Now I’m a very feminine woman but one thing I struggle with is receiving.

A guy friend of mine that I’m dating has been nothing but selfless towards me. He even wanted to pay back for a meal I ordered online for the two of us. We were on our way to the place but it would have closed by the time we got there. He was driving so I made the order.

I’ll admit I’m not a trad woman morally speaking but I am a firm believer in masculine and feminine behaviors and how they operate and compliment one another. I think we have that type of relationship and I’m glad because that’s what I’ve wanted. He’s very masculine and is honestly the toughest cookies I’ve ever met. He’ll get shit done, make sure you’re ok or do what he has to do despite being tired or if it’s his off day and the other manager calls off.

All I can do is show gratitude but idk how. He’s pretty simple and not very materialistic. He likes food, weed (he vapes it and is very responsible with the use of it) and nature walks. He plays video games too but I’m not sure what games he’s into or has always wanted.

He snowboards, maybe I can get him something for his next snowboarding trip up north.

But he insist that he just cares that he’s spending time with me. Idk someday I’ll do something for him but in the meantime, I’ll show gratitude towards him so his kindness isn’t in vain.