The white pill: An Alternative to Red Pill

absolutebeginners · 2022-10-06T14:19:35+00:00

Just stop with the pills and be normal

waffleznstuff30 · 2022-10-06T14:41:56+00:00

No pill.

Honestly dating strategies and things like that turn dating into a cat and mouse push pull psychological tactics let's overanalyze every single human interaction. The truth of it and here it is, it's a yes or a no it's truly a chance kind of thing. You meet someone they feel your vibe you go for it. I think a big issue in dating is this dating strategies dating coaches mindset. It takes away from the actual thing finding human connection and seeing if this person is a fit for you.

You can only invest in yourself, go out and do your hobbies live your life and meet people.

incredulitor · 2022-10-06T15:41:03+00:00

hard to find dating advice based on science, psicology, or something serious.

Is it?

HappyRainbowSparkle · 2022-10-06T14:15:20+00:00

Why do you need a pill, basic dating advice have standards and a vague idea of what you want and don't be a dick

xvszero · 2022-10-06T18:09:53+00:00

Eh.

The thing about dating is, it's not a science. There are some things you can track with data but creating and building a legit connection isn't just a numbers game or pressing the right buttons to get the right response. Trying to force it into that box is never going to work very well.

beansmuch · 2022-10-06T15:12:06+00:00

This would be an sucessfull antidote to red pill, because red pill relies that they are the only ones in the market that offers theory with "science" (really are distorted stats but works for RP)

Science is always used selectively. The proposed white pill would be just as bias as the red pill is, because (1) its would-be origins are of being the antithesis of the red pill, and (2) it's impossible to find and read every single scientific study related to your field. For example, nutrition experts disagree on practically everything. And nutrition is a lot more concrete than dating science is. Treating dating like a hard science is a mistake.

sadbutc00lc00lc00l · 2022-10-06T17:03:23+00:00

You don’t need any pill hun

SweelFor- · 2022-10-06T16:33:09+00:00

The field that bases advice on data, science and psychology, is called psychology.

spiraldinosaur · 2022-10-06T17:21:14+00:00

The problem is that you're looking for dating advice based on science and psychology, rather than learning how to date people by going out and doing it. You need to let go of this idea that it's some kind of psychological game that science can guide you through, and that you need to know all these statistics and numbers to be able to play the field and win.

Dating isn't a sport. It isn't a competition. It's an interaction between two people who are interested in getting to know each other. Men and women are both simply humans who both want to have social bonds with each other. You don't need to know all about women or men or whatever, you just need to know how to be a good, empathetic person, and how to hold a conversation with someone. That's how you get to know someone and build a relationship.

The sooner you stop thinking about science and psychology and just go out on some dates and just think of it as spending time with another person, the sooner you'll actually get the idea of how dating actually works.

AdventurousTie8034 · 2022-10-06T19:31:21+00:00

Whitepill already exists and is associated with religion. So I guess you’ll better find another name

Nightchanger · 2022-10-06T15:48:15+00:00

Sexuality in general is taboo, any time the academics was to research about it. It met the same fate as research on drugs during the war on drugs. It had to have predetermined results as not to hurt the researchers standing.

The RP(, PUA, and Incels for that matter) is the result of this need, however due to not being part of an academic circle, and just intellectual bubbles on the internet without the oversight of the scientific process, it turns dogmatic.

Making a new sect of a different philosophical thought will just make the situation even bigger.

nofaploveit · 2022-10-07T16:01:26+00:00

The alternative is blue pill. You’re either a blue pilled guy stuck in the matrix or your red pill truth seeker

Particular_City8252 · 2022-10-07T21:09:47+00:00

Do you guys ever think for yourselves or are you always just on the internet reading about different “pills”? Like can’t you just live your life? What the heck is all this pill crap… that’s the problem here, living life following bro science on the internet and in your head, not in reality.

SilverTango · 2022-10-10T06:36:01+00:00

I strongly recommend Alison Armstrong. She has a lot of free content online, some of it on dating. I recently bought her "In sync with the opposite sex" course. There was a lot of practical advice there for men and women.

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Title	The white pill: An Alternative to Red Pill
Author	sharedordaz
Upvotes	1
Comments	30
Date	October 6, 2022 2:09 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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