One of the best ways to test a man as a women is to get fat in a relationship

GVM3SnakeBeater · 2022-11-17T07:54:29+00:00

Remember gals, if you turn yourself into a sack of shit on purpose he is a piece of shit if he can't get hard looking at your blubber any more BUT it is perfectly OK to get into a relationship with a gym bro in the first place, nothing hypocritical about choosing him over an average or even a schluby guy, no sir.

My advice to men is to end relationships with women who drastically and deliberately change themselves in radical ways just because they have "secured" a relationship and they can "be their real selves now". This is only the beginning of their metamorphosis into something you never agreed to date in the first place.

rockybhaisince1951 · 2022-11-17T08:11:31+00:00

dear God how can I have a conversation with men and women on here seriously knowing that some of them post and upvote this shit

You suddenly gain weight because you have stuff going on in your life, a partner knows that it's ups and downs and many good men are fine with that but if your reason for gaining weight is so disingenuous and fake then anyone's going to think of it as a dirty tactic.

Tests WILL happen on their own, life is harsh, job security, bills, insurance, death, isolation, stress etc. will all come, you don't need to add more tests to the test that is life and jeopardize a healthy body, change your eating habits by forcing your body to get used to higher calories and more sugar, bad self image in society etc.

It's easy to get fat, it's really fucking hard to get thin again, which is why so many people stay fat.

It's also not as simple as weight gain, your body changes, the way people treat you changes, sex changes, every breath you take feels heavier. It's not a damn light switch.

Creation_Soul · 2022-11-17T07:30:05+00:00

so, if we reverse this, the best way for a man to test a woman is to lose their job and stay unemployed for a larger period of time?

basically let's test the relationship by possibly self-sabotaging myself medium-to-long term?

why not go further? let's test his real stance on abortion by getting pregnant and then propose to have an abortion. let's test her by getting tattoos or body modifications all over his face.

therealcosmicnebula · 2022-11-17T08:05:21+00:00

This is akin to testing someone by developing a drinking or drug habit and then berating them for walking away.

Buzz132 · 2022-11-17T08:26:28+00:00

bitches be getting fat and claim they test their man lol😂😂, have a great day miss

purplish_possum · 2022-11-17T07:42:24+00:00

So you reward his loyalty with sloth?

NoobSaw · 2022-11-17T08:23:15+00:00

Gaining alot of weight (something you can control) is not the same as growing old and post pregnancy belly and stretch marks (something you can't control) lol.

It is completely fair and not superficial for your partner to leave you if you let yourself go in that regard, especially in the case of them staying in shape this whole time. You are basically saying they deserve less, that somehow you not at your best deserves to be with them at their best. Its about mutual respect and not looks.

Naturally a couple that respect each other should improve for themselves and for each other. It's about being better or atleast not worse than the person they initially fell in love with.

bunnakay · 2022-11-17T07:35:30+00:00

I wouldn't agree with doing it on purpose, since I don't think any relationship is worth a risk to your health.

That being said, it is pretty awesome to learn that your partner isn't there just for your body.

LoverBaite · 2022-11-17T07:57:40+00:00

"going unhealthy is a good way to test the intentions of your partner. if he has no problem with you planing to die early, he's THE ONE!!!"

punk_baby333 · 2022-11-17T07:34:46+00:00

If you're in a healthy relationship, you shouldn't need to jeopardize your health and alter your appearance to determine whether or not your man is committed to you.

Laytheblameonluck · 2022-11-17T07:59:53+00:00

But if he's not having sex with you, who's he having sex with?

John_Oakman · 2022-11-17T08:30:54+00:00

Anyone who let themselves go physically like that and doesn't have the excuse of being on medication (which absolutely fucks with a lot of things) or some other extraneous circumstances shows some serious lapse in self discipline (while it's difficult to lose weight when dealing with certain institutional issues from birth and upbringing, it's not that difficult in comparison to stay in shape in the first place as those good habits were already in place). That's more than just some shallow physical/irrelevant changes, as often it comes with significant mental and character changes as well (and more relevantly, changes that in a sense are within one's ability to control, unlike say illness that runs in the family or something like that).

In such cases it's not that terribly surprising that the remaining partner who still has their shit together doesn't want to continue dealing with a basket case that wasn't the one they knew in the past.

EmptyVisage · 2022-11-17T08:40:03+00:00

Absolutely do not compromise your body for some silly shit-test. If your partner is still happy with the relationship if you stop taking care of yourself ( not always the same thing as gaining a lot of weight, but usually is) and your partner is still happy, that is great, but there are many reasons to not want to be with someone who let's themselves go other than purely superficial. If you have a principle of bodily health being important to you and someone else shows that they do not share that ideal, it is normal to be put off. Of course there is also the superficial aspect, but that is used too often to write off perfectly reasonable compatibility issues.

g0juice · 2022-11-17T11:37:52+00:00

LOL. How amazingly bone headed and toxic.

Regular women please don’t do this.

Illustrious-Line-996 · 2022-11-17T07:39:11+00:00

I don’t see how this is a good idea. Getting fat is somewhat subjective as a fair amount of men might like 20-30 pounds extra on their girl if she was thinner before . Gaining enough weight to become obese is bad because it jeopardizes your health .

Also all people have a threshold of physical attractiveness in a relationship. No love is entirely unconditional.

Marty-the-monkey · 2022-11-17T07:43:49+00:00

The idea that you need to manipulate and generate tests for another person to check on their commitment is kind of messed up in terms of relationship dynamics.

I would get offended to know you were this devious in a relationship over any reason that you have gained weight.

It also illustrates a fundamental distrust, that you are halfway out the relationship and yourself not committed if you need to device tests before you can believe someone loves you.

I wouldn't care if you got fat, but I would leave you on the spot if I found out you did it with the intention to test me. That's not how a equal and loving relationship works

AGalWithThoughts · 2022-11-17T07:53:40+00:00

One of the best ways to get dumped in a heartbeat as a man is to get fat.

cryptochacha · 2022-11-17T08:10:08+00:00

This is a dumb argument. Purposely sabotaging your attention and then expecting the man to be ok with it is ridiculous. Let the man lose his job and make minimum wage and watch how long your unconditional love stays. Everything is conditional idc what bullshit fantasy women make up in their head.

Illustrious-Line-996 · 2022-11-17T08:04:00+00:00

I would happily fail that test.

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Maelas84 · 2022-11-17T08:42:08+00:00

This...has to be a troll post..

snsjsthrowj · 2022-11-17T08:57:58+00:00

Cap!

LoneWanderer_11 · 2022-11-17T09:04:57+00:00

You know i wouldn't like that at all. I mean fair enough i get you can get a saggy tummy after having a kid, but that's out of your control. I'm absolutely fine with that. But you being a absolute nutjob and saying "i became fat to see if you would still love me heehee" is fucking stupid. Why would you deliberately fuck up your body just to be sure enough that someone won't leave you if shit happens. Clearly if a person has invested into you, they like you for something more than just looks. That fact that you deliberately do it is stupid af. It's not even looks at this point bro. You can't even trust someone to be with you at your lows then you shouldn't expect anything at that point. If it happend to me i wouldn't be able to trust you.

Title	One of the best ways to test a man as a women is to get fat in a relationship
Author	Illustrious-Line-996
Upvotes	3
Comments	97
Date	November 17, 2022 7:21 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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