Ladies: Men Are Not Here To Make You Happy in Relationships

vwatchrepair · 2022-06-07T06:10:44+00:00

Or to pay for their dinners, debts and mistakes.

dw87190 · 2022-06-07T06:08:47+00:00

Say it louder for the madwomen in the back

SecondEldenLord · 2022-06-07T06:53:55+00:00

Ladies always tells us guys "we do not owe you a relationship", then we do not owe you our money.

NeoNotNeo · 2022-06-07T08:27:19+00:00

In exchange for sex you are owed sex. In exchange for affection you are owed affection. Nothing else.

There isn’t a woman born yet that deserves a free home with a relationship.

BagimsizBulent · 2022-06-07T08:29:58+00:00

YOU MADE ME FEEL is their favorite sentence. IT is all about their feelings. If you are unhappy about something and tell your feelings she will complain about how telling her your feelings made her feel bad. Narcissism mixed with princess syndrome. After their 40’s when the sexual attention goes away, they fall so hard, and it is not a pleasent thing to watch. Culture is ruining women and men in different ways.

JoeHero2000 · 2022-06-07T04:58:26+00:00

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JoeHero2000 · 2022-06-07T08:05:39+00:00

True, Or Be a step father.

TheSnesLord · 2022-06-07T16:03:49+00:00

Remember years ago when they had that campaign where they had posters/leaflets that said something along the lines of: "Don't do it for him"

That has to be one of the most obvious and blatant man-hating slogans that it was just pathetic.

ABBucsfan · 2022-06-07T20:11:50+00:00

I think each partner should hopefully treat each other with some decency and respect. Generally check in with one another, but not be their damn therapist/counsellor/psychiatrist and fix all their childhood issues. That's essentially what my ex expected. That and be her personal attack dog when she went full Karen.

Zealousideal_Leg_630 · 2022-06-07T18:11:45+00:00

The article says:

Q: What us the function of men in women's lives?

A: Reproduction and survival; that’s it. That’s all our function is in your lives.

I'm sorry, but if you dudes agree with this, you should really do some soul-searching. If you've ever had an actual relationship with a woman you would know that things are much deeper and more important than this. The problem is, in my experience, when women feel this way. They often instinctually feel that a man's role is just to support her. And the better a man can support her, the more desirable that man is. This is what's wrong with society. Women thinking this, not men.

Henry_Blair · 2022-06-07T05:35:34+00:00

I completely disagree. Both sexes need each other, emotionally, for psychological survival. I know it's very hard for us men to continue to admit this fact about humans when millions of women are incited by a hate movement to show cruelty and hatred toward all men - there is an understandable (and probably necessary) drive to show to women that as long as they indulge in hate and dehumanization they will not receive love, and that if they want to be loved they must abandon a movement devoted to hate and cruelty. But, despite all that, copying the feminist denial of women's need for men's love (by denying men's need for women's love) is playing into the emotional destruction of humanity that feminists lead to with their fundamental emotional lie.

The human truth is, that both sexes depend on each other's love for emotional survival, and because of that, men and women, both need to make each other happy in relationships. There's a third way - which is not reclusive feminism and not contra-reclusion: Lovism. Being for both sexes in the same way at the same time, acknowledging the need of all humans for the love of the other sex, and rejecting the feminist lie that denies this human truth - instead of copying it and thus participating in it and in the psychological destruction it spreads.

Yes, it's hard to express such an attitude under the circumstances, of blatant hate. Women will stop following a hate movement only if they realize they will never receive love in return for distilled hate. But there is a way: men can invite women, to be lovists. To reject feminism in order to have an equality movement meant for both sexes - to get men's support and love, through offering support and love, in lovism, which is simply mutuality, the opposite of both the feminist separatism and the contra-separatism it causes.

AfraidStop554 · 2022-06-07T16:43:23+00:00

So women are not here to make men happy in relationships either, agreed?

But if two people can’t/won’t make each other happy in a relationship, what’s the point? Just make a legal agreement for reproduction and coparenting and be done with it. Tbh I do think this should be an option for people who want kids but don’t consider themselves “in love” with anyone.

Awesomermac · 2022-06-08T17:53:33+00:00

I really do everything possible to make a woman I am with happy, but I get taken for granted and used.

Pepperclue_55 · 2022-06-07T17:16:34+00:00

Life is too short to act as any animal simply eating shitting and reproducing. If thats fulfilling for you, in guess go for it, but I am here for a good time not a long time haha. I laugh everyday with my partner, we make eachother enourmously happy. There are highs and lows obviously but we are ride or die, and nothing else gives you a sense of security like a partner you can actually count on.

Work on your bitterness folks. And stop being afriad of love and intimacy and trust. It puts the color into this grey world.

HighestTierMaslow · 2022-06-07T21:24:20+00:00

Men: Ladies are not here to make you happy in relationships.

Actual answer that is far too mature for this subreddit:

People should strive to make their partner happy and compromise when needed. Relationships are not a power game and shouldnt give an advantage for one person more than the other.

majestic_tapir · 2022-06-07T09:42:10+00:00

I just read that blog post. I am not surprised you got backlash, the blog post is dogshit.

You go off as if you're speaking for all men, and you're not. I'm not in a relationship to keep my partner alive, or to reproduce. I'm in a relationship to make myself happy, and to make my partner happy.

This is the most backwards-arse shit blog post i've seen in a while on this subreddit, and it's immensely disappointing to see all these people agreeing with you.

Fucking disgusting.

Ok_Razzmatazz_1751 · 2022-06-07T13:50:20+00:00

Who wants this kinda life ? Nobody lol

Ferbuggity · 2022-06-07T06:06:20+00:00

I pity whatever deficient female that ends up spawning with that psychopath. And I pity the kids.

masterpwn69 · 2022-06-07T09:48:33+00:00

is this satire?

JoeHero2000 · 2022-06-08T05:19:48+00:00

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takecareofyourshoe · 2022-06-07T11:54:56+00:00

God forbid if a man could make a woman happy.

Obsidian_Koilz · 2022-06-07T23:05:16+00:00

Ok🤷🏿‍♀️

Although the guy I'm with does make me happy.

Very.

miraak2077 · 2022-06-08T00:09:10+00:00

well i think men should make women happy and women make men happy. isn't a big point of relationships to make each other happy??

Aww-lina · 2022-06-08T07:37:56+00:00

Lol, this was on r/nothowgirlswork. I love MRM but you guys…. Really?

Ladies: Men Are Not Here To Make You Happy in Relationships

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Title	Ladies: Men Are Not Here To Make You Happy in Relationships
Author	JoeHero2000
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Date	June 7, 2022 3:56 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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