You rarely hear of the overly cautious woman who was murdered by a scrote.

And there's a reason for this. Don't ever let anyone try to guilt you over being overtly cautious or suspicious. There's a valid reason for this. Become aware of it and rationalize it using facts. If you don't feel comfortable, don't over extend yourself. Men are not the people to be practicing growth with. Most are barely a budding dandelion. They can back the f**k up and stay in my comfort zone or get lost altogether.