why aren't ones who say men ''peak at 35-45'' or that ''being chubby or balding is manly'' not shamed much here

SwimmingTheme3736 · 2022-10-01T08:03:30+00:00

As a woman I think most men do peak older, not all. It could be that my preferences are broader filled out men with out baby faces. While I have friends who prefer more baby faces men.

I’m all for everyone feeling good about themselves, thining on top? Rock out your shaved head

Boobs not once what they were, that’s what push-up bras are for

Hair greying, get to the salon if it makes you feel better

decoy88 · 2022-10-01T08:21:47+00:00

why aren't ones who say men ''peak at 35-45'' or that ''being chubby or balding is manly'' not shamed much here

I’m guessing because probably 98% of this sub are men.

Glad-Discount-4761 · 2022-10-01T06:58:11+00:00

why aren't ones who say men ''peak at 35-45''

It is true tho.

that ''being chubby or balding is manly'' not shamed much here

No man says that.For balding,you can say that as most man don't want to go through it.Some men says this as women are more accepting of bald man that men are for accepting bald woman unless she wears wig and hide it perfectly lol.

FastBananaViral · 2022-10-01T07:32:53+00:00

Balding indicates high testosterone. I have low testosterone so am not balding

De_Carabas_of_Below · 2022-10-01T19:54:56+00:00

Because the thing that men are selected for by women is their ability to:

1: produce healthy progeny (ie, good genes - so handsome, tall, muscular, dominant) - but that's for sex.

2: protect that progeny (ie, have resources - so rich, status, dominant, physically powerful) - but that's for relationships.

Now, having plenty of muscle demonstrates both. And it is possible for men to put on muscle for pretty much their entire lives, although it does get more difficult as you get older.

And men tend to have more resources the older they are.

This means men's attractiveness to women does not peak in their teens or twenties. Fact.

Women though? Women are selected by men for relationships for their ability to:

1: produce healthy progeny (ie good genes - so beauty and fertility markers like boobs etc)

2: not die during childbirth (so... young and healthy)

3: not be a paternity fraud risk (so not a slut).

For sex? only 1 and 2 apply.

Is it fair? no.

Is it the way it is? yes.

RStonePT · 2022-10-01T11:30:30+00:00

do you have a link to what you're talking about because it makes no sense

keepin2002 · 2022-10-01T13:28:24+00:00

Peak at 34-35 in status not in physicality or looks

boomershack · 2022-10-01T16:17:51+00:00

Rip English 😔🕊️

Are you saying... Actually idk what you're saying or what you're tryna say.

FishTank34 · 2022-10-01T23:14:35+00:00

Men peak the same age women peak, change my mind. You wont

no_bling_just_ding · 2022-10-02T07:58:32+00:00

men hit the wall too

but most of them didn't have a heyday in the first place

Title	why aren't ones who say men ''peak at 35-45'' or that ''being chubby or balding is manly'' not shamed much here
Author	kokorwqac
Upvotes	15
Comments	51
Date	October 1, 2022 6:48 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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