Struggling men: Would you date a much older woman who adored you?

AreOut · 2021-02-08T11:13:48+00:00

"Now in both cases the couple met in a shared social circle and the woman pursued the man."

you don't say lol

Starter91 · 2021-02-08T13:54:12+00:00

Matt_Door · 2021-02-08T12:38:06+00:00

I would for the right woman, and maybe not 20 years older, but 10 is not that big a deal.

Bandit174 · 2021-02-08T13:34:16+00:00

Probably not, especially under those specifics (fat divorcee with kids).

2021-02-08T14:05:54+00:00

Depends on how much older and if I could be attracted to her. My older brother just married an older woman that hes been on and off with for years, but I don't see how he could be physically attracted to her because she looks like a grandmother and hes only 35.

She would need to be quite the lady because I have a lot of love and smol peen to give.

boomershack · 2021-02-08T14:14:47+00:00

Sixty Five!?

2021-02-08T15:18:30+00:00

Not a chance lol

Feminsmkildredtt · 2021-02-08T13:20:45+00:00

I have dated older women. They are all alpha widows. So are the younger ones.

Ok_Rabbit_8207 · 2021-02-08T13:51:16+00:00

Nah. I don't mess with large age gaps like that. Kinda predatory imo.

2021-02-08T15:15:08+00:00

"Struggling men" - i.e. all men, at one time or another in our lives.

I'd date her, but she would have to be good looking and above average for her age cohort. I definitely would not marry her.

catsuramen · 2021-02-08T11:00:15+00:00

Both attractive and unattractive men, successful and unsuccessful men, can find older women darling.

Who wouldn't wants to be loved and adored?

passepar2t · 2021-02-08T10:57:06+00:00

This thread makes me sad.

Sir_manalot · 2021-02-08T11:16:38+00:00

Date: yes

I think 40~ is my limit but it heavily depends how young she looks.

LTR: no

Anyways, most women don't want a dude much younger than themselves.

(Am 25 btw)

Jakeybaby125 · 2021-02-08T12:08:57+00:00

I wouldn't say no but I'd prefer close to my own age or younger. In the future that is, don't want to be accused of paedophilia

My_G_Zaha · 2021-02-08T10:59:06+00:00

I wouldn’t date anyone not near my age

OldSimpsonsisbetter · 2021-02-08T12:43:37+00:00

I would.

I did an experiment where I used my own photos on online dating and messaged older women. They all told me "sorry you're too young" or words to that effect.

Then when I used photos of a hot male model who was exactly the same age and I messaged exactly the same age of women, they told me I was "gorgeous" "sexy" "beautiful" and they wanted to meet me.

Women are all the same, no matter what age! They want an attractive sexy looking man regardless how old he is!

BlindingTwilight · 2021-02-08T10:55:41+00:00

Hell naw! But some dudes love older women.

2021-02-08T12:19:53+00:00

The fat guy, who is 45, is married to a 65 year old woman (have been together since they were 25 and 45 respectively)

Are we talking like 700 pounds?

Barely-moral · 2021-02-08T17:07:14+00:00

All women want my best. In order for me to bring my best I need to do a lot of things I hate doing. For that reason I want my partner's best in return. A woman's best includes her youth.

So I wouldn't date an older woman unless she doesn't expect my best. If I find that woman... She is a dude.

SchemingInBathrobes · 2021-02-08T11:21:41+00:00

I use to date older women all the time now I date a young women and if I had to pick now I would say with out a doubt I choose younger.

blueshirt_8005 · 2021-02-08T12:37:10+00:00

The second one has no unfixable problems. He can hit the gym, get a job, shave off the patchy beard and improve his hygiene.

alialahmad1997 · 2021-02-08T16:15:50+00:00

Depending on my age when i want a kidd i want the my wife to be 34 or less i would not date someone older right now (iam 23) cause i am a last yearr med student and don't work i want to be the perfect guy in my women eye so i want too ve more financially secure than her so this might be against dating someone older But again i would not consider myself desperate by any mean but i don't consider age in itself important besides being healthy for children

mydikishomofobik · 2021-02-08T17:27:12+00:00

I'm not attracted to older women and I'm content alone. Having a much older gf/wife sounds like a lot of work and relationship bullshit with little reward. I'd rather jack off to porn or travel and 3rd world countries to fuck cheap hookers. But maybe some men have a thing for elderly women and/or are desperate for a romantic relationship or any kind of sex.

roman99789 · 2021-02-08T12:02:11+00:00

If my dating pool was only UFOs I would cut my balls off and be done with it. Technically MGTOW.

conker29 · 2021-02-08T14:23:15+00:00

For context for the answers i am 40yrs .

Hypothetically yes , upto maybe early 50s but she would need to be good for her age and slim . Conversely ,I would date an bbw if she was in her twenties

2021-02-08T17:37:31+00:00

Only if the older woman was a plastic surgery addict and looked like a bimbo and 20 years younger. Otherwise whats the point ?

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HcetIsTechBackwards · 2021-02-08T13:29:13+00:00

Yes, I'd date a woman older than me. 28 yo virgin, upper end of my dating range is like 45, but I get no bites in any age group.

Shelf_Company · 2021-02-08T15:26:49+00:00

Are you the 35 y/o of my dreams?

bowserfire73 · 2021-02-08T16:47:03+00:00

If she doesn't have kids I would. If she did have kids I would consider it but probably wouldn't date her unless she was really special.

Kind of a silly question though, guys who struggle with dating typically aren't the ones who have this option.

Oh and I'll add that if she's 40+ she better be fine with adoption

One final edit: I keep thinking about this and I'd probably cap it at 10-12 years older than me. After thinking more about it I realized that if we had an ltr they would likely pass away years before me and that would be pretty awful.

Title	Struggling men: Would you date a much older woman who adored you?
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Date	February 8, 2021 10:51 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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