

Let me guess, it’s a straight road into sex trafficking as well?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 07:04 PM
18

Makes me wonder if it’s infiltration or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 11:59 PM
16

Ethically Non-Monogamous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:51 PM
10

All of it is projection. All of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 05:00 AM
8

Yeah the downvoting seems unnecessary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:31 AM
52

Probably deep attachment issues. Can’t imagine sex without pain/power abuse because they’ve never experienced anything better. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:18 AM
12

Only the most ruthless of gold diggers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:59 PM
29

And that’s what FDS is for. 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:12 PM
87

How stupid do you have to be to think women over 25 are useless? They’re peak material for motherhood. Nobody should raise children before their own emotional and intellectual maturity kicks in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:07 PM
12

Bone broth also helps hair/nails/skin as much as collagen. It’s cheap ($3 for three bones and it‘s a lot of soup!) but you do have to do some work lol. My favorite plus side is that you can eat it with rice noodles and sauce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 08:28 PM
4

Sorry to ask, but a what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 12:51 PM
36

Oh and he bragged about making his wife taking his last name after she said she wouldn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 06:45 PM
11

This is so wholesome for the most part
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 04:50 PM
12

I felt this in my soul. ‘Feminine energy’ is beneath my dignity. I’m not giving my power away to a man, or even pretending to. It’s true that men need to feel useful (we’re still the table they bring things to!) but I’m not gonna stoop to this level. This is advice I’ve been receiving from my misogynist mother since I was a little girl, and I hate it. When your personality is so naturally opposed it actually hurts you. It’s not good advice for women with stronger personalities. I’m not canning/m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:16 PM
45

A secondary emotion, too. They are clearly threatened by something. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 10:02 PM
220

Uhhhh that’s not even normal. Med school is supposed to be about $300-$400k. He must really have been struggling for a whole decade, or he’s hiding some drug debts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:24 AM
26

Oop, someone said it. 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:33 AM
40

This is how I imagine every internet Dom ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:59 AM
4

Stuff like this is why most of my friends are in the LGBT community. I subconsciously couldn’t stand the pickmeism growing up. Pickmes don’t make good friends in general, either. Not to say I blame them, but I do avoid it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:27 AM
9

Same sis. Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:31 AM
72

Usually they find me. I’m an introvert and I always get picked up and carried away by extroverted women and make tons of friends like that. Connectors are a category of people you should seek to be around. They can do the social greasing for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:46 AM
2

Rape is always whatever the other guy is doing and, conveniently, never what I’m doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:20 PM
22

Going to FLUS for advice is an excellent idea. The ladies over there are so helpful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:15 AM
8

Seriously. Your offspring are gonna pay for this pickme garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:31 PM
13

It’s even sadder than that. They just don’t like smart women because it’s harder to dominate them, which is why this “coach” is telling you to pretend to be weaker-minded. Feed his misogynistic desire to conquer and own a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:29 PM
16

I’m actually mad at how much I relate to this. (I don’t have the resources to get counseling yet but it’s definitely on my to-do list.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 06:57 PM
30

His general attitude reminds me of a Neo-Nazi/Alt-Right classmate from my high school. Same mannerisms and contempt for people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 06:59 PM
20

I smell an affair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 05:19 PM
34

Women are expected to behave well and put others first no matter our background. Men don’t do the same level of growth, do they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:55 PM
13

Ikr? Women just get these messages just to sell bs products. They’re not even relevant to what men want!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:20 AM
36

I had cellulite at 17, even while being underweight. Soooo many of the beauty standards we deal with are bogus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:03 AM
116

Mismatched expectations are their own fault but good luck telling them that without getting murdered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 12:53 AM
104

Yeah, we’re getting sexual intercourse. But not orgasms!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 12:49 AM
75

Probably because most anti-trafficking advocates are women. We also make up the majority of lobbyists and on-the-ground workers for this cause. Edit: Oh, and most victims are female, duh lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:21 PM
48

Anybody’s a political activist nowadays, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:18 PM
46

Threatening other women. Classy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:10 PM
9

They’re the female versions of PUA. https://thecoffysalon.substack.com/p/stop-asking-random-people-on-the
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:20 PM
12

Usually the woo community types, actually. It’s a new pseudo-spirituality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:18 PM
33

Might be a kink. :|
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:53 PM
94

Wow this is terrifying. The things they don’t say to your face but think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:56 PM
30

A Deborah Cooper classic strategy. I do it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 02:03 AM
27

Armed and ready. Also: I love your profile picture!!! Hi fellow FiXT fan!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:27 AM
34

My life struggle right there. If you’re not constantly performing emotional labor for everyone around you, you’re a stuck-up bitch and it’s justified to treat you poorly. Earn your male approval, lady!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:16 AM
57

Yes!! It also sounds hella stigmatizing that any time a man does something bad everyone’s like “oh he’s autistic/low EQ and that’s the problem!!” It’s gonna contribute to even worse public perceptions of autism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 12:51 AM
66

I got harassed by a leftie man on the spectrum in college. He was clever and socially aware enough to do it when no one was around and pick the easiest victim. He knows wtf he’s doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 12:49 AM
2

So less than 3% are done by women? But women are just as bad! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 06:09 AM
1

Yeah.....I agree with your last paragraph there. That’s actually a pretty good representation for the average guy, just with even less control over himself. Lack of impulse control is the sign of a psychopath, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:00 AM
5

Lowkey I completely agree. We are not magical healer pixie dream girls. Whether that comment was sarcastic or not it’s still not the vibe for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:46 AM
17

Imagine giving birth to your own murderer. I shuddered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:43 AM
237

Yeah we need the media to start covering it honestly. These dudes were already violent to women before they shot up random strangers. It’s not “guns and mental health”, it’s male violence and entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:45 PM
36

Or, dare I say, male violence 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:34 PM
124

Yeah, just make up a fake age and location and stick to it. People be fucking crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:47 PM
45

“It comes as the National Crime Agency (NCA) warns that at least 300,000 people in the UK pose a sexual threat to children as paedophiles look to exploit the coronavirus lockdown.” Great time to stay single, ladies. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 10:19 PM
30

I love being subbed to FDS because I get to see brilliant posts like this on the daily, just delivered right to my feed. Sis you’ve really done the work here 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 12:47 AM
3

At best, keep the entertaining ones in a cage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:54 PM
2

So basically, he’s suggesting women everywhere carry rifles, tranquilizer guns, and keep men nearly tucked in jail cells at all times? Okay. Yeah. We can do that 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:50 PM
31

Honestly, society can make me keep quiet about this. I’ll mind my own business. But it still can’t make me date them. 😂 Nope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:43 PM
4

Yeah if I had to bet my own money, I’d say he already has it on his computer in a hidden folder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:34 PM
17

The unfortunate 15-30% of us that experience pain with penetration. My vagina is so small even menstrual cups feel like torture devices; I can’t use them. Pencil dick is actually my preference because it can reach from certain positions but never stretch me past my comfort zone. Come talk to me instead, boys! LOL 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:07 AM
53

Porn just gives us women insight into how they view us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 05:09 AM
17

Right. And some things are scarring for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:31 PM
24

Uh, what about her mental health while raising a grown man??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:27 AM
23

Right! If she had set off the smoke detectors she likely would have been woken up by them, that’s why they exist. She didn’t need his “help” to catch it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:27 PM
29

For real! She’s exhausted! Nobody thinks straight after working 80 hours a week. Give her a damn break, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:13 PM
2

Seconded!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 08:20 PM
3

Same, I had PTSD flashbacks lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:48 PM
5

Oof, that rings so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 10:38 PM
4

Same. I feel so sad seeing the parallels between here and my family life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 08:18 AM
3

I almost tested up. You put into words exactly what I’ve been feeling this whole time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 08:17 AM
3

That’s so bizarre because I’m Gen Z and even I remember when feminism was anti most of this stuff. As recent as my teenage years, most of what passes for liberal feminism nowadays would have been roundly criticized. Naomi Wolf didn’t publish her books that long ago. They have severe historical amnesia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 08:14 PM
55

“A woman is beaten every nine seconds in this country. Just to be clear: not nine minutes, but nine seconds. It’s the number-one cause of injury to American women; of the two million injured annually, more than half a million of those injuries require medical attention while about 145,000 require overnight hospitalizations, according to the Center for Disease Control, and you don’t want to know about the dentistry needed afterwards. Spouses are also the leading cause of death for pregnant women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:47 PM
27

Same!! People have called me weird for preferring evening showers but I’m like....you really bring gym sweat, pollution, and office grime into your bedroom every night?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 05:07 PM
7

God I love TikTok FDS queens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 04:10 PM
29

I stopped reading at “31 year old man.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:07 AM
7

I love your username.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:55 PM
33

Same, the only time I really got attention and dating offers are when I was so skinny I lost my period. Men have no idea what healthy female bodies actually look like. They don’t care either. I feel your pain sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 09:14 PM
5

Yeah it’s the same mistake radfems made with the Heritage Foundation. Leftists are just gonna have another reason to dismiss us as alt-right infiltrators or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:41 PM
7

They’d rather lose their life than their “masculine pride.” Well, if the scurvy doesn’t take them out first, I say let them win their Darwin Award.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 07:52 PM
12

Exactly. That domestic labor leash makes it harder for women to get education, advance in careers, or establish independence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:24 PM
3

This is so true. I went to school with trust fund kiddies and they just coasted into Ivy League acceptance. These people do not work seriously (their parents might, though).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:10 PM
1

And projecting this fact onto us is the foundation of patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 08:20 PM
1

6am to 12-1am here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 08:09 PM
12

I think about this all the time. Most Americans are living paycheck to paycheck, these scrotes probably aren’t due to inherit a whole ass trust fund. Life’s gonna kick their ass. If we think they’re violent and abusive now, wait until reality sets in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 08:06 PM
36

The confidence of a mediocre white man 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:20 PM
18

From now on I assume when men say foodie they mean they expect you to cater to their sophisticated tastes, but themselves can’t even bake chicken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:16 PM
1

I can’t wait to see future Tolkien HVM posts and pickme dissections! These are really enjoyable to read!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 06:35 AM
18

God I love Chris Fleming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:58 AM
8

Permamood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 11:47 PM
30

God I fell for that stuff so hard. It’s especially bad when you’re lovesick because of being unloved. FDS is sobering in realizing that most men are incapable of love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 11:44 PM
31

Damn right! A rational society would be organized around women and children, not around men. It’s on them to prove their usefulness to us (the tribe), not the other way around. Patriarchy is a subversion of reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:23 PM
21

Yeah, check the “evil cackle” award some incel gave to this post. They’re all laughing about violence against women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 08:27 PM
21

They definitely heard me laughing 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 12:59 AM
243

Thanks, my entire neighborhood heard me today 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:10 PM
518

My grandfather told my grandma straight to her face that he believed “women aren’t people.” Welp. He has her deceived until that moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:14 AM
5

I’m so excited for your next chapter. This is incredible 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:12 AM
1

Yeah Tolkien would be staunchly anti-porn. Think of contemporary anti-porn Christian activist groups (like FTND).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:16 AM
1

So glad to see other Tolkien fans in the community!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:14 AM
2

Yeah seriously!! Running off to get your dick wet as soon as your ex wife is in the ground is NOT HV. Mourning period my ass, elves don’t remarry. He caused all that familial tension when he couldn’t keep it in his pants. And the way Tolkien portrayed Miriel as submissive and APOLOGETIC for being unable to sate his appetite for more sons is just despicable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:49 AM
38

It’s honestly so heartbreaking. When you’re competing against a man, you’re often competing against him AND all the women behind him empowering him and making his daily life easier. We as women often have no one in our corner. And this is equality? We get neglected to the point of failure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:07 AM
9

That and the shitiness of western men’s sperm. Like, the whole world is dealing with pollution and global warming, yet we’re the only ones with decreased sperm count? Maybe it’s actually lifestyle factors contributing. 👀 like, shockingly, a steady porn and Cheetos diet ain’t good for the swimmers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 04:47 PM
1

This is true! Also tragic in my case, cuz my dad was an actual genius. 😂 Wish I could have the brains of the men in my family instead of their stupid looks. But nature said no xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:10 PM
11

Several times over! Make sure he really knows what he’s talking about!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:17 PM
5

It’s the female version of “you’re so mature for your age!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:05 AM
8

This proved true in an ex-friend of mine!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:01 AM
41

Please accept my poor woman’s gold. 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 04:20 PM
103

Tell them this way: men will never menstruate or give birth, breast feed, or deal with constant threat of rape in general society. That’s what they pay for. All the labor and sacrifice that it takes for a woman to even get to this point. Don’t forget to mention the career sacrifices she may have to make it she wants kids. Men are biologically privileged. Asking them to pay some bills is just self-defense on our part. 50/50 doesn’t make men any less controlling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 04:19 PM
167

Yeah, enjoy being some man’s masturbation facilitator and risking STD’s to do it. 🙄 Think I’ll pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 09:47 PM
10

I love how they admit it’s the “pro male vandetta.” Helpful to remember the next time they gaslight you about “equality.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 07:24 PM
28

Same. There’s nothing more boring in life than doing the same chores day in and day out. That being your life sounds like the fifth layer of hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:16 PM
21

Who else wants her as mother-in-law? Just me? Okay. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:04 AM
17

The accuracy, sis 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:48 AM
21

Fucking seriously? For all of my efforts I’m still 9/200 safe? 5%? That’s disturbing af. I wish they had told us this in health classes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:15 AM
16

Even worse, in the olden days they’d kidnap and rape wealthy widows. Men are far more pathetic than regular gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:53 PM
35

Wtf. Vagina is one of my favorite books. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:42 AM
97

Same!! Wtf happened to us? I feel like we got the easy way out cuz when I was a teen I think you could reasonably get away with lower social media consumption. Nowadays social media basically raises children. I don’t exactly identify as a millennial but I feel like this generation is enduring something I did not. Plus, you and I knew the old internet. Flash games. Anonymous chat rooms. Early Facebook. These kids don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:39 AM
138

Only after being on FDS for years have I realized that this is because they don’t want their own poor dietary choices pointed out by stark contrast. Eat that burger with him so he doesn’t feel bad about it! All ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:21 PM
19

Exactly. Real biology says we get the most resources passed down, we’re the center of the lineage, and we are the sexual choosers. LVM shouldn’t even exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:51 AM
97

“Good.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:45 PM
5

Okay but, missionary at 8pm is also enjoyable af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:36 PM
10

Don’t forget, every 7-10 years you need them replaced because of leaks, cancer risk, or they just expire. And when you eventually get them taken out, you’ll need reconstructive surgery for your now-deflated breasts because the skin stretches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:23 PM
12

Exactly. If it were really needed, there’d be cries from MRA’s about how unfair it is that women monopolize this activity and how we’re keeping the poor menz oppressed by not letting them dominate it (like with school performance, for instance).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:11 PM
13

Not OP but yeah it’s completely infuriating!!. So much so that I’m extra motivated to not wear it, if only out of spite for the sexism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:48 PM
7

Right?? And I’ve been in some toxic communities, this ain’t it. FDS is the chillest sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:22 PM
43

I had a friend like that in college. She had BPD, eating disorders, and a whole litany of trauma about her. It’s sad to watch someone do that to themselves. And libfems will straight up tell you “don’t judge, she’s expressing her sexuality!” Like I might not be judging, but that’s clearly self-harm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:18 AM
18

I wish this had been explained to me in health class when I was a teenager. I had no idea what those vaccines were for. Coulda scared me straight away from boys just knowing they can unknowingly murder me with cervical cancer, while showing no symptoms!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:12 AM
11

Andrea Dworkin!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:34 PM
33

So basically, now we have to be the performing monkey and please him with our achievements on top of performing femininity? What a fucking joke. Men and their bullshit are a fucking JOKE. Back then we just had to be pretty, now we have to be pretty and a CEO and cure cancer. Fuck these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:33 PM
34

This is why shelters and separatism are really important. We need to be watching out for ourselves and our own families/children first. Less worrying about shacking up with men, more making sure we have access to resources.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:55 AM
15

That’s completely fair. ‘Girly-fat’ on the other hand is a uniquely disturbing type of laziness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:22 AM
16

This!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:16 AM
10

Man, I feel bad for their wives. I wouldn’t want to stay with that kinda man either 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:15 AM
22

That and it’s physically harder for us to keep muscle because we need more time to train and estrogen aids in the breakdown of muscle tissue. And men spent so much of the last decade making fun of women for being “cardio bunnies” and calling it not real exercise, whereas most women are just following their biological inclination towards endurance exercise. They bullied us outta the weight room too. But expect a ballerina with a Kim Kardashian ass? I HATE these double standards!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:48 AM
6

Hope this talk is still gonna be around when me and my friends are raising daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:16 AM
7

Gorgeous, queen!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:46 AM
90

Exactly. 💯 These two things are the universal sign of a woman who doesn’t degrade herself for patriarchal standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:13 PM
17

Hints? He was throwing torpedoes! 🚀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:14 PM
30

Damn, the predatory nature of that too. This isn’t just some casual philosophic disagreement or devil’s advocacy, like men make it out to be. He deceived you and then started abuse tactics with a 180. Sociopathic, like this girl said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:08 PM
28

There’s no price point to your dignity tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:04 PM
3

This is a mood right here! 👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:08 PM
8

Preach! 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:55 PM
7

Just came out of the shower. I’m going back in 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:22 PM
12

I want her second lecture on “that topic for another day”!! Something tells me it’s gonna be brilliant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:00 PM
34

I love anti-kink memes. This is some good shit!! 💯💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:13 PM
2

Dating apps are like a trip to Mordor. All you see are orcs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:49 PM
22

Yeah I mistook it for a compliment the first time I heard of it xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:47 PM
1

Late reply but congrats to your mom!! I wish her luck and blessings for her upcoming finals!! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:31 PM
27

Glad I’m not the only one who thought this way 👀 It was my de facto policy lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:25 PM
4

Don’t worry, some of us are on here 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:53 PM
3

Time to go subscribe to this Queen’s channel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:09 PM
42

And they automatically assume they’d be the hot one if they were female. Newsflash: if you ain’t a millionaire chad in this life, chances are you wouldn’t be Megan Fox in your next life as a woman either. 😂 (stupid metaphor but they can’t think right anyway)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:42 AM
86

Every time I hear someone complain about “cancel culture” and other shit about freeze peach, I have to roll my eyes. It’s normal for human beings to get offended when moral boundaries get seriously crossed. That’s the price of having morals. Are these people who are supposedly, magically, never offended by anything in life fucking psychopaths?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:49 AM
68

I hate Vice so much. It’s libfem and kinkmeisha hell. But the more eyes we get from there, the (probably) better. We may actually be able to help some questioning liberal feminists verbalize the reservations they’ve had this whole time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:56 AM
35

Then fathers and boyfriends are the biggest misandrists ever! They wouldn’t be telling us not to hang out with men they don’t know if they didn’t think it was a risk of some sort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:58 PM
15

And 50/50 not getting hired for jobs because you may need maternity leave, and may need a day off for a harsh period cycle... or supposed PMS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 01:41 AM
39

The beauty of FDS 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:52 AM
3

Ugh, I really needed to hear this. I’ll definitely be working on it. Lifting the cloud of past expectations from my head one sq cm at a time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:38 PM
50

This woman is brilliant and also 100% correct. She said what I’ve been scared to say...romance is just the lie they fed you to keep you under their boot. Most men are incapable of love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:34 PM
18

Or the analysis/breakdowns of it done by Psychology in Seattle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:44 AM
133

Yeah, men and their stupid strong arms and large comfy torsos 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:09 AM
18

The paradox of tolerance. We have to pay with our safety to appease foreign men before...protecting ourselves?? What a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:39 AM
27

I came here to talk about this too. Wtf is he doing calling women who aren’t.....hyperfeminine or high achievers “undeserving and underperforming”? Someone needs to check him, I’m sorry but where do you get off on talking about women like that? Who made him the arbiter of womanhood?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:04 AM
9

I read his comment and thought Your sentence structure is poor. Maybe your comment went ‘over my head’ too because it was boring. What were you saying?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:37 PM
20

It’s scary how accurate this is. We should never call it stupidity when it’s really malice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 05:45 AM
15

Oh seriously!! It felt awful from the beginning! I can’t stand the idea of introducing myself with a selfie and a short line! No high value person enjoys that experience. It feels objectifying as hell. I wouldn’t go on there expecting anything, and I deleted months ago. Can’t even look at it without vomiting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 05:12 AM
10

And that’s just the 80% that admit it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:33 AM
5

I know that reference 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:37 PM
3

I feel you sis. My mother did this to me, and it still doing it now. But listen, women manage to look good even despite stress. We’re given the gift of endurance, and longer life. You’re probably nowhere near as bad as you think you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:34 AM
10

We gotta start mass buying lotas. We can do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:54 AM
16

Bro, just use a bidet. Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:19 AM
7

Exactly. This is the bootstrap theory of beauty culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:43 AM
4

Or a sugar daddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:42 AM
7

Or the rotten cantaloupe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:37 AM
4

At least this one’s actually handsome 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:30 AM
12

You’re putting into words why I hate this figure of speech. Thank you for that. It’s always rubbed me the wrong way....like who are you to judge someone for being abused, scrote? Where’s your empathy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:24 AM
3

Oh you are absolute GOALS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:22 AM
12

Yeah, this stuff should be mandated reporting to the family/potential victims. How fucking scary would this be to find out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:20 AM
7

Controversial opinion but I agree as well. Moral quality party passes down the generations. If sociopathy is 40-50% genetic, then I’m guessing empathy is too. Everyone I know who’s a great person had to make that choice for themselves, whether they’re in bad circumstances or great ones. And trust me, I’ve seen men raised by HV parents turn out to be sexist scum (thanks, porn and video games) as well. It’s demoralizing if you think about it too much haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:18 AM
14

I’ve been waiting for this post 😁😁😁 I was hoping more women would get into this stuff!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:11 AM
31

PREACH. Weak women raise weak children with and without weak men. It’s a plague on society and I won’t shut up about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:43 AM
12

Discernment should be a woman’s top priority and quality in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:33 AM
4

Happy cake day btw!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:33 AM
12

How do libfems not realize this is inevitable? People already go through their college careers without paying for textbooks because of free PDFs online. And they think a naked selfie taken by a random college girl will successfully be kept off the rest of the internet? They don’t have the copyright power of a large corporation, and even those cops get fucked with free internet content. How is it not clicking??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:53 AM
7

Yup. That’s what the average porn star’s life is gonna be after three months. Just three months. I’ve been in quarantine longer than their careers will last.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:48 AM
38

This is unironically how my family works. I was raised by a multi-generational “clan” of women, some of whom had been friends since elementary school, and a nanny once in a while. Women from my culture often just have an assumption that men shouldn’t do domestic work, so don’t even try co-parenting with them. I was insulated from males during my childhood and I highly recommend it. Missed out on a lot of abuse because my father and grandfather had the decency to go no-contact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:34 PM
1

That happens for so many things. A lot of people could benefit from somatic therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:36 PM
10

I’ve actually seen this happen before. It’s not even HALFWAY a joke. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:21 PM
6

Galentine’s Day mood!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:09 PM
41

Basically, it’s what your mom did for you when you were three. If you can handle that, we look at your morals. Doesn’t sound so scary now, does it, incels?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:24 AM
23

Let’s make it happen!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:21 AM
36

That was my first thought too! No way they’re actually this stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:08 PM
30

Already looking for a maid for old age, hm?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:28 AM
8

And most of them do a shitty job of raising their kids. I’ve never met a single or divorced father who need how to properly cook a nutritious meal or wash a dish regularly. One used his only daughter as a selfless, agreeable, surrogate mother for his son instead of paying the (ample) money he had for a nanny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:47 AM
4

💯 Because denying a man vagina is a violation of human rights 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:03 PM
201

Wow, look at the reasons men will toss their girlfriends. Yet we’re the bitches for being selective on things like health and hygiene? Boy, I...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 02:04 AM
147

It literally would be! At least kids are cute and like to learn and grow. Scrotes become uglier and more degenerate every year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 12:42 AM
14

I had to stop the video 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:59 PM
23

This is what they should’ve shown us in grade school 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:48 PM
23

She’s the literal definition of “aged like wine.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:28 AM
20

That’s a new meaning to “over my dead body” 🙃 Bastard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:23 PM
149

Just like in the old days when men used to breed women to death and immediately find a new young wife to repeat the process. Nothing has changed for 700+ years!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:11 PM
12

Oof. There it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 05:19 AM
21

So much truth about kink here. The most sex-pozzie woman I know from college has multiple traumas and a history of self-harm, especially sexual self-harm. Her current Dommy McDomerson bf has the facial expressions of a malignant narcissist. I was under so much ideological pressure to support her lifestyle that I just couldn’t take it anymore and ended the friendship. Same thing happened with another girl I met who led sexual health workshops, a history of rape and emotional abuse. I’m still sorr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 02:08 AM
5

What does “a woman’s natural femininity” mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 06:47 PM
38

Yeah, I’m your age and just realized that dating really isn’t for me. It’s awkward as hell, and I don’t even remotely wanna pretend that chewing food with strangers in an overly formal setting puts me in a good mood. If some man falls outta the sky for me, great. Until then, I’m planning my life around my career goals (which I’m still finding out obvs) and that’s that. Cheers to our twenties!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 05:16 AM
11

God, the FDS Twitter is killing it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 12:44 AM
39

Shout it from the rooftops!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:05 PM
16

You’re a 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:52 PM
24

At the expense of my career and emotional stability? Boy you are DREAMING!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 04:51 AM
20

I was wondering if anyone was gonna say this. Im not even 25 yet and still wouldn’t fuck a 20yo. These men are cradle-robbers. At 25 you’re years into working, possibly graduated college, now thinking about marriage/kids down the line. A 20yo is just trying to survive classes and basic life skills. Tf is this “relationship” Edit: and only one of them has a fully-formed brain!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:43 PM
17

Please post this separately!! There’s so much wisdom in this comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 09:22 PM
48

This is real queen shit. One day, I can’t wait until I’m you. 👏🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:51 PM
1

Ahahaha yeah that completely anonymous chatting app that allows un-trackable deletes? I wonder what that could be for /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:26 AM
6

I was gonna ask FDS this. When I do get into grad school, that’s where I thought the best potential was. Y’all are probably right though. Lord knows what’s gonna happen afterwards. Ppl need that money from their first substantial salaries for personal development, you learn a lot about yourself that way. That’s where the relationship probably splits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:04 AM
30

Any line mentioning “fun” or “good time” basically translates to “suck my dick” on OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:02 AM
1

Let’s see these posts here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:47 AM
17

Theory: I guess when you’re that rich you understand that in a capitalist society, money is the ultimate power. You can make just about anything happen, so that’s why everyone around you becomes a tool. I bet it’s a weird birds-eye view of society for them. Anything and anyone can be adjusted to suit their needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:47 AM
7

Same 100%. Facial harmony>sex appeal any day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:54 AM
28

Exactly. Choices aren’t made in a vacuum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:42 AM
56

Are they really though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:29 AM
18

No, I fucking hate penetration. 70% of women can’t come from it, probably barely even like it. It’s such a porn trope that women just need a good dick 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:48 AM
12

True! I can’t wait until I’m much wiser, and richer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:11 AM
7

This is the best comment!! Not all women are worth having “unity” with. LVW aren’t gonna see this comic and go “I’ll stop bullying other women now, thanks! 😊”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:19 PM
5

Not excusing an NLOG attitude, but this comes off as victim-blaming. School bullying (by other girls) is a serious issue that actually does create serious psychological harm for some women. It’s not all stuck-up brats who succumb to this mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:08 PM
8

I’ll be honest, this is a problem almost every woman has. I hate how much women in the feminist movement downplay the way women victimize each other in this sense. My bestie was taken for a ride by a group of very emotionally manipulative women and used for money, recently. And this goes unchecked. You have a reason for being unable to make friends, and it’s not all in your head. These trust issues don’t come from nowhere. I, for one, believe you and think that this needs to be talked about more…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:19 AM
9

Seconded. 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:50 PM
13

Ohhhh I remember that slump I went through when I was exactly your age. Here’s my advice: take those free 8 weeks of therapy you get in college, and use them. Talk about your feelings on this topic exactly. They’ll help you settle that. (Also, personally I had undiagnosed PTSD back then and I wish I had caught it earlier. So there’s that screening too lol.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:44 AM
14

Finally. The kind>nice movement is gaining traction. And omg, some of the other articles I just read on this PS I Love You site are AMAZING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:56 AM
6

Everything I read about in this sub sounds like projection. Ugly men deflate the self esteem of young women. BDSMers call everyone boring. Cheaters accuse you of cheating. It all sounds exhausting tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:14 PM
5

This is some Role Reversal shit LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:39 PM
19

Damn, this was intense. Thank you for sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:24 PM
13

I feel you on this, I’m a future plastic surgery customer as well. Also have feminist beliefs. But I’m sick of suffering for my appearance, and I was a perfectionist to begin with. At the end of the day, if we lived in a sane world we wouldn’t be doing this. But we live in hell world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 06:50 PM
9

Let’s be real, he can’t even get his dick up anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:52 AM
4

Fingers crossed!! 🤞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:49 AM
3

He should be forced to give his money back to society. What an incredible waste of space. Imagine the talent we could have funded with those millions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:48 AM
25

Holy hell can I relate. Hijacking top comment to say that this is how my mother raised me. Inaction is 100% a method of control, and I wish I had heard that phrase ten years ago. If I didn’t hate her so much, I wouldn’t hate these men as much as I do though, to be honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:27 AM
9

That and also it’s a marker of social status, and it’s something new and adult for them to explore. Because sex education is lacking, they have no idea wtf they’re stepping into and...boom, problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 04:33 AM
14

Yeah! It feels a bit lonely being a youngin’ here sometimes 😆 Let’s get those post-covid jobs and degrees tho!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 04:09 AM
19

On an emotional level, this sub has taught me how satisfying it is to take my power back by ignoring such men and quickly moving onto other things. I have the POWER to leave this situation, and you can’t stop me. How’s that feel, scrote?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:22 AM
5

Unrelated, but happy cake day OP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 02:18 AM
44

People aren’t even nice enough to ask sometimes. They just glare from the side of the room. One guy had a look of “I bet she’s a total bitch” on his face while I was sitting around doing my homework in a lab.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:18 AM
21

We’re expected to never just take ourselves seriously and work. We have to always be performing emotional labor for everyone, no matter what else in on our plate. Never a minute’s peace from being sickly sweet and nurturing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 06:08 AM
198

How much do we wanna bet it’s projection?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:37 AM
48

And why would you stick your dick in an immature woman? Live with your decisions, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:36 AM
31

This is some reverse psychology bullshit lmao. He really thinks he’s just gonna string her along for a few decades until a skinny 22yo virgin magically falls into his lap, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 04:02 AM
5

I mean, with insurance that’s like...10 sessions of therapy. It’s sure a start!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:18 AM
38

It’s called Stochastic Terrorism. They keep poking each other in the ribs about it and saying someone should do something until they find a man (or woman, in this case) mentally ill enough to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:10 AM
21

Are you serious? Is that what the damage was? (Besides the poor glass doors lmao)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:09 AM
34

You’re in for a good time. Dwork it! ✔️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:04 AM
55

Ohhh that makes so much sense. That’s why it’s so toxic on r relationships. It keeps gaslighting the women into believing they’re suffering from misunderstanding when in fact these men are malicious. Sorry for my redundancy, but your comment just set off the alarm bells.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:55 PM
118

Even before FDS that phrase pissed me off. Don’t wanna match my energy? Get in the dust bin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:10 PM
6

Wow, that’s even lower than I first assumed. There’s no bottom in this barrel is there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:48 AM
27

Seriously! My mother and I have this conversation on a daily basis now. What did we immigrate here to accomplish, exactly? More political violence?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:46 AM
73

“Oh the bank is still processing payment...give it a few days.” 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:44 AM
48

Honestly there’s way too many secret Trump supporters out there. I think an ex-friend of mine was too. You gotta watch out for someone just going with the flow vs showing their actual beliefs. 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:43 AM
9

Neither? I’m not the type to pursue things just by following physical responses. Clear a minimum bar physically, and I’m good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:17 AM
148

As a college-age woman, I....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:55 AM
81

“”Kink””
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:28 AM
47

This is what submission doctrine does to women. What a loser than man child is. I hope he drops dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:08 AM
40

Going to work is LOWER than the bare minimum. Last I checked, women go to work too. It’s like bragging about wiping your ass or brushing your teeth. You’ve done nothing to impress a lady by holding down a 9-5, because you’d already had that job before she came along, and you’d still have it after she leaves your dumb ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:03 AM
49

Even going to the gym won’t save them. Men in their forties have the T-cell activity of women in their eighties. Even worse in Western countries and with shitty lifestyles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:36 AM
5

I want to know if she has other social media! Lemme look. Found: https://instagram.com/thelucy.a?igshid=k79se7fslo11
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:31 AM
58

And who knows? Maybe the risk of catching STD’s is the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:29 AM
20

Yeah I benefited a lot from seeing reality here. I’d rather read it on FDS than experience it firsthand. 😅 Not saying it should be 90% of the sub or anything, but it helps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:11 AM
10

Well that’s disturbing. Here I was thinking 30 is the way to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:39 AM
3

What is this body language?? I’ve never seen an adult gesture this awkwardly before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 08:18 PM
1

Followed. Imani has a really impressive page!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:58 AM
2

No, they take all the shit when they’re married. They can be very shrewd about dating, though. Gotta get a man, you know? There’s stiff competition because men die early or got sent to war lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:36 AM
2

I’m basic so the only one I can think of off the top of my head is How to be a Heartbreaker by Marina & the Diamonds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:33 AM
4

And can be entirely prevented by not sticking your dick into random women you don’t like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:31 AM
6

I fucking LOVE Little Mix. Idc if that makes me basic as shit, they’re chicken soup for the soul. Same with Icon For Hire. Wholesome music ftw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 12:53 AM
6

Pickmeisha levels are off the chart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:31 PM
10

Kick him in the nuts next time he makes one of those jokes. You’re better than him and you’re gonna find someone more worth your time, whether that’s you or a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 08:20 PM
52

Especially pathetic considering men get paid more. He knows he’s shit, even with male privilege he couldn’t get one over you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:17 PM
20

But they’ve been looking at these girls since they were 13. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:20 AM
24

Why do we finish puberty earlier when we’re the ones who have to do the most reproductive work? Is it to make it easier us to bear children earlier? Is it because we’re smaller? Or is it a byproduct of years of patriarchy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 02:46 AM
42

He could be a millionaire and I’d still tell him to stick his dick in a dead pig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:23 AM
66

Really brilliant point. And then if his mystery, perfect Slavette tracksuit babe above 5’4” comes to him, he’ll still find something nonexistent wrong with her and ruin her self-esteem. He’s literally the definition of Forever Alone. I’m so glad to be on FDS and be wiser to this bullshit thanks to y’all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:28 AM
35

If he’s 21 then I’m 3,281.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:26 AM
5

That’s a hazardous dumpster fire if I’ve ever seen one. Somebody call OSHA. I love his audacity to have this many qualifications and not explain even a little why he deserves them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:25 AM
4

Jesus yeah, same. And my bff cleared her lists too. There’s so many gossips out there to watch out for, especially on social media. I feel so much better now that I’ve blocked and ghosted a whole slew of assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:21 AM
7

;-; I love your dad, internet stranger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:10 AM
42

The only feminist porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:09 AM
32

Weak ass motherfuckers. I only puke and pass out from my period. What kinda design made them that fragile 24/7?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:04 AM
5

Call of Dusty more like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:15 PM
7

Honestly, the love for my best friend will be much deeper and more honest than love with any man. I never understood this as a child but I get it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:06 AM
10

Some didn’t even vet for health conditions properly either. My BFF was born with a bunch of lifelong problems from idiot sperm donor. :/ That was decades ago though, so....maybe it’s better now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:22 AM
31

Lmao, I score a big fat 0 in Agreeableness in almost every measure I take. I love it. I wish more women were like me. It doesn’t always have financial benefits, but it definitely keeps the LVM away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:34 AM
5

Last comment is a Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:30 AM
17

Yeah, and they probably find our disgust with this amusing. No empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:32 PM
8

Seconding this underrated comment. I’ve seen this before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:09 AM
51

Imagine how embarrassed you’d be to be seen in public with a silicone male doll with a constant erection. I don’t understand how these men have literally no self-awareness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:02 AM
23

Imagine being a grown man, a potential father, and bowing to your mother like that when she disrespects your wife. NEVER fuck with a momma’s boy!!!!! I woulda thrown hands that day 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:59 AM
6

Even more reasons for me to grow some ovaries and apply to a master’s program.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:19 AM
4

But muh free choice, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:08 AM
3

Joke’s on them, I met my best friends only at 14. I was bullied for long before that by gossipy girls, but these foundational friendships have stayed. I couldn’t recommend this any more. Nobody’s gonna love you more than your parents (lmao, not in my house) and your girlfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 10:57 PM
54

“Make me cum.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:45 PM
8

What a dirty, disgusting gift. He’s staking his ownership over her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:43 PM
1

I instantly know I’m gonna see a good take when the woman has a Baba Yaga handle/username
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:12 AM
5

I love this multi-tweet rant. She’s really empathetic and casual-worded about it. It’s a really good message. I’m saving it for reference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:50 AM
1

This is indeed very wholesome content. 10/10
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:59 AM
17

And gets regular raises. Let’s play a guessing game of who he’s trying to charm 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:51 AM
9

God I’m sorry. If it makes you feel better, I was equally naive and sexually confused at 16 too. I wish we had a FDS-supporting woman in our lives at that age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:46 AM
6

That’s such a privileged thing to say. 100% guarantee someone thinking a 16yo prostitute is okay hasn’t been a prostitute themselves, or is a pimp. I bet none of these libfems will ever face a choice between sucking dick and starving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:44 AM
8

God, you’re describing my dream mate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:01 AM
12

Yeah same! It’s all growing on me though. I think being able to just imagine it in your head more clearly over time really helps to crystallize the concepts. Like, the fact that a date should be setting a mood and improve my opinion of you, and a coffee shop can’t do that, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:26 AM
3

True. I’m reading through the HVW parts of the handbook again and I seriously wonder how far we need to go and how much is pushing too far and into insecurity territory. It’s just giving me stress lmao, which I know was not their intention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:18 AM
22

FDS is going to work where liberal feminism failed. Just watch. We out-strategize, we out-philosophize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:51 AM
4

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:38 AM
11

The male audacity I’m reading on this sub is life-altering. I can’t believe y’all suffered this much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 11:51 PM
61

I chalked it up to reproductive coercion when I first heard about it. I read in Loving to Survive that 70% of het women consent to regular sex just purely on the idea that it’s expected to them in marriage. As for your friends, probably baby traps so that they have a place to stay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:34 AM
6

I hate it when men say that. She is prioritizing you by raising your child, and keeping your home running. You think she does that for shits and giggles??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:27 AM
5

At this level, doctors should be able to declare brain death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:39 AM
11

Honestly my mother is 55 and still looks 40. If she lost weight she’d be able to date around. I’m not worried at all. Makes me extra bitter about all the emphasis on women to use anti-aging products when it’s men who hit The Wall™️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:44 AM
3

I assume because they have some experience with LVM jackhammer sex and think that adding kinks into the mix is gonna make it less bland. Then they go on to develop porn addictions, get conditioned into enjoying violence during sex, and that becomes a permanent fix for them. The LVM-to-kink pipeline IMO. (Also, pressure from libfems to be “open-minded” aka serve men)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:59 PM
22

Probably under the idealistic assumption that men in that age range are more mature and ready for fulfilling relationship. They’re too young to know that a grown man matching with an 18yo is gonna give her anything but.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:38 AM
206

Can confirm, it’s true. When I got to America (many years ago lol) I thought it was incredibly insulting to my intelligence that women were supposed to be smiling all the time. I remain proud of my RBF even now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:19 AM
46

The way they keep upping and upping the amount of money she needs to give sounds like a straight up Ponzi scheme. There’s a well known psychological effect about gradually increasing the costs you ask of someone, but that’s not the scary part. This seems too eerie to not be coordinated by the father and son both. I wouldn’t be shocked if there’s a line of women before her who were similarly used for money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 11:57 PM
29

I’m really sorry about that. Hope he rots in hell. He sounds like a psychopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 11:38 PM
4

I love this phrase and I want it tattooed on my brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 10:56 PM
31

Holy shit. How the fuck do they hide it for so long??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 10:44 PM
4

I can’t get past the second sentence. 😂 Reminds me of an incel I knew in high school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:57 PM
2

I love my leg hair. It’s soft and cute. There’s nothing manly about being a natal woman, sorry. 😘 The sooner we stop jumping through these hoops the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:45 PM
8

Absolutely. Porhhub has known about the trafficking, rape, and child sexual abuse from the beginning. They only did the bare minimum once banks pulled funding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:16 PM
44

This is just what being a college student is like nowadays. 😔 No wonder Gen Z has so many mental issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:35 PM
40

As someone who was also bullied as a kid, that is the epitome of NVM. Fuck him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:10 PM
48

Dominant just means sexist. It’s prime LVM behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:57 PM
54

Been asking this since I was a kid. It’s such a cruel “joke”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:52 PM
7

Seriously! This image is inducing a panic attack in me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:53 AM
8

Truth. I have a terrible habit of getting way too invested way too quickly. This is the rule in FDS that makes the most sense to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:40 AM
8

Wholesome af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 06:38 PM
2

💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 06:23 AM
11

Right? Like, these new fathers have no excuse to suddenly balloon in weight. It ain’t their uterus and abdomen being stretched!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:05 AM
5

I’m living for this comment. Take my poor woman’s gold 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:04 AM
5

That would be so cool. My gym buddy from college recently ghosted, I’d love to join y’all instead!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:02 AM
8

Even then, that group of women struggles with eating disorders because you can never be quite good-looking enough to please straight men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:59 AM
16

This actually makes a lot of sense when you consider that they only think of skinny, conventionally attractive/feminine women as women, and everybody else is in an “unwomen” category. They can’t fathom ever approaching any woman on their level as a human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:56 AM
31

Tbh I think this is the real reason 🤫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 01:33 AM
10

Coomerland is a very strange place, apparently :| They all have some kinda brain rot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:22 AM
41

It’s like saying you hate female garment workers because you advocate against sweatshops. Nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:17 AM
44

Wow, Reddit is a misogynist shithole. It’s like r feminism being moderated by MRA’s. This site is so evil. No wonder it has an 80% male user base.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:45 PM
4

Oh shit I LOVE Deborrah Cooper! This is gonna be good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:12 AM
3

Any time somebody tells you that you need to have a great attitude, you need to treat that with as much suspicion as workplaces that say “we’re like family here!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:00 AM
16

I love this take. I wish I saw it more often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:28 AM
50

Honestly the term “permanent disfigurement” just puts into perspective the unequal burden of womanhood. If a man was permanently disfigured for the purpose of a family unit, we’d see his name in the tabloids and he’d be a national hero. A woman does it and it’s a Tuesday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:24 AM
7

Yeah same. HCOL suburbs are extremely safe (although some pedos did try to kidnap me once haha). I had no idea what catcalling even was until I moved to my college town. :// At least no one’s gotten their hands on me yet. Yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:58 PM
9

Is Joe Rogan that guy that wrote an article about how to emotionally manipulate your girlfriend into “kinky” sex? Oh wait, that was Adam Savage. Rogan is equally bad I’ve heard, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:20 AM
16

I’m reading this exclusively to maintain my virginity. Honestly, it looks like I’m not missing out on anything in my twenties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:28 PM
4

True. 😔 They really should go their own way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 04:43 AM
5

Or he’ll retreat into hentai coomer land, never to be seen again. Men see more in each other than in us. Which is guess is sorta fitting, considering they have more DNA in common with apes than us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 04:39 AM
9

Yeah they seriously have the most class solidarity I’ve ever seen in any group, besides I guess superrich 0.01% people? Even then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:08 AM
9

That’s very good to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:41 AM
8

These people are such idiots. My mother had me at 33 with no health issues. Same day she gave birth to me, a 21yo having her first child was injured because her birth canal was still too narrow. I’m not rushing into doing the same. My twenties are for financial stability only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:40 AM
8

Every day I inch closer to believing this. What’s it called?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:37 AM
4

That’s why I never got into romcoms like Couples Retreat. It always hurt my eyeballs to watch...but nobody else found it weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:21 AM
11

I’m laughing like a hyena. This is almost too good to be real 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:06 AM
15

Yeah, like a constant lie they feed us to keep our self esteem about our appearance down. Keep performing femininity, cuz men are visual sweaty 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:56 AM
3

God I’m so sorry. Your mother deserves much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:28 AM
12

Oh yeah, same with the repressed issues. My mother did this to me my whole childhood. I’d stop to look at some pretty cakes in a window or flowers and she’d just keep walking, call me crazy if I was upset. My household is Pickme Academy 🤡 No self esteem? Check! Too beaten down to expect affection? Check! Exhausted and cynical? Check.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:26 AM
5

Every second of that was hard to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:22 AM
15

Like, full-on penetrating the cervix? Not just hitting it for a little bit? Wtf is happening to some women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:43 PM
6

Alright alright, my reading comprehension is shit. I do take it back. And I never said “the real queen”. No need to pile-on, I’m sorry. I forgot that the wife was the one financing all of this, I can never mentally adjust to the idea of men literally using women for money. I keep assuming their masculinity would be too offended to do that, but then I’m floored reading this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 03:11 AM
1

Edit: nvm That sugar baby is a queen; played him just right. But I really do hope this wife bleeds him dry after the divorce too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:08 PM
2

Thirded. I can’t stand wheat products.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 06:47 PM
19

Damn, he’ll shave anything but his face huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:03 AM
33

I’ve done this. Forever cringe and regret. Glad to report I’m still alive 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:24 AM
25

Clearly scrotes confused the word can with should.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:09 AM
6

This is the queen mindset. 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 10:03 PM
19

Alright, now I wanna buy that woman something 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:15 AM
5

Would you be willing to send her a PDF of Why Men Marry Bitches? I’m sorry if this isn’t helpful, I’m no strategy coach. I just wonder if she’d be willing to read some part of that book for why sleeping with men only makes them respect you less. It’s the first couple of chapters that cover that topic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 01:33 AM
1

Yeah same. Every hard working (especially single mother) woman I’ve known over the course of my life has a similar looking house. They clean it up when guests come over, but women who work from 9am to 9pm don’t have immaculate houses. This tends to be the price of ambition. (Not saying they’re unsanitary, btw)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:04 AM
11

Honestly I agree with you. I don’t like the reactions ppl are having to it either. It seemed to have touched a nerve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:01 AM
3

Your roast at the end there is as close to a 10/10 as he’s going to get in his whole miserable life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:46 PM
19

Male projection!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:31 PM
28

Worst stereotype. My mother believes this and she’s literally never caused an accident in her whole life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:27 PM
18

No excuse. I have lowish EQ but I still have empathy for rape victims. Men don’t give a fuck about people’s suffering straight up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:02 PM
26

Every two minutes in the US
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:58 PM
2

This is my life motto. I keep it to myself usually, but y’all know everything on here 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:50 AM
2

And she buys him his food to top it all off!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:16 AM
7

Yes!! It’s always projection with patriarchal men! On a side note, one YouTuber I watch just hit his thirties and has visibly gained like fifteen pounds, started getting gray hairs, and is balding with shitty skin. And this guy actually put in some effort before lol works out and everything. Men just ain’t nearly as tough as us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:33 AM
3

This deserves its own post. Extremely lucid point here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:12 AM
1

These posts never get many upvotes. There’s a lot of radfem lit floating around, I would recommend looking up the tag “radical feminist literature” on tumblr and downloading free PDFs. They have everything!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:55 AM
3

With a mother like that, it’s no wonder she ran into a man’s arms. “Having a hard time attending to her” Excuse me ma’am, that’s your whole job. Who gives a shit about the Thanksgiving turkey when a family member is in that much pain? Why was he even necessary? Oh right, because this is all about the mother and her feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:35 AM
6

I love that! It’s in The Rules. much as I don’t like the book, this is a solid piece When he asks you to cook for him: you make microwave popcorn, boil hot dogs, and for dessert a Twinkie! He’ll never ask again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:44 PM
5

Underrated comment. Nature made them trigger-happy because she knew we’d eventually snap out of it and stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:40 PM
9

I’m your age and have only been on like two dates. Nothing went anywhere. It’s completely fucking normal to put your education first and give yourself time before dating. Don’t rush in and be desperate. All the good guys won’t be gone by the time you’re 27, I promise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:59 AM
4

Being single is more than okay, it’s the pinnacle of life for a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:16 AM
5

Please tell me she didn’t put him on the birth certificate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:42 AM
17

Zoom is such a trash platform. Zoombombing happens outrageously often. I’m not surprised at all that this happened, given male depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:40 AM
15

Honestly, they should be spending at least as much on dating women as we spend on menstrual and beauty products. I think that about evens it out. :) Life ain’t fair, bucko.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:19 AM
36

Maybe they need a woman to be so good looking to boost their own self esteem and status? I have no clue tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:24 AM
137

Eight months? I’m pushing on five years. Y’all have been having fun this whole time? 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:00 PM
2

They seem to be okay eating bread, butter, and egg mayonnaise salad all their life. Source: my mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:54 PM
3

Yeah, this is how my mother raised me. Abusers never ever admit guilt, so you’re always just left wondering if it’s your fault. Because whose else fault could it be, since you were the one in charge of everything?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:16 PM
35

Remember when fewer Chinese men died of COVID than American men because they eat their vegetables (that their wives probably cooked)? Scrotes are an international embarrassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:43 PM
36

This is the way. 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:41 PM
5

So basically she came on here to look for validation for her own poor choices. Left out the age gap because she knew it would get called out. Defends the 30yo loser instead 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:52 PM
3

There’s a website, and a pinned discord server.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:52 PM
7

But sexism is really against men right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:50 PM
91

Same. That weakness in character must ALWAYS be called out. I don’t care if it’s socialized into you, you still have a choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:10 AM
41

And leave them around 27 for a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:59 AM
9

I mean, what counts as masculinity then? Do men always need to feel special and Manly™️ to keep them off our backs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:09 AM
29

That’s pretty much been 99% of patriarchal history. If it didn’t change then, I don’t think it’ll be worth pursuing now. Never treat oppressed men with delicacy (in regards to feminism), they’d rather we suffer than they thrive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:08 AM
1

Girl.....Just rip his balls right out of his body. He can’t recover from that. Might not even be able to pass on his NVM genes in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:30 PM
2

Going back to school for a new career field. Hoping this isn’t the biggest mistake of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:32 PM
2

It’s not even suffering. These men don’t know the meaning of the word suffer, compared to their women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:04 PM
24

Ladies, ladies, get in line!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:26 AM
5

Angry scrotes downvoting your comment because you’re calling out abuse. Welcome to reddit. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:31 AM
12

That’s disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:08 AM
5

Congratulations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 01:42 AM
14

It is a well-known fact that no FDSer lives outside NYC and SF!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 01:36 AM
129

Men def don’t owe women “cock.” But they sure do offer it on every street corner! What world does he live in where everything’s exactly the same for men and women? Honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:01 AM
42

The FDS perspective is based on experience, but I would think that giving a man this test of character is also a good way to filter assholes. You shouldn’t have to live a double life to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:50 AM
43

If he’s not paying for you, he’s paying for some other poor shmuck with the 50/50 game too. Whoever he can lay with first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:47 AM
14

Big same. This is gonna be the way of the future 😂 It certainly was at some point in humanity. https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 02:54 AM
43

It’s called the American Dream, because you have to be asleep to believe it. George Carlin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:22 AM
88

Child support is like $100/month. You’re literally paying $100/month for somebody else to raise a whole ass child you didn’t even create, and you still get some credit for it! I’ve never heard of a better deal in terms of investment vs outcome. Whiniest bullshit I’ve ever heard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:21 AM
90

And the people who have that kinda money can simply...pretend not to have it, and make friends naturally. Most do that actually. We can’t pretend not to have vaginas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:19 AM
4

The last line 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:47 PM
8

Your response was queen shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:50 PM
24

My lesbian friends are trying to rehabilitate me out of it and yet 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:39 AM
8

That’s extremely concerning. I guess when I hear “single woman lifestyle” I forget it really means WGTOW, and not temporary. Lol @ my reading comprehension
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:38 AM
10

Especially now 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:30 AM
9

Tbh this generation (Z) is easier in that respect. All the women I know from college are single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:22 AM
9

It’s not your fault, Reddit probably glitched. I love it when we discuss this topic. At the end of the day, the relationships we have with fellow women are most important to our survival; we really need to be able to talk about them openly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:15 AM
27

I’m so sad this only has 50 upvotes. I want feminists and FDSers alike to have a serious conversation on this topic that isn’t just making excuses for these women. “But culture!” Save me. When you reach the age of reason and reproduction, it’s on you to take yourself seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 04:20 AM
4

Even in the Kama Sutra it says that men who travel often do not deserve wives. How desperate is she?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 04:07 AM
66

I don’t trust people who are ex-incel usually. I feel bad for saying this, but the trend I’ve noticed is that they simply exchanged conservative misogyny for liberal misogyny, and kept their shitty personalities. I know change is hard to make and slow, but I’m still wary. Gut feelings and all that Jazz.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:54 AM
5

This is so sweet :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:43 AM
47

Probably already has. Maybe that’s why her sister’s response is so lame? I’ve heard of this thing where you date the older sister to get to the young one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:40 AM
14

This. I once put my favorite movie in my profile and all I got was LVM who can’t bond on anything except media. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:36 AM
5

“Ew,” she laughed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:27 AM
17

I really think LVM/NVM have this huge trend of no kissing and woman always on top. They really want to just take, take, take. I’m disgusted for you and for the disrespect done to your body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:01 AM
17

Honestly, we’ve been raised by pickmes so it’s hard to get used to this attitude. But when you see it, you completely understand why: it’s the mutually satisfying option. Men enjoy the challenge and the pride that comes with it, women reap benefits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:56 AM
20

Unironically this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:39 AM
24

This is my absolute core value. Be disagreeable, it’s the difficult women they struggle to fuck over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:36 AM
90

As a former goth, what proportion of the male interest would you say came from the “big titty goth” meme? I have a feeling men expect y’all to be submissive porn stars, but just with darker makeup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:32 AM
6

I can’t actually believe grown men use Axe. Nightmare fuel. Do they think that shit is cute? Being that helpless and incapable of managing your own hygiene?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:42 PM
7

Just photoshop a little blood on it for extra emphasis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:39 PM
3

Ohhhhh this is encouraging us to give him these as Christmas gifts to passive-aggressively tell them they’re dirty? Honestly, I’m not half mad 😂 You give him a razor and divorce papers for Christmas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:36 PM
7

Guess they just know their dick is small
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:40 AM
79

This is just further proof. If she can get cheated on, if Beyoncé can get cheated on, it was never about how you “let yourself go.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:02 PM
8

Ultimate LVW behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:34 AM
3

Imagine coming here every day and still learning nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:16 AM
5

Who needs horror movies when life is more terrifying than fiction??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:01 AM
6

Good lord, this is the scariest thing I’ve read in a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:59 AM
3

Visit r/abrathatfits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:31 AM
23

The fact that there’s high-powered women out there dragging children on their backs through their careers, being great mothers, taking care of themselves, adding to their communities, just makes me realize that...we are better. I’m amazed at the strength it all takes, but I don’t think I’d be able to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:22 AM
6

Ahaha I have no seamstress skills, I always recommend buying them. It works that you wear them like regular pads, adjust the changing schedule so that you don’t bleed through (like normal pads) and wash them when you get home. Cold water to get the blood out, and at the end of your cycle stick them in a washing machine to make them nice and soft again, and to get any residual smell out. Benefits are: it’s softer/comfy against your vulva, doesn’t get disgusting bloody cotton clumps all over your …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:56 AM
12

I use cloth pads but this post is kinda giving me the idea to keep normal pads/tampons around for other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:31 PM
34

Wtf? There’s women out there who don’t masturbate and have orgasmless sex? Holy shit I thought my life was bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:00 PM
52

This comment deserves a whole post. ‘They understand the concept, but will take advantage of a pickme who wants equality’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:07 PM
14

I read somewhere on social media that there’s competition among tech bros not for trophy wives, but to see who can make a competitive woman give up her career prospects and talents to “settle down” for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:13 PM
5

https://youtu.be/gr2j0o_B2mw Here’s an excellent breakdown of why the audience got pulled into the cult vicariously though her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:52 AM
9

Eh, as a millennial I’d prefer it if you lived with your parents rather than roommates, considering the roomie option is likelier to facilitate hookups, partying, and other bs behavior. The housing costs are ridiculous and some of us just don’t have parents who can pay for down payments, student loans, and other shit that makes you competitive in this economy. This is a generational thing in the US.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 02:36 AM
56

Honestly considering arousal pathways for women are even more mental than for men, I wouldn’t be surprised if the psychological issues completely kills a woman’s attraction. Men will stick their dicks into carved out melons. We....won’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 02:25 AM
6

Happy cake day OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:59 AM
15

Man I feel so bad for him. I hope he’s taking a break sometime soon, it must be hard to face that much tragedy and just force yourself to keep working.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:32 PM
7

This applies to friendship too. The truly brave thing to do is to cut shitty people off, as much as you can, all over your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:10 PM
2

This poor lady needs FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:43 PM
1

I’m sorry, did I do something wrong?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:41 PM
1

That wasn’t meant to be an aggressive/sassy statement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:31 PM
1

My friend, who is awesome and not a tradtard, also scythes her lawn. I admire it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:06 PM
22

Not real in the bedroom, anyways. All critical analysis ceases once male sex drive enters the conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:53 PM
20

Even avowed kinkster Kat Blaque basically said that it’s not good to recommend people to go to “dungeons” and events anymore because they’re so rife with abusive people being propped up, that it’s like feeding fresh victims to the wolves. At a certain point, I understood that these people value the coom more than human dignity and safety. if that’s wasn’t already apparent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:51 PM
6

Yeah, that’s what my mother has been like my whole life. Embarrassed to be seen outside with a “bare” (aka normal) face. She’s the reason I’m anti-makeup (mostly) now. It’s distressing to see such displays of low self esteem, especially for a child like you said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:28 PM
5

Queen shit. You’re my goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:23 PM
11

Men have like half a chromosome missing, and it’s getting smaller over time. I wouldn’t be surprised if that contributed. Honestly to answer your question it would be better to look at anthropological data rather than just asking here. But I know that the anthro community would also balk at the idea of women being better quality (muh equality), so idk how straight of an answer you’d get there. Personally, I think it’s the woman’s burden (as I call it) that requires us to always rise to the occas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:35 AM
11

I fucking knew it. UCLA, which lobbies for fewer restrictions on porn in public spaces, has a “bro network” and narcs. Color me surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:14 AM
11

This is now my favorite video of all time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 05:38 AM
9

Or it just gets institutionalized as kink. The new, legal way to beat women. Every other scrote now has a bdsm fetish. Also THAT LAST LINE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 03:31 AM
11

This is why FDS is so important. It’s by far the thing men will listen to the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:49 AM
3

Yo, I google all my recipes. Look at the star rating, try a few things out, and you got a brilliant recipe. “Recipes with condensed milk” for example comes out with great ones among just the first few articles. There’s NO excuse in the Information Age for people not to have great cooking skills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:25 AM
17

God same. I’m keeping my excellent cooking skills secret until after the 3-month period at least. Don’t sleep with a man on the first date? I say don’t tell them you’re Chef Ramsey on the first date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:20 AM
24

Y’all are brave af. I’m rooting for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 01:38 AM
4

r/highvaluemen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:14 AM
3

Oof, same. Went out on one date and that was more than enough to see the error of my ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:43 PM
41

Don’t men in their forties have the T-cell activity levels of women in their 80’s? They were weaker by design. Most male creatures are just made to leave their jizz behind and then die lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:43 PM
28

So she was the original liberator, for which both women were punished. Sigh. Extreme misogyny was woven into the tapestry of all these bs religions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:30 PM
8

God tier meme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:33 PM
8

Same! I feel like an alien because I have no mental symptoms. the physical symptoms more than make up for it though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:48 PM
82

I agree and I’m doing the same thing. If men want their 72 virgins they can die and go to heaven.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:02 PM
44

I feel like men view this as a rite of passage for manhood. It’s like some giant unspoken secret they have since middle school or since internet access.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:13 PM
104

This is a type of LVM we need to pay more attention to. Men don’t become less misogynistic because they’re facing hard times or oppression. They’ll treat you with the same entitlement more powerful men will, and also take your wages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:35 PM
68

We do this because we (falsely) assume that our male friends will treat us like our female friends do, with a sort of self-sacrificing mutualism. That never happens. Men just know how to exploit women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:26 PM
21

Now this I need to google.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:45 AM
52

Yeah, has this man ever been raped? Ever carried a child and birthed it? Ever been denied an abortion? Had to be chaperoned to go to the store because he’s male? Ever been sold on the street? He needs to stfu on gender issues forever. Those who can’t feel others pain have no business discussing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:43 AM
30

That and they’re all demanding you be “kinky” nowadays. Don’t you want lifelong sexual trauma for the benefit of......splitting rent with a loser?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:22 AM
6

This is the ideology that tricks women into prioritizing men over their children, and therefore creating dysfunction in families. All for male sexual gratification and “father rights.” Patriarchy and white supremacist terrorism is what destroys family values.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:44 PM
3

Oh mood. My mother’s alive but I resent her choices too. Worst part is when other people judge you for not liking your parents, they don’t know what it took from you. Hugs 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:27 PM
4

Pfft, this is what my mother did like two decades ago. I turned out talented, but miserable. Word of advice: make sure you’re fully prepared for the single mother life. Whatever happens to you at work, happens to your kid at home. (And never reveal it to your employers, this gets used against you all the time.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:26 PM
13

Working on it 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:00 PM
18

That’s horrific. It seems like the anti-abortion Nazi-culture wave is spreading across the West just as steadily as coronavirus. I was gonna wish Polish women well and realized I live in the US where this is probably going to happen to me within the next four years. I feel ill just thinking about it. Let’s band together and figure out natural abortion methods now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:51 PM
3

I’ve learned from other women in this community to give these men bait. Reveal a fake tragic fact about yourself and see how they use it. That is, if your vibe reading doesn’t pick them up immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:45 PM
16

Thank you!! I’ve been waiting for someone to say this. Empowered implies a lower position, it’s necessary to the term. You can’t be empowered forever, you’re either powerful or you’re not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:32 PM
19

Omg back to the dumbass femdom argument. If femdom was as empowering as they claimed it was, they’d try to ban it just like they do abortion. Stfu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:30 PM
26

How the fuck do you deem a medical procedure unconstitutional 😡 Scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:29 PM
5

This happened to me at work once 😭 And the man’s wife was a devout Catholic. I didn’t mention it at all and just made it subtly apparent that I have no interest in...him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:11 PM
84

Eh, “masculine energy” and that crowd are shady af and intellectually bankrupt. Anna is presentable and gracious but her core message is tilted. No shade to OP but it’s important for women to know that she relies on the same ‘evolutionary psychology’ figures to make her arguments as incels do, and I’ve seen her promote some really misogynistic speakers in her instagram story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:55 PM
27

Women pray, men prey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:19 PM
7

I loved this post. It’s eloquent, engaging, and helpful for those of us who aren’t absolute FDS Disciples. I read it thinking about the nasty look there’d be on my face if a man started talking about dumping his lovely exes right in front of me. My RBF is always vigilant, and waiting for men like this ;P
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:15 PM
6

Omfg 😂 Let’s do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 09:46 PM
4

You know, I’ve been scarred by this fetish since I was a child. This shit is a common movie and media trope and these men barely even bother to hide their depraved ideas in the content they produce. I had no idea it was a literal porn category tho, I’ve only heard it’s popular on fetish platforms. Of course. Terrifying hell world we’re gonna be raising our daughters in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 08:32 PM
28

Bruh, I hate dating apps. Introducing myself with a selfie? Being constantly subjected to male opinions on my appearance? No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 08:21 PM
1

Edit: I think I misread your comment previously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 08:17 PM
3

We’re not sending our best. We’re sending criminals, we’re sending rapists, and thugs. (And some, I assume, are good people.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 08:11 PM
3

Oh yeah, and UN women who try to be “Peacekeepers” end up raped by locals. I read a horrific tale about how one of these female soldiers ended up with a “rape kink” after the experience to desensitize herself to the trauma she knew she was about to experience again in her second deployment (not kidding). 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 08:07 PM
8

Men always know don’t they. It’s just a big collective secret they keep so they can keep brutalizing us 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:59 PM
3

The higher up you go in society, the worse and more maniacal the people get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:51 PM
30

This definitely deserved gold, whoever gifted it was 100% correct. May this meme live forever in our consciousness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:41 PM
12

Domestic violence record.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:25 PM
8

Bone structure. Sure, you can have teenage soft skin in your 30s. But that’s about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:13 PM
41

And don’t forget to do all the chores, sweaty! And be a size 2 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:19 PM
11

I came here to say this. We deserve better 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:17 PM
5

It’s just a rebranding of feminism to make it focus back more on men. “Men are just as oppressed!” Bitch no they ain’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:13 PM
40

Idc what men say. I like being slightly taller than average and I’m not compromising my children’s genes by choosing a short sperm donor. Kiss my ass, scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:27 AM
12

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:23 AM
19

I feel vindicated. My whole life I’ve been told somethings wrong with me because I think the traditionally masculine guys are gross af and I love artsy men w/long hair and intellect. Jokes on RedPill tho, my preferences don’t change with ovulation. Only my willingness to approach these men 😂 and no, I don’t take birth control pills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:17 PM
9

I love the visuals. And thanks for introducing me to a new hottie 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:11 PM
41

Oh true. This is why they were so triggered by Justin Bieber. Boy was 13 and already getting more vagina than they’d seen in their entire lives. I’m sorry I didn’t realize this when I was young, because it would have been satisfying as hell to make fun of these losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:58 PM
22

This generation will attempt to cover for your losses. :’)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:17 PM
37

My sociology professor in college talked about how he was afraid of this stuff during lecture. He was an 80yo man. He looked like he’d seen a ghost 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:43 PM
7

Omfg same. Not responding is such a deep sign of disrespect. I don’t take that from anyone. Unless you’re in the hospital or someone else is, I don’t wanna hear it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 11:20 PM
18

Girl that’s brilliant. Next time we come back with “I don’t wanna take my fitness advice from men with c-cup breasts.” Thank you 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:29 PM
11

Mr. Historian here clearly had the wisdom to understand that most women didn’t look like the ones found in classical paintings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:28 PM
18

I’m so glad I frequent FDS so that I don’t have to find this out the hard way. These men always approach me 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:24 PM
37

Remember that post on here recently about the redpill dad who “redpilled” his daughter into accepting abuse from her then-boyfriend?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:21 PM
11

This “man” has never heard of r/StrongCurves. The ladies over there are 🌶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:20 PM
14

This right here. I was a little feminist girl all the way back in childhood and now that I’m a woman I can sorta mature more into the FDS perspective and acknowledge that while men and women can do all the same shit, women deserve special consideration and we have very different sexual interests. I don’t know why libfems suppress that perspective. All matriarchal societies made life fair for women, and not by ignoring biology!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:36 AM
14

Exactly. Women in my liberal community are pretty much raised to expect it and consume it and be down for all the hip sex-posi stuff cuz ReVoLuTiOnArY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:12 AM
30

This right here. I hope when I have a daughter I’ll teach her these ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:17 PM
12

Remember that graffiti they drew on an oil rig of Greta being raped? The men in power are even worse than the losers we see lining the streets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:49 PM
5

Wow, I almost threw up on my phone. I wish a plague would come by and take these LVM away from society. Corona ain’t pulling enough weight 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:41 PM
4

“What is this, the girlfriend police?” block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:13 PM
79

The shit they never want you to talk about. Enjoy wiping asses in your fifties and sixties and burying your “partner” right as you enter retirement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:08 PM
28

Seems like they don’t understand the weight of the label, or its intended longevity. Tbh same tho, but that’s why I’m a newbie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:05 AM
11

You should write speeches, because you’re seriously preaching here! 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:59 AM
37

Tbh this is a massive source of trauma for me and I remember being just 12 and seeing the movie Overboard and being terrified of the underlying message of breaking a strong woman with abuse. That’s why kink is evil. That’s why porn is evil. This shit is the sinister underbelly of patriarchy and I can’t stand that liberal feminism will outright ignore it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:44 AM
1

People are downvoting me but I’m literally just here to emphasize why women have to be choosier and have more to lose from casual sex gone wrong. Also, I’m female. Not being sexist. 🙄 All of those precautions are doubly important for a woman (though men clearly need to get it together, culturally-wise).
/r/ExRedPill15/10/20 02:55 PM
1

Wow, seriously? Men really bring the audacity.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/20 04:26 AM
1

Don’t forget, women are likelier than men to contract STD’s from unprotected sex thanks to anatomy. And you know, surprise babies.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/20 04:25 AM
5

We have more to lose from a bad relationship. With being female in a society shaped by patriarchal male violence, your absolute worst case scenario is getting raped, forcefully impregnated, regularly beaten, ending up destitute with children, or in a ditch. And this all happens way more often than portrayed. You’re telling me that given these circumstances, we shouldn’t be more picky?
/r/ExRedPill15/10/20 04:22 AM
2

A certain level of commitment.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/20 08:02 PM
39

I find OP’s comments about gold diggers interesting. If his friend wants a mythical woman who only lives to be attractive and spend all her time being sexually available to this man, then she should be fairly compensated. I don’t know why there’s this hate for women who exchange unreachable beauty for money. If you want that type of relationship with someone, that’s on you. Figure out what you (I mean friend) needs to bring to the table to make that happen. I don’t understand why these incels ex…
/r/ExRedPill23/09/20 12:24 AM
3

I’m living for this play by play
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 06:02 PM
2

Rofl 😂😂
/r/ExRedPill01/09/20 03:19 AM
3

Bruh. You still need someone to operate the dishwasher, laundry machine, and vacuum.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/20 11:54 PM
8

There we go.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/20 11:53 PM
6

I’ve been telling this to people as a woman but people won’t believe me because junk science 😒
/r/ExRedPill24/07/20 11:12 PM
1

That was brilliant
/r/ExRedPill11/07/20 05:07 PM
7

It’s not common to assign emotionality to men, but it’s clear that their arguments are emotional. Which means they’re near impossible to change. Most of what we can do is steer ppl away from them and provide a better alternative framework. If they get big enough, then challenge. Mocking via meme culture is the best way to take down movements, but they tend to be better at that than us lol.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/20 11:59 PM
5

🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 03:17 PM
44

Modern art
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 07:46 PM
65

Oh man. Hats off to your father!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 05:00 PM
31

Truth. I don’t even discuss them. If you don’t stop whatever you’re doing after I show disgust, you’re in the dustbin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 08:10 AM
36

M‘am, take a Pulitzer Prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 07:16 AM
10

Lord almighty it was so accurate I read it in a fake incel voice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 07:00 AM
29

Yup. Come up with some kinda low-level collateral and see what he does with it. That’s a generally good test for people in life, but especially men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 05:43 AM
20

Sis you’ve been owning it with these memes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:22 AM
39

I’m mad about this because a therapist is like the #1 thing I want in life right now. I’d fork over my entire savings for therapy honest to god... But y’all let your dicks stop you from getting it? Ugh. I have no respect for grown men who act like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 05:00 AM
35

We should though. Collect all the salty responses in FDSSuperFans. Laugh all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:55 AM
6

Expose him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:54 AM
16

Like a cute kitty from my childhood meme stash? Nah, these dudes look like Pennywise after I’ve had a few drinks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 11:13 PM
17

“Fatty got triggered” Oh joy, here comes the LoGiCaL sEx to educate us with the wisdom of 2014 memes! How could we have not thought of that before? God, I guess it’s time to leave this sub and become a red pill wife after all! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:27 PM
33

Because they’re sadists and predators
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:05 PM
9

Ouch. Just reading your experience hurts my heart. I’m glad you found this sub now, I hope this is the beginning of your healing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 04:57 PM
13

More red flags than Soviet Russia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:26 PM
6

And because of the women who came before us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 09:11 AM
58

Have y’all read this? Someone in the comments section has got serious talent: There once lived a man who looked like a troll, Had no personality not even a soul, Wanting a Bride knowing it would be reckless, While walking around with no shame and being neck-less. I hope that you see this sweet Rose run away, Prince Charming will find you I promise one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 03:54 AM
4

Dude in the second comment looks like a serial killer. How far do you wanna humble women, Dwight? All the way down to your basement?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 12:59 AM
77

If you ever feel tempted to screech “Sex work is empowering!”, imagine giving a blow job while this is looking down at you, just to be able to pay your rent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:04 PM
23

Jealousy bullying is REAL. Could have saved so much drama in high school if I had just learned this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 10:19 PM
76

This is the energy I want in 2020 and onward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:33 PM
8

Where’s that female chad yes meme when you need it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:27 PM
4

Srsly cringed when I saw that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:51 AM
5

Pfft, yeah, I’d sure smile a little less dating you! Block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 10:32 PM
11

I’m using that quote from now on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:43 PM
66

Notice how that didn’t apply to her buying him a drink though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 05:32 AM
2

This is exactly the principle on which sex trafficking rests. “I’m already being mistreated, why don’t I at least get something out of it?” (Via monetization.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 09:38 PM
13

The one bright side of the man always being older: they enter the grave sooner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 04:11 PM
18

The funniest part is knowing that the Bible Belt consumes the most porn per capita in the United States! These men are just entitled assholes who manipulate women into being identical clone-looking Mommy McBangmaids, barely believing their own spiel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 01:11 AM
20

I’ve heard from other women on here that it’s mostly dudes pretending to be women, to the point that the actual minority of trad women had to migrate to other places.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 01:07 AM
9

I SAW THAT! What are the chances the author is one of us??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 11:12 PM
2

A fellow slayer of rapists and LOTR fan? I’m shooketh. I bow to thee, kind stranger. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 05:44 AM
17

Honestly in my fresh Newbie opinion, this is exactly the question where FDS falls short. There’s more good women than good men, we probably outnumber them by a scary proportion. The fact that we’re technically competing with each other in a way is, I think, a lowkey and ugly truth. But listen, no two women are the same and no two relationships are the same either. And what other people are saying here is right: do you really wanna lower your standards and end up with a deadweight in life, or are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:44 AM
3

His crazy-eyes and his shock when his betrayal makes her mad just makes me LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:39 AM
28

Oh no, they very much have a clue...of what their fantasies are about strong women. Barefoot and pregnant, then dead. It’s exactly what they want for strong-willed women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:29 AM
2

This right here. I 100% agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:59 AM
6

Exactly. Lundy wrote about the abusers who went through therapy, they always come out better able to manipulate people and women rather than healed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:23 AM
10

Yeah, on that last line: she’s happy she’s the better woman in this situation and is a lowkey misogynist. “He raped that girl for some reason, but he won’t rape me because I’m the sweet angel who’s here to save him!” Controversial opinion, but I think she and the mother are Pickme’s Supreme. In ten years though, sadly, she might find out the hard way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:21 AM
6

Hey, some murder is in self defense, especially against abusers. You probably meant serial killers and abusers tho so I agree. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:19 AM
5

HARD agree. Studies show that most rapists go on to rape again. At the very least, they should be put away for 25+ years far away from women. If it were up to me I’d start a gang to find them and snipe them out. Their entitlement is basically impossible to shake. (PS, I love your username!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:17 AM
3

Thank you! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:10 AM
10

Oof careful with that. Studies show that LVM husbands stress mothers out more than their children and careers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:08 AM
12

I’m quite young (compared to y’all) and gently learning to get over my jealousy for people in relationships/marriages. Understanding that it’s okay to trust my instincts about the emotional/mental deficits of men has made it easier. Understanding that people can be really good at pretending that their relationship are great is a bit harder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 11:15 PM
21

Probably realized what a real loser his friend was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:16 PM
42

Ngl I Hope friend and ex start dating. At least he has a hint of decency and common sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:15 PM
4

I wish I could like this comment ten more times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:48 PM
3

Same plz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:03 PM
5

Omfg I blushed so hard reading this. My heart has lifted. At least one of us is blessed!! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 06:53 PM
7

Yeah I’m with you. I completely support people being able to do what they want with their bodies, surgery, makeup, or otherwise. I don’t support people pretending our culture doesn’t shame “bare-faced” women into accepting daily makeup use and instill insecurity about our features from birth. You can’t really divorce your choices from culture here that easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:45 PM
23

You’re better than this stuff, and you always have been!! Don’t let any scrotes push you down for being a victim of porn culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 09:00 AM
2

Damn, good on you for making the right moves at the end. 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 08:29 AM
27

Wtf is with your combativeness? I survived anorexia once and a lot of the changes in my body were taken for granted because I had wide hips and was still a “normal” size. That’s why I care. I’m here for your argument, not your semantics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 07:51 AM
24

“Anorexics do not have fucking hourglass figures and sculpted shoulders” Bruh are you sure about that? Because anorexia is a mindset, not a body type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 07:38 AM
15

Cringe. This is so libfem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 07:25 AM
2

This is a great list!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:38 PM
4

I wish we could permaban that shit just like we do male trolls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:13 PM
3

I see your flair is accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 06:59 PM
1

Omg I LOVE Lorie! I used to listen to her in middle school when I was taking French classes. Wholesome af memories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:03 AM
31

Do they have humiliation fetishes or something? Both their photos were focused on their worst features! Barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 02:51 AM
5

A premier example of a LVW here. It’s HVM repellant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 07:21 PM
6

Mood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 02:24 PM
21

Oof, that second paragraph. I’ve heard that toxic sentiment from new-age pickmes too. I’ve been lectured by them on how women are suffering from toxic over-masculization because they’re “thinking too much” instead of just feeling through life. Like I’m sorry, but womanhood and intellectualism aren’t mutually exclusive, what the absolute fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 02:05 PM
18

Damn, what a role model. I hope he goes on to mentor young men or something because we need more qualities like that in the dating pool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 01:57 PM
8

😭 We’re so honored to have you here for now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 04:54 AM
6

Lol she’s triggered: “AITA for asking for a free drink? Edit: I DO NOT GIVE PERMISSION TO SCREENSHOT THIS POST AND POST IT TO OTHER SUBS. ESPECIALLY SUBS THAT TELL ME THAT MY BOYFRIEND IS ABUSIVE AND I NEED TO LEAVE HIM.” Girl, it’s too late. If you’re not gonna give common sense a chance why even post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 08:24 PM
4

Ew, that pro-BDSM nod at the end. Ruined the whole thing for me. And the “demisexual” thing peppered in, too. I can’t with normies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 06:09 AM
6

Exactly. Overwhelming majority of mentally ill people aren’t monsters like this. No excuses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:05 PM
16

He’s so delusional. In my neighborhood $124k is nothing lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:35 AM
2

Probably runs around raping women and making them give birth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 08:29 AM
7

And serial killers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 08:28 AM
2

This is what you see at the end of a creepypasta video
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 08:27 AM
5

For the abusers, check out the Grey Rock Method. I’m no expert but I’ve heard from a lot of victims that it pretty much saved their life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 08:10 AM
5

B-b-but they’re our protectors! 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:51 AM
8

Not doing much of anything productive. I have to finish three drawings by their deadline on Tuesday and I’m mega-stressed about that. Afterwards I have a week of assembling IKEA furniture, and then classes start. Ideally, I will learn to code sometime during these next two months and solidify grad school plans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:13 AM
22

Seriously need to go on a binge watching spree of his videos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:59 PM
79

Those aren’t fake tears she’s crying. She looks genuinely frightened. And then she fawns at the end. I hope this man suffers, I hope he gets barbed wire shoved up his dickhole. If this is the public imagine they have, can you imagine what he does behind closed doors?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:55 PM
28

Someone posted this there about 14 hours ago! :) I’ll be sharing this on other social media platforms too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:53 AM
23

This woman is my ultimate dream in life. Thanks for the share!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:27 AM
2

LOL. I got his message last night, happy to be a part of the team! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:00 AM
74

Being offended here is a good thing. You take the drink, and you pour right down the trash can in front of him, making eye contact. How dare he disrespect your will like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 01:01 AM
12

Same. We with the cold outer shells are under appreciated by men. But at the end of the day, if he’s too intimidated by that he isn’t gonna be in it for the long run, and you don’t need him. And you don’t have to feel insecure about not being bubbly right off the bat, because it just gets rid of the trash. That’s why you developed it in the first place probably lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 04:26 AM
7

I’d just clean up my room personally and order pretty things online to decorate my space. Read books like your life depends on it. Create some random work project and actually finish it. Edit: I’d probably add in a joke about coughing on someone I really hate, but...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 04:21 AM
18

The freaky part was where she tried to set you up with her loser friends, knowing she didn’t actually want you to marry well. She was gonna set you up for a lifetime of abuse my a man and even death, just to show how much better she is than you. I’d uhhhh tell her to fuck off right to her face from now on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 07:20 PM
11

Woman you need to be writing books I swear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:14 PM
12

I’m crying 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:05 PM
52

“Why the magnitude of the difference is greater in Italy than China” Let me guess, Asian men actually eat their damn vegetables?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:04 PM
14

I’m so happy for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:00 PM
33

That and they start off weaker too. Even when babies and children their immune systems are weaker. Women have the opposite problem, which is where we get our high autoimmune disease stats from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 04:59 PM
84

Also to note: when I was out yesterday, the only people who were obnoxiously opposed to social distancing were men. They got in my way, came too close just to fuck with me, took up all their usual manspreading space. I hope someone finally coughs on these motherfuckers and they feel the consequences of putting people at risk like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 04:39 PM
58

I love classy old lady memes. Keep ‘em coming, they’re all FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 04:43 AM
42

This!! We don’t need to be harsh to a suffering woman. Plus, she isn’t lashing out at other women or perpetuating abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:34 AM
20

She’s just degrading herself every day. Sis needs to learn some self-love. And can you imagine what she isn’t telling us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:32 AM
7

That last line spoke to my very soul 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 01:52 AM
13

Same...I’m heartbroken. But I have a “cardio bag” in the closet that’s for boxing practice and I’ll be setting it up soon either in the living room or balcony. I can’t live without some cardio.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 01:24 AM
9

This. Some of us really got fire in our blood, reasons be damned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 12:33 AM
23

Yeah, my family is like that too. Tell me, has she ever protected you? When people do you wrong, does she call you stupid or somehow spin the situation to support whoever wronged you? That’s the sign of someone who is emotionally abusive. Or their empathy abilities have been hampered in some way for some reason. Don’t ever believe a word they say, IMO. You get your ass back to her place and ghost your loser husband. You can do this! 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:40 PM
3

Amen. 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:15 PM
18

Shoulda come by to slap him. I would’ve just choked him out with a pillow tbh. I’m really sorry for what he did to you and your mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 08:43 PM
7

What’s his name?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 09:54 PM
70

Exactly. Every other part of reddit is telling women to give blowjob rewards to men who wash a single (1) plate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:43 PM
7

I mean, men will fuck animals and rotten coconuts. At this point, does it really matter whether we’re wearing mascara or not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 08:21 AM
2

I really hope that the FDS stance on this stuff isn’t liberal feminist. I feel a little crushed reading some of the comments right now lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 08:20 AM
16

Same. Big same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 08:07 AM
17

Omg I was so angry this past week when I discovered that sub. I wanna PM all these women compliments but I feel like that would do more harm than good. This phenomenon makes me so fucking distraught. They’re gonna waste their best years self-loathing because society hates women, especially confident women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:48 AM
4

This is the wall that we hit, when we saw this post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:32 AM
7

Thisssssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:56 PM
5

Best comment. Also thanks for the sauce
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:42 PM
6

That probably wouldn’t be healthy either tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:23 PM
27

It‘a never been a better day to be sexually unappealing to men 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:17 PM
9

Can confirm, those are my stats. Especially true when you’re fit. I’ve seen gorgeous fitness models with my height/weight, so I’m not too worried about this chick’s health. She needs to lose the 120-130 pounds in her life, not the extra 15 on her body lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:21 AM
53

Imagine being 26 or 33 and still calling slender women “snobby cheerleaders”. That high school mentality needs to die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:16 AM
10

And what if one of her children is male? This is gonna be his role model for manliness? Dear lord, what a mess. I feel for her so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:04 AM
49

You should have this be a chapter in the FDS handbook. Incredible advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:43 PM
21

Because they can’t conceive of a friendly, welcoming space that encourages growth. They wanna think of us as female incels because they don’t wanna face the fact that their female “counterpart” (yeah right) is actually a growth-oriented space. We reveal their parasitic nature. They need us more than we need them. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:08 AM
2

Wow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:04 AM
42

A BDSM sub (no pun intended) whining about sexism is just the very definition of projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 01:14 AM
58

Haha, nah, they just whined about us being so sexist towards men 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 11:40 PM
51

Y’all. They posted about us in the BDSM sub two hours ago. Prepare yourselves for the downvotes lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 11:34 PM
22

I guess they really are compensating for something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 11:09 PM
5

🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:48 PM
9

Fetishists, perhaps? Maybe of the autogynephile variety?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:15 AM
18

You inspire me. I think I will start doing this on dates too. I don’t do well pretending to be nice and uncontraversial, and polite...I’d much rather get drunk and debate misogynists for fun 😁 Let their true colors show. Maybe I’ll write a blog with the material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:35 AM
65

So he wants a woman to sacrifice her entire career, earning potential, and economic stability to be a temporary broodmare for him and not even have custody of her own children? Wow. That’s...male depravity on steroids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:24 AM
25

Positive vs negative freedom :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:54 PM
36

My feminism is currently about spreading FDS to my friends tbh. It’s working. Radfeminism and FDS are compatible to a degree, at least for heterosexual radfems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:50 PM
7

Well, the problem is that a lot of these companies knowingly market to children. They get men when they’re young and impressionable, and then keep them because patriarchy. They don’t really understand reality at that point. :/ Except the reality that is their own delusional feelings about women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 09:20 PM
63

I know of one woman in her 80’s who is still acting like she’s fifty. These gregarious, joyful women refuse to be torn down by anything in life. They’re all inspirational to me. May we all be like that in the twilight of our life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 09:08 PM
11

Tbh this isn’t even a small thing. If he’s doing this he’s probably already done smaller things to her that she’s not telling us about cuz she’s clearly in love denial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 09:00 PM
18

Seriously, this is called the Tension-Building Phase of the abuse cycle. He’s gonna shoot her for real next time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 08:58 PM
10

SIS GET OUT OF THERE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 08:57 PM
6

This is a whole thesis right here. I love it! It’s poetry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 03:00 AM
5

Good news for me. All my hobbies are male-dominated... 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 04:09 AM
3

Fuck! That’s spot on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:41 AM
3

And then they take out that anger on women they view as being uppity, or having it easier than them. I guess this is how pickmeisha’s are made, right? This toxic cycle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:25 AM
11

What if...he’s not even heterosexual? He might just be overcompensating by looking at those pics. Idk, I’m conspiratorial. I just came here to remark on the fact that it’s so incredibly odd what porn culture is doing to men’s opinions of female bodies. They become frightened of healthy female bodies, no longer want to interact with vaginas, aren’t interested in average-sized breasts...wtf. It’s like those rodents in an experiment that started mating with dolls instead of authentic females becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:53 AM
15

Those books should be required reading for all daughters and young women. He wrote that shit in like 80’s/90’s and yet the profile of abusers still hasn’t changed one bit in these last 30/40 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:45 AM
7

This!! Never give up that job. Not just because he might leave one day, but because he will begin to detach every day. We know damn well no man values domestic duties highly. Why would you ever martyr yourself like that? Edit: besides, between the two of you, someone should be able to pony up the money for daycare. If you’re not that financially stable, maybe hold off marriage...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 06:09 PM
51

Has she considered the implications of saying violent misogyny and poor behavior is black culture?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 04:42 AM
9

Yessss 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 03:44 PM
11

Right? That was a major red flag to me...subconsciously. I feel like any man who goes on and on about how “sexy” I am is not worth my patience. I immediately put him in fuckboy category without even thinking about it. Shallow is exactly the right word. Where’s his compliments for things that don’t benefit him? Also, I don’t really think he’s handsome at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 05:09 AM
6

Damn, is there no trustworthy man in the universe??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:59 PM
4

Yikes...that hit hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:24 AM
69

What the fuck are her parents doing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:16 AM
7

The way they talk about vaginas they don’t even sound heterosexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:56 AM
42

Hey, are these the 45 year old dudes asking 20yo’s out on dates at work? The “work fathers” who are also real fathers and have wives....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:20 AM
4

Damn, can’t find the documentary anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:06 AM
19

They “love” it until they get penetrative sex, then they’re done pleasing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:01 AM
2

Haha I love that book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:00 AM
7

But no one wants to talk about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:46 PM
8

Martha Stewart Surprise Makeover Edition™️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:44 PM
1

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:44 PM
5

And he didn’t clarify that from the start? Now I’m mad for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:35 PM
3

Wtf....how could he just do that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 08:01 PM
11

Sad fact is that grooming and manipulating children is easy. They probably do have a good chance with those poor girls, because they know how to use childish admiration/immaturity in their favor. Gross. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:16 PM
7

😰 Did you get fired after the fact? I’m so so sorry that happened to you. Just hearing it makes me vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:12 PM
3

Damn, send them over my way. Just my type. (Former, not latter.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:21 PM
34

1000 Fap Stare 😂 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:14 PM
30

Yikes... That is the most demented thing I’ve heard in a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:11 PM
16

Ugh same. This is the exact reason I’m getting a therapist now. We can do it! Over-sharers unite!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:02 AM
4

To be fair, millennial men are weaker than their fathers. Source: my time at the gym.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:24 AM
19

I’ve been schooled in this since birth thanks to my family’s high standards. If you can’t imagine passing on this person’s genetics into your family line, don’t give them the time of day. What also helps to think about is: would I suffer myself if I behaved like this fool? Why do I not immediately realize how embarrassed I would be in his place acting like that? These guidelines have helped me survive my pickme phase relatively unharmed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:48 PM
6

Holy shit. Find out anything interesting about him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:57 PM
12

Tbh I’ve done this by accident. I get caught up in the food or conversation, or my drink. Or the décor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 11:07 PM
3

Hard lesson to learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 10:41 PM
3

I wonder why so many even in feminist circles are hesitant to admit this is true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 10:39 PM
28

“You don’t think we’re compatible? Oh, phew! I was just trying to figure out how to break it to you.” And swerve
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 10:08 PM
7

Facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 08:50 PM
34

For centuries, men who couldn’t get it up were ridiculed by other men. Impotence was the only reason a medieval woman could get divorce. And now all of a sudden a huge fraction of young adult men are impotent? History sure has its ironies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 08:47 PM
51

You don’t deserve that no matter your level. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:53 PM
13

Wow that’s vile. Funny fact: we get our intelligence genes from the X chromosome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 01:43 PM
62

THIS. This is EXACTLY why men like kink!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:46 AM
98

They’re offended because she’d make a better man than they would 😂 Threatened by a woman’s achievements. Always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:40 AM
95

No real body functions. 🙃 Not a real person. 🙃 Just a literal object in the shape of a woman. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 01:03 AM
61

I hold out hope that this is what it takes for her to realize men like this are dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 01:01 AM
6

Hey, I’m about to go through the same thing! Glad to see there’s light at the end of the tunnel 😁 And a huge congrats on your weight loss, btw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 12:41 AM
21

Better settle down before that biological clock stop ticking, gentlemen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:41 PM
2

Sis I doubt they’d even make it to 14
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 04:00 AM
2

Amen. I’ve had those older radfem experiences too, and I’m young. Thanks to FDS though, I finally have a little more hope about the future. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:55 AM
1

Or innocent 20yo’s who don’t know better :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:49 AM
14

Yeah. And personally I was so damn insecure and desperate in high school...many of us were. We need to build up our girls more :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 01:46 AM
28

I want this in every high school locker room tbh. Get them early so they don’t make our mistakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 01:20 AM
8

Honestly. I feel like it takes years of internet citizenship to finally start blocking people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 01:11 AM
40

Yes. Exposing the abusers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 12:40 AM
12

It’s funny cuz most of them would probably brag to their friends about a woman finding them attractive “the females can’t even keep their hands off me!”. There ends your inceldom. (But only in your imagination lol.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:34 PM
5

🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:31 PM
9

I don’t tend to like the term “high-maintenance” personally because I don’t like most of what that entails for women. I don’t want chemicals that damage my hair, or curlers, or carcinogenic makeup on my face making me uncomfortable. Also, I don’t think any woman should be reduced to that dichotomy, because we all have different habits and different places that we put our energy and it seems like that phrase just reduce women down to their appearance (which is par for the course with men). For pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:15 PM
17

This is the best analogy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:08 PM
2

It’s true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:49 AM
92

You’re not a pickme! You were manipulated by some fragile scrote. Just keep on keeping on with FDS :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:48 AM
11

Busy hiring prostitutes, yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 12:21 AM
31

It’s the worst. They say that the most disturbed psycho murders are the ones who strangle their victims to death. And furthermore, strangulation is not only abuse in and of itself but also one of the greatest risk factors for escalating violence down the road. We’re really regressing in these times!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 12:17 AM
19

Yeah I agree with FDS of course about not moving in, but he’s a special case here. He had the self-control to wait this long to start being an abusive shit head, and probably would have been capable of waiting until marriage or pregnancy to show his face if she hadn’t moved in. We do our best, but we can’t always screen every single one. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 12:15 AM
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I find this to be true in traditional countries. The women just get together and collectively bitch over their sons and husbands in the kitchen over tea or treats. I got to experience this firsthand because I’m a daughter, but no son would have the chance to partake obviously lol. It’s the closest thing women in patriarchy have to sisterhood. I think it’s borderline sacred tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 08:57 PM
6

I think it’s even more dangerous to entreat with a LVM if you have a disability. Disabled women have disgustingly high rates of domestic abuse by male partners. Please don’t lower your standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 01:50 PM
14

My favorite reaction pic 😁 So many damn clowns in this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:36 AM
12

Welcome to Russia. I bet she still apologizes to him and defends his ass in public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:37 PM
19

Thisssss. He’s a prime example of LVM negging. I bet if she asked him out (fat chance haha!) he’d change his tune real quick 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:23 PM
29

This is how society should be run. The exact opposite of a patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:12 PM
29

Actually, many of those hunter-gatherer societies were fiercely egalitarian. Some tribes had a tradition of “shaming the meat” so that a particular man wouldn’t get too high and mighty about his tribe contribution. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leveling_mechanism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:57 PM
62

This needs to be a Supreme Court case
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:54 PM
3

😭 God, I hate everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:11 PM
10

Man the ending of that video was so sad, where she was talking about Russian women wanting to be controlled and give up power. :/ She’s also right that it has to do with the political system in general. Sigh. LVM was clearly mad about something else, though....lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:53 AM
21

This + therapy = we take over the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:32 AM
25

I’m actually in tears. Is there anything you can do to get her out of this rut? I’d be sneaking in Barnes and Noble gift cards for her tbh, anything to ignite that passion again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 05:10 AM
5

Yeah. From those shut down posts I get examples of how to do it myself. Although I love almost everything on this sub tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:55 AM
18

Yes!! And it would be presented as manly and you’d have scrotes publishing “research” for why women aren’t naturally built for it or don’t want to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 05:09 PM
18

I mean, he’s denying the clear truth. And I think it’s impossible for a man to be that blind, honestly. Therefore, I conclude that this is not an accident and there’s something going on behind the scenes that I may not be able to parse out yet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:56 AM
5

Wow. This is it. This is the comprehensive list of male political discourse in the 21st century. Guys like this have kept pushing me out of communities everywhere I go...I have nowhere left but here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:43 AM
4

Girl are you me haha. Young FDS gals solidarity ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:18 AM
16

Hey I gotta ask. I plan on going into data analytics and I wanna know: how saturated is my future profession with these assholes? It’s not exactly programming but it’s close.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 01:55 AM
1

Oh shit. Lemme set up my account and get on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 01:19 AM
25

Or being a creative person and knowing how anatomy works. Besides, you don’t have to sleep with someone to read tips online, right? This guy’s an idiot. He probably thinks that large labia = many partners. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 12:39 AM
15

This man is such deep garbage that I refuse to even react to his nonsense. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 12:34 AM
2

I’m sorry, but is everyone interpreting my comment as being about the women? Why? Ffs. I was referring to the men prostituting their daughters, because in second wave feminist lingo it’s “prostituted woman” not just “prostitute.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 12:16 AM
59

I’ve never been average. Any man who tries this shit on me obviously has an agenda. I hold this to be true for the sisterhood on this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 12:12 AM
11

He looks like the kids in my classes who wanted to debate slavery and abortion. 🙄 Every time. And they get upset that everyone’s upset with them. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:10 PM
6

He looks exactly what you’d think he’d look like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:04 PM
6

That’s a smart observation. I guess it relates to the fact that dick is cheap and most of them can’t really be picky anyways. Not that that won’t stop their entitlement once they think they have you lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:00 PM
13

The irony of them calling working for a paycheck prostitution and then instead selling their bodies to strange men for money and thinking that’s okay....wow. I’ve heard hypocrisy is the daily bread of religion but damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 09:35 PM
24

This is it. This is the ugly, hidden truth. And abusive households create more generations/children raised poorly with issues that are exploitable by sociopaths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 09:33 PM
26

Fuck. YES. Everyone always assumes the parents are right, and when the children show anger they’re shamed for it immediately no matter what happened to them. I HATE our authoritarian culture!! (In the US).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 09:30 PM
16

And these callous, cowardly motherfuckers are the people half our country gets their opinions from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 09:08 PM
1

Yeah I agree with your assessment. When the going gets tough, people can make moral choices or immoral ones. Suffering and strife often melt away much pretense and reveal what’s really in someone’s head. There’s a class analysis here which I agree with but also in my experience it’s a predisposition for wanting to climb social ladders that does the most harm to a person’s character. Idk. Just a conspiracy theory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:49 AM
4

You do not, in fact, have better things to do. Or better people to do. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:34 AM
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I’d be such a rude daughter in law 😂 This is 100/100
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:33 AM
10

This is such a useful post. I have a habit of over sharing because that’s how I deal with my emotions - by pretending I don’t feel broken by things. Wear them like armor, goes the saying. But I didn’t know enough about the world until I read this sub that this is the thing narcissists for for. Thanks for the warning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:08 AM
44

Honestly I’m not saying this to be hateful but sometimes the vibes I get on this sub make me think that because women have such high standards for themselves (which I don’t reach, appearance-wise) I will always be on the bottom, compared to y’all, and therefore die alone lol. But I like the encouragement. It’s what’s on the inside that really shines through in the long-term. And diff people like diff things anyways. I’ll continue to do my thing and support women who are doing other things, as lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:45 AM
6

Yeah, that’s what they taught us in our domestic violence course in college. It’s a monstrosity. I can hardly think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:41 AM
7

It’s the entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:09 AM
9

This comment is gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:19 PM
4

Tbh I’d wear jeans to a date 😂 But not with this guy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:09 PM
17

🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:25 AM
6

Yeah I’m with you. The lack of substance is my #1 problem honestly. Fuccbois are easy to filter on Hinge but the majority of the other men end up boring after you figure out what they’re after...(hint: a mammy).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:48 AM
1

I’m about your age and I feel much the same way. Although I don’t have your levels of beauty, probably. Starting to see a spinster future playing out....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:44 AM
4

Or like 50% of people on it are there for hookups. Idk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:19 AM
13

This is what you should send to his employer. And his parents. And maybe the police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:48 PM
17

Yikes, how did that happen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:42 PM
2

Wait, where is the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 06:49 PM
2

Small goal: lose ten pounds by the end of 2020, using mostly weight lifting and minor diet changes. The bigger goal: I will become a trusted advisor of someone professionally, earning my way forward with strategic vision and using that to maneuver myself into a position of maximum freedom. I lowkey wanna start a side business too. And then retire somewhere in Siberia when I’ve finally had enough of everyone’s shit LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 06:35 PM
6

I’d be worried a man is trying to start something risky, run off with the rewards, and leave you with crippling debt/bankruptcy. I haven’t seen this happen before but I’m not putting ANYTHING past a LVM. Unless you’re married, don’t make these kinds of decisions together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 06:14 PM
3

Girl I would have just laughed at him for the entire hour. He’d rage-quit. You’re still a queen tho ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:37 PM
2

I know people use this term as an incel dog whistle, but I think the combination of those two things should be called toxic femininity. Libfems are never gonna have that conversation because they know they’d be the first to be implicated in ruining sisterhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 06:10 AM
2

Y’all gotta stop. Half of this isn’t even necessary. I know that might come off as beauty-shaming or whatever but women really need to put that money back into less harmful things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 09:44 PM
3

Yeah, that’s true. I don’t know many older libfems. But I’m in my early twenties myself. I think the key ingredient isn’t necessarily just age, but critical thinking skills. They’re hegemonic (cult-like) and toxically agreeable. Any woman who disagrees is bullied. Including by orbiting male libfems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:50 PM
7

Cooking healthy food takes wayyyyyy more than one hour a day. Over this winter break I took care of my mother while she worked and I wasn’t, and you bet I figured out real quick that quality food made from scratch is at least a part-time job, even with modern conveniences. And that’s not even counting cleaning and maintenance. You know damn well they give these clownish estimates because they probably can’t do more than pour cereal and microwave fries for themselves. How much money do you wanna …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:54 AM
30

Now my life philosophy is: “give men nothing.” Until you put a ring on it, you have extremely limited investment from me. This includes males in my immediate environment, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:33 AM
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Making small talk with men based on three sentences of introduction is not a good way to do dating. I was told that Hinge was better than most apps in terms of avoiding fuckbois but now I can’t find substance either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:31 AM
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Yeah, except Wonder Woman’s creator has this to say about women: ““Of course I wouldn’t expect Miss Roubicek to understand all this,” Marston wrote Gaines. “After all I have devoted my entire life to working out psychological principles. Miss R. has been in comics only 6 months or so, hasn’t she? And never in psychology.” But “the secret of woman’s allure,” he told Gaines, is that “women enjoy submission—being bound.”” She started off as an expression of his ideas conflicting with the feminist m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:27 AM
40

A system designed to let LVM reproduce 🙌 That’s exactly what this con is. We all get worse genetics and worse quality of life because these males aren’t held accountable and have children left and right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:21 PM
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