Hey ladies! I tried to post this a few days ago but I think it got removed cause I didn’t have a flair. I’m reposting it cause I wanna hear what you all think.

Also: I GOT A FLAIR!!!! YAYYY 👑👑🎉🎉🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂

I love my friend, but she acts like a pickmeisha.

I love my friend, but her pick me tendencies are getting pretty hard to ignore. She’s a really nice person (to me) and I believe she has a good heart, but I find a lot of things she says about other women highly disturbing.

Here are a few loosely quoted examples of things I heard her say during a Halloween party this weekend:

  1. “It needs a woman’s touch.” - said while cleaning up the mess other people made in our grown ass male friend and party host’s kitchen.

  2. It’s so hard finding guys in this city because they just want sex and a lot of girls are willing to just do a one night stand. That makes it hard for the “good” girls like us, you know?

  3. Ugh that blonde girl thinks she’s hot shit. - mind you this girl was stirring up drama and trying to get me involved in it so I didn’t really mind this one.

  4. We’re not like the “skanks” at this party - referring to multiple girls in the room who were wearing lingerie/revealing/sexualised costumes. I think she was joking but I still find it a little weird because earlier that night she said she would dress like that if she thought she could pull it off.

  5. “But he’s a nice guy! He just says douchey things sometimes.” - referring to a guy who told her to her face he thinks he can get better girls than her but for some reason, he keeps texting her 👀👀

  6. “He actually texts me during the week and pays on dates.” - she sounded impressed when she said this. I told her that sounds like the bare minimum to me but okay 🤷🏾‍♀️

I love her, like I said before, but YIKES. Idk. I get insecure pick me vibes from her but I need to be sure before I say something. What do you think?