That did not only help me stop caring about what people thought but also stopped so much of my early programming of being scared to approach women because most women really aren't that apprehensive towards me and a lot of the culture of Shame towards men approaching is more so just empty words

How many women will tell you that's hitting on them in the grocery store it's just that conduct but how many of us have done exactly that and still got a number or a date?

For so many years I was stagnant in my journey because I was terrified of approaching women because all you hear about as a young man is all the way it's been approached women wrongly and how they hurt them

But I believe it's just one of those things that is just going to happen when people are going to approach the opposite sex because there is no manual

The fear of being creepy is way more crippling than actually coming off that way and most of the time it's something you can't help

Girls of you mandate do not like repeat so you could be a literal Chad and still be viewed as creepy with the girl doesn't like you

I have a friend who's a neckbeard and could be classified as creepy if you judge him off his looks but if he has a girlfriend because I bet he realized that he could not let that stop him

I think girls are really self aware on how they project what men should be doing when they approach them because nine times out of 10 the man they describe It's usually the Manbthey ignore

I've had more success being a little bit more pushy than I ever did trying to be respectful to a woman and I really think that says something especially since our cultural narratives are opposite to what is actually real