Relevant stats:

Age: 30

5’9”

150lbs

Income: 100K (not a lot for nyc)

Number of hookups: ~50, but losing count. And yes been tested, all good.

College level: Completed Grad school

Relationships since I was 18: 4, all lasted over a year, longest was 3.5.

I literally look like Keith from the try guys, but with brown hair. I’m a massive nerd, like shit like programming, my hobbies are painting and movies and anime.

I’m skinny, I run but don’t go to the gym.

Pic of Keith for reference. We look almost identical, I have brown hair. Pic: https://imgur.com/a/tcMoeGq

I am by all means no where close to a 10, especially in NYC. HOWEVER I’m a 10 in many women’s eyes.

Dating wether you like it or not is a numbers game. I never meet women IRL, I’m too shy and introverted. However I can slay an online dating profile, and I’m good at talking 1 on 1.

Literally the ONLY fucking thing that matters is numbers. I use any dating app boost feature. I get a shit ton of matches. Have had so many dates. So many hookups.

People on here are miserable because they live in like east bumbkefuck and are angry they can’t get a date, it’s not easy cuz you have no numbers.

I’m pretty funny, but I’m a dork. And I’m only 5’9” which can be a hard sell in NYC.

I’ve dated women who are making 3X my salary, hooked up with rich women, gone out with extremely intelligent women.

Most of the people I’m around have graduate or past graduate degrees like myself.

But again, like a lot of you men. I’m a fucking introverted nerd. I keep telling people numbers numbers numbers. That’s all it is.

Also I’ve seen how women treat “non manly” men like myself in rural areas. Another huge problem, I’d much rather date hot powerful women anyway, rather than like women who have nothing Going on.

I think it’s important to let people know this. I feel average but I’ve dated and had sex sit with absolute like 10/10’s, not all. But like many fit, beautiful women, not fat.

Also I’m recently single and I find now that I’m 30 I have even more choice from women 26-30. It’s even easier.