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You act like every single mother is just down to fuck. If you're on your game/stay around long enough then it will get brought up or unexpectedly happen.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/25 07:04 AM
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This. They are bad news. I was with one, stupidly. She had a few kids with the same man. Know something? When you do that, you know the guy you had these kids with, he is your soulmate/one, not me. He's had more of a bond with her than me and all other men before and after us. Guess what else? When we had our time we might have walked past a shop and she'd be like "oh little timmy dipshit would lurrrrrve that!". Little Timmy isn't mine. And you don't want more kids, so what's the point in us con…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/25 12:01 PM
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Thanks & well done. 👊🏻
/r/TheRedPill29/04/25 09:01 PM
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Feel better for it?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/25 03:50 PM
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Great post, and a topic I always find interesting. Does anyone know how to go about this in the UK?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/25 03:48 PM
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What's worse, your woman saying she fancies 25 men or has actually fucked 25 men? Besides, if she's been with a bunch of men then you can forget about her being loyal.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/25 09:24 PM
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They are exhausting, aren't they? As much as I think I'd like a gf, I know the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/25 08:43 PM
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Been there and regretted it. If you're conflicted about their feelings then you are not over your Ex/not ready for a relationship just yet. I had to slow-fade from the ones most decent and just keep the lower grade ones around as what do they give a shit as long as you still keep them around in some capacity? Takes time, man. It really does. May I ask, do you feel any guilt when meeting new women, as in you miss your Ex or feel like you're cheating on her in some way? Sounds weird, but that's ho…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/25 09:20 AM
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Great stuff, OP. You're not wrong!
/r/TheRedPill14/04/25 09:16 AM
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Gold, as per.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/25 05:12 PM
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Everybody's favourite uncle is here! Salute, Vaz. Quality poster whose advice has bailed me out many times. 👊🏻
/r/TheRedPill02/04/25 11:20 AM
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AWALT
/r/TheRedPill25/03/25 01:43 PM
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It might just be the country and culture.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/25 09:32 PM
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Such as?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/25 01:32 PM
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If you start with saying "no" more often, that's a huge step forward. Watch anyone with balls and you will see that they say no and mean it. It's like a superpower.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/25 08:24 AM
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What's that old saying? You miss 100% of the shots you don't take? It's true.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/25 05:52 PM
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I may be off here, but personally speaking, to be the man takes serious balls. Partner making life hard but you've had enough and need to actually stand up for yourself? Takes balls. Climbing the corporate ladder takes balls. Same if you're on the wrong side of the law. Putting yourself first 90% of the time because you know if you don't it's game over? Takes balls. The mentality is needed first, imho. Get angry, get fed up of being fed up. But when you do become the main character of your life,…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/25 05:21 PM
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In for later.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/25 10:15 AM
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Excellent post. This is mostly why I can't commit; because she might wake up tomorrow and it's over. The juice just isn't worth the squeeze.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/25 10:23 PM
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I think it's some form of mental health condition/disease crossed with bad parenting. This phenomena only reared it's head post 2012. No surprise to me that traditionalism fell off around that time. Example: 2 people I know had a kid. Both parents are on the spectrum and have BPD too. The man wasn't dragged up, had a stable homelife until he was around 17/18, didn't believe in same sex relationships. His partner, well, she did believe in same sex relationships, didn't mind if her daughter dyed h…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/25 06:56 AM
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My man! Was in a supermarket with an Ex many moons ago. Walking around and i spot this sexy Asian number. I'm on my own so she blanks me. I link up with the ex because I went to another part of the store to get something. So then then the Asian woman sees us... instantly changes body language. Couldn't stop staring at me.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/25 05:39 PM
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It's something you do when you're busy, but want to read the topic. Kinda like a bookmark. Apologies if it caused offence.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/25 08:09 AM
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It's basically me saving this for later so I can comment on it, as I was busy.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/25 08:08 AM
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Fuck yeah!
/r/TheRedPill03/01/25 11:12 PM
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For later. Thanks, OP.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/25 08:54 PM
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Fucking A, man!
/r/TheRedPill30/12/24 09:42 PM
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Amen, OP!
/r/TheRedPill28/12/24 01:38 PM
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Excellent post. I don't act like an asshole, but I do feel bad when I have to act like one towards a woman. But at some point you simply have to be harsh towards them.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/24 10:21 PM
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Excellent post, friend.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/24 09:08 PM
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Beautiful, champ!
/r/TheRedPill30/11/24 08:18 AM
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Living the dream, friend. Enjoy!
/r/TheRedPill30/11/24 08:17 AM
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Very valid point. It's all well and good spinning plates in your 30's, but in your 40's even the strongest get lonely and need company.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/24 08:16 AM
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Do tell more about your epiphany, please sir!
/r/TheRedPill30/11/24 08:15 AM
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She's not yours, it's just your turn.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/24 08:57 PM
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You can say that again!
/r/TheRedPill24/11/24 08:47 PM
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I agree. Society is fucked.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/24 01:59 PM
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Woujo is a great contributor from the past. Hope all is well, friend. I have always enjoyed your topics.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/24 09:03 AM
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It simply has to lead to cheating. Again, knew someone who knew a woman who slept with over sixty men! If you ain't found the one by then, you never will. And you will always think that the grass is greener. That will then lead to cheating.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/24 09:01 AM
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That stare is legit real. I was with the worst cunt of an Ex, ever. One day we argued, and I shit you not, this youngish guy walks past (he was a boxer, so he was in shape) and I remember her glazing the fuck out of him whilst I got my point across and it felt like I was talking to a wall. Her mind was elsewhere, clearly. But that gaze, and you will see it on dating apps from time to time, is real and has meaning. Scares the shit out of me to think what's happened to a woman that has that look.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/24 08:59 AM
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Going through this with somebody who was a dear friend but turned out to be a cunt. Ignorance is never blissful when told that you need saving!
/r/TheRedPill15/11/24 10:43 AM
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True, some can't be avoided. But if they can, do it at all costs.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/24 07:53 PM
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This. Like Dante said, find out what your non-negoitables are and never negotiate them. The six month rule (as stated above) is a good one. But I'm a bigger fan of deleting them from every area of your life and just moving on. They had their chance, and you have no obligation to them (moral or not).
/r/TheRedPill10/11/24 09:43 AM
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👊🏻👊🏻
/r/TheRedPill10/11/24 08:01 AM
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Excellent post.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/24 09:49 PM
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So having kids and one lady is "alpha", by your definition? I may be reading that wrong. I don't have and don't want kids. I also don't settle, at all. I'd rather be by myself than settle for mediocrity and some other man's kids being the center of my life and a drain on my time.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/24 09:42 AM
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Nah, he's a grifter.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/24 08:08 PM
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I feel as if the whole world is fucked rn.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/24 09:00 AM
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Maybe, but I see my ability and capacity to love pretty much like a cake. One that slice has gone, I'm left with "x amount". I think I'd have to be a psycho to consistently be able to love hard as fuck in every relationship. There'd have to be some kind of underlying issue for me if that's the case.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/24 09:48 AM
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She will be unbearable. End of. A relationship with that dynamic has no happy ending, ever.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/24 08:16 PM
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Well said.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/24 08:13 PM
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Man, you hit me hard with that first paragraph! Damn, man. I feel the exact same way. If I'd rather be doing XYZ than being with her, oh well.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/24 08:12 PM
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"I'm a dog mom!". No you're not.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/24 08:07 PM
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Thank you. Always happy to help.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/24 07:16 PM
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Well said. Chime in more if you can ;-) From being brought up well, to prove you're correct with your point, and I'm talking well, I met a woman who had been dragged up. Nearly married the crazy cunt too. Let me tell you, always look at her parents. Not every woman who has been brought up by her parents, who are together of course, will be loyal. But fuck-a-duck, I fancy those odds waaaaaaay more than I do the odds of some woman who hasn't. You have no chance of happiness with them.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/24 07:11 PM
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🤣🤣👌🏻
/r/TheRedPill11/10/24 03:31 PM
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Man, I had to remove a guy from my life years ago as all he ever did in his free time was smoke weed and doom scroll. It's hard to be around people like that when you're not like that and you have a sense of adventure/want to make the most of life. I simply refuse to be around people with no hobbies and interests as they bring nothing to the table.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/24 03:30 PM
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I know ;-)
/r/TheRedPill07/10/24 01:19 PM
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Damn smooth line. Legendary film.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/24 01:19 PM
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Agreed. It's a brilliant metaphor, and one I will always use from now on. Solid advice, friend.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/24 01:04 PM
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Every. Fucking. Time.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/24 09:14 PM
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I've always been RP'ed anyway due to my friends and elders being that way, but it was when I stumbled upon Patrice and Dante around 2015/16 that really opened up my mind to it. They were operating on another level to what I'd seen and heard, and was quite frankly, blown away. Found Reddit, and soon after found the trp forum (I so miss that place. Respect to Uncle Vaz. A real help, true gent, and am asset to that and this sub and deffo helped out. Appreciated Vaz!). The above mentioned really upp…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/24 09:32 PM
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Gold. Solid gold. Patrice, our Lord and Saviour, mentioned something about your vibe. He said something about hunchbacks and "why is this hunchback motherfucker walking like he should be fucking me?". Light bulb moment for me that was. You can be out of shape or not be a 10/10, but if there's something about the way you carry yourself, it goes a long way too. Dress sense and grooming is huge too. Haircut every two weeks and dressing smartly = advantage. Women love footwear and a good outfit that…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/24 06:15 PM
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Hence why we always hear "My Ex was a POS". Makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/24 06:42 AM
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We always want what we can't have.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/24 06:33 AM
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In.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/24 07:48 PM
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Every time.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/24 07:47 PM
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Yup. You've gotta paddle your own canoe in this world. No one woman completes a man. And women, as I've gotten older, are for the night. I deal with them after work. Always.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/24 07:22 AM
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In.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/24 04:49 PM
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In.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/24 06:12 PM
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Well said. More is always better.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/24 05:01 AM
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This. I've had 5 on the go and gone searching for more, because they can go in a second.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/24 07:01 PM
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Good man.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/24 07:00 PM
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Man, you're dead on. In my last relationship she crossed the line for the final time, so I said to myself that it's done and I need to end it. Like the gutless fool that I was I stayed around trying to rationalise this shit relationship and then, boom! She dumped me. That fucked with my head for way longer than it should have. End it before it ends you. Always.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/24 06:59 PM
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This. Between Patricie, Dante, Uncle Vaz and the old trp forum, there isn't much else needed really. If the advice that these men (and site) doesn't get through to you, nothing will. All of the above have bettered my understanding of and my relationship with women and relationships.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/24 06:33 AM
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Everybody gets got. From the homeless dude to a billionaire who cares too much. If you haven't taken a loss, then you haven't been in the game.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/24 08:45 PM
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It is, sure, but let's not forget that even a woman who can count her N-Count on her thumbs can be bad too. I remember getting told about one woman who had slept with, and these were her own words, over seventy men. I can't help but think what trouble she will get herself into when she inevitably fucks over her next chap. 70 dicks, though. To go through that many men and not think one of them is worthy of locking down blows my mind. For me? She must have been with under 10 for it to work. Even t…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/24 07:14 PM
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Let me add a little something to this already excellent post... 1) Stretch. Before the workout use "Dynamic Stretching" and after the workout use "Static Stretching". 2) Iodized Salt. Take 1/4 of a teaspoon before your hard sessions such as Back, Legs, or a Full Body workout. You sweat salt out during workouts. And you know that hungry feeling you get in a workout? Or that feeling of feeling low on energy? You get those because you lost salt. Seriously, thank later. 3) Cardio. Do a 5 Minute Row …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/24 08:59 AM
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I agree and disagree. You can bet your last dollar that a woman that has slept with 30+ men will not have a single loyal bone in here body. I've seen this. The higher the number, the higher the chance is of you getting hurt. Like, really hurt. Guaranteed they have been or are pretty fucking wild, too. I've also banged women who you could count their BC on your thumbs. Absolutely horrendous at sex. Face to face fucking and Eskimo kissing ffs! Would I wife a woman who has slept with 50+ men? No ch…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/24 10:18 AM
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Well said! This is like a post from years ago.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/24 09:17 PM
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This. I've seen proper sluts, I'm talking women who have slept with over two hundred men, suddenly have an epiphany and get a degree and lock down a nerd who has zero clue of her past. That takes some balls on her behalf. Also seen good women just wait it out for someone who doesn't exist. Just focus on self improvement and that will bring you more happiness.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/24 04:01 PM
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Truth. If anything, seeing someone like that is a chance to get some advice. I'd rather 5 Mins of their time and what they say can potentially change my life, rather than being envious of them.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/24 05:08 PM
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This. But part of "waking up" requires a revelation. An 9-5 average Joe who complains about how poor is weekly pay is needs to see someone earn in a day what he does in a week/be shown a fuck-off bag of money and be told "took me 2 days to make this". He needs this, otherwise they don't believe it and stay at the shitty job. Another one, as morbid as it sounds, is the death of a close one. If that doesn't force you to level up because you finally realise how short life is, nothing will.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/24 10:29 PM
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Honestly, this is where I am at with them. A wise man once told me that "women are for the night". I bang one once or twice a week and I'm good. Less is better when you get older as they usually have a ton of baggage/bullshit that I don't want to know about.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/24 10:23 PM
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Envy must be a horrible thing to endure. I never did understand being jealous. If someone has more money than me? Fair play to them. If someone is smashing multiple 9's and I'm smashing a 2? Fair play to them. The "Green eyed monster" will posion you. One thing in life you must do as a man is tip your hat to your fellow man. Praise/commend, never hate. As far as intuition/trusting your gut, it's always best to pay attention to actions and not words. As you get older you will find that your circl…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/24 04:56 PM
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TLDR: Don't get married! ;-) just kidding. Jokes aside, a quote/mantra/piece of advice I got, and understood it immediately was "observe the masses and do the opposite". I think that combined with some self awareness (ie: you start a shitty job and get speaking to someone there who has been there 5 years, is miserable, has no prospects, and gets a rise every 18 months. You know you don't want to be him, so you learn from his mistakes whilst also formulating a plan to leave) and ambition (this is…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/24 09:34 AM
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A book list would be very welcomed!
/r/TheRedPill18/06/24 11:10 PM
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Cut those women out ASAP. They will do nothing but waste your time.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/24 09:29 PM
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"An ever fattening parasite" Good lord! You have a way with words. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/TheRedPill14/06/24 05:54 PM
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My man! What a brilliant summary. I've always thought that it's impossible to love, get hurt, and then love again... over and over with multiple people. I mean, how much love has one person got? And if you do get hurt, and I believe every break-up takes something from you (just like every gruelling fight that a fighter has makes them that little bit more worn), how can you not be guarded/reluctant to love? There's two "ones" for me: the one, and one of many. That's it.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/24 10:32 AM
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Yup. I say "all of 'em". Goes down well.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/24 08:58 PM
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Every. Single. Time. I knew a guy who was a Grade A bum. He moved area from his friends and went to a new area. His new friends? The local winos. Bums, just like him. I know thieves. Professional criminals. Guess who they hang around with? Exactly. It's always this way. Like attracts like.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/24 08:39 PM
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I learnt this the hard way (but did manage to bag a few threesomes). The odds that your girl is the only one behaving out of the pack of whores she calls friends are hilarious. The whole "you're the average of the 5..." is one of the truest sayings in life. Winners hang with winners, junkies hang with junkies, and sluts hang with sluts. Always.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/24 08:37 PM
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Ty.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/24 08:29 PM
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I don't.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/24 06:49 AM
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If many are doing it then it's clearly nature. The root? Attention. It's always this.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 05:00 PM
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I miss that place so badly.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 01:23 PM
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This is money right here. Leopards don't change their spots.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/24 09:37 AM
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This. Very well put, BTW. I used to think like OP, but when a woman betrays you and let's another man have sexual relations with her, that's on her.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/24 05:04 PM
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Rule 5 is money. If I'm talking to a woman and she even say's that shit to me I immediately cut her dead. She can't be loyal and is clearly a slut or a user.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/24 08:18 PM
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He doesn't. I've been around him in those situations where I would see it and he's very Blue Pilled. And I do mean very. The kinda guy that hung around with two women every day for nearly 3 years and didn't fuck either of them, despite them being hot and both into him. But when I had a similar situation I had umpteen three ways. And he's looking for the happy ending - and always has. When we've both had similar scenarios he's always always gone the BP route. I'm also of an age where I've seen go…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/24 07:39 AM
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This x10000000000. As long as someone's hot, all they have to do is not be weird. Simple really. I've got friends who absolutely clean up when it comes to women. Bodycounts upwards of 3-400. Many of them are, in looks, at least an 8. And when I say many, I'm talking they could have an 8 every weekend if they wanted. A bunch of them, in fact.if they weren't attractive they would struggle to fuck anything other than 3's. Being hot is the ultimate cheat code for men. That gets you in the door quick…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/24 10:39 PM
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Man, you're dead on. Someone who I became friends with a few years ago, and is a proper good man, stood by his Ex-Wifes side when she got Cancer. What happens? She beats it, divorces him, and starts a new life. What a cunt.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/24 08:27 PM
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Anything by Poliquin.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/24 08:51 AM
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My bad. Ty.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/24 02:51 PM
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It isn't. The layout gives me a headache and isn't clear to navigate. This forum, like most on here, gets killed by the mods.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/24 07:50 AM
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I think we need to do what the old timers did and put yourself first. "Treat them mean to keep them keen" was the motto when I was growing up. That just isn't the case nowadays - and it should be. Every man I knew back in the 90's who preached that did what they wanted, when they wanted. Not a single woman other than maybe their mom could put them in place. They could see right through a womans game, so they never played. We simp like fuck nowadays. We also inundate women with dick pics. We're s…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/24 11:58 AM
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Will do.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/24 07:53 PM
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I'm 70-30 on going to the gym for the right reason. But I won't lie. There's one woman who absolutely is worth me losing face over. She's absolutely fire, she trains like an animal, doesn't act like a slut in the gym like many women do, and is cool as fuck. And there's another who is on a hook up site in there! Now if she gives me a sign, it's game on. I'm dying to put it on her, but I'm not sure the juice is worth the squeeze. I'm there to improve my health, not add another notch to the bedpost…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/24 02:19 PM
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That feeling of knowing for a fact that you're not her top option and some other guy is, is not only brutally hurtful, unbelievably hard to accept, but a real game changer if you decided to better yourself despite it and not get depressed/down about it. An Ex cheated on me. So I snooped through her phone (if you feel the need to do this, just finish it. Nothing good will come from staying or snooping) and found WhatsApp messages between her and the AP. Fuck me, we couldn't have been treated anym…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/24 10:45 AM
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True. But they do get a break (when camp is over/fights over) from it, unlike us ;-)
/r/TheRedPill15/03/24 01:20 PM
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Yeah, kind of. I'm past the acceptance stage, so it isn't depression. It's just that the curtain has been pulled back and I don't like what I see. You're dealing with something that doesn't have loyalty in their vocabulary. Kinda hard for things to work out with that trait missing. Example: I was seeing a woman who was apparently crazy for me. Hadn't seen her in 2 weeks and hadn't fucked her in twice as long. So we meet, and then she tells me about some drama involving another man who she's trie…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/24 08:23 AM
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You're welcome.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/24 11:04 PM
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I've seen better days. Sleeping with women that are unattractive just to fulfil my ego, work is beyond slow, physique needs a lot of work, social circle has taken a hit.. as i said, it could (and will) be better. It will change, these things do. But it's really bad to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/24 08:03 PM
3

You won, friend. Congrats! 👊🏻
/r/TheRedPill25/02/24 03:45 PM
1

Do it. Future you will thank you for it.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/24 03:23 PM
5

In all honesty, pretty fucked. One is an Ex-Heroin Addict who is on the mend. One has literally nothing going on in life but his job and his family. So when we talk he talks about nothing but his daughter, his work, his daughter, and his work. He bores me to tears. An Average Joe with no hobbies or life. Really fucking boring. One is on the right path. Well paid job, good woman, beautiful car, and he's smart. Funny as fuck too, so that's always good. One is mid 40's, obese, lives with his girl, …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/24 06:27 PM
4

Way more concerned. I've seen beautiful women flip burgers and clean peoples homes for a living. Real low-level jobs. Would I care about that? Would I fuck! She's fire, so say no more.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/24 09:56 PM
2

Solid, solid post. 👊🏻👍🏻
/r/TheRedPill16/02/24 09:54 PM
1

I was lucky that 9/10 of my friends are just naturally that way inclined. You just get a male chasing the Disney ideal/fairytale ending otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/24 09:14 PM
2

Definitely. And there's an air of respect that an older gentleman commands when dressed smartly. Look at Paul Weller, the famous musician. Absolutely pristine every day, even at his age. Compare that to other men that age and I know who I'd rather be like when I'm older.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/24 09:44 AM
2

You don't have to wear designer. I never do anymore. I aim for top end of the high street brands and that has worked really well for me. I don't like big logos and brands like Gucci, LV etc anyway. But what you said about buying new clothes when broke is true. But if you can be broke and still maintain a smart image (there's no need to buy clothes, just dress consistently smart with what you have) then that's the way to go imho. People have a way of noticing things and making assumptions, and lo…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/24 09:42 AM
1

Possibly Dante Nero or Patrice.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/24 06:02 PM
2

My pleasure, bro!
/r/TheRedPill12/02/24 02:48 PM
1

Thanks friend!
/r/TheRedPill12/02/24 02:48 PM
3

Thanks! I'll give my 2 cents on later tonight. ;-)
/r/TheRedPill12/02/24 02:47 PM
51

In no specific order... Networking, Health, Wealth, Friendship, Appearance. 1) Networking The richest and most popular people I have seen are masters at Networking. They just "get" people, thrive on Social interaction, and they are usually, in business anyway, phenomenal middlemen. You will never be rich if your network is small. You also won't get to be where you want to be without it. 2) Health Hit the gym, best thing for you. An old buddy of mine had a heart attack. Docs advised him to go, I …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/24 09:56 PM
1

Marry her.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 04:42 PM
25

All you need to know now is that she has to remain a plate forever. In my experience only a hoe would ask such a thing.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 04:41 PM
8

Your funeral, buddy. Bet this place goes stone dead now.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/24 04:13 PM
7

It's common sense, buddy. What happens is that the weeding out process gets to a point where it's so strict that there's very few subjects to leave feedback on. Then the mainstays leave because, well, what's the point of staying when there's no fresh topics to leave feedback on? Once a forum lose that, it's game over. Like this place, for example. Seen it happen 20 years ago. So let's not go there with the OG talk, buddy. Have I looked at the forums that trp mentioned after trp got wound down? S…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/24 10:58 AM
5

Lurkers and posters are two different things. Lurkers don't help a sub grow, posters do. Please, I've tried to follow along before and guess what? This sub (like trp) before it had it right the first time.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/24 10:33 AM
11

Might as well close the sub down as nobody is going to go there. Every sub that suffers this dies off rapidly.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/24 09:47 PM
1

Boom!
/r/TheRedPill28/01/24 03:34 PM
1

It's not a lot to ask for, really! :-)
/r/TheRedPill27/01/24 07:44 PM
1

Even less, imho. You can "work hard" for 2-3 years, have a light bulb moment, and by year 7 you can have acquired way more dough than you ever expected.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/24 12:02 AM
2

It's the method that makes the most sense, overall. I think they must just know that being overly emotional about something will ruin them in the long term.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/24 08:03 AM
1

Ty, sir!
/r/TheRedPill24/01/24 10:41 AM
3

That's why I've swung for the past few years. Ladies night? Not my problem. One on one with a male by "accident"? Not my problem. Arguing about Facebook DM's and requests? See above. Fuck. All. Of. That. Life's too short. I visit a venue once a month to let off some steam. Hell, I've even bagged FB's through these places. And I already have 2 FB's going, so I'm alright. Relationships can be seriously tough. And getting hurt cut too deep.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/24 08:01 PM
6

I disagree, although I see what you're getting at. I've experienced it first hand with women have no support. They are just built different. The whole "Men are romantics but think they're realists, and women are realists who think they're romantic" is so fucking true.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/24 11:36 AM
-3

Are they? Pretty sure some animals slaughter the male when they're done with them.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/24 09:00 AM
27

They are. I've seen both sexes face the biggest tests and tragedies that life can give you, and women ace them. Men? 9/10 fall apart. When women choose to be cold hearted or flat out tough about something, they go harder than paint.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/24 10:41 PM
2

1) I kind of agree. The real glory days were 2004-2012. But I can still make it work for me, hence me siding with it. 2) Matches? You make your own matches. I don't and haven't paid a single dime to get who I've wanted. I've always liked how it's removed the guessing game for me. You try that in a bar and it's either a waiting game or you're wearing a pint glass. I prefer the known over the unknown.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/23 10:40 AM
1

Dude, it's not 2001. As much as I prefer the cold approach and the benefits that come with it, it's a different time.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/23 08:00 PM
1

Depends on your goal. Wanting to smash? You're in luck. Want a decent/average woman? Doable. Wanting to find a wife? Best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/23 01:53 PM
1

Good work.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/23 11:46 PM
6

My man! I've done three people dirty in my life regarding sex/relationships/cheating. One I truly felt sorry for and wholeheartedly apologised. In doing so, my moral compass changed. I would never do that again. Then there was one who I don't regret doing it to, but did feel so fucking awful, like suicidal awful, when I'd done it. Then there was an Ex. I didn't have the balls to leave her and be on my own (the timing of it and because I felt like we could fix things - how wrong I was!), and I, l…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/23 11:45 AM
10

To themselves? Yes. To you & me? No!
/r/TheRedPill12/12/23 11:35 AM
2

Any links my good man?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/23 07:15 PM
19

Move on. He can have her any time he wants. When he does, and he will have her, you will be seriously regretting not listening to the advice you've received here.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/23 10:59 PM
7

Mega sluts who are married, but don't cheat? I know of two. Proper whores. Yet, even though their hubbies are beta af, and not well off, they won't cheat on them. Why?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/23 08:53 AM
2

Any philosophy in particular? Needing something new and some direction myself. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/23 10:13 PM
1

Are you working? I can hand on heart say that if you don't have a purpose, you're in big trouble. By that, I mean a job or a career - and it's always one that you love that will make you happy. I believe a man's work and his happiness are linked. The two most fed-up and bored people I know don't work. They also don't work out. That's another massive thing you should be doing. Kill the body and the mind follows. I'll tell you something which takes my mind off of things, and that's going to a lake…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/23 08:59 AM
7

The old "I need to focus on myself". The moment they come out with that they might as well say the truth. That truth, and it's always this, is that there's another man in the picture. Sorry to break that to you. I had the same thing said to me. Guess what I found out? She was fucking another man. The island? Possibly a chance for you to see her, sounds like she was saying that. But then again it could be something else. Friend, cut that fucker loose now. She's dead to you. And I'll tell you some…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/23 09:37 PM
17

An OG, for me, is Vaz. Solid advice that I will always swear by, and has been kind enough in the past to reply to pm's with solid advice that has stood me in good stead. A very good dude.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/23 09:27 PM
2

100% I am. Since I can remember I've took betrayal the wrong way. I've tried to fix that, but some cuts run too deep. I've unplugged a long time ago. I've peaked behind the curtain, so to speak. Now? I know full well what a woman is capable of, so I don't find myself in situations where I can get hurt by one.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/23 02:10 PM
28

For me, and this is from someone who has been so fucking hurt by women, the best thing to do is have a few fuck buddies, visit sex clubs, and just get my action when I need it. The commitment side of things is completely dead to me. I was engaged to a woman who had told me she had a body count of 16. Yet there were 4 of us in her block/apartment block that had fucked her (I found this out later). That's a quarter of your body count all under one roof at the same time. Low-life shit. She initiate…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/23 11:21 AM
2

As depressing as this sounds, and as hard as that pill is to swallow, you're right (unless you move out of the west). That's why I don't bother with relationships. I know what the final outcome will be, so why waste valuable resources on it? I hate dating/relationships in this day and age.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/23 11:12 AM
20

As much as I get this, it simply won't work. Sounds great in theory, but in reality it will never happen. Selection > Ultimatums. Picking the right woman who doesn't do that is much better for you than going down that road later on in an established relationship.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/23 11:07 AM
47

Something which always bothered me about women clubbing/drinking was "if hubby isn't here, what do you think he's up to? He must be cheating. So go for it, girl...". How women come to that conclusion, and it's one that they always do come to, is baffling and disgusting. It's as if it's impossible for us to stay in and enjoy the peace & quiet by ourselves. We simply must be fucking someone else. Idiots.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/23 11:05 AM
5

True. I'd rather a man have a stupid hobby than not have one at all. They can save your life.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/23 04:39 PM
3

I know. A clean break is the best thing after a bombshell like that.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/23 07:40 PM
3

Fuck man, what a debut. I'm with you on the first/last though. Cheating as an adult is something you will do again, imho. Hard to put that genie back in the bottle.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/23 01:37 PM
1

That silence forces them to come to the realisation that they are a piece of shit.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/23 10:20 AM
1

Boom! What would you suggest?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/23 10:16 AM
1

Random hook up, imho. I've never known the boss of any company like living in a shit hole.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/23 10:15 AM
3

Oh boy! It's like the old days reading this. Bravo, sir. Bravo.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/23 10:00 AM
2

And he should have done it. 1) it's not insecure. I hate how men think that. To me, it was a mix of lie detector and insurance policy. That's how I found out the worst of the worst about an Ex. I'd have been so in the dark without it, so I'm glad to have done it. Saved me so much fucking hassle. 2) Women aren't as clever as they think they are when it comes to covering their tracks. There will be a clue, somewhere (check the bins, note section, deleted snaps, or even type a word in het whatsapp)…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/23 09:57 AM
1

Is this your first Red flag moment in the relationship with her?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/23 09:51 AM
2

Once a cheat, always a cheat. I find that when women cheat a part of their character is gone for good. Never known that kinda thing not reoccur from a woman's side when she does it once.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/23 09:50 AM
1

This. Trust is the glue that keeps a relationship together and healthy. Once that's gone, so is the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/23 09:49 AM
2

Well said. But when you combine what happend with her cheating in a previous relationship, it's time to end it and do some real work on yourself, OP. Just make sure the next one is better. Just block her and go NC. For life. Like Vas once told me: No second chances
/r/TheRedPill05/11/23 09:48 AM
1

This. There is no middle ground.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/23 01:12 PM
8

Good lord. Ouch! In all honesty, this is a seriously quality post. You know your stuff.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/23 01:12 PM
6

Good to see you back, sir. On form as usual.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/23 02:15 PM
2

I miss Vas's posts. He's a good man who is well missed.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 09:47 PM
1

Words to live by. Well said.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/23 04:47 PM
6

This. But tell me, where do you find a good/decent woman in 2023? It's hard out here.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/23 04:46 PM
34

This. I hate this part of the dating game. Hang in there, don't be 100% all in, and create abundance so this situation stings less in the future.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/23 04:43 PM
3

This. As soon as you accept this the better.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/23 09:07 PM
1

Accurate. If I need more than a hand or two, I'll pass on anything serious ever happening between us.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/23 11:29 AM
5

Cold, hard truth right here, folks.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/23 11:27 AM
4

This. This is crucial. The more women you wade through, the better your chances of finding exactly what you want.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/23 11:24 AM
1

Man, every day is a school day! Tell me this, what should you do if this reignites something in her to make her want to "try again"?
/r/TheRedPill24/08/23 07:15 AM
1

Damn, I had something else in mind. Thanks for the reply.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/23 09:18 PM
6

So what's an example of inititiating a break up but leaving her a bittersweet memory?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/23 08:05 AM
-1

A cunt is a cunt, IMHO. No amount of being able to handle "emotional intensity" will top that. So yeah, I'll use logic on that one. Fool me once...
/r/TheRedPill23/08/23 08:03 AM
1

Very true. You must pull the trigger.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/23 07:11 AM
11

Boom! What you believe, you can... Self belief is the most powerful attribute you can have. You have that and you're gonna achieve whatever you want.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/23 06:24 PM
2

This. You're better off spinning as many plates as possible these days. It's the best option and the only option which is heartbreak proof.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/23 08:18 AM
14

You're dead on. Social media, and I honestly believe this, has killed relationships for good. People were together for a good amount of time pre socials. Now? 3-5 years if you're lucky. If your girl has socials you're in trouble. It's a case of when, not if. And imho good women are getting rarer and rarer by the minute. I think part of accepting TRP is when you get hurt, in specific being cheated on. That kills all and any shred of BP that you have in you. Once you experience that, it's game ove…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/23 08:10 AM
2

White Knight much? How about getting with to a woman whilst your mother is dying of cancer, only for that woman to cheat on you during that period? To pretend to love me during a traumatic experience like that but also fuck randoms behind my back trumps wolf whistles, friend. It's hard to trust, let alone love a woman after that. Hopefully you see where I am coming from.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/23 07:23 AM
3

I agree, that's why I'm giving serious thought to dating Sikh and Muslim women. They seem like the last ideal women around.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/23 10:25 PM
8

Jaded? I'm glad I see them like this and have this pov than not having it, otherwise I'd be walking around clueless like a gazelle in the crosshairs.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/23 05:10 PM
3

I'll tell you how brazen they can be, they can actually mention him. That's why anytime I hear her mentioning one guy a few times the alarm bell rings.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/23 05:09 PM
4

And that shouldn't be our fault. Some women can be that good woman for a long time. Long enough that it's actually their character. Until one day... and when she cheats on you, it's not your fault. It's impossible for it to always be your fault. I do agree though that we can give the benefit of the doubt too many times, and that leads to big problems.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/23 06:39 AM
8

This is so true, at least for me. I've slept with around 100 women. I have very little respect for them. Even the better ones are still pretty bad. Part of it is from seeing and experiencing how fucking evil they can be (trust me, they are way worse than us), and part of it is also how they are really just hoes, and can make life really unbearable at times. I think I struggle to bond because I don't believe in love anymore. When you've been with the only one that you want, and you go all the way…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/23 06:35 AM
1

When I was in a relationship (I'm not MGTOW but relationships just aren't worth it) I'd have three-ways with her and her friends (two of them). That helped me a lot.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/23 06:22 AM
12

Not always. I've slept with a woman who cheated on her man, and she's slept with like 4 men. Women with a low number can still be bad.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/23 11:02 PM
1

I was waiting (a little bit too long) for this reply. Keep an eye on her and create options just in case, dude.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/23 06:24 PM
5

An 8am meet? What the fuck? Midday onwards if you don't want something heavy. Night time if you want to impress/excite.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/23 08:42 AM
3

Very creepy. Men can be so weird. I know women who, through literally not being able to sleep, have gone on FB at 3am and boom! some guy is straight on her hounding her. That, to me, is seriously creepy. Then there's the unwanted dick pics as an opener, a literal opener.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/23 08:40 AM
5

That, or spin some plates. That always helps.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/23 02:04 PM
3

I have to agree. And I'm a fan of the OP's work. But that flight or fight feeling you get before you're in a fight or scenario where violence is on the menu is most definitely not the same as you get from approaching. The fear of rejection and the feeling of fighting another human are poles apart, although courage/being prepared to fail is common with both.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 08:04 AM
3

Fresh is such a beg. He's literally someone who has read too much and not practied enough. Fit has some snidey vibes to him. Both are grifters.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/23 08:54 PM
2

Each to their own, but in some instances in life you must play dirty. Muscle? Money? Guess what that means to that guy behaving like a cunt? Now he will see it as a challenge. "Can i fuck another one of his women now he's peak chad? Let's see...". Sometimes a dose of your own medicine is what you need to change.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/23 07:55 PM
2

Did we just become best friends? Bwahaha. That's a great idea. Yeah there must be one slut in the family... i'd also try and get this scumbag fired. Fuck his life up.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/23 08:33 AM
3

I concur. For me, the best way to get over a woman is to get under one (possibly 10).
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 04:54 PM
2

This. A leopard can't change it's spots.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 07:50 AM
6

Honestly, this is what I'd do. If there's anyone in her circle you know you can fuck, do it. But if you could fuck his mom, sister, aunt etc then do it. Show that fucker what playing dirty is really like. Fuck your exes neighbours too. Rub it in her face. Fuck her friends and her family. Have zero empathy for these cunts. Be ruthless. The sister of an Ex wanted me. Badly. My Ex knew this. It fucked with her head big time. Had I fucked her I reckon my Ex would have needed therapy!
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 07:26 AM
35

Man, when that hamster starts spinning it can cause serious problems.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 08:19 PM
95

Man, that's rough. I feel for you. Block and delete her number. Get to the gym. Like, yesterday. Throw yourself into your work. Let the universe do it's thing to these two. Not gonna lie. If one guy did that to me, heads would roll. A scumbag like that deserves a beating that changes his moral compass. But ffs do not be the guy to intiate it. Save yourself first.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 04:26 PM
1

Very interesting stuff. Have a UV.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 04:19 PM
1

Great Post as always, friend.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 04:12 PM
3

I haven't got over her... But that hasn't stopped me fucking around 30+ women since, having threesomes, training like a demon, letting other women get close to me (even if they hurt me) and more. But you know what? Time is a healer. I saw her and drove past her 2 weeks ago for the first time in 8-9 months. Did I turn around and pick her up? Did. I. Fuck. Part of me wanted to, but I knew I would have got hurt had I spoke to her. And this is someone who I was set to marry and I was truly in love w…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/23 02:03 PM
1

Damn, have a UV. Sterling work, sir.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/23 01:56 PM
1

Mens fashion is a sub on here iirc. That should cover you.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/23 06:01 PM
1

That's cool. You're right though. Think of the most brutally difficult lifting session you had. I'm talking where you actually feel like your body was shutting down on you (probably Legs or Full Body). When you grinded through it, that determination Carries over into real life. So true regarding your second point. You don't ever want to be the Dad/man that feels like he's having a heart attack chasing a 10 year old around. Because it can happen. Look after your body and it will look after you.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/23 07:15 AM
1

That's true. I meant it as in some women can add the correct finishing touches to an outfit or idea you have. But yeah, clothing is just a vehicle.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/23 04:14 PM
1

You're right. I'm am of age, hence the expenditure ;-)
/r/TheRedPill28/05/23 04:13 PM
5

Preach, brother. Preach! My most productive days are when I do two things: 1) Make my bed upon rising, 2) Go for a walk for an hour in a fasted state. Now I know you said lifting, and I train 4 days a week, but just doing physical exercise first thing in the morning whether it's fasted cardio, push ups, running or whatever, will always be something that will crossover into other facets of life and make you improve them too. Also, and I'm not talking about aesthetics here; but the difference betw…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/23 10:45 AM
1

I don't know about that. The right woman, and I say this as as a man who has laid down tens of thousands on designer clothing, can absolutely enhance your style. Even if it's by a smidge, it can be done. Do I think that women can go OTT? Absolutely. But the right one will add just a little touch here and there and elevate your look.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/23 10:33 AM
1

What about if you've performed in a band in front if hundreds of people many times over?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/23 03:59 PM
18

Wrong. It's since say 2014 it's gotten bad. If you was fat in the 90's, believe me, it was down to greed. Now? It's applauded. Then? It was frowned upon because no woman wanted to be fat.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/23 09:14 PM
3

This. Short term pain, Long term gain.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/23 07:20 AM
3

I've been both. Be the latter. Women act shocked when you're the latter, but are genuinely repulsed when you're the former.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/23 07:11 AM
4

Truth. I knew a woman who had some guy in her phone saved as "Food" as she always just used him for meals out.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/23 09:36 PM
1

What about if it's still there after thousands of interactions over years and years?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/23 09:23 PM
2

Good stuff. Long may it continue.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/23 09:10 PM
1

Good work, Vaz. Hope life is treating you well, sir.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/23 10:17 PM
1

Damn straight. The most I've ever been thrown off my mission is when I've had a gf and all the free sex you can get (and I'm talking 3-ways with her and her friends). Besides, there's still stigma attached to escorts. They're on the hustle too, most of the time. I see them in the same way I do fast food or food in general. I could spend an hour or two buying the ingredients, prepping it, cooking it and eating it. Or I could just get someone to do it for me, save my time, and get the result I wan…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/23 09:15 AM
1

Bud, I had no problem getting pussy at that time. Whenever you earn a lot in life, and have a lot on, you will realise that women will be a hindrance. Goals > Females.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/23 09:33 AM
3

Fucking A, my man. Well said.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/23 07:13 AM
2

I disagree. You do have a choice in paying if it suits you. It suited me at a time, so I did. I could have had a woman or a few fb's, but I knew they would get in the way, so I swerved that route.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/23 07:09 AM
4

You get it. At my peak of earning I slept with an escort every week. Believe me, the last thing you need when you earn a lot is the wrong partner. Even if she's happy go lucky, the mindless messages from her at work will distract and annoy you. Getting that work done, having a few beers, and then paying like $150 to fuck a beauty who is good in the sack and leaves, all whilst I'm 1000% more productive for taking this route and not going down the GF route instead? It's a smart way to go, believe …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/23 07:07 AM
3

Exactly. I've had 3 friends get 10 years each and not one of them snitched on the other.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/23 06:59 AM
3

I like your style, friend. Exactly how I view it.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/23 06:59 AM
1

You pay for it one way or the other.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/23 06:54 AM
6

I didn't even know the barometer or men stooped so low.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/23 07:48 PM
1

My man. Never would I FWB that shit. I actually met a woman online (a hook up site). She wouldn't send me a photo. Was only 20 mins in the car, so why not? She hid (just about) behind the door. Fuck me was she hefty. I got nosh (a BJ) and fled the scene. Never again. And that was a one off! A one-off where I got stitched up.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/23 07:47 PM
1

"TRP has not even adapted its methods for the modern “dating market” And what are these?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/23 06:58 AM
3

May I ask where too, friend?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/23 06:56 AM
6

Funking home-schooling in the countryside if I ever have a kid. I cannot even fathom what kind of mind bending nonsense is being put into these kids heads nowadays.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/23 06:55 AM
2

Good man. Outstanding. Keep going!
/r/TheRedPill17/04/23 02:32 PM
1

I concur. There's nothing more self destructive, and, after a point, pussy, than always being emotional and not logical. Gotta feed your emotions scraps, they don't get a place at the table.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/23 08:24 AM
8

Ain't that the truth. Patrice said it best about giving someone only 90% of you in case they ain't shit. As much as the first serious break up kills you, the gift that comes with it when dealing with the next broad, which is eliminating the weakness instantly, is worth getting hurt for. You can only really gain that by suffering.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/23 07:36 PM
1

What if she broke up with you because she can't have kids? Newus Dickus again?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/23 07:31 PM
17

Dude, you're dead on. You know when people say their Exes reappear when that person gets with a new girl? It's absolutley truthful. They know when it's happening. Their intuition is frightening.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/23 07:28 PM
1

Pah. Have a few threesomes? Done, thanks. Oh, I've acceptec it. Sounds like it's hurting you and not me, buddy.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/23 01:25 PM
3

5-9. That's where my best work gets done. Then, and when I'm sleeping. Less is more, and make your money work for you while you sleep.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/23 07:23 PM
1

Same as every other chap here, very bad. But we live & learn.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/23 08:16 PM
1

Been there. Forget about her.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/23 06:08 PM
1

But even if you say 16 women (like my ex, who cheated like fuck). That's still a mighty big number. The high bc's always start in your neighbourhood. Fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 10:18 AM
1

Bs. I know a guy who has slept with over 300 women. He is very close to me. He has been with the same woman for 8 years now and hasn't stepped out once. And he won't. Why? Because it's out of his system. A woman with a bc that high is a woman in a hole... who will never stop digging (meeting more men).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 10:16 AM
58

This can be such a tough one to accept. Not to brag, but a woman I know gave birth for the first time just before Dec '22. I had 2 3-ways with her, spat in her mouth, degraded her, and she's been with at least 70 men. Her hubby is a sap. He sends her poems! I made her eat my ass. Multiple times. As they say - One man's junk is another's treasure. Just like Patrice said "Never love someone more than 90%". Women despise being on a pedestal and will abuse that privilege.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/23 10:31 AM
17

Solid post. Been there, done that. Never again. Even if you have no options, always walk. Better to have peace of mind, no problems, and no pussy than a ten who causes nothing but problems.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/23 07:17 PM
5

Yup. Always be a gentleman until you can't be gentle no more...
/r/TheRedPill18/12/22 09:03 AM
1

So why would A) a woman do this? B) whats the term for what she's doing?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/22 08:30 PM
0

But what if a woman isn't in a relationship with you, but will only fuck you and nobody else whilst you don't claim exclusivity with her?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/22 07:49 PM
1

Honest question, what countries do you suggest? I hate what Western culture has become.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/22 10:31 AM
0

Boom! Couldn't have said it any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:40 PM
1

Many Aussie women are beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:07 AM
6

5 in this day and age is pure fiction. I'd agree but it's not 1970 anymore.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/22 01:49 PM
3

There are women who are FORTY YEARS OLD and above and they still love "an inked badboy". Sorry, but she hasnt learned from her mistakes and will hurt me, eventually. I'll try my luck elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:48 AM
7

Law 51: If her count is over half her age/or you need an extra set of hands to add it up, run.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/22 03:03 PM
33

Men who choose to ignore a high count deserve everything they get, the silly fools. The biggest slut I have ever met had a baby with a guy literally a fortnight ago. She has easily fucked 100 men. And she's bi. He's in for a world of hurt.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/22 03:01 PM
4

Man, I read a story about two women on a hen night. The hen sucked the stripper off... but the other woman, who also done the deed, was the hens mother in law to be! Women definately become wild when strippers are around.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/22 09:28 PM
1

Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:37 PM
1

Ghosting/Pump & Dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:35 PM
2

Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:28 PM
3

You've clearly never been fat. I lost close to 8 stone a good few years back. I went from 21 stone to 13 stone. Let me tell you something... I got more compliments within a 6 month time frame when I lost that weight than in my whole life before or since. You can literally look like a different person with that much weight loss. Looks are everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:24 AM
1

I wouldn't care. I'm no oil painting anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:45 PM
33

Great personality, morals, and was good in bed too. Looks aren't everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:02 AM
4

Especially when you have to use your other hand because the one hand won't open it!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:01 AM
1

Yes. Many things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:01 AM
1

Blame society. Remember when you couldn't tell a woman that her "bum looked big in this?" and actual models appeared on the cover of magazines? Yeah, me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:00 AM
2

AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:07 AM
3

Exactly. It just screams of carelessness, and that potentially can lead to bad situations. Best avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 02:58 PM
11

"Live with no regrets!" That's never sat right with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 02:37 PM
39

Hypergamy/AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:30 PM
2

Agreed. I'll listen to Dante Nero & Harry, but I can't stand anyone else. Those two are mature and have a good outlook on things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:55 PM
1

My man!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:25 PM
5

Great post, OP. Nice to see a different approach to the usual topics here.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/22 07:48 PM
1

It's out of hand now. I saw a woman online earlier stating that she won't date a man under 6ft... she was 5'1! She would look stupid with a guy that tall or taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:12 PM
7

Exactly why my last relationship ended. My Ex spent 3 hours with a guy "talking" (2am-5am. Sure talking happens lots at that time of day). Next thing you know, it's come out that she's cheated. That one on one time is like cancer to your relationship. It'll slowly die.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:10 PM
1

Fully with you. There's some 50 year old hag out there who swings that would shock the most hardened of porn stars. Creampie gangbangs? They happen all the time in clubs... and nobody gets tested like on set. That's a level that requires you to be an extreme deviant (and a tad mental). Also agree about both parties being on the same page regarding the cuck angle, that takes balls to have that convo AND carry it out. Man, there's a woman who works in a pet shop, of all places, and she's a bukkake…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:23 AM
1

I have. I know a bunch of men who fuck anything with a pulse and are very attractive. It's not about looks. Men just want many, whilst women want few. We like quantity and they like quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:08 AM
1

Well observed. I've noticed that in any relationship where the man is happy he's got a healthy dose of arrogance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:57 AM
1

Great post. I have to say, swinging is such an eye opener. You wanna see a real alpha female and a beta male? Go to a club and see what women who cuck their men get up to in front of their husbands. Mind blowing stuff. I actually believe that swinging, the act of it it's self, can RP you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:56 AM
2

Very accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:46 AM
2

Boom!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:45 AM
3

Spot on. Women just don't make sense some times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:59 PM
2

Delusional is what they become.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:55 PM
2

My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:54 PM
4

Hang in there, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:32 PM
4

Very sound post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:28 PM
1

Alpha need/Beta seed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:21 PM
2

TRP can be instilled in you because you had old school upbringings (like me).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:19 PM
1

Spot on. And I say this from experience. Most of the time it's not a good thing to be her number 1 choice. And the men she fucks? They either lack game and fuck things up despite making a great first impression, or she really wants them and they only want her for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:19 PM
30

Hypergamy. It's real. The fact that your girl will go for the better deal is plain to see. They certainly don't date down once it ends with them, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:39 AM
2

100? Fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:36 PM
1

It's not unpopular, it's a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:38 PM
-3

Better to be nice than be a cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:36 PM
1

Way fucking more. Some women have zero self awareness. I will say that I feel sorry for their bf's. If you're speaking to a stranger like shit, hubby is getting verbally assaulted on the daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:36 PM
2

Personality and the way she treats someone. If she's got no depth, she's gone. If she treats people like shit, ditto.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:54 PM
1

£$¥€
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:05 AM
8

Hit the nail on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:54 PM
6

He's back! Great work, sir.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 09:42 AM
1

Neither. Because either one isn't realistic. Don't get me wrong, you can get women with low n-counts that have cheated (I've personally experienced this). But the higher than number is, the more she's unsatisfied, the longer she's had to find a man and not nab one, and the longer she's suffered from "the grass is greener" syndrome. Would you rather a woman who's been with 100 men or a woman that's been with 10-20?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:53 PM
1

Each to their own, but you would end up getting hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:45 PM
1

Probably sucked his cock... :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:18 PM
2

Nah, each to their own but you're trying to justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:06 PM
1

And what about the short term? You both told each other your true feelings for each other. That's worse than physical, let me tell you. You did that whilst in a relationship. That's terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:30 AM
2

So you're in a dark room with another man at a party, your man isn't with you, you've both confessed your feelings for one another, yet you haven't done anything wrong? Ok...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:36 AM
1

This. Not gonna lie, I've done it, and the excitement and thrill I felt when driving to that woman's place was bordering on heart attack levels. So yeah, there definitely a "high" that you're chasing too from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:30 AM
2

Yeah, I've done it. Was with a woman who was doing it, but I was in the worst and lowest period of my life. But I did it back whilst with her. Would I do it again? Probably. I think it's something that when you've done once you will always do it. And the way things are nowadays it's gonna happen eventually...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:28 AM
3

So you'd get into a serious relationship with a woman that's had that much dick in her?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:25 AM
2

So if you was with a woman who had slept with 100 men, would you honestly feel like you've got a woman who would be loyal to you and didn't have commitment issues? Go to a club. Do a head count of 100 men. That's a LOT of dick, right? Yeah, you can keep her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:24 AM
3

Hoes. Next question...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:15 AM
2

Of course they are... until they're not looking in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:57 AM
3

They really are. Get as many 3-ways as you can from her.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/22 12:04 PM
3

Too right. I've had this happen with an Ex Fiance, ffs. Cheated, keeps fucking the dude and nobody else, me included. Less numbers can be as bad as a high number. It's not always better.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/22 09:36 AM
3

Damn, that's a lot of dicks. She's not yours remember, pal. ;-)
/r/TheRedPill16/09/22 09:32 AM
5

Vaz, forget that guy. All of your work and input is very helpful, even if you're just dropping gems on someone else's threads.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/22 09:31 AM
14

Not just that, but if she's overly affectionate for no reason, and she's never like that, she's cheated - guaranteed. Just don't look at it from one and guys (fighting), because she can kill you with kindness too.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/22 09:30 AM
7

Definitely. Vaz is the man!
/r/TheRedPill15/09/22 06:08 PM
8

"Dog moms".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:39 AM
5

The level of entitlement from single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:39 AM
6

Fat women are hilariously deluded, that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:38 AM
3

Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:37 AM
1

Because she did it first. So I repaid the favour and left.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:27 PM
5

Not really. It happened to me. Was in the "seeing" stage with a woman (the part just before a relationship where you only see each other), she went to another city for a night and fucked someone there. And it was her idea for us to start "seeing each other".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:18 PM
4

Eastern Euro, Australian, Russian > Everybody else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:54 PM
1

Ah, inconsistencies and maliciousness, correct?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/22 10:50 AM
1

When you say "break", how come they do that, yet aren't just happy with simply upgrading?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/22 07:09 AM
7

Definitely, pal. At least when I'm on my own nobody can bring me down. It's all on me, just the way I like it. There's something that sparks a fire in you, if you're not a total fucking idiot, when you are in the company of winners. A circle of winners and doers is one of the most powerful and exciting things you can experience.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/22 08:38 AM
1

How did you find your way out?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/22 08:54 PM
2

No, but we know how the situation ends...
/r/TheRedPill24/08/22 09:50 PM
1

Very true. But at least some, like Rollo or Tate have experience and some standing in the community. Cooper just seems like one of us with no experience.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/22 06:31 PM
9

His intro video on his page is literally filled with every phrase on this sub when it comes to advice. He's definitely a conman.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 09:33 PM
1

Well you'd be mental to think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:19 PM
2

Agreed. 30+ just has to raise questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:35 PM
3

You don't believe in low counts, but you do believe that 10 is no different from 100. Interesting...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:27 PM
0

Not really. Most men agree that upwards of 10 is too high. Whether I've slept with 10 women or 100 women, I'd agree with that. I feel, that as a man, if a woman starts using two or more hands to tally up her body count, it's going nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:24 PM
2

10-15+.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:21 PM
1

Great advice.
/r/newTRP19/08/22 11:02 PM
1

Great comment.
/r/newTRP19/08/22 11:01 PM
2

Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:20 PM
1

Boom! Although it's really option 1 for us. Never knew a man who cheated to purse things with another woman, emotionally speaking. Women just don't act on their urges like that but men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:19 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:26 PM
0

Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:46 PM
1

You were friends before you hooked up? How long for?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:45 PM
2

You're calling, texting, movies...come offit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:44 PM
1

Pardon my ignorance, but how does that kinda thing stay together and not go further for that long? To me, FWB's aren't built for longevity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:54 PM
2

No. That's a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:24 PM
0

Boom! A FWB is just someone you fuck on the regular. Dates, nights in, 4 hour chats are not included in that kind of deal. It's a sexual agreement, nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:19 PM
1

5 years? Talked to each other about sleeping with others? Sounds like you was in an "open relationship"...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:15 PM
7

20, IMHO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:09 PM
0

I think half their age is the limit for me. There seems to be problems when it's 10+ men. 20 and 30+men, and it's the classic "grass is greener" forever, IMHO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:06 PM
7

Spot on, friend. Nowadays they have a level of entitlement that is, to be frank, insulting and mind blowing.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/22 02:08 PM
3

I'm not from Greece, and I'm talking about Non-Greek women as I took no notice of the locals.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/22 10:29 PM
14

Good point. But, and not to be a prick to you, but you/me/we should know about her social circle etc. I genuinely think that a "hard next" is the only option, because once that line is crossed it can become the norm very quickly. Fuck that.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/22 07:52 AM
3

Greece. But there was a ton of Polish and Romanians there.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/22 07:46 AM
15

Just born in the wrong era.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 11:12 PM
32

Boom! Western women make me sick, honestly. It's a shame that being classy is a forgotten trait for women nowadays. Give me class and femininity over looks any day of the week.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 10:17 PM
15

Agreed. I've just come from a country which had many Eastern European women there. Man, they're a different breed. Beautiful, feminine, classy, no tattoos or they're covered up well (and there's only like 2)... not fat, covered in tattoos, drunk and acting like men. I've actually dated a Romanian women before. She was pure class. Was a pleasure to be around such a woman.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 10:15 PM
65

I've been in this situation before and let me tell you, the minute it happens you must get rid of her. Screw getting even, just leave. For good. I swear some women boil my piss when they act in such a way. They don't know how fucking badly things can end with them doing this.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 10:05 PM
2

Laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:22 PM
1

1) Over 10/12. 2) There isn't one. 3) Not directly, but I squeeze it out eventually. 4) No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:50 PM
3

Someone on here (I think) said it and it made perfect sense. Friend, I bet half of them could walk past her in the street and she wouldn't remember then. Not to wail on, but a woman who sleeps with that many men is completely broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:46 PM
1

So how many people have you slept with then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:17 AM
5

And they'd be right. You think any woman who has had the best sex of her life more than once with the same guy doesn't have his number?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:13 AM
5

I think 1/3 of their age is enough. My Exes friend slept with close to seventy men. And she tried to say that she isn't a slut. Ok...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:09 AM
2

Excellent post. Great insight, sir.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/22 07:57 AM
5

Well said, sir. Especially the astrology part.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/22 10:57 PM
3

Boom! Words to live by.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/22 10:56 PM
2

Ha!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/22 10:56 PM
6

I don't think numbers equals less pain. I got cheated on, and it ripped my heart out. I've been with about 15 women since (2 years ago). Better women in terms of morals, better in terms of them being successful, way better sex... yet she's on my mind 24/7. Sometimes someone can get stuck in your head and no matter how many women you fuck or therapy sessions you have they're still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:05 AM
2

Excellent post. My sentiments exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:12 PM
5

Well said.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/22 10:04 PM
1

Just because she has a lower number doesn't mean she gets an automatic pass. A relatives ex broke up with him and within one month of their 10 year relationship being over, she tried to invite me to her place. She genuinely slept with two guys before him, and she met him when she was like 23. Do I prefer a woman whose BC I can count on my thumbs? Yes I do. But my example shows that all women have the same nature. She might have slept with three men, but she's still a garden tool for trying it wi…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/22 08:09 AM
11

First thing I clocked. She's completely cold. It's a shame really. She's ideal in many ways (no kids, good body, decently attractive, dresses well...) but then you can see she'd do anything for money without giving up her pussy, and that she's incapable of loving you. Even when a woman had everything going for her she can fuck it up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/22 07:46 AM
3

I remember a poster somewhere here said "if her N-Count is higher than 1/3 of her age, she's a slut". He was right.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/22 04:43 PM
1

Honestly, it's borderline depressing how slim the pickings are out here. And the level of entitlement is just ridiculous.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/22 04:34 PM
3

We both know why. Because Mark gives her tingles. Is it wrong of her to be doing so? Very much so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:17 PM
3

So why keep fucking him a fortnight into meeting Dylan?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:54 PM
3

Do you think that Mark would have to work so hard for it? And do you think she would cheat with Mark if the chance arose?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:35 PM
4

Exactly. Mark can have her anytime he wants, all parties know it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:35 PM
6

Dylan had to ask for it though...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:16 AM
2

Dying to know too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:56 AM
4

Agreed. I know a single mom who has 5 kids with 3 different men. Personality isn't the obvious problem here...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:55 AM
1

New/fresh = same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:35 AM
1

Out of curiosity, what would you class as a high count?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/22 09:07 PM
7

Looks like she's got a permanent STD, IMHO. And her "morning breath" would probably strip paint.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/22 09:16 PM
4

I like your style.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/22 09:06 PM
6

Beautiful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/22 08:45 PM
1

I don't really know of women want winners. I know a few women who are legit beautiful, but the guys they went for are either broke, in prison, or don't have a stable and wealthy future. Then again, they might have that "I can fix him" gene in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:27 PM
11

Boom! Somebody once said to me "women are for the night...". He was wise. I like to chill with one 2-3 times per week for an hour or two, catch up and fuck. That's it. No meals, no nights or days out, just me getting what I want on my terms. Relationships in this day and age have got to be the hardest they've been to make work in my lifetime. So much competition and so may ways for her to be got at (social media etc), so what's the point? And the Level of thirst from men nowadays is unseen. Ther…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/22 10:18 PM
1

Agreed OP. I've never seen a woman be anywhere as close to romantic as men. Never. Like the saying goes: Men pretend to be realists but are romantic, women pretend to be romantic but are realists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:58 PM
1

Wrong. You will get better than you've had. Not always, but overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:51 AM
3

Hilarious thread title. Love it! She looks like she needs a good fucking wash.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/22 06:27 PM
5

Those eyes are freaking me out!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/22 10:37 AM
4

Damn son! You really went there...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/22 10:36 AM
2

200+? Damn! I can only imagine the problems someone like that would bring.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/22 07:07 AM
3

I agree. There's cute and there is it being a problem. She's the latter. 20 isn't so bad in this day and age, but there is a number for everyone which makes you go "no thanks".
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 10:26 PM
3

Well, she's been with him for 3 years odd now. But no doubt it's been rocky. But she's utterly clingy in a relationship, so figure that out. It's both. She's hot, so she can have who she wants. But she used to laugh at him according to friends when he tried his luck with her. His aunt left him a house, then she shacks up with him... I've tried it with her myself, but she behaved. So who knows? But I honestly don't think a woman can pair bond after being with say 20-30 men. The grass will always …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 05:36 PM
3

Yep. Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 08:11 AM
3

This is a good point. It takes a special kind of naivety to not know your woman is a hoe. And some men get off on their woman being open minded etc.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 08:10 AM
10

The biggest slut I've ever fucked is now pregnant by some guy who has no fucking idea that she has been in the back of a car sucking cock whilst the car has been full, owns a spreader bar, has licked my ass, has been with easy 100+ men and a bunch of women, been a sex object in a sex cinema, had untold 3-ways & more... He came into a property, kept fawning over her, now she's gonna own that and have his kid. He has ZERO idea about her past. I'm not preaching or hating women, but AWALT is the abs…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 07:49 AM
1

I was asking you...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:56 AM
1

True. But is that always the only answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:16 AM
2

So does one change from the stability guy to the casual guy? Or is there genuinely no way back if you're the former?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:11 PM
1

Data doesn't compare to personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:27 PM
4

No. I've slept with around 80-100 women and had zero problem pair bonding, ever. Many men I know with high body counts don't cheat or stray. I also know women who have slept with a similar number and they definitely have problems pair bonding. Like, they always stray. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:36 PM
1

That's crazy of her to do! Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:44 PM
1

DID? Sounds like my Ex. Exactly the same. I totally get the intensity bit. Kinda like "feast or faminie" in a sense. So what became of you both post break up?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:17 PM
1

Fair comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:14 PM
1

That's good to hear. And what become of her? I find they usually hit skid row.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 09:44 AM
1

How long did it last for, and how has life been for you since the split?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:32 PM
5

Your last point, Sunk Cost Fallacy, is correct in my case. Honestly, it isn't worth the stress to be in a relationship or anything similar with a woman with BPD. They will ruin your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:02 PM
1

I don't. It happens an awful lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:53 PM
1

Agreed. I have always classed the Blowjob as the most overrated sexual act. Again, I'd say 6-7 women have given me leg trembling head. They are good as a stress reliever than anything else IMHO.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:49 PM
1

Are you saying they're not popular?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:46 PM
1

Definitely! When I was in my early 20's and nailing cougars, they would all talk about their "experience". They rarely amounted to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:40 PM
1

He's spot on. I'd say out of 80-100 women I've slept with I've probably had 5-7 animals. The rest? They vary from "I wish I wanked instead" to "Ah! I needed that". Most attractive women are terrible in bed, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:39 PM
1

I'll say! I've slept with a lot of women, but I've probably had 5 world class lays. Let me tell you, the sex is literally life changing when it's with a woman who is on the same page as you. They are rare, but when found, your world gets rocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:36 PM
1

Yeah, I'll give them that courtesy. Definitely dodged a bullet there!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:56 AM
1

Damn. That's bad. I was with a single mother. Her child got diagnosed with a mental condition. I'm there getting scrutinised by the therapist, then having to take the child to a hospital for an ECG. Next night, she met the dad to discuss what route they were going to go down (whether to put him in meds or not). They did cocaine and whiskey that night whilst trying to reach a conclusion regarding their son's mental health and future. Real stirling work by the two. That was a very weird and confus…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:27 PM
3

They're good for practice, but not for long term. I got with a single mother for nearly 3 years. We had some beautiful times together. But the bad times? Man, I have never been treated so bad by women who didn't have children in my past. Wait till "parents evening" comes around, or when the child gets injured badly and the real dad shows up out of nowhere, or if the kid turns around and verbally buries you with "you're not my dad!". If you do go with one, make sure her kids are 16+. The juice is…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:24 PM
1

Agreed. There's better benefits to be had than gaining likes whilst there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:49 AM
3

Agreed. If you've got the energy to be taking photos in the gym, you haven't trained at all IMHO. I love being serious when it comes to training though. I believe your workout should make you feel a tad nervous beforehand...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:17 PM
1

Boom! I love that "upkeep" line. Nicely put.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:14 PM
2

Spot on. I have a few friends who are carrying more weight than need be. My god, when they sit there just being they are breathing heavy. Absolutely no need for that. That's dangerously unhealthy. And some of the slimmer ones have had heart problems (not hereditary) or are always in pain (try Strength training). Fuck that. Bulletproof your body the best you can. Besides, healthy food makes you feel good, tastes amazing, no downsides other than possibly time and money consuming... I'm glad that I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:13 PM
1

True.
/r/askTRP28/04/22 06:40 PM
3

Nope. Nailed it, sir.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/22 06:01 PM
1

I do, and I've seen it done on a regular basis. Men are way more shallow than you're giving them credit for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:13 PM
1

Hair transplants are now a thing ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:17 PM
2

Boom! There was once a beautiful woman who worked at the local McDonalds. Not a single man I knew who saw her mentioned her job. We just don't care about that kinda thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:17 PM
3

He definitely won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:16 PM
1

You're very clever. I like your approach/style ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:15 PM
4

I knew one guy like this. Total player and fairly wealthy. One day we got speaking about N-Counts. I asked him about his, and he replied it was in the "mid 300's" and that was 7-10 years ago. Believe me, if you have looks, game and money, you are going to sleep with an eye watering amount of women. Especially if you're a bit of a slut yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:14 PM
3

Become masters of foreplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:12 PM
3

36 men? She's a spunk-skip. Eew!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 01:00 PM
20

That's 26? The winters must be tough where she's from.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 12:58 PM
5

Bet that Vaseline has seen some action...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 09:43 PM
7

Yep. And she looks cold and soulless.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 08:21 AM
20

And she's 46 with a 14 year old? Nope!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/22 10:06 PM
41

Fucks going on with her hair? First pic looks like 1990.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/22 08:20 PM
3

As a man it matters a hell of a lot if for some reason this guy is still in the picture. I've had an Ex say she had "great sex" with this one guy. She fucked him on and off for years. So it does feel like you're competing. I'm not bothered about being her biggest. But if she's had a length in her, and I've seen said guy or he's around in some capacity, it can fuck with your thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:04 AM
1

I've had a relationship with a single mother. Never again. There's something uneasy about being involved with a family that you've been invited into, and can uninvited out of pretty damn easily. Similar to being a temp at a company with sight of your boss offering you a permanent position. You know it won't last. I've dated a bunch of single moms. That isn't a problem, but a serious relationship with one is another story...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 08:23 PM
1

Yeah. I've had three threesomes. Two of them with an Ex. I'm open minded that way, so I was all for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 08:16 PM
1

Good point. I think you have to be a different kind of selfish to chase after an open marriage or demand/propose one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/22 09:28 AM
3

It's ashame that we live in a time where something that was once so sacred and special like marriage can be reduced to this. What a time to be alive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 08:48 PM
19

Exactly. Tattoos are fashionable, not a sign of rebellion like they once was.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 08:46 PM
6

Well it isn't pelvic floor exercises...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 02:28 PM
22

That's out of control that is. I know a woman with 5 kids by 3 dad's. The epitome of a scumbag she is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 02:26 PM
3

4 kids and she's not even 30? She's gonna be a granny in her 30's. How gross!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 02:25 PM
2

9th Dan, IMHO.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 09:03 PM
1

Face tatt = Lunatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:59 PM
14

Looks like a knock-off Janice Soprano. And she has a very BIG melon. I mean even from a distance it's a big 'un.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 06:57 PM
8

Pfft...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 06:56 PM
1

Agreed. I've been on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:25 AM
1

Agreed. Mental abuse is a terrible thing to endure from someone who is supposed to love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 09:00 PM
8

This. Self control/restraint can be your best friend. Less is best.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/22 06:36 PM
1

Why is that though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:25 PM
7

Well put. Any time a woman has warned me about another woman or tried to have my back was when said partner wasn't around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 10:39 AM
2

I hear that, friend. For me, now, it feels like love isn't real or I can't take my partner seriously. Because I know what they're capable of, so fuck it. Agreed regarding abundance. If you don't have that then you are gonna suffer for it. It's actually healthy and vital.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:59 PM
12

Spot on. Will needs to leave her. She's vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:48 PM
1

I did with an Ex. She said 16, but 4 of them (including me) were in her apartment block at that time. Either that's an insane coincidence or she's a hoe... For me, I get the perfect picture from the revelation. Don't get me wrong, I'll dig deeper after that, but once it's over my threshold I part ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:10 PM
5

"Treat them mean to keep them keen" was the motto of my youth. And it still stands, as you just mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:59 PM
1

Sometimes I prefer the "what you don't know, doesn't hurt you" school of thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:57 PM
5

It's called the "light switch effect". It's literally like a switch has been flipped regarding her emotions towards you. I tell you, when you experience it, it's beyond logic. Hurts like a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:49 PM
2

Fucking hell! I'm laughing out loud yet am impressed with how you put it. OLD requires common sense and having that detective gene in you. You have to watch your own back and draw your own conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:46 PM
1

Oh. That kinda thing was old in 2001. You'd have a phone for the women and a phone for everyone and everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:40 PM
3

I agree. But out of a good/better/best situation, she was the best and still cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:39 PM
1

Why 2, and who is he? The name rings a bell. She was just someone who knew how to play the game and was devious as fuck. Read my reply to it that I just left on this thread ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:01 AM
6

Yes I did! :-) I smiled and said "someone's busy! Running a business or three?" Then she said something about one was hers, the others belonged to her man and her sister. Stuttering like fuck she was. Let me tell you, this woman had everything. Rich parents that were married for years, lived in an affluent area, didn't do drugs or clubs, was a knockout in terms of looks (like J-Lo but younger) and she really fancied my pal as she used to get her mate to drive her to our hangouts and she would tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 08:57 AM
38

They definitely do. I fucking hate how women blur the lines and overstep boundaries that everybody knows you shouldn't (ie spending one on one time with a guy). The very best two women, or so I thought were the best, both cheated on their men. They had the perfect upbringing too, the kind you'd want your wife to have. I know very few men who cheat and have cheated. The idea that our dick makes all our decisions for us, is one of the most overblown accusations ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 09:01 PM
24

Yep. They are the masters of being devious. I caught my boys Ex on a train with three mobile phones. Popped down next to her and she went as white as a ghost. Rumbled!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:57 PM
3

I don't think so. They don't go hand in hand. Yes and no. But a man can, and usually, does settle with no problems. Women find it harder to turn over a new leaf, from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:24 PM
4

No chance of doing so if you get into a relationship with a woman with a high notch count. You get burned before you even blink.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:53 PM
10

/thread. You show me a woman with a high n-count, and I'll show you a trail of destruction behind her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:59 PM
1

That's utterly disgusting. Will should have fucked all of those weirdos off at that point.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/22 07:42 AM
6

Touche, friend. Just goes to show that nobody is safe from oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 07:26 PM
2

Good info. I'll add Lower Body & Cardio, too. Trust me, something about the two above has always helped me when I've had problems downstairs. But sort the big head out first, that's the cause of your problems.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 05:56 PM
8

Boom. She looks like a predator, he looks like prey.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 05:12 PM
5

Great post, but I don't think it's about Jada trying to steal Will's thunder at all. No, Will lashing out was that pent up aggression from being cucked to the moon and back for the last few years. And he did it to a man who never fucked his wife. And Rock is RP'ed to fuck, if you watch his old material. He knows Will is a simp. Will deserves this for staying with her. Smith used to be a god to people of my age when we was growing up, now he's an idiot. And for his kid to say that is just wrong. …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 04:40 PM
3

I hear you. I'm happy to chill with a woman indoors over a film and some food. Give me that, lil bit of intimacy, and I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:19 PM
1

We do. Honestly, the best thing that happened to a relationship I had was the introductions to threesomes. That revitalised things like nothing we had done before.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:20 AM
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What the fuck am I reading? Way too early for this shit. Can we talk about Will Smith, please?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/22 08:37 AM
2

Spot on. I would be, but I'd rather she cheat out of boredom and not because she has feelings for that guy. Go fuck a random in a club. But to think about one guy in particular, tell you not to worry about him, meet up with him, fuck him and then lie and do it again? That's heavy shit. See, you've got it. A man, for the most part, is just happy for something new. Women, like you say, will fuck the guy she knows will hurt you the most when you find out about it. It's happened to me, and I'd rathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:39 PM
2

It's not just the boredom of stale sex, but just having romantic feelings for another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:12 PM
5

Of course the act is brutal, but when you think that the woman who you love, adore, and given up your time for has feelings for another man in a romantic sense, and she's messaging him etc, that is absolutely heartbreaking. See, it's the BS that goes along with it whilst it's happening. You get told you're the love of her life, the only man for her etc yet she's telling some other man this too. That's a kick in the teeth, my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:25 PM
8

Yes, the woman. What aren't you getting? I can literally pay a woman for sex. I can lie to a woman to get sex. I can join an app to get sex. None of those scenarios involve emotions. I've had 5 women on the go at one point and not had a single feeling for them. Women have to be made to "feel" in order to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:33 PM
2

I agree. I pay attention to people's actions, not words. Good stuff, dude. And you're right. When you don't look, that's when you find it. Any tips for Monk Mode?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/22 12:30 PM
2

Not at all. If you're inundated with cock, yet you specifically pick a guy out, it can't be just what he looks like. It's how he makes you feel. And let's not forget about a "girls night out" or "I stopped at my sisters" or a girls night in. Men will happily pay for the services of a hooker just to experience fresh pussy. Women aren't like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:29 AM
1

Emotions. Out of ALL the men that stick it on a woman, she's gonna sleep with the one who gives her the feels/tingles. The man is sleeping with the first woman available and DOESN’T want any emotions involved. I'm a male that's cheated and been cheated on. I felt fuck all in terms of feelings for the women I cheated with, and there was plenty. I just wanted nastier sex or a new woman to play with. When I got cheated on, guess what? She never got with him after we finished, but got with a new guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:22 AM
12

Wrong. 9/10 men who I know have cheated have done so because they've been bored of fucking the same woman. EVERY WOMAN I KNOW that has cheated had feelings for the guy who she slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:07 AM
1

I get your point, and I've seen Muslims cheating with other Muslims. But they're still saints compared to how modern Western women act. It will change eventually, but by then, western women will be even worse. Best of a bad bunch scenario, IMHO.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/22 08:55 AM
1

You don't even have to be a "Chad". Just have a DGAF attitude and walk your talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:41 PM
2

But it does. If you get with someone and they've even fucked by, say, two people in their block, well the level of awkwardness you will experience will be unrivalled.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:17 PM
2

/r/TheRedPill22/03/22 06:44 PM
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"Ukrainian women, on the other hand, live simpler lives and spend their days digging for potatoes and playing the accordion" This had me howling! These women sound like my kinda women, in all fairness. My door is open!
/r/TheRedPill22/03/22 08:19 AM
17

Dude, I've been thinking of casting my net in fresh waters myself. I'm hoping to get a nice Indian/Sikh/Muslim woman. Western women have been on the slide for a long time now.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/22 11:30 PM
7

Yes. More like this please, OP.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/22 09:13 PM
1

Amen. I have seen major league Heroin users kick the habit and become clean, and stay clean. I have never seen a cheater become loyal, ever. That old adage "You can't turn a ho into housewife" is gospel.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/22 09:49 AM
1

Had it happen to me whilst I was going through the most stressful period of my life. I wouldn't mind, but she initiated the idea that "we should start seeing each other" whilst doing what she was doing! Me, being the typical man, cut all contact with the women I was fucking. Because, y'know, I'm from that generation where "seeing someone" was a trial run before you became official. 1) Watch what they do, not what they say. 2) Until it is official, always keep two in the kitty (maybe even 5).
/r/TheRedPill19/03/22 09:39 AM
2

/r/TheRedPill18/03/22 09:31 AM
1

Also known as being mentally ill :-)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/22 08:19 AM
5

More like 100%. I had an Ex friend dye his hair green for Halloween because he was dressing up as The Joker. Now, I always knew he had oddball ways/traits, massive man child, deluded etc. Know what happened the day after Halloween when I asked him if he's gonna wash it out? He said, and actually carried it through, "no, I'm dying it red because it looks cool!". And this is supposed to be a logical creature! Covering up a few greys and trying to be your old natural self? No problem. Deciding to b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 11:05 PM
1

Doesn't want sex is but made of sex? Alrighty then!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 10:57 PM
1

Online dating really is the pits. Fuck, man. Such trash.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 10:55 PM
1

Spot on. Not to mention that she's giving off big time hoe vibes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 10:51 PM
3

And we have a winner, ladies & gentlemen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:09 PM
1

I've known some guys who were punching well above their weight with the women, but their game was absolutely flawless. You would be surprised what being quick witted, on the ball, and personable can do for you with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:06 PM
1

When would you say the decline started? Me and a friend had this conversation a year or so ago and he was in cam rooms and forums etc back in 2005 and he was killing it then. I thought it was kinda odd back then, tbh. I mentioned that OLD is still the main way, and he was adamant that OLD is finished now. There's better ways/avenues to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:04 PM
2

And how do you feel in yourself? And how do you think you would feel had you not achieved what you have? Great job on that, btw!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:51 PM
1

Excellent response. I know exactly what you're on about, as I have been through it. Let me tell you: When you get to that part where you might fight, put all your chips in. That's the only way to get to truly make that change.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:50 PM
3

OP, go and sit with a few attractive women in their early/mid 20's. Sit with them and wait for your mind to be blown by what men offer and say. The level of thirst is Sahara Desert-Levels! There are women out there who genuinely have men as "Food" in their phonebooks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:19 PM
1

Damn, that's sad. Tell me, how did you learn to cope after the break? And did you love again?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/22 10:32 AM
5

Pussy was soaked, hubby got laid whilst she thought of that guy, she can't stop thinking about him yet doesn't want him... my god, this hamster. We know the game. Once a woman's box is wet BECAUSE OF YOU, it's game over. Bet you anything she's doing her best Columbo impression right now, trawling the net for him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/22 10:31 AM
3

Great comment. May I ask how you recharge your batteries? I find travel works wonders for me.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/22 07:58 PM
8

I absolutely care. So much so, that it's a deal breaker for me. "I've slept with 65 men, wanna marry me" sure, hun. No. That's a line that we all have where you just see that person as a slut/hedonist/impulsive person. No good comes from those traits when looking for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:53 PM
3

I have to agree. There's so many chancers out there. Rich Cooper springs to mind. He just mimics everything from trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 10:50 PM
1

I've always been a "tit man". I'm still like a newborn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:42 PM
2

Married at 29, took on more work for her, and she wants to sleep around? That poor guy. Hopefully this guy doesn't lose the plot. He's got a long road ahead of him, but this can be the making of him.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/22 10:48 AM
1

The definition of deluded.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/22 08:02 PM
1

So everyone who is Ex-Marine, who is an Ivy League doc is incapable of cheating? How the fuck do you know if these people haven't cheated? Believe me, from my own experience, my closest friends on earth don't know half the stuff I have done, which includes cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:57 PM
2

I don't trust either sex to be loyal if they've slept with seventy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:49 PM
1

Friend, I have been (and somewhat still am) in your position. As much as it feels like a baptism by fire, you unfortunately met a bad one. Not all women are like that, though it can seem that way. Just don't get too hung up on this one, look out for yourself, and put your best foot forward. So what's the deal with the Ex now? Is she still around? Single? Still messaging you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:17 AM
1

So have you met new women since?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:05 AM
1

Define high N-count...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:03 AM
1

Because some people live sheltered lives. Maybe they do. But look at their relationship history. Bet it's a car crash...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:08 PM
1

I have never in my life met someone with a high body count who wasn't impulsive. It's beggars belief that the two can't be linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:47 PM
1

Personally speaking, yes. I was in the most fucked up relationship you could be in. And I absolutely adored the girl, but she crossed my boundaries. Now, I was too petty to take the high road, be the bigger man etc (I'm not a fan of "forgiving and forgetting"). So I fucked two women in one day, met up with her at the end of the day and slept over at hers. I felt like a total cunt and she didn't deserve it, on reflection. I wouldn't do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:46 PM
2

Man, I feel this one. Tell me, how are you coping without her? And what's it been like meeting new women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:42 PM
3

Put it this way: it won't make you any worse.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/22 11:16 PM
1

Each go their own, but not giving two hoots about body count is just asking for trouble down the road. If she doesn't have a father figure in her life, takes drugs, tells lies, takes meds or has multiple children, isnt feminine... these are just some of my deal breakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:00 PM
2

Are you for real?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:09 AM
2

Exactly. That very next time you meet that person you slept with, the dynamic is different. I'm expecting round 2, if I'm being honest...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:04 AM
1

Dude below nailed it, and maturity doesn't come into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:05 AM
31

In a nutshell, yes. How on earth can things be the same when you've been the most intimate you can be with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:41 PM
3

Sub 15.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:24 PM
25

A solid frame, in other words. I agree, sir.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/22 03:57 PM
1

Definitely. But you can gain it, although temporarily, externally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:35 PM
1

I disagree with that. If I'm out in good clothes, smelling good, fresh haircut, my frame/confidence is deadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:33 PM
1

I think proportion/amount is what matters, not muscle/non muscle. But look at Daniel Craig, Butler in "300", Pitt in "Snatch". You're gonna be easy on the eye of more women than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:25 PM
1

I believe so. I have met two women who told me they will fuck any man as long as he has a dick. Straight up. Both are very attractive, but they have been blessed/cursed with that slut gene. When you have slept with 200+ men, I'm pretty sure that you have slept with ALL types of men. Hell, go to a swingers club and find the baddest bitch in there. You will see my point proven in the flesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:50 PM
1

Age, for me, is meaningless. It's about bodies to her name, period. I've been with a woman who has been with 16 men. That's a lot of different men/cock. We had too much trouble. Also been with a woman who has had 4 men (including me) and life was easy. The above were relationships. I've slept with women who have easily 60-80 men on their notch post. No fucking way could a relationship work with them because they are so broken. They always cheat. For me, now, anything higher than say 10-15 and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:41 AM
1

Agreed. If a woman sleep with 40-60+ men and still can't find what she's looking for, she can't pair-bond. Simple. Before you take my head off, I think men who sleep with hundreds of women or even close to a hundred have some kind of illness too. But going back thousands of years, this is what men did and women didn't, ever. Talking about loose vaginas like that's the main problem when dating a woman with a high N-Count.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:31 AM
1

Doubt it. Unless he's a cuck, has no options or she lies about the number. If a woman tells me she's been with a certain number of men it's game over, regardless of her looks or how I feel about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:26 AM
1

Thanks.
/r/seduction18/02/22 03:58 PM
2

Oh I concur. Sometimes, being brazenly forward can lead to some unbelievable things. Like the saying: If you don't ask, you don't get.
/r/seduction17/02/22 04:00 PM
1

Yeah, spot on. You live and learn, no matter how hard it gets. A broken heart isn't the end of the world. Once we discover that, it's both a blessing and a curse. A blessing because we get to put our best foot forward, a curse because, me personally, you just can't love that hard or like that again. Patrice said it best when he said "I give someone 90%. Because I need that 10% in case they ain't shit". I think getting your heart broken automatically does that.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/22 02:10 PM
2

Very true. No, he isn't deemed "hot" by any female that we both know. I'd lean more toward him having no boundaries as opposed to no standards. Social circle isn't big or varied. Thanks though, as you gave some solid reasons.
/r/seduction17/02/22 02:07 PM
3

I think Vas, and I say this because all men I have spoke to about this have said it (and I have suffered it), is that it's only your genuine "first love" (not your first GF in junior school) that actually breaks your heart. Once that's done, when the forthcoming relationships and flings end, you DGAF to a stupidly high degree. So I hazard a guess at the recipe for "being stronger" is to have actually have had your heart broken, and to be able to create a rotation/stable. No matter what you say, …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/22 11:29 AM
1

Agreed. OP has made a huge difference to his life in many ways. So well done, OP. 60lbs is a lot of weight to lose. But 180 @ 6ft? Trust me, you will look completely different to what you do now. All kinda face gains! Keep doing your thing, dude. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:29 PM
3

Fair play, mate. Thanks for the response. I had to ask as, for me anyway, even with a rotation, someone from the past can get me thinking more about them than I do the current crop. So, your rotation, on a 1-10, looks wise, what's the lowest & average?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/22 07:18 PM
2

Vaz, great input again. Many thanks. But a question... When you knock back a woman of this calibre or any at all, even with your level of experience, do you ever think about them/feel like reaching out? And do you ever crack, or do you just push through it?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/22 10:39 AM
15

First thing that came to mind. She was a cake eater.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/22 09:32 AM
2

He laid the pipe/fucked her good.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/22 09:32 AM
11

Well done, OP. And what become of her?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/22 08:53 AM
3

I get this, but why the fuck does every one of them plead with you to open up though?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 10:26 PM
1

Well put. But there's always that one time that can't be put down to anything but something wrong happening between you two.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 05:14 PM
2

100% Agreed. No matter how much you love her, how good your day with her has been, how happy she makes you - the moment you get a feeling in your gut, it's over.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 09:55 PM
2

Spot on. I say this about all people. Your nature is your nature. End of. You can contain it to a large degree, but it is always there and always will be. And guess what? It will rear it's head. Why? Because it has to. I remember watching a video of a retired pornstar who was the voice of reason at some pornstar march. Well, she was there with the Beta of ALL Betas that was her husband. Waving his fucking card around, standing there like a shook little, anime fan pussy. His wife? Interviewing an…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 09:48 PM
3

Yep. What getting seen in public with a hottie does for you, socially speaking, is scary.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 09:59 AM
1

As my old Dad say's: "When one door closes, another one opens...". Not to be super super optimistic twat (as it won't happen every time, but it's more of an attitude/belief thing), but try and look for the silver lining in these situations - because there usually is one.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/22 10:51 PM
10

1) You're on form this year, thank you. 2) How did you thicken your streams?
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 09:32 PM
1

Clinginess, Withholding the Pussy, if she's loud, Wanting multiple dates.
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:03 PM
–

Agreed. That level of DGAF seem's very hard to achieve (personally speaking).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:10 PM
4

"Just be yourself" - Every. Woman. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:27 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:19 PM
3

The old "spy" trick. That old chestnut has been around for ever and still works? Damn.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 05:35 PM
1

Friend, one hundred men is a lot of men. No, they're all the same thing. At least to me. Well, if they're not hoes then they are DEFFO sluts. Agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:22 PM
1

Or she could just be a slut? Outrageous, I know, but y'know...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:12 AM
2

I concur. 10 is a big number. And if you've had 2-3 stallions in that 10, man, that's a problem too. If a woman has slept with under 10 men, she's got a 85-90% higher chance of me getting with her seriously than a woman with an N-Count above that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:12 AM
1

Man, what you said there about pair bonding is spot on. It is absolutely insane how women with high N-Counts can't make it work when they try to settle down. It's a life of misery for them and all men she encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:09 AM
1

I wouldn't class any woman who has slept with 100+ men as "perfectly normal". That's a hoe right there, P.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:03 AM
6

Vaz, May I ask why you don't ghost people? I don't do it because I find ghosting/blocking etc the ultimate emotional response, so I trey to to let it affect me that bad.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/22 04:59 PM
3

Yes, that's why I wrote "you must level up as you level up". That feeling of being pickier because you have levelled up is so satisfying.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/22 04:57 PM
5

Thank you. Upvoting is for closers! ;-)
/r/TheRedPill31/01/22 04:55 PM
12

Spot on, sir. We can't waste our own time, fuck that. I try to be less specific than "Thursday at 8", and I try and see what their schedule looks like. I also don't approach the situation like in a gun with two bullets and I must get the kill shot kinda way. But within that day, if she's still throwing up roadblocks, I go. Her loss. Like AB said "ABC: A = Always. B = Be. C = Closing". Always be closing.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/22 11:20 AM
13

Yep. But I will throw this out there too... Don't be picky! 5 women is still 5 women, even if they aren't like a prime J-Lo or if they do come with a set of problems etc. So one of them is as old as your mom, the other has one tit, the other is a chubby 22 year old attention whore, the other has 4 kids, the other is a 4/10 who works in a retail store but you only see on the night for a quick fuck twice a week. Who gives a flying fuck what they look like (only for a short time though, as you must…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/22 11:13 AM
20

Boom! Out of all the hot women that I have fucked (not many, mind you), only one of them was an out-and-out submissive, wannabe pornstar who was born for sex. The rest? They were like bags of potatoes. But what they do for you on a social level is better than good sex, IMHO.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/22 11:05 AM
16

I'll second/third this. Those women who are into you will also actively try and meet you and will be wanting to set dates & times.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/22 11:03 AM
1

I have. And I'm still devastated by it. Happened around 18 months ago now, but we haven't seen each other in 6 months. What I have done to try and "Recover" is visit new places by myself or with friends and avoid place where me and her went, fuck lots of other women, throw myself into my hobbies and interests, grind away at my purpose etc. Just basic survival mixed with letting time do it's thing. I don't think you fully recover. You've lost a piece of your heart, and you have to live with what …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:40 PM
3

I'm a man, but I have really enjoyed reading this comment. There is definitely more to being unkempt than hair that needs a trim. What you said about skin condition is spot on. I have been complimented on my glow and complexion many times. Things like that, however unmanly they seem, are worth caring about and looking after. Good post, cutie. Learn from this, guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:06 AM
1

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:12 AM
1

Not even close, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 09:29 AM
1

Brilliant news. I'm looking forward to it.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 09:29 AM
1

Cheating, or her put herself into situations which make me question her loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 09:29 AM
3

Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:10 PM
1

You think? Have your GF cheat on you with your brother or best friend, then come back and talk about how "traumatic" having no sex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:58 PM
1

Well put. Your cousin, any stories on the guy in terms of advice etc?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 06:51 PM
3

That's one reason why I really like Rollo: He's not out there claiming he does these things. I like his angle, and he's an integral part of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 06:50 PM
5

I'm a big fan of his. Very cool guy.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 11:54 AM
7

It'd be great if there was more of these threads from RP gurus/Alpha males etc. I know we all know this, but it's good content and there might be a gem in there that helps someone out.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 10:40 PM
54

Boom! Great post, sir! Have an upvote. I listen to Patrice's work all the time. Believe me, that man was years ahead of his time. Years. He's one of those guys who you come across and you just know that he's gonna make an impact on your life. The stuff he was saying in '05/'06? I mean, come on! Anyone over the age of 30 will know how different things were back then. And he's still ahead of his time. He truly cared for his fellow men. He did everything possible to look after us. His work is a tre…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 10:22 PM
1

One thing I love about women, and this sounds weird, is that look they give you when you buy them their favourite drink/food and they are drinking/eating it and just staring hard at you. Like putty in my hand. It does sound odd, but it's immensely satisfying haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:14 PM
1

Back in the day I ballooned up to around 300lbs and then went all the way down to about 170-185. Forget dating. Even the way people treat you is different. It impacted my life in a way that I couldn't handle. Because once you're fat for a long time, you're always fat. I could not shake that feeling. And when I look back at my lowest weight I would kill to be that low with what I know now. Taking compliments was impossible, the women that I yearned for were now within reach and I would shut down …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:14 PM
2

Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:53 PM
5

I agree. I'm sure she meant it though. For me, "good sex" mostly means that the woman had no problem giving me everything I wanted. I've had that many times. But genuine "great sex" I've had once, and that was because how good we both were, and a bunch of other factors. I agree. "Great sex" is fucking rare. And even then, from my own experience, you might only be compatible in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:46 AM
3

Probably the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:47 PM
12

Ha! Exactly. You just got made to wait for ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:18 PM
62

This. Makes you feel like a safe bet/secure, but it's beyond insulting. It's basically saying "You will have me last, end of."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:31 PM
37

Well put. Had a cheating Ex say "the sex was great" with a devious bastard that was on the scene (long story). As soon as she said it I died a little inside. So hurtful and heartbreaking. It can be said to hurt you, when the sex could have actually been shit. But when it's genuine, it hurts like hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:29 PM
2

Same. I have fucked one woman twice who I mentioned in one of my recent posts. She's easily been with 100 men. That woman isn't even in her mid 20's! A male friend of mine has slept with over 300 women. Guess what? He has major commitments issues as well. Like it or not, but the higher that number gets, the less chance you have of making a relationship work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:11 PM
5

So you honestly think that a woman, for example, that has been with nearly 100 men, doesn't have commitment issues? 1) Hypergamy 2) Boredom 3) Thinking the grass is greener... I get your point, I really do. But start a relationship with someone who has had 10 partners, then start one with someone has had x10 that many men. See which one gives you problems first, and the most problems overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:09 PM
2

OP lives up to her username.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:08 AM
5

All I know is that 60 men is a shitload of men. Cut it how you like. If you've been with that many men, you're a hoe. And you will fail when it comes to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:11 AM
5

So sixty men isn't a big number nor a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:32 PM
2

Agreed. First date has to be a fancy meal? No chance. A woman has to earn that from me, because I've seen women go on countless food excursions (I mean dates) and a man shouldn't have to always pay or always take you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:19 PM
2

So if I meet a 45 year old, should I expect her to have slept with 100 men? 2 a year doesn't sound bad, that's correct. But it all adds up. And when that number is high, it's bad. So again, what do you class as low and high?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:02 PM
4

My bad. Hopefully you know what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:59 PM
3

You think a 32 year old who has slept with over 30 men is a low number? Thirty men is a lot of men. How about if 10 of those men were in the last year? Maybe 2? So a 30 year old has slept with 30 people, sleeps with two a year, that's 50 men by the time she's 40. That's a lot of cock. All due respect, but your logic/theory goes out the window for me. Sit with a woman who has slept with tons of men like I have and let her tell you that number, and then tell me what you would say if she asked you …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:04 PM
1

High, when I think of women, for me, is over 10-15. I know it's 2022, but not every woman is a slut. But twenty men is a lot of men. So what would you class as "high"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:48 PM
4

Spot on. Not just that, but I knew a woman who slept with over sixty men. She can't hold a relationship down to save her life. Pair bonding is a thing, people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:23 PM
2

Boom! Looks get your foot in the door, but how you interact/personality etc keeps you there. Neither sex will put up with a drip for too long, even if they are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:09 AM
1

Agreed. I know one guy who is in his late 30's and literally celebrates his Birthday every night for seven nights before his b'day! He does have like 6 kids too, so he's just a tad irresponsible. I hate being the centre of attention. So no parties for me, ever!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:04 AM
3

Patrice, is that you? Never be her "time hoe". Ever.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 10:40 AM
2

First off, congratulations on the abundance! Good man. Been here before, so here's a few pointers... 1) Do not make these women your purpose. Never forget your purpose. 2) Deal with the ones that aren't the most hassle and are most likely to sleep with you. The others? Let them chase you instead. 3) Cheap dates. Ie: Coffee and a walk in the park. You will spend a fortune otherwise. 4) Make the most of it. Because as annoying as it is now, you'll remember this as a good time during your next dry …
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:19 AM
1

Agreed. But some women are into you because they're actually into you, regardless of if you're not the better looking half. And if Henry comes along, you've had your fun ;-)
/r/seduction18/01/22 12:22 AM
1

Spot on. The minute you put all your eggs in one basket is the minute you started digging a hole for yourself. Always be pimpin'.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 06:02 PM
2

Great post. Preach, brother. Preach.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 12:13 PM
2

That will change if he finds out she was cheating with Chad. Guys like this don't get physical, they get even. And they go low (and rightly so).
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 12:10 PM
3

Spot on. She's a pump & dump at best. And definitely has an inflated ego.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 10:13 AM
9

She's grim. She's got a certain tramp/rough/scruffy look to her, that no matter how much she makes online, she will always have that aura/vibe. A turd that can't be polished, basically.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 10:11 AM
-2

That's not always the case. There's a few guys I know who this has never happened too.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 10:10 AM
2

I feel for the guy. He's broken. He's gonna find the next 12 months hard if he doesn't get on his purpose, occupy his mind, and possibly meet other women. She, on the other hand, is an immature clown. The grass isn't greener, hun... 4 kids in 6 years? Jesus wept. Have a break, for fuck sake. Just goes to show that you can spend all that time with a woman, and either Hypergamy will do it's thing or the light-switch effect will (which the latter definitely has, and the former has about a 95% chanc…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 10:09 AM
1

You're a good man, FH. Thanks.
/r/seduction15/01/22 10:25 PM
1

I've had 5-8 (they were nothing special at all, btw) at one time. That got tiring real quick. Numbers like the above are great for the ego, but your life can quickly start to revolve around them. 3 is enough.
/r/seduction15/01/22 10:21 PM
6

Well put. I had an Ex forget my B'day and buy me a dirt cheap card from the store later that day. That really hurt. When a partner isn't paying attention to the dates, walk away. I don't want you to throw a party for me, but I'd at least like to be remembered.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 11:51 PM
4

Great post. What you said about "closure" was dead on. I asked my Ex - like a fucking idiot - for closure, would she give me it? Hell no. It was another guy. Like you say, it always is. You have to let your Ex realise that the grass isn't greener...
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 04:08 PM
2

Thanks. I've been through the break up phase, and had to ask as there's still some things that I could do when I start overthinking about the past. A walk is amazing for taking your mind off of things or to think clearly about something. An absolutely underrated tool.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 09:12 AM
4

The last part regarding chemicals etc, tips on how to repurpose and flush them?
/r/TheRedPill12/01/22 09:50 PM
1

Honestly, my Youtube homepage is littered with them. Cooper (he's arguably the worst), Tate Bros., DS (who is literally a fucking parrot with his quotes, same as Cooper) - all grifters. Give me Patrice, Dante, Rosebudd, and Rollo any day of the week over what we have now.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/22 10:42 AM
1

Got a link for the Pook/ADM advice, please?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 12:49 PM
0

Crazy what imaginary money and a bit of metal can do to someone...
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 12:43 PM
7

100% spot on. I was the guy you mentioned. Dude above, do the right thing and walk.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 05:43 PM
2

Fuck man, great post. Very well put.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 05:37 PM
8

Yep. Like Corey Wayne said: You can't negotiate attraction.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 12:02 AM
1

HVW: Loyal, Works, Low N-Count, Stable upbringing, Attractive, Potential mother qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:08 PM
0

Those of a single mothers. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:58 AM
5

Really? Got any more info on his training routine, please? His fight with Toney was a war!
/r/TheRedPill04/01/22 06:23 PM
2

She's absolutely haggard, but that's her kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:10 AM
2

Spot on. We're always the last to know about it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:08 AM
2

Agreed. Never put all of your eggs in one basket. Abundance wins, always.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:08 AM
–

A real nympho is a fucking real problem. I've seen them turn lives upside down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:04 AM
2

She's a Brit that participates in them. Arguably the biggest whore in the UK. She filmed for the GGG (German Goo Girls).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:45 AM
0

Ever heard of Kirie?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:54 PM
3

Good stuff, my man. 35? Dude, there are women who are 25-28 who are declining. Drugs + Parties + Fast Food = Ageing. My friend, I've got a few middle aged "subscribers". And although there is a 10-12 year gap between us, there is a lot less hassle compared to the women I fuck in their 20's/30's. Do whatever causes the least hassle and makes you happy.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/22 11:50 PM
6

Now this is a quality post. Dude, mind telling me how old you are? You seem to have experience. I have to agree on all points though. 1) I've seen anger make multi-millionaires out of poor people. 2) When you do become good enough, everyone wants a piece. When you're calling the shots, it will be worth every minute of the suffering. 3) Spot on. From having a woman "out in the sticks", life moved at a great pace and she was brought up damn well. City women are like fire, play with it and you get …
/r/TheRedPill01/01/22 01:42 PM
10

Boom! Exact same thing happened to me. 1) The "spite fuck" is the "Fatality" of a Break-Up. She fucking knows you don't trust that guy. So what does she do? Yep, she lets him flood her pussy with cum. And as much as that can hurt you to think about, you better fucking accept it because it's happening. That, for me, is the lowest of low moves post-break up. But again, if you channel that hate/anger the correct way, boy will you end up better in the long term on many levels for it. 2) And the meet…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/22 01:05 PM
1

Yes. I do get the odd hottie, but I think I'd be a lot happier, in some way, if I attracted that kind of woman most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:56 PM
1

She's getting better, thanks for asking. Ah that sucks, hope it's a false alarm my man! At least you're honest about your faults. Been through that, and it's a blow and-a-half to your confidence and heart. Time to get back on the horse, my man! I've came close, but I know I 'm just setting myself up for heartache. Gotta kerb that behaviour for your own wellbeing.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/21 05:03 PM
3

Awesome stuff! Dude, the woman who I fucked nearly made me cry in bed. She tapped into me on an emotional level that hasn't and won't be matched. It was mind blowing. Never experienced anything like that before. How come she broke up? And what become of her? The lady in my story is battling cancer, unfortunately. She's a great gal who I hope wins this particular battle.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/21 12:46 AM
1

Exact same thing happened to me. It blew my mind. Like in all aspects of life - When one door closes, another one opens.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/21 12:38 AM
0

Good for you, I hope it works. ;-)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 11:39 PM
2

That 1 guy is saving himself a small fortune compared to the others.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 12:43 AM
2

Great stuff, mate. Quality post.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/21 11:28 PM
2

Probably gets food/coffee from 90% of them, yet fucks 10% of them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/21 11:01 PM
2

True. Very true. I've actually been the guy having a threesome with two women who, thinking they'd got in after a night out, just had group sex with two other guys... literally next door. Many of them have zero shame. And another thing; I've actually slept with a woman who was a good woman. Worked her fucking arse off for her two kids and went up in the world because of it, had literally zero social media presence, wasn't seeing anyone nor had any orbiters. What a tool I was to let that one go. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/21 10:55 PM
2

You know when you just don't know where to start? I'm actually speechless. No joke. And she's studying Wicca & Crystals? Make it stop!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/21 04:07 PM
2

You can see it in her eyes that she'd make your life a misery, and enjoy it. I'd rather be single, thanks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/21 04:04 PM
3

Game, Set, Match. I took on a woman's kids once. Never again. One is doable, especially if it's a teenager. But kids? No chance. And to be real with you, Vaz, the moment that kid comes out with that comment is the moment the relationship dies it's death. Not gonna lie either, as much as I did for them (bought them a PS4 for Xmas etc, so you know I wasn't a cunt to them.) I remember when we all went away for a break, visited the local bar for food as it was in the countryside and a local said to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:57 PM
1

A bit. But I think it's mainly me being grateful for dodging a bullet, whereas I'd have gone with these women before and got hurt. I think I like the feeling of saving my own skin/putting myself first rather than having the little fella dictate what's what.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/21 10:48 AM
1

No matter how hard I try or what methods I use, I simply cannot Bench more than 80kg for 1 rep (and that's a grind). I've had a Trap Bar DL of 195kg, I've Squatted 150kg, but I cannot get the mind/muscle connection with the Bench. If I'm sitting in a seated press position machine for the chest, I get a fantastic MMC. No chance on the Bench, why is that?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/21 10:46 AM
1

True, but a woman who I know who is also the biggest slut I know keeps a track/log. And I believe 70 is either 70 or way more. Hell, this woman has photos and convos saved from ten years ago from men! So some, weirdly, are accurate with their estimates. I don't think men care now about N-Counts. No guy I know could give an accurate number, thats's for sure.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/21 09:35 AM
1

I don't think the "Rule of 3" is always applicable. As stated in a post I made in this thread about a woman I knew of sleeping with 70 men. There's no way she's arriving at that number and then public stating it in the hopes that it's not many/that bad. Because we'd class it 210 men, whereas it's really what she said it is. Probably. But I do think most women fib about the number. I'd say it's 1.5/2 times more than what she said. More along the 1.5, IMHO. Good post, otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/21 10:55 AM
2

Fucking hell... I don't know whether to laugh or dry at this post! Haha. I can't get the image of a mile-long cock out of my head now. Thanks! I do like your logic regarding 1.2 years. There's something to be said for that, tbh. Pair-bonding is probably the most overlooked aspect of all of this. Just how do you get through seventy men and not one of them is suitable for you? Damn. I'd love to know why they can't find a partner, but it probably boils down to being an Alpha Widow at some point.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/21 09:41 AM
2

True. Good point. Fair enough. Thought so. Thanks as always.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 06:26 PM
2

Dearest Vaz, do you have a set number when it comes to N-Count that makes you go "Oh dear..."? And If not now because you DGAF, did you have numbers/limits throughout your 30's, 40's etc? I had an Ex that slept with 16 men. That's a big number for me (and I believe it to be more higher 20's/lower 30's). Yet her friend had been with over seventy men! (and she isn't even 35 yet!) That's someone who is unable to pair-bond at it's finest, am I right?
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 12:24 PM
3

2k on escorts? Did we just become best friends? ;-) All jokes aside, well done. Glad to see that you're seeing the fruits of your labour.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 12:16 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/seduction18/12/21 11:58 AM
2

It's beyond mind blowing, it's downright insulting. I hate it when women always want their first date to be a fancy/expensive date. No chance. A walk & talk will suffice nicely, thank you very much! You have to earn that shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/21 10:41 AM
1

Top post, Vas. But when they come back for fun, how do you let go gracefully when you know she's "the one", and this is the last time you will see her? That's the part I'm struggling with.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/21 10:36 AM
1

I have. I'm not so sure. The right amount of emotions/tingles, and you can get a woman to do anything.
/r/seduction16/12/21 07:25 PM
1

Time, Keeping busy, Fucking other women. Those are the only things that will make you "let go".
/r/seduction14/12/21 11:39 AM
1

Could just be that she was into him. There are women out there who you would think were into a certain type of guy, or who should be with a certain type of guy, but they aren't. Trust me. I've been fat as fuck and as broke as a joke, and I've still fucked and been with some legit beauts. Not every hot woman dates equally or above, and when they don't there's not always an ulterior motive for doing so.
/r/seduction14/12/21 11:29 AM
1

Yes. A few women, actually. You need a rotation. Does wonders for you on many levels.
/r/seduction14/12/21 11:06 AM
1

Is that place any good?
/r/seduction14/12/21 11:02 AM
1

Where to start with this absolute shit-show... I genuinely lose more hope in women with every day that passes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/21 10:59 AM
2

Yep. The absolute worst are the women who are 40+ and are still claiming benefits and pumping out babies. Half of there life will be spent breeding and being in hospitals. Tramps.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/21 10:58 AM
1

Tennis, Yoga, Dancing, Zumba, Spin classes.
/r/seduction02/12/21 10:26 PM
1

What about if she speaks to you and her legs are wide open whilst standing?
/r/seduction30/11/21 10:41 AM
2

That has to be the most disgusting profile pic I have ever seen. I'm actually gutted OLD/dating has sunk this low.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 12:24 PM
1

Pretty sure Leo isn't a peasant, either ;-)
/r/TheRedPill13/11/21 03:46 PM
4

Crazy. It's staggering how deluded they are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 05:04 PM
26

Honestly, the level of delusion these women suffer from and don't even realise it is frightening.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 10:41 PM
28

Bravo, sir! Bravo. The entitlement is absolutely mind blowing with this one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 08:57 AM
3

A full time Mom @ 40? Damn. 18 year gap between the eldest and youngest child? Damn. Sleeps on the couch? Lowlife. Technically still married? Pfft...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/21 10:04 PM
32

Hoe. With a capital Hoe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/21 10:02 PM
7

Great post, sir! Upvoted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 08:03 PM
4

Just reading that list confirms that she's batshit crazy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 12:02 PM
3

The STD is strong with this one...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 12:02 PM
1

I've seen women much older riding it. Honestly, if you haven't bagged a good man by the time you're 30, you're pretty much fucked IMHO.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 10:07 PM
3

I'm laughing like fuck at this comment! Hahahaha.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 09:57 PM
3

:-) My man! Yeah, definitely 45.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 09:37 PM
1

Add women who go on ghost hunts and collect crystal skulls to that list too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 10:11 AM
1

Agreed. What a train-wreck of a woman. Imagine if this was your daughter? I'd politely disown her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 10:10 AM
1

Vaz is an asset to this sub. We can all learn a lot from him. The man helped out via PM before when he never had to. A true gent!
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 07:53 AM
1

Ha! Great answer ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 11:11 PM
1

I said (and feel) the same thing. You didn't have to serve in 'Nam to get PTSD. Onwards and upwards king!
/r/TheRedPill05/08/21 01:55 PM
3

Now this is a great post! Thank you, OP. Split up with my Ex a year ago who was a Narc/BPD. Fuck me, look through my history. It was a fucking nightmare. These "people" are monsters, plain and simple. Honestly, my head is fried from what I went through. Avoid them at all costs. Please, for your sanity. Just avoid.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/21 09:50 AM
2

Remember the grandmas who used to be old? Fuck happened there?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/21 07:48 AM
1

Good point, valid too. I've been with a good few younger women in my mid/late 30's. I will say that 30-35 does have a certain appeal to it ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:54 PM
1

I strongly disagree with "if you haven't had a relationship by 30, you're socially undeveloped". I was (and still am) the most popular guy around my way, had all the ladies wanting me, never struggled to meet women, but I loved my freedom that much that I didn't want to jack it all in for 2.4 children, a mortgage, marriage etc at twenty four years old. What's the fucking point in that? Live a little... I wanted to live my life on my terms as I was fiercely independent, and nobody at age 22 who w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:33 AM
1

Strongly disagree. I fucked a bunch of women in my 20's, but in my 30's? Doubled that number, easily. I found that you can be desirable to all ages of women in your 30's, it's not like that in your 20's as it's mostly your own age group and maybe some a tad older (5 years or so).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:28 AM
2

Just go to a swingers club if you want new chicks, plural. And there's no emotional investment on your half, so you're actions won't cause huge drama down the road.
/r/askTRP23/06/21 10:10 AM
1

Bingo! Read this, OP. This is medicine.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:53 PM
2

Move on, OP. Your turn is over. The exact same thing happened to me in my last LTR. Ex met her neighbours brother, spent a few hours alone one night, I'm out of the picture, they fuck. Hit the gym, Spin plates, Inform her that she's got a week to leave. Do not become friends with this guy/snake. Accept that the relationship is done, because she will fuck this guy if you stay with her.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:50 PM
2

Definitely! Bravo, CM.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:20 PM
1

Agreed. Scary thing is, is once you get good at it, your view on confrontation changes like night and day. You literally give zero fucks because you know you can handle yourself. There's something very reassuring about being able to handle yourself. And most people are shithouses anyway.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:43 AM
2

Take up Boxing, MMA or BJJ. You need to be put in an environment where you are constantly having to face confrontation. The above choices are perfect for that. You go in the ring or cage a few times and spar, you will be a new person.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:27 AM
1

Don't even know why I got DV'ed when what I said might happen, happened.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:25 AM
0

Uh oh, potential set-up for a branch swing. Check back in and let us know what you felt in your gut when the get-together is over. You'll know if there was anything be worried about, just keep an eye on those two (him and your GF).
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:22 PM
2

Or you could try an older woman?
/r/askTRP15/06/21 03:06 PM
3

Honestly, this works. I remember going through a spell before where I wasn't getting as hard as I wanted. Done a few leg workouts, dropped some fat, boom! Boners were back.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:39 AM
2

Yep. She wants OP. Catch a woman's gaze for that long = you're in. Go get her, OP!
/r/askTRP11/06/21 08:13 PM
2

Because they have no ability to "pair bond". Speaking to a friend earlier who told me her friend has been with 50-60 men. She is fucked... for life.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 08:12 PM
8

Grabs the popcorn...
/r/askTRP08/06/21 09:06 PM
1

Put them together! I'd fuck your Ex, and whilst doing so, ring the plate and tell her to get her ass over to you two. The power lies in your Exes hands, so work your magic with her.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 11:05 AM
3

Great comment, Skew. Well said.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 04:52 PM
2

I hope you ditched her or you wrap it! ;-)
/r/askTRP05/06/21 05:53 PM
109

Her Med Cabinet. :-)
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:03 PM
2

I'm not with the woman, she's my most recent Ex. Thanks for the reply.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:53 PM
1

Damn, this hit me hard. That moment when you want more than the people around you, and you want a better life, is life changing. I literally felt naked whilst everyone seemed clothed. Just me, nobody else. The joinery is definitely the lonely part. Onwards & upwards, kings!
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 08:37 AM
1

This. Follow the patterns, OP.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 07:39 AM
1

Wise words.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:52 PM
9

Agreed. Those are rookie numbers for a slut. 30 is a little too high for me. Great fun if you're not gonna wife her up though.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 11:01 PM
1

Nah. As mentioned, it's a personality flaw. You can have everything a high value man needs, and for these women it still won't be good enough.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:11 PM
1

Been there, done that. A hole in the head is way more welcome... And it's not because I can't lead/lay the pipe etc. Some women just cannot be tamed or controlled.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:05 PM
2

^ I like this guy...
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:03 PM
3

Agreed. Message her in 3 months or something.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:03 PM
1

Say jack to the plate, get her to invite her slutty friend over, 3-way? Thank me later...
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:00 PM
2

Don't forget to drink plenty of water. That, combined with say, being a non-smoker & light drinker = tremendous skin.
/r/seduction02/06/21 07:29 AM
1

Ha! No worries. You made some great points, so I had to pick your brain. Thanks for the replies, btw. I agree. Women are more like us than we think... It's not getting stale, but I could do with a new level/change of scenery from this dynamic. She won't ghost me. I fucked her 3 days ago, haven't spoke to her in 2, but she always comes around when I don't initiate. The silence kills her, like it does all women. She ended it, yet we still fuck. So she can't "sense" anything as it's her doing.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:28 PM
2

I was going to say that what's she done before you is, unfortunately, none of your business (hurts like hell, but it is what it is). But then you mentioned her reaction when your parents said his name, and this is over a year later, and you're with her? That's not good at all, buddy. Wonder why she's still triggered by his name? Hmm... Better get your ducks in a row. Focus on school. Aquire some plates and next her.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:40 PM
1

Hey dude, thanks for the reply. 1) I don't mind the drive, as it's only 15 mins away. But this arrangement feels too transactional/conditional for me now. We fuck every time, but it's boring just doing that every time, as mad as that sounds. 2) Yeah, I'm definitely the oral guy. A decent/good fuck, but very good at oral. Also not her best fuck (you just know when you know). So no chance of a reconciliation, ever?
/r/askTRP01/06/21 01:57 PM
1

Bit late, but... So what's the answer if she does have current options, but is still keeping you around/fucking you etc?
/r/askTRP01/06/21 10:16 AM
1

Paper before Pleasure.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 11:37 PM
1

Always remember this, kings! Tis the truth.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 11:36 PM
1

Dude, kinda in this situation right now. Need your help. Tell me, when you say extreme, just how extreme are we talking? We fuck week in, week out as FWB's. What happens if I get official with someone? And vice-versa, as in is it a straight ghost from her end if she gets with a new man? I have noticed how she is really fucking pissy when I tease her about a new woman. Like, scorched earth 'ish.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 08:45 PM
1

Sure.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 09:36 PM
1

Focus on stretching! Dynamic stretching before training, static stretching after training. Also, 2 hours after your workout, stretch again. Believe me, the 2nd hour is the sweet spot. And you will feel amazing. Get enough sleep. You should know what you need to "get by". But now you have to add to it because you're putting your body under stress. And it's where you will do your growing, you only break down muscle in the gym. Eat clean, hit your macros. The recovery part is super important, so ma…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 09:34 PM
1

Move on, OP.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 03:24 PM
1

Remember how to lift. Do dynamic stretching. Get that blood pumping, you've had a long time off. Lower your reps. So you used to do 5x12? Now do 4x8. No complexes etc! Increase your rest breaks by 20-30s per set, too. Lower the weight. Use 70% of your 1RM's for compound lifts. Work from there. Get some core work in (it will have weakened) and some cardio after the weights. Give it time. Within a month you will be a hell of a lot closer to where you want to be. Hydrate! You're gonna need it. Trea…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 07:02 AM
1

Anything new or different from the above that you'd recommend? I'm obsessed with aftershave.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 06:53 AM
6

I hear that. I'm also a huge believer in a "modified" rules of Baseball (three strike and you're out) for certain areas of life.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 12:17 PM
10

Agreed, and it's been swinging the other way for at least 5 years now.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 05:39 PM
1

No, you're her plate.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 03:45 PM
1

Very true. Always found it hard to "kill the puppy", if you know what I mean.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 11:32 AM
1

OP, please listen to this guy and save yourself a ton of hurt. Move on, OP. Her turn with you is over.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 08:54 PM
1

All women are like that.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 08:49 PM
1

Yes, why?
/r/askTRP14/05/21 09:09 AM
1

Thanks my man.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 10:09 AM
2

Fucking hell, my man. Phenomenal reply. Really, this has helped a lot. Thank you!
/r/askTRP13/05/21 10:08 AM
8

AWALT.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:41 PM
1

I hear you, we met when I lost my Mom. So, everything was all over the place, emotionally speaking.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:54 PM
1

Hey, thanks for the reply. Makes percent sense. What you said about "not missing her"/"anger" is spot on. Never realised that till now. I'm definitely missing her a lot less these days, but I'm just as angry. Again, thank you.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:30 PM
1

:-) Thanks.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:20 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:20 PM
1

Dude, I have no need to lie. "The best way to get over a woman..." that and "AWALT" are my mottos regarding women.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:19 PM
1

True. Thanks.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:11 PM
0

It actually is 10. A few old plates and a few new ones.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:10 PM
22

Oh boy... A nightmare within a nightmare, within yet another nightmare. You will have multiple problems with her, and I'm talking BIG fucking problems. Find yourself a good woman who comes from good stock.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 03:52 PM
12

Absolutely. People get annoyed when angry, but that feeling right there is the catalyst for massive improvement. Channel it correctly and watch your life change!
/r/askTRP09/04/21 09:16 AM
2

Spot on. With every serious argument I've had with my Exes, it's been to do with their friends behaviour. Women hate women doing well, always remember that!
/r/askTRP08/04/21 08:06 AM
2

Very mature comment, great stuff.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 08:05 AM
3

This. You can have everything going as smooth as possible, but once that feeling rears it's head it's over. That feeling goes back millions of years, and for good reason.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:25 AM
1

What's the "kitten test"?
/r/askTRP06/04/21 09:43 AM
1

Seduction AskMenOver30
/r/askTRP06/04/21 12:38 AM
3

Boom! There's many guys out there that are borderline porn stars in the bedroom, but out of it are borderline autistic. All aspects have to be to a high standard for it to work for a long period of time.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 09:52 AM
2

Bro, I was far from lame. She even commented on how "forward" I was. I can't act tame. If I do, I overthink. If I overthink, I struggle. So I'm always forward/non-hesitant.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 09:34 AM
2

Some bullshit by her about "I put out on date 4, and I'm always worth it". Yeah. Fucking. Right. I had her tits out, so it's better than nothing.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:49 AM
2

Thanks my man.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:43 AM
3

As soon as she greeted me on her step we locked lips hard. Sat her down, pulled her into me, made out and chilled, then I felt her tit and started to suck them. I took control, no worries about that. I never have an issue doing so.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:38 PM
3

Dude, I straight up told her that I wanted to fuck her whilst sucking her tit. So it wasn't down to that.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:35 PM
2

Dude, I know that less is more when talking. I escalated the moment I saw her. We were kissing hard, but she wasn't that way inclined to go all out on the first date.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:34 PM
2

My man, I went all out on that front. No dice, though.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:30 PM
2

Dude, I was 1000% down and made my intentions known by my actions.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:48 PM
3

I did escalate. Lots of foreplay, but no fuck.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:47 PM
3

We had foreplay and I wanted to fuck, but she was very adamant about not fucking til "Date 4" haha. I escalated, I always do.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:45 PM
2

Dead!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 09:05 PM
1

Great point, and one that doesn't get mentioned enough on here.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 06:12 PM
2

Plate = Public property. If you can't stand her fucking other men, walk away or lock her down.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 10:34 AM
6

BP. Very BP. He is way too emotional.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 10:31 AM
1

Avoid the booze then ;-)
/r/askTRP14/03/21 11:30 PM
1

Could be mental. Could be that you're not confident in that position, or any position other than those you mentioned.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:58 PM
1

No problem, my man.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 05:17 PM
1

Well, it wouldn't be the best threesome it could be if your partner isn't Bi. Let the idea come from her, it's a better time for all if so. But she isn't Bi, and if she doesn't get off on seeing you fuck other women then it will never happen. That's unless she brings a guy into the fold (fuck that). Just put the idea to bed and forget about it. I had two with an Ex. Both times the idea was hers, and both threesomes involved another woman that she picked.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 12:04 PM
1

40-50.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 10:57 PM
1

Takes one to know one ;-)
/r/askTRP11/03/21 10:49 PM
1

Thanks man.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 10:48 PM
1

Get her to get one of those Thot pals over to yours. Wrap it. Profit?
/r/askTRP11/03/21 09:33 AM
8

I'd go and fuck another woman just in case...
/r/askTRP11/03/21 09:31 AM
6

Yeah, OP met a pretty decent woman by the sounds of it. You got off lightly, dude.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 09:26 AM
1

Walk around with your big ole dick out, of course!
/r/askTRP11/03/21 09:25 AM
1

And what do they do when they can't fix him? Do they completely discard him or try again?
/r/askTRP10/03/21 11:29 PM
1

Wow, great reply. Thanks!
/r/askTRP09/03/21 10:47 PM
1

How so?
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:58 PM
1

Thanks. Interested to hear more myself...
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:12 PM
1

My longest plate has been on the scene for 2-3 years.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 07:18 PM
3

Dude, I haven't fucked one years. But I had fun when I did so. Alphas pay with their time, don't get it twisted. I had two 3-ways with legit 9's. But I had to work that and wait like a motherfucker. Again, I invested time.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 09:11 AM
12

We all pay for it one way or another...
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 08:15 AM
13

I used to love fucking escorts. Pulling up to their house in some city I've never been too, fucking some broad I will never see again, and she's tailored (height/age/services offered etc) to my needs? Yes please. Haven't fucked one in years, but they're cheaper than a partner! Haha.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/21 04:56 PM
1

Damn, and how you doing now?
/r/TheRedPill20/02/21 09:51 PM
1

Although I agree with you in principle, it's not as black and white as you say. What you said comes with the territory, but it can be eye opening to see how your GF reacts. Something can be going on right under your nose, and had you not snooped you'd have been oblivious to it and prolonged the heartache.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/21 11:01 AM
3

Damn! How long did it take for you to get through the tough time? 4, 4.5, 12 & 12.5 are spot on. I went through an Exes phone. Fuck me, it was heartbreaking to read. The stuff that got said whilst we were together is something that cut deep. Also caught her out via google location, too. Amazing tool. Catches cheaters out in no time.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 08:04 PM
1

The higher the number, the lower the quality.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 12:31 AM
1

Agreed. If it ain't broke...
/r/askTRP12/02/21 07:00 PM
4

As harsh as this sounds, it's the truth. Once you're battling with an inner demon, it's over. Every single time.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 06:50 PM
2

This is how it starts... Her turn with you is coming to an end, OP. Make back-up plans and work on yourself.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 11:13 AM
1

Perfume & Dick.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 12:08 AM
2

Boxing, Lifting, Reading, Music, Gaming (occasionally). Try and pick something where you can do it wherever you want, whenever you want (ie: Running).
/r/askTRP11/02/21 10:54 AM
8

Yep. Say nothing and let her comes to terms with what a piece of shit she is. Good luck in the future, OP.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 10:52 AM
2

And he's a gent and a scholar, too.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/21 09:52 AM
2

Agreed. Great for keeping your skills sharp, stopping you wallowing in self pity, and takes your mind off your Ex. But I found it to have the same effect as a hangover. Fantastic when I'm drinking, nightmare when I stop drinking.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 11:22 PM
2

/thread. First thought that came to mind.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 10:36 AM
2

Hahahaha! Someone has put a smile on my face this morning :-)
/r/askTRP04/02/21 09:27 AM
1

Arrange a 3-way with her sister.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 09:25 AM
1

Run.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:11 PM
7

I don't think they're as Red as they used to be, what with how common tatts are now. Then again, the dirtiest slut I ever fucked was covered in them. The more she has, the more submissive they tend to be, from my own experience.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:02 PM
2

Solid advice, sir!
/r/askTRP03/02/21 04:52 PM
1

Be prepared for the unknown. Not to put you off, but I have never seen it end well for the man who sleeps with a taken woman and gets found out.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 10:02 AM
1

Can't you get a train or some form of transport home? Shake her brothers hand, leave, block her on all channels, go home, lick your wounds and rebuild yourself.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 10:01 AM
2

Solid advice. Fair play, man.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 09:58 AM
2

Ha! They definitely do.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:37 PM
1

Lunch is for women. 1st date/meet is a walk & talk. 2nd date is food, and she must go dutch.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:26 PM
-2

Do it. But you must be into your girl more than the other girl. 60/40, minimum. And let her initiate it, don't get being pushy or making demands (looks, certain women etc). Have fun, son! ;-)
/r/askTRP01/02/21 09:42 AM
6

Agreed. Women love a man with big/broad shoulders, arms etc. No need to be Arnie or Ronnie, but a little lifting does a lot for your chances with women. It's an open invite for them to touch you/make the first move, shows you have discipline etc.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 09:39 AM
66

Training in combat sports & Lifting. When you know you have KO power in either hand & can grapple well, you realise just how much of an advantage you have over many men. Lifting requires no explanation.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 08:32 PM
1

Hahaha!
/r/askTRP23/01/21 12:56 AM
2

Man, I thought I was the only one who used the whack-a-mole analogy. That is so true though. Like jumping through one hoop after the other...
/r/askTRP22/01/21 07:25 PM
2

Yep. Or try and hook up with a broad at your GF's place...
/r/askTRP22/01/21 11:04 AM
2

Make her your sub.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 10:56 AM
2

AWALT.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 03:59 PM
2

Great advice. As heartbreaking as it is to think of her with someone else, it strangely enough helps to make you heal quicker. I've been where you are. Just take it one day at a time and don't look back...
/r/askTRP17/01/21 11:53 PM
2

"Get comfortable being uncomfortable' This is advice I'll never forget.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 10:39 PM
1

Ha! I'm starving too.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 10:34 PM
2

The only decent response here, fair play to you bud ;-) OP, you don't deserve her. You clearly have no shame.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 10:07 PM
1

Or a dessert lounge (ice cream & waffles etc).
/r/askTRP17/01/21 10:05 PM
2

Boom! Remember when men actually had to have game and courage? The bravery aspect has been removed, and it's one thing that has annoyed me ever since the net took off.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 08:30 PM
3

Ha! I remember how newsagents would have at least THREE shelves of porn magazines. Oh how times change...
/r/askTRP17/01/21 08:27 PM
1

Every "man child" I know has grown up with their Dad, but they just didn't want to grow up. I know a bloke who has four children, yet he runs away to the pub most nights, still has stupid hobbies that he had as a kid that still take centre stage of his life (and don't bring in ANY income), and still dresses and acts like he is 17. I think life is about chapters. 20's, 30's etc, all chapters. Some people just stay 18, regardless of how old they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 09:12 PM
1

Thanks man, I hear that.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:36 PM
1

Re: still being emotionally attached; I am, sadly. So stay away and go NC?
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:16 PM
1

Jesus wept, I'm fucking three other women. I do have Oneitis, which is understandable since we were together for a few years. But I know that the best way to get over a woman is to get under one. Do you seriously think that fucking a few women erases ALL feeling and emotion for your most recent Ex? Don't be silly.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 07:45 PM
1

Thanks man. But every time we speak, we fuck. Orbiters don't fuck like that, so I'd say I'm more in a "fuck-buddy zone" right? When you say 'tell her anything", how do you mean? I'm fucking other women and working on myself.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 07:43 PM
1

Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 07:37 PM
1

Both, not gonna lie. I fuck them, but I won't allow it to go any further than that.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 01:37 PM
1

Good point. Have been forever since I've been in this position where, If I go I break her heart, but she won't take me back.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 12:40 PM
1

I feel like that could be the plan, hence me holding frame. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 12:38 PM
1

I'm currently spinning a few plates now. Thanks.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 11:08 AM
1

Thanks dude.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 01:31 AM
2

My apologies. Oh well, if that's the case...
/r/askTRP14/01/21 07:02 PM
1

Spot on. I've fucked at least twenty women since my last relationship, yet I'm still want her and only her. Fucking a plethora of women can help, but Time is your safest bet.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 12:45 PM
1

Thanks, but why would it be a bad idea to install it?
/r/askTRP14/01/21 09:51 AM
1

To be fair, I totally get what you're saying. I couldn't treat my Ex like a Hoe. Any other broad I'd treat like shit.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 07:11 PM
3

It took thirteen years to facefuck your girl?
/r/askTRP13/01/21 11:15 AM
2

Never used to be into choking because it seemed "Rapey". Shit, the last woman I choked made a sound that you knew that was what she wanted. Don't strangle the bitch, but that roughness from a man is what makes them more submissive, and the sex enjoyable.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 09:56 AM
1

Thanks, but how would I install it on their phone? Would installing it take a long time?
/r/askTRP13/01/21 09:45 AM
1

Thanks.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 09:29 AM
1

Thanks, but how do you obtain such software?
/r/askTRP11/01/21 09:59 AM
1

Tell me more about the spyware, kind sir...
/r/askTRP10/01/21 09:12 PM
1

Damn, that hit home. Great advice, king! ;-)
/r/askTRP10/01/21 09:09 PM
5

UK citizen here, and I agree with everything that the OP said. There used to be tradition/family values here, but that ended in the 80's/90's. I know GRANDMOTHERS in their late 30's. That will never make sense to me. I know of a woman who has 5 kids with three different fathers, 3 of the kids are white and 2 aren't. She isn't even 40. Crazy what goes on here. A woman I know popped out her last kid in her late forties. She already had five children. Now that kid is going to parents evening with a…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 01:23 PM
1

You've got the milk, why buy the cow?
/r/askTRP09/01/21 08:35 PM
3

Ok, this is what I found helps... "The best way to get over a woman, is to get under a woman" Doing so leads to an abundance mentality, means you're not wallowing in self-pity, means she's not on your mind, and reminds me you that there are billions of women out there. Put more time into your health. Training, diet, hydration, weight etc. Keep a very close on all of the aforementioned. Spend more times with people that uplift you, have been through what you're going through or just people in gen…
/r/askTRP09/01/21 12:48 PM
1

Very good post. A Barbell and a Landmine are awesome for home workouts. Cheap, effective, and the options are almost limitless. Grab a tractor tyre free from a yard, buy a sledgehammer and some battle ropes, BOOM! Crazy conditioning workout.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 10:43 AM
1

You sound very insecure, OP. Either learn to trust her (but watch her actions) or end the relationship.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 10:05 AM
3

Thank you.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 12:06 AM
1

Agreed. But I can wholeheartedly say, that when the time comes that you've hardened yourself up, your past might turn you into a monster. There's a switch that flips, and you need to control yourself and think first, because you will lash out hard.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:26 PM
2

Fancy expanding on this comment, please?
/r/askTRP07/01/21 08:43 PM
1

Thank you :-)
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:29 PM
1

She sounds absolutely broken. Move on, OP. Find someone better.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:18 PM
1

Very good. Many women want company and are really feeling the loneliness these past 12 months. Just get in where you fit in. I'm not being fussy on quality, but my rotation is shaping up very nicely.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:13 PM
2

Link? I can't find the sidebar for shit, thanks in advance.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 09:44 PM
1

100% agreed, but if some of them like you then they will help you out. I make sure that I get on with as many of my partners friends as possible. Because believe me, they will give clues if your partner is being straight (and you don't see it). Always remember that they are the enemy, but for fuck sake don't treat them as such.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/21 11:16 PM
1

Agreed. The very moment that the OP and his partner next have an argument, guess who she will contact? Be careful, OP. Keep your eyes on the situation, but don't let on.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 10:46 PM
1

She's got the milk, so why buy the cow? Been through this myself. Cut her off immediately. You will only get hurt if you don't. The very moment that you hear she has a new guy or a guy mentioned, you will hurt like fuck. Focus on yourself, meet new women, learn from this and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 10:22 PM
1

Patrice nailed it when he quoted De Niro's "30 seconds" line from "Heat". Always put yourself first.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 03:51 PM
1

Lots of water, Lots of hard training, No drink or drugs. You combine that with a diet that is 80% clean, moisturise every day, sleep well and you will look so good.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 03:48 PM
1

True to a degree, but at least an animal will usually tell you when it's going to attack. Sharks circle their pray, Snakes hiss, Dogs growl. Women smile! Women are phenomenal at saying one thing and doing another.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 03:40 PM
3

The biggest lesson I have learned this year is that AWALT. No matter what is happening in this world, women will cheat. Whether it's Covid-19 or something else, AWALT always applies. Getting fined during lockdown won't deter them, possibly catching the virus and spreading it won't deter them, being told to stay indoors and not mix with other households won't deter them. When a woman wants to cheat, nothing will ever stop them. Learnt that the hard way this year. Women are so savage & selfish.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:27 AM
2

Great news! Happy new year, dude. ;-)
/r/askTRP31/12/20 11:31 PM
1

Very late to this post, but those are some very wise words your shared. You >>> Every other fucker. Always. Great advice, king!
/r/askTRP29/12/20 11:12 AM
1

That's all that matters, my man! ;-)
/r/askTRP28/12/20 12:09 AM
2

I see your point...
/r/askTRP27/12/20 11:25 PM
2

But it would be alright for you to face-rape some woman you've met online and known for two weeks? Come on! I hear your point, and I'd feel the exact same way. But when your turn is over, it is over.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 08:19 PM
1

Crazy, stalking Exes are also a reason.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:43 PM
8

Desperate? Laughable. Some are just dirtier than you can imagine. Don't take this personally, but there's a high chance she has or will. She's also your Ex, that's her choice.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 10:32 PM
3

Some men love big women, Some women love black cock. At the end of the day, it's a preference.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 08:02 PM
2

Thanks my man!
/r/askTRP26/12/20 08:01 PM
3

But it sometimes is preference. I've always preferred the older woman, ever since I was a late teen. I've fucked a few insta-thots, and my last partner was 6 years younger than me. But I've always gone for older women.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 06:56 PM
28

My Nukka! I had a MILF a few months back who came out in her onesie, met me next to some woods, swallowed a 3 day load, then went and picked her son up from his night-shift. MILFS are the baddest bitches out there, personally speaking.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 06:51 PM
1

Thanks. And what about diet? You mention food high in cholesterol & good fat, but is there guideline to adhere to, foods to avoid/really stock up on etc?
/r/askTRP26/12/20 01:45 PM
1

Fantastic advice, but what's your take on training to help raise levels? Anything you'd recommend?
/r/askTRP25/12/20 11:22 PM
2

Fucking A, man. I'll be doing things the same way as you.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 02:17 PM
2

I think I have seen 3-4 women here in the UK really train hard. They lived the life, never told everybody and their dog on social media, got amazing results. Was actually inspiring to see them train - they trained harder than some men! Haha. But the rest of them? Selfie central, not an ounce of sweat, standing there lapping up the attention.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 11:30 PM
1

Snoop Doggs wife is the epitome of this.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 11:12 PM
2

Yep, especially if you are hunting for a replacement instead of just accepting that fucking strangers is your new life.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 11:07 PM
2

You won't undo oneitis by fucking 10 women - No chance. An Ex split with me a few years ago, and within 3 hours I was in a swingers club having a threesome with two women. No fucking way was I sitting there feeling sorry for myself. I also had a bunch of plates on the go, and one of my personal rules is "the best way to get over a woman is to get under a woman". But nothing could make me shake the oneitis. Fucking more new women is good for your confidence, makes you realise that there are other…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:41 PM
1

Same as, pal. I'm a pretty well built guy who has presence and personality. Put the three together and it's child's play at times. Good luck getting anywhere with any woman if you have the personality of a toenail.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:50 AM
3

Autistic?
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:10 AM
3

Spot fucking on. Doesn't hurt to be human every once in a while chaps...
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:05 AM
1

Spot on. This guys advice is golden. Just happened to me a few months back. OP, run for the hills.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 01:39 PM
1

Women always end up with random bruises. But I'd use protection and spin more plates.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 12:29 PM
2

She wanted to have her cake and eat it. An Ex of mine was the same. If one was good, two was better... Just remember: "this too shall pass". Chin up, brother! ;-)
/r/askTRP08/12/20 09:43 PM
1

Agreed. I had this with an Ex. Her, her friend and the friends brother were drinking indoors, sister goes to bed, so it's just my Ex and the bloke for three hours before my Ex left, "drinking" apparently. Saw text messages on her phone a while later with sexual innuendo. Pair of cunts. Yeah, nothing good can or will come from this. Two options: Block & ghost her, or spend time with women in a purely one-on-one capacity.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 11:31 PM
5

I don't know a single male who is 40 and has a 23yo partner, none. That's a pipe-dream right there... But I do know plenty of men who had kids in their late teens and early twenties. What the fuck were these clowns thinking? Your 20's is your time. No relationships, No kids, Just you doing everything on your terms.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/20 01:29 PM
1

The much easier option.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 01:17 AM
1

The much easier option.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 01:16 AM
1

More like the age of 5!
/r/askTRP03/12/20 10:47 AM
1

Ahahahaha!
/r/askTRP03/12/20 10:36 AM
1

Hahahahahaha! Too early to be laughing this hard!
/r/askTRP03/12/20 10:35 AM
1

Good work, bro!
/r/askTRP03/12/20 10:20 AM
1

Diet is king, but people underestimate cardio. People preach about Lifting, and I get it (I Lift too), but Cardio will melt the fat off too. And it's great for your heart.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 10:07 AM
1

If it makes you sleep well at night, do it. I know that it's frowned upon around this place, but I've done it many times. Believe me, it can save you a ton of heartache. If that's the only thing holding you back from getting serious with this girl then do it.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 09:58 AM
2

If I was married, and I have been engaged, I'd go to a swingers club or a massage parlour. The best way to cheat, that I can think of, is to pay for it. There's no emotional attachment, you're both on the same page, and nobody is none the wiser. Do that 50-75 miles from your hometown and you're good, IMHO.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 09:50 AM
1

Not enough and too many! ;-)
/r/askTRP03/12/20 09:45 AM
20

Bro, for real. Every social setting is better off without a phone in sight. Clubs, Bars, Restaurants, Coffee Shops etc - all better without a phone.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 09:44 AM
2

Agreed. Eating can be overrated at times. 5-6 meals a day is fucking tedious. I think the "5:2 Diet" is perfect. Fasting has been happening since the dawn of religion, so it's something that, as you say, has been happening under one guise or another.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 09:41 AM
1

As brutal as this sounds, it's the truth. That last bit about becoming a sobbing mess that had to be blocked - digest that, OP. Will save you further heartache.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 08:58 PM
3

Man, you are spot on. I remember breaking up with my Ex a few months ago. I didn't fap/cum for 4 days and I swear to god I felt like a savage in the gym. You can sense that you're giving off a "different" vibe, too. The masculinity seeps from you. People notice that shit. Spot on regarding how it "nukes your energy". I banged one out yesterday and felt like going back to bed! And if you've got a plate or a partner, it's a wasted load IMHO.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 08:05 PM
1

The grass isn't always greener, pal.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 07:50 PM
2

Yep. Also fantastic for people with Diabetes or are Pre-Diabetic/have weight problems. Does wonders for your blood work.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 07:48 PM
2

Prioritise your mental health. You've had a bond with someone for every day of the last 3 years, and now it's gone. That's a very hard thing to deal with. So do things to take your mind off of the situation. Whether that's walking your dog, going for a run, playing basketball, reading - whatever. Just do more of it. Depending on if you need female company, spin some plates. Usually, for me, the best way to get over a woman is to get under one. But if that's not your thing, try Monk Mode. Start t…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:39 PM
1

Agreed. Because at this rate, it will be the OP that is the plate.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:29 PM
1

I'd go and audition for fresh prospects. Her turn is over, OP.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:26 PM
2

Mid 30's. Honestly, it's all in your mind. Once the penny drops/everything clicks, life gets so much easier & fun.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 02:03 PM
2

Dude, I am nothing special. I'm carrying excess weight, dress down, don't party, haven't got a 10" dick, I'm not 6'2, haven't even got a 7/10 face, but... I have presence, give off a masculine vibe, carry muscle in the right places, I always freshly trimmed hair, have great posture, can handle myself very well, am smart, not an idiot who uses filters and dog ears, can hold frame phenomenally well with groups of women, make them really laugh, sex-game is on point, bit older than a pup so the expe…
/r/askTRP28/11/20 11:33 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 11:17 PM
2

Your point is somewhat valid (bringing in another woman/power balance), but cheating isn't that black and white. A cheat is a cheat, regardless of if you're an alpha.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 09:52 PM
0

Nope. Every woman that I have been friends with I have either fucked or wanted to fuck. I believe all men are that way, too. Never met one who wasn't.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 09:40 PM
3

Had two three-ways with my Ex and her bestie ("you are with the wrong girl" said the bestie), her other bestie was supposed to have a threesome with us, and the sister of the same Ex is/was all over me. She said how she would "treat me right" and that her sister "doesn't deserve me" etc. Does that count? The thing that is going to get you through the door is pre-selection. If these friends/relatives etc have heard that you are a demon in the bedroom or think that you're attractive, there's a ver…
/r/askTRP28/11/20 09:34 PM
1

AWALT. Always. There is nothing "wrong" with catching feelings for a woman, it's inevitable. But always remember AWALT.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 11:28 AM
1

I'm in the same boat, OP. Split with my Ex three months ago. I lift, train very hard, read, have hobbies, I'm spinning many plates (nigh-on double digits), yet my Ex is the only one I truly want. Last night I called her. I felt weak as shit doing so. Three other women were messaging me, yet here I am with my Oneitis ruining my life. Depending on your situation (if you have kids, a mortgage, work with her, been together for years etc) I'd be inclined to walk away. Because honestly, all that comes…
/r/askTRP25/11/20 11:11 AM
2

Oh yes. Can be very fun to watch, too. Compliments, OTT hugs/affection, ignoring your GF, trying to take your number down in front of her... It definitely happens.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 11:00 AM
3

Yep. Tis a dog-eat-dog world, and you need to have the biggest teeth out there.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/20 09:58 AM
1

AWALT is the most bitter of all Red Pills to swallow. My friends Ex is one who I thought was the one who was "different", oh boy... Her parents have been together for nearly 50 years, they are wealthy, had been brought up in the richest area in the city, she's had the same job for nearly 20 years, she's doesn't smoke, take drugs or rave, lack of social media, no past reputation, 10/10 for looks (literally a model)... Believe me, everybody wanted this woman. Everybody. I was great friends with he…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 07:22 PM
1

Just randomly searched for him one day ;-)
/r/seduction21/11/20 08:48 AM
1

Thanks.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 02:36 PM
4

Too hard, way too hard to do. The idea sounds good, but the reality is brutal. I'm in love with my Ex. I adore her, idolise her, I'd take her back in a second etc. Hell, I was chilling with her and fucking her yesterday. I have a few plates (I'm fucking all of them, btw) on the go now, so a "lack of abundance" isn't my problem. No, my problem is the fact that, although I'm still fucking her, knowing that she'd be with other men is too hard for me to handle. No amount of plates would overcome tha…
/r/askTRP20/11/20 11:37 AM
1

She clearly misses you, but she sounds confused. I'd either ignore her and take time out to heal, or game other women who aren't confused.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 09:36 AM
1

Breaking up after a two year relationship via sms is low. Leave on read. Block & delete her number. Go fuck 10 other women.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 09:32 AM
7

Train. Lift weights, Box, Run, Read & Meditate.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 12:29 AM
1

Try headbutting her, see how that goes... :-)
/r/askTRP19/11/20 12:26 AM
34

Yep, but that "opposite" needs to be applied to every aspect of the game. I've fucked a young 20-something IG THOT as part of a three-way who has thousands of followers. The amount of dick pics she had on her phone was frightening. I said "how come nobody sends you pics of their food saying "Where you at?", how come nobody approaches you in the street instead of stalking you online?" and she was like "this guy gets it! this guy gets it!". Man, after that she was all over me. Gotta be a step ahea…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 10:07 PM
8

He's BP. He is way too emotional at times.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 08:35 PM
2

Hear that. A break in nature can do absolute wonders for the mind, body & soul.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:07 PM
1

Agreed. I'd say that within 10 minutes of searching through Instagram, you should find something that resonates with you.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 10:17 AM
2

OP, no disrespect, but she sounds like a slut. She's looking to do the most damage with the least amount of consequences when asking questions like that! Move on, OP. Her turn is over.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 10:16 AM
3

I went from 18-10 and became invisible, beat that! ;-)
/r/askTRP17/11/20 10:12 AM
1

Just take the weekend off and see how it plays out... There has to be a balance, period. My strategy was to book a "city break" vacation somewhere in Europe every 3-4 months. Nothing refreshed my batteries like those breaks.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 10:10 AM
1

Ha! Just gotta work around it now ;-)
/r/askTRP16/11/20 06:23 PM
5

Bit late to the party, but I'm a huge fan of Corey. Here's my take... I think he's awesome. He's clearly a salesman, but he does know a lot about women. His "hang out, have fun, hook up" advice is something that I always try and remember, whether I'm in an LTR or on a second date. I got into him when I got semi-serious with a chick. His advice worked like a charm, so I devoured his videos. The message is always the same (3H's, tell her you'd like to see her and invite her over for a meal etc), b…
/r/seduction16/11/20 10:01 AM
1

You're overthinking the hair situation. I've seen many dudes with no hair look the part when they have a cap or really smart hat on, so don't worry too much about that. Besides, many women love a bald man. Think Statham or Diesel give a fuck about hair? Start talking to women. Lots of women. Doesn't matter what the fuck they look, just start talking to them. I've had 5 women blowing up my phone at one time. That was hard to manage. I'm not bragging about that, Just stating that it does wonders f…
/r/askTRP16/11/20 09:55 AM
1

30's.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 11:58 PM
1

You made the right call, dude. 30 Mins is a Joke.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 08:08 PM
1

Thank you! I'll delve into that later ;-)
/r/TheRedPill13/11/20 11:58 AM
2

Got a link, my guy? Heard about WM getting into trouble, but never knew it was this bad...
/r/TheRedPill13/11/20 10:41 AM
1

Agreed, but that's why we get told to "spin plates", so that we don't become lonely. As stated, I've split with my Ex. I've lost count of my plates, easily 6+. But even with so much female company I feel lonelier than ever! Women won't hurt like that, no way. I'm with you, man. "Don't put all your eggs in one basket" is the best advice you can take regarding women, IMHO.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/20 10:33 AM
2

Agreed 100%. As stated in a bunch of my recent'ish posts, I'm going through it now. I couldn't apply it when was was together. Now that we're separated but still fucking and chilling, it's a fucking nightmare to even entertain that thought, let alone apply it! Honestly, more power to guys that have that unbreakable frame/mindset and can fully live by it. Tis too brutal for me, man.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/20 10:28 AM
1

Dude, this happened to me. I'd got to the girls house at like 9.30am, but she'd been with a dude like 2-3 hours before after the club. I didn't catch an STD, but I ended up fucking her friend over it. Never think that a woman isn't capable of that.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 04:36 PM
8

Dude, you're spot on. I'm going through a break-up right now, 2 months in and my Ex is dating. I got told "I need to focus on my kids, my life etc", now she's going on dates. Where's the healing process? Fucking astounds me how quickly a woman can move on. Like we never existed... AWALT and "she's not yours, it's just your turn" still hurt me at times. RP can be so fucking cruel and is easily the bitterest pill to swallow, but it can save you a ton of heartache and trouble.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 04:33 PM
1

He's second to Patrice. AMS has tons of golden info.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 10:08 AM
1

Agreed, OP. I've been the guy who has been doing the calling, and the guy who has been listening to the calls. The former feels soul destroying, the latter enables you to see a woman true colours. Either way, the woman is winning in both scenarios. Don't put all your eggs in one basket...
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 08:47 AM
15

Agreed, hence remembering "she's not yours, it's just your turn" at all times.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 08:38 AM
3

I'm going through the same thing now, OP. Here what you need to do... 1) Remember all the negative stuff that she did to you. 2) Spin plates. Just having a few women or even one to talk to, let alone sleep with is so helpful. Its not nice because you'd rather be with your Ex, but this is what you need to do now. 3) Train. Work out. Exercise. Whatever. Break a sweat every day. And I do mean a proper sweat. Training releases Endorphins, these hormones make you feel amazing. Also eat clean. 4) Pick…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 06:06 PM
2

I would live out of a suitcase. I would travel the world, stay at quality hotels, eat the best food, and become a world citizen.
/r/MGTOW09/11/20 05:08 PM
1

Nice bin...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/20 03:28 PM
1

You're being too kind when you say "pretty low". I hear you when you say you love the lifestyle. Me too. An LTR with the right person/person you really like is amazing. But OP, it's 2020. Just spin more plates, man. The right one will eventually come ;-)
/r/askTRP08/11/20 11:22 PM
2

Yes, twice. Both were threesomes with my Ex LTR as she was Bi. But on the second go, my Ex wanted to go to the shop. She left us alone, we started fucking, my Ex comes up and kinda stormed off. I came in her friends mouth and went to the shop to comfort her. Came back up and fucked them again. The first time was when we were all chilling in the bed together. I played with my girls pussy whilst the other girl was on the phone to her mom. The other girls foot had a mind of it's own (she was turned…
/r/askTRP08/11/20 11:20 PM
3

Oh snap...
/r/askTRP07/11/20 10:09 AM
2

Make a move on her sister or bestie. She will soon liven up then...
/r/askTRP05/11/20 10:06 AM
1

I'm not sure about competitiveness, but jealousy? Oh dear... My Ex LTR would not stop bitching about all of her "friends". "So & so has a bigger place" "So & so is always out, why aren't I?" Oh, it never stopped. NONE OF THEM can be happy for each other. You know that feeling when good things happen for one of your boys and you are genuinely happy for him? Yeah, women don't know that feeling.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:45 PM
5

Spot on. "Plausible deniability" is at play here. OP, I'm going through the same thing right now. Blows your mind and really saddens you, but onwards & upwards brother! ;-)
/r/askTRP03/11/20 09:12 AM
1

Cheers dude.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 09:10 AM
2

Fantastic reply, sir. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 12:10 AM
1

Sounds like you're not ready to be in a relationship, OP. If your girl doesn't swallow, so what? Face, back, tits, belly, inside her... all options (except inside her) will cause you way less grief than cheating would. If she gives me a lot of lip, then it's time to make her submit. Justifying cheating is a very hard thing to do.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:04 AM
1

So how do you tread that fine line of being in the friend zone, but not being friends with her? Any help would be handy, as I'm currently in this situation right now...
/r/TheRedPill01/11/20 11:36 AM
0

Not always. i know a few women who have gave birth to a bunch of kids with mental health problems.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/20 01:08 AM
1

It did, but so did my heart.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 10:24 PM
1

Well said. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 07:26 PM
1

Thanks for the reply. Yeah, although I love her, she's adamant that we won't be together again. So although that hurts now, it'll hurt a lot less in 6-12 months time. And did your Exes bad choices/karma etc catch up to her?
/r/askTRP30/10/20 06:22 PM
1

Agreed, and thanks man.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 06:19 PM
3

Chin up, brother.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 11:09 AM
1

Dude, can I ask if she ever got in touch with you again or vice versa? Also, if the above happened, what was the outcome?
/r/askTRP30/10/20 11:01 AM
2

Spot on. When I decided to stop renting, my woman problems increased ten-fold.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 09:16 AM
1

Great advice! Thanks dude :-)
/r/askTRP29/10/20 11:24 PM
1

Thanks dude :-)
/r/askTRP29/10/20 06:47 PM
1

Thank you! I already Box, so that's been helpful. Cheers dude.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 06:44 PM
2

Never saw it that way, but I can see that working! Thanks man.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 06:38 PM
4

Cheers my man, means a lot.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 06:36 PM
1

Thanks. You're right.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 06:36 PM
1

Dude, I feel the exact same way. The training is going through the roof, can't lie there. I agree about the life choices. Thanks man! :-)
/r/askTRP29/10/20 06:36 PM
3

Thanks. How did you approach the situation?
/r/askTRP29/10/20 11:53 AM
2

Ex fiance, bro. It's not like she was just another chick.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 11:50 AM
-4

I hear you, but every man has his breaking point. You can't meditate every single time someone fucks you over, just like you can't kill everyone who crosses you. An eye for an eye is an extreme way approach this, but sometimes it's the only way.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 11:49 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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