What are some consequences of the fact that men have a higher sexual drive on average in dating?

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-10-06T21:12:41+00:00

Men will want to have sex quicker and more frequently than women which will create a sexual traffic jam in the dating processing which will lead men to try and find detours around these jams in order to get sex causing more men to take detours as well because nobody wants to wait which will end up making women feel rushed and pressured into sex which then causes them to think that men only want them for sex which leads to women having increasingly negative perceptions of men and only wanting to pursue men who they feel are "worth it" which blocks out a large portion of men from being able to date causing those men to respond with negative perceptions of women in turn leading to an eventual collapse of the dating scene.

That about cover it?

Master-Edward-3 · 2021-10-06T22:24:11+00:00

That men will have more challenges with dating due to the lopsided yearning for each other. Men like women more than women like men for instance there are more love songs directed towards women than vice versa. Therefore men will have to do more to become appealing to women in general.

flapperfemmefatale · 2021-10-06T23:51:19+00:00

Men will do or say stupid or horrible things in their desperation.

AquaChip · 2021-10-07T00:18:14+00:00

It’s funny because even gay men have this problem. There are very relationship oriented gay men who are frustrated that other gay men just want to fuck and there are gay men who will fuck any hot guy. So this doesn’t seem like just a hetro problem.

CloudBerryPunch · 2021-10-06T22:00:24+00:00

It's obvious when a guy is just kind of paying attention to the conversation so he can get to the good stuff later, which is a turn off so then we both end up unhappy. Stop being so thirsty and be flirty or fun or something.

FabulousFuchsbau · 2021-10-07T02:21:35+00:00

Men generally want sex way faster

TheSmallerGambler · 2021-10-07T19:32:40+00:00

This differential is the prime mover for all intersexual dynamics.

SaBahRub · 2021-10-06T21:45:28+00:00

Men are unsatisfied

Women get used for sex

Duh

FitNovember · 2021-10-07T00:25:52+00:00

I was wondering. So since guys love sex and don’t need an emotional connection, does that mean that gay men are better off? I’m genuinely asking because I always read about guys issues.

yungthrowaway97 · 2021-10-07T00:54:54+00:00

I think women have higher monogamous sex drives

SonicBackScratcher · 2021-10-06T21:44:12+00:00

I’m curious as to everyone’s perspective of what the consequences are to dating dynamics. As a redpill man this I believe this leads to women being able to have sex with whoever they want and men having sex with who they can.

I think the really interesting part is that men now whine about women being able to be slutty easier. This has always been the case in any remotely free society. Always. Even in the trad coniest of days there were loose women.

Guess what, they could get laid really easily even back then.

yayayubsea · 2021-10-06T22:56:24+00:00

women have high sex drives too but i think in most cases women have to be comfortable on a much more extensive way than men to have sex

ilovepetya · 2021-10-06T22:11:26+00:00

It's not a scientific fact. Studies all show contradicting evidence. Anecdotally, I would say women have just as high sex drives as men.

Rosifer433d · 2021-10-07T12:24:55+00:00

blablablah it's scientific fact, some autistic nerds with nothing better to do made these studies that prove my point blablablabla''

Don't be obese/fat/have good hygiene, be well-groomed, don't dress like a kid when the guy is 30 years old, have some basic social skills, be funny, and there will be plenty of women whose sex drive will be high enough to want to fuck the guy often and plenty.

LMAO. Women cannot have sex with whoever they want, even if she's hot as fuck, there will always be guys who are in a relationship already and are loyal, guys who are gay, guys who are heterosexual but don't find her to be attractive, because we aren't all horn dogs, and women often get rejected by guys who don't care about casual sex.

Yes, men like that do exist.

Christ, do these guys even know real women.

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Boondoggie7777 · 2021-10-07T08:05:10+00:00

Here are the consequences for men:

Men have more sexual drive, so they are initially more excited to meet. They will have more incentive to move things forward. They will put in the effort and maintain contact. They'll go to great lengths if they think sex is likely. If not, they'll either put in minimal effort or lash out in some way.

If things move forward and they find the woman physically attractive (which isn't a high bar) they will want to get close and physical asap. The mentally weak men that don't have control over their libidos will be overcome and let their dick do the thinking. They won't be present, or engage, or try to connect on a personal level. They may even be dishonest and steer the date towards sex. This is typically uncomfortable for both the man and the woman. If the woman doesn't want sex, the man may get upset and resent all the effort he had to put in. He may even try to get revenge. On the other hand, the men that are able to control their libidos will be able to connect and proceed smoothly towards sex.

If he's able to get sex early in dating, he's relieved and the pressure is off. He's now the one that cares less and the one with the power in the relationship. Usually the woman likes the man at this point, but the man is only starting to consider if he really likes the woman. If he doesn't really like her as a person, then he'll move on to someone else. Maybe he'll come back to sleep with her another couple of times when he's horny. But he will move on. If he actually likes her, then there is a chance for a real connection and the building of a relationship, now that the sexual drive has been momentarily satiated.

So overall, the man's sexual drive can move things forward, but often gets in the way.

Given this situation, my advice to women dating a guy that is controlled by his high sexual drive would be: find a way to get the sexual desire somewhat fulfilled early in dating. If you think he might be a genuinely nice guy, get somewhat physical right away, have him masturbate to completion, and then go on the date. You'll see the most honest version of the man after he's orgasmed. If he doesn't seem that excited anymore then he's not really into you that much, best to cut the date short and move on.

SniXSniPe · 2021-10-07T16:59:33+00:00

Better looking men will pair up with less attractive women, or women they are not interested in beyond sex. Think most people already understand this now, except for younger or inexperienced girls (or low self-esteem) who often times don't have a backbone or correlate it with the guy as being interested in them.

Also leads to a lot of women getting hurt. You know the story from friends. Guy plays the part of prince charming down pat, and then after sex he disappears (tbf, it could also mean he lost interest after sex).

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-10-08T03:08:41+00:00

Only men who've never had sex believe men have a higher sex drive lol.

KamuiObito · 2021-10-06T22:05:06+00:00

Manipulation

Title	What are some consequences of the fact that men have a higher sexual drive on average in dating?
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Date	October 6, 2021 8:55 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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