Size insecurity

xvszero · 2023-02-06T23:15:54+00:00

I'm at work so I'm not going to post the research but all research shows that women PREFER average to slightly above average. PREFER. Like, not to give you another thing to worry about but if you're 7.5 the actual odds are you would be too big for some women, not too small.

BUT... lucky you. Or rather, lucky all of us. Research also shows that women's size preferences are low ranked compared to well... almost everything else they care about. In other words, most women don't actually care much about size either way, they care about you being a chill dude and other actually important stuff. It's men who create these weird obsessions over size. Mostly capitalist men, in order to exploit men's feelings and sell pills that don't do anything.

A woman might leave you for another man someday, but it almost certainly wouldn't be because of size.

Accomplished-Run5386 · 2023-02-06T23:26:19+00:00

Hi, woman here. Bigger isn’t necessarily better. Unless you have an unusually small one, if you take care of her needs and make sure she is having a good time she’s not gonna leave you (at least not for this reason).

HaveALittleGrace · 2023-02-06T21:45:38+00:00

I think you should come here to ask whatever you need to heal and move on. I wouldn't sweat it. Also, are you talking 7.5 inches or centimeters?

Early_Ad_5649 · 2023-02-07T18:35:27+00:00

I gotta say as a woman your size doesn't matter if i don't want you near me at all 🤷

FellasImSorry · 2023-02-07T00:27:06+00:00

People have sex with other people, not body parts. You’re putting too much significance on size, not other people.

The insecurity is way way less attractive than whatever size your junk is.

It doesn’t matter to anyone.

Ifhes · 2023-02-07T01:55:11+00:00

Most people fake their size, this has been proven MULTIPLE times (you can give LPSG forum about the 10 inch search a read. It has been years and no one has been able to prove legit they're 10+ in). But besides that, is not only that sex is not all about penetration. Relationships are not all about sex most of the time. You need to convince yourself that different people think different. A bunch of women being size queens doesn't prove all women are, most aren't actually. In fact, most people would rather have a fulfilling healthy relationship over a decent one with lots of sex. Women usually have a very different gaze on things that they see as attractive.

You need to learn to tell life apart from porn.

Xx_SwordWords_xX · 2023-02-07T02:36:35+00:00

there is soo much significance being put on "masculine = big penis"

When? Where? I've literally never heard this correlated. The only thing I've ever heard, is that men with small penises may feel a need to over-compensate in other ways, due to their own insecurity.

it feels that only "the biggest of the big" men can feel secure, in terms of not being left for someone better.

Lolololol.

I am a 44 year old woman, and in all my life and conversations with other women, not ONCE has one told me she was going to trade in her man for a larger penis.

How do you stop your insecurities? You stop believing in brainwash, online propaganda and bullshit, and you get ahold of reality and get into the real world.

Reasonable-Pea-162 · 2023-02-07T02:11:36+00:00

Sounds like you are above average in length, and about average, maybe slightly above in girth. You aren't huge, but you aren't small either. Fine for the majority of women I would think.

Naus1987 · 2023-02-06T23:07:36+00:00

I’m an asexual, so it’s always fascinating to hear stories like this. My size is never an issue. It’s the fact that I don’t enjoy sex ;). So I have to date other asexual people, and life is good.

I think ultimately, size doesn’t matter much in the grand scheme of things. Focus more on the things you’re good at. The things you want to define your relationship.

If you want to worry about something, here’s something to worry about. If you build your relationship up on superficial things like penis size, then you’ve woefully neglected the soul aspect of a relationship, and failing to nurture the emotional part is going to sink any relationship you have.

Can’t build a relationship on sex alone. And if you’re worried the mediocre sex is enough to tank the rest of it, then maybe you should work on the rest of it.

thebombinphantomsyo · 2023-02-06T21:36:39+00:00

Don't sweat it bro. Some people are really into dwarfs.

oneofamike · 2023-02-07T01:50:03+00:00

Not every girl can handle a big one. The size of a vagina varies as well.

WWhiMM · 2023-02-07T05:50:12+00:00

It would be really silly if having a big dick actually solved insecurity. Like, he's balding, bad skin, missing a nose, can exclusively grow a beard on the neck, weird nipples. But all he ever thinks about is his flawless ten inch penis.

Equivalent-Run7156 · 2023-02-07T20:47:18+00:00

You obviously aren’t 7.5 inches if you are insecure, youre probably sub 5 or got a very skinny penis. For the average women you can’t even fit 7.5 inches all the way inside, it literally takes 5-10 minutes to work your way in her so most likely you’re extremely delusional.

Only 1 percent of men have a penis between 7-8 inches so the chances your partner has had or will ever have this penis size, is extremely low. The mass majority of women would never even come across a penis that’s 7.5 inches. The data of penis size is on a bell curve, the extreme majority(like 95%) of men fall between 4.5-6 inches. There isn’t much variation.

So the fact that you are insecure about pleasing your partner tells me your partner must have the widest, biggest, loosest vagina ever, or you’re dick is actually sub 5 or skinny as a pencil, because an average or even a loose women would struggle to fit 7.5 inches in her comfortably without plenty of warming up an stretching.

Title	Size insecurity
Author	icausepain_
Upvotes	0
Comments	43
Date	February 6, 2023 9:26 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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