Transgender man vents and is accused of secretly being an Incel.

mykulFritz · 2022-12-14T13:52:36+00:00

I read some of the comments and somebody said men don’t get compliments. I started trying to complement guys that I interacted with, friends or maybe guys I talked to at the gym. It’s always interesting how they react. Like if I tell a guy at the gym that his workouts are really showing, or that I admire his dedication. Really seems to make a difference. Months later I had a guy tell me that he still thinks about a complaint I gave him.

LondonDude123 · 2022-12-14T10:59:38+00:00

Where was that long-ass post from the FTM Guy that went on about Male Lonelyness that was universally praised?

^{And then segwayed in the last paragraph to White Imperialism for some reason, but we can ignore that part...}

odysseytree · 2022-12-14T10:08:04+00:00

Welcome to male privilege. This is why transmen are our allies. They have experienced both sides.

pm_me_your_buttbulge · 2022-12-14T19:16:59+00:00

That kind of post is becoming more and more common.

"I didn't know it was that bad" - You were told and you didn't want to believe it because it conflicted with your ideology. You put your beliefs ahead of reality.

I saw it with COVID and people saying it's "just as bad as the flu", only to have them say.... "I didn't know..." yes, yes you fucking did.

I've seen it with various pains - like back pain. "I didn't know it was that bad!" - you were told. You chose to not believe them with nothing to the contradictory other than your own bullshit you feed yourself.

Women are drowning in attention while men are parched from a lack of it. The only difference here is it's not acceptable to complain from a man but it's totally ok for women to complain about it, socially.

In this particular case - all they have is name calling. They know if they try anything else the person can use IRL experiences to tell them they are wrong. So there is no hope for honest discussion from feminists. Their literal only tools left are: Denial and mockery.

Codename-18 · 2022-12-14T08:11:38+00:00

Lmao

"I wanna become a man to have it easier"

"Oh my god I'm short and people don't love me no more, who would have thought it would be this way"

EnvironmentFormer209 · 2022-12-14T11:27:49+00:00

Hahahahaha I can only laugh. Comments really show just how terrible everyone is. Redditors are a special kind of evil.

SecondEldenLord · 2022-12-14T08:40:37+00:00

Well, this is how many women find out how it really is to be a man. She thought it was all sunshine and rainbows, but know she knows that all the attention she used to get is now gone. Welcome to being invisible.

livinginlyon · 2022-12-14T18:49:06+00:00

Ok, go ahead and downvote me to hell, but I don’t understand this and I legitimately would like to. I’m a very short, 40 year old black man in the south. I very rarely leave my house. I am wealthy but you could never know that by looking at me. I get hit on, catcalled , and complimented every day. Often in front of my wife!

I don’t get it when other men say that they aren’t loved on. Aren’t respected or complimented. I don’t do anything special (though I’m genetically gifted as far as musculature, but I only wear baggy hoodies so you can’t tell). I’m inundated with praise. The only thing I can think is that I’m short so not threatening. And I’m always smiling (though I’m gray inside).

Am I an anomaly or are men often just not doing something right?

nineteenletterslong_ · 2022-12-14T19:56:20+00:00

if manosphere ideas weren't suppressed maybe he could have been saved from transitioning. maybe he's just ranting but for many it's not worth the plight he describes. being born female is the most privileged thing possible. transitioning to male is a kind of self-mutilation

MultipleHeadshot · 2022-12-14T05:04:42+00:00

Top comment btw

rahul_9735 · 2022-12-14T06:06:09+00:00

Bro Imagine being despair by a gas station clerk's perception of you. Clear nuts..

edbrainaids238 · 2022-12-14T14:50:41+00:00

Most of small town 'murica it wouldn't matter what a guy was. There's just no opportunities. Plain fact.

FrodoBaggginz · 2022-12-14T10:49:38+00:00

Most of these stories are made up by men that want to be victims. You can tell by how often they say things like ‘especially women’.

I have startling news for you, men and women BOTH treat men poorly in our society. Trying to push it to mostly women is where it becomes obvious it’s just an angry dude.

Banake · 2022-12-15T01:50:36+00:00

Incel just became an empty insult.

Title	Transgender man vents and is accused of secretly being an Incel.
Author	MultipleHeadshot
Upvotes	116
Comments	55
Date	December 14, 2022 5:02 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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