What is your way of spotting a girl with a promiscuous past?

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-03-12T05:10:59+00:00

No internal questions

12throw1234away34 · 2023-03-12T02:31:19+00:00

I’ve never explicitly looked for signs of this tbh. I just get to know the woman and get context clues from how she carries herself.

If she has an IG full of thirst traps I’d be wary though. Screams of narcissism and an ego and self worth that are built on online attention from men. I fear those women will grow up to have shallow personalities and fragile egos that will wither away as she ages and loses her looks.

NockerJoe · 2023-03-12T02:53:02+00:00

Most of the time they'll tell you. Provided you don't come off as judgemental and are actually talking regularly it isn't being hidden to begin with.

MyLastBestChance · 2023-03-12T02:19:35+00:00

If you want to avoid women like this, the very best way is to ask them for a detailed description of their sexual past and tell them exactly why you feel that it’s important. Tell them how filthy and disgusting you find women like that and how little respect you think that they deserve. Explain that you feel that while dirty whores are ok to pump and dump, you deserve a “pure” woman not a dirty whore as a girl friend or wife.

I guarantee that women will self select and save you the trouble of trying to figure out whether they share your feelings about women and sex.

wtknight · 2023-03-12T02:40:37+00:00

I usually asked about her attitude towards casual sex. A positive or non-chalant attitude towards it usually means that she has had plenty of casual sex in the past. If she explicitly states that she doesn't like casual sex but doesn't mind if other women do it, then it means she probably never had a promiscuous past. If she says that she hates casual sex, then it definitely means that she has never had it, unless she's really purposely trying to deceive a guy who she knows hates it. However, the trick as a guy asking is to seem like one doesn't mind the idea of casual sex.

Women are usually honest about their attitudes towards casual sex even if they might not be honest about what their actual N count is.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-03-12T02:27:27+00:00

Frequent girls night out at the club, exhibiting signs of mental instability, responds favorably to being sexually forward early on, dressing like she's for the streets

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MUTUALDESTRUCTION69 · 2023-03-12T02:26:52+00:00

I typically request a sexual resume complete with penis size, race, sports team and what position they played on said team.

Naw jk….but honestly just ask. But be warned, some things aren’t worth learning.

These situations are kind of about you. You can’t expect a virgin who gives the perfect blow job but if she’s rarely has sex with you but is really good at it that’s kind of a red flag imo.

Also if she’s conventionally hot and didn’t have a few bfs prior it probably wasn’t because she was “really dedicated to her major”. The average woman statistically has more sexual partners than the average man and it’s usually not 1-2 more, more like 4-8 more.

A final note-promiscuity could be two different things-is she fucking a lot of dudes once or a couple dudes a lot? You decide which one makes you queasier because one of those lines has likely been crossed.

Embarrassed-Tune9038 · 2023-03-12T03:18:16+00:00

Nope, not clueing women in red flags in women for them to cover up.

AntiHypergamist · 2023-03-12T04:43:18+00:00

If she calls most men ugly and swipes on thousands of guys, she is chad widowed

Dagenius1 · 2023-03-12T04:47:41+00:00

If you really want to know, you have to set up the scenario. Prepare a night out and come with some of your own embarrassing stories or stuff that you aren’t proud of. Focus on being very non judgemental and mix with a little alcohol..she will reveal a lot

PuzzleheadedEnd476 · 2023-03-12T02:21:55+00:00

When she talks about doing lots of expensive things but does not have the income to pay for it. If she goes to clubs regularly. Lots of male name contacts or texts convos with unsaved numbers.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-03-12T02:43:37+00:00

Why not just communicate like an adult?

No-Rough-7390 · 2023-03-12T03:07:28+00:00

I know this likely isn’t a serious post, but there are some tell tale signs:

304 friends, heavy drinker, anxiety and mental instability, incessant need for social media validation, was “single” for an extensive period of time, was finding themselves, avoids bringing you around their friends.

Could add more

Lucr3tius · 2023-03-12T05:07:57+00:00

Ask her what her body count is.

The number doesn't matter.

Her emotional reaction to the directness of the question will tell you everything.

But actually, if you feel the need to ask the question its already over.

CombinationUsed7938 · 2023-03-12T02:21:58+00:00

Personality, behaviour, way of dressing, posture and social media are the first signs.

With time, you both talk, you hang out with her and her friends together and people talk.

There's no way of that going unnoticed.

Aggressive_Grand_897 · 2023-03-12T02:37:42+00:00

Bruh just ask her what her body count is. If she says a low number and you think she’s lying see how good at sex she is. If she’s a freak and does everything like a porn star you can beat she was getting nasty with other dudes. If she has a lot of dudes added on Snapchat she’s probably promiscuous. Or you can just ask her girl friends and they will tell you everything. It’s pretty easy to tell bruh. Just ask don’t be scared

Oh also if she is too obsessed with posting sexy pics on IG and she doesn’t want to post you on her IG , it means she likes male attention

Strict-Mistake-3114 · 2023-03-12T03:39:10+00:00

There is no way to tell. Roll the dice and hope for the best is all you can do.

Rancho-unicorno · 2023-03-12T04:43:29+00:00

If she has lots of tattoos, you know she makes bad decisions. Or you could always ask her.

Title	What is your way of spotting a girl with a promiscuous past?
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Date	March 12, 2023 1:49 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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