I want to watch her entire world crumble ten fold what she has dont to me.

treborcj · 2021-10-16T17:26:01+00:00

The best revenge is living well. After my ex cheated on me, she married the guy. That guy cheated on her and gave her 2 more kids. She now lives in a 1 bedroom apartment with her kids in a bad part of town and someone broke into her place and took her most valuable things. Also she wreaked her only transportation so she has to walk everywhere.

What you throw out in the world comes back to you. Don't worry.

SeanLU21 · 2021-10-16T23:51:09+00:00

Not to sound crass but I would make her disclose her OF income , if she's made a lot you could be entitled to some money

c4944e830acd · 2021-10-16T17:00:23+00:00

The best advice I can give you, in all honesty, is "play it cool." Don't get angry and lash out, like I did. You have a right to be angry, frustrated, tired, and a plethora of other feelings. However, if you want the best revenge on her, you have to keep your cool. I understand that it's very hard to do, and I have thus far failed to do so.

dday_throwaway3 · 2021-10-16T21:54:40+00:00

If you hate a person, then you’re defeated by them. - Confucius

SeekingHealth · 2021-10-16T19:20:08+00:00

Revenge is fleeting my dude. Keep yourself sane and try to find ways to be happy for yourself that don’t involve damage to another. You will be happier in the long run. Live the positive life that will enrage her and eat away at her with hate.

GrayCalf · 2021-10-17T04:14:00+00:00

Never wrestle with a pig. It gets mud all over you and the pig likes it.

Show her you don't care, and you'll have "won."

jgjg9999 · 2021-10-16T22:28:47+00:00

Man. Reading your story I can tell you this. Sit back, relax, and wait for it. She is doing it to herself right now. Once the high of what she is doing wears off her OF will be floating out on the internet for life. Im sure that will bode will with future relationships. You will learn how to enjoy life. I did.

Funny_Wolverine_9 · 2021-10-18T02:08:32+00:00

Be patient. We've all gone through some abuse. I have been accused of rape by my ex wife. Be patient and focus on yourself. Workout everyday!

TP_Crisis_2020 · 2021-10-18T02:27:01+00:00

Just find some way to anonymously send her onlyfans to her parents and every member of her family.

Gxl4 · 2021-10-16T17:55:46+00:00

Just point her where the door is - get evidence of the gheating! And lawyer the fuck up. You’ll be more than fine real soon, do sports and whatever you like FOR YOU

All the best

sicrm · 2021-10-17T00:19:59+00:00

build your own support system and listen to your lawyer.

also can you use her OF income to get a better divorce? or maybe as leverage if her support system doesn’t know about it.

whnyrhppyndyknwt · 2021-10-17T12:44:16+00:00

Dude... Drop all that negativity and move on. Grace looks better on you than vengeance...

talkstomuch2020 · 2021-10-17T12:46:53+00:00

Get into a 12 step program. Learn surrender as this divorce process can result in self-harm. Get new sober friends. Watch your rage.

SuperSadGuy25 · 2021-10-17T13:56:23+00:00

I’m not an older gentleman but I was talking to a friend who had someone literally trying to sabotage their life for the fun of it. He’s lost 10k of money getting his education sabotaged and on top of emotional trauma has developed dry eyes and insomnia. He was feeling so many negative emotions that tied him down and made him want revenge for all the damage he had taken. I think those are very valid emotions and so is the desire for revenge. He made a plan to record conversations to expose his partner for their lies or any illegal stuff they might’ve been doing. When I asked them what they would do and how much time and effort they would invest in carrying out revenge he had to fold. He was not emotionally ready to treat this like a project as he needed to grieve. His revenge was his denial and refusal to accept the reality of being betrayed by the one person who was supposed to always support him and be the light in his life. Process what has happened, grieve, let go of what once was and move on is what I’d say.

ZephyrL0rd · 2021-10-16T17:06:48+00:00

Have you ever seen the stories where for example someone in the maffia kills your family, and forgot to kill you, so you plan on slowly getting rid of him. Once you got rid of him, what do you think is the feeling? Happiness because they have been hurt? I don't think so. Revenge is based on a temporary emotion that won't really leave you satisfied. Don't get me wrong, I would totally feel the same as you because my brain hijacks the rational thinking proces.

The best way to get revenge on her is to separate yourself as much as possible, have as minimum contact as possible and to make a great new life for yourself.

Title	I want to watch her entire world crumble ten fold what she has dont to me.
Author	TheRavenN7
Upvotes	19
Comments	24
Date	October 16, 2021 3:25 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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