Good hygiene, feeding yourself, working for a living and not being a sociopath is exhausting for some.

hambonejamboree_ · 2020-08-14T13:47:30+00:00

Oh no, you have to be a human being. That is tough.

therenousername · 2020-08-14T13:01:44+00:00

Oh god not femaledatingstrategy. Bunch of crazies

Jaxbird19 · 2020-08-14T12:59:27+00:00

I’m sorry but who actually expects women to do all the house work anymore

Levosire · 2020-08-14T14:05:31+00:00

Im surprised that sub isnt banned yet and the incel sub was. they are literally a femcel sub

HelloMumther · 2020-08-14T13:53:49+00:00

fds complains about this but then expect their boyfriends and dates to pay for everything

asdf333aza · 2020-08-14T14:03:26+00:00

I'm sorry is that what makes life hard for women? Or is that what makes life hard for an ADULT??

Cooking? Cleaning? Smelling good? Not be obese? Looking presentable? Having a job? Keeping your emotions under control? Not complaining about everything?

Most of what she complained about is just being an adult in society.

insert feminist tears "boo hoo, I have to work for a living and I have to feed myself and I have to bathe. And society wants me to not be obese. Whaaa whaaa"

Indigostorm27 · 2020-08-14T14:36:08+00:00

That whole sub reddit is beyond help.

mikesteane · 2020-08-14T13:02:37+00:00

Yes, well you did demand equality. Maybe you'll be more careful what you wish for.

dingoperson2 · 2020-08-14T14:17:05+00:00

Most Women would despise and avoid a single man who doesn't cook

Most Women would despise and avoid a single man who doesn't clean

Most Women would despise and avoid a single man who doesn't look good

Most Women would despise and avoid a single man who doesn't snap back

Most Women would despise and avoid a single man who doesn't hold a job

Most Women would find boring a man who isn't a freak

Most Women would despise and avoid a single man who isn't happy

Most Women would despise and avoid a single man who expresses his concerns constantly

DAMN LIFE IS SO HARD FOR WOMEN

2020-08-14T14:32:08+00:00

An adult relationship requires 2 adults.

Otherwise, someone’s a “replacement” only.

2020-08-14T13:57:23+00:00

Being a functioning and responsible adult is hard

Flo453 · 2020-08-14T15:37:27+00:00

No way, clean the house AND cook? How come no true gentleman just lets her live at his house for free does all the house work and gives her money? Smh.

2020-08-14T15:39:31+00:00

I don’t expect any of those things. Women can do whatever they want. It makes no difference to me. Where’s she getting this from?

deluxe_anxiety · 2020-08-14T14:01:32+00:00

I’ve never once expected a woman to cook

komodoPT · 2020-08-14T14:18:57+00:00

Damnn!

I had no idea that shit existed, it's really a bunch of lunatics!
And how the hell is that sub running while /r/TheRedPill got banned of closed for some time?!

2020-08-14T14:20:38+00:00

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user_miki · 2020-08-14T14:15:43+00:00

Modern women do all these things now?Where i sign up?

Ah so they are tired of expectations not like they are exhausted from doing the things they've just enumerated.They are tired of the mental gymnastics. Enumerating so many things is exhausting I agree.

rebelprincess47 · 2020-08-14T14:03:50+00:00

Shes talking about sexism in current society. Normal people dont believe women have to be anything other than a nice person

clarinetpanda · 2020-08-14T14:27:22+00:00

Not to be sexist, but it's generally the man who is the breadwinner and the girl who is the gold digger. Not sexism, just statistics. You want that to change, then tell your friends to not be gold diggers

baga_chips · 2020-08-14T14:32:44+00:00

Gosh I have to be clean and nice and chip in to help raise my family WTF I HATE MEN

Firefuego12 · 2020-08-14T13:54:15+00:00

reads the title of the original post

...common ground?

Lethn · 2020-08-14T14:07:53+00:00

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thetruemask · 2020-08-14T14:05:00+00:00

This is non sense, whining about having to feed yourself have hygiene and earn a living like everyone else.

And the crap about emotionally available what? So because you have live like a human being it's also to much to act like a human being. Nutcases who support this crap in the comments to.

Half of those "struggles" are personal choice whys she whining? "Have a baby, snap back, be a freak"

Having kids is your choice (and only women's choice at that) don't whine about it. Be a freak?? Also your choice. Don't expect to keep any kind of partner and be dead as a doornail.

What makes her "struggles" so unique?

Everyone lives like this. Just lazy and whining about life.

insatiable319 · 2020-08-14T12:57:25+00:00

Go be a man and shut it!

2020-08-14T14:48:03+00:00

Jesus Christ...the entitlement.

Could be worse though. They could have to contend with the expectations placed on men...

2020-08-14T14:53:20+00:00

Perhaps you should find someone that matches your level of getting things done.

Ronin100 · 2020-08-14T15:05:05+00:00

Just bend and snap!

2020-08-14T15:07:22+00:00

I do expect a woman to be able to hold a fucking job for at least a part of her life.

fulgurdeus · 2020-08-14T15:09:02+00:00

Okay yall, i get it femaledatingstrategy are a bunch of crazies. This is the kind of content you expect to have in a sub which's rule says "mutual benefit should be a byproduct, not the goal". Complaining that they make no sense is the equivalent of complaining that your oil isn't mixing in your water. Having said that. Fuck those people, living in society is hard for everyone not just women. Only kids who havent grown up do not understand that life has a bunch of hard work and suffering involved

zaner500 · 2020-08-14T15:10:44+00:00

The only thing on there men don't have to do is make babies. And in fact women are encouraged to express themselves. While the same cannot be said for men.

Quizzmo · 2020-08-14T15:11:45+00:00

Yeah... women are expected to hold a job... right...

PacoBedejo · 2020-08-14T15:17:10+00:00

She sounds exhausting. Shit has to get done. Work with your partner to share the load.

UndulatingSky · 2020-08-14T15:35:21+00:00

everyone is expected to cook, clean, look good, smell good, and hold a job. NOBODY is expecting you to make babies, "snap back", be happy, be constantly emotionally available, and let go of your dreams. And the only thing here exclusive to women is making babies. These people really are brainless

Blunt_Sage · 2020-08-14T16:19:12+00:00

being a women is so fucking exhausting.

being an adult* is so fucking exhausting.

ftfy

insatiable319 · 2020-08-14T16:22:46+00:00

It's amazing how many women follow this list of rules and regulations that this naive woman presents.

I don't know of even one woman that follows all of these, including my own mother.

BBQ_ur_booty · 2020-08-14T16:29:04+00:00

Sounds like she doesn’t like equality

FuriousFox250 · 2020-08-14T16:32:39+00:00

If it’s on that subreddit, of course it’s bad. What a circus it is.

Parrtymonster · 2020-08-14T16:35:22+00:00

Those viscous harpies really just want to tear men down. That sub fucking sucks

2020-08-14T16:44:18+00:00

Isn’t funny how it’s “a Emotional labor” when a guy opens up about his feelings but when he doesn’t cry or open up, she’ll sit there like “OMG TOXIC MASCULINITY!”

2020-08-14T17:19:42+00:00

Reading that subreddit made me depressed. They view relationships as a video game. Like on the red flags one one of them was if a guy doesn't talk to his family he's probably hard to be around. What if my family is full of abusive people that don't treat me well?

IANVS · 2020-08-14T17:34:03+00:00

Existing is exhausting.

2020-08-14T17:37:13+00:00

It’s like they forget everything men are expected to do

2020-08-14T19:06:07+00:00

She is almost close to understanding what it's like to be a man....

ZandorFelok · 2020-08-14T14:47:58+00:00

Other than babies that's called being an adult, welcome to taking responsibility for your own life, decisions and future

Code-V · 2020-08-14T15:52:23+00:00

I thought being forced to go to war when the time comes was hard.

yeeyeememeboi69 · 2020-08-14T15:52:52+00:00

Got banned from that sub reddit and r/Feminism

Deadgravegames · 2020-08-14T15:48:27+00:00

Being a man is exhausting, your expected to have a decent pay, pay for meals, hold in emotions, be tall, work dangerous jobs and do house improvements, all while my wife complains the moment I sit down and relax because I "don't do anything"

princelydeeds · 2020-08-14T15:11:40+00:00

My thoughts: housework isn't necessarily male or female. My father is a great cleaner and enjoys doing it. I don't enjoy that shit at all and I'm not doing it.

Two dirty people can't live together, so whoever I live with has to be a cleaner. I told my S/O that shit yeeeeeeeeears ago. If she was going to not be a cleaner, we weren't going to be able to work out together. If you don't like it, fuck it...

mamalakiss · 2020-08-14T15:56:28+00:00

This subs content has deteriorated

mrstickman · 2020-08-14T15:22:11+00:00

r/2meirl4meirl/ if it were a smidge less sexist, really.

throwawayaccccc13844 · 2020-08-14T15:46:21+00:00

Wtf is snap back lmao

reddit_detective_ · 2020-08-14T15:57:03+00:00

Women only do half of that like what

McFeely_Smackup · 2020-08-14T15:57:58+00:00

It's always interesting when people's complaints about how unfair and hard their lives are, basically come down to "being an adult"

eldredge_ape · 2020-08-14T15:58:18+00:00

Ironically, most if not all of those things are just some of what women expect from men. But oh please, won’t someone for once in his selfish life think of the women!

auMatech · 2020-08-14T15:58:46+00:00

Same can be said about men, just swap make babies with make tons of money

MoneyBadgerEx · 2020-08-14T16:13:12+00:00

I was under the impression that it was exhausting for everyone. I'm certainly in the same bucket as this bitch rather than all y'all bitchin' about her.

2020-08-14T16:32:31+00:00

Why do women think they HAVE to make themselves look good by putting on lots of makeup. I have never heard of anyone expecting someone to make up, yet some people still complain about it.

Also, if your boyfriend's a gold digger, break up. If he makes you cook, cook for yourself. Not all of us are dicks

undergroundk3bab · 2020-08-14T16:51:35+00:00

What do girls in FDS even want

FakeLaundry · 2020-08-14T17:02:06+00:00

This one isn't that fair. She said more than basics. Being a woman or man is difficult if one puts genuine stock into what the media and idiots around us tell us to be.

BurningOrangeHeaven · 2020-08-14T17:08:47+00:00

The "Dream" she is talking about is actually just to marry a guy that pays for everything and does everything she wants while she does nothing.

Literally had an old coworker who said her dream was exactly that, at least she was honest.

tdabc123 · 2020-08-14T17:09:35+00:00

Why can’t I post there? Have they pre-banned me?

2020-08-14T17:13:29+00:00

The standards you impose upon yourself are indicative of the people you choose to surround yourself with.

Granted, sometimes you can’t choose your environment as much (school, work, family) but relationships you usually can.

Arise212 · 2020-08-14T17:17:13+00:00

I've never demanded or nagged at any of my ex girlfriends to do any of those things when we were together. Actually it's always ME that is expected to cater to every thing they wanted. Usually being a human cash dispenser for them since they expect the man to pay for everything and buy them whatever they want. When it's not money it's driving them around whenever they want to go somewhere because they don't want to drive. Still no matter what i do, it's never enough. I'm just a male servant, catering to their every desire and getting nothing in return, ok yeah i get sex, yeah that's nice but at the end of the day it's not worth all the other bullshit.

algoritm420 · 2020-08-14T17:18:31+00:00

Is FDS how girls see us?

mrkeifer86 · 2020-08-14T17:18:42+00:00

Have they tried dieing mad about it?

2020-08-14T17:40:55+00:00

Being a man is so fucking exhausted, you’re expected to work multiple jobs to make sure your family is supported, you’re expected to go to war in the event of a world war, you’re expected to be emotionless and get no support, you’re expected to hold a job, you’re expected to smell good and look good even though the majority of these jobs are manual labor that women never work, you’re expected to high a higher suicide rate, you’re expected to be happy while your money gets spent on your wife and kids, you’re expected to let go of your goals and dreams because of potential financial hardship and work a job that’s stable for your wife. Yeah having babies and caring for them which is what 75% of women want after child birth is definitely the harder job. Shudafuckup

JumpinJesusOnAPogo69 · 2020-08-14T17:45:57+00:00

55K likes? Wtf.

theDmc231 · 2020-08-14T17:59:26+00:00

Must be a lesbian bc I've never heard of a dude with a girlfriend that is a moocher

2020-08-14T18:05:57+00:00

You know we are privileged when she complains about normal human stuff, like showering, cooking, having a job. Ya know, the things people have been doing for centuries

Armatu5 · 2020-08-14T18:15:31+00:00

God, FDS is such a feministic echo chamber. And you see most of their posts don’t have more than 1k upvotes because most people see them for the crazies they are.

Heterodynist · 2020-08-14T18:18:14+00:00

Wow, yeah, it must be hard being a woman...having to take care of yourself like an independent adult while also demanding your equality. Gee, it seems so unfair you can’t insist on someone taking care of you and subsidizing your expenses so you can have more time to be infantile and lazy. -Sorry girls, if you want to be treated equally then you have to actually stand on your own two feet and be adults...”Man up!” Ha!

Dependent_Cricket · 2020-08-14T18:33:55+00:00

Holy shit I had no idea that sub even existed! Is toxic femininity a thing?! Geez...

ksaunders666 · 2020-08-14T19:22:27+00:00

Holy shit the comment section on the OP. How much you wanna bet that sub will never be quarantined?

2020-08-15T00:34:25+00:00

My question is why was that posted on a supposed dating subreddit?

like, what?

acbdxb · 2020-08-14T16:55:56+00:00

They probably smell bad that is why it’s exhausting

2020-08-14T16:33:49+00:00

You do not know the hardship and level of endurance a Black woman has to face in society on top of often being the corner stone in the family unit in a racist society that often marginilzes Black men and women and has specifically targetted black men to try and degrade their rightful positions in society for white male supremacy to thrive. The Black woman is more accepted in this society than the Black man and hence a lot of pressure is on her. If you want to talk about some women comlaining, talk about your own Beckys and Karens and leave Black women out of it. But if you want to make her the cover of this discussion, then talk about all she had to endure including the constant rapings bywhite men with no redress, being raped to become pregnant at the same time as her white mistress to be forced to nurse white slave master mistresses' babies while hers starved, suffering the pain of often having her children torn from her arms and sold off never to be seen again, taunted for her looks on top of facing all the other racist ish and micro and macro aggressions society has thrown at her. So if you want to label women in general as cry babies for what they have to endure, leave Black women the hell out of the discussion. I am a 100% Real Black Man.

whiplashMYQ · 2020-08-14T14:37:14+00:00

This is an anti-women post, not a men's issues post

Xxteve · 2020-08-14T14:19:49+00:00

What does this have to do with men’s rights?

Tweapodok33 · 2020-08-14T15:30:18+00:00

Why the fuck did reddit throw me into this Incellhole

gumpton · 2020-08-14T15:23:31+00:00

Cool, more “women bad” content. How does this relate in any way to mens rights?

Good hygiene, feeding yourself, working for a living and not being a sociopath is exhausting for some.

Crosspost "Yeah, I'm going to pass on all that and just be myself fr." from /r/FemaleDatingStrategy:

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Title	Good hygiene, feeding yourself, working for a living and not being a sociopath is exhausting for some.
Author	benderXX
Upvotes	1468
Comments	192
Date	August 14, 2020 12:20 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/i9kx9l/good_hygiene_feeding_yourself_working_for_a/
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