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[–]OrangeyPandaFDS Apprentice 268 points269 points270 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Of course an upvoted and awarded comment in that thread is "actually, men care about women orgasming more then anything and put all their effort into making it happen, women don't orgasm because they are lazy". Yeah, explain lesbians then incel.
[–]hotnbothereddFDS Newbie 116 points117 points118 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lazy??? Do they think we can orgasm on demand?
[–]honestlyidkfrFDS Newbie 55 points56 points57 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh didn’t you know? Women are lazy and just holding their orgasms in. /s I had an NVX tell me that before, I “just needed to do it” LOL
[–]GlitterLoveAngelFDS Newbie 109 points110 points111 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men get so butthurt when they’re called out. They’re genuinely so insecure and selfish.
[–]EveSerpentFDS Newbie 77 points78 points79 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
actually, men care about women orgasming more then anything
Thank you for the laugh!
[–]rideoffaloneFDS Newbie 69 points70 points71 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Love it when men mansplain what sex is like for women.
[–]_cnz_FDS Newbie 50 points51 points52 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ladies if you are physically capable of orgasming and you figured it out yourself w/o needing porn as an instruction manual, there should be no excuse a man to be unable to do especially if you are in a committed with them
[–]arnezuaraFDS Apprentice 142 points143 points144 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Using a clit-stimulating toy and having a dick inside was a very pleasurable sensation for me.
It is extremely sad that I missed out on all the orgasms because my ex was inadequate/insecure about it. He wanted his dick to take all the credit for making me cum 🤡
[–]ellaykimFDS Newbie 90 points91 points92 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yep!! LVM want us to moan and groan and perform while they jackhammer away, making sex a pornographic experience for them instead of a shared pleasurable connection
[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They're pornsick and truly believe that porn sex is pleasurable to women and when women don't pretend they love their porn jackhammering they get mad and shocked.
[–]SakuraGirl88FDS Newbie 84 points85 points86 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is what happens when you let porn teach you sex ed. Men are just terrible at sex. One guy I was with was so awful 😭. He only did it in two positions, wanted me to give him oral, but he only reciprocated twice in the 4 years we dated. And he would roll over and j$%% off like I wasn't even in the room 😒. Just an unpleasurable experience. I've all but given up. Thank God for a vibrator though 🤣
[–]preppykat3FDS Newbie 38 points39 points40 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Can anyone here actually orgasm from penetration alone?? I’ve never had that happen.
[–]ellaykimFDS Newbie 48 points49 points50 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yes, but rarely. And it isn’t just penetration, but the act of loving and being loved, and him knowing my body well enough to go at the perfect speed and depth. It’s the deeper emotional connection combined with the penetration (in just the right spot) that gets me there, not penetration alone.
[–]preppykat3FDS Newbie 26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Wow.. that sounds beautiful. I wish more men were like that
[–]ciciplumFDS Newbie 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
for me penatration makes me orgasm quickly and its more pleasurable than an orgasm through clitoral stimulation. however, many men have failed to make me cum at all.
[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can't. I always need clit stimulation.
[–]ErikaNaumannFDS Newbie 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah. My clit is pretty much dead. Even with toys it doesn't work properly. My g-spot however is very sensitive and ...happy go lucky 😂 Even when I'm using toys I go for that, and not my (useless) clitoris. I still enjoy oral as a warm up.
However, I am aware I am in the minority of women here.
[–]lansburysodaFDS Newbie 90 points91 points92 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I bet most men would be way better at sex if porn didn’t exist. It’s pretty intuitive but porn has turned it into an aggressive performance
[–]WhoopassDietFDS Newbie 46 points47 points48 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Also, communication.
I don't expect a guy to read my mind, but I do expect him to listen to my words. I don't have a "detailed instructions" fetish, I'm talking for a reason.
Communication is the key to a successful relationship in more than one way.
[–]ellaykimFDS Newbie 33 points34 points35 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree to an extent. I think the best lovers don’t need much communication. There is a lot of nonverbal communication that takes place during sex and foreplay, they just have to be in tune with it.
[–]say10s-exwifeFDS Newbie 28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Men be like: lEt Me *FiNgEr* YoUr clit
[–]Colour_riotFDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's not even that hard.
Even reaching down and very gently stimulating the clit (not the urethra, some guys can't even tell the difference) during penetration is a totally different sensation.
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[–]_cnz_FDS Newbie 50 points51 points52 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]arnezuaraFDS Apprentice 142 points143 points144 points (3 children) | Copy Link
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[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple 6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SakuraGirl88FDS Newbie 84 points85 points86 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]ellaykimFDS Newbie 48 points49 points50 points (4 children) | Copy Link
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[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple 7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]say10s-exwifeFDS Newbie 28 points29 points30 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Colour_riotFDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link