When to use a TRO?

mrcofffeeee · 2022-12-12T15:59:11+00:00

My ex used it against me.

Once I was vacated from the home(was only given 10 min) she stole all the jewellery out from the house. Then she claimed that she does not have any and that I took it all with me when I vacated.

It also gave her the luxury of marital home and I was the one to leave and find accommodation on a very short notice which I might not have done if she just wanted Divorce.

She used a loophole in the law which was created to protect people in real danger to her advantage.

idfkmanijustworkhere · 2022-12-12T19:15:09+00:00

My STBX did this as well. She took the kid, left the state, and filed a TRO, while I was in the hospital for the mental anguish and stress she had put me under. I got served on a Monday and the hearing was that Thursday. At the first hearing I needed a continuance as I had 3 days to secure a lawyer and the judge had no documents showing I was even served. I had to go onto the county website to even find my case and when it was being herd. Fast forward two weeks, I have one of the best criminal defense attorneys in the area and a massive amount of affidavits from friends and family that knew both of us, as well as a timeline of events. (I've been in this situation before and this time I was prepared). Once she found out I had a lawyer she had to scramble and get one. At the second hearing they asked for a two week continuance but was only awarded one since she's had three weeks to get her evidence in order (of which she only has her friend that's been helping her fabricate all this). The next hearing is this thursday and we are prepared for anything and everything she might throw at us. I even have more affidavits to throw into the mix, as well as screenshots of text messages where her friend is asking another friend of ours to basically lie for them.
When you're a good person, and your ex wife pulls some BS. Lean on your friends and family that knew both of you. Not one person outside of her cohort that I know of is defending her allegations. While they are defending me, knowing I'm not who she says I am. I'm just hoping the judge can see right through her BS and I get my child back in the state. She completely uprooted my child's life for her own selfish gain.

Rough-Area4765 · 2022-12-12T18:18:30+00:00

One of the most illegal and unconstitutional tactics used in the circus of family law. It is used to typically throw the man out of the house, setup the mother with full custodial rights (temporarily) and sets the stage for legal fees to pay the attorney’s kid’s college funds.

About a few hundred years ago, they used to hang witches based on unsubstantiated complaints and word of mouth. That concept moves later into “preponderance” of evidence. That’s the bar used in family court for evidence to grant TRO’s and PO’s.

It’s illegal but family court circus is run by clowns and this tactic is used by low life attorney’s to create conflict.

If a person is in danger (physical) then calling the police should suffice vs using family court to fabricate an eviction and loss of access to property/children.

bediligent · 2022-12-12T18:38:58+00:00

This happens all the time. Mine created specific false DV, Assault on kids allegations. Her pos counsel well known for false allegations. I was tipped off to her plans, was able to hire #1 firm and was ready when they struck. Initial hearing None of the allegations stood, her POS counsel was held in contempt for refusing to provide evidence of any sort.

vector5633 · 2022-12-12T21:02:17+00:00

I was a victim of that shit man. It was so fucked up! I got tossed from my house. My two little girls saw the cops escorting me away. My youngest knocked on the window and waved "bye" to me. 😭. There was no DV. She spoke to a lawyer and that's how she got me tossed. I was not able to see my girls for a while. Then COVID hit. The worse time of my life. I'm way passed it. I filled for divorce a month later.

I had a great team of lawyers that got me out, but it was hell. My lawyers said this was very common and it was referred to it as the "Silver Bullet". These cunts could be very evil nasty bitches. Never marry again!

RxRobb · 2022-12-12T18:03:33+00:00

My ex did this and fucked me

SelectionNo3078 · 2022-12-12T16:25:21+00:00

If you’re not actually in clear physical danger do not ‘use’ a tro as a game

Title	When to use a TRO?
Author	No-Big7797
Upvotes	10
Comments	27
Date	December 12, 2022 3:43 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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