I'm jealous of other races who date white women

spiraldinosaur · 2023-02-18T15:18:33+00:00

The fact that you're a 24 year old virgin with little family, no friends, and feel invisible has nothing to do with your skin colour. Plenty of caucasian men date caucasian women. You are simply choosing to focus on mixed race couples and somehow making this connection that women prefer other races.

None of your misery is being caused by your skin colour. It is being caused by your lifestyle, and the content you're reading and the way you're thinking is feeding in to that misery.

Speak to a therapist.

HelloSilverTongue · 2023-02-18T13:36:56+00:00

All my life I've heard I'm privileged as no one will judge me for my skin color and yet I'm a 24-year-old virgin with little family, no friends and invisible whenever I go out in public.

They're not judging you for your colour in this case. Our attitude towards life also plays a role. When I had/have seasonal depression, my attitude suffers and I don't have as many opportunities to hang out with friends (I'm pretty sure most of us hibernate anyways haha).

Alternatively, I think you're expecting to be seen by others, have them come to you, give you sex and attention, and service you. This is a human egocentric bias. You're going to be invisible because people have their own lives outside of you. A topic you should research for this is called "mentalization".

anthonyrecenello · 2023-02-18T16:16:16+00:00

You don’t feel the effect of being white because privilege is a luxury.

And your whiteness has been experiencing the luxury of being white since you popped out of the womb.

It’s like growing up in a mansion. Kids in a mansion don’t realize how great their lives are. And they will still whine about toys they don’t have.

Just because you don’t feel the effect, doesn’t mean you don’t benefit from the effect all day long.

Also, pillers love making themselves victims. When they’re a victim then nothing is their fault, and the blame can be placed on everyone else.

It’s fucking pathetic.

I know what you’re doing. This has nothing to do with other races. This is your excuse of the week.

I’ll bet months ago you had another thing to be jealous of. Perhaps taller men? Richer men? Chads? Fitter men?

You just don’t want to go out and meet people. And push yourself to get over your fears, and build your self esteem and social skills. And face rejection.

Because pillers just want to comment on how unfair life is. But the thing is, that’s not some revelation.

I know life is unfair. We all do. You probably are more fortunate than me in many areas, and same for me to you.

But the people who whine and make excuses about life are losers. You will never win with this headspace. People who succeed acknowledge that life isn’t fair, and bust their ass everyday beating those odds.

Pillers like to dehumanize people and just throw them into categories. They don’t like to see that they are just individuals with certain traits.

He’s not just a black person. He’s a person who’s depressed. Or maybe he’s too short. Or maybe he is poor. You’re looking at caricatures the pill has taught you to see.

Everyone is struggling. Even the people you think have it all.

So please stop thinking about what you don’t have, and instead make a vow that this year will be the year you succeed in dating. By any means, you will become successful. Do whatever it takes to beat the odds.

If you can shift your focus from being a victim, to being a winner, you’ll start winning.

baiser_vole · 2023-02-18T18:32:33+00:00

I think RP likes to find every excuse possible for their own failure. One of the possible excuses for them is race.

xvszero · 2023-02-18T15:19:58+00:00

Jealous? Or angry?

There are tons of non-white virgins though. Also you don't have to... and shouldn't... limit your dating to just white girls.

Mean_Mechanic9889 · 2023-02-18T21:08:16+00:00

Can we please stop fetishizing white woman. Why white woman in particular? I'm a white woman and I'm honestly completely sick of this.

Just woman, date woman. Woman are hot from different colours as often as white woman are.

This isn't a go at you, it feels like a common thing. Just be yourself don't be jealous. You don't know that person's life and go have a nice time. Dating or not, the rest will follow

Stargazer1919 · 2023-02-18T15:50:31+00:00

There's a ton of racist and bigoted people out there. You wouldn't want to date them anyway.

Work on finding friends and your mental health. It's a bigger priority.

AssistTemporary8422 · 2023-02-19T05:00:45+00:00

It makes me wonder if it's being another race that's appealing.

Actually white women are the least likely to date out of their race and white men on average get the most attention.

I've never felt the positive effect of being Caucasian regarding dating like blackpillers say I should have

Being white isn't going to help you much if you don't know how to talk to women.

no friends

Bingo! The reason you are having trouble dating is because you have trouble with social skills. Fix that.

and invisible whenever I go out in public

Thats true for the vast majority of men. And honestly I'd hate to have strangers looking at me all the time out and about.

Naus1987 · 2023-02-19T11:33:51+00:00

As a white guy, I’ll tell you that being invisible is an amazing luxury and privilege in a lot of situations.

I have friends who get judged and people make assumptions about them all the time.

A white guy has basically a free pass to be anywhere and do anything. You just don’t get profiled, and it’s a very privileged way of being.

People often forget that being treated neutrally can be a good thing when the alternative is being treated negatively.

DetermineAssurance · 2023-02-18T14:33:47+00:00

Surveys clearly show white women have a strong preference for white men, You are the most desired group of men while asian women are the most desired group of women according to dating apps data.

Data from dating apps also shows that women as a group - all races included - strongly prefer white men. To put things more clearly, even though all races have a preference for their own from the data, non-white women like white men way more than white women like non-white men. Being white gives you the larger pool of options.

vcreativ · 2023-02-20T10:30:02+00:00

The black pill is designed to depress you. They're also deeply neurotic. So maybe don't listen to them. Their grasp on reality just isn't solid. Or clever.

If any of the stuff you heard "all your life" occured on the interwebz. Ignore. Focus on people in the real world. Good people exist. People that have some sort of clue how to live life. Guys on the internet are personas, they hide their lives.

Privilege is only useful to discuss with very strict boundaries. It's also somewhat pointless to discuss at length, everyone still needs to interact with the world as we are, or the best we can.

But by telling you that you're privileged because no one will judge you for your skin colour since you're white, the very same people are doing just that. They assume experience based on your race. The sort of thing they claim to be fighting against. So maybe don't listen to them.

In terms of what you need to do. You're currently trying to put the cart before the horse. You need a job, some hobbies, some friends. Then settle into actual life. The more you do, the more you'll be able to meet people. You're just putting too much pressure on this whole dating thing. There are other areas that are way more urgent for your wellbeing.

Now you could be all RP by saying, see, women judge men on stuff like that. And of course they do. Everyone does. And everyone should. Someone without friends isn't socially vetted and that could be real bad news.

Commercial-Round-964 · 2023-02-18T13:27:00+00:00

Some people do find other races/ethnicities attractive. I'm not white and all my exes are white. There are also people who don't and that's fine that's their preference.

The whole "You're privileged because you're white" is often a cringe talking point from the regressive Left. There are different types of privilege and we all have some type of privilege to varying degrees.

Don't sweat being a virgin at 24. Losing your virginity is not what it's all made out to be.

Lastly, what do you think makes you invisible when you're out in public? You mentioned not having any friends which might be part of the reason you're having trouble finding someone as a lot of people meet their SO through events, mutual friends, social circle, etc.

dvc_v · 2023-02-18T23:28:01+00:00

nah you just get no bitches bro. nothing to do with race. watch Actualized’s “how to get laid”, that might help.

Scorpio_Kiev · 2023-02-19T23:04:06+00:00

You’re white and never got laid? Smh

Title	I'm jealous of other races who date white women
Author	Pomeranian111
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Date	February 18, 2023 1:10 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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